View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
indiegirl
04-06-2021, 03:16 PM
I did something (god knows what?) to hurt my tailbone during my last appointment. I've been trying to ice it and figure out how I can manage to work today. I'm so angry it happened. All I remember was being thankful the appointment was over because it hurt my back so bad and hurt to sit. I have 3 customers waiting to see me today and I'm irritated this happened. I'm going to probably (most likely) stay home and ice it.
carmen_b
04-06-2021, 03:23 PM
Something BIG I wanted to do is also slowed down.
WendiStarr
04-06-2021, 03:55 PM
Fucking Linux, ugh! I've been stuck on two stupid Linux assignments and I don't know what I'm inputting wrong, other than error shit. I'm about to just pay someone to do the assignments for me. I'm a Windows girl for the past 24 years. I absolutely hate staring at a boring ass black screen with white letters, typing jibberish in. Blah!
xxxGothBarbie
04-06-2021, 05:00 PM
So annoyed that for my upcoming road trip I had an offer on a place to stay for free but yet then I was told that I'd need to alter my night owl schedule while I'm there... Ummm no bitch nope! I'll gladly fork over money for a hotel room rn if it means no one is trying to control me.
Why the fuck does it matter if I stay up til 4 or 5 am?!
Pokahantas
04-06-2021, 05:27 PM
I’m so annoyed with all of these 3-7 day trials to watch every damn movie or show. I keep forgetting to cancel them and then they always take the money out of my account when I’m super broke. I’m screaming!!!!!!!!
moneybags
04-06-2021, 05:31 PM
I’m so annoyed with all of these 3-7 day trials to watch every damn movie or show. I keep forgetting to cancel them and then they always take the money out of my account when I’m super broke. I’m screaming!!!!!!!!
I need to take advantage of that and encourage my members to sign up for my fan club. Cause they forget to cancel
LoveyDovey
04-06-2021, 07:46 PM
The Damned California EDD had me on hold for 2 hours while I waited to talk to a specialist about why my stupid account is pending. Then they hung up on me. Wasted so much time trying to get through, not cool! And I didn't even get the matter taken care of today. I hate wasting time!
miss.a.p1600
04-07-2021, 03:25 AM
So annoyed that for my upcoming road trip I had an offer on a place to stay for free but yet then I was told that I'd need to alter my night owl schedule while I'm there... Ummm no bitch nope! I'll gladly fork over money for a hotel room rn if it means no one is trying to control me.
Why the fuck does it matter if I stay up til 4 or 5 am?!
Lol!!!
Sometimes it’s Better to pay the cost to be the boss
One of my relatives said they never let their kids stay up past them cause of fear the kids would try to kill them in their sleep or burn the house down while they’re sleep.
Indeed a control n fear issue on their end.
LoveyDovey
04-07-2021, 06:26 AM
Please edd, don't be a butt today...
miss.a.p1600
04-07-2021, 07:37 AM
Exactly!
As much as I like to oogle men while they’re working out *I’m* not gross like most men are.
That’s why I usually don’t like working out around men cause they will be gawking n thinking sexual. Like I feel like a woman can’t use any thigh or glute machines/workouts in peace while a man is in the vicinity. It’s like a free show for them. Gross!
kimbe
04-07-2021, 09:45 AM
Just out of curiosity how is the tanning process done? I’ve never been to such a competition, is it done on site? For some of my work, I’ve thought it would have been nice to have the dark tan like bodybuilders have on stage. Don’t think ordinary spray tans really gets you that dark.
Tanning nowadays is done by spray tanning only (touch ups backstage during show is done hands on). Athletes are booked every 15. minutes, tiny pop up tents are used for partial cover/privacy (women are sprayed naked). Three coats of tan plus glaze (which make you shine), two on Friday and the last one plus glaze on Saturday (show day).
Wether it’s suitable for other occasions will depend on the specific situation. These tanners does not actually have that much of a self tanning effect on you skin, it’s more like a very thin layer of paint that sticks to your skin. And it’s not particularly water proof either and it will make stains to areas you’re in firm contact with.
indiegirl
04-07-2021, 12:07 PM
Sometimes my mom really pisses me off. When she broke one of her toes I never said "Why did that happen?" It just happened because of an accident! But it feels like whenever something happens to me she has to ask why. I'm just genuinely asking her for advice if I should use icy/hot on my tailbone and it's like she cares more about what I did to be in this position rather than feeling better to fix it. She did the same thing when I accidentally did a fender bender on the freeway because I fell asleep from the medication she put me on in my late teens and blaming me when I'm calling her as I pulled over terrified needing advice on what to do and not to be yelled at. I even had to ask her "why are you more concerned about the situation instead of if I'm okay?"
