View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
10-14-2021, 08:56 AM
Getting the tax extension and then doing the paperwork this week has made me feel pathetic.
:/
Obviously I am not the only one who didn't make much in 2020 but actually SEEING it again ...... trauma. Ha.
Moving on .....
Moving up .....
I'm very eager to step away from this clear evidence that I spent a year barely surviving.
TheBrownFox
10-14-2021, 10:50 AM
So these payments that people are getting this week from President Biden (My sister got hers in her bank account today)...I'm guessing those of us with now 18 year olds don't get shit, right? Kind of like last time where I didn't get anything. because we'd just missed the cutoff with his age.
I guess I could've posted this in the Random Thoughts thread. Lol. But it could go here too, since I'm a little salty. Lmfao.
moneybags
10-14-2021, 10:53 AM
My food package got stolen. I’m just thinking why would anyone leave a package outside! It got taken care of, but I just need to take a breath before dealing with people when I’m angry. I think it’s common sense to not leave packages out, but I need to give people a chance to explain themselves or make amends before ripping their head off. They were so nice about it and redelivered my food. I feel like a megacunt (in Miss. P.A.’s words). I’m gonna try to respond instead of react next time something bad happens to give people a chance to explain their perspective before jumping to conclusions. I feel bad for being pissy with customer service. I apologized for my attitude. Stealing gets me so pissed though.
TheBrownFox
10-14-2021, 11:30 AM
My food package got stolen. I’m just thinking why would anyone leave a package outside! It got taken care of, but I just need to take a breath before dealing with people when I’m angry. I think it’s common sense to not leave packages out, but I need to give people a chance to explain themselves or make amends before ripping their head off. They were so nice about it and redelivered my food. I feel like a megacunt (in Miss. P.A.’s words). I’m gonna try to respond instead of react next time something bad happens to give people a chance to explain their perspective before jumping to conclusions. I feel bad for being pissy with customer service. I apologized for my attitude. Stealing gets me so pissed though.
That's so shitty. I'm sorry.
Also with this "Leave food at the door" bullshit that DoorDash and other food delivery apps are pushing onto customers (recommending we select that option), we're supposed to be okay with people (who we are tipping) just leaving our food and drink on the dirty-ass ground, and walking away? For someone else to possibly steal...or someone's dog to walk over and lick all over it? *Cringe* So much for customer service. I always select "Meet me at door."
chanzep
10-14-2021, 04:22 PM
The food stealing is so out of order. It happened to me with doordash last year. They even put food on another door with same number in different apartment and took pictures. I was fuming and had to call 3 times to get a full refund they tried to offer me credits. I don't use doordash now only grubhub. And I meet them outside smh. I feel your annoyance ladies it's so fucking rude honestly.
chanzep
10-14-2021, 04:24 PM
So my shift ended a hour earlier so I decided to get eyebrows, nails and grocery and go Wal-Mart. Nail shop was closed only got brows done smh.
Also uber up is takes long I need a car asap.
Marina Starr
10-14-2021, 04:34 PM
Wait a minute! So people just leave your food outside when they deliver? I'm pretty sure when people order food, they will be there to answer when food arrived.
I would be fucking pissed too if someone stole my food.
I believe it's possible to give people a chance to right their wrong but never be afraid to be a bitch when it's called for.
chanzep
10-14-2021, 04:39 PM
Since covid they leave outside. But now you have a choice. Normal or contactless delivery.
Marina Starr
10-14-2021, 05:01 PM
I can see with covid but that still doesn't excuse their behaviours. You know some really abuse the covid excuse shit. Food ain't Amazon prime.
They should at least call and let you know food has been delivered at your door and sit in their car, watch you get the food before they leave unless you don't answer your phone then that's on you.
carmen_b
10-14-2021, 06:23 PM
This. We do contactless ( my partner is paranoid or extra cautious however you prefer to phrase it lol ).
I am watching the damn door though for it always hahaha.
Also for door dash there is a pretty accurate tracker !
Since covid they leave outside. But now you have a choice. Normal or contactless delivery.
moneybags
10-15-2021, 09:35 AM
^^^yeah. I more upset at people who steal. It’s like really. Can’t trust my neighbors? That’s what pisses me off the most is when you can’t trust the people around you.
