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WendiStarr
05-04-2021, 09:52 AM
My toxic mom and her pity party posts on facebook. My brother was trying to set up dinner and gifts drop off for that day and she got all mad that people don't want to have dinner at her apartment. Fyi, she has a tiny 1 bedroom apartment and all 7 of us kids + 4 grandkids would be packed. She has a small loveseat and a tiny table with 2 chairs. Her place is too small to be having a bunch of people there. She said that she doesn't want anything for mother's day and that we ruined her entire day, week, and weekend now and made multiple posts on Facebook about how mother's day is coming and none of her kids care, how people need to appreciate their mothers, etc. You have 7 of us and you treat most of us like crap most of the time! Tell the whole story. At least my brother can rest assured that she will forgive him because he's one of her 2 coveted male children that she typically puts up on a pedestal, among her 5 lowly girls.

moneybags
05-04-2021, 10:07 AM
^^^i just got my mom a card. It took my awhile to find that wasn’t a complete lie. I think it says, “I hope you have a nice Mother’s Day.” Nothing overly sentimental. My mom isn’t terrible and she tries to make amends, but she falls short enough that I have put her in toxic category. Having a toxic mom isn’t something I would wish on anyone. It’s literally the most stressful relationship in my life. I’m sorry Wendistarr. Don’t let her ruin your Mother’s Day.

indiegirl
05-04-2021, 04:19 PM
Needy ass people. He's been contacting me for an entire month for our appointment tomorrow. And if I didn't respond in a few days he would continue messaging me how I haven't responded. I didn't even bother screening him because I know this type A personality customer. He's acting like he's about to board a plane from China specifically to see me and "it's critical that I get back to him" UGHH. Fucking annoying! Usually get messages like this if they are from out of state and spending thousands. It's only a 2 hour drive from San Diego for 500 bucks and nonstop planning no perfume because he's allergic with heels letting me know details all throughout last month. He even sent me a few voicemails, texts, and emails today. Chill bruh! Just show up or contact me when you finish your drive! I've been really short in all of my messages because it's getting annoying.

indiegirl
05-05-2021, 08:51 AM
I hate men more by the day. That excuse of doing it too long is BS. Why so I can move on and you pull the same to someone else and is naive?

moneybags
05-05-2021, 07:42 PM
My apartment maintenance guy didn’t wear a mask and that’s so rude. I’m almost fully vaccinated. I opened up the window. I wasn’t really concerned, but it’s just annoying. I’m mad at myself for not saying anything. I’m just so exhausted. Honestly I have a fear of white men. Because I’ve had to speak against them and it never goes well. I guess subconsciously I knew I’m out numbered by Trump supporters. I guess I’ll give myself compassion. I am outnumbered by these anti vaccine and anti maskers. If I didn’t have my vaccine, i would have made him put one on. Seems like asking to see proof of vaccine and wearing mask will be like asking a guy to wear a rubber. I know I need to advocate for myself. It’s such a fight. Sometimes I just don’t feel like fighting, but I should speak up from now on. Oh well.

indiegirl
05-05-2021, 08:02 PM
I've had Whitney Houston- I have nothing song stuck in my head all day. Get out Whitney I'm done with your song! LOL

miss.a.p1600
05-05-2021, 09:01 PM
My apartment maintenance guy didn’t wear a mask and that’s so rude. I’m almost fully vaccinated. I opened up the window. I wasn’t really concerned, but it’s just annoying. I’m mad at myself for not saying anything. I’m just so exhausted. Honestly I have a fear of white men. Because I’ve had to speak against them and it never goes well. I guess subconsciously I knew I’m out numbered by Trump supporters. I guess I’ll give myself compassion. I am outnumbered by these anti vaccine and anti maskers. If I didn’t have my vaccine, i would have made him put one on. Seems like asking to see proof of vaccine and wearing mask will be like asking a guy to wear a rubber. I know I need to advocate for myself. It’s such a fight. Sometimes I just don’t feel like fighting, but I should speak up from now on. Oh well.

i had a similar experience

dude was all in my personal space whilst completing ignoring the 6ft distance circles sticker on the floor

granted he did have a mask on but still........like damn bruh? Really?!?

