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LoveyD
10-18-2021, 03:32 PM
Period has me feeling tired. Finally found a Starbucks that allows me access to SW lol

Marina Starr
10-19-2021, 04:18 AM
LOL, I used to be able to get on SW at my Starbucks but not anymore. Now I have to use my phone data.

They are tracking down on SW Hoes!


Period has me feeling tired. Finally found a Starbucks that allows me access to SW lol

Marina Starr
10-19-2021, 06:23 AM
My order was shipped and it's been in my state the whole fucking time. I tracked it this morning and it's now in Rhode Island when I'm in Florida. What's with this fuckery?

Beyond annoyed, pissed off and agitated!

Marina Starr
10-19-2021, 03:23 PM
It's funny how people don't like their time wasted but they have no problem wasting yours.

When people don't show up for their appointments or running late, I charge so I don't have to wonder if they're telling the truth. It's wonderful how people can show up or not running late when they know they're being charged for their inconsideration.

My thighs are thick but my patience is thin.

indiegirl
10-20-2021, 01:01 AM
Laughing my ass off. It was a Christmas miracle I was returned to my hotel. He was even driving in the middle of the road, loudly talking, etc. My driver is severely inebriated. I am waiting for a new driver. This was the weirdest night no joke.

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 06:49 AM
I cannot wait till my dude goes back to work and his birthday (and his queen moment) is over.

I guess I’m more of a megacunt at the current moment.

I hate how he barely has any regard for my budget and saying he wants me to drive him to places he wants to go and is expecting me to pay for it as well.

I get it’s your fucking birthday but if it’s coming from MY wallet, then I should be the one telling you wtf we are doing today.

When it was my birthday, I only suggested places we could get discounts, places where the cost was affordable for pretty much anyone because I knew he spent a lot getting his kids rooms renovated.

But you know what. Fuck those kids and fuck him rn.

I’m tired of feeling like I’m sacrificing for someone who is not conscious of my money goals right now.

WendiStarr
10-20-2021, 08:05 AM
Omg, this stupid fucking ob/gyn. I was supposed to finally have an appointment and ultrasound scheduled and they fucking rescheduled again. Omfg! I swear I'm going to be like 9 months pregnant before I finally get an ultrasound and be seen again. I feel like I'm going to have to move back to a city that actually has adequate maternal care. Rural doctors don't give a fuck at all and they know that my last pregnancy was high-risk and that I developed preeclampsia near the end of my last pregnancy. Wtf!

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 09:21 AM
L’s family gone ask me

“When y’all getting married?”

Me n what i want to say - “when he gets at least 2 raises AND when he can get rid of the dead weight ex wife”

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 09:33 AM
L now claims he can’t sign up for the course to get a raise because he asked to use my devices and I said no use the computer at the library.

He gets pissy at me.

So, now he is probably going to try to use me as an excuse as to why he won’t get it done.

I’m not doing anything for his birthday till he signs up for this certification

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 09:41 AM
I’m pissed at L bragging about how he’s glad his kids are back in town and he doesn’t have to pay the bitch child support.

Now he will have those kids in MY space over here all the time

Idiot!

Just Pay the bitch bc I refuse to spend my time n resources taking care of some kids who could care less about my efforts.

Now that she’s moving back in town (after getting evicted) she can’t even afford anything decent and L is concerned his kids will be raised in the ghetto.

Well mf you should have thought about that before you impregnated a broke ass bitch with nothing going for herself, before you stood back n watch her leave town with your kids knowing she couldn’t afford the cost of living, etc.

Not my problem.

Berthas kids just have to live with her ….in the hood.

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 10:44 AM
Are any of you Instacart shoppers (I was trying to apply as the In Store Shopper...not the Full Service Shopper)? I have applied for this damn position like two or three times on the shoppers app, and when I do that first assessment (One of those questions is tricky, imo), it gets to the "Your responses have been recorded page," and then I never get any kind of e-mail or anything after that. Is this just their really annoying way of NOT telling me that I didn't get the job? Why not just send me an e-mail saying that I got an answer wrong or something? And then when I go back to the shopper app, it goes back to that screen where it's prompting you to do the assessment quiz again. The support section has nothing but a bunch of frequently asked questions, but no actual phone number to call. I e-mailed them, and got an e-mail back saying "This e-mail address is no longer in use. Please contact Support through the Instacart Shopper app using the link below. We're here for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week." SMH.

carmen_b
10-20-2021, 11:44 AM
Omg. The lost time v.s. what he could make will out weigh it .....
I really wish you well. Sending vibes they only show up 2 days a week max. :)
Vibes vibes vibes .....


