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carmen_b
07-28-2021, 09:58 AM
^ Tell him the schedule you need.
I just had to do it with my partner too ( who was fine )!
People sometimes have less time for partners in temporary high stress times.
As long as you are giving him something ( even if 2-3 evenings a week vs 4-5 ). Just explain it’s temporary .

I know me lol.
Anyone would probably prefer “ I only have 2-3 days for you this week but they will be quality ones “ vs the “ where the fuck is my money “ nightmare me. :/

SnuffleUffleGrass
07-28-2021, 09:58 AM
I so don't want my brother and his kids dropping by this week. Every time I see his kids I'm reminded of how glad I am to not have my own kids. Kids=annoying.

indiegirl
07-28-2021, 10:20 AM
Hating myself right now. This cheap ass hotel is holding my drivers license hostage since they refuse to do a debit card deposit hold on the room. What place requires cash like we are all walking around with cash? I had no idea they now do this and I was in the middle of a sting here years ago and accidentally booked it again.

carmen_b
07-28-2021, 10:43 AM
^ You could give a two hour window when you are out to move things in if he is doing his move out.

Marina Starr
07-28-2021, 10:55 AM
Fuck you Bank of America! I went to deposit cash at their ATM-did not work. Drive-thru ATM also didn't work. This isn't the first time. Being the biggest bank in the nation, this is a damn shame they can't get their shit together for something so simple.

rant over.

WendiStarr
07-28-2021, 12:05 PM
My old high school is holding up the process here with the Bachelor degree. The university has called me every day since Monday to remind me to get my high school transcripts sent to them. I already went and requested them last Thursday. My old college sent my Associate's degree transcripts so now we're waiting on high school. This shit still annoys me. I've been out of high school for almost 20 years. Why is any of that relevant still? I could see if I was a fresh out of high school grad but I'm an old ass bitch.

miss.a.p1600
07-28-2021, 12:37 PM
^ Tell him the schedule you need.
I just had to do it with my partner too ( who was fine )!
People sometimes have less time for partners in temporary high stress times.
As long as you are giving him something ( even if 2-3 evenings a week vs 4-5 ). Just explain it’s temporary .

I know me lol.
Anyone would probably prefer “ I only have 2-3 days for you this week but they will be quality ones “ vs the “ where the fuck is my money “ nightmare me. :/

Great advice.

Trying to balance not being a mega cunt with being “relationship” material.

I do need to have a conversation again and set a tight schedule this week.

Im also balancing my hypergamy and trying not to get pissy thinking “yeah I could sit here, answer your calls at the drop of a dime, attend to your needs, be on your schedule but that’s the housewife experience you’re not paying for”

I have to keep reminding myself that he has done what he can for me so I’m trying to have patience.

I guess I need to head to the gratitude thread before I get even more pissy for no reason

xxxGothBarbie
07-28-2021, 01:56 PM
The place I checked out of earlier with all the dumb rules including vegetarian only food in building, annoyed the fuck out of me. Not only was it a noisy ass place , they said they offered breakfast so when I'm up & hungry I go to grab some & what do you know... their idea of bkfast is fucking toast LOL I said umm thats it?! & they laughed at me. I should've known better to expect more from a vegetarian only place *eyeroll*

LoveyD
07-28-2021, 02:20 PM
^^ I'm a vegetarian and would have expected more than just toast.

carmen_b
07-28-2021, 02:26 PM
^ Same for me really Miss P.

I don’t have to work *as* much due to J generosity but would need a $300-$500 a week allowance haha to bring it down to even consider working half time.
My partners generosity is pretty big but doesn’t extend out quite that far. At least not at this point. He pays for housing and most food but as we all know there’s more to pay ugh.
So I still keep my business hours protected other than 60 minutes or so M-F. I still protect 35 hours M-F 9-5 range.

Coming into Aug., if I work efficiently I probably could do a 32 hour week a bit to experiment but I want to be 100% sure first before reducing down anymore.

I bet when L pays the rent which I think is what you mentioned you’ll be able to go down to like 32-35 hours a week. It will help I think.

