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indiegirl
10-10-2021, 06:35 PM
Miss P I hope things work out for you but your happiness is the most important thing. If you have to end it don't feel no way do what is best for you.
I moved countries for my marriage that failed I thought I would have 2 kids by now and be a housewife like I was in the beginning. But I had to get real and get myself together no shame. Now I'm working hard to fully support myself.
Peace of mind is everything.

Yeah it sounds like a run and done situation. The only issue is having to move (since you guys moved in together). It's hard to admit when to fold and pack the bags when you wanted it to work out so badly.

I look back on one of my exes and think "I was hanging in there, for what?!" And heck there's people that have married 3-4 times. You can extend this engagement and watch it play out on what he does and blame it on covid for the delayed marriage waiting then cancel near the end if you have to.

DonaDiabla
10-10-2021, 08:11 PM
Petty annoyed that clip sites are saying stuff last minute.
I understand the compliance thing but it seems something else is at foot. I will be watching very closely for the next couple of weeks.

kimbe
10-10-2021, 11:33 PM
I feel bad because I rushed L to propose to me and he did.

Now he wants to marry and I am not ready.

I honestly want to see what he is going to do career wise and how much difficult life will be with this Bertha bitch and her kids here all the time before I agree to go through with it.

Not gone lie n I might sound like a megacunt saying this but I probably would have agreed to marry him if his kids and ex wife weren’t in the picture. I just need to figure out if I can accomplish my goals and meet my financial objectives with these other additional obligations in the background

It seems to me like you're gotten yourself into something you're not ready for.. It usually doesn't get better.


Yeah it sounds like a run and done situation. The only issue is having to move (since you guys moved in together). It's hard to admit when to fold and pack the bags when you wanted it to work out so badly.

I look back on one of my exes and think "I was hanging in there, for what?!" And heck there's people that have married 3-4 times. You can extend this engagement and watch it play out on what he does and blame it on covid for the delayed marriage waiting then cancel near the end if you have to.

It's hard to accept a failure, but it's always better to accept it sooner rather than later.

indiegirl
10-11-2021, 12:52 AM
My "that's nice sweetie" look on my face when a customer has been messaging me for 3 months with no follow through. I should be charging a texting fee if this goes on any longer. Like why send me your drivers license if you don't want to respond or show up. I have a strong feeling this man is brand new to the business and scared LOL.

I had one recently who acted like he has seen ladies in his emails and showed up very nervous and finally admitted he didn't know how things went because it was his first time. Like his hands were shaking and everything. Girllll, I'm not gonna bite. You're in safe hands. lol.

miss.a.p1600
10-11-2021, 05:04 AM
Miss P :

The 50 / 50 thing *can* be tolerable but only with the BEST organization from everyone. :/
If they are disorganized you certainly are not awful for being like " I just can not do this. I would need to leave or get this organized ASAP ".

You don't seem to have a sense of WHEN you'll have a quiet house and that would be very stressful because the visits ( unless I missed something along the way in your posts ) don't seem well planned.

Maybe she will rustle up some cash and be able to stay in that town ?

L asked her if she would be able to stay so she wouldn’t have to uproot her kids again.

she said he HAD to be out at the end of the month.

i think she got evicted from her apartment

moneybags
10-11-2021, 08:48 AM
I feel bad because I rushed L to propose to me and he did.

Now he wants to marry and I am not ready.

I honestly want to see what he is going to do career wise and how much difficult life will be with this Bertha bitch and her kids here all the time before I agree to go through with it.

Not gone lie n I might sound like a megacunt saying this but I probably would have agreed to marry him if his kids and ex wife weren’t in the picture. I just need to figure out if I can accomplish my goals and meet my financial objectives with these other additional obligations in the background

YOU HAVE TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST. As “a nice girl” it sucks. I’m committed to being a “megacunt.” This is not an area in life you should compromise on. You’re doing him a favor if you call things off. He won’t be happy with a resentful wife. Divorces are expensive. He might be hurt initially, but it’ll be better in the long term to wait and see or call things off. As women, if we don’t take care of yourself NO ONE WILL. The world does not care one bit if you are a “good girl”. As a woman we’re screwed no matter what, so you might as well do what makes you happy. You’re being smart!




