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charlie61
08-25-2021, 04:14 PM
Oh, that sucks. I'm so sorry.

I can't remember if it was on the camsite Streamate or someplace else, but I remember reading a bunch of 5 stars reviews that someone got...and then ONE 1-star review where the asshole put something along the lines of "This girl got all of these 5 star reviews, so I just figured I'd be the first to give her one star." WTF! I really do feel like this was on Streamate.....

That's horrible and interesting. We see this phenomenon everywhere. People love underdogs and will root for them, but if you're successful, people will start nitpicking, looking for flaws, and are more likely to write a negative comment or bad review.

Like my partner and i recently got Mexican at a restaurant that had a ton of five-star reviews, and the food and service we got were horrible. I won't get into details. But we ended up leaving one-star reviews (and I'm someone who rarely leaves reviews... if i do, it's positive). We never would've left negative reviews if the restaurant had clearly been struggling, or if the place only had a 3-star average...

LoveyD
08-25-2021, 05:41 PM
I've been delivering to a wealthy area and got forbid their milk isn't freezing cold when they get it , they bitch. I've been polite and respectful. Idk why I'd receive a low rating,

WendiStarr
08-25-2021, 06:17 PM
Omfg, I want nipple removal surgery! I don't care if that's not a thing. I don't want nipples. Any stimulation of them at all pisses me off and the baby doesn't seem to get it. I put Band-Aids over the stupid things, hoping she'd leave me alone but she still gropes at them and at night, she ends up getting them off so that she can eat in the middle of the night. She still doesn't want to quit nursing and I'm regretting letting her sleep in my bed because now she thinks that's where she's supposed to sleep.

miss.a.p1600
08-27-2021, 07:03 PM
L’s ex wife suddenly decides to come Into town and bring her bay bay kids.

Those kids are expecting him to buy them stuff, entertain them, and feed them.

Um no ma’am.

Keep those bay bays with you and do it with that $750 he sent you.

They can visit and that’s it!

Oh and I’ll most likely disappear so I won’t have to entertain.

indiegirl
08-27-2021, 08:37 PM
Someone I saw a month ago has covid which is why he stopped talking to me and is in quarantine. He was the one who wanted me to be his sugar baby. Of course I'm panicking. But I would've had it by now and he caught it recently. FUCK. I need a break from this shit. He even tried to see me multiple times over the month but our schedules never aligned. I'm a chronic webmd self diagnoser so I suddenly felt ill when I read the text LOL UGH.

Like I rarely go outside except for work mostly. Who knows what these guys are up to in their spare time as well as their kids and family going to school?

LoveyD
08-27-2021, 09:12 PM
So the Fuckhead Family I am staying with is having some sort of family shindig at their house. I went home to relax, saw everyone's cars out front, and bailed. I'm outside the grocery store charging my phone so I can relax in my car until they all leave and go to bed. The Bitch is probably waiting for me to get home so she can cause a scene in front of everyone to try and humiliate me, so I am steering clear. This sucks. I hope I find a peaceful new home just for me so I can stockpile funds and get a place for me and my son in the mountains. It is too damn crowded with assholes by the coast.

Marina Starr
08-28-2021, 05:00 AM
I can't stand loud mouthed people especially early morning. I'm sitting peacefully outside Starbucks sipping on my coffee then suddenly two vanilla hoes showed up talking and laughing loud as hell when they sitting inches from each other. Then my neighbor living three houses down is so loud when she's outside talking I can hear and understood her whole conversation.

Smh. Rant over.

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 07:25 AM
I can't stand loud mouthed people especially early morning. I'm sitting peacefully outside Starbucks sipping on my coffee then suddenly two vanilla hoes showed up talking and laughing loud as hell when they sitting inches from each other. Then my neighbor living three houses down is so loud when she's outside talking I can hear and understood her whole conversation.

Smh. Rant over.


Had to close the window because they started playing music outside. Shut the blinds too because I'm just sick of people and don't want to see them or them seeing me.

I feel you both, like stfu lol
I have a loud ac unit, & don't go out a whole lot..

