View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
10-06-2021, 07:44 AM
Public Storage charged me again today. Their customer service reps are turds. They tried to say that since the autopay didn't pay and it was after the 1st of the month when I realized it and paid manually, I racked up $236 in late fees, admin fees, and other bullshit fees. I'm turned off by their scammy bullshit antics and really debating hiring movers to move storage elsewhere. I'm also annoyed by this weather. It's all gloomy and rainy and my youngest is being a pain in the butt because she wants to play outside. I don't want to deal with her getting all muddy and mud getting on her clothes, shoes, carpet, etc. I don't have a washer and dryer here or a carpet cleaner.
Wendi, you can complain here, (possibly get ur $ back)
http://www.bbb.org.
It's easy, you fill out a simple form online, they've helped me previously get my $ back. Don't get upset verbally, not worth it, it gives them something to use against you! Good luck!
Yes, I'd definitely get another storage place!
So, I tried online banking, this name brand bank won't accept my check & said it's false/altered..riiightt!::)
Yes, taking my own advice, 1st waiting on a letter they sent me, not yet sent out.
indiegirl
10-06-2021, 07:52 AM
Wendi, you can complain here, (possibly get ur $ back)
http://www.bbb.org.
It's easy, you fill out a simple form online, they've helped me previously get my $ back. Good luck!
So, I tried online banking, this name brand bank won't accept my check & said it's false/altered..riiightt!::)
I'd move my stuff elsewhere and then file a complaint with the debit/credit card company to stop them from taking money and say it was not authorized and want your money back. Hell I have been petty to the point where I've called a credit card company in the past over a 25 dollar parking fee as well as a free 800-ish dollar flight ( I actually took the flight but the name in the charge didn't add up in my head so I reported it LOL).
carmen_b
10-06-2021, 08:08 AM
Exactly. Tell L that you want them in bed by 9 when in your space .
They should know better than to knock at your door unless it's an emergency .
I would think about laying down some boundaries. You are not the bad guy for doing this. You are entitled to peace in your space .
Marina Starr
10-06-2021, 10:55 AM
I find it quite annoying how so many people only consider medical doctors as doctors. People have a hard time understanding that there are many kinds of doctors.
Doctors don't want to be called doctors simply because they want to. They've earned their degrees.
Martin Luther King Jr. is a doctor, a Psychiatrist is a doctor, Jill Biden is a doctor of education, Pharmacists are doctors of pharmacy.
miss.a.p1600
10-06-2021, 11:09 AM
T minus 3 days till these attention seeking, resource sucking, no home training crumbsnatchers are gone up out of my house.
I
Guess I jinxed myself somehow.
Well L’s worthless ex decides to move her ass back into town because she couldn’t afford to live out of town, couldn’t take care of her kid’s full-time.
L is excited. Not to have to pay that woman child support. And to see his kids all the time.
I’m pretty much never going to be home because, the less obligation I have to his kids and the more time I can make Ready To Go money (just in case). I could deal with those rugrats every now and then but daily n weekly? The dynamic of frequent obligation to another woman’s kids might be the catalyst on whether I stay or go.
charlie61
10-06-2021, 12:09 PM
Guess I jinxed myself somehow.
Well L’s worthless ex decides to move her ass back into town because she couldn’t afford to live out of town, couldn’t take care of her kid’s full-time.
L is excited. Not to have to pay that woman child support. And to see his kids all the time.
I’m pretty much never going to be home because, the less obligation I have to his kids and the more time I can make Ready To Go money (just in case). I could deal with those rugrats every now and then but daily n weekly? The dynamic of frequent obligation to another woman’s kids might be the catalyst on whether I stay or go.
Giiiirl. I literally could not. This is just way more than you signed up for.
TheBrownFox
10-06-2021, 01:51 PM
Got me a same day appointment at some place to get a vaginal ultrasound done (Again…), and I drank 32 oz. of water and am holding my bladder. OMG, I can’t wait to fuckin’ pee!!!
miss.a.p1600
10-06-2021, 02:45 PM
Giiiirl. I literally could not. This is just way more than you signed up for.
Girl I’m not gone lie…….it is more than I thought. I got one foot ready out the door and I think he can sense it.
I only agreed to move in with him cause I knew his ex wife was leaving town AND taking her kids with her.
carmen_b
10-07-2021, 09:19 AM
Miss P :
The 50 / 50 thing *can* be tolerable but only with the BEST organization from everyone. :/
If they are disorganized you certainly are not awful for being like " I just can not do this. I would need to leave or get this organized ASAP ".
