View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
GlamLifter
04-01-2021, 09:39 AM
I'm just a little pissed at myself right now for saying yes to work with competition tanning on Friday. I'm coaching two clients and I'm going on stage myself as well this weekend. (I sent them an email earlier before business picked up because I was thinking I might needed the extra $. I won't bail out now).
Which division?
You seem to be so multi talented!
carmen_b
04-01-2021, 09:49 AM
Indie : You don't need a damn thing. omg !
indiegirl
04-01-2021, 09:57 AM
OMG, you look beautiful, WTF are you talking about!!!
WAIT til you get old like me, lol:O
I feel like I've been trying to freeze time. My dad has droopy jaws and I'm scared I'll be next. Lol. I dunno I'm very nit-picky with change in my face. Maybe it's the weight gain from staying indoors for this whole year?
whirlerz
04-01-2021, 10:09 AM
Indie : You don't need a damn thing. omg !
Thank you! ^
How about Ultherapy, (Dr's office)?
Look on http://newbeauty. com
It's a quarterly magazine on anti aging.
indiegirl
04-01-2021, 10:17 AM
Thank you! ^
How about Ultherapy, (Dr's office)?
Look on http://newbeauty. com
It's a quarterly magazine on anti aging.
I bought one of those skin tightening machines and used the Titan skin tightening machine in the past at a doctors office but upon arrival directions says no botox/fillers within 3 months https://www.amazon.com/MLAY-Frequency-Lifting-Tightening-Anti-wrinkle/dp/B01IBSX35Q which really annoyed me because you go every 3-ish months for botox. I'll look into other options in the link. Thanks ladies :).
kimbe
04-01-2021, 10:25 AM
Which division?
You seem to be so multi talented!
Open Figure.
kimbe
04-01-2021, 10:27 AM
because I need jaw botox again for narrowing of the jaw
No girl, you don't "need that" :)
However, I do respect it's your decision 100%.
indiegirl
04-01-2021, 12:02 PM
i've had a complete drop in requests on the new site since saying I don't provide on the cheap site anymore (only announced I'm taking a break). One customer contacted me on the new site/new number I saw from there and asking why he can't see me at the old rates. He responded "Yes you can"....NO I fucking can't. Tired of the BS I have to deal with for the price of the room in a strip club. I don't understand how cheap men think this is ok. One girl was charging 700 bucks for a BJ in the club not including the room. But I deserve dumpster service prices? NOOOOO. I'm sorry I'm venting here. I was considered the top of the tier in the club according to appearance (by a manager) and I'm stooping for what now? Just so done with men acting like animals.
Aurora_Sunset
04-01-2021, 12:08 PM
I think I didn't get the flex shift I wanted at work. I see no reason why though, since it's back up in the queue for shift bids this month.
whirlerz
04-01-2021, 12:33 PM
i've had a complete drop in requests on the new site since saying I don't provide on the cheap site anymore (only announced I'm taking a break). One customer contacted me on the new site/new number I saw from there and asking why he can't see me at the old rates. He responded "Yes you can"....NO I fucking can't. Tired of the BS I have to deal with for the price of the room in a strip club. I don't understand how cheap men think this is ok. One girl was charging 700 bucks for a BJ in the club not including the room. But I deserve dumpster service prices? NOOOOO. I'm sorry I'm venting here. I was considered the top of the tier in the club according to appearance (by a manager) and I'm stooping for what now? Just so done with men acting like animals.
Don't be sorry, vent away!
Yea, theshite I hear on cam, but yours is worse!
indiegirl
04-01-2021, 12:47 PM
Don't be sorry, vent away!
Yea, theshite I hear on cam, but yours is worse!
