View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
WendiStarr
08-18-2021, 11:45 AM
I'm annoyed with doctors. It was baby's 18 month old checkup and the cunt was trying to make me feel like a bad mom because baby is 4lbs underweight according to her weight chart. I feed the baby 3 meals a day with us and she has several snacks throughout the day too. The cunt made a big deal about her still breastfeeding in addition to eating solid food, saying that I'm going to cause her to have rotten teeth because of her being breastfed and that I must not be feeding her enough solid food. She's just very active and has a high metabolism, exactly as I did when I was a kid and before I had kids. My oldest is also skinny. I remember when I was younger doctors accusing me of starving myself and telling me to eat, even though I ate a lot. I'm tired of ignorant doctors. I'm Eurasian. It's in my genetics and theirs to be on the smaller side.
LoveyD
08-18-2021, 05:48 PM
^^^ I hate people who mom shame like that.
I remember when my son was younger. He and his hockey buddy went out for dinner with his friend's family. Kiddo eats when he is hungry on a regular basis and I don't force him to eat past feeling full. The kid can put away a Philly Cheeseteak and you have no idea where it goes. Anyhow, He was excited at the dinner having fun and didn't eat much BC he said he wasn't hungry. When the lady came to drop him off, she scolded me because my kid "doesn't eat" and he is not as big as her own son. Mind you, she and her husband are tall, large people and I am 5'2" 130 and his dad is 5'7" and has a smaller frame too. I told her that his father and I are way smaller than she and her husband are and how dare she body shame my son right in front of him! Shut the bitch up.
TheBrownFox
08-18-2021, 06:14 PM
^^^ I hate people who mom shame like that.
I remember when my son was younger. He and his hockey buddy went out for dinner with his friend's family. Kiddo eats when he is hungry on a regular basis and I don't force him to eat past feeling full. The kid can put away a Philly Cheeseteak and you have no idea where it goes. Anyhow, He was excited at the dinner having fun and didn't eat much BC he said he wasn't hungry. When the lady came to drop him off, she scolded me because my kid "doesn't eat" and he is not as big as her own son. Mind you, she and her husband are tall, large people and I am 5'2" 130 and his dad is 5'7" and has a smaller frame too. I told her that his father and I are way smaller than she and her husband are and how dare she body shame my son right in front of him! Shut the bitch up.
I really hate it when people compare kids like that. It's rude and insensitive. My mom did the same shit when my son was little (When he wasn't talking yet), talking about "Well So and so's baby is the same age as him, and she's talking and saying ABC's!" Um...good for her? I didn't realize it's a "Whose baby reaches milestones first?" contest? *Rolls eyes*
Also, sorry to hear that your doctor is such a bitch, Wendi. They do not know everything. I was the one who had to tell my son's doctor (years ago) that I suspected he had asthma, and she was quick to dismiss me until I got a phone call from the school nurse that he'd been wheezing, and I had to come pick him up from school. I took him back to the doctor, and she finally listened to his breathing and was like "Okay, it seems he does have asthma." *Eye roll*
Shit, if doctors knew everything, then my gynecologist would have an answer for me for why I bleed so fucking much and go through so many pads (I've even had a vaginal ultrasound to see if they could find anything). It's really upsetting, and almost makes me feel like something is "broken" on the inside. Doctors DO NOT know everything.
JGB2009
08-19-2021, 10:00 AM
I hate a stupid man who comes in my free chat asking if its slow. Like its none of your business and if you don't wanna pay for a show etc then exit out of my room.
TheBrownFox
08-19-2021, 12:06 PM
I hate a stupid man who comes in my free chat asking if its slow. Like its none of your business and if you don't wanna pay for a show etc then exit out of my room.
I hate it when the non-tipping dudes ask that. Like thanks, Captain Obvious, for reminding me and the other freeloaders that no one's tipping! And they always ask "What are you up to?" (Working...DUH), or "How's your night going so far?" (Which, imo, is their freeloader way of asking "Anyone tipping you? gonna get those tits out any time soon?")
charlie61
08-19-2021, 12:14 PM
My employer is switching to an Agile workplace when we return to the office. Basically, we'll no longer have assigned desks, so it'll be a free-for-all every day. We'll have lockers to put our personal items in and we'll find a place to work that was potentially used by someone else the day before.
