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xxxGothBarbie
04-28-2021, 12:23 PM
^I hope your rattie feels better soon! Do you have a vet nearby who specializes in rodents, just in case?

I used to have pet rats when I was younger </3 they are amazing little creatures

I called a few places but unfortunately they were too expensive & had to availability until 2 weeks away. I read alot of ratty forums and just got his meds online. I'm pretty sure he has a respiratory infection so the meds coming will cure that. I checked today and the company created a shipping label but its not even at the facility yet ;(

minibagel
04-28-2021, 02:25 PM
I called a few places but unfortunately they were too expensive & had to availability until 2 weeks away. I read alot of ratty forums and just got his meds online. I'm pretty sure he has a respiratory infection so the meds coming will cure that. I checked today and the company created a shipping label but its not even at the facility yet ;(

That is super frustrating, I hope the meds arrive fast. If you haven’t already started using a humidifier near the cage that should help with his comfort in the meantime. Sending well wishes and a speedy recovery to your rattie!

WendiStarr
04-28-2021, 02:37 PM
Wtf is with all the new "FirstnameLastname" and "firstnamelastname" pink accounts on here? Looks a lot like one and the same person
Yes! Finally someone else notices! I suspect it's Raziel or some other annoying blue troll.

xxxGothBarbie
04-28-2021, 04:06 PM
That is super frustrating, I hope the meds arrive fast. If you haven’t already started using a humidifier near the cage that should help with his comfort in the meantime. Sending well wishes and a speedy recovery to your rattie!

Aww thanks bunches �� ya we have an air purifier next to his cage & have bren giving him raw honey in the meantime. He's eating like a pig still and is mostly resting. The appetite is a good sign thankfully.

indiegirl
04-28-2021, 08:21 PM
I miss mister needy dog right now lol. He never needs to know that because he's already too much! I've been napping next to my big boy dog (day 2) so he felt loved when I'm home and I'd surprisingly wake up to mister needy dog right in the middle of us with his nose in my face LOL. There's no winning with him lol.

Mister needy is what nightmares are made of because I could never prepare myself for when he gets old and dies.

moneybags
04-29-2021, 01:52 AM
I love humanity, but I hate people. Every person I meet is annoying. Not everyone, but I just dislike most people once I get to really know them. This is why I’m a loner. Hopefully remembering that will keep me from ranting on here everyday. Resentments are premeditated expectations. I need to quit have expectations of other people.

LoveyDovey
04-29-2021, 04:34 AM
Blues should not be allowed on a dancer support site unless they are a stripper themselves. They can stay on the blue side. Just my opinion. I don't even read what they have to say anyway. It's just noise.

Angela888
04-29-2021, 04:44 AM
I love humanity, but I hate people. Every person I meet is annoying. Not everyone, but I just dislike most people once I get to really know them. This is why I’m a loner. Hopefully remembering that will keep me from ranting on here everyday. Resentments are premeditated expectations. I need to quit have expectations of other people.

I know what you mean, I used to be the same but what I try and remember is that everyone doing their best. But yeah people can be very annoying. You got to have boundaries and not set expectations on people based on yourself . I’m an INFJ possibly you are same, sounds like it x

indiegirl
04-29-2021, 06:46 AM
I know what you mean, I used to be the same but what I try and remember is that everyone doing their best. But yeah people can be very annoying. You got to have boundaries and not set expectations on people based on yourself . I’m an INFJ possibly you are same, sounds like it x

People are great in short bursts lol. I'm an INTJ and it is exhausting being one. I wish we had the ability to pick a different personality type because it is not a very well-liked personality type lol. I want to be an ENFP.

TheBrownFox
04-29-2021, 07:39 AM
I noticed 2 items were missing but when I tried to report it, it says that my order hasn't been delivered yet and that I should expect the groceries by 2:15pm. I called their customer service to tell them the issue and they said that my order hasn't been delivered yet so how can I be reporting items as missing already. Wtf is this?


This is why I rarely order Instacart delivery anymore. I'll wind up with an unwanted version of my item (The plastic bottles of Snapple peach tea instead of the glass bottles that I wanted...this new plastic bottle b.s. ruins the taste)...or there will be an item or two missing...or my bag of groceries smell like weed. Lmfao! I'm paying that $7.99 delivery fee + plus tipping this person who isn't double-checking that they've given me all of my items.