His ass was so close to me the damn store workers was like “y’all together” and I blurted out NO!

I would have said something to him but he was on the phone and I figured he’d try to get ratchet just to show out to whomever on the phone, I didn’t have a weapon, and I didn’t feel like physically fighting unless he was breathing really hard or coughing or whatnot then I’d be free of legal ramifications.

like how hard is it to stand on the mf social distancing floor sticker???

moneybags
05-05-2021, 09:15 PM
^^^yeah. I guess I’m not weak ass bitch. People are literally assaulting people over this damn virus. It’s smart to avoid quarrels. It’s not my home it’s an apartment, so it makes sense I don’t want to have issues with people who work and live here. I’m getting my second shot this Sunday. Thank God! I know there’s still variants, but I’ll have some piece of mind I’m protected.

carmen_b
05-06-2021, 09:40 AM
Damn.

Now I'm out of the severe bladder pain mode and wondering what I do with those day job clients from last Saturday who didn't pay the $475 invoice.

I offered to bump it down to $400 and it's still sitting there . I worked all day ( 7 hours ) in the sun for that client and made $20 after paying my assistant $200.
All we got was a $220 retainer.

Obviously we need a much larger retainer next time or full payment before starting for a similar job ( it was slightly different that how our jobs normally run ). I do still think we did a good job though and worked hard. Even if there were small issues I wish they would give me anything really ( even $100 - $300 ) . I am not sure if I should send an email suggesting that or not. I've texted and emailed and resent the invoice twice. : /

I might just have to let it go since they seem determined to steal it and take it as a loss.
My partner is saying it's theft and definitely not to let it go but I've seen the retaliation type of bad online review wars that can start from doing this like 20 years.

^ That was my 4th client of 2021. :(

Usually we could move through 40-50 clients before coming across an issue.

moneybags
05-06-2021, 11:26 AM
Damn.

Now I'm out of the severe bladder pain mode and wondering what I do with those day job clients who didn't pay the $475 invoice.

I offered to bump it down to $400 and it's still sitting there . I worked all day ( 7 hours ) in the sun for that client and made $20 after paying my assistant $200.
All we got was a $220 retainer.

Obviously we need a much larger retainer next time or full payment before starting for a similar job ( it was slightly different that how our jobs normally run ). I do still think we did a good job though and worked hard. Even if there were small issues I wish they would give me anything really ( even $100 - $300 ) . I am not sure if I should send an email suggesting that or not. I've texted and emailed and resent the invoice twice. : /

I might just have to let it go since they seem determined to steal it and take it as a loss.
My partner is saying it's theft and definitely not to let it go but I've seen the retaliation type of bad online review wars that can start from doing this like 20 years.

^ That was my 4th client of 2021. :(

Usually we could move through 40-50 clients before coming across an issue.

You can scare them by sending them a letter for small claims court? If you get prepaid legal they can send those letter and most people will settle

carmen_b
05-06-2021, 11:34 AM
^ Yeah I’m debating if it’s worth fighting about or not.

I’m not sure if offering to get paid less would upset them even more.

When I’ve had a person complain before ( last time was over two years ago ) I knew they were not happy.
This was more subtle. My assistant heard some snide remarks but I was so busy and over heated I don’t even know what was said. It seemed in poor taste ( at the time ) to linger until I got paid but obviously I wish I would have lingered now / conversed right then and there . It didn’t strike as bad enough at the time .

Staci
05-06-2021, 11:40 AM
^ Yeah I’m debating if it’s worth fighting about or not.

I’m not sure if offering to get paid less would upset them even more.

You can't call and actually speak with a person rather than deal via text/emails?

You may have a better chance of reaching a settlement if you can discuss their grievances and ask them what they think would be fair or what they suggest as a way to resolve the pay dispute.