I'm sorry for venting. I lose it sometimes and wonder what I've done to deserve it.
whirlerz
04-01-2021, 04:18 PM
Cripes, I hate those loud, booming car sound systems, 2 roomies have them, they sit there in the lot, & run them in their cars
xxxGothBarbie
04-01-2021, 05:05 PM
I'm beyond disgusted to hear from my grandma that my half sister(17 yrd old brat Im not close to) is getting ALL my dad's music collection , his old dj equipment etc when he passes. Umm hello?! Im his kid too assholes! Ugh
I feel beyond betrayed & left out like I dont mean anything to that family anymore. It's bad enough with my moms side but for his side to treat me like that? Its gotten me really emotional & angry all dam day ;)
To top it off though , she doesnt even like or really k ow 80s music so why does she get it all???! Also , the little bitch stated how she was ashamed that he was on disability bc of his accident years ago. I hate that spoiled bitch!
moneybags
04-01-2021, 06:35 PM
You know ladies, PLEASE be careful!
Catcalling can easily turn into something much worse, it almost did for me..
There was a case in my city, a woman was followed into a parking garage (highly dangerous places!) catcalled, raped, & murdered in her own car at night.
In my case, it was in broad daylight in a busy area.. & I just so happened to not have my phone!
Luckily, I was able to evade the POS.
Not addressing this post to anyone in particular, as women we are very vulnerable!
Thank you, God Bless, please be safe!
Thanks for the share. I had an incident last week with a male “friend” and I was so hurt by how invalidating he was. I wasn’t going to share cause I don’t want dominate the forum and be annoying, but this has really been bothering me.
My annoyance is I had some guy be super invalidating. Guys don’t understand how scary it is to be a girl. We constantly have to deal with harassment. Yeah it’s not “just” cat calling, but it’s not knowing how guys will respond if you reject their advances or it will escalate. I’m still a bit hurt by my male friend dismissing my lived experience. He was like, “well women can be just as bad.” He has a valid point that I may have been stereotyping, but women are disproportionately victims of gendered violence-that’s a fact. One of the traumas of being a women is not being believed. I haven’t cut him off, but I’ll only be superficial after he said that to me. I think his response was more about him than it was about what me. I just couldn’t believe how he acted like he was pro-woman, but was so triggered by me just talking about my lived experience with men. Don’t ask, if you don’t want to know. He was the one asking all these personal questions about why I don’t date.
“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.”
Margaret Atwood
Jucie
04-02-2021, 12:12 AM
I'm just a little pissed at myself right now for saying yes to work with competition tanning on Friday. I'm coaching two clients and I'm going on stage myself as well this weekend. (I sent them an email earlier before business picked up because of the easy $. I won't bail out now).
Just out of curiosity how is the tanning process done? I’ve never been to such a competition, is it done on site? For some of my work, I’ve thought it would have been nice to have the dark tan like bodybuilders have on stage. Don’t think ordinary spray tans really gets you that dark.
indiegirl
04-02-2021, 12:27 AM
Why the fuck does R need a new thread for each of his 'movie reviews'? It's mainly him talking amongst himself anyway so surely one would suffice...
I actually laughed outloud because I thought I was the only one thinking it.
whirlerz
04-02-2021, 01:20 AM
Thanks for the share. I had an incident last week with a male “friend” and I was so hurt by how invalidating he was. I wasn’t going to share cause I don’t want dominate the forum and be annoying, but this has really been bothering me.
My annoyance is I had some guy be super invalidating. Guys don’t understand how scary it is to be a girl. We constantly have to deal with harassment. Yeah it’s not “just” cat calling, but it’s not knowing how guys will respond if you reject their advances or it will escalate. I’m still a bit hurt by my male friend dismissing my lived experience. He was like, “well women can be just as bad.” He has a valid point that I may have been stereotyping, but women are disproportionately victims of gendered violence-that’s a fact. One of the traumas of being a women is not being believed. I haven’t cut him off, but I’ll only be superficial after he said that to me. I think his response was more about him than it was about what me. I just couldn’t believe how he acted like he was pro-woman, but was so triggered by me just talking about my lived experience with men. Don’t ask, if you don’t want to know. He was the one asking all these personal questions about why I don’t date.
“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.”
Margaret Atwood
^
Guys can't get over why we don't date, cause they're so about their dicks they can't fathom just being alone!