I’m pissed at L bragging about how he’s glad his kids are back in town and he doesn’t have to pay the bitch child support.

Now he will have those kids in MY space over here all the time

Idiot!

Just Pay the bitch bc I refuse to spend my time n resources taking care of some kids who could care less about my efforts.

Now that she’s moving back in town (after getting evicted) she can’t even afford anything decent and L is concerned his kids will be raised in the ghetto.

Well mf you should have thought about that before you impregnated a broke ass bitch with nothing going for herself, before you stood back n watch her leave town with your kids knowing she couldn’t afford the cost of living, etc.

Not my problem.

Berthas kids just have to live with her ….in the hood.

whirlerz
10-20-2021, 12:02 PM
Are any of you Instacart shoppers (I was trying to apply as the In Store Shopper...not the Full Service Shopper)? I have applied for this damn position like two or three times on the shoppers app, and when I do that first assessment (One of those questions is tricky, imo), it gets to the "Your responses have been recorded page," and then I never get any kind of e-mail or anything after that. Is this just their really annoying way of NOT telling me that I didn't get the job? Why not just send me an e-mail saying that I got an answer wrong or something? And then when I go back to the shopper app, it goes back to that screen where it's prompting you to do the assessment quiz again. The support section has nothing but a bunch of frequently asked questions, but no actual phone number to call. I e-mailed them, and got an e-mail back saying "This e-mail address is no longer in use. Please contact Support through the Instacart Shopper app using the link below. We're here for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week." SMH.

Have you tried Shipt?
I got hired but never tried it..

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 12:58 PM
Have you tried Shipt?
I got hired but never tried it..


No, because I don't think they have an option where you can JUST be an in store shopper (The person who does the shopping, but doesn't have to drive to deliver). I don't drive.

moneybags
10-20-2021, 02:05 PM
So I went to get my car from the repair shop and took a Lyft. I wore my mask, but he offered me a water. So I took my mask off for a second to get a bottle of water. He reported me when I lifted my mask to get a sip of water and put my mask promptly back on. I’ve worn masks throughout the pandemic and am fully vaccinated. I’m respectful of people’s request. But maybe don’t offer people water in your ride if you are so anal about masking. Like I said I wear masks in public places out of respect for others not because I’m personally afraid. I just feel like people need to take a chill pill. People are so hysterical about the pandemic.

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 02:19 PM
So I went to get my car from the repair shop and took a Lyft. I wore my mask, but he offered me a water. So I took my mask off for a second to get a drink of water. He reported me! I’ve worn masks and am fully vaccinated. I’m respectful of people’s request. But maybe don’t offer people water in your ride if you are so anal about masking.


WTF! What a jerk! I've taken mine off in the Lyft after the driver told me to help myself to one of the little snacks in the pouch in the back, and there was no problem. I was under the impression that meant for you to enjoy the snack during your ride to make it a more comfortable experience. Plus there's that plexiglass separating the driver from the passenger, for crying out loud!

Marina Starr
10-20-2021, 02:25 PM
People shouldn't lose decency and humanity regardless of what pandemic.

I would also report his ass. I don't let shit like that go without retaliation.


So I went to get my car from the repair shop and took a Lyft. I wore my mask, but he offered me a water. So I took my mask off for a second to get a bottle of water. He reported me when I lifted my mask to get a sip of water and put my mask promptly back on. I’ve worn masks throughout the pandemic and am fully vaccinated. I’m respectful of people’s request. But maybe don’t offer people water in your ride if you are so anal about masking. Like I said I wear masks in public places out of respect for others not because I’m personally afraid. I just feel like people need to take a chill pill. People are so hysterical about the pandemic.

moneybags
10-20-2021, 02:54 PM
People shouldn't lose decency and humanity regardless of what pandemic.

I would also report his ass. I don't let shit like that go without retaliation.

There’s no way to report him. I feel like they should have a customer service number to call, but I couldn’t find anything.