AChildOfBoredom
07-28-2021, 03:09 PM
That bitch from upstairs and I are about to have a serious problem. The same one who bitched me out when the other office jockeys saw me change out of an oil soaked overshirt (I wear a sports bra underneath) and into a high vis t-shirt. At the end of the day, I have my own little area where I’ll change out of my uniform, I’ll typically put on an oversized t-shirt, and I normally have a thrift store mid length skirt I’ll throw on. Yesterday, I had leggings, so she started bitching about that, tried accusing me of showing off and peacocking, blah, blah. And mind you I’m wearing a t-shirt over it which goes almost to my knees.

xxxGothBarbie
07-28-2021, 05:48 PM
^^ I'm a vegetarian and would have expected more than just toast.

I got so pissed off at that place my 2nd night I purposely ordered a chicken bowl from chipotle and ate it inside my pod lol fuck their rules! Not everyone is a vegetarian ffs. Not to mention but ya i can't even eat in my own pod i paid $60 a night for?! I love nyc but some of these places ive had to stay in are ridic. I'm mostly living this way to make my $ go further.

chanzep
07-28-2021, 09:22 PM
Looks like my body clock has gone back to late smh.

AChildOfBoredom
07-29-2021, 03:04 AM
Well, the woman from upstairs decided she wanted to get into it with me again today, and I wasn’t in the mood for it. So I just said to her, “Why don’t you go back to your office for the company you work for, eat some more Twinkies, and leave me the fuck alone?”. I’ll probably hear about it later.

And those annoying ass glass contractors are coming later today.

What a wonderful start this day’s off to.

xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2021, 03:41 AM
Why do ppl srsly think when they have to share a space that other's don't need the bathroom while they've fucking just moved in there taking their sweet ass time?!? I'm changing rooms asap! This lady is also loud AF @ 6 am too ugh.

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 05:46 AM
The place I checked out of earlier with all the dumb rules including vegetarian only food in building, annoyed the fuck out of me. Not only was it a noisy ass place , they said they offered breakfast so when I'm up & hungry I go to grab some & what do you know... their idea of bkfast is fucking toast LOL I said umm thats it?! & they laughed at me. I should've known better to expect more from a vegetarian only place *eyeroll*

Reminds me of the time I was in high school and I spent the night at my friend Kelly’s house.

Her mom cooked breakfast next morning and was like “Kelly, do you want pancakes OR eggs OR bacon?”

In my mind I’m like wtf?!? Is she only allowed to eat one thing for breakfast? What an odd family breakfast ritual.

She probably thought I was greedy cause I was like “Mrs. Smith, I’ll take pancakes AND eggs, AND bacon please.”

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 05:54 AM
^ Same for me really Miss P.

I don’t have to work *as* much due to J generosity but would need a $300-$500 a week allowance haha to bring it down to even consider working half time.
My partners generosity is pretty big but doesn’t extend out quite that far. At least not at this point. He pays for housing and most food but as we all know there’s more to pay ugh.
So I still keep my business hours protected other than 60 minutes or so M-F. I still protect 35 hours M-F 9-5 range.

Coming into Aug., if I work efficiently I probably could do a 32 hour week a bit to experiment but I want to be 100% sure first before reducing down anymore.

I bet when L pays the rent which I think is what you mentioned you’ll be able to go down to like 32-35 hours a week. It will help I think.

L said he would pay for housing (rent). Food if we go out on dates.

But I guess I have to pay the other stuff ….. ugh!!!!

Im going to press him to make more money and to buy a house to get the housing cost down even further so he can pay for the house, groceries and utilities, and more.

You’re right I’m glad he’s paying the entire rent and that will allow me to have more money to invest.

Used to piss me off to no end that ALL my money was going to bills.

carmen_b
07-29-2021, 06:02 AM
^ It’ll make a difference for sure .
You’ll eliminate 25-30% of your costs a month ( I imagine your current rent “ eats “ that from budget each month ).
I chose the working less option but your idea of staying full time and investing more is great too.
I may do the same at times if my damn business ever comes back fully after covid.
:/

I’m very happy with my situation.
I’d love to get down to 30 hours a week but it’ll take a bit.
Even the slight change 40 v.s. leaning towards 30 - 32 I feel is a huge difference.

roseforarose
07-29-2021, 06:16 AM
Just got on SM, got a nice tipper at the start but he had to leave. Following 30 mins is men bitching about having to pay for sexual things like????? sir where do you think we ARE?!