This sounds like an absolute fucking nightmare to me... not only because of the pandemic and cross-contamination issues, but also because the idea of having no "home base" at work is so uncomfortable for me. Seems like a bizarre time for my business to make this decision. And sounds super distracting. I'm dreading this. We may only have a month or two of working from home left.
I'm in an individual contributor role where i meet with people who are not at my location, so coming back into the office will feel really silly and pointless. I'll just be sitting there in this distracting, open-office concept with my headphones on, trying to focus on my work.
lurkingtitties
08-19-2021, 02:10 PM
Wendi-it’s normal for babies to still be breastfeeding at 17 months wtf!!!
lurkingtitties
08-19-2021, 02:56 PM
Didn’t get enough sleep last night and I feel it affecting my mood and making me think self-defeating thoughts. Oh well, gotta get dressed and go to CrossFit anyway regardless of what the negative voice in my head says.
whirlerz
08-19-2021, 03:23 PM
My employer is switching to an Agile workplace when we return to the office. Basically, we'll no longer have assigned desks, so it'll be a free-for-all every day. We'll have lockers to put our personal items in and we'll find a place to work that was potentially used by someone else the day before.
This sounds like an absolute fucking nightmare to me... not only because of the pandemic and cross-contamination issues, but also because the idea of having no "home base" at work is so uncomfortable for me. Seems like a bizarre time for my business to make this decision. And sounds super distracting. I'm dreading this. We may only have a month or two of working from home left.
I'm in an individual contributor role where i meet with people who are not at my location, so coming back into the office will feel really silly and pointless. I'll just be sitting there in this distracting, open-office concept with my headphones on, trying to focus on my work.
Can you ask if you can still do remote?
I hope you can!
It does sound like a nightmare!
I read an online article talking about the extra $ it'll now cost for a commute.
whirlerz
08-19-2021, 03:26 PM
Wendi-it’s normal for babies to still be breastfeeding at 17 months wtf!!!
Cocoa, (Ice T wife) breast feeds her daughter, & she's 4!
charlie61
08-19-2021, 05:09 PM
Can you ask if you can still do remote?
I hope you can!
It does sound like a nightmare!
I read an online article talking about the extra $ it'll now cost for a commute.
Yeah, I'll have a hybrid schedule - work from home part time, in the office part time. It could definitely be worse! They decide that by role in my company, and it can't be negotiated. Good thought, thank you!
whirlerz
08-19-2021, 07:02 PM
I think my one roomie snatched a piece of toast I was making, or the ghosts here got it..
Yes we have, the guy's camera caught a photo
TheBrownFox
08-20-2021, 02:17 PM
Five more days 'til my hardheaded son gets the fuck outta my house, and moves into his dorm, and I'm so happy! Tired of the stubborness and the attitude. He was supposed to get his hair cut today (Had an appointment), but since he doesn't fucking listen and waited 'til the last minute to take his smelly self into the bathroom to shower, we're not catching the bus now (Was gonna use my debit card to pay for his haircut). So he'll continue to walk around looking like Kunte Kinte then.....
I'm not doing this 'Catching the bus' shit with him anymore either. I'm DONE. This is the same bus that I take all the time by myself, and I have enough sense to be showered, dressed, and AT the bus stop at least 5 minutes prior to the scheduled time. Make your own damn appointment...catch the bus (Or walk) there yourself...and pay for it yourself (He's got more money in the bank than I do). I'm not making any more appointments for him, and then having to cancel because he wants to act like a dumbass.
miss.a.p1600
08-21-2021, 05:40 AM
^Girl you are a trip!
I can only imagine how challenging to have a teen/adult son
TheBrownFox
08-21-2021, 11:26 AM
^Girl you are a trip!
I can only imagine how challenging to have a teen/adult son
Omg, and then with my niece's birthday coming up, there will be pics taken (And posted on FB, I'm sure)...and then pics of his Move-In Day. Wtf. Yeah, the rough Kunte Kinte look's gotta go (No offense to Kunte Kinte!). GET THAT HAIRCUT! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
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carmen_b
08-21-2021, 12:09 PM
He’s old enough to arrange the appt , get himself there , and pay !