Which brings me to: a former roomie, we text & talk, retired construction guy, not hot like my yummy electrician upstairs lol.
+ he's a drinker/smoker no car or license, he wants me to come out by his mom's place & swim, honestly I'd love to, but I know he's not vaxxed, probably not her either..
Just read article that older people have extreme risk of Delta, I'm older too, so fuck all that + 50 mile drive each way.

I'll be taking my room apart lol, trying to organize!
Took out garbage, swept kitchen, cleaned microwave, also briefly open doors & window there, put on ceiling fan, since the FUNK is strong!!!:yuck::yikes::weeping::thumbsdow

He likes hardly an a/c, its fucking 90+, high humidity>:(
Thank God for my room ac unit!

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 07:35 AM
So the Fuckhead Family I am staying with is having some sort of family shindig at their house. I went home to relax, saw everyone's cars out front, and bailed. I'm outside the grocery store charging my phone so I can relax in my car until they all leave and go to bed. The Bitch is probably waiting for me to get home so she can cause a scene in front of everyone to try and humiliate me, so I am steering clear. This sucks. I hope I find a peaceful new home just for me so I can stockpile funds and get a place for me and my son in the mountains. It is too damn crowded with assholes by the coast.

Oooh that SUX Lovey, yipes!!!:yikes::yuck:
Reminds me of when this woman/her guy lived in the little house behind my porch, they constantly had co. over.
Get an air horn (Loud) or a keychain panic button, just push it when she starts!
This an Airbnb? If so what a Travesty!

LoveyD
08-28-2021, 07:48 AM
^^An airhorn! Haha I love it!!!
Apparently it was somebody's b-day. Glad I was able to dodge it. These people suck.

carmen_b
08-28-2021, 08:44 AM
^ Lovey : I have found the turn of events with roomie such a bummer. You loved that place at first it seemed like !
Ugh ! Maybe she had an agenda for wanting you to move on but it's as simple as just having a clear conversation.
:/

I hate entertaining at home SO much.
I also hate going to other peoples houses unless they are super luxurious hahaha.
Just MEET somewhere ugh. So many options like restaurants, parks , ect . !

I might even be too hardcore with my partner now that I think about it ( he promised me only once a month having a party setting at the house ).

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 09:05 AM
^^An airhorn! Haha I love it!!!
Apparently it was somebody's b-day. Glad I was able to dodge it. These people suck.

Sucky people, my specialty!
Lol. When you live in houseful...:)

Carmen, agreed, but the cheep cheap factor..

Yes, waiting out front for mail, landlord just drove by, again? Hm.
You know, I'm glad I 'splain bout my lack of rent, & I did pay last week, he said he's ok (so far) w/this, cause I make an effort, he said he's going after the others (when able) so.. really can't blame him, everyone gotta eat ffs!
+ He opened the guys door, he's gone for 2months,left a giant non working tv screen, a vacuum & some other shit out in the hall for everyone to trip over>:(

Mail man asked me out for a beer, I said I don't drink, but we'd go out some time:)

WendiStarr
08-28-2021, 09:08 AM
This entire weekend needs to get the hell over with already. Today is especially stressful.

Also, a former SD turned salt daddy decided to contact me in the midst of all the chaos. He always has the most strange timing. I told him leave me alone unless he wants to help me. All he had to say was that he drove by a hotel that we had hooked up at, 7 years ago and he was thinking about how much fun we had back then. Tf! I don't care about that.

LoveyD
08-28-2021, 11:25 AM
I am grateful I have you ladies to talk to. I'm tired of civilian women essentially bullying me because of their own insecurity. Does anyone else here get targeted by civvy women? Jfc I don't even tell them i am a stripper. Wtf?

LoveyD
08-28-2021, 11:31 AM
^ Lovey : I have found the turn of events with roomie such a bummer. You loved that place at first it seemed like !
Ugh ! Maybe she had an agenda for wanting you to move on but it's as simple as just having a clear conversation.
:/

I hate entertaining at home SO much.
I also hate going to other peoples houses unless they are super luxurious hahaha.
Just MEET somewhere ugh. So many options like restaurants, parks , ect . !