I fucking hate the daytime 'wahhh you won't do it for free/cheap af :((' crowd so I logged off lol. Hopefully I'll get some nice ones later

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 07:58 AM
Well, the woman from upstairs decided she wanted to get into it with me again today, and I wasn’t in the mood for it. So I just said to her, “Why don’t you go back to your office for the company you work for, eat some more Twinkies, and leave me the fuck alone?”. I’ll probably hear about it later.

And those annoying ass glass contractors are coming later today.

What a wonderful start this day’s off to.

LOL!!!

Not the Twinkies though......:rotfl:

Were they the deep fried kind?

Reminds me of that time those crazy broads from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills got into an argument with each other and Kim yelled at Taylor (who had overdone lip fillers) "Why don't you go and blow your lips up some more!"

I'm sorry but the shit people say when they get mad at someone ...... it's kinda hilarious.

carmen_b
07-29-2021, 08:33 AM
The powers that be around here can suck a dick.
WHY did they feel the need to take PUA away ?
Assholes. They should have given me until Sept . ( national end date )!

I wish they would revoke this and just give the assistance again Aug - mid Sept.
:(

carmen_b
07-29-2021, 08:35 AM
Sheesh or even a mid point.

I hope I can meet my state governor someday to tell him ( of course it’s a man barf ) personally how extremely helpful that decision was to someone who has owned a business in this state for 20 years.

It’s wonderful to have no PUA and just a little trickle of business instead of a stream.

TheBrownFox
07-29-2021, 12:20 PM
The powers that be around here can suck a dick.
WHY did they feel the need to take PUA away ?
Assholes. They should have given me until Sept . ( national end date )!

I wish they would revoke this and just give the assistance again Aug - mid Sept.
:(


Yup, it was supposed to continue until September (Says it right there on the BEACON portal), but they cut us off in July. I live in subsidized housing, and I just had to send the leasing office proof that I no longer have that income, so that they could decrease my rent amount again.

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 12:51 PM
I’m frustrated with the damn vaccine.

I’m still having adverse effects from it.

Anytime I tell someone about the pain I’m still in I get gaslighted (“are you sure it wasn’t something else?”…..no fuckface I was fine until 2 days after the vaccine) and “when are you getting your next dose?”…….um did you hear me say I’m still suffering from the first one?

Then to make matters worse L had me lifting a heavy box. And it made my pain (which he is one of the gas lighters) worse.

I’m not moving shit!!!! You better call someone else.

Cause if I have to lift anything heavy it’s going to delay any though of anything sexual for a very long time.

xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2021, 01:02 PM
I’m frustrated with the damn vaccine.

I’m still having adverse effects from it.

Anytime I tell someone about the pain I’m still in I get gaslighted (“are you sure it wasn’t something else?”…..no fuckface I was fine until 2 days after the vaccine) and “when are you getting your next dose?”…….um did you hear me say I’m still suffering from the first one?

Then to make matters worse L had me lifting a heavy box. And it made my pain (which he is one of the gas lighters) worse.

I’m not moving shit!!!! You better call someone else.

Cause if I have to lift anything heavy it’s going to delay any though of anything sexual for a very long time.

Oh no I'm sorry to hear that :( What are you having happen from it?

Aurora_Sunset
07-29-2021, 01:18 PM
I'm so frustrated and depressed again. I heard about work offering a software engineering program. It's free, they put you on a leave of absence with a monthly living stipend so you can do it fulltime, and it leads directly into being a level 1 software engineer there, which is a great salary even starting out. I looked at it extensively yesterday, and even started the prerequisite coursework that would prepare me for the technical assessment in a few months. I was really getting excited about it.

Then I dug further today, and tucked away in a random spot is the fact that even though all of the schooling is virtual and open to employees anywhere in the country... the software engineer positions post-graduation are NOT work-at-home. You have to relocate to a city with an Amazon tech hub.

Kind of relevant fucking information.

