View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
WendiStarr
08-01-2021, 07:12 PM
Aggravated and can't wait to find a new place. BD is making life miserable lately. He could easily go work in his office and close the door to avoid the baby. Instead the dumbass is working at the kitchen table all day. She knocked his drink over and he bitched that I am to keep the baby away from him all day and night. He said he doesn't want to see her at all. Then go seclude yourself to your office, dumbass.
carmen_b
08-01-2021, 07:16 PM
^ Bummer about that " nude " requirement !
Last time I worked nude I loved that it was up to you on stage, ugh.
Also I feel like it's such a good incentive for the guy to get in the BACK and spend if he wants to see more !!!
I personally think more clubs should be " staggered " in tiers of bikini only on stage, topless dances, and nude options in VIP only.
indiegirl
08-02-2021, 09:08 AM
I'm about to lose a customer over being unvaccinated because he's a surgeon, I can tell. I'm supposed to be on vacation but I have things I want fixed in the house I want paid for that will cost me like 1,000 (I literally can't open my closet doors, the faucet needs to be repaired/replaced, water filter, car battery, veterinarian, plus it's the beginning of the month so more of my expensive bills). He sent this paragraph length of covid concerns and questions which I understand, but I'm waiting until my health improves in the next few weeks at this point because I'm not sure how this vaccine will affect me being not in a good spot with my immune system right now.
I'm tired of people grilling me over not having been vaccinated yet TBH when I'm trying to do what is best with how I feel at this point. I'm waiting for the right time for my body and feeling safe to shut people up with making me feel bad.
I get it's a heated topic right now but it's just what I think is best for me at the end of August.
I know everyone here is mostly vaccinated so I'm hoping not to get hate for my choice to wait to get it done :(.
Sure I could lie to make the money but I'd rather be honest to this surgeon and people in general about this topic.
Sorry for the vent.
miss.a.p1600
08-02-2021, 10:57 AM
^ I agree girl.
I got the first vaccine (about 3.5 weeks ago) and I’m STILL recovering from adverse effects. And yes, everyone Ive told about it (except the ladies here) gaslights me and pressures me to get the next one. I’m going to have to consult with a physician here soon because I thought my body would handle it better but it didn’t.
In my mind I’m like if the second one hits you harder than the first, what makes you think I want to be worse of than I am now? Im not in as much pain as before but I still can’t turn my head all the way without experiencing soreness n discomfort.
Sucks to be one of those rare people that shit happens to.
I also timed it wrong and I’m dealing with this shit while I’m in the middle of a major move, trying to get a work promotion, etc.
I will say this. Please get disability insurance regardless if you get the vaccine or not. I’m getting mine today.
That way you will have income if you experience adverse effects from vaccine and/or if you get sick from covid and can’t work
chanzep
08-02-2021, 02:39 PM
Don't feel pressured to take the vaccines if your not comfortable. Do what is best for you. Lots of people are reacting badly to them. I know of 2 deaths personally in my age group. Also lots of people not getting second dose after bad reactions. I'm not telling anyone what to do. I think everyone should make their own opinion about their health. Nobody should be gaslighting and bullying people over this
chanzep
08-02-2021, 02:43 PM
I think some people's energy can really effect you. My ex for example every time he comes into town the same bad things happen. It's so bad my friends noticed too.
I'm sad at my choices.
lynn2009
08-02-2021, 04:04 PM
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WendiStarr
08-02-2021, 07:40 PM
I'm exhausted from packing and moving heavy shit up and down the stairs all day and have been looking forward to going to sleep tonight ever since lunchtime. My kids:
My oldest: I don't feel tired.
Baby: *falls asleep at 9pm for a half hour, wakes up and turns into a human tornado/energizer bunny* Oh, you wanted to sleep? Never! Muahaha!
