View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
lurkingtitties
09-26-2021, 09:15 AM
I started feeling sick yesterday so I went to get a covid test this morning…been at urgent care for 3 hours still waiting for my test results. I just want to go home and sleep.
carmen_b
09-26-2021, 09:17 AM
^ AW I hope you don't have it !! Bleh !!! :(
Aurora_Sunset
09-26-2021, 10:34 AM
I'm getting so irritated with the plasma center. They open at 7am, but if you don't get an appointment by 8:30 at the absolute latest, they're so understaffed and overbooked that you'll literally be all day. It's not worth it at that point.
You can schedule appointments 2 weeks in advance, so I've started setting alarms to go off at midnight every Saturday and Monday night so I can pre-set appointments for Sundays and Tuesdays. Last night, I logged in right at midnight and still, the earliest appointment I could book was 8:45... wtf? I think it's because they schedule all these new people first thing in the morning so that they don't "scare them off" by making them wait as long as they make everyone else wait.
They literally allow 10 appointments to be booked in 5 minute increments. How the fuck are you gonna move 120 people through in an hour? You can't. And then, I'll be sitting there waiting during my pre-booked appointment and watch multiple people walk in and say that they're new donors but they didn't bother to book an appointment, and the staff will just shove them right in - ahead of everyone else, making our wait even longer.
If you don't have the capability to service that many people, don't allow that many appointments! I would literally rather open my app and see no appointments available if I wait too long to book than to book an "available" time slot, waste my time getting up early and driving over there, just to walk in to a sign saying that it's a 5 hour wait just to get to a donation bed. And maybe have a freakin' "no walk-ins" policy if you're already so badly backed up?
roseforarose
09-26-2021, 12:43 PM
If y'all are on both forums, you're probably tired of seeing me bitch about this, but I'm so fucking annoyed that there's no absolutely no way to prevent Stripchat from auto-tweeting that ugly-ass duckface snapshot of me when I go live. Like if I try to bypass that 'Tweet & Go Live' screen, it won't let me broadcast. I have to click the damn 'Tweet & Go Live' button
Do you want to avoid the tweet altogether, or just change the gif/screenshot with it? I've always been able to just toggle the tweet thing off when I want to. The 'tweet and go live' thing comes up but then there's a button to toggle it off and just go live, so it might be glitch on your account rather than a missing feature? Although, as far as I'm aware we have zero control over the image itself, I agree there should be a countdown or something so we can actually see the pic
TheBrownFox
09-26-2021, 12:59 PM
Do you want to avoid the tweet altogether, or just change the gif/screenshot with it? I've always been able to just toggle the tweet thing off when I want to. The 'tweet and go live' thing comes up but then there's a button to toggle it off and just go live, so it might be glitch on your account rather than a missing feature? Although, as far as I'm aware we have zero control over the image itself, I agree there should be a countdown or something so we can actually see the pic
Yeah, these last few times I've been able to just go live without it tweeting at all. It's a shame that I have to do that, but Chloe told me that there's no way for them to remove that snapshot for me right now...which I think is absolutely ridiculous.
Even ME making my own tweet and putting the URL to my Stripchat profile automatically pulls up that horrible snapshot, which really pissed me off. So now I won't post my SC URL at all in a tweet. Instead I just post "I'm online on Stripchat," and put my screen name in parentheses. Smh.
I'm not sure that I'll be continuing with Stripchat much longer tbh, and will probably be going back to MyFreeCams.
moneybags
09-26-2021, 01:43 PM
Regular texting me on my day off. boundaries-I don’t text back on my days off. He’s lucky he even has my phone number. He better not abuse his phone privileges. I swear I don’t know how I get regulars. I’m grateful for him and I realize he’s a human being with feelings, but omg leave me alone on my day off
He’s getting to the stage where I’m going to have to cut him off because he wants more and more of my time and energy for free!
I’m tempted to text him back, “How do you like working on your days off?”