my pissy annoyance is my landlord. Things have deteriorated so much I can’t even talk to them on the phone after the hell they put me through. I think it’s best to let the lawyer handle everything. Plus I need to know legally what I’m responsible for. I think a lawyer will help me pay the least amount to these scum bags. They’ll have to send receipts and prove there was damage beyond normal wear and tear. It’s a shitty apartment. They flooring was cheap. I may owe something, but they are being heavy handed and probably as retribution for complaining. They know they are in the wrong which is why they called me to negotiate today, but it’s too little too late. I’ll let my lawyer handle everything-that his job. At this point, I just need to accept this will cost me. I’m proud of myself for standing up to these bullies! Even if did cost me about the same-it’s the the principal of it!!! I had to leave because I felt unsafe and THEN your gonna try to charge me over $1500 in “damages” for a section 8 housing-not today Satan.

indiegirl
10-11-2021, 09:44 AM
Maid walked in while I was blasting music through my earphones. Man she gotta hear a fart of a lifetime and she just shut the door LOLLLLLL. I'm deceased hahahaha. So fucking funny hahaha!!! I had no idea she was in the room until the door was shutting.

What a weird life I live. It's like I walk into mistakes left and right :P!!!

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 09:47 AM
This week is the last week I'm going to wait for my small business to " revive " .
If it makes $500 this week I will give things another week without moving forward with alternative income.

The fact is ...... it just isn't where I want it to be. I don't know if it's because people are not doing things quite yet after Covid ( taking actions to buy what we sell ) or if the website is THAT bad being a few years old.

I feel like I did what I could. I spent about $250 on website repairs. J donated some time doing additional repairs . He pitched in a lot. I feel like I can keep advertising going at a rate of around $75 a week on Google ( the pay to play searches ) . I've put some promos up.

I'm READY to look at alternative ways to earn starting next week whether it's some local bartending work , more visits to the club ( I hesitate to do it as I have to travel two hours for it but gotta do what ya gotta do ) , or just getting to the real estate office and doing what I can to get that first customer.

The waiting has been driving me crazy. I'm undecided on how to claw out the FIRST alternative income but eventually you have to make the call that its time.

JGB2009
10-11-2021, 09:55 AM
I hate it when someone says they are going to call you back and don't do so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

chanzep
10-11-2021, 10:29 AM
L asked her if she would be able to stay so she wouldn’t have to uproot her kids again.

she said he HAD to be out at the end of the month.

i think she got evicted from her apartment
Evicted already!!

I'm sorry your dealing with that I can only imagine the stress. I'm sorry but I wouldn't deal with it anymore. Ex wife is a mess and your man is allowing it. Sounds weird like she is causing drama on purpose. I wouldnt marry into that mess. I have a friend you has to deal with a similar ex wife and it's stressful. Her man makes a lot though. Ex wife is always causing dramas and moving etc.

xxxGothBarbie
10-11-2021, 12:53 PM
Waiting on stupid airbnb to give me my refund back after the hassle of fighting with both the host & cust servce rep last night. I'm trying to leave boy toys house as planned but i cant afford to have money tied up with airbnb the have to hope to make it back. Ugh this retrograde isn't helping either! Plus haven't got my period yet which alarms me bc fuck having a kid. Why do abortions have to cost so damn much!?!

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 01:10 PM
If the host didn’t provide what was in the ad they are pretty good about getting $ back !

LaurenAus
10-11-2021, 01:24 PM
shoutout to all my girls with PMDD. This shiz sucks

xxxGothBarbie
10-11-2021, 01:46 PM
If the host didn’t provide what was in the ad they are pretty good about getting $ back !

I have an email stating they're refunding it thankfully. Problem was I had just booked it & didnt even check in yet. I didn't feel safe going there after going back and looking at pics. Bars on the damn window?!? Nah bruh im not goin there. Airbnb has gotten really sheisty with their cancellation policy lately. I almost didnt get it back if I hadn't put up a fight.