My one roomie asked me about dating too, ugh.
None of their fucking business!.
They don't listen anyway.
@GothBarbie:
Sorry to hear about your Dad.
I got ripped off big time when my Dad passed away.
whirlerz
04-02-2021, 03:45 PM
So, no damn SM check yet, it was mailed on 3/31? So late.
I've sometimes gotten it on a Mon, not a huge one either..
Maybe tomorrow.
Then, this guy upstairs asked me if I put some stupid mop of theirs outside ("in the cold")::)
FOH.
Actually, I did tho. Oh well.
Aurora_Sunset
04-03-2021, 06:11 PM
I'm annoyed that at the last minute this weekend, bio-mom asked to have the kids home early tomorrow so they could do their own Easter thing as well. I wouldn't mind it, but... Easter is on our weekend this year. We bought stuff. We have plans. It's not fair for us to wake the kids up early and rush through our thing so they can "hurry up" and go do Easter at their mom's as well. If she really wanted the holiday, I wish she would've said something weeks ago and just asked for them to come back tonight at bedtime and taken over the whole holiday.
Not only that, but I scheduled the last flight out tomorrow night to go visit my family specifically because I assumed we would be spending the day with the kids. I didn't choose the flight that would get me in at frickin' midnight so that the kids could just bounce at 10am...
miss.a.p1600
04-04-2021, 06:07 AM
I'm beyond disgusted to hear from my grandma that my half sister(17 yrd old brat Im not close to) is getting ALL my dad's music collection , his old dj equipment etc when he passes. Umm hello?! Im his kid too assholes! Ugh
I feel beyond betrayed & left out like I dont mean anything to that family anymore. It's bad enough with my moms side but for his side to treat me like that? Its gotten me really emotional & angry all dam day ;)
To top it off though , she doesnt even like or really k ow 80s music so why does she get it all???! Also , the little bitch stated how she was ashamed that he was on disability bc of his accident years ago. I hate that spoiled bitch!
that’s the sucky thing about wills n inherence
the owner of said possessions can cut out or change beneficiaries on a whim. Plus it feel like boot licking n slavery when your beholden to someone for an inheritance they may or may not give to you.
ugh!!! Humans and their pissy moods that change with the wind.
lurkingtitties
04-04-2021, 06:31 AM
Woke up to happy Easter texts from several people...I’m friggin Jewish!
It irks me how Christian ppl just assume that everyone else is Christian too. December makes me pissy every year bc Xmas is shoved down your throat everywhere you go. Someday I would like to go on a tropical retreat for the whole month of December...but even that won’t be sufficient to get away from it because of colonization.
Totally petty I know, but hey it’s the petty thread!
Aurora_Sunset
04-04-2021, 10:05 AM
Anytime husband and I get food and they screw up our order, it’s always only MY food that gets screwed up.
LoveyDovey
04-04-2021, 11:02 AM
I've been staying at this place since Feb 15th. The folks I'm staying with invited me last-minute to their 6 yr old family member's B-day party. I like these people but I didn't really want to spend time with a family I don't know very well , especially seeing that covid is still a thing and they were all maskless.Well the lady who invited me sort of put me on the spot and asked ARE YOU COMING??? When I said not sure because I have things I need to get done , I got the stink eye from the lady's mom, who also lives here. Which was annoying because the invitation was last minute and maybe I had some important things to do. I hate being pressured into social situations. I wound up going to the Gathering when it was halfway through because if I didn't, then I'm suddenly the bad mom who won't drop everything for 6 year old party who I don't even know. I brought balloons for the guest of honor, who was really sweet & only stayed for a little bit because like I said I don't really like going to parties where I don't know anyone very well. lI am paying 850 to live here every month so I would like to enjoy a certain degree of autonomy. Well today is Easter and they're having another family celebration downstairs I'm hoping they don't pressure me into going. I didn't know when I started renting from this place that I was required to participate in the family gatherings as well. It would have been one thing if the lady said hey my six-year-old niece is having a birthday party, if you'd like to join us, you're more than welcome and just leave it at that. I really don't want them inviting me to anything today. I just want to stay in my room and relax and not feel pressured into any more social situations. See it's stuff like this that makes me want my own place. I feel like when the mom of the house let me live here, she was hoping I would become best friends with her daughters who also live here. I like her daughter but what's gonna happen if they find out i was a stripper for 15 years? We know how civilian women can be. Why can't they just let me rent out the room and just let me be???