-_-
xxxGothBarbie
08-03-2021, 04:53 AM
I hate having painful periods the first 3 days of it ugh. So annoying! I don't want kids ever so why do I need to keep bleeding?!
xxxGothBarbie
08-03-2021, 04:57 AM
Another thing that Im pissed off is the fact that this bar here in nyc applied a tip to the check without my consent. I ordered 2 drinks and the waitress checked on me once then expected a 20% tip?! Ugh I dont tip if you don't check on me more than once. Do your job & lose the entitlement yuck!
Elektra Luxx
08-03-2021, 05:56 AM
Allergies are killing me! I woke up tearing up and the nose is congested, keeps running and keep having sneezing spells where I'll sneeze uncontrollably like 10 times in a row. Yesterday was totally fine. WTF!!!
whirlerz
08-03-2021, 06:09 AM
Allergies are killing me! I woke up tearing up and the nose is congested, keeps running and keep having sneezing spells where I'll sneeze uncontrollably like 10 times in a row. Yesterday was totally fine. WTF!!!
Yes, it's like that, depends on the pollen count, pollution, wind etc..
Do you use nose spray? I use a saline one from $ store, & also Sinus Plumber brand, it has peppers in it, but works. Amazon, Walmart (u have to order it).
So, the roomie couple that lives here are not only home this next 2 weeks :yikes: but they bought new bicycles, keeping 'em in the kitchen, & it
STINKS from the tires.
I opened the front door to air it out, cripes!
whirlerz
08-03-2021, 10:39 AM
WHYYY is it:
Impossible to buy a zippered mattress cover, ( unless order online), &, whyy is the women's lingerie always hidden in dept stores???
TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 11:02 AM
Allergies are killing me! I woke up tearing up and the nose is congested, keeps running and keep having sneezing spells where I'll sneeze uncontrollably like 10 times in a row. Yesterday was totally fine. WTF!!!
My son uses something called NeilMed sinus rinse (and sometimes he takes 24-hour Zyrtec). NeilMed was something his former school teacher recommended to me. I think it was like $15 for a box, and I used to get mad when I'd noticed my son not using it, and I could hear all his crazy allergy/sinus noises while I'm in my room trying work. Lol. He brought it with him to PA, and my grandmom told me that yes, he has been using it everyday. :)
TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 11:09 AM
Another thing that Im pissed off is the fact that this bar here in nyc applied a tip to the check without my consent. I ordered 2 drinks and the waitress checked on me once then expected a 20% tip?! Ugh I dont tip if you don't check on me more than once. Do your job & lose the entitlement yuck!
I'd be pissed too. I may have even given more than a 20% tip (Maybe 25%), but fuck that if they're gonna be automatically applying the 20% tip to the bill without your consent anyway.
Elektra Luxx
08-03-2021, 03:04 PM
Yes, it's like that, depends on the pollen count, pollution, wind etc..
Do you use nose spray? I use a saline one from $ store, & also Sinus Plumber brand, it has peppers in it, but works. Amazon, Walmart (u have to order it).
My son uses something called NeilMed sinus rinse (and sometimes he takes 24-hour Zyrtec). NeilMed was something his former school teacher recommended to me. I think it was like $15 for a box, and I used to get mad when I'd noticed my son not using it, and I could hear all his crazy allergy/sinus noises while I'm in my room trying work. Lol. He brought it with him to PA, and my grandmom told me that yes, he has been using it everyday. :)
I take generic Zyrtec from amazon, but something is overwhelming my system. Allergy reports for my area say that dust and dander are really high.
JGB2009
08-03-2021, 06:07 PM
I'd be pissed too. I may have even given more than a 20% tip (Maybe 25%), but fuck that if they're gonna be automatically applying the 20% tip to the bill without your consent anyway.
I think I am about to start to use cash only. Especially places where tips are expected. I always tip with cash but I am always afraid someone will try to still add a tip to my credit card as well. If you don't have my credit card then you cant do that with me.
TheBrownFox
08-03-2021, 06:36 PM
I think I am about to start to use cash only. Especially places where tips are expected. I always tip with cash but I am always afraid someone will try to still add a tip to my credit card as well. If you don't have my credit card then you cant do that with me.