WendiStarr
05-06-2021, 12:31 PM
^ I think it just shows whatever is most prevalent or popular on Instagram. Mine seems to always be full of half naked Instagram women with flawless hourglass shaped bodies and/or the whole huge boobs, tiny waist, and big ass look. I feel like an ugly mom bod cow compared to them and I'd rather see animals or lighthouses which is what I follow on Instagram.

Guys who expect a lot for very little. This douchecanoe tipped me a whole $5 on mfc and then blew up my inbox with asking me where I'm from, if I have any amateur porn on any tube sites that he can watch for free, and a 3rd message, claiming to be generous, asking if I'd be willing to meet in person so that he could "see how tight that pussy is". Dude, if you can't even afford to buy a cam show or tip more than $5, what makes you think I'd want to meet up with you? I'd never meet any cam custies in person anyways but still.

moneybags
05-06-2021, 05:35 PM
So, 3 quizzes on my training, which I cant log in to take, a final tomorrow, 90% required to pass?

Take a deep breath and try later. They could be doing maintenance. You’ll get it figured out.

carmen_b
05-07-2021, 08:22 AM
I called the city office for the place I bought a one year entertainer license last Feb. 2020.

I asked if they were doing extensions for these licenses given that no one was able to work after late March 2020 until about April 2021. They are not.

HOW is that legal ? They can't even meet girls in the MIDDLE and extend the license expiration 6 months out ?
I may call back and keep going up the chain hahaha and asking for an exception. It's only $100 but extending just seems like the right thing to do.

indiegirl
05-07-2021, 08:39 AM
I spent 80 bucks on flowers for a gift along with a balloon and delivery fees.....:(!!! What the heck happened with flower prices!

JGB2009
05-07-2021, 10:07 AM
I didn't close my gate and my neighbor came by and drove up in my yard. My dogs heard him and started barking and better yet he started calling my phone. Because of this ordeal I was not able to use my sound during a cam show. From now on I must remember to close my gate.

WendiStarr
05-07-2021, 12:14 PM
My oldest daughter's dad is accusing me of stealing his EBT card. I had no idea why he'd need one anyways since he works in the medical field, making $81k a year. Apparently he got fired for refusing to get the covid vaccine. He thinks that somehow the government would send his EBT card to me since he pays me child support. Uh, buddy no. Unless you put this address, it's not coming here and I certainly am not traveling 45 miles to go and steal your mail either, dude. You're delusional!

whirlerz
05-07-2021, 01:03 PM
I don't get why they gave a card to someone making that high of a salary?

& they accuse regular people of ripping off benefits!

Genoveve
05-07-2021, 04:37 PM
I spent 80 bucks on flowers for a gift along with a balloon and delivery fees.....:(!!! What the heck happened with flower prices!

I think that's actually really reasonable, $80 including the gift, balloon and delivery fees? My mom likes to get flowers for holidays and I never end up spending under $120 on just flowers.


I didn't close my gate and my neighbor came by and drove up in my yard. My dogs heard him and started barking and better yet he started calling my phone. Because of this ordeal I was not able to use my sound during a cam show. From now on I must remember to close my gate.

Speaking of annoying neighbors; my landlady lives next-door to me and for some reason her son, who's in his fifties and thankfully lives out of state, thinks I am his buddy. Every now and then he visits for a few days and it's so annoying because he tries to come up with ways to have to run into me or interact with me. Fortunately I am able to thwart them. The other day though when he was visiting sure enough he comes over knocking on my door, he does it two times and I ignored them both because I am under no obligation to deal with anyone that I didn't invite over. I had the side screen door open though, I was hoping he would come around to try that door because if he did I was going to yell "I AM TAKING A SHIT" LOL. I know the only reason he wants to talk to me is because I'm probably the only attractive young woman that he has access to, so it would be fun for me to make it into a gross and awkward situation for him and he'd probably never do it again. Later on that night when I went outside I saw that he left mail, which made me really roll my eyes because you don't have to talk to me to do that......you just deliver it and leave.

miss.a.p1600
05-07-2021, 08:18 PM
I hate listening to people, aka men who are supposed to be leaders, acting like bitches and rambling on in their self loathing.