I might even be too hardcore with my partner now that I think about it ( he promised me only once a month having a party setting at the house ).


Girl I hear you. I hate entertaining at home. Home is a sanctuary where you should be left alone in peace.

Yes, I loved the place at first. It's in a nice area by the beach. But when I reflect on this woman's treatment of me, I think she had it out for me from the get-go and I just blew off the early warning signs, partially because I really didn't give a fuck enough about her anyway. After I got to know this bitch better, it became clear that she is a selfish, self absorbed bitch who likes to bully others who are happier than she is.
For the most part, they have left me alone. But the few times I've interacted with her, it just became more obvious over time that she is a covert narcissist.

I'm finding my own place now. I can't do roommates.

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 11:57 AM
I am grateful I have you ladies to talk to. I'm tired of civilian women essentially bullying me because of their own insecurity. Does anyone else here get targeted by civvy women? Jfc I don't even tell them i am a stripper. Wtf?

well, I for one get targeted for their envy..
Case in point, the girl who moved in w/guy upstairs, right away she gives evil looks, ( before even moving in here)!btw he hit on me big time, I ignored it.

Idw him, he's a kid to me, (30's) & has a baby mama, no thanks!::)

The young girl who lives here w/the guy is ok, we talk a bit.



Girl I hear you. I hate entertaining at home. Home is a sanctuary where you should be left alone in peace.

Yes, I loved the place at first. It's in a nice area by the beach. But when I reflect on this woman's treatment of me, I think she had it out for me from the get-go and I just blew off the early warning signs, partially because I really didn't give a fuck enough about her anyway. After I got to know this bitch better, it became clear that she is a selfish, self absorbed bitch who likes to bully others who are happier than she is.
For the most part, they have left me alone. But the few times I've interacted with her, it just became more obvious over time that she is a covert narcissist.

I'm finding my own place now. I can't do roommates.

Yep.!
Im pleasant to all, but keep to myself!
I DO NOT want to live w/even 1 other person, especially a man, too controlling, don't need that !
An animal, fine!

whirlerz
08-28-2021, 12:35 PM
So the Fuckhead Family I am staying with is having some sort of family shindig at their house. I went home to relax, saw everyone's cars out front, and bailed. I'm outside the grocery store charging my phone so I can relax in my car until they all leave and go to bed. The Bitch is probably waiting for me to get home so she can cause a scene in front of everyone to try and humiliate me, so I am steering clear. This sucks. I hope I find a peaceful new home just for me so I can stockpile funds and get a place for me and my son in the mountains. It is too damn crowded with assholes by the coast.

I use WebMd, also Mayo Clinic!

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 04:52 PM
L’s ex wife suddenly decides to come Into town and bring her bay bay kids.

Those kids are expecting him to buy them stuff, entertain them, and feed them.

Um no ma’am.

Keep those bay bays with you and do it with that $750 he sent you.

They can visit and that’s it!

Oh and I’ll most likely disappear so I won’t have to entertain.

L texts me this afternoon saying “the kids are sleeping over tonight”

Um that’s not what we discussed.

I tell him that he didn’t get their rooms set up like I told him to. And the air conditioning still is not fixed. And the boxes are still unpacked. And I agreed they could come over but I don’t think it’s a good idea they could spend the night because the plan was for them to just hang out since the ex wife popped up then then L would have their rooms ready by fall break.

You know what he does despite me telling him not to ….. told his kid that I said they couldn’t spend the night. Now I look like the bad guy.

I feel like he is not listening to me when I said don’t wait till last minute to prep their rooms

Then he didn’t listen to me when I said “you already told them they could spend the night so just keep your word”

He should have never agreed to the 9 year old that spending the night was okay when we hadn’t discussed it first. She doesn’t run the house we do!

Am I a mega cunt or is he?

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 05:04 PM
Idk.

What if I’m not cut out to deal with step-mom challenges.

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 05:39 PM
Idk.