You don't seem to have a sense of WHEN you'll have a quiet house and that would be very stressful because the visits ( unless I missed something along the way in your posts ) don't seem well planned.
Maybe she will rustle up some cash and be able to stay in that town ?
carmen_b
10-07-2021, 09:35 AM
Another shopping fail.
I just want a little black dress that is very well fitted to add to my collection.
It's really the only new fall piece I want.
Two hours in stores and I came back with a small purse and no dress . :(
Does anyone have a V neck LBD dress they LOVE ( ultra simple and sleep with no rouching on fabric ).
Somehow everything in my collection goes up to my neck and I need something a little sexy.
xxxGothBarbie
10-07-2021, 09:51 AM
Ugh I'm annoyed at everything today! My period is coming anytime now so my moods are way crazy lately. I've been crashing at boy's place in his room for the last 2 weeks and I'm starting to hate it bc I just want privacy & space. He lives at home right now due to covid crap. I hate that I only have a certain amount in the bank right now & am afraid to spend it on airbnb or hotels bc work has been extra shitty lately ugh :(
I hate staying with ppl that live at home or that are just renting a room bc I feel like I'm impeding on their shit. I def need some space right now. I'm leaving after the weekend. Time to get back to me time.
kimbe
10-07-2021, 10:14 AM
Does anyone have a V neck LBD dress they LOVE ( ultra simple and sleep with no rouching on fabric ).
Somehow everything in my collection goes up to my neck and I need something a little sexy.
I know it's not V-neck, but I have this one: https://www.prettylittlething.us/petite-black-jersey-mini-dress.html
WendiStarr
10-07-2021, 10:36 AM
Annoyed as hell with some of these pregnancy fetish customers. No, I don't show my naked belly before a cam show because there's plenty of pregnant belly fetish freeloaders who will blow their loads in free chat about that. I hate when guys don't read the damn tip menu. At least tip and I'll show you covered belly. I can't stand some of the custom request dudes either, that waste my time asking if I do custom content and then don't bother responding back until a few days later to ask me the same fucking question about if I do custom content.
miss.a.p1600
10-07-2021, 10:44 AM
Miss P :
The 50 / 50 thing *can* be tolerable but only with the BEST organization from everyone. :/
If they are disorganized you certainly are not awful for being like " I just can not do this. I would need to leave or get this organized ASAP ".
You don't seem to have a sense of WHEN you'll have a quiet house and that would be very stressful because the visits ( unless I missed something along the way in your posts ) don't seem well planned.
Maybe she will rustle up some cash and be able to stay in that town ?
You have a good point Carmen.
Im not feeling as neurotic about it today as yesterday but I agree.
I think it’s more magnified cause they’re on a school break and here all day on top of the fact they’ll be here more often than I expected because his ex wife is unstable.
Anywho, I noticed he is trying to make things work and acknowledged that he would make efforts not to let it affect my satisfaction with him etc.
The down side is that his schedule fluctuates. He usually gets his kids when he’s off work which could be any day of the week (not just weekends). And has his kids 50% of the time.
I’ll definitely have to pay more attention to his schedule so I can make sure I have my solitude times.
He swore up n down having his kids more would not affect him from getting this next promotion
I’m getting my Just In Case bag funded
So,
We will see
xxxGothBarbie
10-07-2021, 11:08 AM
^ I don't understand why people want kids in the first fucking place. They seem like nothing but distractions, stress, and an unhappy life. More PMS venting bitchiness coming out......
miss.a.p1600
10-07-2021, 12:48 PM
^Lol!!!
Yes they definitely soak up resources (time n money)
But the well trained ones aren’t that bad. If you invest in a kid that is well trained they can grow up to be major contributors to society.
It’s the loud ass, disrespectful, dusty, lazy, ignorant kids that do nothing but soak up resources are the ones I don’t like.
TheBrownFox
10-07-2021, 02:59 PM
Why tf is Stripchat such a buggy-ass site?! Damn. People are telling me that my stream looks fine, but on my end it keeps doing this thing where it goes back and forth from saying GOOD...POOR...BAD...NO VIDEO (But the video IS on, and I see myself just fine). What the fuck. I'm just venting here instead of in the Stripchat thread, because I don't want people to think I'm yelling at Chloe. I'm not frustrated at all with HER...it's the damn site and how jacked-up it is. I've had at least two other SC models say they deal with the same thing, despite them having a good internet connection.
miss.a.p1600
10-08-2021, 09:01 AM
L took his loud ass clingy needy youngest kid with him.
Thank heavens!