This is what I've decided to do too, whenever using cash is an option. I really don't like it when I check my debit card bank statements (on the banking mobile app), and find myself scratching my head over certain transactions. I heard that in 2020, places like Six Flags decided to ban cash transactions due to COVID (*Eye roll*), but I sure hope that's no longer the case. I'll most likely be going there for my birthday in less than two weeks, and I DO NOT want to be forced to have to pay for everything via debit card. I like to deal with a transaction, and have it instantly be done and over with (Cash).
xxxGothBarbie
08-03-2021, 07:38 PM
I think I am about to start to use cash only. Especially places where tips are expected. I always tip with cash but I am always afraid someone will try to still add a tip to my credit card as well. If you don't have my credit card then you cant do that with me.
This is a wonderful idea! :P
She didn't even really deserve a tip bc she came over once in the 45 mins I was sitting there drinking my drinks.
WendiStarr
08-04-2021, 11:42 AM
Wtf is with my old high school? Grr! It has been over a week now and I'm still waiting on them to send my damn transcripts. They need to hurry the hell up with it because classes are starting soon for the Bachelor degree program I'm interested in and I'll be pissed if I miss the deadline again. Why the heck can't anybody answer the frickin phone there? Idiots!
Vyanka
08-04-2021, 12:59 PM
^ Bummer about that " nude " requirement !
Last time I worked nude I loved that it was up to you on stage, ugh.
Also I feel like it's such a good incentive for the guy to get in the BACK and spend if he wants to see more !!!
I personally think more clubs should be " staggered " in tiers of bikini only on stage, topless dances, and nude options in VIP only.
Nude vip option, the dancer cut better be generous with a fat tip on top and absolutely NO touching the cookie or stimulating sex act.... I'd be ok with that.
lilylilylily
08-04-2021, 04:21 PM
Dude at the grocery store following me around and making it so obvious. No matter which isle I went in the store, boom he's there pretending not to watch me. Was he trying to see if I was gonna steal something because i was browsing..well then he's very bad at his job.I should have complained or said something to him. Ugh
lynn2009
08-05-2021, 09:44 AM
I have landscapers here and they are all sweaty and smelly and sitting on my lounge chairs. I know it's not a very big deal but those cushions don't have washable covers and I think it's gross to get your ass sweat all over someone else's furniture.
Edit: now I'm really mad because there were cigarette butts left in my yard and the chairs stink. I am going to throw them out.
whirlerz
08-05-2021, 09:52 AM
Yep, can relate!^
Kitchen STINKS bad!
Dishes sitting there, God knows how long, landlord doesn't GAF.
The ppl get mad if I wash 'em, (which I shouldn't, & wont, btw they're both home since Monday!)
YIPES:yikes::yikes::yikes::
55752
whirlerz
08-05-2021, 10:02 AM
Dude at the grocery store following me around and making it so obvious. No matter which isle I went in the store, boom he's there pretending not to watch me. Was he trying to see if I was gonna steal something because i was browsing..well then he's very bad at his job.I should have complained or said something to him. Ugh
Yea, definitely complain!
Once, I complained, the clerk's all, "We know him, blah, blah", to which I replied, I don't GAF if he's your Family, get him TFO or I'll call the cops!
They made him wait up front til I left..
Seriously, too much stuff going on RN to not take this seriously, you never know what someone intentions are!!!
A woman was MURDERED in a store in my area, the guy thought she was cutting in line, she was just asking a price.. stabbed to death in a store in broad daylight over nothing!!
lilylilylily
08-05-2021, 11:11 AM
Omg that is scary. Maybe I'll call the store today and let then know about that guy...im still upset about it. It's a store I rarely go to anyway but wanted to check their prices. People shouldn't be made so uncomfortable while they shop
TheBrownFox
08-05-2021, 11:35 AM
Dude at the grocery store following me around and making it so obvious. No matter which isle I went in the store, boom he's there pretending not to watch me. Was he trying to see if I was gonna steal something because i was browsing..well then he's very bad at his job.I should have complained or said something to him. Ugh
That's creepy. I'm sorry you went through that. A woman in a local Facebook group I'm in posted about the same thing happening at our local Food Lion.