Man up! And quit wallowing in your pity

chanzep
05-08-2021, 10:22 AM
I'm sick of men. Not e an in the dating sense just in general at work and so called family members. They are so selfish and demanding. They don't respect space. I want to be a dominatrix and beat the shit out of them.
I also hate the men in here in every section commenting. Like if I want to talk to you I would go on Reddit or be at a club getting paid. I don't know why anyone gives them the time of day.

indiegirl
05-08-2021, 12:20 PM
I was mad at my shirt and pants, stupid texts from scam advertisement sites I blocked who use new phone numbers to text me, and someone talking too fast this morning. Left boob is gonna hurt for weeks and just started due to the random PCOS issues. Super fun monthly process before my period. My mindset is turning around now that I'm home. I'm gonna nap and head back out in the evening. Gotta work on the LVN progress on Monday.

whirlerz
05-08-2021, 02:48 PM
I'm sick of men. Not e an in the dating sense just in general at work and so called family members. They are so selfish and demanding. They don't respect space. I want to be a dominatrix and beat the shit out of them.
I also hate the men in here in every section commenting. Like if I want to talk to you I would go on Reddit or be at a club getting paid. I don't know why anyone gives them the time of day.

Lol.
Try living w/5 of them!:O

I hear ya tho, so true!

LoveyDovey
05-08-2021, 06:56 PM
^^^ugh I will never live with a group of men ever again. They are just too gross for words. The only men I'd ever live with again is my son (who is 19) and my boyfriend.

miss.a.p1600
05-08-2021, 08:14 PM
Annoyed.

indiegirl
05-09-2021, 12:21 AM
My psoriasis is getting worse and I'm so pissed it's acting up after 5 years ago of it being bad and finally feeling free of it. Then I have to wait for the skin healing process. I need a cheap high coverage foundation to cover it up for appointments. Light therapy made it worse and the topical cream the doctors gave me did nothing....this time I'm just gonna put foundation on my legs, stomach, some on my arms, and back until it goes away. I don't wanna go through my expensive foundation for months like I did last time. I'm so mad this is happening again.

JGB2009
05-09-2021, 07:58 AM
Your mood swings are a bit much. You can be such a ungrateful BITCH!!!!!!

Aurora_Sunset
05-09-2021, 12:50 PM
I put my real estate license into referral mode since it was time to pay my yearly board fees, and I really don't have the money to do it, and don't even have time for the real estate thing now anyway. I did it online after talking to my manager, and put in a request to transfer my license to referral status with the same company - makes fucking sense, right? Well, apparently, I needed to select a transfer to a new company and put in a new "company code" - that is still for the same damn company, it's just a different code. This admin lady didn't tell me or my manager that until I had already done it "wrong."

Which meant I had to cancel my request and make a new one - they both cost $11. I know it's not a huge amount of money, but it still pissed me off I had to spend it again for a do-over. Like, maybe put this critical piece of information literally ANYWHERE in the email I was sent about where and how to transfer? How the fuck was I just randomly supposed to know that?

TheBrownFox
05-09-2021, 01:48 PM
I like how my ungrateful, self-absorbed son didn't acknowledge Mothers Day. I'm looking forward to having the house to myself in June when he leaves for PA for two months...and then when he leaves for college in August. Just me, myself, and I here...no bad attitude or backtalk.

He's gonna be in for a rude awakening when he's out in the real world on his own living with a roommate, and realizes that oversleeping and dragging your ass in the morning (Because you "wanna do things on your own schedule when you feel like it") and missing buses will result in getting fired from your job...being late for class...etc. And Mommy ain't gonna be there to knock on the bedroom door shouting "Hey, come on! You're gonna be late!" He's gonna find himself in situations where it'll finally dawn on him "Hey, my mom was right..."

