View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
KikiGem
04-09-2015, 03:33 PM
OMG I so hate whiners, it's ok if it's a huge issue or a rough day, but people who complain about everything every second are just driving me up the wall. You could hand them a pile of money and they'd complain they got a paper cut counting it.
So much this! I can't stand those people who are always like "I'm sick/tired/bored/etc." I go to school with a girl like this. It's always something, every day, and I don't wanna hear it! Like I'm sooo sorry your butt and thighs are sore from "going hard" at the gym, what do you want me to do about it? Please STFU w/ your negativity I've got problems of my own don't want to hear your various complaints *constantly*
ScarletKitten
04-09-2015, 05:45 PM
OMG I so hate whiners, it's ok if it's a huge issue or a rough day, but people who complain about everything every second are just driving me up the wall. You could hand them a pile of money and they'd complain they got a paper cut counting it.
LOL! This reminds me of my dealer. One time I had to buy some weed but I had like $20 worth of one dollar bills, and the rest was $20 bills. Well, my dealer fucking complained about the ones because he already had a fat stack of cash in his wallet, and was bitching & complaining "damnit all these 1's can't fit in my wallet! Can you please pay with $20 bills from now on? ARGH, I have too much cash and these 1's are annoying." LMFAO, rich people problems!
Selina M
04-09-2015, 07:47 PM
Money puts me in a really bad mood sometimes.
I hate tax time. I hate my OCD that makes me get stuck on worrying about this shit for several hours at a time, wasting my whole day off.
I hate that being a stripper makes people just assume stupid shit, like car dealerships asking if I plan to pay taxes on my income in condescending tones, and accountants going "Well you must make $1000 a night" It really pisses me off when people think we all make $1k a night and that money just falls out of the sky.
I hate that I'm still getting mail from credit companies and insurance places and whatnot from buying my car. Fuck the fucking fuck off. I hate all the junk mail I get, such a waste of paper. And I especially hate credit card offers... Credit is what's wrong with this country. People buying shit they can't afford.
Naida
04-10-2015, 08:09 AM
OMG I so hate whiners, it's ok if it's a huge issue or a rough day, but people who complain about everything every second are just driving me up the wall. You could hand them a pile of money and they'd complain they got a paper cut counting it.
That's what I love about this thread. We can bitch/whine/moan about even the pettiest of shit and just move the fuck on with our days instead of being pissy ass Negative Nancies like some of these other asshats. I swear to all things holy, if my sister doesn't get off that shit soon, I'm going to ask her "are you gonna STFU, put your big girl panties on, and handle shit like an adult, or do I need to find you a fucking pacifier?"
I thought PMS was supposed to be PRE-menstrual. Why do I want to rip someone's head off at the END of my period?
Tsepmet1
04-10-2015, 08:36 AM
I've been having a flare-up all day. :(
Naida
04-10-2015, 10:14 AM
Nope, nope, nope. Wrong fucking day to piss me off. If you didn't want to fucking help me, then you should have said no the first god damn time instead of giving me the fucking run around for months.
Done.
kaninchen
04-10-2015, 10:40 AM
I had a bad night and day which has resulted in me breaking my fairly new vegetarian diet which I'm a bit angry at myself for. I've been told the first
Few months of being a vegetarian usually consists of a little bit of cheating but still :(
Aw, girl, try not to be mad at yourself. I've been a vegetarian for ten years and I still slip up every now and then. Vegetarianism is not a quest for perfection. Just dust yourself off and keep trying to make better choices tomorrow.
Selina M
04-10-2015, 11:36 AM
Some people on this forum always have to be right, and fuck what anyone else says. Seriously. Go back to work and find something better to do than act like half this board is inferior.
Tsepmet1
04-10-2015, 11:45 AM
Some people on this forum always have to be right, and fuck what anyone else says. Seriously. Go back to work and find something better to do than act like half this board is inferior.
Ugh. I know what you mean.
Naida
04-10-2015, 03:37 PM
Some people on this forum always have to be right, and fuck what anyone else says. Seriously. Go back to work and find something better to do than act like half this board is inferior.
The feels, ma'am.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-10-2015, 04:31 PM
My knee cracked like a ratchet today at work when I bent down to pick up something....pain shot up my leg & I thanked the Universe I was able to retire from dancing before my knees got worse....