Yeah. I’ll probably just go to the grocery store it wasn’t that much cheaper or more convenient to get food delivered. I’d rather pick my food out and take it home myself than wait around to make sure no one steals it.
I guess you gotta take the bad and the good in life.
I’ve always empathized with the drivers. I’m always more angry at the corporations than the people themselves. I’m happy corporations are having a hard time finding help to work their low pay shit jobs-it’s criminal!
chanzep
10-15-2021, 09:36 AM
the drivers where i used to live are terrible. When they stole my food they actually came to my apartments then took off. I saw them on the map. After that i met them outside leasing office. another time they delivered my walmart order and just left all my stuff in a random corner of my apartment after i told them i would meet in parking garage which is level. then called me with a attitude saying its long to find. Grubhub i had no problems. I see them on tiktok complaining about delivering to apartments too smh. my apartments are easy and have level parking and door not far. some are just lazy and want to sit in their car.
lurkingtitties
10-15-2021, 10:35 AM
MissP that explains a lot, thank you for the useful post.
miss.a.p1600
10-15-2021, 11:14 AM
^^^yeah. I more upset at people who steal. It’s like really. Can’t trust my neighbors? That’s what pisses me off the most is when you can’t trust the people around you.
Yeah. I’ll probably just go to the grocery store it wasn’t that much cheaper or more convenient to get food delivered. I’d rather pick my food out and take it home myself than wait around to make sure no one steals it.
I guess you gotta take the bad and the good in life.
I’ve always empathized with the drivers. I’m always more angry at the corporations than the people themselves. I’m happy corporations are having a hard time finding help to work their low pay shit jobs-it’s criminal!
The corporations could pay a bit better but it is what it is…..
I personally think grocery delivery is a bit better quality than fast food/restaurant delivery. People tip way better, the workers are more thoughtful/careful.
TheBrownFox
10-15-2021, 04:25 PM
I love my mom, but HOW THE FUCK does a person allow their car to get that messy? Wtf. Trash...Dunkin' bags...empty Dunkin' cups...empty Pepsi bottles all over the damn floor. No wonder my dad is always nagging her about her messy car.
TheBrownFox
10-15-2021, 04:30 PM
All that talk about how I need to buy a USB wall charger (So I can charge my damn vibrator while I'm camming...can't charge it into my laptop's USB port while camming, because it'll cause my webcam screen to go black), and I finally bought one today from Five Below while I had a ride over there. And then when I got home, I can't find the damn USB wall charger in any of my bags.
Probably left the damn thing in the store...or it's lost in a pile of trash in my mom's messy-ass car.....
What a waste. And now I STILL can't charge my vibrator right after I complete a private show. I'd have to wait 'til I'm off cam to be able to charge it again. SMH.
chanzep
10-15-2021, 04:32 PM
So I finally made it to new local nail shop. It looks nice but nails are mediocre. It's expensive too. A lot more than my old nail place which was in Uptown. This is the nicest suburb of the city but still. There is a cute cupcake store next door so I went there too. Taking uber up here omg takes too long.
miss.a.p1600
10-15-2021, 04:50 PM
L said his bay bays are in town.
I am about sick of this Bertha bitch giving no notice and dropping her kids off early.
I do not want these noisy messy lazy mfs here in my peaceful space.
whirlerz
10-15-2021, 04:58 PM
I've been talking to someone on a local forum, they were asking for a neighbor to find someone to share their condo in exchange for some help w/chores, dog walking, grocery p/up etc.
Not a lot of stuff or hours.
Id have my own room but share a bath.
She kept me on the phone for hours, she said we'd meet in person tomorrow, she'd text her address, it was a while since I'd heard from her, so I texted her reminding to send me address.. she's trying to get the person who set up the ad to meet with me too..
I guess it's alright, but the way she put it, " I'm afraid of meeting people alone, you hear about so many bad things happening"..
Well, ok, what about me tho?
Now I feel weird, also she might be too clingy?
I still hate where I'm living now, not a lot of choices.:-\
Eta'
I just saw another CL ad, & texted it.
It's a room in a house w/a private bath, a little cheaper than where I am now. It looks nice we'll see.
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-15-2021, 06:45 PM
Getting old sucks, my heartburn ruined dinner tonight. Bleh................
miss.a.p1600
10-16-2021, 06:50 AM
L said his bay bays are in town.