LoveyDovey
04-07-2021, 01:42 PM
Sometimes my mom really pisses me off. When she broke one of her toes I never said "Why did that happen?" It just happened because of an accident! But it feels like whenever something happens to me she has to ask why. I'm just genuinely asking her for advice if I should use icy/hot on my tailbone and it's like she cares more about what I did to be in this position rather than feeling better to fix it. She did the same thing when I accidentally did a fender bender on the freeway because I fell asleep from the medication she put me on in my late teens and blaming me when I'm calling her as I pulled over terrified needing advice on what to do and not to be yelled at. I even had to ask her "why are you more concerned about the situation instead of if I'm okay?"
Ugh, I am so sorry you have to deal with that. My mom was like this, too. Yeah she wants to focus on the problem as a way of blame shifting everything onto you. That's fucked up. I'm sorry.
xxxGothBarbie
04-07-2021, 03:23 PM
Ugh, I am so sorry you have to deal with that. My mom was like this, too. Yeah she wants to focus on the problem as a way of blame shifting everything onto you. That's fucked up. I'm sorry.
^ Exactly! Lovey hit the nail on the head with this one. I was just about to chime in to say that mine does/did the same thing ugh. It's beyond nerve wracking! Actually it's not just her that does it, it's a few others I know *eyeroll*.
People REALLY need to get control over their shitty behavior!
moneybags
04-07-2021, 03:25 PM
Ugh, I am so sorry you have to deal with that. My mom was like this, too. Yeah she wants to focus on the problem as a way of blame shifting everything onto you. That's fucked up. I'm sorry.
My toxic mom too.
I ranted earlier but deleted it out of embarrassment. I edited my post to be healthier.
My pissy annoyance is trying to make friends. I have a really hard time trusting people. I put myself out there and put a lot of time into making a friend group and felt like I was given the cold shoulder. I know it’s not personal, but it feels personal.
I’ve have to hope for the best and expect for the worst when it comes to people.
I know that sound negative, but I think it’s a realistic to keep expectations LOW. I have to have strong boundaries and put myself first. People mean well, but people will waste your time and energy if you let them. They will totally take you for granted and get whatever they can out of the relationship-that’s just human nature. I need to make sure people are worthy of my time and energy before getting too invested. So I’m going to pull back
my time and energy from the group and put my time and energy into other areas of my life.
Rejection is God’s redirection.
WendiStarr
04-07-2021, 03:48 PM
Still trying to work this school stuff out. I don't get this weeks of phone tag, also I have a bright red, ugly pimple right in the middle of my forehead that popped up out of nowhere.
chanzep
04-07-2021, 05:01 PM
All the companies I have worked for since Covid are complete shitshows. It's exhausting.
Genoveve
04-07-2021, 10:16 PM
I'm in a bitch mood because I need jaw botox again for narrowing of the jaw. I wish there was a more permanent fix like people who get cheek implants. Pardon the frizzy hair. I'm always concerned I'll look like Droopy the Dog if I don't continuously get botox in the jaw. I dunno how to fix it and doctors won't do a mid facelift. I'm super insecure how it looks. I like that chiseled Kim K jawline. Basically this is how it looks in person and I hate it.
https://i.ibb.co/m645KV6/Facetune-2.jpg (https://ibb.co/m645KV6)
I think your jaw is more chiseled than Kim's, but she has a heart-shaped face and yours looks more square, are you after a more heart-shaped face(pointier chin)?
54600
Because you can get filler in your chin to make it pointier.
Aurora_Sunset
04-08-2021, 07:41 AM
Getting on my plane yesterday, this bitch suddenly cut right in front of me, then looked back and said "Oh, I'm not waiting. I'm first class." I was so tired and honestly don't give a fuck when I board a plane - it's not leaving without me - that I just said, "Whatever, it's fine." But what I should have said was, "Then you should've fucking been here 20 minutes ago when they called first class. If you miss your boarding group call, go to the end of the line." What if I was also first class and had just missed the first call? People are so entitled and rude.
WendiStarr
04-08-2021, 08:58 AM
....nvmd....
indiegirl
04-08-2021, 09:57 AM
Ugh last customer is so uncomfy. It's like he's legit scared to be there in a fun way. LORD! I'm gonna drag this appt out because it's super weird.. Hopefully if I see him in the future he opens up.