Tsepmet1
04-10-2015, 08:06 PM
Can't people be humble for five fucking seconds before they start complaining?
Wanted to make $1k, but you only made $800 tonight? WTF. I understand always striving to do better, always wanting to do your best, BUT SERIOUSLY.
BE FUCKING THANKFUL FOR YOUR SUCCESS, QUIT YOUR BITCHING.
Not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to walk into a building where they can make hundreds of dollars an hour, drinking and dancing around in their underwear.
HUMBLE YO SELF.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/erikaandersen/2013/11/27/how-feeling-grateful-can-make-you-more-successful/
ScarletKitten
04-10-2015, 08:18 PM
Can't people be humble for five fucking seconds before they start complaining?
Wanted to make $1k, but you only made $800 tonight? WTF. I understand always striving to do better, always wanting to do your best, BUT SERIOUSLY.
BE FUCKING THANKFUL FOR YOUR SUCCESS, QUIT YOUR BITCHING.
Not everyone is fortunate enough to be able to walk into a building where they can make hundreds of dollars an hour, drinking and dancing around in their underwear.
HUMBLE YO SELF.
OMFG. This is one of the BEST posts I've seen on SW. SO MUCH YES!!! PREACH!!!
Selina M
04-11-2015, 12:44 AM
^ Oh my God yes that ties EXACTLY in with the people I was thinking of earlier.
Naida
04-12-2015, 04:29 AM
After a funky MJK dream yesterday, I'm kinda disappointed he's a family man now.
xStacey
04-12-2015, 09:59 PM
Those "you are so much better than this, you're too good for this job" customers. I have this regular I've known for a little over a year now, he always tries so hard to make me believe he's different from other guys and not a pig who just wants to fuck me. Always telling me compliments and how I'm more than my physique, then he said something, I am not sure if he was trying to be nice but if he was it came out really wrong and offended me as hell.
I was telling him stories about some clubs where I only worked a couple of days or at max 2 weeks. He replies "oh you've done quite a lot of places eh. Never thought about getting a job where you could put your clothes on?" :biting:
Naida
04-13-2015, 01:15 AM
It looks like I may have to cut another family member out of my life. And the insanely loud weather just got scary quiet all of a sudden...
ScarletKitten
04-13-2015, 05:36 AM
After a funky MJK dream yesterday, I'm kinda disappointed he's a family man now.
You had a dream about Maynard? Do tell! I want details! ;)
ScarletKitten
04-13-2015, 05:40 AM
Those "you are so much better than this, you're too good for this job" customers. I have this regular I've known for a little over a year now, he always tries so hard to make me believe he's different from other guys and not a pig who just wants to fuck me. Always telling me compliments and how I'm more than my physique, then he said something, I am not sure if he was trying to be nice but if he was it came out really wrong and offended me as hell.
I was telling him stories about some clubs where I only worked a couple of days or at max 2 weeks. He replies "oh you've done quite a lot of places eh. Never thought about getting a job where you could put your clothes on?" :biting:
UGH! The sheer hypocrisy of these men! If a naked woman bothers him so much, then WHY THE FUCK does he go to a STRIP CLUB??
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-13-2015, 08:58 AM
I was telling him stories about some clubs where I only worked a couple of days or at max 2 weeks. He replies "oh you've done quite a lot of places eh. Never thought about getting a job where you could put your clothes on?" :biting:
One of my sugardaddies would say stupid shit like this. I decided it was the only opportunity he had to feel like he had "one up" on me.
I used to get mad, now I am just grateful the guys stick the foot in the mouth. It made it me feel better about using them for money lol)
wednesday86
04-13-2015, 03:39 PM
I applied to some crappy $600 a month apartment in the city where I want to move. They rejected me through email conversation when I explained that I'm self employed, running an online amazon store. I explained to them that I don't have tax returns yet because it's a new business, but I make more than enough money to pay their rent, and have plenty of money saved.
I then went on to explain that I could provide a pay stub from my husband who is traditionally employed (and even he makes enough on his own to cover $600 a month.)
After all this they still rejected me saying "We need an income 3 times the rent and a tax return..." Ummm, so I guess you DON'T want to see my bank statements and/or my husband's pay stub?