kimbe
04-04-2021, 11:24 AM
^^I think you simply have to clear on the fact you prefer to avoid social situations, you can easily blame Covid for now. They have to accept that, it's for their safety as well.
LoveyDovey
04-04-2021, 11:33 AM
^^Yeah but if I say that, they still take it personally and then they think I'm a snob or something.. Or they'll be like " It's okay, we're having it outside! " and keep putting the pressure on like they did w the b-day party. I mentioned I'm scared about covid and that was their rebuttal. I just think I want/need my own place. Your suggestion is good, but these ppl take it more personally than they should.
indiegirl
04-04-2021, 01:33 PM
LOL. I told someone my rate today and they said "damn babe I wish I could but I can't be throwing that money away" ....And I look at his one only reference from a lady who is charging 180 for HHR (with my 5 star reviews) and I kinda lost it after all the BS this week and responded "180 for HHR from your reference? Kinda wild people are charging so little. There are strip club rooms more expensive. Anyways, have a lovely Easter." ......Like DON'T contact me if you can't afford it when the price is posted on the site and proceed to waterboard me through messages on how you can't afford me. Something happened to make me now unaffordable. It's someone on the other site. Right after I posted I'm no longer posting on the cheap site, it's been nothing but hell.
indiegirl
04-04-2021, 01:56 PM
I did some healing work today. Not the type you do in therapy LOL! That man who called me an old ass cum dump and a plastic whore got a "Happy Easter" message from me. Man it was weighing on me for a few days that I didn't speak up to him and bowed out while he got to call me names while I sat there. One customer said that there's a lot of sad men out there and to ignore them. So I'm supposed to allow this sir? I didn't do a thing to deserve it! I feel better voicing my opinion in response. :) Happy Easter Sir!
https://i.ibb.co/KWh8vxm/Screen-Shot-2021-04-04-at-1-54-02-PM.png (https://ibb.co/KWh8vxm)
I'm honestly not sorry. I was reading the reviews from 2 men who were mad I decided to leave the cheap site and said "She's not worth 500 and she's complaining about people asking for BBFS. She'll be back." On the cheap review site that refused to take my hidden camera sex photos down. Some person saved a photo of me from years ago and posted it along with it.. HUNNNYY NO. $4-500 is fine with me I'm not at streetwalker prices nor am I ugly. It feels like these unsafe practices are the norm now and I have a very open menu. God I can't wait to get out of this biz.
Blog post: All she does is complain about cheap men or BBFS.
No I don't. I announce what I flat out don't appreciate or want to happen to me during an appointment in one sentence. I'm not selling my body anymore for cheap prices nor being shamed for upping my value. I feel like the price is realistic.
AChildOfBoredom
04-04-2021, 04:10 PM
People who are always trying to play matchmaker are annoying enough; even moreso when they project their preferences onto you. In this case, a woman with the “man in uniform” fascination. And she’s really not catching less-than-subtle hints that I really don’t like the police.
moneybags
04-04-2021, 08:03 PM
^^^ugh...everyday sexism. Thinking a single woman wants to be in a relationship. I hate how people don’t respect women’s choices.
I’m annoyed my apartment complex has some shady characters. Not my monkey, not my circus. I keep to myself. I’m a lone wolf cause it keeps shady people out of my life. I’m going to do some hard core ignoring of people and places things I don’t like.