WendiStarr
04-09-2021, 06:31 AM
I unpacked my jean shorts from last summer since the weather has been warm. That was a bad idea when I'm pmsing and got the pre-period bloat going on. I had muffin top going on and it was unattractive. I feel like a fat cow. I wish I could afford to have my belly fat transferred to my ass and hips like the Kardashians.
indiegirl
04-09-2021, 10:24 AM
I hate when people whine about me working in certain areas deeming them unsafe and then when I book a 4 or 5 star completely to appease them that has a 30 dollar valet, they complain again. LOL. I've survived so far in certain areas. It's right near Knott's Berry Farm which is kid friendly.
WendiStarr
04-09-2021, 11:21 AM
Coursera and their lack of response to their Qwiklabs glitch. I was relieved to see that it was not just me who had an issue with one particular lab showing a 0%, despite completing the lab. Several other students had the same exact issue. I have contacted both Coursera and Qwiklabs three times now about it. This wouldn't be a big deal except a.)I'm paying $49/month for this course and b.)I am unable to earn the certificate after spending all that time completing all 5 modules of the course because of this stupid Qwiklabs assignment showing as 0%. They just keep using generic responses that are not helpful at all and promising to look in to the issue. It's been 5 days and is beyond frustrating. After I finally get this issue resolved, I will not be using Coursera again.
LoveyDovey
04-09-2021, 06:37 PM
I wish the lady I am renting an air bnb from would stop putting me on the spot when it comes to entertaining her 6 year old niece. It's like I will be busy with something or about to go somewhere, and I'll go downstairs to get a drink and she's with her niece in the living room. Then she says right in front of the child, "Hey, do you know how to play old maid? My niece LOVES playing old maid!" As if she expects me to drop whatever it is I have planned to play Old Maid with her niece. Yes, I do know how to play, but since when do you try to rope your tenants in to doing child care? Then if I say I can't play because I have things to do or somewhere to go, then suddenly I am the bad, selfish one. This is really weird. Most air bnb hosts don't really make their guests play with their kids. I mean she is a cute kid but I barely know her and I don't like being put on the spot like that. Like I feel like by renting here, I am now required to participate in all family events. Um, no. I need my own place. I am not an exchange student staying with a host family. I am a 47 year old woman who has her own life and would just like some time and space to recover from what life has put me through.
chanzep
04-09-2021, 07:44 PM
You are renting from her you don't need to entertain her kids.
moneybags
04-09-2021, 07:56 PM
Just tell her thanks, but no thanks. I do agree it super manipulative to ask in front of the kid. Kids need to learn to deal with disappointment because it’s part of life, so you aren’t hurting the kid. Just do it nicely.
indiegirl
04-09-2021, 08:05 PM
Getting on my plane yesterday, this bitch suddenly cut right in front of me, then looked back and said "Oh, I'm not waiting. I'm first class." I was so tired and honestly don't give a fuck when I board a plane - it's not leaving without me - that I just said, "Whatever, it's fine." But what I should have said was, "Then you should've fucking been here 20 minutes ago when they called first class. If you miss your boarding group call, go to the end of the line." What if I was also first class and had just missed the first call? People are so entitled and rude.
Should've said "Right this way madam. My apologies for not knowing who you are." lolll!!!
Some people are so delusional when paying for extra on flights or thinking they're more special for no reason.
LoveyDovey
04-09-2021, 09:19 PM
Just tell her thanks, but no thanks. I do agree it super manipulative to ask in front of the kid. Kids need to learn to deal with disappointment because it’s part of life, so you aren’t hurting the kid. Just do it nicely.
Luckily the conversation got interrupted by some visitor coming by to pick something up, so I was able to wander off. But yeah, it's not cool to put people on the spot like that in front of kiddo. What if I had to be somewhere? Like a vaccine appt. or I had to do taxes or make a grocery delivery? You can't expect people to drop whatever they have already planned so you can have some help with the child care. Then when I say sorry, I can't, then I'm the. Selfish asshole. It is just really odd for hosts to expect that of their guests. And I don't want to disappoint the child either, because she really is adorable.
I guess before me, tthey rented out to international students who were looking for a host family. They'd travel and go places together. I'm not a student and I'm not looking for a family. I'm a 47 yo woman who needs a little peace and space to recover from everything I've been through in life. I like these people, and they are A LOT better to live with than that shithole I was once in. I almost feel a little bad complaining. It's great here otherwise. They're nice people and their place is quiet, clean and comfy. But I also like having my autonomy too and don't want to feel obligated to participate in family events. Just a minor issue. Otherwise this place is great.
xxxGothBarbie
04-09-2021, 10:15 PM
Luckily the conversation got interrupted by some visitor coming by to pick something up, so I was able to wander off. But yeah, it's not cool to put people on the spot like that in front of kiddo. What if I had to be somewhere? Like a vaccine appt. or I had to do taxes or make a grocery delivery? You can't expect people to drop whatever they have already planned so you can have some help with the child care. Then when I say sorry, I can't, then I'm the. Selfish asshole. It is just really odd for hosts to expect that of their guests. And I don't want to disappoint the child either, because she really is adorable.