I just messaged them back telling them it's too bad. I have enough money on me right now to pay 6 months rent UP FRONT without blinking an eye but I guess I'll take my $ elsewhere. Fucking idiots.
Naida
04-14-2015, 05:28 AM
You had a dream about Maynard? Do tell! I want details! ;)
I won't get too specific about the dream, but let's just say he's an awesome guy to hang out with, knows his way around a tour bus bunk, and has very fertile cum.
Fuck my mother, fuck my mother, fuck my mother...
michele11
04-14-2015, 12:39 PM
I applied to some crappy $600 a month apartment in the city where I want to move. They rejected me through email conversation when I explained that I'm self employed, running an online amazon store. I explained to them that I don't have tax returns yet because it's a new business, but I make more than enough money to pay their rent, and have plenty of money saved.
I then went on to explain that I could provide a pay stub from my husband who is traditionally employed (and even he makes enough on his own to cover $600 a month.)
After all this they still rejected me saying "We need an income 3 times the rent and a tax return..." Ummm, so I guess you DON'T want to see my bank statements and/or my husband's pay stub?
I just messaged them back telling them it's too bad. I have enough money on me right now to pay 6 months rent UP FRONT without blinking an eye but I guess I'll take my $ elsewhere. Fucking idiots.
Go hurry and file your taxes. You have a few days. I know it sucks but I own rentals and after being burned that is what I require.
Selina M
04-14-2015, 01:05 PM
I applied to some crappy $600 a month apartment in the city where I want to move. They rejected me through email conversation when I explained that I'm self employed, running an online amazon store. I explained to them that I don't have tax returns yet because it's a new business, but I make more than enough money to pay their rent, and have plenty of money saved.
I then went on to explain that I could provide a pay stub from my husband who is traditionally employed (and even he makes enough on his own to cover $600 a month.)
After all this they still rejected me saying "We need an income 3 times the rent and a tax return..." Ummm, so I guess you DON'T want to see my bank statements and/or my husband's pay stub?
I just messaged them back telling them it's too bad. I have enough money on me right now to pay 6 months rent UP FRONT without blinking an eye but I guess I'll take my $ elsewhere. Fucking idiots.
That's really fucking rude to brush you off like that... I've never ever had an apt ask for a tax return. Mine have been happy with letters from managers or bank statements. Sounds like they're just up their own asses about something.
MyButter
04-14-2015, 02:23 PM
I just spent all of this time putting on foundation and perfect makeup, and I felt so SEXAY and FIERCE! ...And then my daughter's playmate (6) took one look at me and gasped in fear and said, "You look scary!"
michele11
04-14-2015, 02:35 PM
^ Haha. My daughter does that when I wear stripper makeup.
Naida
04-15-2015, 05:57 AM
I just spent all of this time putting on foundation and perfect makeup, and I felt so SEXAY and FIERCE! ...And then my daughter's playmate (6) took one look at me and gasped in fear and said, "You look scary!"
Don't worry, my niece does the same. My normal style makeup is "pretty!" but my work style makeup is "silly/scary."
chloemay
04-15-2015, 11:46 AM
This hasn't happened in awhile and might seem petty but it's always annoyed me when I would give advice in a thread and the person who asked the question would go through and thank every single response except for mine. Fuck you too. Sorry my advice is apparently not good enough but I still took time out of my day to offer it, but don't worry. It will never happen again.
Hey- this IS the petty annoyances thread so bring it on! :-) Mine is PMS, tired and struggling to make another two hours, not even in free chat just two more hours being available for indy shows. Also I really should work out tonight but want to chill with a bottle of wine instead.
Selina M
04-15-2015, 11:46 AM
>:[
That is all.
Aurora_Sunset
04-15-2015, 12:32 PM
Last summer, I was supposed to visit a friend in LA for a week. I had already bought a ticket to see him the first week of July, and the day before I was supposed to fly out, he had to cancel our visit because of a death in the family. Understandable. I called the airline, and they wouldn't refund my ticket but said they would hold it for me for 1 year and when I wanted to reschedule my trip, I could use that ticket and 1) pay whatever extra money was owed if the ticket was more expensive in a year than when I'd bought it, and 2) pay a $200 "change fee." I explained this to my friend and he said we would reschedule and he would pay any extra fees since it was his fault.