Hopefully he will haha.
indiegirl
08-21-2021, 12:37 PM
WTF....I of all people got reported for misuse of wearing a mask in my lyft ride. Of course I wore my mask..I don't want to expose myself to the amount of people in their car. I even roll the passenger window down. Sometimes it feels like I'm the only one wearing a mask in the bougie parts of OC. Not even all of the hotel staff are wearing them and they have customers coming from Disneyland. *EYEROLL*
I now am required to send a photo of me in my mask to lyft because of some IDIOT every time I drive with them.
carmen_b
08-21-2021, 06:03 PM
^ I'm on their shit list too.
I honestly didn't know about it ( I probably didn't look closely ) and just hopped in in Vegas mask free a week ago.
I have to send my photo in now too lol .
carmen_b
08-21-2021, 06:05 PM
I'm a person highly attached to certain dates and places.
Tomorrow is a big day that I am trying to not let get to me. It was the day my ex gave me the " it's over between us " speech three years ago at one of my favorite places ( thanks for ruining it .... barf ) . There was SO much confusion and pain in that break up. He celebrated our 7 year anniversary with me a couple weeks prior. It led to a really dark place ( I'm SO OUT NOW though ) ! It took A LOT to work through both the weight gain and depression that plagued me. It has taken 3 years of SERIOUS work to move forward.
I should have added the meds back THEN ( 3-4 years ago ) but live and learn.
I was depressed during our last year together I believe. It still bothers me that he didn't push me towards getting help but maybe in his own way he tried .
I'm going to try to stay busy and distracted tomorrow. :)
It would have been 10 years for us in early Aug.
Oddly I didn't have a hard time with our actually anniversary earlier in the month.
I want to forget these two dates in particular as they are no longer relevant.
indiegirl
08-21-2021, 07:07 PM
^ I'm on their shit list too.
I honestly didn't know about it ( I probably didn't look closely ) and just hopped in in Vegas mask free a week ago.
I have to send my photo in now too lol .
Do you know how long we're required to send the photos in? I tried to reach customer service to dispute it and I can't seem to reach a human being on the other end.
It so triggered me back to spending 20k on my dui's. Like really, I'm following the rules in life now, did the breathalyzer on my car and classes for 18 months as well as court trips every few months, and now I am getting penalized for something I did not do?! He sent 3 alerts to lyft and I was confused if it was because I didn't tip. I mostly looked at my phone the entire ride exhausted. Part of me got mad at home and wanted to be like "fuck it and get behind the wheel" but I've learned my lesson.
TheBrownFox
08-22-2021, 12:19 AM
He’s old enough to arrange the appt , get himself there , and pay !
Hopefully he will haha.
My dad talked to him on the phone earlier, and said he'll pick him up to take him to get a haircut.
miss.a.p1600
08-22-2021, 11:36 AM
L’s relatives popped up again.
I love them dearly but ffs!!!…….give a lady some ADVANCE notice.
Otherwise I’ll be taking long showers, doing makeup, etc and NO the place won’t be Stepford Wife clean so don’t say shit!
WendiStarr
08-22-2021, 12:42 PM
I'm feeling stressed now because the 2 male relatives who were supposed to help the kids and I escape
suddenly realized that they will be busy on moving day. I can't change the day. The landlord is not negotiable and doesn't give two fucks. I have to leave safely somehow.
charlie61
08-22-2021, 12:47 PM
I'm feeling stressed now because the 2 male relatives who were supposed to help the kids and I escape
suddenly realized that they will be busy on moving day. I can't change the day. The landlord is not negotiable and doesn't give two fucks. I have to leave safely somehow.
Do you have funds to hire someone to help? I've used taskrabbit in the past to hire burly, big guys to help move the heavy stuff. It wasn't super expensive. And they have reviews so you can hire someone who's very experienced. I'm sure you could also let the guy/s know more about your situationand any concerns you might have.
Aurora_Sunset
08-22-2021, 01:57 PM
Of course, OF COURSE, there isn't any OT today or tomorrow. For 3 weeks, there's been plenty on the days I can't/don't want to work, but now that I got my head back in the game and said I'll be snatching up 60 hour weeks, there's nothing.