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 01:49 PM
I guess technically I have enough savings and I could borrow a bit to survive till year end.
I’m just so sick of this though. Not being busy enough and not making enough . :/

kimbe
10-11-2021, 01:57 PM
I guess technically I have enough savings and I could borrow a bit to survive till year end.
I’m just so sick of this though. Not being busy enough and not making enough . :/

Nothing sucks like a halting business :'(
Hopefully it will turn better soon :)

Aurora_Sunset
10-11-2021, 01:57 PM
I forgot my car registration was due this month and paid it 4 days late which equals a $15 late fee.... Late fees are fucking ridiculous. It doesn't cost the companies any extra money for my payment to be late. It's just supposed to be a deterrent to make us pay on time. But guess what - it didn't work. I still fucking forgot. Or maybe I'm broke as fuck and was waiting for payday. Either way - either end the service/revoke whatever I'm paying for if it's not on time, or don't issue a stupid fucking late fee as "punishment" because it being late obviously wasn't enough for you to take the product/service away from me.

I just read today that a library somewhere did away with late fees and they lost a ridiculously miniscule amount of profit while upping the amount of books that got returned, and just how much better it was for the community when they did this. I realize a library is a bit different from other businesses, but the point was to stop punishing poverty with fees that just make it that much harder to pay anything else on time in the future, thus continuing the cycle.

Anyway, done with my rant and soapbox for now...

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 02:02 PM
Thank you.
I know I keep going on about it but I get confused on what to do !!

I notice I just feel “ blah “ when I get stressed like this.
I’m trying to feel better and feel productive.


Nothing sucks like a halting business :'(
Hopefully it will turn better soon :)

kimbe
10-11-2021, 02:07 PM
Thank you.
I know I keep going on about it but I get confused on what to do !!

I notice I just feel “ blah “ when I get stressed like this and I’m trying to feel better and feel productive.

My business is also exposed for sudden changes in profit, so I always try to have at least one other source of income :)

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 02:09 PM
^ It may be back to the club more often for me.
I’m just so sick of how my days go ( sit and wait in front of a computer ).
I protect my time in case there are clients ( always near phone / computer 9-5 M-F ).
I refuse to give that time away . I do a 1 hour daily workout and I keep phone on at gym.

I applied for a high end hotel front desk gig today and the manager wrote back fast.
That was cool.

kimbe
10-11-2021, 02:10 PM
My business is also exposed for sudden changes in profit, so I always try to have at least one other source of income :)
That's in addition to my partner ;)

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 02:36 PM
^ Yeah I have $500 ish from my rental property and *could* survive on $1200-$1300 more but it seems so underwhelming .
I am just not having fun anymore not working. I’m over it.
The break was nice honestly until PUA stopped.
I paid down credit cards with the PUA help I got .
Not ALL my decisions were bad ha.
I have low bills ( high earning partner generously covers home and 80% of groceries ).
My home expenses are covered if I lived in my home too. I would put two roommates in and that would make my portion like $60 a month ha with where the rental market is. I wouldn’t waste anything living alone honestly if I wasn’t partnered.

It’s more just not wanting to underperform in life . :)
I want resources so I can throw down a travel idea too like “ I have enough for a month in Costa Rica accomodations. Can you meet me for the middle for 10-15 days ? “ .
PLUS I have bigger goals like another rental which means I should save some for it every month but it's been a year of barely surviving.

AChildOfBoredom
10-11-2021, 02:54 PM
I’m really fucking annoyed with how the Amish sell themselves on an image and the ‘English’ world just laps that shit up (and especially how MGTOW/incel/red pill/black pill sorts in particular like to fetishize it in a fashion, but that’s a separate discussion).

The Amish girl had today and tomorrow off from work, so I took her to work with me today because she didn’t want to be alone and I didn’t want to leave her alone today. So on top of everything else, she got to see me ‘in the wild’. She had tried reaching out to her parents to find some sort of closure and maybe get back on speaking terms with them, and their response was basically to tell her she’s dead to them, they never want to see or hear from her again, and not even to come to their funerals. Her mother in particular… I’m tempted to drive to Pennsylvania just so I can knock that bitch’s teeth out. I am grateful that we could be here for her when that happened. S and her girlfriend stayed over last night, so did my friend from the community, my sister stayed here instead of the dorm… the outpouring of support she received was really something, and I hope she understands that she is loved dearly here.