I am about sick of this Bertha bitch giving no notice and dropping her kids off early.
I do not want these noisy messy lazy mfs here in my peaceful space.
That youngest kid asked him like 20 times. And his oldest kid tag teamed and asked him multiple times.
What do y’all not understand…….you all are loud, obnoxious, messy, stay hungry, and just……I do not want those snot nosed kids over here I need a break from dealing with them all week last week.
Bertha better figure out a plan b n c
Thank heavens he stuck to his guns n told them NO!!! .
whirlerz
10-16-2021, 08:35 AM
Wow, they've 0 discipline /direction Ms p!
Sooo, fire dept here today..::)
I come around the corner, there's a giant fire truck, lights a-flashing! :O
Turned out roomie called them, he smelled gas, it was a slight leak, now the gas's off
The bad part is, they nose around outside & through the house, seeing code violation & who knows what all..
My crush guy was trying to see if he could fix, but he can't.. the gas Co has to
Roomie super paranoid, thinks everyone trying to kill him, he said he was going to hospital, but didn't..
I was trying to talk him into go to a clinic /Dr/hospital, he hung up phone, he's out of house, so Idk:-\
I was supposed to look at a couple places to move to, but eh not into to 'em rn, the one is a needy older lady, the other's a delusional guy over charging for a non private bathroom
lynn2009
10-16-2021, 09:33 AM
I finally got the witness information I needed from an officer to give to my car insurance company. The police report spun things like it was my fault and it pissed me off so much. I know the witness will agree that I was not at fault.
My car insurance company still kept me as at fault for this accident even after talking to the witness. Even though the witness I know specifically stayed around to tell the officer who came that I was not at fault and I'm assuming told the insurance the same thing. Fine. I like to think that I am adult enough to admit if an accident was my fault but whatever. So I tell my insurance I will pay for the repairs myself rather than agree with their designation. I knew it would be expensive because the door panels probably need replaced rather than able to repair but the estimate came to 3400 fucking dollars, about a grand more than I expected. That's probably more than the car is worth right now. I'm going to see about just getting it painted and letting the doors stay dented.
What happened was this woman was stopped in a lane with her hazards on. I finally started going around her when her dumb ass started making an illegal U-turn and not only did SHE hit me she didn't even stop on the initial impact!!! She tried to complete her turn!! I hope her car stalls on train tracks and she dies.
And I'm upset because I have been trying to see a GP but no one's office is calling me back. I want to be professionally screened for neuro divergency issues.
whirlerz
10-16-2021, 09:37 AM
Lynn can you go to an immediate care place? They're open 7 days, thats what I did when I had my accident, I eventually went to my regular Doc.
whirlerz
10-16-2021, 10:31 AM
Wow, they've 0 discipline /direction Ms p!
Sooo, fire dept here today..::)
I come around the corner, there's a giant fire truck, lights a-flashing! :O
Turned out roomie called them, he smelled gas, it was a slight leak, now the gas's off
The bad part is, they nose around outside & through the house, seeing code violation & who knows what all..
My crush guy was trying to see if he could fix, but he can't.. the gas Co has to
Roomie super paranoid, thinks everyone trying to kill him, he said he was going to hospital, but didn't..
I was trying to talk him into go to a clinic /Dr/hospital, he hung up phone, he's out of house, so Idk:-\
I was supposed to look at a couple places to move to, but eh not into to 'em rn, the one is a needy older lady, the other's a delusional guy over charging for a non private bathroom
Ugh.
So, no heat, probably won't be, knowing our mgt..
I have a, space heater, no clue where it is so I bought another, the home depot closest of course doesn't have it
WendiStarr
10-16-2021, 04:05 PM
I'm annoyed with the paid sexting sites like phrendly and guys not understanding that those services are not for in-person meets/hookups. I had a ton of guys texting today and their first text to me is their phone number, Snapchat, IG, or email address cleverly typed out so as to creep past the filters. They never message beyond that one annoying message or if they do it's to say that they're out of free messages.
TheBrownFox
10-16-2021, 04:32 PM
I'm annoyed with the paid sexting sites like phrendly and guys not understanding that those services are not for in-person meets/hookups. I had a ton of guys texting today and their first text to me is their phone number, Snapchat, IG, or email address cleverly typed out so as to creep past the filters. They never message beyond that one annoying message or if they do it's to say that they're out of free messages.