What if I’m not cut out to deal with step-mom challenges.

I’ll be honest. I’m pissed he agreed to not just have them over but have them spend the night last fucking minute so I have to rush n prepare.

Kids do not run this shit! Say No!!!!!

Now I have to fake it around his kids.

He won’t be getting sex for a while.

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 05:48 PM
I think I’m really struggling with this step-mom thing and I need help.

He should have never sprung this shit on me.

I keep telling myself….it’s only one night.

I wouldn’t have a problem with this if it were advance notice and we had proper accommodations.

I feel like a mega cunt. If this doesn’t work out I’m never doing men with dependent aged kids.

Ugh!!!!!!! Ok I’ll stop rant posting now.

*Now I have to hang out with him and his bay bays. ……Help lol!

LoveyD
08-28-2021, 06:26 PM
Miss ap it's screwed up that he violated the boundaries you set only to turn around and make you the bad guy.

Tell him that if his kids are spending the night then he can rush around and prepare for them. You relax, go out, tend to yourself. That is really screwed up he made you the bad guy

I dated a guy with 3 kids. Ex bertha was a narcissist. I would go above and beyond and it was never enough. Then of course she'd turn the kids on me. It was a thankless task.

The only way I'd move in with a single dad is if he had full custody of kiddo and mom was not in the picture. Of course I'd be there for kiddo. It's not the kids that are the problem. It's the ex bertha broad being a bitch, or dad not honoring boundaries.

TheBrownFox
08-28-2021, 06:44 PM
It annoys me when guys on Twitter 'like' my "Your video just sold!" auto-tweet from several days ago, and for a second the notification has me thinking that I actually sold the video again RIGHT NOW. *Facepalm*

Also when they retweet stupid shit, such as my "I'm online on MyFreeCams!" auto-tweet from hours ago...and I've BEEN off cam. Lol. If ya like to retweet so much, why didn't you retweet my damn posts about my birthday...or about me doing that ManyVids Live Takeover...or about me attempting to do that raffle that was a complete bust?

miss.a.p1600
08-28-2021, 07:23 PM
Miss ap it's screwed up that he violated the boundaries you set only to turn around and make you the bad guy.

Tell him that if his kids are spending the night then he can rush around and prepare for them. You relax, go out, tend to yourself. That is really screwed up he made you the bad guy

I dated a guy with 3 kids. Ex bertha was a narcissist. I would go above and beyond and it was never enough. Then of course she'd turn the kids on me. It was a thankless task.

The only way I'd move in with a single dad is if he had full custody of kiddo and mom was not in the picture. Of course I'd be there for kiddo. It's not the kids that are the problem. It's the ex bertha broad being a bitch, or dad not honoring boundaries.

Agreed.

I ended up just agreeing to host them (so I wouldn’t seem like a complete cunt) but you’re right he would have been doing ALL the prep n cleanup

I halfway he slips into the passive aggressive pattern he did with his ex Bertha…..

That’s this stuff that get you ditched real quick

Anyhow One of his kids realized it was too hot (exactly what I said in the first place), didn’t want to stay, and he decided to go with the initial plan so they’re going back to their mom.

Thank heavens.

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 11:08 AM
Miss P :
Try to stick to a firm “ NO short notice changes “!
That way ... it becomes automated not a fight each time.
Its also *his* last minute change.
I’d go for yoga and brunch and let HIM rush.

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 11:11 AM
You don’t have to be there all day !! ^
It’s the key. I know from experience. :)

Oh nice , they didn’t stay. I scanned !!

Stick to your “ NO last minute changes “ boundaries or it opens a can of worms !
He can take on last minute stuff himself.

miss.a.p1600
08-29-2021, 11:18 AM
Miss ap it's screwed up that he violated the boundaries you set only to turn around and make you the bad guy.

Tell him that if his kids are spending the night then he can rush around and prepare for them. You relax, go out, tend to yourself. That is really screwed up he made you the bad guy

I dated a guy with 3 kids. Ex bertha was a narcissist. I would go above and beyond and it was never enough. Then of course she'd turn the kids on me. It was a thankless task.