But people think the Amish are these quaint and cutesy folks, when in reality many of them - especially those in rigidly fundamentalist Old Order communities like the one she and my mother both came from - are vile, repulsive, and outright horrid people.

moneybags
10-11-2021, 03:28 PM
I guess technically I have enough savings and I could borrow a bit to survive till year end.
I’m just so sick of this though. Not being busy enough and not making enough . :/

All the financial uncertainty-everyone feels that way-well maybe not the super rich. Any working class and middle class person feels like they are walking on egg shells. We’re all holding our breath to get all the way out the pandemic and recover financially from it. Hugs. Keep the faith

carmen_b
10-11-2021, 04:00 PM
^ Would you guys be interested in a covid recovery type thread where we discuss some details like this ?
I feel like it would be nice to see what peoples goals are ( most of the people I know for example would be happy making like 75% of what they did two years ago ). I only need 50% really but would like to get towards 60-75% sooner than later.

Sometimes I wonder where the hell my PUA money went. I guess it doesn't go far when it's only 2k but during that time it was over 3 k a month ...... how did I not save more ? Anyway .......

:/

I might just try ALL my ideas lol. A smaller scale part time local job, getting to the club MORE , continuing my wifi and strict answering phone thing 9-5 M-F, AND finally getting signed to a real estate broker. I'm an experienced property manager too. I forgot about that in my talent hat haha and there are like a million short term rentals near me. I'm so sick of this shit. I honestly don't even feel like I would need more than 1 day off a week.

WendiStarr
10-11-2021, 05:48 PM
Trying to get adequate prenatal care in this bumpkin town. Wtf is with the obstetrician not having ultrasound machines in their office and having to schedule it elsewhere with a place that is rude when they answer the phone and put you through a neverending loop of,"You need a doctor's order for an ultrasound" and the doctor saying they'll resend the order. Repeat. I just find it odd that I'm so far along and haven't even had 1 ultrasound. The only way I found out the baby's gender was through a blood test that I paid for myself. I feel like out here maybe women get no prenatal care or such crappy prenatal care and end up just going to the hospital only once they go into labor. This place is too rural and in no rush for anything.

chanzep
10-11-2021, 07:22 PM
There's some really random stuff I can't find since moving and it's really annoying me like can opener and knife block smh.

moneybags
10-11-2021, 08:39 PM
Trying to get adequate prenatal care in this bumpkin town. Wtf is with the obstetrician not having ultrasound machines in their office and having to schedule it elsewhere with a place that is rude when they answer the phone and put you through a neverending of,"You need a doctor's order for an ultrasound" and the doctor saying they'll resend the order. Repeat. I just find it odd that I'm so far along and haven't even had 1 ultrasound. The only way I found out the baby's gender was through a blood test that I paid for myself. I feel like out here maybe women get no prenatal care or such crappy prenatal care and end up just going to the hospital only once they go into labor. This place is too rural and in no rush for anything.

That’s an unfortunate reality of women’s health care. It’s actually a really big problem everywhere, but especially rural areas.

moneybags
10-11-2021, 08:44 PM
^ Would you guys be interested in a covid recovery type thread where we discuss some details like this ?
I feel like it would be nice to see what peoples goals are ( most of the people I know for example would be happy making like 75% of what they did two years ago ). I only need 50% really but would like to get towards 60-75% sooner than later.

Sometimes I wonder where the hell my PUA money went. I guess it doesn't go far when it's only 2k but during that time it was over 3 k a month ...... how did I not save more ? Anyway .......

:/

I might just try ALL my ideas lol. A smaller scale part time local job, getting to the club MORE , continuing my wifi and strict answering phone thing 9-5 M-F, AND finally getting signed to a real estate broker. I'm an experienced property manager too. I forgot about that in my talent hat haha and there are like a million short term rentals near me. I'm so sick of this shit. I honestly don't even feel like I would need more than 1 day off a week.

Yes! Recovering from covid thread! I love it! I’m actually in a women’s financial coaching program, but I think a lot of dancers relate to their earning slow down. Where I’m from it’s almost business as usual on the weekends, but the weekdays are slower. I expect in the winter it will be slower. Especially with vaccines wanning immunity. I got the moderna, but I still get anxiety before my shifts-it’s better now. Im thankful I didn’t get sick when I was moving.