Also I might just be ordering several cases of IBC root beer, but if the store happens to be all out of stock...now I feel like I HAVE to choose something else instead so that my Instacart person isn't wasting their time and gas on a trip to the store.

Always check your bags as quickly as you can before the Instacart person drives off (and you're no longer able to communicate with them). Some of the Instacart people will stay in the car and send their teenage son or daughter to bring the groceries to you instead, and he or she may not be double-checking that they've brought you all the bags (Like they'll still have one of your bags in their trunk). Or might accidentally give you a bag that belongs to a different customer's order.

moneybags
04-29-2021, 11:01 AM
Blues should not be allowed on a dancer support site unless they are a stripper themselves. They can stay on the blue side. Just my opinion. I don't even read what they have to say anyway. It's just noise.

I don’t understand why the other ladies engage with them. I put them on my ignore list a long time ago. If we quit entertaining them they’ll stop.

As a marginalized group, I think we need a safe space. I swear they invalidate almost everything we say. I feel like they are getting their needs at the expense of our need to feel safe, seen, and understood.

The whole world caters to their POV. Why do they need dominate our space? When push comes to shove men will almost always default to their privilege. I would bet a nude picture, they are the epitome of white male privilege. I can hear it in their tone of their post.

I already live in a conservative state where white men use their privilege on a regular basis to disempower me. I wish I could go somewhere and not have to worry about the conversation getting hyjacked by them.

Not all white men are bad, most of them are unconscious about their privilege and how it effects other people. I know they have there own personal struggles and trauma’s, but that’s not an excuse.

LoveyDovey
04-29-2021, 11:05 AM
^^ exactly. I don't engage with them at all. This is my free time. I am not at work lol

Angela888
04-29-2021, 11:43 AM
People are great in short bursts lol. I'm an INTJ and it is exhausting being one. I wish we had the ability to pick a different personality type because it is not a very well-liked personality type lol. I want to be an ENFP.

Me too hun . Mines like 1% of the worlds personality types and I wish I was different. It’s exhausting x

carmen_b
04-29-2021, 11:46 AM
I have too many addresses and my Shein order must have gone to another other than this one.

I need to post the haul from there ! Lol

xxxGothBarbie
04-29-2021, 12:43 PM
I have too many addresses and my Shein order must have gone to another other than this one.

I need to post the haul from there ! Lol

Not to threadjack but I love Shein! Im ordering a ton of stuff from there now ;)

carmen_b
04-29-2021, 02:44 PM
^ Yeah.
I do like two things at a time and space packages out ( to have the thrill of mail that isn’t dreadful ).
I’ve done like 6 sexy outfits for J and three vanilla life dresses !
It’s a little hit and miss but such good prices for something new to add to collection !
I think a few of the sexy ones are club worthy . I love that they are cheap because I get nervous wearing nicer brands in the club haha. I don’t think men can tell really.

carmen_b
04-29-2021, 02:45 PM
^ What I’m waiting for that I think J will like is this chemise that is silk / black and covered in stars.
We did lsd once under the Milky Way last summer and it was magic so he will “ get it “.

It’s 30 min. away in the AirBnB mail box I’m 99% sure. I’ll go that way Saturday.

WendiStarr
04-29-2021, 07:34 PM
Finally got a hold of enrollment counselor and she kindly informed me that they recently increased the amount of credits needed to earn the bachelor's degree that I want. Now instead of 77 more credits, I need 85. How long is that in years? Job assistance from a certificate I completed has been useless. They keep sending me emails of jobs that are not only located on the other side of the country and not remote but also under qualified for.

lynn2009
04-29-2021, 07:49 PM
Now instead of 77 more credits, I need 85. How long is that in years? .

Full-time each semester, 2 or three years depending on how many semesters per year are enrolled.

moneybags
04-29-2021, 08:49 PM
I was at the dollar store because they have cheap beauty products. This guy on the way out, was like “hey girl what’s your name.” I ignored him. He started following me to my car! I didn’t want to call the cops on a black guy, but FUCK DUDE. Had he not stop after I turned around and yelled, “I’m busy!” I probably would have had to! He left me alone. Maybe showing him I wasn’t afraid. I’m not either! Good thing I just bought my pepper spray for my key chain. Now I’m gonna start carrying my taser everywhere I go too! I am sick and tired of sexual harassment on the street. I’m way too old for that shit.