Thanks babe. I agree. Covid isn’t a reason to be a shitty person. Im so over covid.

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 02:55 PM
thanks girl. I can deal with 2-3 days a week any more than that is overkill. 2 days a week sounds perfect to me hopefully L can set some boundaries with his ex wife n they won’t be over here all the time. .


Omg. The lost time v.s. what he could make will out weigh it .....
I really wish you well. Sending vibes they only show up 2 days a week max. :)
Vibes vibes vibes .....

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 02:56 PM
So I went to get my car from the repair shop and took a Lyft. I wore my mask, but he offered me a water. So I took my mask off for a second to get a bottle of water. He reported me when I lifted my mask to get a sip of water and put my mask promptly back on. I’ve worn masks throughout the pandemic and am fully vaccinated. I’m respectful of people’s request. But maybe don’t offer people water in your ride if you are so anal about masking. Like I said I wear masks in public places out of respect for others not because I’m personally afraid. I just feel like people need to take a chill pill. People are so hysterical about the pandemic.

I’ve done the same

I wear mask in my clients home but they sometimes will offer water so I pull my mask to the side take a sip then put it back on. How the heck else can you hydrate?

LoveyD
10-20-2021, 03:09 PM
I didn't apply for Instacart though that would be cool to be an in store shopper. Less wear n tear on your car.

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 06:45 PM
L’s son text him today asking if he can live with us.

Um no!!!!

I do not want that kid here all the time.

Not my fault your mom has a piss poor attitude n you can’t stand her. Unfortunately it’s not your fault either kid but you know what. She birthed you and you’ve been fine up until now so……….stay with ya mom!

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 07:04 PM
Are any of you Instacart shoppers (I was trying to apply as the In Store Shopper...not the Full Service Shopper)? I have applied for this damn position like two or three times on the shoppers app, and when I do that first assessment (One of those questions is tricky, imo), it gets to the "Your responses have been recorded page," and then I never get any kind of e-mail or anything after that. Is this just their really annoying way of NOT telling me that I didn't get the job? Why not just send me an e-mail saying that I got an answer wrong or something? And then when I go back to the shopper app, it goes back to that screen where it's prompting you to do the assessment quiz again. The support section has nothing but a bunch of frequently asked questions, but no actual phone number to call. I e-mailed them, and got an e-mail back saying "This e-mail address is no longer in use. Please contact Support through the Instacart Shopper app using the link below. We're here for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week." SMH.

Probably they’re over saturated for your area.

You could always try to apply directly to the grocery store if you prefer in-store shopping. Many of the larger grocery stores have instore shoppers specifically for their pickup customers

miss.a.p1600
10-20-2021, 07:07 PM
The Bertha bitch is moving back this weekend with her messy, loud, annoying kids.

Joy!

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 07:12 PM
There’s no way to report him. I feel like they should have a customer service number to call, but I couldn’t find anything.

Thanks babe. I agree. Covid isn’t a reason to be a shitty person. Im so over covid.


I had gone onto the Lyft app to report a driver I had once who'd been driving like a maniac. I'm not sure if it's something they only give you a specified time window to do shortly after your ride ends? Or if you can do it any time. But it was somewhere within the app. Maybe go to your ride history or a help section. I'd definitely report your driver though, because that sounds like some real petty ass shit...to offer you a water, and then report you for actually taking a drink from it. Come on, man. I've said it before and I've said it again...some of these people freakin' out about the pandemic are doing entirely too much, and they should just stay their ass home if they're gonna be overreacting, and acting paranoid in ways like this.

whirlerz
10-20-2021, 07:32 PM
I didn't apply for Instacart though that would be cool to be an in store shopper. Less wear n tear on your car.

I hate to sound dumb, what's an in-store shopper?

So I've been watching comedies a lot cause I'm so upset..
The one roomie been a nightmare, having the cops & fire dept here on & off since Saturday, due to his paranoia/crazy drug using behavior.. Landlord wants him out, good luck w/that..

I was considering moving in w/a lady as a caregiver in exchange for rent, had decided against it anyway, but then she insult me because I couldn't make it to our meeting Sat. (when I had cops, fire dept, cray roomie, & landlord here? & texted her to explain? ) So she didn't respond, but the person listing the ad, ripped me a new one cause I texted her? Sorry, couldn't make it due to above emergency & wanted to let you know right away ?
Blocked her & the jerk's number..