I probably would've pulled out my keys (which has my pink pepper spray on it), and dangled them in my right hand and asked real loud "IS THERE A REASON YOU KEEP FOLLOWING ME ALL AROUND THIS STORE?!" And then report him to the manager.
whirlerz
08-05-2021, 11:45 AM
I have landscapers here and they are all sweaty and smelly and sitting on my lounge chairs. I know it's not a very big deal but those cushions don't have washable covers and I think it's gross to get your ass sweat all over someone else's furniture.
Get a magic eraser, you'll love it!
The dollar store has 'em.
xxxGothBarbie
08-05-2021, 12:37 PM
Sooo annoyed today that a couple of my regs said they'd cam with me then nothing ugh. I'm soo fed up with this line of work sometimes. If I charge them a cam deposit they'll totally never do it & prob lose their measly $ anyway. Gonna just go play with my boytoy tonight & forget work.
Marina Starr
08-05-2021, 12:42 PM
I'm feeling annoyed that I don't have any pissy or petty shit to rant about for today!
TheBrownFox
08-05-2021, 12:51 PM
27 new notifications on OnlyFans, and NOT one of them is a purchase or a tip. Lol. Of course not.....
JGB2009
08-05-2021, 01:18 PM
My sons school has orientation today but I am annoyed because the school will be making us go from class to class when the bell rings. Doing it this way makes me have to stay at the school way longer ugh!!!!
Aurora_Sunset
08-05-2021, 01:19 PM
When I went to set my zone in Shipt, I realized they're not even directly around here. I have to travel into the next closest areas (one of which is sketchy) in order to do shops. And they're all at Meijer - no Kroger. I don't use Meijer. I have no idea of their products or layout.
chanzep
08-05-2021, 09:47 PM
tried a different brand of frozen yogurt and it gives me wind smh.
miss.a.p1600
08-06-2021, 11:18 AM
I feel myself getting frustrated
I miss my thc
I’m going to order a secret stash here soon.
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-06-2021, 11:20 AM
I have a dull headache for no reason. Great.
WendiStarr
08-06-2021, 01:59 PM
Packing to move fucking sucks. It's even worse when you have kids. I'm so over it. I'm definitely hiring movers to move the shit. I wish I could hire them to pack it too. I'm also annoyed at BD. He has so many boxes of shit here in the basement and is totally useless since he can't lift anything. I feel so aggravated that I had to move all his stuff to get to mine. I've been throwing some of my stuff out just so I have less to pack and bring with me. My body hurts and I want a nice, warm bath but I know that's not happening because our bathtub is jacked up.
indiegirl
08-06-2021, 02:42 PM
Packing to move fucking sucks. It's even worse when you have kids. I'm so over it. I'm definitely hiring movers to move the shit. I wish I could hire them to pack it too. I'm also annoyed at BD. He has so many boxes of shit here in the basement and is totally useless since he can't lift anything. I feel so aggravated that I had to move all his stuff to get to mine. I've been throwing some of my stuff out just so I have less to pack and bring with me. My body hurts and I want a nice, warm bath but I know that's not happening because our bathtub is jacked up.
I feel like Lowe's has the cheapest boxes compared to Home Depot. I reached a point in my moves in the past where I was using trash bags and the movers would pack the furniture safely LOL.
One of the good parts of moving is getting rid of the things you totally forgot you don't need anymore :P.
Some of those movers can haul butt though and move things so fast compared to your average person!
My last final move was with all my crap in my car, a big dog sitting on the car floor, the furniture in storage, and a 60-ish lb dog on my lap for 6 hours hahaha. Not comfy at all.