This is why I'm genuinely fascinated when I see forum posts about ladies making three digit amounts daily on SextPanther (from just sexting, and not having to take phone calls). Like HOW??? I've read the threads, and have done the stuff recommended (including posting to that 'Explore' feed). Every once in a blue moon I'll get "So and so has added you as a contact." And I'll send them a message to get things started, and then get no reply. Like wtf.
Genoveve
10-16-2021, 05:05 PM
Car registration is my current annoyance too; my car registration is due this month literally right before I move states, so I'm going to have to pay for two years in two different states. Or so I assume, I don't really know how it works since my first got totaled right when I moved to SoCal so I never had time to register it. I'm going to have to register it in my new state though and I'm sure it ain't gonna be free.
Well I guess I'm going to be riding dirty. I went to AAA to pay my registration(so I could have my tags right away and not have to wait for them to come in the mail since I am moving soon) and I had no idea until the woman at AAA helping me pointed out that my car has some sort of emissions recall that needed to be fixed at a dealership before I could officially get re-registered. She said I could pay the registration so I could avoid late fees on it, but that I couldn't get my tags until I provided proof of that dealership fix. I told her that I'm moving out of state in two weeks and don't really have time to be running around to the dealership and back to AAA and she basically said that because I'm moving out of state so soon and will have to register my vehicle there that it made no sense to renew my Cali one and pay for both. I told her that I knew that but figured if my car was re-registered in Cali that at least I wouldn't have to rush to deal with the whole process and potentially the AZ(where I am moving) DMV as soon as I got there and could do it at my leisure. She still said that she recommended just basically driving dirty and dealing with it in AZ so I wouldn't waste the extra $300 in Cali, she said the most I would get is a fix it ticket and told me to just not drive crazy LOL.
LoveyD
10-16-2021, 06:43 PM
^^Good luck with the move! I'm over the part of CA I'm in and may move somewhere quieter. Too many people, rent too high, quality of life isn't the same anymore.
Genoveve
10-16-2021, 07:54 PM
^^Good luck with the move! I'm over the part of CA I'm in and may move somewhere quieter. Too many people, rent too high, quality of life isn't the same anymore.
I'm in San Diego too. Definitely a lot of people, unless you move to one of the more rural areas like I did and then you have to deal with wildfires.
LoveyD
10-16-2021, 08:42 PM
^^ I was living in Del Mar but had to escape the psycho bitch I was living with. Del Mar is beautiful, but the people I know there suck. It's been more of a luxury living in my car lol. I was thinking of moving to a more rural area. But yeah, wildfires. Ugh you can't win!
whirlerz
10-16-2021, 11:52 PM
I'm beyond pissed @ myself for taking pity on my fucked up offender roomie, by agreeing to pick him up from hospital. Then he decided to drive home himself anyway? Wasting my time /gas, I hate driving at night, got lost on the way back.
He's all paranoid from smoking crack, called fire dept this morning about a gas leak, (instead of landlords)& they shut off the gas, it's freezing fucking cold! >:(
I've a space heater going, it's not doing much.
Also, I'm not saying anything, but his dirty dishes are going in the garbage by Mon.
LL picked up the rent just fine tho..::) He promised to have gas company come out for a service call but didn't.
I'm phoning the free legal service, I'm deducting each day w/o heat.. I'm having surgery on Tuesday!
THANK GOD I don't have to deal with wildfire.
whirlerz
10-17-2021, 10:38 AM
Well, service guy's out here, furnace in bad shape Idk if it has tb replaced or what.
carmen_b
10-17-2021, 12:00 PM
^ LL should get the drug guy moving out and moving on .....
Illegal ( liability for both himself and every one there ) . I hope he does !
carmen_b
10-17-2021, 12:15 PM
I have a small annoyance with J's Mom ha.
We drove 2 hours each way yesterday to see a concert in another town and it meant my dog was alone 10 hours .
J's mom / his uncle dropped his sister off to join us for this concert trip.
Instead of offering to help at all ( and my boy is SUPER easy ) when just letting him do a quick overnight would have been so EASY and not even had a minute of extra driving ....... I am scrambling to get him a mid point potty break using Rover.com !