I'm so sick of getting my hopes up for a better future and some sort of path forward in life just to constantly run into impossible roadblocks the second I get excited.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-29-2021, 01:29 PM
I'm so frustrated and depressed again. I heard about work offering a software engineering program. It's free, they put you on a leave of absence with a monthly living stipend so you can do it fulltime, and it leads directly into being a level 1 software engineer there, which is a great salary even starting out. I looked at it extensively yesterday, and even started the prerequisite coursework that would prepare me for the technical assessment in a few months. I was really getting excited about it.

Then I dug further today, and tucked away in a random spot is the fact that even though all of the schooling is virtual and open to employees anywhere in the country... the software engineer positions post-graduation are NOT work-at-home. You have to relocate to a city with an Amazon tech hub.

Kind of relevant fucking information.

I'm so sick of getting my hopes up for a better future and some sort of path forward in life just to constantly run into impossible roadblocks the second I get excited.

Is relocating completely out of the question? And would they cover the expense?

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 01:43 PM
Oh no I'm sorry to hear that :( What are you having happen from it?

Thank you!

I noticed about 2 days after the vaccine that while the pain at injection site was subsiding, a new pain was occurring in my shoulder n neck.

I researched and found that a small number of people had lymph node swelling/pain in their underarm, shoulder, and/or neck.

This is the only explanation I can think causing this.

I am a bit concerned that 3 weeks later and the pain has gone from a 6 to a 2 but hasn’t been eliminated. I still feel about a level 1-2 pain in my neck.

I guess I’ll eventually have to see a doctor about it. If it doesn’t go away completely in a few days.

Aurora_Sunset
07-29-2021, 01:43 PM
Is relocating completely out of the question? And would they cover the expense?

They would probably help cover expenses, but I can't move my husband away from his kids.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
07-29-2021, 02:17 PM
They would probably help cover expenses, but I can't move my husband away from his kids.

I understand that. This is a bit grimey but maybe you could take the course work and get your skills up then back out? Or would that jeopardize your current position? If this isn't possible check YouTube for tutorials.

trustfundkiller
07-29-2021, 03:00 PM
I'm now paranoid about Covid again with all this hype of the Delta variant and vaccines losing efficacy over time. I just got back from a Disney trip and that area is undoubtedly swimming in Covid. I have a slight headache now and instead of thinking it's dehydration or caffeine-related I'm thinking the vaccine failed me.

TheBrownFox
07-29-2021, 03:02 PM
This is a rant + shaking my head and laughing over how ridiculous this sounds.....

My son was supposed to upload his COVID-19 vaccine card online to the college he's attending this fall, and instead he sent them the Walgreens Pharmacy Pfizer vaccine order with the RX # and his name and everything on it. He said "I sent it, but they told me this isn't enough." :rotfl: Well yeah, because that's not your VACCINE CARD! *Sigh* I told him his vaccine card is in that same envelope where I put his social security card, his health insurance card, and his birth certificate. *Sigh* THIS is exactly why I nervous as fuck to hand over all those documents to him in June when he left to spend his summer in PA.

A straight A student, but still a dingbat.

lynn2009
07-29-2021, 03:14 PM
I'm so frustrated and depressed again. I heard about work offering a software engineering program. It's free, they put you on a leave of absence with a monthly living stipend so you can do it fulltime, and it leads directly into being a level 1 software engineer there, which is a great salary even starting out. I looked at it extensively yesterday, and even started the prerequisite coursework that would prepare me for the technical assessment in a few months. I was really getting excited about it.

Then I dug further today, and tucked away in a random spot is the fact that even though all of the schooling is virtual and open to employees anywhere in the country... the software engineer positions post-graduation are NOT work-at-home. You have to relocate to a city with an Amazon tech hub.

Kind of relevant fucking information.

I'm so sick of getting my hopes up for a better future and some sort of path forward in life just to constantly run into impossible roadblocks the second I get excited.

So much office based work is going fully remote, I can't imagine they can force all engineers to work from these crazy expensive cities forever. And the program would be great on your resume anyway. Do you have to pay anything back if you don't stay with Amazon after?

carmen_b
07-29-2021, 03:17 PM
^ That’s what I was thinking just DO it.
Tech jobs pay so well. :)

This is a skill you can pretty much demand to be remote with.
My partner did and his company met his demands.

