View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
indiegirl
06-18-2021, 11:07 PM
When people whine at you to do something with them and the thought in my head is "well I guess we're spending a lot of time at the beach because everything costs money unless you foot the bill."
WendiStarr
06-19-2021, 06:37 AM
BD and his "some of us need to work" bs excuse for being an asshole. Baby appears to have her first cold. She kept me up until midnight and woke up multiple times throughout the night. She's even more clingier than usual and he was bitching at me for letting her sit on my lap. I feel a bit yucky myself this morning. I'm not in the mood for his crap. He should just go back to his cottage. I don't want him here for father's day because he might be even more of an ass.
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 07:02 AM
Your boyfriend must be over the moon. You offered him the job and blowie ;D
Wouldn't surprise me if mechanics get blown in exchange for car repairs. When you got tits and ass you shouldn't have to pay full price lmfaoo.
Fucking car repair shit. The dealership wanted to charge me $941 to repair spark plugs. I laughed at them and said no thanks. My boyfriend , who is a mechanic, can fix that. All I'd have to do is buy the parts and give him a killer blowie, which I am happy to do anyway.
I only went to the dealership because they had to fix a separate recall issue on my car.
Never go to a dealership. They charge you out the ass. They told me it would be $450 to replace 2 tires. I said fuck that and got 2 new tires put on at discount tires for $145.
Fuck the dealership. Took a lot for me not to completely go Karen on them.
JenniferNorth
06-19-2021, 07:03 AM
My toenail polish flat out came off. I was due for a ped and mani anyway but damn, now I get to walk around with missing polish. This will be annoying.
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 07:16 AM
Reflecting on why people hate sex workers...
Vanilla girls will shame and talk shit about you if they knew you are a sex worker. They'll call you names and all kinds of sluts, whores, trash etc. Not to your face of course but especially around their men. Their goal is to make you look bad and keep their men away. They think you'll steal their men. What they don't get is by telling their men they're doing themselves a disservice. They ignite a spark. Their men are now curious if you're proficient at sucking dick and etc.
Vanilla girls have no idea how men are wired and it's not possible to educate them.
JenniferNorth
06-19-2021, 07:26 AM
Vanilla girls should understand sex workers are the least threatening people in terms of stealing their man. I'd rather my hubby go all out with someone at the Bunny Ranch than hang around an ex. I know what that Bunny Ranch worker sees-$$$ and then "thankyoucomeagain!". That ex sees $$$ too, but she would want him to stick around and provide for her on the regular. Seriously, sex workers are not interested in yo man!!!
carmen_b
06-19-2021, 07:36 AM
^ No one wants the man !
Just the $$. Haha
whirlerz
06-19-2021, 08:02 AM
So far: my laptop is completely done.
I agreed (like a jackass) to give the former white trash roomie $25.00, that the crackhead owed him (should of stayed out of it).
This's the jerk that called the cops on me 2wks ago
White trash didn't like my attitude (upset) so he smashed a thing I'd bought for his son by the trash, where he also dumped his unwanted room furniture, including burning part of a dresser in the fire pit.
I quit my call center after 3 days, cause Mgr screamed @ me in front of a room full of ppl.
Had to go back there, see the witch cause I placed an order..
Im @SB's having cold brew waiting for Discovery clothes to open si I can buy undies.
Then on to clear up my storage in future prep for moving.
New landlord just called me, doesn't have a key to front door!?
Im far, I guess no one's home, crackhead locks the front door outta paranoia.
I have a separate entrance.
Got all that, lol?
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 08:05 AM
Exactly my point but they won't get that. They think sex workers are doing it for dick and desperate for men. We're bottom of the barrel, nymphomaniacs.
They're just as Delusional as their men thinking we'll fuck their men for free, LOOL.
Vanilla girls should understand sex workers are the least threatening people in terms of stealing their man. I'd rather my hubby go all out with someone at the Bunny Ranch than hang around an ex. I know what that Bunny Ranch worker sees-$$$ and then "thankyoucomeagain!". That ex sees $$$ too, but she would want him to stick around and provide for her on the regular. Seriously, sex workers are not interested in yo man!!!
chanzep
06-19-2021, 10:16 AM
I have the worst hangover . Drinking all week after not drinking for months. I'm over drinking again. I can't eat a thing I feel so sick.