I guess before me, tthey rented out to international students who were looking for a host family. They'd travel and go places together. I'm not a student and I'm not looking for a family. I'm a 47 yo woman who needs a little peace and space to recover from everything I've been through in life. I like these people, and they are A LOT better to live with than that shithole I was once in. I almost feel a little bad complaining. It's great here otherwise. They're nice people and their place is quiet, clean and comfy. But I also like having my autonomy too and don't want to feel obligated to participate in family events. Just a minor issue. Otherwise this place is great.
I know you said you liked it there aside from that but if that bs continued I'd start looking for a different airbnb if I were you. You deserve your privacy for what you're paying.
On a similar note my dad's side used to make me entertain kuds and I'd be so annoyed & awkward. I am so not into dealing with children lol.
LoveyDovey
04-09-2021, 11:04 PM
I've already been looking lol. Told these folks I'd probably stay six months (till August) but we'll see what happens.
I think I am just one of those ppl who needs her own place.
Jucie
04-10-2021, 12:26 AM
Tanning nowadays is done by spray tanning only (touch ups backstage during show is done hands on). Athletes are booked every 15. minutes, tiny pop up tents are used for partial cover/privacy (women are sprayed naked). Three coats of tan plus glaze (which make you shine), two on Friday and the last one plus glaze on Saturday (show day).
Wether it’s suitable for other occasions will depend on the specific situation. These tanners does not actually have that much of a self tanning effect on you skin, it’s more like a very thin layer of paint that sticks to your skin. And it’s not particularly water proof either and it will make stains to areas you’re in firm contact with.
Ok, does it make stains even after dried? I guess it dries a while after application?
Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2021, 08:59 AM
My first vaccine dose gave me some crummy reactions. I was leaving work early today for a wedding anyway, but ended up only making an 1 hour and a half before bailing. I felt so shitty. By the time I got home, I could tell I had a fever too. Took some ibuprofen and most of the side effects are better after a couple hours nap and letting the meds kick in. Ugh... almost makes me not want to get the second dose... I thought most people didn't get reactions until the second dose.
kimbe
04-10-2021, 10:02 AM
Ok, does it make stains even after dried? I guess it dries a while after application?
Yes, you stand in front of a big fan to dry for appx 10-15 minutes, but it can still make stains if firm contact is made.
moneybags
04-10-2021, 11:43 AM
Trashy neighbors. Good thing I have my mace.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-10-2021, 12:47 PM
My first vaccine dose gave me some crummy reactions. I was leaving work early today for a wedding anyway, but ended up only making an 1 hour and a half before bailing. I felt so shitty. By the time I got home, I could tell I had a fever too. Took some ibuprofen and most of the side effects are better after a couple hours nap and letting the meds kick in. Ugh... almost makes me not want to get the second dose... I thought most people didn't get reactions until the second dose.
I just got my 2nd dose today and I definitely felt a bit odd. But I hydrated and ate and I feel good now. Hope you feel better soon.
moneybags
04-10-2021, 12:48 PM
^^^^getting mine too right now
My neighbor is trash. Honestly I feel bad for him because that’s obviously what he grew up with, but at the same time there’s been so much drama ever since he moved in. My bottom line is drama in the hallway. What he does in his apartment is his own business. But the fight in the hallway is unacceptable. He tried “talking to me”. I’m a middle aged woman. I’ve seen it all! I know exactly your type. Just leave me alone. Sucks to feel unsafe in your own home. I’m going to wear my ear buds and ignore him. I will not engage with him! I will tell him to leave me alone. If he continues I will mace him in the face!
He was arguing with another neighbor in the hall about stealing his phone. He’s had ex’s banging on his door at 3am. He’s the common denominator in all the drama.
I’m just going to ignore him. I was literally afraid a fight was going to breakout in the hall way! That’s nuts! I shouldn’t be afraid to leave my apartment. Ugh! What’s wrong with people!!!