I don’t know about you, but I was so stressed during covid that I was spending more to cope with the stress of being home alone 24/7! I’ve never been more stressed in my entire life! I’m surprised I’m not more traumatized from a whole year of chaos and uncertainty. Although that has been my entire life-one trauma after another, so I developed some good coping skills before the pandemic. I’m honestly surprised I’m not homeless. I barely survived. I don’t know how I did it. As much as I hate how much debt I’m in, I’m thankful I had credit cards so I could survive! Recovery from COVID sucks. I could go on and on about it, but I’ll spare you the complaining.

The final thing I’ll say is, we went through similar things the housing crisis was one of them. The strip club scene never bounced back it’s gotten worse and worse every year. I think we’ll see booms in the summer and weekends, but overall I’m not expecting pre COVID money. I’m exiting the industry soon though. I’m sure some girls and clubs do great, but unless you invest in an education, I don’t see stripping as anything other than something that lets you live a better quality of life. I don’t see girls walking out with thousands-it happenes-it’s just not the norm. Most girls are happy with a couple of hundred. Girls shouldn’t be grinding on cock for less that $500 per shift-it’s degrading. The definition of whether or not it is empowering is how much money we make.

Genoveve
10-11-2021, 10:23 PM
I forgot my car registration was due this month and paid it 4 days late which equals a $15 late fee.... Late fees are fucking ridiculous. It doesn't cost the companies any extra money for my payment to be late. It's just supposed to be a deterrent to make us pay on time. But guess what - it didn't work. I still fucking forgot. Or maybe I'm broke as fuck and was waiting for payday. Either way - either end the service/revoke whatever I'm paying for if it's not on time, or don't issue a stupid fucking late fee as "punishment" because it being late obviously wasn't enough for you to take the product/service away from me.

I just read today that a library somewhere did away with late fees and they lost a ridiculously miniscule amount of profit while upping the amount of books that got returned, and just how much better it was for the community when they did this. I realize a library is a bit different from other businesses, but the point was to stop punishing poverty with fees that just make it that much harder to pay anything else on time in the future, thus continuing the cycle.

Anyway, done with my rant and soapbox for now...

Completely agree with you.

Car registration is my current annoyance too; my car registration is due this month literally right before I move states, so I'm going to have to pay for two years in two different states. Or so I assume, I don't really know how it works since my first got totaled right when I moved to SoCal so I never had time to register it. I'm going to have to register it in my new state though and I'm sure it ain't gonna be free.

carmen_b
10-12-2021, 01:57 PM
I got two decent ( over $ 1,000 each possible ) leads.

It at least gives me two contracts to write.
The retainer is about 50% so a booking could be $500.

It’s hope for now. But hope is better than nothing.

TheBrownFox
10-12-2021, 02:03 PM
^ Would you guys be interested in a covid recovery type thread where we discuss some details like this ?
I feel like it would be nice to see what peoples goals are ( most of the people I know for example would be happy making like 75% of what they did two years ago ). I only need 50% really but would like to get towards 60-75% sooner than later.

Sometimes I wonder where the hell my PUA money went. I guess it doesn't go far when it's only 2k but during that time it was over 3 k a month ...... how did I not save more ? Anyway .......



Yes. :) As long as the blue members don't fuck it up with silly bickering/attacks and constant link posting every 2 seconds. Lol. Or are you keeping here to Ladies Only?

carmen_b
10-12-2021, 02:05 PM
Oh I put it in life support.
Maybe we move it ?

carmen_b
10-12-2021, 02:17 PM
I wrote one contract .
I’ll send that invoice in 1-2 hours.
I don’t want to look too aggressive lol.
Send good vibes.

LoveyD
10-12-2021, 03:07 PM
I fucking hate my rapist "father" and liar twin sister for elbowing me out of the will. $200,000 would come in handy right now. Assholes. And to know they did it all on purpose to destroy me is fucking hurtful. Glad to know my asshole father is in hell. My twin will join him someday.

xxxGothBarbie
10-12-2021, 04:13 PM
I fucking hate my rapist "father" and liar twin sister for elbowing me out of the will. $200,000 would come in handy right now. Assholes. And to know they did it all on purpose to destroy me is fucking hurtful. Glad to know my asshole father is in hell. My twin will join him someday.