Like how you should always make sure to already be AT a bus stop AT LEAST 5 minutes prior to the scheduled departure time. Not be walking out of your fucking bedroom at that time, and then walking downstairs and into the kitchen.

I remember my grandmom once lecturing me about the "Always be at least 5 minutes early" thing, and she was absolutely right.

He'll find out soon enough.....

Aurora_Sunset
05-09-2021, 01:52 PM
While I don't agree with anti-vaxxers, I do legitimately understand that some people are concerned about the new covid vaccine since it's so new. I don't necessarily judge people for not getting it for that reason. What I do judge people hard for is when they make stupid comments like, "Why the hell would I get it if I still have to wear a mask afterward?" Because, you blithering buffoon, the second that you personally get vaccinated does not magically make everyone else in the world vaccinated at that precise moment. But in order to reach that point where enough people are vaccinated that we can stop wearing masks, you have to join the list of vaccinated people at some point. It's a process. Your personal vaccination is just one small spot in the process. Taking one step doesn't mean you've run a marathon, but every individual step has to happen to get to the end of the race.

These are the same people that then go on to talk about how Bill Gates just wants everyone to get jabbed with a microchip.... so I guess their brain power isn't up to speed anyway.

Aurora_Sunset
05-09-2021, 01:57 PM
It's Mother's Day, and of course, bio-mom didn't have the kids call me. She never does. I shouldn't have to call them on Mother's Day - that feels weird and like I'm fishing for attention. I just love how she's always spouting off stuff about wanting us to be "great" co-parents, talking about how we should all be considered "equal" parents (yeah right) and treat all the kids exactly like they were our own, and giving me lectures on how I'm "a mom to these kids now," when she wants me to do some shit exactly her way, but she apparently doesn't see any point in having "our" kids acknowledge me on Mother's Day.

Aurora_Sunset
05-09-2021, 02:09 PM
The new apartment just called to tell us there was an issue with the unit we were supposed to move into and we have to move into a different one. I'm pissed, because this is exactly what happened that last time we moved. We have everything scheduled to transfer to the new address and now we have to change it all again - and it will get super fucked up because of it. The mail especially will be messed up for months. I'm also really upset, because we specifically picked a unit that faces a grassy space, and now the new one will just be staring at a damn parking lot, which we've spent the last 2 years doing.

Why can't one goddam thing go right?

I was looking for something I wrote awhile ago, and stumbled upon this post I made in January. Had to laugh, because I was right - everything got fucked up, and the mail was messed up for months. ::)

LoveyDovey
05-09-2021, 04:38 PM
^^^ She sounds awful, bio mom. Wants you to do the work and receive none of the recognition. I don't think I could imagine lecturing my son's dad's (now ex) girlfriend like that. If anything, I thanked her for taking care of my kid. I actually really liked her a lot. She was always super respectful of both me and my son and I didn't want my son to see her and me being bitchy to each other. It doesn't send a good message to the kids.

moneybags
05-09-2021, 06:50 PM
Streamate! They take forever to get shit done and it’s messing with my money! Hopefully by the time I’m ready to work they have everything updated.

AChildOfBoredom
05-09-2021, 11:10 PM
Took the dog out one last time for the night, and she did absolutely nothing. So I had a hard time falling asleep because I knew she’d be by the door and howling at some point during the night. Sure enough, right as I fall asleep (or at least it felt like it), she decides she has to go out for real. And of course since I’m up now, the cat expects treats (she’s spoiled rotten thanks to others in this house, but given her age, I’m not going to try changing that now) and of course Beagle sees the cat getting treats and expects them, as well.

Aurora_Sunset
05-10-2021, 04:29 AM
^^^ She sounds awful, bio mom. Wants you to do the work and receive none of the recognition. I don't think I could imagine lecturing my son's dad's (now ex) girlfriend like that. If anything, I thanked her for taking care of my kid. I actually really liked her a lot. She was always super respectful of both me and my son and I didn't want my son to see her and me being bitchy to each other. It doesn't send a good message to the kids.