I need to set some more boundaries with him. I’m bad at set boundaries. I’m getting better though.
chanzep
09-26-2021, 03:16 PM
I somehow ended up reading local club reviews. There were by a bunch of females complaining about everything like how the Dj wouldn't take song requests eyeroll , to how dj played only male artists lol. They also complaining about the lack of pole tricks the dancers did and how dancers were not approaching their table lol.
They also complaining about the price of everything and how the club was packed and they had to buy a table to get in. They sounded like Karens. They are so surprised the club is not catering to them smh . They are lucky the club let groups of women in especially when busy. A lot of club's around here dont. They just wanted to come to the club for cheap and talk about the dancers stage performances . Smh go to a night club or a burlesque show.
whirlerz
09-26-2021, 03:22 PM
I somehow ended up reading local club reviews. There were by a bunch of females complaining about everything like how the Dj wouldn't take song requests eyeroll , to how dj played only male artists lol. They also complaining about the lack of pole tricks the dancers did and how dancers were not approaching their table lol.
They also complaining about the price of everything and how the club was packed and they had to buy a table to get in. They sounded like Karens. They are so surprised the club is not catering to them smh . They are lucky the club let groups of women in especially when busy. A lot of club's around here dont. They just wanted to come to the club for cheap and talk about the dancers stage performances . Smh go to a night club or a burlesque show.
Yes, there's only 1 club I know of that let's in unescorted females, the rest don't.
Aurora_Sunset
09-26-2021, 04:04 PM
My attention span is at literal zero today. I can't focus on anything productive. I can't even focus on anything NON-productive like watching a movie. My brain just isn't working.
Like, my brain wants a very VERY specific aesthetic to pay attention to today, which is a fantasy, Dungeons and Dragons-esque show or preferably cartoon, with bards and knights and stuff, but not serious - funny. And preferably a musical...
I'm just sitting here wishing I could glare at my brain for coming up with this insane demand, like, yeah, okay, why would you even think that when you know damn well it doesn't exist? Stupid bitch lol
All I can do is keep listen to "bard music" on youtube playlists and daydreaming my own stories. I wish I had any artistic ability - I'd just create the thing I want my damn self.
lurkingtitties
09-26-2021, 04:08 PM
Aurora, try Disenchantment on Netflix! It's exactly what you're looking for.
JGB2009
09-26-2021, 04:31 PM
I am annoyed because I just over spent $28 on my groceries.
indiegirl
09-26-2021, 04:43 PM
FFS, I tried so hard today to compose myself once both the washer and dryer broke simultaneously at my house. Literally it has felt like everything all at once is breaking down. He has to wait until THURSDAY to come back to fix it with ordering the parts. I could tell my roommates were not pleased because they haven't responded to my message. I have had to repair like 10 major things we all use in over a year. I dunno if that is normal or not. Anyways I have to book a different hotel that has laundry so I can actually wash my dresses until then. LOL
Aurora_Sunset
09-26-2021, 06:21 PM
Aurora, try Disenchantment on Netflix! It's exactly what you're looking for.
I love that show! I kinda forgot about it after binging the last season in January. I should go back and re-watch the first season because that was my favorite.
TheBrownFox
09-26-2021, 09:32 PM
I love the fact that when I'm genuinely worried about how I'm gonna make rent and pay bills, I end up having fucking video stream issues on FOUR different cam sites tonight (Streaming on them ONE at a time). I've been sitting here with this bright-ass softbox light torturing me...only to have earned NOTHING. I don't know WTF is going on for this to be happening tonight. I feel like someone has put a curse on me or something. Lol. Maybe it's that Seven Inches dude who's been kinda stalking me online and making animated GIFs of me, and got himself banned from ACF for harassing me. Lol.
I should whip out my OTHER Logitech Brio webcam (The one I was about to sell) to see if things are better using that one.
TheBrownFox
09-26-2021, 10:40 PM
^Kinda weird how after that creep gets banned on ACF, I wake up on Friday to my Amazon account being hacked (A bunch of stuff ordered)...tonight I'm unable to stream on ANY of the sites due to really bad Mbps and Fps numbers...and then HE pops up in my Streamate free chat to tell me hi......