Gonna eat a weed gummy and stay up late tonight since I have nowhere to be in the morning and hubby will be working.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-22-2021, 02:20 PM
Don't ask me how I like my eggs when all you know how to do is scrambled. Got my mouth all watered up for nothing.
TheBrownFox
08-22-2021, 02:50 PM
DoorDash trying to be slick, resetting my delivery option to "Leave it at my door" (Knowing damn well I always saved the "Hand it to me" option in the settings). Lol. I have to change it back to "Hand it to me" every time I order now.
Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2021, 07:28 AM
omfg
Facebook issued me an "account warning" for "inciting violence" and "threat of serious injury."
A couple of my friends were going back and forth roasting me on one of my statuses. My response was "About to block the lot of ya. Right after I kick you in the shins." It was in reference to the fact that they were teasing me about my height, and it's a running joke that short people kick tall people in the shins - cuz we're too small to do anything else of actual damage.
I appealed the decision to a real person, instead if their dumb algorithm, and they upheld that it "violated community standards."
Lok, fucking ok, Facebook.
It was clearly a joke, amongst friends, you fucking mouthbreathers. My facebook profile is completely 100% private as well, so obviously, the people I'm engaging with are friends.
Also, on what planet does shin kicking result in SERIOUS injury? Omfg, I can't.
I would laugh it off more easily if this wasn't the same platform that, several years ago, refused 7 times in a row, to delete a blatantly fake profile that was issuing me death threats because they claimed it "didn't violate any guidelines." I had to copy and paste their own fucking rules about fake profiles and it being against ToS to have a profile for the express purpose of disparaging and harassing specific people into my EIGTH request to get someone to do something about it. Their moderators are a joke.
WendiStarr
08-23-2021, 03:10 PM
My toothbrush mysteriously went missing, along with the kids' toothbrushes. BD claims not to know anything about it. He said that the baby must've done something with them but a.)They are normally up high on a shelf(5 ft). She can't reach that. I doubt my oldest would've done anything with the toothbrushes. I checked the garbage and they're not there either. He's being petty as hell.
TheBrownFox
08-23-2021, 10:38 PM
omfg
Facebook issued me an "account warning" for "inciting violence" and "threat of serious injury."
A couple of my friends were going back and forth roasting me on one of my statuses. My response was "About to block the lot of ya. Right after I kick you in the shins." It was in reference to the fact that they were teasing me about my height, and it's a running joke that short people kick tall people in the shins - cuz we're too small to do anything else of actual damage.
I appealed the decision to a real person, instead if their dumb algorithm, and they upheld that it "violated community standards."
Lok, fucking ok, Facebook.
It was clearly a joke, amongst friends, you fucking mouthbreathers. My facebook profile is completely 100% private as well, so obviously, the people I'm engaging with are friends.
Also, on what planet does shin kicking result in SERIOUS injury? Omfg, I can't.
I would laugh it off more easily if this wasn't the same platform that, several years ago, refused 7 times in a row, to delete a blatantly fake profile that was issuing me death threats because they claimed it "didn't violate any guidelines." I had to copy and paste their own fucking rules about fake profiles and it being against ToS to have a profile for the express purpose of disparaging and harassing specific people into my EIGTH request to get someone to do something about it. Their moderators are a joke.
I think I've posted on here about the multiple times I've been put in Facebook Jail for absolute NONSENSE. One of the times was because I posted "Dudes are fuckin' pigs."
Meanwhile people get away with posting racist remarks on there, and bullying people, and I don't see anything happen to them.
moneybags
08-24-2021, 12:39 AM
^^^ugh.
There was a guy in my laundry room hiding behind the door. He was crouched down and the lights were off. Jesus it’s time to move. I can’t anymore! I don’t know how he got in. All the doors should be locked. It’s nice outside. If he’s homeless he can sleep outside. If it was cold, I would be a little bit more understanding. I can’t live in apartment where my neighbors are violent and there’s homeless people hiding in laundry rooms. Jesus.
I called the manager and she was mad I didn’t call the police. I hate the police! I’m a domestic violence survivor and the police never helped-they always made things worse. She was totally unempathetic and blamed me for not calling the police. I shouldn’t have to call the police on a regular basis! I get what she’s saying, but I’m the victim here.