WendiStarr
08-07-2021, 10:54 AM
I'm officially done today with the menstrual suppression meds. I woke up even more nauseous than I have been, hot flashes, and my period started. I'm tossing the pills in the trash. I don't like this miserable nausea all day and night long for a month now, when I'm trying to pack and get stuff done.
whirlerz
08-07-2021, 11:07 AM
When I went to set my zone in Shipt, I realized they're not even directly around here. I have to travel into the next closest areas (one of which is sketchy) in order to do shops. And they're all at Meijer - no Kroger. I don't use Meijer. I have no idea of their products or layout.
Meijer are HUGE!
Idk how it is now, but their lines to pay were long, even the self checkout
whirlerz
08-07-2021, 11:14 AM
Oh, a 'certain' thread in Crusty convo, the fake guy, & someone goes, Zzz, hilarious!
whirlerz
08-07-2021, 11:16 AM
Moving Boxes: go to a liquor store, they're the best! :)
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-07-2021, 11:25 AM
Moving Boxes: go to a liquor store, they're the best! :)
Damned straight, Liquor stores have nice clean boxes that have been opened properly.
Petty annoyance- stores are already putting out Halloween items....It's the beginning of fucking August. Geez.
This reminds me of the derpy waitresses I worked with cooing about Pumpkin Spice everything. Like, it's marketing bitches. Live your own life, don't buy everything set in front of you. (The perils of living in a Capitalist country.)
whirlerz
08-07-2021, 11:31 AM
I'm already irritated w/back to school , (like a month ago!)
Now they're doing Halloween?
Sigh
Aurora_Sunset
08-09-2021, 07:17 AM
I swear bio-mom is basically a different person when stepdad is around. The past 2 weeks that she's been quarantined with the kids without him, she's been pretty pleasant, even though we've had to talk to her several times. Even the one time she got upset about something, she wasn't anywhere near as nasty as I would think she'd normally be over something like that. Suddenly, quarantine is over and she's back to being a heinous bitch over the dumbest shit.
Aurora_Sunset
08-09-2021, 08:42 AM
It's always sunny all week and then shit/rainy weather on my day off. I wanna lie by the pool!
WendiStarr
08-09-2021, 11:56 AM
The cost of the movers, rental truck, and storage. I hate when I think back to the days pre-covid when I only had 1 kid who was in school so I could easily make that $ back in one day while she was at school. Now I'm like, fuck. That would take me like 10 fbsm appointments to make that back, with babysitting costs, and hotel fees included or 80 hours of camming if I put in 8 hours a day over the course of 2 weeks. Depressing.
Daniellaa
08-09-2021, 12:48 PM
My eyes/contacts are so watery and irritated from wildfire smoke a million miles away. It's so crazy to me how far that stuff can travel.
LoveyD
08-09-2021, 01:49 PM
My roommate is trying to hire me to help her with her art show stuff, but the thing is, I don't want to do it. I don't like having working relatiinships with people I live with. She wants to front me money to get my car fixed and work it off, but I would rather ask Shipt if they can advance me a small loan and I can arrange to work it off. When I worked in advertising I found it boring and I don't want to go to art shows right now because of covid.
I guess it feels like she is pressuring me and the more she does it the more i back away. Wish she'd just hire someone who is an expert because I don't think I know what I am doing and I don't want to disappoint her. I hate feeling pressured. I want my own place again lol
carmen_b
08-09-2021, 02:18 PM
^ Just tell her you are already at full time / max work hours.
I know what you mean! :)
It would cause me anxiety unless there was a very clear written agreement and prob some money offered every 4-8 work hours !
I’m a paid up front girl ha. Lap dances , deposits for my freelance small business work , all of it !
I can’t even stomach the risk of lost time or delayed payments.
:/
I remember being out on a job and someone was like “ you are the only one working this week who requested daily pay in your booking contract “. I’m just thinking “ yeah that sounds right “ ha.