I can’t wait till these resource suckers go back to their mom.
carmen_b
10-08-2021, 10:42 AM
Almost time ! :) ^
( lifts a glass of Prosecco towards you )
I hope you get a couple weeks off after a full week.
miss.a.p1600
10-08-2021, 01:28 PM
^Yasss girl.
He won’t have a couple weeks off……..But I will
I think the conniving Bertha bitch is going to push her kids off on him full-time when she gets back in town.
miss.a.p1600
10-08-2021, 03:53 PM
Partial success.
He dropped off the youngest clinger.
Now if he can get this other overgrown kid playing video games all day n night up out of here even better. A kid who games should be out of your hair right? No. This joker here talks loud af to these invisible opponents. Tell him to be quiet n he’s right back talking lOud again. Annoying as hell!
I want them BOTH up out of here this weekend.
moneybags
10-08-2021, 04:11 PM
So the shitty apartment complex I just moved out of is charging me $1600 for “damages” ifs absolute BS. I called them before to ask what they expected and I did what they said. I’m going to make them take me to court. It just sucks to have to go to court over this. I need to do it though. I’m not going to let people bully me.
I might be able to negotiate down to $500, but never in my life have I been treated this poorly.
chanzep
10-08-2021, 04:31 PM
My apartment complex took most of the deposit too which they are notorious for. The only reason I don't care is because my ex husband money so I wouldn't of got it anyway.
But I understand how you feel. The stories I heard about my old complex smh. It's not right that these complexes do that.
carmen_b
10-08-2021, 04:37 PM
^ Do your best always to take before and after pictures of your move out in case places try to pull this kind of shit !
Sorry Money!
Try to rustle up as much photo proof as you can.
I did that with my place in Hawaii.
I knew they were shady odd balls and they tried to ding us on a couple things so I forwarded photos over of WHAT I WOULDN'T BE PAYING for.
They ended up not fighting me on it.
There was one thing ( my reclining couch did " cut " into the carpet ) that I realized was accurate so I paid for that piece.
Marina Starr
10-08-2021, 04:57 PM
Did you take pictures when they rented to you and pictures of the walk through before handing back the keys?
I always take pictures of how it was rented and how I'm returning the apartment. Renters are so shady so it's always best to take pictures and videos. Print all of the reviews you can find of them robbing people's deposits.
Show all of that to the judge!
So the shitty apartment complex I just moved out of is charging me $1600 for “damages” ifs absolute BS. I called them before to ask what they expected and I did what they said. I’m going to make them take me to court. It just sucks to have to go to court over this. I need to do it though. I’m not going to let people bully me.
I might be able to negotiate down to $500, but never in my life have I been treated this poorly.
moneybags
10-08-2021, 09:27 PM
^^^i know guys! I should have but I was so exhausted! It’s too late. They blocked my email. So they knew it’s not legit. If the charges were legit why would you preemptively block someone’s email?!
~Carmen~
10-09-2021, 02:37 AM
^^^i know guys! I should have but I was so exhausted! It’s too late. They blocked my email. So they knew it’s not legit. If the charges were legit why would you preemptively block someone’s email?!
Omg!! I feel just horrible for you. I wouldn't think it would be worth their effort to take you to court for that amount, especially if it would most likely be negotiated for $500, plus all the time and costs.
I didn't take before pics but you bet your booty I'm going to take pictures and videos before move out. The only damage is on a cheap paper closet wall where I hung a few command strips. The paper came off with the strips. I filled it in pretty good though.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-09-2021, 04:59 AM
^^^i know guys! I should have but I was so exhausted! It’s too late. They blocked my email. So they knew it’s not legit. If the charges were legit why would you preemptively block someone’s email?!
Landlords are gambling on a former tenant's reluctance to take them to court.
By all means fight the charge. They try to nickel and dime people. It's a very typical way to legally steal from someone with less legal leverage.
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2021, 07:53 AM
The youngest neediest loudest kid is gone and the house is much more peaceful n relaxing
The longer she is gone the better.
LoveyD
10-09-2021, 08:04 AM
Money that sucks. Landlords suck. I hope you are able to resolve the issue without it costing you.
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2021, 09:02 AM
^Yasss girl.
He won’t have a couple weeks off……..But I will
I think the conniving Bertha bitch is going to push her kids off on him full-time when she gets back in town.
I must be psychic cause today he asked “what if she said she needed to get back in her feet n drop the kids off here longer”
Ugh!!!!! I highly doubt I’d be able to stay here with his kids here all the time. But I told him……
Yeah that’s fine but she needs to pay child support n get life insurance.
carmen_b
10-09-2021, 09:09 AM
^ I really don't think she would do that.
It would just be so *not* typical for a mom to not want them at least 50% of the time.