Every time I've brought up rescheduling since then, he blows me off. He acts like he forgot we were even supposed to ever have a week-long visit and gives some vague line about "oh yeah, we'll have to do that when I'm not so busy with work." And then never talks about it again until I contact him to bring it up. Rinse and repeat.
At this point, I only have 2 and half months to use that ticket or else I'm just out $400 - completely wasted. But without him cooperating, I'm not just gonna tack on an extra $200 and spend $600 to go to LA by myself. The point was that I was supposed to have a free place to stay and someone to do stuff with. I don't have the money to just fuck around LA for a week by myself. Even if I could use that ticket to go elsewhere, same story: I'd have to pay the $200 change fee myself and be on a trip alone, paying all accommodations, transportation, and shit by myself. It would actually cost me less to just give up the $400 than it would to try to salvage it into a decent trip.
I don't know what his fucking problem is. I don't understand why he was so excited to have me visit for a week last summer and when that got canceled, suddenly he couldn't find the time or even "remember" that I have that ticket sitting around waiting... I don't get it. He's just gonna make me waste a $400 plane ticket that I bought specifically to see him after he was whining that no one from back home would ever come visit him all the way out in LA... WTF?
Aniela
04-15-2015, 02:35 PM
When I got my new laptop a few months ago & was trying to transfer all my music & word-processor files to it from the old one, either not all of the files made it, or sm of them wouldn't transfer at all, & I can't figure out how to fix it w/o re-DL'ing everything & sm really complicated copy-paste-email-retrieve bs. I am so ridiculously tech-tarded.
Dr says I can't start running or even doing the elliptical until around August bc my feet still need that long to heal -- I went into bootcamp weighing 120 & came out at 133. When you're on 'lite duty' bc of injury or illness, they don't permit you to work out AT ALL -- even minor things like girl-pushups or the stationary bike. I have nvr weighed this much & I'm frustrated that I can't get to burning it off immediately. At least there's swimming, & I can do upper-body & core strengthening as long as I don't put any pressure on my feet.
2nd'ing all the frustration abt constant complainers. When I was in bootcamp, one of the biggest complaints was abt the chow -- nutritionally, it def wasn't the best, but quality/taste-wise, it really wasn't all that bad. But ppl would complain abt that shit like it was concentration camp food. Bitches, please. You chose to be here, I'd bet the cost of a few lapdances you've nvr had to worry abt where your nxt meal was coming from, & the cost of feeding you isn't even being deducted from your pay. Interestingly, the ppl who complained the most abt how crappy the food was were usually the ones complaining the loudest abt how they were starving & couldn't wait to go to chow, even on days where we didn't do jack shit.
xStacey
04-15-2015, 02:51 PM
I am tired of always being sick this year ugh.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2015, 03:43 PM
I applied to some crappy $600 a month apartment in the city where I want to move. They rejected me through email conversation when I explained that I'm self employed, running an online amazon store. I explained to them that I don't have tax returns yet because it's a new business, but I make more than enough money to pay their rent, and have plenty of money saved.
I then went on to explain that I could provide a pay stub from my husband who is traditionally employed (and even he makes enough on his own to cover $600 a month.)
After all this they still rejected me saying "We need an income 3 times the rent and a tax return..." Ummm, so I guess you DON'T want to see my bank statements and/or my husband's pay stub?
I just messaged them back telling them it's too bad. I have enough money on me right now to pay 6 months rent UP FRONT without blinking an eye but I guess I'll take my $ elsewhere. Fucking idiots.
You might be better off not going with that particular place anyways. My nightmare landlord made a big deal out of paperwork & references....then was a total slumlord/creep after we moved in. Turns out he would let anyone move in (my neighbors were methheads) & harrass tenants he didn't like. I noticed a lot of people moving out early (like mid-month) b/c of this abuse. My point, if a landlord can't be halfway straight up & has shitty online reviews...heed the warnings...
edit to add- due to my past experience...I tell people not to do the 6 months upfront thing with rent b/c it leaves an opening for the landlord to terrorize the tenant into leaving and forfeiting the money. Cops will tell a victimized tenant that they have to take the matter to civil court, which is more time and money that someone who is renting probably won't have. I've heard about this scam happening often enough that I would say never mention that you CAN afford to pay up front. TL ; DR- Never trust a landlord....even a nice one.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2015, 03:50 PM
My dumb annoyance- my gas tank is venting b/c I filled it to the top (like 13 gallons.) The smell makes me nervous, like my pretty car is going to turn into a fireball or something. Ugh. Hopefully the venting stops once I run through a few gallons. On a brighter note, yay for cheap gasoline..