LoveyDovey
06-19-2021, 12:06 PM
Your boyfriend must be over the moon. You offered him the job and blowie ;D
Wouldn't surprise me if mechanics get blown in exchange for car repairs. When you got tits and ass you shouldn't have to pay full price lmfaoo.
He always told me if I had car repairs, I would never have to pay him to fix it. He would take care of me. <3
I just have to buy the parts.
Marina Starr
06-19-2021, 12:38 PM
It's good to have a man that got you, you don't even have to ask.
I hope you got your car fixed. Spark plugs are not expensive even for luxury cars. Shouldn't take more than an hour for the job.
He always told me if I had car repairs, I would never have to pay him to fix it. He would take care of me. <3
I just have to buy the parts.
LoveyDovey
06-19-2021, 01:06 PM
^^ Thank you :-) I'll probably have him come over after the weekend. He's got his son and it's Father's Day, so after the weekend I'll ask him to come over to help me. He's a good guy. I'm lucky to have him.
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2021, 01:40 PM
L is acting like a wounded victim and then it’s like he won’t do anything to remedy the situation.
Just let his disgruntled ex Bertha run to another city with their kids with no plan in place.
Im like Bruh! Talk to a lawyer.
He refuses saying he don’t want to be in the court system. That’s good n all but disgruntled ex with nothing to lose WILL run to the courts.
If she sues him I’m leaving because I’ve told him multiple times that doing nothing is going to give her leverage.
LoveyDovey
06-19-2021, 02:25 PM
^^ Is it even legal for her to do that? He should at least talk with a family therapist if he doesn't want to talk with a lawyer.
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2021, 03:06 PM
No i don’t think it’s legal. And I tried to tell him that literally doing nothing is proving her point, making it seem like he don’t gaf, etc.
He won’t even hang out with his kids in Father’s Day cause he’s so sad about the whole thing and because he doesn’t feel like dealing with her.
Talking to a therapist sounds like a good idea.
LoveyDovey
06-19-2021, 03:37 PM
You're right, it will seem like he doesn't gaf and that he heeds to man up and be strong for his kids. She is abusing him and she is using the kids as a pawn. Not healthy.
I hate that fathers day is tomorrow. Thank God my rapist pimp father is dead.
xxxGothBarbie
06-19-2021, 11:53 PM
I don't know why I can't just make a fucking decision on where to stay in NYC. Money is an issue bc it's expensive there & I'm trying to cheap out like I always do bc ya fuck paying full price for anything. Parking my car will probably be an expensive nightmare ugh I am so excited but am still in my other hotel a few states away until I'm comfy with my final decision. PMS makes me sooo dam undecisive!
lurkingtitties
06-20-2021, 05:26 AM
^^depending where you are it might not be bad at all finding parking! My friend lives in BK and I can always find free parking easily when I go visit her, Queens is doable too...Manhattan is another story though ngl.
Marina Starr
06-20-2021, 06:52 AM
If you want to stay away from bad drivers don't move to Florida. I love Trader Hoes but I hate their parking lot. The entry is narrow and people like to take up two lanes as if they own the road.
I have to repeatedly tell this black cunt in her SUV to move over in her lane as she was blocking the way. Then this white dude who is white trash has the nerves to step in instead of minding his fucking business. Trash usually stick up for each other and flock together. They both shut the fuck up and quietly drove away after I unleashed my wrath as they should have in the first place.
I can't stand people.
lurkingtitties
06-20-2021, 07:02 AM
Trader Joe’s parking lots are crowded AF most places I’ve been! The one in Philly (my hometown) usually has a parking lot monitor to direct traffic during busy hours...I have no doubt that they are a breeding ground for trashy behavior in FL.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2021, 07:48 AM
^^depending where you are it might not be bad at all finding parking! My friend lives in BK and I can always find free parking easily when I go visit her, Queens is doable too...Manhattan is another story though ngl.
Ya Bklyn is looking like where I might be going haha due to the parking vs Manhattan. I'm just trying to be more centrally located to the clubs I'll be going to so I don't get lost if I'm drunk LOL I def don't wanna get lost using the trains.
miss.a.p1600
06-20-2021, 07:55 AM
Im going out with family for a birthday celebration
I did not invite L because the host did not offer.