Maybe she would have them there like 4-5 days a week just during the first few weeks of getting resettled.
indiegirl
10-09-2021, 09:45 AM
I literally think some men just contact me to jerk off over my responses and then go about their merry way and never see me. You can't screen, I can't see you.
Him: Let's have breakfast together. What size are you breasts? Do you like a soft or hard press? Can you dominate me?
Thennnn radio silence as I tidy the room up and myself for them. SO STUPID.
Also my mom has decided that since yesterday she didn't want to answer my phone call or a few texts with document information SOOOOO yay *eyeroll*. I honestly have no support system other than coming here. If it was my brother calling she would happily pick up the phone. He's always been the favorite and I have to learn to accept that.
roseforarose
10-09-2021, 10:29 AM
don't know what it is about today but I just cANNOT deal with the microaggressions! Tried one site and was getting ""nice"" timewasters so I switched to another site, the other site is apparently full of racists at this time of day. Made it about 90 mins total across the sites and logged off!
I've had so many shit freeloaders this week idk where they're coming from but they better stopppp
GlamLifter
10-09-2021, 12:36 PM
I’m bored of being in my sponsors booth at the Olympia World Fitness Festival (Expo) 2021 in Orlando. And I have tomorrow as well..
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2021, 12:41 PM
^ I really don't think she would do that.
It would just be so *not* typical for a mom to not want them at least 50% of the time.
Maybe she would have them there like 4-5 days a week just during the first few weeks of getting resettled.
yeah I’m not going to be able to do that without being compensated. It’s her dumbass fault for moving into a town knowing good n well she couldn’t afford the move or to maintain the cost of living there.
I do not want to see her kids more than 3 days a week.
Ima have to figure this out cause if L doesn’t keep this Bertha in check, it might be too much for me.
carmen_b
10-09-2021, 01:34 PM
I'm the same. If my situation ( roughly 3 days a week and even then per month I'm gone usually 2-3 of those days ) suddenly changed to like 4-5 a week I would have a lot of difficultly with it.
I think I am going to circle with finding my own therapist to talk things through also. I didn't find my situation that challenging even as recently as 2-3 months ago. I am really finding it challenging lately. It's actually the easiest schedule we have ever done. It's M-W and just 1-2 Sundays a month. It's very precise and well run plus her school schedule is HELPING SO MUCH.
My own Dad guilted me when I said I was thrilled J's daughter was back in school. He was like " why ? " as if I shouldn't have mentioned being happy about it. Um .... when did our family EVER think home school was a good idea? We grew up in a " kids UP and OUT of this house " life style . It so much easier being NORMAL with a school schedule instead of home schooling out of Covid fears. I WILL TALK LOUDLY ABOUT MY LOVE OF SCHOOLS TAKING KIDS 8-3:15 AS MUCH AS I WANT LOL. Sorry Dad. :/
I am just struggling with some things like wondering if I am meeting J's expectations.
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kimbe
10-09-2021, 01:58 PM
I’m bored of being in my sponsors booth at the Olympia World Fitness Festival (Expo) 2021 in Orlando. And I have tomorrow as well..
I wish I was there! I hate that they moved it from Vegas to Orlando, I used to participate in one way or the other for years! It was just so convenient when it was in town.
Regarding booth work, it's often both stressful and boring at the same time, I know the feeling. And, you're not actually necessary very interested in what you're supposed to promote with great enthusiasm :)
carmen_b
10-09-2021, 02:07 PM
^ You guys always impress me with your dedication !
I am no where NEAR a body building life style but try to work out an hour a day six days a week.
carmen_b
10-09-2021, 02:09 PM
Miss P :
Did you know there is an actual term for divorced dads like our dudes who feel guilt / have trouble with setting boundaries with their kids ? Mine got way better in the last year thankfully . Just 12 months ago he had an 8 year old who still wouldn't stay in her room at night lol until I was like " NO NO NO " .
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guilty-father-syndrome_b_839751
kimbe
10-09-2021, 02:27 PM
^ You guys always impress me with your dedication !
I am no where NEAR a body building life style. I feel amazed at myself if I work out an hour a day six days a week just in the hopes of not being too large to strip lol !
I guess it is seeing the changes/results that is the driving force for most of us :)
miss.a.p1600
10-09-2021, 03:05 PM
Miss P :
Did you know there is an actual term for divorced dads like our dudes who feel guilt / have trouble with setting boundaries with their kids ? Mine got way better in the last year ( yes just 12 months ago he had an 8 year old who still wouldn't stay in her room at night lol until I was like " NO NO NO " ).