THANKS to Rover ! Lol
Family in town but at least online strangers can HELP for 5-6 minutes !
Wtf . That really isn't the complaint ( ha ) because I know not everyone likes dogs or small dogs to be specific which is fine.
She was here this morning to get the sister and is like " Oh he is so cute " .
I just let it roll hahahah .
Like ..... don't pretend to like him if you don't it's fine.
Aurora_Sunset
10-17-2021, 02:16 PM
Tried to treat myself to delivery and they literally forgot half my order. My delivery driver even forewarned me that they tried to forget my drink too, and when she asked for it, they didn't put ice in it. Wtf? I complained to Uber Eats and only got $3 refunded for one item. Left the restaurant a shitty review and note. I don't usually bother being snarky online, but seriously...
lynn2009
10-17-2021, 02:23 PM
My car insurance company still kept me as at fault for this accident even after talking to the witness. Even though the witness I know specifically stayed around to tell the officer who came that I was not at fault and I'm assuming told the insurance the same thing. Fine. I like to think that I am adult enough to admit if an accident was my fault but whatever. So I tell my insurance I will pay for the repairs myself rather than agree with their designation. I knew it would be expensive because the door panels probably need replaced rather than able to repair but the estimate came to 3400 fucking dollars, about a grand more than I expected. That's probably more than the car is worth right now. I'm going to see about just getting it painted and letting the doors stay dented.
What happened was this woman was stopped in a lane with her hazards on. I finally started going around her when her dumb ass started making an illegal U-turn and not only did SHE hit me she didn't even stop on the initial impact!!! She tried to complete her turn!! I hope her car stalls on train tracks and she dies.
And I'm upset because I have been trying to see a GP but no one's office is calling me back. I want to be professionally screened for neuro divergency issues.
Ok, I am going to be an ass and follow up with my insurance and the officer who wrote the report again. I realized I had the witness' number so I texted him myself and he completely agrees it is the other person's fault.
I've really been so upset over this, like I can't trust my memory anymore or my judgement while driving.
lynn2009
10-17-2021, 02:45 PM
Ok, I am going to be an ass and follow up with my insurance and the officer who wrote the report again. I realized I had the witness' number so I texted him myself and he completely agrees it is the other person's fault.
I've really been so upset over this, like I can't trust my memory anymore or my judgement while driving.
I'm going to be a double ass and file a formal dispute with the police report through an attorney.
LoveyD
10-17-2021, 06:50 PM
I really hate it when strange men approach me in the parking lot to discuss how they see damage on the body of my car and how they can fix it. Bitch I know it's a beater upper at this point, I already paid a fuckload in repairs over the summer and I am not stopping to talk to some strange man who could rape me. Today I was approached by one and I walked away. "Wowww" he responded. Bitch do not solicit me I'm busy and if I want auto body repair I will seek it out. Gah go away!!!
WendiStarr
10-18-2021, 08:14 AM
Frickin' Amazon and that damn school bus/slide that I ordered last month and had all the issues with. I checked the tracking and seen that it did make it back to a warehouse on October 3rd. They said I'd be refunded in 3-5 business days. It's been well over that . The 1st csa I talked to tried to say that the reason I didn't get refunded is because it hadn't made it back yet. I said bs, I got tracking info from the UPS man when he came and picked it up. I talked to a different csa who apologized and said that he could see that it was returned and to expect my refund in 3-5 business days. I need to just block Amazon so that I can't order and be disappointed anymore by poor quality China junk or stuff that arrives and is missing parts. I wish Amazon didn't make things more appealing by giving a date of delivery for things before you even place an order.
Aurora_Sunset
10-18-2021, 08:34 AM
My upper back is killing me this morning. I don't know why. I did yoga yesterday and felt really good all over. I must have slept weird, I guess.
JGB2009
10-18-2021, 08:44 AM
I just lost it with someone and hung up on him because he didn't really know what kind of show he wanted. I am not a mind reader!!!!
carmen_b
10-18-2021, 10:17 AM
Am I terrible for heading towards a co-working space / gym combo ha ?
I hope not since I just arrived at said work space.
This is business hours !!
I just don’t think I can do J’s daughter being there and sister / mom .
I tried to help J with their super lame visiting style.