I think he’s secretly disgruntled (understandable) because he can’t come along and it’s Father’s Day and he doesn’t feel like paying for his own celebration. However, I don’t have much sympathy for that because I feel like he should be prepared to pay for himself if he really wants to go out. It’s not like his kids have jobs. And if he raised them to be more selfless n generous (leading from his example) then they could have saved up their chore money (which he should have given them weeks in advance) to take him to a little cheap restaurant.
I would arrange something but I know how his ex Bertha broad doesn’t want anyone but her pleasant self (insert sarcasm here) around her little brats. So i feel like he should arrange something with his kids and pay for it.
lynn2009
06-20-2021, 11:46 AM
I am never buying a gas powered tool again. I bought my lawn mower in April and already it's not starting. My neighbor fixed it then it wouldn't start again 5 minutes after he left. Wtf piece of shit. That thing cost over 300 dollars.
lynn2009
06-20-2021, 01:04 PM
Also my cousin has been up my ass lately to go visit and spend the entire July 4 weekend with them. I don't know why she thinks fifth-wheeling with her family is such a great time for me, but no thank you. And she's so cheap too she even said "you'd only have to pay for your own food and any tickets" like oh ok thanks for your sacrifice?? STOPPPP ALREADY.
Aurora_Sunset
06-20-2021, 01:39 PM
My older kitty is suddenly barely drinking water again. It's pretty abrupt too, after almost a year of her being perfectly fine after getting her a bubbling fountain. She has a vet appointment in a week, so I'm adding water to her wet food and giving her an extra serving throughout the day to keep her hydrated.
xxxGothBarbie
06-20-2021, 03:28 PM
Pissed at myself for leaving my candy bar in the hot car. On the other hand after letting is sit on the ac for 20 mins its as good as new & still partially melted...mmm so dam goood. LOL
lynn2009
06-20-2021, 06:18 PM
AND there have been fireworks almost every damn day since memorial day. My poor dog won't even step in the yard without me anymore. Fucking assholes.
Elektra Luxx
06-20-2021, 06:25 PM
I am never buying a gas powered tool again. I bought my lawn mower in April and already it's not starting. My neighbor fixed it then it wouldn't start again 5 minutes after he left. Wtf piece of shit. That thing cost over 300 dollars.
I can't remember if told you, but my sister has an battery operated mower, she loves it. Or just splurge and get a Roomba type lawnmower.
Aurora_Sunset
06-20-2021, 06:26 PM
I didn't feel like doing laundry at 3 today when I first had the thought. Fucked myself over by having to start it at 8:30 when I finally remembered.
lynn2009
06-20-2021, 07:01 PM
I can't remember if told you, but my sister has an battery operated mower, she loves it. Or just splurge and get a Roomba type lawnmower.
I think you did and I have been reading more about them too. I hear the eGo is really good.
moneybags
06-20-2021, 07:48 PM
Had to get my nails redone after going to another salon.
JenniferNorth
06-21-2021, 04:53 AM
Someone (not sure which dog) peed in the living room. So I get to carpet clean again. This housewife shit is overrated, you guys.
Mad at myself for not getting more done. I am so exhausted! Why do I want to sleep all the time? It was just yesterday. Hubby is working again because it's Prime, so I don't know how I am gonna manage these children.
Really indecisive about if I should return to anything more than fetish work. I think I could manage camming again, but I'm not sure if it is a good idea. However, depending on if hubby gets accepted into this program he is applying to, we will need the money soooo....I don't know.
Also, really frustrated I cannot get back on to a decent workout schedule!
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 07:19 AM
L said his daughter wants the room next to ours because she “gets scared” at night.
Im completely against having a damn 8-9 year old coming into my bed. And I’m appalled he’d allow this to go on for so long.
Ive already told him my thoughts on it. Unless you are breastfeeding, you sleep in your own damn bed.
He better enforce it or otherwise Im probably going to sleep nude so my point will be clear.
JenniferNorth
06-21-2021, 07:24 AM
L said his daughter wants the room next to ours because she “gets scared” at night.
Im completely against having a damn 8-9 year old coming into my bed.