One day, I’m gonna post that I pepper sprayed and used my taser. I’m seriously at my breaking point. One day, I’m just gonna be like, “not today satan, not today.”

carmen_b
04-30-2021, 06:34 AM
^ Yeah , men need to THINK a bit. Many women always have safety on the mind . Don't follow a woman omg !

JGB2009
04-30-2021, 07:42 AM
I have adware pop ups on my computer. Luckily I have stopped the pop up from showing up but its still on my computer. Ugh

carmen_b
04-30-2021, 08:22 AM
Omg
I arrived for clients at day job at 8:30 AM.
It’s 9:25

I should be leaving and starting rest of day but I’m waiting.
:/
Hopefully they will think to slip me a little extra but who knows.

carmen_b
04-30-2021, 08:55 AM
Aw. They handed me $80 extra cash right away for the wait.

lynn2009
04-30-2021, 08:05 PM
My house smells. The kitchen sink started smelling yesterday and it got much worse overnight. I poured some boiling water down it today but it didn't help any. I'm going to try more things tomorrow I hope something works. And my washer, dryer and entire bottom floor all smell like cigarette smoke and soaked in urine because I had to do my neighbors laundry here because her washer is broken.

miss.a.p1600
05-01-2021, 06:39 AM
When I hear people make excuses for staying in their status quo mediocre lives.......I simply press mute or turn the volume down

carmen_b
05-01-2021, 07:56 AM
I'm still so sad about working my regular job today instead of being in a club in Vegas for the first night in 13 months that nipples are allowed ! #freethenipple
Lol
I am just so damn curious about ladies who worked the last few months with the bikini and pastie rules.
Working like 7 hours in those conditions was too much for me. ;/
I feel like it's going to be such a big night but maybe I'm just in a FOMO mood.

Enjoy the appetizers and champagne purchased for you lol. I'll just be out here working in the sun today. Haha

TheBrownFox
05-01-2021, 09:21 PM
I was at the dollar store because they have cheap beauty products. This guy on the way out, was like “hey girl what’s your name.” I ignored him. He started following me to my car! I didn’t want to call the cops on a black guy, but FUCK DUDE. Had he not stop after I turned around and yelled, “I’m busy!” I probably would have had to! He left me alone. Maybe showing him I wasn’t afraid. I’m not either! Good thing I just bought my pepper spray for my key chain. Now I’m gonna start carrying my taser everywhere I go too! I am sick and tired of sexual harassment on the street. I’m way too old for that shit.

One day, I’m gonna post that I pepper sprayed and used my taser. I’m seriously at my breaking point. One day, I’m just gonna be like, “not today satan, not today.”


I feel you!

I'm so sick of these guys who act like they can't handle rejection/being told no. They really need to stop with this shit when a woman isn't giving them the response they're looking for. All of that "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again" stuff they taught us as kids doesn't apply here. If the woman ain't interested, FUCK OFF! Because now you're being a straight-up creep!

Today I had a DoorDash delivery guy say to me "You were supposed to text me, but you never did." Huh? No, dude. I'm not "supposed" to do shit. YOU told me to text you, and I obviously wasn't interested. Never told you that I would. Just because you come here a bit often doesn't mean you are ENTITLED to my phone number. I'm hoping this guy will fuck off with that kind of talk after today, but if it comes up again I'll just report him to DD and hope I don't get him anymore. It really irritates me when it's guys who have my address (delivery drivers...Lyft drivers) who act like this. Just do your damn job, and stop trying to hound women into hooking up with you.

moneybags
05-02-2021, 01:00 AM
^^^creepy...

I got bank over draft fees! I thought I closed my account. Apparently not! Gonna take care of it Monday. For fucks sake!

LoveyDovey
05-02-2021, 10:41 AM
God. Men are so creepy and annoying.

indiegirl
05-03-2021, 04:28 AM
Coulda slapped a bitch if I saw him. Do not book me if you did not check the prices/refuse the prices that are placed blatantly clear on my ad. This audio guy who works in the entertainment business was expecting me to go down to LA and pay me 300 bucks along with the constant back and forth emails/verification BS. Entertainment men can be some cheap mf'ers sometimes. Why don't you go down to skid row and offer the same because this is ridiculous with me trying to save my money and all my bills? I'm not doing this job and risking my health/life for cheap crap anymore. He was willing to pay for my uber roundtrip without me asking which means he got this info off of someone else from the past.

Times have changed and a bitch is done with BS when she says she is. The cheaper a man is the worse the behavior. I want no part of it.