SamanthaSugar
09-26-2021, 11:09 PM
I just feel like I want to counteract his lack of ambition with my own. Because you can’t teach an old dog new tricks
My goal was to throw myself into work and be gone working as much as possible
The downside is he complains I never want to go anywhere with him. Well I honestly don’t because he feels like now we live together he can truly be himself (listening to garbage music, taking forever to complete tasks, burping loudly all the time, eating sloppily, complaining about what I do, running guilt trips, wasting money then being unable to afford wardrobe updates, and bring that Bertha baggage into our relationship etc)
Le sigh!!!!
I guess I need to find someone like a relationship coach or therapist or whatever to talk more about how many of the things he’s doing is annoying me.
Could just be I’m so used to being single running the ship n now I have to cocaptain with someone who (in my opinion) needs to listen to female leadership.
I was in a simular situation a couple of years ago, and it lasted almost three miserable years, and it doesn’t get better, but only worse. He had three kids and an ex who bugged the F outta me, even his family started grating on my nerves! I don’t have kids, and I felt like I was doing all the sacrificing and conforming into his world. We were on uneven playing fields, me dealing with all of his baggage and him not really having to deal with anything, which built up a lot of resentment and bitterness. After that ordeal I learned my lesson and I refuse to get involved with men who have kids. Just my two cents.
moneybags
09-27-2021, 12:15 AM
I love the fact that when I'm genuinely worried about how I'm gonna make rent and pay bills, I end up having fucking video stream issues on FOUR different cam sites tonight (Streaming on them ONE at a time). I've been sitting here with this bright-ass softbox light torturing me...only to have earned NOTHING. I don't know WTF is going on for this to be happening tonight. I feel like someone has put a curse on me or something. Lol. Maybe it's that Seven Inches dude who's been kinda stalking me online and making animated GIFs of me, and got himself banned from ACF for harassing me. Lol.
I should whip out my OTHER Logitech Brio webcam (The one I was about to sell) to see if things are better using that one.
You’re not making me miss camming. I hope moderna gets their booster shot out soon. I wanted to get boosted ASAP working in a high risk environment. I’m not sure I’ll go back to camming. It was just so god damn awful some days.
carmen_b
09-27-2021, 09:47 AM
One frustrating thing about my life right now is that I don't have enough land to have a gaggle of goats.
I'm working on it. :)
whirlerz
09-27-2021, 09:54 AM
One frustrating thing about my life right now is that I don't have enough land to have a gaggle of goats.
I'm working on it. :)
Heard that!^
Altho, I settle for somewhere I don't have to live w/disgusting pig rooms..they left a full bag of garbage in the kitchen, (mostly bottles) which I could barely lift (Monday's p/u day).
Btw, they have 0 issues w/leaving a full bag there indefinitely to stink & attract bugs, which we already probably have.
Of course, I took up the dumpsters, the one guy kind of helps (mostly brings back the emptys,) thanks but BFD.
Aurora_Sunset
09-27-2021, 10:15 AM
One frustrating thing about my life right now is that I don't have enough land to have a gaggle of goats.
I'm working on it. :)
I want to live somewhere where I can have goats! I would also love to keep bees.
Marina Starr
09-27-2021, 12:08 PM
I cooked, showered, did the dishes and before I knew it, it's past 3pm. HOW?! I wish there were a few more hours added to the day!
Aurora_Sunset
09-27-2021, 04:02 PM
One of my neighbors has their car alarm go off for 4-5 minutes 2-3x a day, every damn day. Wtf
Aurora_Sunset
09-27-2021, 04:03 PM
I cooked, showered, did the dishes and before I knew it, it's past 3pm. HOW?! I wish there were a few more hours added to the day!
I got up kinda early and still this day has flown by. Sundays always feel lost to the wind, even if, looking back, I actually did do stuff or relaxed. But even today, I'm finding it hard to concentrate to the point where I feel like I'm engaging with the day and getting the most out of it. :-\
Marina Starr
09-27-2021, 05:17 PM
That's so fucking annoying. I can't stand people like that.