Ive already told him my thoughts on it. Unless you are breastfeeding, you sleep in your own damn bed.
He better enforce it or otherwise Im probably going to sleep nude so my point will be clear.
Have her sleep with a nightlight. My 5 year old does. We tell her to go back to bed and lead her back there if she comes in our room. We have a king, but we need our space.
I sleep nude often myself. I mean I guess it is less awkward since I am her mom but yeah, right there with you. Sleep in your own room! Does she normally sleep with Bertha when she gets scared or something? If so, it almost sounds like Bertha is trying to do some co-dependent type crap with the kids.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 07:29 AM
^yeah good idea for a nightlight. I told him I’d walk her back to her bed so I wouldn’t seem like a complete mean person.
I hate sleeping in a bed with other people. I’m only tolerating him in the bed cause well I guess he might be my husband.
carmen_b
06-21-2021, 07:52 AM
^ You don't need to walk her back either really. :)
Kids that age shouldn't be coming into parents rooms ( over like 3-4 years old ) at all at night.
Remember my saga getting J to bring his daughter ( 7 at the time and now 8 ) up to speed ?
I couldn't believe he was setting a pattern of letting her do that .
The mom wasn't helping ( allowing her to co-sleep ) which was ridiculous !
He was embarrassed about it. It took me forever to pull that information out of him !
I'm glad we have all moved past it, ha.
It is really just setting good patterns / reminding them they are now too old to do xyz.
Did you guys let one of your places go is this is an experiment currently of living together and you've kept both ?
I'm just curious. :)
carmen_b
06-21-2021, 07:59 AM
^ I was also telling J that I remembered having sleepovers at friends homes as a kids starting around 9-10.
She is almost that age and do you really want YOUR kid to be that " weird one " that can't hang and has to call and get picked up early ?
I would find that to be embarrassing !
I guess I just feel so passionate about this issue because I can not believe people are not protecting their own personal space and time for adult fun / touch / undisturbed sleep ! My sister for example has a 4 year old that knows better than to dare touch her door at night ! Ha.
WendiStarr
06-21-2021, 08:07 AM
I'm on day 3 of whatever this cold is and I just want to sleep. I have no energy and yesterday was neverending cleaning, cooking, and running around. I legit worry about what if I don't survive whatever this is. What do I do? Bring kids to the hospital with me? I literally have no one up here. I'm sad, frustrated, depressed, hopeless feeling and still all BD wants to do is be an asshole.
Marina Starr
06-21-2021, 08:20 AM
Ebay sellers that have 'best offer' in their listings then you find out the offer they accept would be $1,ONE fucking dollar less of the price of the listing. For $1 fucking dollar, why even bother with the 'best offer' shit?
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 08:55 AM
Im frustrated my by wealthy family members thinking they can throw money around and everyone will just bow down to them.
And the moment you speak your mind/assert yourself then all of a sudden you are the “disrespectful ingrate” and they play the victim role.
I’m fucking done.
I don’t gaf if you’re a multi billionaire, I refuse to be on your payroll n controlled like this is some North Korean dictatorship. North Korea would be more enjoyable vs dealing with you.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 09:06 AM
^ I was also telling J that I remembered having sleepovers at friends homes as a kids starting around 9-10.
She is almost that age and do you really want YOUR kid to be that " weird one " that can't hang and has to call and get picked up early ?
I would find that to be embarrassing !
I guess I just feel so passionate about this issue because I can not believe people are not protecting their own personal space and time for adult fun / touch / undisturbed sleep ! My sister for example has a 4 year old that knows better than to dare touch her door at night ! Ha.
What weird is he coddles his daughter to the point I don’t even think he’s embarrassed. I think he thinks that shit is adorable n cute and it’s not. He has a hard time saying the word “no” to her.
I don’t think his kids have any friends inviting them to sleepovers.
Yeah Hopefully he regulates. I really didn’t want her room next to mine because it’s too easy for her to walk in but hopefully her knowing that her dad is just a few feet away will help her so she won’t come in.
Yeah I guess we are both giving up our current leases and moving in to a house.
Im already giving up a part of my time, privacy, etc having him n his kids there (thankfully Bertha will have them most of the time) all up in my space. But out of all the rooms in that house, the bedroom is MY rules. No big ass overgrown ass kids coming up in there at night.