( dont quote bottom please will remove later for privacy )

JGB2009
07-29-2021, 04:26 PM
I am so so angry right now..............I'm gonna have to exercise later to burn this anger off!!!!!

miss.a.p1600
07-29-2021, 05:04 PM
I'm now paranoid about Covid again with all this hype of the Delta variant and vaccines losing efficacy over time. I just got back from a Disney trip and that area is undoubtedly swimming in Covid. I have a slight headache now and instead of thinking it's dehydration or caffeine-related I'm thinking the vaccine failed me.

The stupid delta variant (plus I want to travel) is what made me get the vaccine

It’s annoying like damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

Paranoid if you go without a vaccine, paranoid if you get the vaccine n exposed to variants.

Just want to scream rn.

Not in a good way.

Ughhhhhh!!!!!!

xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2021, 06:33 PM
Im still gonna live just with my mask on indoors unless im eating or drinking.

TheBrownFox
07-29-2021, 06:43 PM
I was just talking with my grandmom, and yeah, my son lost his COVID-19 vaccine card. I bet I know what happened. I noticed on his pay stub that he got a bonus for having had the vaccine. So he probably showed them his vaccine card at work (But that's all the way back in JUNE), and they probably told him some told him some bullshit like "Okay, we're gonna make a copy of this, and give it back to you later," and it was never mentioned again. *Eye roll* OR maybe they did give it back to him, and he dropped it somewhere in the warehouse...or left it in his locker or something.


Before I anxiously handed over his card (and his other important documents) to him before he left for PA, I made copies of all of those things to keep here with me. But he still should have an original, so now he's gonna have to go online to apply to have a replacement vaccine card sent. I told my grandmom they should just have it sent here to my house, and then when he returns home from PA we'll make sure it's submitted to the college by the deadline. It's cutting it way too fucking close, and I don't want anything getting in the way of his dorm move in day.

moneybags
07-29-2021, 07:15 PM
I’m frustrated with the damn vaccine.

I’m still having adverse effects from it.

Anytime I tell someone about the pain I’m still in I get gaslighted (“are you sure it wasn’t something else?”…..no fuckface I was fine until 2 days after the vaccine) and “when are you getting your next dose?”…….um did you hear me say I’m still suffering from the first one?

Then to make matters worse L had me lifting a heavy box. And it made my pain (which he is one of the gas lighters) worse.

I’m not moving shit!!!! You better call someone else.

Cause if I have to lift anything heavy it’s going to delay any though of anything sexual for a very long time.

That’s why I’m not nagging my friends. I really want them to get vaccinated, but i do think some people probably shouldn’t and I’m not their doctor. I hope you get better.

I’m annoyed at the CDC. I want my life back! I can probably continue to dance through August. I know the vaccine should work pretty good for awhile. The CDC flip flopping sent me into a tail spin! One day I’m working and having the best time of my life and the next day I’m scared as hell to even be at work and at the gym. I know you all have noticed a night and day difference in me since I went back to work. I’m a stripper! I need to be at the club, not at home. I hated camming! I didn’t make enough! The things men expect me to do for FREE. Guys at the club piss me off, but I’m walking off stage with $50-$200 versus $200 in an 8 hour shift. I’ll just wait for now and stack some cash until I can’t work at the club anymore. Covid just sucks! Honestly, I might just say fuck it and continue to work. I don’t really know what else to do! I’m sure I’ll be fine. I’ll just take it one day at a time.

Genoveve
07-29-2021, 09:33 PM
I'm so frustrated and depressed again.

I'm so sick of getting my hopes up for a better future and some sort of path forward in life just to constantly run into impossible roadblocks the second I get excited.

As a person who is completely unbiased because I have no idea who you are yet read some of your innermost thoughts on here, I think you might actually have legit depression. I notice a major sense of hopelessness in many of your posts and over a long course of time, you may have felt like this for so long that it's normal to you but to me, an outsider, it is concerning. Have you ever been on antidepressants? I know that medicine isn't a magical cure for everything and I definitely believe that a lot of times when people are suffering from depression it's completely warranted based on what's happening in their lives, but I still think it can be a helpful tool. I've always been pretty antipsychiatry but I did a maybe 6 month stint of prozac 2 years ago and it was life changing.

carmen_b
07-29-2021, 10:03 PM
^ It’s a good observation imo .