The only way I'd move in with a single dad is if he had full custody of kiddo and mom was not in the picture. Of course I'd be there for kiddo. It's not the kids that are the problem. It's the ex bertha broad being a bitch, or dad not honoring boundaries.

Yes girl! Everything you said is on point

3 kids!!!…..You’re a good stepmother.

This reminded me of L’s daughter who it seems like no matter how kind n nice n giving……you’re not even going to be appreciated you’re just tolerated ….. mainly cause the Bertha mom is brainwashing them at every step.

Ugh!!!!

He puts her on speakerphone and her voice tone is unnecessarily aggressive

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 11:34 AM
No last minute !
No speaker phone ( because his annoying ex is his problem not yours I’d request he deal alone with phone calls ).
:)

J’s ex is allowed in ( what is now ) my house 8-10 minutes per week only for one pick up.
He will do the other pick up and run any forgotten items over .
I want firm boundaries and automation with scheduling. There is no “ stopping by “ for forgotten items ect .
In return we of course would never drop by or impact the ex’s schedule short notice.

carmen_b
08-29-2021, 11:35 AM
^ It’s different I know because I don’t have contention with the ex .

Boundaries are still amazing to keep everything on track!

whirlerz
08-29-2021, 11:56 AM
& this's why I won't work events..

https://chicago.eater.com/2021/8/27/22641197/lyrical-lemonade-summer-smash-bartenders-quit-illinois-mask-mandate-curtis-duffy-glenn-danzig

LoveyD
08-29-2021, 12:34 PM
Cracked my fucking phone.

TheBrownFox
08-29-2021, 06:03 PM
I was looking forward to that Italian cold cut I'd ordered from this particular place (DoorDash delivery), and then I opened the bag and it's nothing in there but fucking ice cream! They gave my Dasher someone else's order. I contacted my Dasher (who happens to be a Facebook friend of mine), and she was surprised and said that's the bag they gave her. I had DoorDash immediately refund the DD credits back to me, so that I could order something from someplace else. This is the second time this restaurant has fucked up my delivery order, so I won't be ordering delivery from there anymore. Only way they MIGHT get my money in the future is if I happen to be taking the bus to that shopping center anyway, and decide to go in there to place an order (Then I'd be able to check the bag before I go, to make sure they don't fuck up again).

I ended up getting a spicy chicken sandwich combo (with mashed potatoes with gravy and sweet tea) from Popeyes. Popeyes never fucks up my order.

TheBrownFox
08-29-2021, 06:52 PM
So I'm at the point now where I'm ready to tell my doctor to just schedule me for a damn hysterectomy and remove my uterus. I am TIRED of bleeding all the time (Affecting my sex life too). I've gone from one birth control pill...to another...and then to the Depo shot (which I've been on for at least 1 1/2 year now). So no, it's not "Just my body getting used to the birth control." END...THIS...NOW...

This is not normal.

Aurora_Sunset
08-30-2021, 06:45 AM
Housing prices are getting disgusting. Looking at houses around here, just for fun, and we saw one that someone bought less than a month ago for 148, and is immediately turning around and selling it for 207. Houses that, a couple years ago were in the low 100s, now close to 250. It's absolutely asinine. Rent isn't any better. I looked up my old apartment from 4 years ago, out of curiosity. 2 bed, 1 bath - it was $720 when I lived there, and I left because they were trying to up it to over $800 and it was too big of a leap. That same exact floorplan is now over $1200. Their smallest 1 bedroom is almost $1000. Wtf is this shit? We all know damn well they haven't done a single fucking thing to that apartment or community to almost be doubling the rent price.

My husband was listening to a podcast about the housing market right now, and they estimated that an average person nowadays would take 27 years to save up enough for a 20% downpayment for these prices. And that, of course, is assuming that rent doesn't keep skyrocketing to the point where you can't save a damn thing cuz we'll soon be spending 80% of our income on some dilapidated place to live. This is all so fucked.