Alot of people suffer the same ill will unfortunatley :(
I don't know why ppl are so selfish when it comes to wills & giving relatives the money that was rightfully theirs in the first damn place! I'm sorry you are going thru it *hugs*
Trust me, I'm gonna be in the same boat I feel like when my last relatives pass. Family fucking sux! You'll make that back in life & then some!

miss.a.p1600
10-12-2021, 07:29 PM
L had the gall to say “I wonder what it’s going to be like when my kids come back, have you thought about that?”

Um no mf. The less I have to think about your crumbsnatchers invading my space and sucking up resources the better. The less I think about you playing mr mom while missing opportunities to provide, the better.

LoveyD
10-12-2021, 08:33 PM
Alot of people suffer the same ill will unfortunatley :(
I don't know why ppl are so selfish when it comes to wills & giving relatives the money that was rightfully theirs in the first damn place! I'm sorry you are going thru it *hugs*
Trust me, I'm gonna be in the same boat I feel like when my last relatives pass. Family fucking sux! You'll make that back in life & then some!

Thank you. God knows I am trying.

JGB2009
10-13-2021, 08:05 AM
My daughters teachers frustrate me so much. I had a zoom meeting with them yesterday and their question for me is what language do you speak at home. Seriously they thought me and my family spoke no English at all. Mind you both teachers met me and her adult sister, and when we spoke to them we spoke perfect English. I just don't see how they came up with that brilliant conclusion smh. Also somehow my daughter has fell behind since everyone was forced to stay home because of corona. She's a perfect reader but math right now is her downfall. I'm just not to sure if I like the vibes that I am getting from both teachers and I hope before the year is out that my daughter is able to get on track. Fingers crossed.

carmen_b
10-13-2021, 10:02 AM
^ Wtf ?

How about some resources and an action plan to get caught up v.s. judgement ?
You know ... the thing that is literally their job haha.
Weird.

carmen_b
10-13-2021, 10:04 AM
Well you have thought about it. :)

Give him print outs from here lol ?



L had the gall to say “I wonder what it’s going to be like when my kids come back, have you thought about that?”

Um no mf. The less I have to think about your crumbsnatchers invading my space and sucking up resources the better. The less I think about you playing mr mom while missing opportunities to provide, the better.

whirlerz
10-13-2021, 01:14 PM
Ms P, thanks for the laff, crumsnatchers lol.

So my landlord's a prick, he actually brought up evicting, he got a lump sum for a couple months, (an assistantance program), then tells me I owe 125 for last week, (him: "I won't start evicting w/" @ least a part payment "::)

He also told my crush upstairs that " the moratorium on evicting is off">:( (he left his phone on the job site)
guy was 1 day late
Meanwhile, lawn is a foot high, a weed grew over on steps, got slimey, & I damn near fell yesterday!
PIG>:(

TheBrownFox
10-13-2021, 01:54 PM
I was supposed to be on Stripchat at 4 PM, but this fucking Uber Eats dude decided to steal my food (and cancel my order), I guess? So I had to REorder, and wait a while for a different person to bring me some food. If I'm about to deal with annoying-ass men on cam, I need FOOD IN MY BELLY, dammit. Because like the commercial says...I'm not me when I'm hungry.....

Aurora_Sunset
10-13-2021, 02:50 PM
I hate the first day back at work after my "weekend," everyone's always like "you do anything fun on your days off?" Like, no, bitch, I'm depressed and broke. Even if I had the energy to do anything, I wouldn't have the money. I lie around and watch movies I've already seen for 2 days and clean.

At least I clean.

TheBrownFox
10-13-2021, 03:08 PM
I hate the first day back at work after my "weekend," everyone's always like "you do anything fun on your days off?" Like, no, bitch, I'm depressed and broke. Even if I had the energy to do anything, I wouldn't have the money.


EXACTLY. I haven't been to karaoke in a while, because I can't afford to be spending $20 + tip on a Lyft ride home when my usual ride home happens to NOT be there that night. And I am NOT happy that I just had to spend like $30 at FedEx Office (inside of Walmart) to print out and fax stuff, because the damn library (Where I could've done all of that for cheap) was closed on Monday. And then of course FedEx Office puts a temporary hold of $10 on your debit card. Great. So now $10 of my money has to be held hostage for a couple days.