I've been looking for work, this lady called me yesterday, (I told her I called her today cause I had a tooth extraction w/stitches).

Called her back today, (shouldn't have) She was an utter, nasty BITCH to me, saying I haven't worked In X amount of time, cause I was a caregiver (but also did ebay, etc).
She actually screamed at me?
FOH

whirlerz
10-20-2021, 07:37 PM
I had gone onto the Lyft app to report a driver I had once who'd been driving like a maniac. I'm not sure if it's something they only give you a specified time window to do shortly after your ride ends? Or if you can do it any time. But it was somewhere within the app. Maybe go to your ride history or a help section. I'd definitely report your driver though, because that sounds like some real petty ass shit...to offer you a water, and then report you for actually taking a drink from it. Come on, man. I've said it before and I've said it again...some of these people freakin' out about the pandemic are doing entirely too much, and they should just stay their ass home if they're gonna be overreacting, and acting paranoid in ways like this.

SO TRUE! ^
There's gotta be some kind of way to report it, maybe just not easy to find?
What about better business bureau?

LoveyD
10-20-2021, 08:53 PM
In-store shopper is someone who packs/prepares the orders but doesn't deliver them.

@Money that sucks he was being so anal. If he is that strict I agree, he shouldn't offer water.

My rant: can't stand it when people insert themselves in my business especially when it has nothing to do with them . Hate busybodies.

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 11:02 PM
Probably they’re over saturated for your area.

You could always try to apply directly to the grocery store if you prefer in-store shopping. Many of the larger grocery stores have instore shoppers specifically for their pickup customers


Thanks. I might just do that, since the Shoppers app is just wasting my time, and it keeps allowing me to take the assessment over (Then saying "Your responses have been recorded") and over without ever telling me my results. Smh. And I'm still curious what the correct answer ended up being for one of those questions. LOL!

I could've sworn I'd seen Lovey D or someone else here in Ladies Only post about doing some Instacart shopping jobs. I see that my favorite grocery store is having a virtual hiring event next week, and they listed "E-Commerce Store Shopper" as one of the positions.

TheBrownFox
10-20-2021, 11:24 PM
There’s no way to report him. I feel like they should have a customer service number to call, but I couldn’t find anything.

Thanks babe. I agree. Covid isn’t a reason to be a shitty person. Im so over covid.


Okay, so I went into my Lyft app to look it up.

*On the Lyft app, tap the white button (on the top left hand corner) with the three lines.
*Tap 'Ride history'.
*Select the date of that transaction when you had that issue.
*Scroll down to 'Get help'.
*Under Common issues, select 'Submit feedback on driver'.
*It gives you the option of either 'Unpleasant experience...poor customer service...unsafe driving...unsafe behavior...or report a health safety issue'.
*Select 'Unpleasant experience' INSTEAD OF 'Poor customer service'. Because if you choose 'Poor customer service', the only choices under that are 'Driver had someone in the car...driver different than photo in app...or asked for cash'. You don't want any of those, so choose 'Unpleasant experience'.
*Under 'Unpleasant experience' it lets you check off as many boxes as you want for the following...'poor or slow navigation...late pickup...unfriendly behavior...or dirty or smelly vehicle'. Then after you make your selection, you'll click the purple 'Send to Lyft' button.


AND I see there's a way to send them a personalized message via a purple 'Contact us' button, and you've gotta jump through a bunch of hoops to find it on the app. Smh. Here's one way to find it...

*Go to Help
*Go to All help
*Go to 'Getting started and FAQs'
*Go to 'Accessibility features' (Doesn't have to be this category...just pick one)
*Scroll to the bottom to where it says "Give us feedback," and there's a purple 'Contact us' button. Tap that to compose a message to submit to them.

Marina Starr
10-21-2021, 06:00 AM
That's so odd. You shouldn't have to work so hard to report. They all should have an ID number so you can report that to customer service.

I feel some of it is covid but a lot of it is people just being shitty.


There’s no way to report him. I feel like they should have a customer service number to call, but I couldn’t find anything.

Thanks babe. I agree. Covid isn’t a reason to be a shitty person. Im so over covid.

miss.a.p1600
10-21-2021, 06:10 AM
L got pissy because he had the audacity to ask me how much money I have right now.