The kind of crap she likes to get on me about is dumb shit like hearing from the kids that sometimes, I go back to our bedroom and lock the door for 30 minutes so I can nap undisturbed, or get my daily workout in, or get some sort of work done on my computer or a take a phone call without them barging in, running around screaming, and refusing to leave. Like, wow, I'm so horrible. It's not like I do it when I'm the only one here. Their dad is always out there with them. Or once, she tried to get up my ass about not coming to most of my stepson's basketball games - on Saturdays... when I work... Yet, every time I do show up to some sort of activity with the kids, I have literally never seen their stepdad, because he's always working or sleeping from working late the night before, or has some other thing to do. Guess it's ok for him to have an excuse, but not me. ::)

This is also the woman who once tried to take the high ground with my husband, because their go-to method of discipline is spanking, and we don't do that - especially since the kids (especially the 9yo) really aren't at a super young age where you can't just talk to them or send them to time-out or ground them and explain why what they did was wrong. She was mad that we don't paddle them, because it makes our house look like harsh than hers and makes them look like the assholes. Sounds like a you problem...

Aurora_Sunset
05-10-2021, 05:14 AM
I saw a video of people hyping up these waffle-patterned leggings that apparently went viral from TikTok, because they make your butt look amazing. I went to the comments just to see if other people had had similar, real experiences, and there were soooo many hateful comments from men and women trashing women they had seen wearing them out in public. Like, "omg, leave something to the imagination, ladies!" "I would ONLY ever wear these in my house, around my own husband!" "Attention whores!"

It honestly blew me away. It's fucking 2021. I guess I mostly hang out with more progressive, feminist people, and on here with you fellow hos, that sometimes I forget how completely misogynistic and gross a lot of the world still is about women doing what the fuck they want with their bodies.

LoveyDovey
05-10-2021, 06:43 AM
The kind of crap she likes to get on me about is dumb shit like hearing from the kids that sometimes, I go back to our bedroom and lock the door for 30 minutes so I can nap undisturbed, or get my daily workout in, or get some sort of work done on my computer or a take a phone call without them barging in, running around screaming, and refusing to leave. Like, wow, I'm so horrible. It's not like I do it when I'm the only one here. Their dad is always out there with them. Or once, she tried to get up my ass about not coming to most of my stepson's basketball games - on Saturdays... when I work... Yet, every time I do show up to some sort of activity with the kids, I have literally never seen their stepdad, because he's always working or sleeping from working late the night before, or has some other thing to do. Guess it's ok for him to have an excuse, but not me. ::)

This is also the woman who once tried to take the high ground with my husband, because their go-to method of discipline is spanking, and we don't do that - especially since the kids (especially the 9yo) really aren't at a super young age where you can't just talk to them or send them to time-out or ground them and explain why what they did was wrong. She was mad that we don't paddle them, because it makes our house look like harsh than hers and makes them look like the assholes. Sounds like a you problem...

She sounds awful. My smart ass would probably ask her where the stepdad is, seeing that Saturday morning game attendance is mandatory. Sorry you have to deal with her. Sounds like she has boundary issues.

carmen_b
05-10-2021, 08:58 AM
Aurora :
30 min ?!?

Lol
I’ve locked myself upstairs for 2-3 hours at a time to work ( just like you complete with locking door ). Don’t bend on having “ you “ time or you’ll just be miserable duh !!!

carmen_b
05-10-2021, 09:00 AM
^ In addition I leave the house during business hours a lot to seek out quiet work time. Don’t let this get to you. :)

Adults work during their business hours. It’s nothing to be ashamed of sheesh.

carmen_b
05-10-2021, 09:03 AM
I’m boarding a plane for the first time in 14 months !!
Woo Hoo !!!

WendiStarr
05-10-2021, 10:22 AM
I'm not liking that groundhog anymore. I caught him digging up some of the flowers that we planted yesterday. I had to put all of my flower pots up off the ground so that he can't reach them. I doubt he'll bother my mint or lavender that's planted in the ground at least.

whirlerz
05-10-2021, 10:27 AM
Wendi, maybe there's something you can get to keep him/her away?