When he told me she slept in the bed with him last night I wanted to cringe. But then I was thinking “enjoy your last night in bed with your dad” cause this shit about to end.
I’ll make sure walk around my room nude and sleep nude so they’ll regret coming up if they dare lol!!! Then he will be forced to say no to her.
carmen_b
06-21-2021, 09:09 AM
^ It's important to teach kids to be independent too. :)
I'm sure you guys take great care of them in the day .
They don't need to be in your space at night.
If you have a lock on the door use it. If not , install one.
WendiStarr
06-21-2021, 09:41 AM
Did you take a covid test? That is a horrible situation you're in, I wish you could kick BD out of your life and go somewhere where you have a real support system. Not someone like him who is supposed to support you but never does, and instead he does everything to make life worse for you. He seems like a complete asshole at all times, but to be one when you're not well is another level of disrespect and true arsehole lack of manners.No, but I need to get one. To add to the chaos, were having a power outage in my area since 5am and no idea when it'll return. It has been very windy and thunderstorms here.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 10:29 AM
I feel like hell today.
Mentally.
Like I really just want to pretend like I died or something, then up n leave every adult responsibility and annoying ass family/friends, and just start over.
JGB2009
06-21-2021, 11:29 AM
Somehow I was logged out while working....ugh don't know how much time I wasted until I realized I wasn't logged in.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2021, 08:07 PM
I decided to do some gig work on DoorDash. The app glitches and right after I pick up the food the order disappears from my app.
I call customer service they don’t answer
I text and have to wait 20 min to get a hold of someone.
The tech support was like “yeah we are aware if the issue, restart your app, etc”
Now it’s been about 30 min and I still don’t see anything so I figure “hey their app glitch, their fault. Whose gonna eat 30 minute old food?” so I tear the bag open and eat it while I’m driving home.
Next thing I know the app miraculously reopens with his order. I felt hella guilty that he was probably waiting n hungry. But there was nothing I could do about it at this point so I just cancelled the order.
carmen_b
06-22-2021, 07:41 AM
^ I did that and in my city ( at the time ) you could get decent money especially just working like 90 min. at lunch peak and then 90 min. to two hours or so at dinner peaks.
It was good extra money for me.
I remember handing this guy like 4 brownies once ( his full order ) and being like " yeah I know what's up here ". Ha.
It was nice too because I had returned to the city after 5 years and there were a lot more restaurants . It gave me an idea of the food scene ( I would just cancel any cheap or fast food immediately ). Haha. I am not sure if that will ding you now but a couple years ago it wouldn't hurt to cancel any you didn't want.
The main thing that would bother me is when people in higher buildings wouldn't just come down to the lobby area !
I felt like the app was missing an extra " service " option where if I need to find parking and waste time coming to a high level of a bld v.s. a home front door it should cost more.
^ As a customer I NEVER did that. I would always meet my driver at my buildings lobby door after the experience.
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2021, 09:22 AM
Yeah I made sure to screen shot the tech support saying that order wouldn’t affect my ratings. I have found DoorDash to be shady sometimes and will fuck their drivers out of money.
Anyhow, the breakfast is hit or miss unless you get some wealthy people ordering in the am because most people ordering $3 breakfast meals n not tipping or barely tipping then they have the audacity to live halfway across the city from the restaurant. Lunch and dinner rush is better just as you mentioned because higher meal costs mean higher tip.
When I look at the map and see it’s a hotel I decline just cause I hate wasting time finding parking then walking all through the hotel. Only one person at a hotel was actually in the lobby ready. They should tip a little extra for the time and effort.
Same with apartments. I hate driving through, all the damn slowing n breaking for speed bumps, searching for right apartment building. I decline those too unless it’s a high tip.
I’m a customer on DD also so I make sure to tip well n make it easy for the drivers.
Genoveve
06-22-2021, 04:23 PM
Trader Joe’s parking lots are crowded AF most places I’ve been! The one in Philly (my hometown) usually has a parking lot monitor to direct traffic during busy hours...I have no doubt that they are a breeding ground for trashy behavior in FL.
For real. I love TJ's and I have one nearby but I haven't gone to it in years. The parking lot is so annoying that it's not worth it.