Um unless you depositing into my bank accounts, that information is private. I refuse to answer. No man (who does not work for IRS) needs to know how much money I have.

whirlerz
10-21-2021, 06:30 AM
Thanks. I might just do that, since the Shoppers app is just wasting my time, and it keeps allowing me to take the assessment over (Then saying "Your responses have been recorded") and over without ever telling me my results. Smh. And I'm still curious what the correct answer ended up being for one of those questions. LOL!

I could've sworn I'd seen Lovey D or someone else here in Ladies Only post about doing some Instacart shopping jobs. I see that my favorite grocery store is having a virtual hiring event next week, and they listed "E-Commerce Store Shopper" as one of the positions.

Look on Craigslist, also Idk if you looked into Doordash, they said you can do w/o car

JGB2009
10-21-2021, 07:06 AM
L got pissy because he had the audacity to ask me how much money I have right now.

Um unless you depositing into my bank accounts, that information is private. I refuse to answer. No man (who does not work for IRS) needs to know how much money I have.

I wouldn't have told him either. Its none of his business.

miss.a.p1600
10-21-2021, 07:29 AM
^I guess he was trying to figure out if I could pay household bills, in case he couldn't

Well if he can't/won't I will simply leave n find someone who will n be with a man who does not need my money to survive. I believe in hypergamy and I won't stay with a man (especially a divorced man with multiple young kids) if he won't pay household bills because I refuse to be *that* self-sacrificing.

Mf you paid them bills with your allegedly disgruntled frigid Bertha so you will pay them with me!

Plus if they think you have no money/rely on them financially they will try to control you or if they think you have more money then them, they try to become lazy pillow princess fairy queen male sugar babies.

It's a lose/lose if they know your income/net worth and don't have the right mindset around finances

TheBrownFox
10-21-2021, 08:28 AM
Look on Craigslist, also Idk if you looked into Doordash, they said you can do w/o car


Thanks. The DoorDash help section does say "Depending on your local market, you may be able to use motorcycles, scooters, bikes, or even walk in some markets." That sounds good for people who are actually comfortable with riding those vehicles out along busy streets (Not me...lol), and feel they can handle carrying people's hot foods and drinks while on a bike. That isn't suitable for me, but I had mentioned in my other post that there's a virtual hiring event where I can see about the in store shopper job.

LoveyD
10-21-2021, 08:32 AM
Thanks. I might just do that, since the Shoppers app is just wasting my time, and it keeps allowing me to take the assessment over (Then saying "Your responses have been recorded") and over without ever telling me my results. Smh. And I'm still curious what the correct answer ended up being for one of those questions. LOL!

I could've sworn I'd seen Lovey D or someone else here in Ladies Only post about doing some Instacart shopping jobs. I see that my favorite grocery store is having a virtual hiring event next week, and they listed "E-Commerce Store Shopper" as one of the positions.

It was probably me because I work for Shipt. That virtual hiring event sounds good to check out. I'd rather sometimes just pack the orders as opposed to drive around because it's a lot less wear and tear on your car.

GlamLifter
10-21-2021, 08:45 AM
L got pissy because he had the audacity to ask me how much money I have right now.

Um unless you depositing into my bank accounts, that information is private. I refuse to answer. No man (who does not work for IRS) needs to know how much money I have.


I wouldn't have told him either. Its none of his business.

Neither would I!

chanzep
10-21-2021, 09:22 AM
Yes Miss P that's a joke your money is not his business. Imagine that when you were worried about his birthday smh.
He should definitely or paying the bills.

carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:44 AM
Gratitude for the massage I got at the school.
Good massage ! I need to run a tip back over . I forgot they couldn't put it on a card.
What was I thinking trying to space massages to only 1 per month ( budget reasons ).

I DON'T CARE. I need this every 2-3 weeks. :)

Oh wrong thread lol.
I'm leaving it. Fuck it.

carmen_b
10-21-2021, 09:53 AM
Miss P :

Just tell him you are short and can he give you $200-$300 ? Lol

WendiStarr
10-21-2021, 10:51 AM
I'm getting tired of my mom harassing me about my size. I'm pregnant. No, it's not twins, triplets, or quads. I'm no longer a size 2 but I don't think that I'm that huge. She only seen me in person once a few weeks ago and was calling me fatty, saying I must be overeating, and that I must be having twins or must be lying about how far along I am and be about to give birth very soon. It's aggravating. You're not small yourself, Ms size 2x! I ignored her rude texts so she called me which I also ignored. I swear I'll never treat my daughters as shitty as she treats me. I've cut her off before and I can do so again if I have to.

carmen_b
10-21-2021, 10:53 AM
^ Tell her not to be abusive.
If she can't follow that simple request cut her off .