OMG, w/this job, almost 400 in training, I waited an hour to get in, my one thing I was able to get into no longer works

indiegirl
05-10-2021, 12:57 PM
I'm not liking that groundhog anymore. I caught him digging up some of the flowers that we planted yesterday. I had to put all of my flower pots up off the ground so that he can't reach them. I doubt he'll bother my mint or lavender that's planted in the ground at least.


Lol dunno why but this video reminded me of your situation lollll. https://youtu.be/CdKwO4JPIG8?t=39

WendiStarr
05-10-2021, 03:04 PM
BD starting his shit about how much he loves me and wants to be with me, meanwhile his text messages look like:

"hey beautiful, do you do outcall? Do u do fsbb?" , sent to 8 different numbers. Only one responded asking where to and he said the city name of where his remote cottage is. He got a "kno way to far"(yes, I purposely misspelled it just as his "friend" did) response. I told him that dying of AIDs isn't on my list of priorities.

miss.a.p1600
05-10-2021, 08:10 PM
I swear guys can be so dumb sometimes......FFS stop being so stupid, mansplaining, procrastinating, and being hypocritical!!!!

Something will happen after they do something (warning flags pop up), they keep doing that same thing, and their dumb ass fail to realize like 'hey stop doing that, so you can get a different result'

Now I see why women be feminists n whatnot.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-11-2021, 01:08 PM
I swear guys can be so dumb sometimes......FFS stop being so stupid, mansplaining, procrastinating, and being hypocritical!!!!

Something will happen after they do something (warning flags pop up), they keep doing that same thing, and their dumb ass fail to realize like 'hey stop doing that, so you can get a different result'

Now I see why women be feminists n whatnot.

I think some men have to cling to their anti-woman beliefs to feel manly. I still remember the cringe worthy shit one of my high school classmates would say about women in general b/c he was a loser with the ladies. Sour grapes, man. Sour grapes.

Genoveve
05-11-2021, 02:36 PM
Flower rant incoming: So my mom and I both share the same favorite color: purple. She loves to get flowers for the holidays and for years she always asked for purple irises. They are one of her favorite flowers but after a while I began wondering if she always requested them because they're a less expensive flower, so the last few years I got bougie and switched to purple roses. This is a naturally purple rose:

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As you can see it is lavender. Anyways so last year when she wanted flowers for her birthday I decided to do a throwback and do irises again because it had been a long time and I was getting bored with the roses. They didn't have any because it was October so I ended up doing roses again. So for Mother's Day I figured it's Spring, they should have irises. I wanted to do a big bouquet of like 3 dozen irises, no filler. Just a huge bunch of irises. The florist told me that they couldn't guarantee that they'd be able to come up with enough irises for that. I saw on their website that their 'purple' roses had very pink edges and so they looked more pink than purple IMO, and I did not want pink flowers. I told them that I like purple roses but didn't want the pinkish kind that was on the site, the florist said it was no problem and that they could get purely lavender ones. THE ONES THAT ENDED UP IN THE BOUQUET ARE ALL PINKISH. I wanted to cry when I saw the pics but I was too lazy. It's one of the ugliest bouquets I've ever seen. This is it:

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Also WHY they used a cool-toned purple grape fucking kool aid-colored bow on a pinkish, warm-toned bouquet is beyond me. That's not going to trick the flowers into looking more purple it's going to make them look 100% more pink. I wanted to call the florist and ask them what part of "no pink" did they not understand, but my mom loves the flowers(well she agreed that the bow was hideous lol) and since that's the only opinion that really matters I feel like why be a Karen just for the sake of my own idiosyncrasy. Plus what I think may have happened is when I initially told the florist I didn't like them because they looked pink, she thought I meant straight up pink instead of pinkish purple, and she knew they actually were mostly purple in person and assumed it would be fine. :grumpy:

LoveyDovey
05-11-2021, 03:04 PM
The roses aren't purple, but they still are pretty. But that bow? Easy fix though.