Aurora_Sunset
08-30-2021, 09:13 AM
Feel like warmed-over crap today. There's really nothing I can do about it either, because I'm sure it's pretty much just from eating a bunch of junk food for 3 days straight. Nothing to make me feel better but eat well today and let my body detox the crap. Ugh, I miss being in my 20s and eating whatever I wanted.

indiegirl
08-30-2021, 09:49 AM
4th fake phone number from the same man who wanted to price gouge me, talk to me with " u, plz, babe, baby" and ask for photos of my ass, discounts, etc. within minutes of each other. It's day 2 of this shit. I got sick of it and said "Is this the same person who has been contacting me on 4 different phone numbers? LOLLLL. Don't "plz baby" me with your BS!

WendiStarr
08-30-2021, 11:13 AM
The townhouse apartment that I was supposed to be moving to is saying they don't have any available anymore but they can put me on a waiting list. I contacted another townhouse apartment community and although apartment.com says they have 2-3 townhouses available, they said they don't have any available at the moment but will soon. They couldn't tell me when "soon" will be. A relative told my mom had that the kids and I could live in her spare bedrooms but she hasn't answered the phone, neither calls or texts. I'm not going to just show up there. It's far and what if she doesn't answer the door? I give up on family because they are not reliable or helpful at all. Women are more likely to be killed by an abuser within the first few days and weeks after escaping. He has been crying and begging me to come back to him. Instead of family being my support system I hear shit about how I must've liked it to have put up with it for so long, how I must not be able to please a man in bed, must not be a good enough cook, etc. Yes, blame the abused woman, idiots. At least I will save a lot of money by not wasting any more money on birthday or Christmas presents for anyone other than my kids. I don't need any of them. I'm being my own superhero once again.

Marina Starr
08-30-2021, 12:38 PM
This morning as I was drinking Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Creme there's an asshole three tables down in front of me started smoking outside this restaurant that serves foods.
The first time he did it the manager hesitatingly told him no smoking. Yesterday he smoked again so I told one of the girls to tell him to stop.
This morning he smoked again so I told him he needs to put out his cigarettes. It's rude, inconsiderate and selfish to smoke where foods and drinks are being served because cigarettes smoke is hazardous.
I do not want to breath his vile cigarettes and second-hand smoke.

He smirked! What the actual fuck?! I told his ass he has a nice Mercedes, I hope it's a lease. He should go and smoke in it. He finally got up and left after I basically told him to fuck off. Good riddance! Anyone spending their hard earned money in a restaurant or where foods are served should be entitled to enjoy their shit in a smoke-free environment.

The sense of entitlement and lack of civility is overwhelming. I'm not gonna fucking tolerate it.

Rant over.

Aurora_Sunset
08-30-2021, 12:50 PM
The townhouse apartment that I was supposed to be moving to is saying they don't have any available anymore but they can put me on a waiting list. I contacted another townhouse apartment community and although apartment.com says they have 2-3 townhouses available, they said they don't have any available at the moment but will soon. They couldn't tell me when "soon" will be. A relative told my mom had that the kids and I could live in her spare bedrooms but she hasn't answered the phone, neither calls or texts. I'm not going to just show up there. It's far and what if she doesn't answer the door? I give up on family because they are not reliable or helpful at all. Women are more likely to be killed by an abuser within the first few days and weeks after escaping. He has been crying and begging me to come back to him. Instead of family being my support system I hear shit about how I must've liked it to have put up with it for so long, how I must not be able to please a man in bed, must not be a good enough cook, etc. Yes, blame the abused woman, idiots. At least I will save a lot of money by not wasting any more money on birthday or Christmas presents for anyone other than my kids. I don't need any of them. I'm being my own superhero once again.

I'm so sorry no one is making this easy on you. I believe in you and know you'll go on to have such a better life with your kids without his abusive ass or your toxic family members. Wish I could do more to help from over the internet. *hugs*

carmen_b
08-30-2021, 12:59 PM
Wendi : I hope your family gets it together !
The fact is we sometimes need family help even as adults !
I hope they help !