So damn mean and hurtful ugh.

LoveyD
10-21-2021, 11:11 AM
I've never told a guy how much money I have. No.

JGB2009
10-21-2021, 05:32 PM
I 'm at it again. I shut off my phone and I will not be turning it on till its time to take my kids to school in the morning. If necessary I will shut it off for the whole weekend as well. I am just so tired people. I understand no one.

miss.a.p1600
10-21-2021, 05:36 PM
Bertha is allegedly homeless and because of that she might try to drop her kids kids off here full-time

I refuse to accept that.

If that broad doesn’t pay child support money she will not drop her kids off her full time. I’m not going to be inconvenienced for her fuckups. No one told her to quit her job, move somewhere she couldn’t afford, uproot her kids during the school year, then come back into town in a worse position than she left off.

chanzep
10-21-2021, 11:15 PM
That situation is starting to look crazy, she moved away with no job?!, Who does that, she has kids she can't get some type of welfare and housing help?. She probably will say she can't afford to pay anything. Is this all on purpose because it's weird.

miss.a.p1600
10-22-2021, 04:15 AM
^it is crazy af and weird.

When he said she moved out of town to some luxury apartments my first thought was she probably got some sort of government subsidy to afford it. L said she was paying it all herself but supposedly her entire check was funding part of the rent and she was probably living off the $600 in child support he gave her. Once she realized she couldn’t live like that (one month later) she abruptly takes her kids out of school there, most likely broke her lease (I can’t see her paying early lease termination fees so she probably got evicted), n moves back with even less of a plan than before (fucked up credit/homeless/kids not in school).

The sad part is her kids know the fucked up situation she caused and don’t want to live with her. L said he usually would just take his kids whenever but now that we are together he won’t let her just dump them off on him.

Good. I know the kids shouldn’t be punished but their parents are not showing maturity rn. If L really cared about his kids he would have never let Bertha leave town with them knowing she couldn’t afford to provide stability for them. I think he secretly wanted a break from the day-to-day childcare.

I also think part of her irrational decision making is to disrupt L from moving on from her n hoping he’ll bail her out. The other part is I think she probably has a touch of mental illness or low IQ (probably both).

L was pressing me to marry him within 6 months or sooner.

Um not with this unstable broad n her obnoxious kids around all the time.

No ma’am.

miss.a.p1600
10-22-2021, 05:52 AM
I’m going to do my best to minimize my complaints.

They’re valid but I don’t want them to consume my thoughts.

I myself have to make better decisions so my complaints will be fewer.

carmen_b
10-22-2021, 07:38 AM
Point them to motel 6 3-4 days a week !
I guess she can be cheap and couch surf the other half of the week .
Omg.

Jokes aside I kind of feel for them right now ( the kids ) because they really NEED stability even it's just a schedule in place in advance. They really do need to know where they are staying / sleeping 7 days out in advance at least. Any therapist worth their salt will say to get a schedule arranged ASAP and don't make short notice changes. You can use that to your advantage so that L and Bertha don't pull this last minute nonsense anymore.

I suspect she probably really did want to try this new city and just ran into having less $ than she thought she would ( such as a 2nd job not working out or something). I think it just may not have been realistic because I think you mentioned one isn't in school yet ( so the parent that has them doesn't even have that 8-3p.m. range to fully focus each day without paying out for child care ).

Maybe it will settle. I mean this is her home area so maybe she has family or friends who will help out and give them a room or something. L has to put his foot down and not do the last minute stuff anymore.


Bertha is allegedly homeless and because of that she might try to drop her kids kids off here full-time

I refuse to accept that.

If that broad doesn’t pay child support money she will not drop her kids off her full time. I’m not going to be inconvenienced for her fuckups. No one told her to quit her job, move somewhere she couldn’t afford, uproot her kids during the school year, then come back into town in a worse position than she left off.