I definitely will call the police from now on. Most often I just got home from work at 3am and I want to go to bed.
Who has time to record their neighbors violating lease terms and to wait around for the police. I’ve done that several times already.
I just would like to admit the apartment complex is trash and so are the people who live here. I’m not exactly sure why? Maybe because it’s cheap to live here. It’s like living in the ghetto or something. I guess that’s why I’m mad because I’m paying full price to live in ghetto apartments. Fucking ridiculous!
JGB2009
08-24-2021, 10:11 AM
I don't like it when you get mad. You always nitpick the situation and won't leave it alone. I could argue back but I choose not to do so because I would not be solving a damn thing.
indiegirl
08-24-2021, 11:38 AM
I just merely exist in a snow globe of dog fur at home. I can't even have a clean glass of water without finding dog hairs in it as well as my food, even right after I pour the water in. That's why I shave you. Sometimes I'm too flat tired to pour my pitcher of water out and just drink it because fuck it, this is a daily thing.
TheBrownFox
08-24-2021, 02:43 PM
So as much as I'd hate to give up the 2-BR I'm in, I'm gonna talk to the leasing office about putting me in one of their 1-BR units. My son is 18...he's moving into his college dorm tomorrow...and I do not want to share a place with him anymore. I want to have a place where it's JUST me, and no one else having a key. I'm seeing all these Facebook posts where people are emotional about their kids leaving for college (and "Empty Nest"), and I'm over here thrilled. I've HAD IT with the disrespect and defiance (And today was the last straw with him literally twisting my arm and twisting my hand), and it certainly doesn't help matters any when I have a misogynistic father who spoils him and makes excuses for his bad behavior, and practically tells him that it's okay to not listen to your mother. I've had it with BOTH of them, actually.
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2021, 03:25 PM
Well that enjoyment for the engagement was short lived.
Now his Bertha ex wife found out (one of their kids told her) and she’s acting like a nutjob saying she’s going to run to court and put him on child support. He’s already been supporting their kids financially, didn’t argue with her when she wanted to leave town, etc
Ugh!!!!!!
If he don’t check this bitch n quit telling the crumbsnatchers all our business, I might “disappear”.
Le sigh!
Meanwhile my long time Facebook friend in TX hit me up and I’m trying to figure out how do I disclose being engaged, would the grass be greener on the other side, etc…..
whirlerz
08-24-2021, 03:48 PM
^^^ugh.
There was a guy in my laundry room hiding behind the door. He was crouched down and the lights were off. Jesus it’s time to move. I can’t anymore! I don’t know how he got in. All the doors should be locked. It’s nice outside. If he’s homeless he can sleep outside. If it was cold, I would be a little bit more understanding. I can’t live in apartment where my neighbors are violent and there’s homeless people hiding in laundry rooms. Jesus.
I called the manager and she was mad I didn’t call the police. I hate the police! I’m a domestic violence survivor and the police never helped-they always made things worse. She was totally unempathetic and blamed me for not calling the police. I shouldn’t have to call the police on a regular basis! I get what she’s saying, but I’m the victim here.
I definitely will call the police from now on. Most often I just got home from work at 3am and I want to go to bed.
Who has time to record their neighbors violating lease terms and to wait around for the police. I’ve done that several times already.
I just would like to admit the apartment complex is trash and so are the people who live here. I’m not exactly sure why? Maybe because it’s cheap to live here. It’s like living in the ghetto or something. I guess that’s why I’m mad because I’m paying full price to live in ghetto apartments. Fucking ridiculous!
I hear ya, same thing here!
No homeless tho, there's a guy that hangs by the empty lot, (w/a beer) I think he goes there to get out of the house, kinda weird tho. He's not there all the time..seems well dressed.
When I lived at Motel 6, an older couple would sneak in & sleep on a landing..we had a laundry, but it was super small, just enough for a couple of machines, I guess that's why
I just left them alone cause it was winter then, the guy said, "sorry", I'm like "it's ok".
whirlerz
08-24-2021, 03:59 PM
Also, I agreed to work an outdoor event, now w/the variant I don't want to. :(
indiegirl
08-24-2021, 04:08 PM
Well that enjoyment for the engagement was short lived.