LoveyDovey
04-10-2021, 02:04 PM
^^ We need to go to that island where it's just women. Or we need to buy an island for strippers only who want to live in peace lol
chanzep
04-10-2021, 02:15 PM
I think that family is crazy and rude to expect you to entertain their kids. They should get a Au pair. They should also be more careful who is looking after their kids. Anyone is on airbnb.
LoveyDovey
04-10-2021, 02:21 PM
^^ I just don't like being put on the spot. She has done this twice. Once she asked ARE YOU COMING??? to a family party (in front of the family) and now this. I mean... I appreciate the invite but this is an air bib...I was hoping to have a little more privacy and autonomy is all. And I don't want to go to parties or be around ppl during covid. At least until I'm fully vaxxed.
Idk about you, but I wouldn't be asking airbnb guests to be around my kids! If anything, I'd tell my kid not to go near them. To give them space and quiet. What if the guest was a psycho?
moneybags
04-10-2021, 02:47 PM
54645
^^ We need to go to that island where it's just women. Or we need to buy an island for strippers only who want to live in peace lol
I’m working on it...lol. Maybe it is an ex stripper thing. I have zero tolerance for dealing with club drama outside of the club. I retired from THAT life leave me the fuck alone!
I’m looking to buy a hat that says, “leave me alone!”
Yes we need a retirement home for ex strippers...lol.
LoveyDovey
04-10-2021, 03:01 PM
^^ I love it! Cute shirt!
I am pms ing and feel so bloated, like a walking egg.
Here's a hat for ya!
miss.a.p1600
04-10-2021, 06:39 PM
My first vaccine dose gave me some crummy reactions. I was leaving work early today for a wedding anyway, but ended up only making an 1 hour and a half before bailing. I felt so shitty. By the time I got home, I could tell I had a fever too. Took some ibuprofen and most of the side effects are better after a couple hours nap and letting the meds kick in. Ugh... almost makes me not want to get the second dose... I thought most people didn't get reactions until the second dose.
which brand did you get?
lynn2009
04-10-2021, 08:50 PM
Oh FFS, I am trying to order vegetarian wet dog food from Chewy and my order is on hold until I provide a veterinary authorization. What an overreach.
kimbe
04-10-2021, 11:48 PM
Take away food that shows to be mediocre. >:( Yes, you ditch them next time, but the food aint better..
Aurora_Sunset
04-11-2021, 01:12 PM
which brand did you get?
Moderna. My friend who is doing coding for compiling info on the vaccinations and their side effects said she would advise Pfizer if you can get it, because there's been less reported side effects than Moderna or J&J. I feel completely fine after 24 hours since onset of those side effects. It just sucked that I had a friend's wedding to go to last night. I felt like crap during it and didn't stay long into the reception.
indiegirl
04-11-2021, 06:17 PM
Moderna. My friend who is doing coding for compiling info on the vaccinations and their side effects said she would advise Pfizer if you can get it, because there's been less reported side effects than Moderna or J&J. I feel completely fine after 24 hours since onset of those side effects. It just sucked that I had a friend's wedding to go to last night. I felt like crap during it and didn't stay long into the reception.
Yeah I think J&J is questionable:
https://nypost.com/2021/04/10/brooklyn-woman-gets-covid-3-weeks-after-johnson-johnson-vaccine/
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Annoyed coming home and I wanted to cut my hand off today after finding the bathroom bin spilling over and picking up what I thought was a paper tissue....only to find out it was her used vaginal wipe. LOL gross!!! My roommates never take out any of the trash bins (including in the bathroom).
Then I checked the main trash and it's like they had a party here while I was not home. There was empty wine, vodka, and white claws in the trash all overnight. Not pleased.
indiegirl
04-11-2021, 08:24 PM
If there is anyone who can feed into my hypochondriac tendencies, it's my mother. I have a scab that's infected on my scalp and she replied "Oh my god. You need to get this treated. This can go to your brain." LOL. This does not help. I immediately went to google and got to typing. *sigh*
moneybags
04-11-2021, 10:10 PM
If there is anyone who can feed into my hypochondriac tendencies, it's my mother. I have a scab that's infected on my scalp and she replied "Oh my god. You need to get this treated. This can go to your brain." LOL. This does not help. I immediately went to google and got to typing. *sigh*
She sounds like my mom. I don't tell my mom when I'm having problems because she makes a bad problem worse!
miss.a.p1600
04-12-2021, 04:53 AM
^my mom does the same
Once I hadn’t cleaned my sink in like a week. So on a dirty scale of 1-10 I’d say it was about a 2 or 3.
She came over n saw it n was like “OMG! You can get staph infection from this sink!”
In my mind I’m like bruh get a life!