I also benefitted from some meds.
I take an ultra low dose of Wellbutrin.
I started it for seasonal affective.
Now it’s kind of a preformance enhancer I guess because I never weaned off.
Mine is a half pill of 75mg ( the tiniest pill ).
Just a perspective to consider as someone who was ANTI meds until 6 months ago.

^ I had a similar experience and see how my struggles in 2017/2018 could have really been helped. :/
I was in bad shape often ( just depleted and exhausted to the point I thought I was physically getting sick all the time ).

I have J to thank for it . He gave it to me In Dec.
I’m embarrassed to say that I was SO anti - meds I don’t think I would have gotten it for myself.
I do probably need a Aug - late Sept break though ugh.

Lots of complexity here so of course discuss with Dr. and Therapist not just run out for meds .

TheBrownFox
07-29-2021, 10:28 PM
That’s why I’m not nagging my friends. I really want them to get vaccinated, but i do think some people probably shouldn’t and I’m not their doctor. I hope you get better.

I’m annoyed at the CDC. I want my life back! I can probably continue to dance through August. I know the vaccine should work pretty good for awhile. The CDC flip flopping sent me into a tail spin! One day I’m working and having the best time of my life and the next day I’m scared as hell to even be at work and at the gym. I know you all have noticed a night and day difference in me since I went back to work. I’m a stripper! I need to be at the club, not at home. I hated camming! I didn’t make enough! The things men expect me to do for FREE. Guys at the club piss me off, but I’m walking off stage with $50-$200 versus $200 in an 8 hour shift. I’ll just wait for now and stack some cash until I can’t work at the club anymore. Covid just sucks! Honestly, I might just say fuck it and continue to work. I don’t really know what else to do! I’m sure I’ll be fine. I’ll just take it one day at a time.


Even though there's nothing wrong with wanting to stay informed on important topics like this (And wanting to be safe), I DO agree with that cool meme I saw on Facebook...showing a guy sitting in front of the T.V., and in the conversation bubble it says "How do we stop living in fear?" And in the next photo it shows a picture of him turning off the T.V. (*Click*). Lol. I love that!

Between the constant "COVID this, COVID that" talk all over the news/internet/social media, and even the constant posts (and arguments) about it in SW forum threads (In 'The Lounge' and 'Body Business'), I'm over it. Like how many more new threads do we need on SW about COVID? We have enough threads on the subject. The Lounge section of this forum has turned into the "Doom and gloom" section of StripperWeb.

Anyway, like you, I am continuing to live my life, and I'm planning to celebrate my 39th birthday in about two weeks by getting out and going on rides/rollercoasters (As long as there are no thunderstorms in the forecast). We are supposed to enjoy life. Not JUST work, pay bills, and die. Hang in there, moneybags. *Hug*

TheBrownFox
07-30-2021, 01:02 PM
These 'You've gotta cover up your tattoos, and take out your nose piercing" job requirements (With jobs involving working with children) be irking my nerves. Yeah, and the last time I took out my nose stud for a job, I wasn't able to get the stud back into my nose when I get home, and the hole closed up. Lol.

Grocery store stocker jobs and warehouse jobs don't give a damn if you have tattoos and a nose stud. Lol. AND they pay more and pay weekly.

~Carmen~
07-31-2021, 01:59 AM
As a person who is completely unbiased because I have no idea who you are yet read some of your innermost thoughts on here, I think you might actually have legit depression. I notice a major sense of hopelessness in many of your posts and over a long course of time, you may have felt like this for so long that it's normal to you but to me, an outsider, it is concerning. Have you ever been on antidepressants? I know that medicine isn't a magical cure for everything and I definitely believe that a lot of times when people are suffering from depression it's completely warranted based on what's happening in their lives, but I still think it can be a helpful tool. I've always been pretty antipsychiatry but I did a maybe 6 month stint of prozac 2 years ago and it was life changing.