One of my neighbors has their car alarm go off for 4-5 minutes 2-3x a day, every damn day. Wtf
I got up at 5am every morning. Just love being a morning Hoe and still I feel the day is going by so fast. I need more time, lol.
I got up kinda early and still this day has flown by. Sundays always feel lost to the wind, even if, looking back, I actually did do stuff or relaxed. But even today, I'm finding it hard to concentrate to the point where I feel like I'm engaging with the day and getting the most out of it. :-\
Genoveve
09-27-2021, 06:16 PM
I want to live somewhere where I can have goats! I would also love to keep bees.
Are ya'll sure about the goat thing? My neighbor has goats and they sound like screaming children. I would love to keep bees though. Have you seen the bee rescue/bee keeper lady on tiktok? Her account is: @texasbeeworks
carmen_b
09-27-2021, 07:16 PM
^ I wonder what kind they are. There are many different varieties. I have neighboors 3-4 houses down that have them and I walk by often.
I don't ever see them scream. I feed them a lot though so maybe they know to expect things from me ?
I have this crazy idea of about a 1/2 acre , a tiny house ( which I'll AirBnB to pay for it ) and 3-4 goats. :)
There are many goat experiences on AirBnB ( I know as I've been a customer at three at least hahaha ) .
It's odd because I've been thinking about this for 8-10 months and thought I'd get " over " it. I might still get over the idea but it's kind of the " back of the mind " idea . I was doing a bunch of research on them ( mainly the yearly type of costs per animal ) . I really don't want to jump into it and then feel guilty ( our summers here are horribly hot ) and spend thousands cooling off these damn goats. I think my neighbor does the cooling with water though. I see they have a sprinkler going often ( water waste I guess ) but probably less $ than goat air conditioning. I don't know if I'll ever " do it " ha . Maybe I'll just patronize others mini-farms for now. I'm so glad small farms and homesteads exist really .
J laughs at me because we will go for a 75 minute car ride and I've already found a homestead or small farm to visit like three days before so we just " randomly " find it.
carmen_b
09-27-2021, 07:23 PM
^ I will say that there are some that can really be assholes though. I have been in with them before and certain ones are really sweet and others ones will try to ram you or stab you with a horn. That is why they would need to be behind a high fence if I had guests come onto my mini farm ha.
No one within 80 miles of me does Go-Ga ( goat yoga ) either and there are a lot of tourists that come directly into our area.
They are social too. It's mean to have just one ( horribly mean ) .
J actually said I could have one in the yard but then in my research I am seeing that just one isn't good .
lynn2009
09-27-2021, 08:37 PM
I do not like my one neighbor. He's out all night most nights working on loud projects like it's 11:30pm and he's still out there bang bang bang bang. Shut up already.
I can live with it, this kind of noise does not drive me batshit like loud music but damn what world do you live in??
Thankfully he has told me they will probably sell and move in the next couple of years.
miss.a.p1600
09-28-2021, 05:30 AM
L’s kids are going to be here for a whole damn week.
Ugh!!!!!
I’m less than thrilled about having these needy overgrown crumbsnatchers invading my space for a whole fucking week. And I have to pretend to like them.
He’s like “I don’t expect you to stay here with them” oh trust n believe I’ll be out the door most the day so I won’t have to. I’m not getting paid enough to take care of another bish kids.
I hope that week goes by fast as hell.
Ima need to stock up on my secret edible stash to get me through this.
kimbe
09-28-2021, 11:19 AM
L’s kids are going to be here for a whole damn week.
Ugh!!!!!
You have my sympathy!
Marina Starr
09-28-2021, 11:42 AM
You know what I find so RUDE?! When people are on their phones doing whatever, wherever while holding up the line. There was a line today for orders pickup at Chick Fil A , there was this bitch waiting in line with enough empty space for 3 people. I ask her nicely 'Excuse me, can you please move up?!'. She turned and looked at me and got back to browsing on her phone. I told her that's fine, I'm cutting in front of her since she's so into her phone.