See no evil, hear no evil, and speak no evil.
xxxGothBarbie
04-05-2021, 04:03 AM
that’s the sucky thing about wills n inherence
the owner of said possessions can cut out or change beneficiaries on a whim. Plus it feel like boot licking n slavery when your beholden to someone for an inheritance they may or may not give to you.
ugh!!! Humans and their pissy moods that change with the wind.
My dad isn't even dead thankfully. It was his wife (my stepmom) that passed a few months back & without ever asking me if I'd like anything of his if something should ever happen to him. It really sucks. I've realized that if talking to my cousin who adopted that brat might work in my favor then yea I will be cordial in the future or try to snatch that stuff up while visiting if my dad says ok. Otherwise I'm just gonna say screw it. I'm 37, independent. and not licking anyone's boots for nothing!
I'll talk to my cousin soon & see where everything is at the moment before I completely write them off. She's been cool in the past about my passing relative's heirlooms at least.
whirlerz
04-05-2021, 07:16 AM
^^^ugh...everyday sexism. Thinking a single woman wants to be in a relationship. I hate how people don’t respect women’s choices.
I’m annoyed my apartment complex has some shady characters. Not my monkey, not my circus. I keep to myself. I’m a lone wolf cause it keeps shady people out of my life. I’m going to do some hard core ignoring of people and places things I don’t like.
See no evil, hear no evil, and speak no evil.
WOW! ^^^
Love this!
LOL, shoulda read this b4 I went off this morn..
I asked 1 guy to help & take the dumpsters up this morning.. Of course, they're still in the back, this morning..
He was working on car or something last night, big deal.
Edit :he just told me that he he'd help this morning?
I said great, p/u was over 2 hrs ago. ::)
I got the one dumpster & a couple other things, up front just in time for p/u!
Along w/taking care of the other guy's rabbit, + I had a small ebay order to send out.
I slammed doors, & laid on my car horn on my way out to post office!
Passive aggressive :(
whirlerz
04-05-2021, 07:33 AM
Woke up to happy Easter texts from several people...I’m friggin Jewish!
It irks me how Christian ppl just assume that everyone else is Christian too. December makes me pissy every year bc Xmas is shoved down your throat everywhere you go. Someday I would like to go on a tropical retreat for the whole month of December...but even that won’t be sufficient to get away from it because of colonization.
Totally petty I know, but hey it’s the petty thread!
It's fine, I do respect your Fath.
I celebrate this holiday, but doing a study I've learned that the dates are wrong anyway, for Xmas too.
Yesterday, I called about looking for a place, I expect to get a voicemail, the guy asked me about Easter???
I always hate being asked about holidays anyway!
Then, tells me it's Easter?? NS::)
I always said how I'd like to be far away during Xmas.
moneybags
04-05-2021, 11:56 AM
Woke up to happy Easter texts from several people...I’m friggin Jewish!
It irks me how Christian ppl just assume that everyone else is Christian too. December makes me pissy every year bc Xmas is shoved down your throat everywhere you go. Someday I would like to go on a tropical retreat for the whole month of December...but even that won’t be sufficient to get away from it because of colonization.
Totally petty I know, but hey it’s the petty thread!
I’m spiritual but not religious. I spent the day doing some spiritual work of working on a new me to work with the spirit of resurrection metaphorically.
Bill Mauher talks a lot about the annoyance of religious people projecting their religion on to others. So annoying. I think as sexually liberated women we can all agree how annoying Christians can be-especially when it comes to projecting their morality. They are some of the kindest people, but on the flip side they can be some of the most annoying in terms of dominating the culture and expecting everyone to conform to their views and traditions. Especially when they get into positions of power. Ugh!
As an atheist I celebrate the Christian holidays for fun and make them fit my belief system. I look at Jesus as a spiritual teacher more than anything.
WendiStarr
04-05-2021, 07:32 PM
One word: teething
indiegirl
04-05-2021, 10:52 PM
People who are always trying to play matchmaker are annoying enough; even moreso when they project their preferences onto you. In this case, a woman with the “man in uniform” fascination. And she’s really not catching less-than-subtle hints that I really don’t like the police.