Then with this situation today with the Uber Eats driver stealing my food, that's another temporary hold on my card ($18+) even though I'm "not being charged." Sometimes I wish we could just go back to being a CASH society. I don't like "temporary holds" on cards, and what little money I have being held hostage.

xxxGothBarbie
10-13-2021, 03:22 PM
EXACTLY. I haven't been to karaoke in a while, because I can't afford to be spending $20 + tip on a Lyft ride home when my usual ride home happens to NOT be there that night. And I am NOT happy that I just had to spend like $30 at FedEx Office (inside of Walmart) to print out and fax stuff, because the damn library (Where I could've done all of that for cheap) was closed on Monday. And then of course FedEx Office puts a temporary hold of $10 on your debit card. Great. So now $10 of my money has to be held hostage for a couple days.

Then with this situation today with the Uber Eats driver stealing my food, that's another temporary hold on my card ($18+) even though I'm "not being charged." Sometimes I wish we could just go back to being a CASH society. I don't like "temporary holds" on cards, and what little money I have being held hostage.

Ya stupid airbnb is taking their sweet ass time giving me my refund back even though they've had the loot the whole time. Ugh

TheBrownFox
10-13-2021, 03:55 PM
Ya stupid airbnb is taking their sweet ass time giving me my refund back even though they've had the loot the whole time. Ugh


Oh, damn...that sucks. Keep an eye on your online bank statement (or bank statement mobile app). Some years ago I was looking at mine, and noticed a charge (or withdrawal?) of X dollars, and I called to ask what that was about. The bank claimed it was a freak accident, and that was money that was supposed to come off of SOMEONE ELSE's account...not mine. I was like WTF. If I hadn't noticed it and called them, who knows if they would've even given me my money back.

Then some other time, I tried to use a credit union's ATM to withdraw money I'd earned from a cam site, and the damn ATM timed out on me AND took my money. I was like OMG, is this really fucking happening?! I remember going inside the credit union to explain what happened, and the teller looking at me like I was crazy. I had to fill out an ATM dispute form and wait to get my money back. A couple weeks ago my Amazon account got hacked. Orders were placed, item reviews were posted, and Amazon questions about an item were asked. WTF. My card wasn't charged though, because I woke up in time to cancel all the orders (And the shipping address for the orders to go to was MY address...um...), and change my password.


Sometimes when shit like this happens, I wonder is this some kind of karma for something I did when I was younger? Lol. My aunt Carol was like "Wow, you have the craziest stuff happen to you!"

whirlerz
10-13-2021, 07:08 PM
Oh, damn...that sucks. Keep an eye on your online bank statement (or bank statement mobile app). Some years ago I was looking at mine, and noticed a charge (or withdrawal?) of X dollars, and I called to ask what that was about. The bank claimed it was a freak accident, and that was money that was supposed to come off of SOMEONE ELSE's account...not mine. I was like WTF. If I hadn't noticed it and called them, who knows if they would've even given me my money back.

Then some other time, I tried to use a credit union's ATM to withdraw money I'd earned from a cam site, and the damn ATM timed out on me AND took my money. I was like OMG, is this really fucking happening?! I remember going inside the credit union to explain what happened, and the teller looking at me like I was crazy. I had to fill out an ATM dispute form and wait to get my money back. A couple weeks ago my Amazon account got hacked. Orders were placed, item reviews were posted, and Amazon questions about an item were asked. WTF. My card wasn't charged though, because I woke up in time to cancel all the orders (And the shipping address for the orders to go to was MY address...um...), and change my password.


Sometimes when shit like this happens, I wonder is this some kind of karma for something I did when I was younger? Lol. My aunt Carol was like "Wow, you have the craziest stuff happen to you!"

Wow! ^

In Dollar Den, I posted about a guy depositing 1300. It grabb his $, I guess he go it back tho

WendiStarr
10-14-2021, 08:32 AM
My libido randomly returned and it's annoying. I keep thinking about sex. I live in rural bfe and there seem to be no men under age 70 here. At the same time, even if there were younger than 70 years old men here, I don't want to risk catching some STD. Out of curiosity I went on a dating site, didn't even post a face picture or pictures of any kind and got tons of requests for sex. One of them was trolling for an escort I guess because he offered $300 for "raw sex". Wtf. I need to just buy another vibrator.

miss.a.p1600
10-14-2021, 08:47 AM
^Get the clit sucker!

You’ll thank me later hahaha