Sorry again I'm ranting. I wasted about an hour of my time as well as getting ready for nobody.

WendiStarr
05-03-2021, 08:19 AM
After getting through all the loops and hoops bs, watching common sense videos on how to sign up for classes, campus safety(which won't apply anyways since I'll be an online student), and responsible student loan crap, I see that no classes for my chosen major are available for the summer semester. I don't know if it's because they already filled up or not offered in the summer semester. Man, I feel like I just keeping hitting brick wall after brick wall with trying to further my education.

carmen_b
05-03-2021, 10:04 AM
Omg. The day job customers from Sat. still didn't pay the invoice.

So I worked in the sun 7 hours for $20 so far.
I gave the $200 to my assistant for the day ( the deposit was only $220 ).

I emailed and offered to go over some details and reduced the invoice to $400 instead of $475.
I also offered some extra help today for a couple hours ( no charge ) if they need it.
I was trying to show some gestures of good will.

If you have a complaint at least discuss with me so we can both explain our sides it v.s. just stealing. ;/

Anyway lesson learned ( if I ever approve a similar thing again for my team we will get paid in full a week before ).

I have a bunch of photos too if they claim things were a " disaster " .
There were very small issues ( very very small that people wouldn't even notice not behind the scenes ).

whirlerz
05-03-2021, 12:48 PM
This remote job, there's some log in crap, we have to do, she's helping everyone thru it, meanwhile, I & probably others never even got a password we needed for it in the 1st place?

I got a phone call about a zoom interview for dental position, Im going to try it.

Btw, its only for the training, some of it.
What.a.clusterfuck!

Meanwhile, roomie who's moving out knocks on my door, which I'm not answering!
Had to drag the dumpsters up, of course!

carmen_b
05-03-2021, 01:40 PM
Wheeeewwww.
I just feel so blah today.

I know I've been posting on here so much lol !
Time to get it together hahahah .
Before I crack into more whining I just plan to put something on the calendar that is either pleasure related then something on that is productive.

moneybags
05-03-2021, 01:53 PM
^^^same.

Life is really challenging right now. I try to not be negative, but its like always something. I need to work, but the apartment people are in my apartment tomorrow. I really wanted to wake up early and cam, but it’s not going to happen.

I’m trying to save money, earn money, eat healthy, workout. I’m trying soo hard to recover from coronavirus. It’s not easy right now.

carmen_b
05-03-2021, 01:57 PM
^ Yeah between being emotionally depleted ( customer theft ) and my weird bladder pain thing I modified my schedule this week. Like I planned to be napping in Vegas right now prepping to strip a couple nights. :/
Being on stage with a bladder on fire ... sounds awful . :/

I’ve got basic bills covered but I wanted some bigger weeks / fun stuff scheduled .
The trip was less about chasing big money and more about just trying to have a life for a couple days.

moneybags
05-03-2021, 03:59 PM
^ Yeah between being emotionally depleted ( customer theft ) and my weird bladder pain thing I modified my schedule this week. Like I planned to be napping in Vegas right now prepping to strip a couple nights. :/
Being on stage with a bladder on fire ... sounds awful . :/

I’ve got basic bills covered but I wanted some bigger weeks / fun stuff scheduled .
The trip was less about chasing big money and more about just trying to have a life for a couple days. I’m trying to be smart about time man agent and being in a club not feeling great never really works.

Same. I have health issues and it really is depressing. Life just sucks. I’m trying to make the best of it. I’ll try to stay positive. At least, I don’t have COVID long haulers. I have hope my life will get better. It’s just going to take time. It’s not my fault a pandemic shut down my business. I was in school doing all the right things and then life happened. That’s just life. Fall down 9 get up 10. I’ll try not to vent as much anymore though. As I don’t want to be a negative Nancy. I need to start taking my LOA practice more seriously.

whirlerz
05-03-2021, 04:26 PM
This remote job, there's some log in crap, we have to do, she's helping everyone thru it, meanwhile, I & probably others never even got a password we needed for it in the 1st place?

I got a phone call about a zoom interview for dental position, Im going to try it.

Btw, its only for the training, some of it.
What.a.clusterfuck!

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Still sitting here, I know she's not going to get to me.

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2021, 04:47 PM
Man, I feel like I just keeping hitting brick wall after brick wall with trying to further my education.