Aurora_Sunset
04-15-2015, 07:03 PM
One of my friends never files taxes. And whenever I ask her about it, she just shrugs it off like "Oh well... guess I didn't do my taxes again this year." ....Like it's no big deal. I don't think she realizes that you can't just go 5+ years, working jobs that are reporting your income to the govt, and not reporting and filing your taxes and get away with it forever. Especially when one day, she'll finally have to file and they'll wonder "hmm... why haven't you filed taxes in X number of years?" Girl is 26 years old and has held management positions at jobs... I can't even believe she doesn't understand how taxes, tax reporting, and W2's work and how hard her ass is gonna get audited one day... Add to that the fact that if she did file, she'd probably be getting several hundred dollars back every year because she works "vanilla" jobs. Why the F%*! would you not want that money back!?
This probably wouldn't bother me so much if she wasn't so "know-it-all" preachy about the stupidest shit around me. The other day she visited and did 15 minutes of an "omg, I can't believe you" lecture about how... wait for it.... I don't DOUBLE lock my 2nd floor BALCONY door at night when I live alone. Because... ya know... I live in such a rough neighborhood that people routinely scale the balconies and pick the one lock that I do fasten it with every night...
Bitch thinks she's immune from govt action, but I'm a "total moron" for not fearing the balcony-scaling, lock-picking maniacs... -_-
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2015, 07:13 PM
One of my friends never files taxes. And whenever I ask her about it, she just shrugs it off like "Oh well... guess I didn't do my taxes again this year." ....Like it's no big deal. I don't think she realizes that you can't just go 5+ years, working jobs that are reporting your income to the govt, and not reporting and filing your taxes and get away with it forever. Especially when one day, she'll finally have to file and they'll wonder "hmm... why haven't you filed taxes in X number of years?" Girl is 26 years old and has held management positions at jobs... I can't even believe she doesn't understand how taxes, tax reporting, and W2's work and how hard her ass is gonna get audited one day... Add to that the fact that if she did file, she'd probably be getting several hundred dollars back every year because she works "vanilla" jobs. Why the F%*! would you not want that money back!?
This probably wouldn't bother me so much if she wasn't so "know-it-all" preachy about the stupidest shit around me. The other day she visited and did 15 minutes of an "omg, I can't believe you" lecture about how... wait for it.... I don't DOUBLE lock my 2nd floor BALCONY door at night when I live alone. Because... ya know... I live in such a rough neighborhood that people routinely scale the balconies and pick the one lock that I do fasten it with every night...
Bitch thinks she's immune from govt action, but I'm a "total moron" for not fearing the balcony-scaling, lock-picking maniacs... -_-
Her parents might be anti-government types. Or she's just really lazy.
As for the balcony climbers, well, if she knows burglars, I can see her paranoia. Some people support themselves entirely by stealing/burgling.
Meg2012
04-15-2015, 07:18 PM
Getting really pissed at my husband. Haven't heard from him in almost two weeks (military wife here). Like you seriously couldn't have picked up a pen and paper in the last two weeks?!
Naida
04-15-2015, 10:12 PM
I'm not sure how I feel right now. I care about the guy I've been "with" since January, but I'm starting I lose patience with him. I absolutely love the friend that I'll be seeing monthly when I move, but I'm frustrated about the way we can never make anything work between us because our lives are on two totally different paths. I'm not sure if I want to continue my celibacy; I don't feel ready to be intimate with another person again yet, but I miss the pleasure of sex with another body.