She told me she doesn't care that she held up the line. So I told that cunt to play with her phone on the highway in traffic! Hate when cunts are rude yet they wanna get mouthy and double down on that shit.
whirlerz
09-28-2021, 02:05 PM
My alert came on the tire pressure's low, on the way to my hair appt!
I stopped & put air in all the tires, it's still on! Not that I knew wtf I was even doing, I asked a random guy, local town maintenance worker, he said he didn't know either how to work the air pump, (TG it was a free one!)
Almost cancelled my hair appointment, sooo glad I didn't, needed those highlights!.
Went to Jiffy Lube oil change place, nearby my salonhe said it's going to be a wait, he's got 5 cars ahead of me, ok fine, but he brings in 5 more? Just takes minutes to check & put air in, w/ev. ::)
So I went to the one by my house, they were empty & took me right away 2 tires were a little low.
Whew!
lilylilylily
09-28-2021, 07:59 PM
I went out on a couple dates with this guy recently..seems kind and sweet, good communication. On 2nd date his breath stank so bad that it was hard to kiss him. I'd almost rather cigarette breath than the kind of breath he had..he's been asking to see me and I keep putting it off. I'm attracted to him but the breath killed it. Ughh
carmen_b
09-28-2021, 08:52 PM
^ Possibly some sort of dental issue / tonsil stones or something.
Too bad that a bummer. It would be hard to want to give another date in the scenario.
Gum is so small and easy ..... like .... even for a guy wouldn't you carry it on a date ? So odd.
I've got a tooth brush / paste AND gum on me 99% of the time.
lilylilylily
09-28-2021, 09:43 PM
Yeah it's so frustrating, I don't know if I should be honest with him or just write him off. Right now I just have no urge to see him again.
TheBrownFox
09-29-2021, 12:42 AM
I went out on a couple dates with this guy recently..seems kind and sweet, good communication. On 2nd date his breath stank so bad that it was hard to kiss him. I'd almost rather cigarette breath than the kind of breath he had..he's been asking to see me and I keep putting it off. I'm attracted to him but the breath killed it. Ughh
When I worked at the mall as a Santa's helper and as the Easter bunny, I worked alongside a girl who had the worst breath I'd ever experienced in my life. As soon as she walked over to you, it'd hit you like a tornado wind knocking you on your ass. It smelled like she'd been eating a whole lotta of unwashed ass.
miss.a.p1600
09-29-2021, 06:41 AM
L decides to finish his laundry this fucking morning when I'm working.
MF! you should have done this shit last night.........
Cotdamnit!!!!
miss.a.p1600
09-29-2021, 09:16 AM
Kinda still pissed at L for creating multiple arguments with me over the course of the weekend.
He does his best to avoid arguing with that Bertha broad…..
We’ll keep that same energy here bruh!
He apologized but I’m still pissed about it cause the memory of it doesn’t go away
miss.a.p1600
09-29-2021, 10:55 AM
L gets paranoid all his friends divorcing n shit…..then gone ask me ……”so are we good?”
Boy don’t ask me ridiculous questions
Marina Starr
09-29-2021, 11:05 AM
I find it so weird that so many people are so invested and concern about other people's relationship and sex life. If I see one more post about Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith open marriage I'm gonna fucking lose it!
It's not news and shouldn't be. It should never be taboo when it's between two consenting adults living their lives and making decision about their marriage on agreeable terms.
miss.a.p1600
09-29-2021, 01:14 PM
^I think it’s moreso surprising cause open marriage are still considered so taboo in certain cultures n communities that you really can’t even talk about without people shutting down n judging.
I think if more people had consenting open relationships n marriages we wouldn’t have such a high divorce n spousal murder rate.
Because a lot of people are just not monogamous so it’s better to just be true to yourself than force yourself to be something you’re not, then be so miserable you snap.
TheBrownFox
09-29-2021, 02:46 PM
I find it so weird that so many people are so invested and concern about other people's relationship and sex life. If I see one more post about Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith open marriage I'm gonna fucking lose it!
It's not news and shouldn't be. It should never be taboo when it's between two consenting adults living their lives and making decision about their marriage on agreeable terms.