I wish seeing a psychiatrist was no longer viewed as "taboo". I resisted for so long and now I can't believe how much it's helping. I grew up in a time when it was viewed as a sign of weakness. When I was a kid, I was told "If you don't start behaving, I'm going to send you to a psychiatrist". Now I know better. It's a sign of strength to seek help.

I didn't even realize how depressed I was until I started feeling better.

SnuffleUffleGrass
07-31-2021, 07:35 AM
Petty annoyed my heating pad has to be replaced. No warranties on an item that cheap.

Aurora_Sunset
07-31-2021, 08:54 AM
As a person who is completely unbiased because I have no idea who you are yet read some of your innermost thoughts on here, I think you might actually have legit depression. I notice a major sense of hopelessness in many of your posts and over a long course of time, you may have felt like this for so long that it's normal to you but to me, an outsider, it is concerning. Have you ever been on antidepressants? I know that medicine isn't a magical cure for everything and I definitely believe that a lot of times when people are suffering from depression it's completely warranted based on what's happening in their lives, but I still think it can be a helpful tool. I've always been pretty antipsychiatry but I did a maybe 6 month stint of prozac 2 years ago and it was life changing.

No, you're definitely spot on. Guess I shouldn't have said I feel depressed "again" when it's been an ongoing thing. Usually I just get kinda bad in the winter, but it's never really gone away this time and has only been getting worse.

I usually am anti-medication (for myself) as well. Moreso that I just don't want to deal with a doctor or therapist. Any time I've attempted to bring up my depression to a professional to get help, I feel incredibly judged in ways that make me think, "I really didn't think doctors/counselors were supposed to say shit like that." I've gotten shitty help from doctors about a lot of things, honestly, and won't deal with them most of the time. Idk, my husband keeps pushing me to look into it too.

Marina Starr
07-31-2021, 12:54 PM
Some bitch was going 50mph in a 20mph shopping plaza today. She told me 'sorry I was driving a bit too fast'. I told her no, you're not. You're not sorry if you're consciously aware you were reckless. Dumb bitch.

Genoveve
07-31-2021, 03:53 PM
No, you're definitely spot on. Guess I shouldn't have said I feel depressed "again" when it's been an ongoing thing. Usually I just get kinda bad in the winter, but it's never really gone away this time and has only been getting worse.

I usually am anti-medication (for myself) as well. Moreso that I just don't want to deal with a doctor or therapist. Any time I've attempted to bring up my depression to a professional to get help, I feel incredibly judged in ways that make me think, "I really didn't think doctors/counselors were supposed to say shit like that." I've gotten shitty help from doctors about a lot of things, honestly, and won't deal with them most of the time. Idk, my husband keeps pushing me to look into it too.

I used Healthpiper, a completely virtual service. I’ve never been in a therapist’s chair in my life and have no desire to be.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-01-2021, 11:19 AM
Petty annoyed my heating pad has to be replaced. No warranties on an item that cheap.

I only started using a heating pad a month ago! I can't believe I've lived this long not knowing how beneficial they are. I had a pinched nerve in my shoulder after wearing a pushup bra all day. This is after living in sports bras for a year and one day decided I was gonna be "cute". My entire arm was in pain for five days. Finally I got a heating pad and I was almost completely mended within 24 hours. I might go to the store later just to get a backup.

Vyanka
08-01-2021, 04:45 PM
Removing your bottom on stage is the stupidest business/unhygienic idea ever itc. First, clubs are dirty and I gotta put my g string where?? Second, my cookie shouldn't be forced to be seen for free. I don't want to! It makes me feel totally uncomfortable.... If the other chic wants to, by all means I guess.... I just don't think it should be forced on everyone. Don't get me wrong... I love that the club is clean and no extras allowed in vip, but why allow a free for all out in the open? That makes no sense to me.

Why give the cheapskate a FREE show??? Ugh!!! I've never seen so many idiots gawk at free vagina up closer than a gynecologist visit.


Sorry. Just my opinion.

Eta - even at the topless only clubs... no table should be that close to stage. I hate the gawk for free vibe. One of the reasons I hate the stupid stage.