Now his Bertha ex wife found out (one of their kids told her) and she’s acting like a nutjob saying she’s going to run to court and put him on child support. He’s already been supporting their kids financially, didn’t argue with her when she wanted to leave town, etc
Ugh!!!!!!
If he don’t check this bitch n quit telling the crumbsnatchers all our business, I might “disappear”.
Le sigh!
Meanwhile my long time Facebook friend in TX hit me up and I’m trying to figure out how do I disclose being engaged, would the grass be greener on the other side, etc…..
Wait, did I miss the post where he proposed or how he did it?! Dang it!!! Where is it?
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2021, 04:10 PM
I confessed ….. in the confessions thread lol!
indiegirl
08-24-2021, 04:14 PM
I confessed ….. in the confessions thread lol!
I just read it! Awwww! Congratulations!!!
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2021, 04:16 PM
And now im pissed thinking about the extra money he gave this hoe (above n beoynd typical child support) that i dont think he should have given her……could have been used to get more furniture for this house.
He being too nice to the broad who could give zero fucks about him. Doing too much n allowing Bertha to hit him in the wallets.
Um no bitch those wallets are mine now especially if you’re going to act like an entitled, petty ingrate
miss.a.p1600
08-24-2021, 04:17 PM
Thank you indie! : )
LoveyD
08-24-2021, 04:22 PM
A small plane crashed on the 5 south in San Diego close to where I live. I was out running orders when it happened and it totally fucked up traffic. Glad my one order got cancelled because I would have been on the freeway right when it happened!
indiegirl
08-24-2021, 06:49 PM
I could literally smack a bitch. He’s been texting and calling me all day since the early morning and suddenly he’s not feeling so well right after I spend 160 on a hotel and 20 on an Uber. Fuck you man. That’s not fair. I was trying to be courteous seeing you and responding to all your responses. Now I gotta find someone else. Sorry, I’m just mad.
like why did you not bring up you felt bad all day long when you were blowing up my phone.
LoveyD
08-25-2021, 09:31 AM
Some asshole on shipt gave me a bad review and now since my avg rating is a 4.7 they want to give me a "refresher" test. I have to score 100 % or else I can't work for them anymore. This sucks because I do the best I can. I have til Monday to take the test so in the meantime I am going to hustle and stockpile funds til then just in case I don't pass. I am sure I will do fine. Looking for other app jobs now just in case.
xxxGothBarbie
08-25-2021, 10:59 AM
Some asshole on shipt gave me a bad review and now since my avg rating is a 4.7 they want to give me a "refresher" test. I have to score 100 % or else I can't work for them anymore. This sucks because I do the best I can. I have til Monday to take the test so in the meantime I am going to hustle and stockpile funds til then just in case I don't pass. I am sure I will do fine. Looking for other app jobs now just in case.
what an asshole! Some folks just wanna be dicks to make themselves feel better ugh. I'm sorry you're having to deal with that.
whirlerz
08-25-2021, 11:51 AM
Aw, so sorry, Lovey!
Some people are so ignorant!
100%, damn, that's demanding!
Im sure you'll be fine tho!
I just talked to this insurance guy this morning, kinda jerky::)
LoveyD
08-25-2021, 12:29 PM
Thanks gals. Actually my avg rating is 4.9. The 4.7 is from my last 50 orders. Anyway... People suck :-/
whirlerz
08-25-2021, 01:05 PM
Thanks gals. Actually my avg rating is 4.9. The 4.7 is from my last 50 orders. Anyway... People suck :-/
That's almost a 5!
TheBrownFox
08-25-2021, 02:44 PM
Some asshole on shipt gave me a bad review and now since my avg rating is a 4.7 they want to give me a "refresher" test. I have to score 100 % or else I can't work for them anymore. This sucks because I do the best I can. I have til Monday to take the test so in the meantime I am going to hustle and stockpile funds til then just in case I don't pass. I am sure I will do fine. Looking for other app jobs now just in case.
Oh, that sucks. I'm so sorry.
I can't remember if it was on the camsite Streamate or someplace else, but I remember reading a bunch of 5 stars reviews that someone got...and then ONE 1-star review where the asshole put something along the lines of "This girl got all of these 5 star reviews, so I just figured I'd be the first to give her one star." WTF! I really do feel like this was on Streamate.....