The word “ abuse “ scares people I think.
You can always say you just need a couple weeks while waiting for an apartment if that is what they need to hear.

Ugh!

~Carmen~
08-30-2021, 01:06 PM
This morning as I was drinking Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Creme there's an asshole three tables down in front of me started smoking outside this restaurant that serves foods.
The first time he did it the manager hesitatingly told him no smoking. Yesterday he smoked again so I told one of the girls to tell him to stop.
This morning he smoked again so I told him he needs to put out his cigarettes. It's rude, inconsiderate and selfish to smoke where foods and drinks are being served because cigarettes smoke is hazardous.
I do not want to breath his vile cigarettes and second-hand smoke.

He smirked! What the actual fuck?! I told his ass he has a nice Mercedes, I hope it's a lease. He should go and smoke in it. He finally got up and left after I basically told him to fuck off. Good riddance! Anyone spending their hard earned money in a restaurant or where foods are served should be entitled to enjoy their shit in a smoke-free environment.

The sense of entitlement and lack of civility is overwhelming. I'm not gonna fucking tolerate it.

Rant over.

Give him your wrath sis!! He deserved it. I think inconsideration is another pandemic.

My neighbor has been blasting his TV or music 24/7. He thinks he's annoying me but he's not. I'm sleeping just fine in my living room with white noise. It's going to be hilarious when I move out. I will wave to him and smile so big.

Marina Starr
08-30-2021, 01:25 PM
Hear this: he told the girl he didn't see 'no smoking sign' after he was told a few days ago no smoking. She told him there's a sign. He smoked again today and left cigarette butts so he was just being a total dick. I unleashed my wrath, people came out and watch in SILENCE and watch as he vamoose, lmao.

I'm often told that I react badly when I don't like how people are acting. And sooo?! You are not going to gaslight and blame my reaction to disrespect. People that dare to step in will get curse out one by one, individuality when they don't mind their fucking business.

And fuck your neighbor. Soon you won't have to deal with trash.


Give him your wrath sis!! He deserved it. I think inconsideration is another pandemic.

My neighbor has been blasting his TV or music 24/7. He thinks he's annoying me but he's not. I'm sleeping just fine in my living room with white noise. It's going to be hilarious when I move out. I will wave to him and smile so big.

~Carmen~
08-30-2021, 01:41 PM
Hear this: her told the girl he didn't see 'no smoke sign' after he was told a few days ago no smoking. She told him there's a sign. He smoked again today and left cigarette butts so he was just being a total dick. I unleashed my wrath, people came out and watch in SILENCE and watch as he vamoose, lmao.

I'm often told that I react badly when I don't like how people are acting. And sooo?! You are not going to gaslight and blame my reaction to disrespect. People that dare to step in will get curse out one by one, individuality when they don't mind their fucking business.

And fuck your neighbor. Soon you won't have to deal with trash.

People aren't used to seeing your kind of reaction. Most people don't have the nerve to step up and protest, even when it's negatively affecting them. They would be too embarrassed to "cause a stir". They are not used to seeing it so they just stand there in shock, secretly admiring you and wishing they could do the same.

Yes, fuck my neighbor. I'm going to blast him good the night before I leave. I'll play Madonna "Erotica". I can't wait!

Marina Starr
08-30-2021, 01:50 PM
Especially when you're a woman. I've seen women get shamed so many times by men AND women when they don't tolerate bullshit. Women are taught to be polite and ladylike inspite of disrespect and bad treatment.

People that don't like how you react badly to disrespect always stood by and watch bullshit goes down without stepping in.
So unless they are in the arena fighting or be part of the solution, they can all sit down.

__________________

Madonna said 'HI!' and telling you to:

Put your hands all over my body
Erotic, erotic put your hands all over my body
Erotic, erotic put your hands all over my body
Put your hands all over my body, erotic erotic


People aren't used to seeing your kind of reaction. Most people don't have the nerve to step up and protest, even when it's negatively affecting them. They would be too embarrassed to "cause a stir". They are not used to seeing it so they just stand there in shock, secretly admiring you and wishing they could do the same.