They were talking about that on The View! Lol. Whoopi Goldberg and Joy Behar made a good point...that even if it's not something that you or I would want to do...at least it's better that the married couple is honest with each other from DAY ONE that that's what they're into, and agree to it. Rather than be like some of these other married folks sneaking around and cheating on their spouse (And THAT is what's fucked up).
Marina Starr
09-29-2021, 03:34 PM
It's laughable that it's still a taboo in 2021, in AMERICA!!!!
You know Americans love to have sex just not talking about it. We're more comfortable seeing violence on tv than teaching sex and sexuality.
I'd rather my man be forthright with me that he'd like an open relationship and how do I feel about it than cheating behind my back.
When you're in a relationship or marriage, you owe that to your spouse/partner to be clear about your needs and desires!
Be CLEAR about what you want so you may get what you want or may not!
^I think it’s moreso surprising cause open marriage are still considered so taboo in certain cultures n communities that you really can’t even talk about without people shutting down n judging.
I think if more people had consenting open relationships n marriages we wouldn’t have such a high divorce n spousal murder rate.
Because a lot of people are just not monogamous so it’s better to just be true to yourself than force yourself to be something you’re not, then be so miserable you snap.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-29-2021, 04:07 PM
Are ya'll sure about the goat thing? My neighbor has goats and they sound like screaming children. I would love to keep bees though. Have you seen the bee rescue/bee keeper lady on tiktok? Her account is: @texasbeeworks
Not only do they scream but they can also be mean. I once worked on a job site that used goats to maintain the brush. One morning I came to open up and one of the goats was covered in blood. But it wasn't his blood! There were bloody shoes and remnants of clothing strewn all over the worksite. It turns out that it attacked the overnight security guard because he tried to pet him. I'm sure they're not all like that but damn.
JGB2009
09-29-2021, 07:31 PM
Not only do they scream but they can also be mean. I once worked on a job site that used goats to maintain the brush. One morning I came to open up and one of the goats was covered in blood. But it wasn't his blood! There were bloody shoes and remnants of clothing strewn all over the worksite. It turns out that it attacked the overnight security guard because he tried to pet him. I'm sure they're not all like that but damn.
Yup they sure can be mean. The principal at the school I worked at once got chased by a goat. It kind of makes me laugh when I think about it but I am glad she didn't get hurt.
LoveyD
09-29-2021, 08:12 PM
I remember going to the Philly Zoo when I was a little kid and I was in the petting zoo. A goat chewed on my thumb. It didn't hurt, but I was like WTF?
WendiStarr
09-30-2021, 07:12 AM
Damn skunks keep tearing up the lawn. The coyote piss was working to deter them but that stuff smells like boodussy and I just can't keep dealing with that smell right now. Besides that the kids like playing outside in the yard. I'm ready to just call an exterminator for those damn Pepe Le Pews. I've tried putting citrus peels all over the yard and it works temporarily but then they come back. They destroyed my lawn and stink up the place enough.
miss.a.p1600
09-30-2021, 07:30 AM
^dealing with fucking mushrooms in the yard now
I told L to clean up these damn leaves dropping n do you think he did??? Now the mushrooms popped up because they have lots of food (aka dead leaves) that my dude is too lazy to clean up himself and too cheap to pay someone
Say some prayers for ya girl!
If I have to get out there myself I’m wearing something sexy n doing yard work while he’s at work. If I can find a sexy man to do it. I will hahaha.
This probably should go in the man bitching thread.
JGB2009
09-30-2021, 08:03 AM
I am working and I spilt my good drink all over the floor. Ugh I am so mad.
TheBrownFox
09-30-2021, 08:38 AM
FUCK! We all got a notice on our door informing us that due to a pipe burst on the property, our water will be shut off now until further notice. I'm not gonna be able to shower, and I'm about to catch the bus to go to the grocery store.
This is why I'm glad I take a shower during the day, and another one at night (So at least I'm not all funkdafied right now).
When I get to the grocery store, the first thing I'm gonna do is go into that nice bathroom of theirs, and give my armpits a good washing with soap and water (And then put on this Old Spice deodorant that I keep in my purse).