Aurora_Sunset
04-16-2015, 09:06 AM
My fucking chin and around my nose have breaking out like crazy lately. I have no idea why. I clean and moisturize my face, as well as been using acne cream on it, every night before bed. My diet has been really good and I've barely been drinking alcohol, and been drinking tons of water. Wtf, body? I feel like I'm back in middle school. :'(
HoolaTwister
04-16-2015, 09:41 AM
My mother thinks everything is about her. I can't even be stressed out about anything because she takes it personally. I have to be chipper and happy and all smiles every time I see her. She's got major borderline personality disorder and it's so stressful to try to not set her off somehow.
amberlly
04-16-2015, 03:11 PM
The bottom earners where I work are so holier than though. I am perfect and innocent.
Plus this one really obnoxious whiny bitch keeps trying to be my friend. Nothing works. She won't piss off. She hates everyone. Except me.
~*SwanPrincess*~
04-16-2015, 04:13 PM
My boyfriends mom passed away yesterday. I feel terrible for him and his family. I've never really dealt with death before, and I'm trying to comfort him and be supportive as best I can.
I found out this morning his gf from five years ago made a photo montage of his mom, her, and my boyfriend and wrote a long flowery post about how she "felt like her daughter in law", and "she was the most important woman in her world" and stuff like that. They dated for one year FIVE years ago.
I saw my bf commented how "beautiful" her post was and how she meant the world to his mom.
I dunno. I know I'm a super competitive alpha female type of girl, but I found it a little over the top and annoyed by it. I feel like something a little more simple would have been more appropriate. That might seem really bitchy of me, but I know for a fact this girl is sneaky and manipulative :(
In the meantime, I am very saddened by his mothers passing and I feel like I can't quite come up with the right thing to say, let alone some eloquent commentary.
ScarletKitten
04-16-2015, 05:18 PM
^^Maybe I'm way too cynical, but it sounds like his ex is using the death of his mom to win some kudo points or try to win his dick back into her pants. People use tragedy all the time to try to reunite or rekindle something. Typical human manipulation tactics.
Either way, I'm sorry for your loss.
~*SwanPrincess*~
04-16-2015, 05:26 PM
My thoughts exactly ScarletKitten. It scared me a little how he thought her corny post was "beautiful." Ugh. All his family was commenting on what she wrote too. I feel like it's not really her place to be that involved with everything happening.
I'm really trying not to be petty or a diva lol but it's made me pretty uncomfortable.
I've just got this feeling she is going to use this to talk to him again or try to get back with him.
amberlly
04-16-2015, 05:39 PM
The mgt at my work are treating me like shit. Snide little comments and bullying from the owner. Everytime I go to greet a customer. Or if anything goes wrong Im blamed for being too slutty.
The only reason I am sticking around is I really really need the money. I have to lose weight to get hired somewhere else. I'm working on that. But I can't wait to move somewhere with a higher end clientelle.
Tsepmet1
04-17-2015, 08:21 AM
I'm having a lot of man-hating feelings today.
Street harassment.
Sexual harassment at work.
Surprise public gropings (concerts, subways, etc.)
Being talked down to
Not being taken seriously
*rage*
Aniela
04-17-2015, 08:27 AM
I'm having a lot of man-hating feelings today.
Street harassment.
Sexual harassment at work.
Surprise public gropings (concerts, subways, etc.)
Being talked down to
Not being taken seriously
*rage*
:hug: :heartbeat :heartbeat :heartbeat :hug:
Aniela
04-17-2015, 08:48 AM
Got the IUD (mirena) while in basic, it's been a month & still breakthru bleeding. I know it's one of the common side effects/adjustment effects but gotDAMN is it annoying!
Tying into ^^^^ Last time I got laid was last June. 6mo of staying faithful in a LDR w/ the now-ex who sorta kinda neglected to let me know I'd been discarded the moment I crossed the state line. Now w/ this damn breakthru bleeding I def don't want to go looking to get lucky bc this crap will get everywhere ewwwwwwwww. FML.
Selina M
04-17-2015, 03:39 PM
SO ready to retire.
I thought I cured my burnout with time off. Came back and rocked it for 4 shifts, and now I'm just as done as before. These idiots day in/day out... Ugh. Not to mention that yesterday I saw a girl licking another girls asshole on stage... UGH AGAIN.
Aurora_Sunset
04-17-2015, 03:47 PM
Not to mention that yesterday I saw a girl licking another girls asshole on stage... UGH AGAIN.
Omg! Whhhhhhhhyyy?