Saaaaaame *hugs*

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2021, 04:52 PM
I almost got into it with someone at work today. I'm done ignoring bitchy little people's bitchy little comments. It is not difficult to not be a cunt-bag at work. People get in my way all the time on accident - it inconveniences me for less than 10 seconds. I just roll my eyes and move on. There's no need to be a fucking bitch about it.

I've usually pretended I didn't hear people and walked away when they make their dumb, snarky comment. But I had had it today. Luckily, after I snapped back for the 3rd time, the guy decided he didn't want to argue and just stopped and walked away instead. Good. Cuz if he really wanted to press me on his opinion about how I'm "supposed" to do my job, I was about to rant and rampage. Fucking people.

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2021, 04:56 PM
Also, work fucked me over. I picked up a voluntary OT shift for tomorrow. But then they called mandatory OT for the same day, and switched my shift. I was slightly annoyed, because it meant I would get off later, but oh well. Then today, they announced that they cancelled the mandatory shift, and just... took it away from me. Didn't give me back my shift that I had picked up before, and there's no more voluntary OT left for tomorrow. So there goes 10 hours of OT pay I was banking on for this week. Thanks, jokers.

chanzep
05-03-2021, 05:41 PM
Wow they are assholes.

Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2021, 05:48 PM
Apple keeps trying to fuck with my phone to force me to buy a new one. Their new thing the last couple weeks is that my internet without wifi just suddenly stops working at all for hours in the middle of the day.

xxxGothBarbie
05-03-2021, 11:50 PM
Beyond sick & tired of my bf whining constantly about the same shit and never fixing his issues ugh. So not attracted to that part of him anymore. Im so ready to be freeee.

indiegirl
05-04-2021, 07:31 AM
I need towels for my appointment number two but apparently he needed to use up all the towels for himself. I was told to invest a few thousand into cryptocurrency (have the names of them).....I was that person at the penny slot machine though trying to save money but having a good time. I felt like I had to explain to my customer about my fear lol. I'm scared of the unknown. I think I want to start at 5 bucks just to see (I'm a scared bitch) and prolly laugh at my price choice later.

Already posted on this but I'm nervous. lol

carmen_b
05-04-2021, 08:58 AM
^ Hide all but one in closet.
That’s what I’d do for massage incalls / hotel.

Aurora_Sunset
05-04-2021, 09:24 AM
Since I have the day off now, I switched my after-work plasma appointment to this morning, but they were so backed up and short-staffed, I ended up leaving. I had already been there for over an hour, and there were still 8 people in front of me to even do the preliminary screening-in questions. I wasn't about to spend 4 hours of my day off at the plasma center. But now this, combined with the shift I got taken from me, I'm down 0ver $200 in income this week that I was planning. Guess I'll hold off on that new $200 fitbit I had sitting in my online shopping cart. :(

Husband told me to just enjoy my day off and not do any cleaning or anything stressful, but the complex posted notice that pest control will be visiting our units on Thursday. I don't know exactly what that entails or what they'll look at, but mostly, I don't know if the pest control people are a separate company or "work for" the complex, in so far as they know what the rules on pets are and if they'll rat us out if they know we're breaking them. I feel like I have to figure out a way to hide the snake tank and one of the cats (we're only allowed 2). I have no idea how to do that. The tank, at least, will involve rearranging and cleaning a lot of shit so I can put it elsewhere in a closet or something for the day.

Aurora_Sunset
05-04-2021, 09:26 AM
I need towels for my appointment number two but apparently he needed to use up all the towels for himself. I was told to invest a few thousand into cryptocurrency (have the names of them).....I was that person at the penny slot machine though trying to save money but having a good time. I felt like I had to explain to my customer about my fear lol. I'm scared of the unknown. I think I want to start at 5 bucks just to see (I'm a scared bitch) and prolly laugh at my price choice later.

Already posted on this but I'm nervous. lol

I also stick to the penny slots, fully confident that I'll lose my money, but trying to just have fun while keeping the damage to a minimum lol I've been seeing so much around lately about investing in crypto that I felt like it was a sign to learn more and get into it. My book on it just arrived today.

moneybags
05-04-2021, 09:41 AM
Dealing with a medical bill. They haven’t submitted it through my insurance. The lady straight up lied to me or is an idiot. Maybe she is assuming I’ll give up and pay my bill out of frustration. Nope. I’ll let it go to collections. I’m not paying for something I’m not responsible for.

When I know I’m right about something, I’m a complete bitch. I hate having my time wasted. I don’t like being tried.