Yes, fuck my neighbor. I'm going to blast him good the night before I leave. I'll play Madonna "Erotica".I can't wait!

whirlerz
08-30-2021, 01:52 PM
Love that song Justfy My Love's great too!

Talk about NASTY SMOKERS, the guy/girl upstairs, (she's newly moved in)::)
They smoke blunts all day, literally, except when they step out to eat..

Nasty pot mixed w/cigar shit, stinks up the house, aggravates my allergies, they open the front door, like that does anything..

The guy that lives w/girlfriend ( across from me) has allergies too..

He shuts the door to the kitchen (like that helps, maybe for him


Had to take out their^ full, heavy kitchen garbage, after bringing up the full dumpsters, mopping floors, cleaning stove, & sweeping!
So.Gross!

~Carmen~
08-30-2021, 02:17 PM
Love that song Justfy My Love's great too!

Talk about NASTY SMOKERS, the guy/girl upstairs, (she's newly moved in)::)
They smoke blunts all day, literally, except when they step out to eat..

Nasty pot mixed w/cigar shit, stinks up the house, aggravates my allergies, they open the front door, like that does anything..

The guy that lives w/girlfriend ( across from me) has allergies too..

He shuts the door to the kitchen (like that helps, maybe for him


Had to take out their^ full, heavy kitchen garbage, after bringing up the full dumpsters, mopping floors, cleaning stove, & sweeping!
So.Gross!

I know how that is. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. ALL buildings should be smoke free, especially nowadays. It's 2021 for heaven's sake.

~Carmen~
08-30-2021, 02:20 PM
Especially when you're a woman. I've seen women get shamed so many times by men AND women when they don't tolerate bullshit. Women are taught to be polite and ladylike inspite of disrespect and bad treatment.

People that don't like how you react badly to disrespect always stood by and watch bullshit goes down without stepping in.
So unless they are in the arena fighting or be part of the solution, they can all sit down.

__________________

Madonna said 'HI!' and telling you to:

Put your hands all over my body
Erotic, erotic put your hands all over my body
Erotic, erotic put your hands all over my body
Put your hands all over my body, erotic erotic

You're right, we are taught to always be nice and not cause a fuss. It's ingrained in us from the time we are born. It's fun to shoot these men down who try their old tricks. There is not one thing they can say or do that we would fall for.

Hey Madonna, heeey girl!!! My neighbor is going to be dancing to your music soon}:D.

Marina Starr
08-30-2021, 02:28 PM
There's nothing wrong with being nice either. Nice becomes a problem when we're nice despite of bad treatment. When we lose the ability to see others as blameworthy. That kind of nice to a fault is not healthy.

Take him by surprise, sis LOL!


You're right, we are taught to always be nice and not cause a fuss. It's ingrained in us from the time we are born. It's fun to shoot these men down who try their old tricks. There is not one thing they can say or do that we would fall for.

Hey Madonna, heeey girl!!! My neighbor is going to be dancing to your music soon}:D.

whirlerz
08-30-2021, 02:44 PM
I know how that is. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. ALL buildings should be smoke free, especially nowadays. It's 2021 for heaven's sake.

Thanks!

This building is smoke free, until it wasn't..

I actually lived in a village where smoking was prohibited in multiple unit bldgs, yet everyone except my rommies went out to smoke.

Ugh, now she's frying stuff!:yikes::yinyang:

~Carmen~
08-30-2021, 02:52 PM
There's nothing wrong with being nice either. Nice becomes a problem when we're nice despite of bad treatment. When we lose the ability to see others as blameworthy. That kind of nice to a fault is not healthy.

Take him by surprise, sis LOL!

You say things so much more eloquently than me. (That's your new vocabulary word. lol) I try to assume the best about people unless they show me otherwise. Doing something nice for someone who has shown kindness feels good. Some people take advantage of niceness.

I'm going to blast him at around 8am. The nice, normal people upstairs will be at work so I won't disturb them and he will be sleeping. I will make sure to throw my stuff around while packing too.