I told him to text me an hour ahead if they want to get out and do something and I’ll give them a ride one way.
His sister is scared to drive his Tesla.
She should be honored to drive that car it’s so fucking fast lol.
I know it drives him nuts ( them lingering at house ) but I bet it’s an 80% chance he won’t hint that they get out for an activity. I guess my take on it is that him not asking shouldn’t affect MY work day ( and a noisy house would ).
carmen_b
10-18-2021, 10:27 AM
Anyway not a fan of school breaks .
Hopefully I’m not awful ha.
Marina Starr
10-18-2021, 11:27 AM
I'm gonna write what pissed me the fuck off today now that I've calmed down a bit.
So today as I was about to make a right turn coming out of my development with turn signal on, some cunt at the red light waiting to go straight turned the front of her car to the right to block me from making a turns as she saw me coming. I lightly honked and ask her twice if she could please move over little so I can turn without scraping her car and mine. She completely ignored me, turned to her left and playing on her phone.
The light finally turned green so I followed her, she parked at Publix, I parked next to her so I asked is there a fucking reason for her being a complete cunt? What she did was completely shitty and uncalled for. There was absolutely no fucking reason to block me from going about my day. She could feel my rage and started apologizing. I could feel it was a sincere apology.
If she had double down and show even a slight indifference for her shitty, uncalled for behaviours I would have slit her tires and beat her fucking ass right there and then.
My dark side would have come out full blown. I told her apology accepted but please learn from this and not fuck with people for no fucking reason.
/rant end.
miss.a.p1600
10-18-2021, 01:24 PM
I am pissed at my dude right now.
His birthday is coming up and he’s telling me all these places he wants to go for his birthday. “Fancy” expensive meals out that I’d rather have a sugar daddy buy for me.
Besides, if IM paying, shouldn’t I be the one deciding and giving him the options???
I can’t stand him right now.
On my fucking birthday he barely did anything so I had planned to match 75% of his effort on my birthday.
I can’t wait till it’s over and he is back to work.
Marina Starr
10-18-2021, 01:35 PM
I feel if it's his birthday then he should be able to choose where wants to go BUT he still has to be mindful of your budget.
Give him a couple of places you'd think he'd like and have him choose. This ain't Burger King so he can't have it his way. What he gets is what he gets if he's being picky.
I am pissed at my dude right now.
His birthday is coming up and he’s telling me all these places he wants to go for his birthday. “Fancy” expensive meals out that I’d rather have a sugar daddy buy for me.
Besides, if IM paying, shouldn’t I be the one deciding and giving him the options???
I can’t stand him right now.
On my fucking birthday he barely did anything so I had planned to match 75% of his effort on my birthday.
I can’t wait till it’s over and he is back to work.
carmen_b
10-18-2021, 03:02 PM
Well .... I'll be DAMNED !
I get back at 3:30 and they are on their way out the door to take the daughter to go do something until 6 p.m.!
That is a FIRST . Awesome.
I'm so pleased at this development. I think I will text J and tell him shower and come find me in bed at 4:30 p.m. haha! He might not be able as technically we work till 5 but hell..... I want to reinforce this in a big way.
miss.a.p1600
10-18-2021, 03:17 PM
I feel if it's his birthday then he should be able to choose where wants to go BUT he still has to be mindful of your budget.
Give him a couple of places you'd think he'd like and have him choose. This ain't Burger King so he can't have it his way. What he gets is what he gets if he's being picky.
Good point
However I am perplexed at why he wants me to take him to an upscale restaurant that he complained was overpriced and he only paid for once.
It’s like he’s having a queen moment on my dime n it is frustrating me. But ya know what I’ll just relax about it for one day. Then after this he’ll be back on a tight leash.
carmen_b
10-18-2021, 03:19 PM
^ This is kind of an odd thing.
Maybe because he took you somewhere fancy for your birthday he figures he gets the same ?
Or did he NOT take you out at a fancy scale on B-day?
I'm wondering if he is retaliating if you "heavily hinted" at fancy for yours?
I can see where you are coming from because I would be stressed if someone ( anyone really not just partner ) was suggesting I spend at a particular level. My currently tight budget is already embarrassing enough without it being pointed out. I think when you are trying to do GOOD with spending ( not use credit cards ) it can be hard enough without having others pointing it out.