My mom did this to me while I was supposed to meet someone over a dog (her excuse because she thought I needed a man a few years ago). Her: "Aren't you gonna put makeup on?"
I was pissed when I found out. I'm gardening mom and look homeless in PJ's but you are trying to blind date me? LOL
Turned out he used women for sex a lot and then bounced.
miss.a.p1600
04-06-2021, 04:56 AM
^my mom tried to play matchmaker and hooked me up with her coworker
Turns out the dude was a slick narcissist, a colorist, hated the city WE both live in, and was a egotistical pessimistic mess.
Most amateur “matchmakers” are horrible at it
miss.a.p1600
04-06-2021, 05:01 AM
I woke up at cotdamn 230am thinking about all the bills I have to pay.
THIS is why sometimes I’d just rather sleep. At least while I’m sleeping I don’t have to focus on worldly issues. Or is this stuff so consuming of my life that it’s on my mind enough to wake me out of my sleep.
But then soon as I wake up I’d have to think about it.
BambiCutie
04-06-2021, 05:48 AM
I fuckin hate that! Will be in a comfortable, sound sleep and suddenly am half awake doing something else due to worrying about work. Takes about an hour to head back to sleep and by that time I have to work. :P
moneybags
04-06-2021, 06:41 AM
At the gym and some guy said, “look at the ass” as I’m walking to go to the bathroom!
Omg! I might have to change gyms. I can’t stand lower class guys. There are some good blue collar guys that are respectful, but the ones that aren’t are garbage. I made a complaint. I think they’ll ban him if he becomes a problem. I didn’t even look cute. It doesn’t matter what I was wearing, but they were sweats from 2010’s. I feel like men shouldn’t harass me when I’m not get paid. Girl I’m seriously glad I didn’t have my taser cause I would have tased his ass and made a HUGE scene! They told me to get a video of him and they would ban him. I’ll do that next time. I was so triggered! I am an ex stripper, so I have no problem fighting a grown ass man. He’s lucky I didn’t bring my mace. I’m kinda glad because not that I would be over reacting, but you know if you have to be cool even when men are being bad or you look like the crazy one. I hope one day sexual harassment is a crime.
How do you deal with sexual harassment? He was explicit and gross about it. It wasn’t harmless cat calling. I got a rapey vibe from him. I need to bring my taser with everywhere I go. I let my guard down.
LoveyDovey
04-06-2021, 06:47 AM
^^Ugh, glad you reported him. This kind of behavior is what makes going to the gym an uncomfortable experience for a lot of women. On the bright side, your sweats from 11 years ago still fit! So that's good!
I may have to call the edd today because the status on my funds still says pending. That's always fun!
moneybags
04-06-2021, 07:05 AM
^^Ugh, glad you reported him. This kind of behavior is what makes going to the gym an uncomfortable experience for a lot of women. On the bright side, your sweats from 11 years ago still fit! So that's good!
I may have to call the edd today because the status on my funds still says pending. That's always fun!
Thanks for making me laugh. You can take the stripper out of the club, but you can’t take the club out of a stripper. Glad I didn’t try to fight a grown ass man...lol. There’s no bouncers to finish what I started...LOL
You mean the feds? Ugh. I got my paper check in the mail already. Good luck.
LoveyDovey
04-06-2021, 08:10 AM
^^lol true! You cannot take the club out of the stripper!
I got my stimulus, I am referring to the CA edd for my pua.
JGB2009
04-06-2021, 08:17 AM
I am a cam girl and where I am from is none of your business. Plus I could care less where you are from either!!!!!
whirlerz
04-06-2021, 12:59 PM
At the gym and some guy said, “look at the ass” as I’m walking to go to the bathroom!