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guilty-father-syndrome_b_839751
I turn all the lights out n everything off and close my bedroom door. L is getting a lot better telling her NOT to come in after a certain time AND to knock first.
L probably does have guilty father syndrome especially towards his favorite child his daughter.
He did bring up how he felt bad because he thought the origination of all his kids bad behavior was his divorce from their mom.
Now the biggest issue I’m having is I want to leave and do my own thing be he’s stuck in this “we attend events together” mode. I honestly am on a budget and I don’t want to invite him/his kids out with me all the time cause 1) I don’t want to be obligated to entertain Berthas kids all the time 2) I am leaving to get a break from them and trying to get my alone time without being a complete dick about it 3) Bertha’s does not take care of her kids appearance - they both are obese with kind of worn clothes. They give off the image of poverty and not to be mean but I think she needs to take better care of herself and her kids.
carmen_b
10-09-2021, 03:36 PM
^ I think when they are there it’s fine to “ 50/50 “ it.
That is about what I do.
It’s not exact ( no timer haha ) but doing your own thing roughly half the time they are there might help a lot.
Let him know it's ok to leave the house with just the three of them !
I can’t really do that.
She is out at school 8-3:30 so I can’t really be like “ will you two be somewhere else during this small window you have 3:45-7:45? ” . That is their time and it’s limited so it’s on me to get out a couple hours during it if I want to.
I do know what you mean. I’d like my own “ adult “ type solo evening at least once a week . I plan to get on meetup to try to get out more but I also LOVE to go out alone ( yoga, movies , dinner, ect. ) ! I do sometimes feel guilty about taking that time but it helps things feel more sustainable . Plus my partner is free to do his own activities all day when he wants. We are more like “ long leash “ people I guess doing some things together and some apart.
If people are together constantly it can get boring fast and leaves little to talk about.
kimbe
10-10-2021, 12:04 AM
^ You guys always impress me with your dedication !
I am no where NEAR a body building life style. I feel amazed at myself if I work out an hour a day six days a week just in the hopes of not being too large to strip lol!
You've got all reasons to be, that's a lot more than average! :worship:
miss.a.p1600
10-10-2021, 08:37 AM
I feel bad because I rushed L to propose to me and he did.
Now he wants to marry and I am not ready.
I honestly want to see what he is going to do career wise and how much difficult life will be with this Bertha bitch and her kids here all the time before I agree to go through with it.
Not gone lie n I might sound like a megacunt saying this but I probably would have agreed to marry him if his kids and ex wife weren’t in the picture. I just need to figure out if I can accomplish my goals and meet my financial objectives with these other additional obligations in the background
whirlerz
10-10-2021, 09:11 AM
I hear ya, Ms P!
I did the same thing, (no kids involved tho) w/an ex fiance, then I was the one who called it off.. Best to you, whatever you decide!
So there's a mega church down the street, they woke me up @ like 7am, it's their 20th anniversary, but c'mon!
I'm talking super booming LOUD music, (I'd texted my neighbor telling him to stop, it was [B]them[! /B]
charlie61
10-10-2021, 02:46 PM
miss.a.p., i hear you 100%. Sometimes the thing that seems most important to us at one time turns out to not be what's most important to us once we get what we wanted. Sometimes we need to experience what is like to have what we thought we wanted (in your case, a proposal from a safe, loving person) before we learn that what we really need is more nuanced or just different.
Every situation is going to have a different set of upsides and downsides. I know we mostly hear about the downsides from you, since this is a good, safe place to vent. I'm just glad to hear that you're continuing to evaluate the situation and your needs. You're such a smart, powerful voice on this forum, and i don't think you're the type of woman who would settle for a basic bitch lifestyle, lol. I don't think it's useful for you to beat yourself up about pressuring him into the proposal. You're allowed to change your mind, and that's especially true if his baggage level is changing. That's why people don't get married right away - the engagement period allows people to change their minds before making the big leap.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-10-2021, 04:24 PM
Petty annoyed my new neighbors let their cat out to wander. She's going to get hit by a car sooner or later (we're near the Highway.)
chanzep
10-10-2021, 04:51 PM
So I can't find my bc since I moved. It's not where I thought I packed it smh. Now my moods are horrible every little thing pisses me off. I have to find before my next period.
chanzep
10-10-2021, 04:58 PM
Miss P I hope things work out for you but your happiness is the most important thing. If you have to end it don't feel no way do what is best for you.
I moved countries for my marriage that failed I thought I would have 2 kids by now and be a housewife like I was in the beginning. But I had to get real and get myself together no shame. Now I'm working hard to fully support myself.
Peace of mind is everything.