Omg! I might have to change gyms. I can’t stand lower class guys. There are some good blue collar guys that are respectful, but the ones that aren’t are garbage. I made a complaint. I think they’ll ban him if he becomes a problem. I didn’t even look cute. It doesn’t matter what I was wearing, but they were sweats from 2010’s. I feel like men shouldn’t harass me when I’m not get paid. Girl I’m seriously glad I didn’t have my taser cause I would have tased his ass and made a HUGE scene! They told me to get a video of him and they would ban him. I’ll do that next time. I was so triggered! I am an ex stripper, so I have no problem fighting a grown ass man. He’s lucky I didn’t bring my mace. I’m kinda glad because not that I would be over reacting, but you know if you have to be cool even when men are being bad or you look like the crazy one. I hope one day sexual harassment is a crime.
How do you deal with sexual harassment? He was explicit and gross about it. It wasn’t harmless cat calling. I got a rapey vibe from him. I need to bring my taser with everywhere I go. I let my guard down.
What a POS loser, good for you for reporting!
I'd follow up, tell a manager you're afraid, & don't want any further problems!
You know, I wonder if these people in here (my 'residence':O) keep their brains in a drawer or WTF..
The one guy, cuts a huge onion in half, then goes off, leaving it sit on kitchen table, where it stinks to high heaven ! I wrapped it up, put it in fridge..
The other idiot, (former crush), worked on his jalopy, leaving a nail, + some sharp cut metal pieces around?
No, I dont want that shit even near my car or tires!
Out there singing to himself, jeez!
I'd like to klong their heads together!
whirlerz
04-06-2021, 01:17 PM
Also, heavy dental appointment tomorrow, not happy :(
& Whyyy did everyone buy the dark chocolate Easter eggs on clearance already, why?? :(
All the other kinds are available!
moneybags
04-06-2021, 01:36 PM
I am a cam girl and where I am from is none of your business. Plus I could care less where you are from either!!!!!
tell him, I’m from your wildest dreams
@whirlz. Thanks that means a lot. It was traumatic. I’m glad I got to safety and didn’t confront him. I bought some mace for my key chain. I have all sorts of mace, but I don’t bring the “big guns” when I’m running errands-usually don’t need to. Next time, I’m going to confront him and take a video to report him. He definitely seemed like a predator and not just the average pervert guy. I’m glad I didn’t wild out on him. He would have deserved it, but better to let other men deal with him than put myself in harms way. I feel bad for freezing and not saying anything, but that’s literally a survival skills for women. Ill confront the next guy. I was super tired and wasn’t thinking.
carmen_b
04-06-2021, 01:38 PM
Money :
Loved you reported him ha.
I always feel like that ( like men owe me for any interaction ha ).
It didn’t go away after pandemic either !
My joy of small talk lasted about a week.
moneybags
04-06-2021, 02:31 PM
Thanks your support means a lot!
One day I’m just gonna lose my shit and scare some guy. Just wait for the day i make a grown ass man cry. I’ve done it before at the grocery store. Years of harassment from men and this dude harassed me at the store and I completely eviscerated him in public. He put his tail in between his legs and ran away.
I’m moving here
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/laurabegleybloom/2018/07/31/this-women-bought-her-own-island-paradise-no-men-allowed/amp/
carmen_b
04-06-2021, 03:09 PM
Wow this week seems absurdly hard haha .
I set aside 5 hours today to study and then the air mattress at the AirBnB I managed has popped so it took me 2.5 hours out of that 5 hour block to go deal with that and replace it.
I had a twin one on hand too but I guess they NEED the Queen. It appears they are stuffing 6 people into my little house lol. Oh well ..... it does say " up to 6 " on my hosting .
:/
I was really looking forward to those 5 quiet hours.
There are other weird issues too. I don't feel *settled*.
I JUST got back into town and tried to refocus .... and am half focused .
I feel upset with myself for April earnings even though it's only been 6 days.
Just weird energy floating about. I'm working on fixing it.
It's sometimes hard to be grateful for PUA when it really isn't *quite* enough to live on which is weird to say because I would be in such worse shape if it didn't help in 2020 / 2021.
LoveyDovey
04-06-2021, 03:10 PM
Oooomg EDD will you fucking pay me already?