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chanzep
10-22-2021, 10:25 AM
Miss P not to be horrible but I wouldn't marry at all unless the situation gets sorted. They also need to have a proper child support agreement. If you marry him you will be responsible for the child support too. A co worker of mine had her husband's back payments taken out of her tax refund.
I feel sorry for the kids. The mom is a mess. Please put yourself 1st.

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-22-2021, 10:29 AM
Miss P not to be horrible but I wouldn't marry at all unless the situation gets sorted. They also need to have a proper child support agreement. If you marry him you will be responsible for the child support too. A co worker of mine had her husband's back payments taken out of her tax refund.
I feel sorry for the kids. The mom is a mess. Please put yourself 1st.

Oh you reminded me that your spouse's other gov.-backed debt can be taken out of your tax refunds as well, should you marry someone who is not forthcoming about their levels/kinds of debt.

Marriage is a business contract.

miss.a.p1600
10-22-2021, 10:42 AM
Miss P not to be horrible but I wouldn't marry at all unless the situation gets sorted. They also need to have a proper child support agreement. If you marry him you will be responsible for the child support too. A co worker of mine had her husband's back payments taken out of her tax refund.
I feel sorry for the kids. The mom is a mess. Please put yourself 1st.

Agreed.

whirlerz
10-23-2021, 08:55 AM
Miss P not to be horrible but I wouldn't marry at all unless the situation gets sorted. They also need to have a proper child support agreement. If you marry him you will be responsible for the child support too. A co worker of mine had her husband's back payments taken out of her tax refund.
I feel sorry for the kids. The mom is a mess. Please put yourself 1st.

Yes!
OMG, w/child support.. I remember a former coworker, he paid CS, even tho he had the kid living w/him the whole time !!

That's just what the judge ruled..

whirlerz
10-23-2021, 09:02 AM
So, Mr psycho PIG (whose filthy greasy dishes have sat inside sink for several days) has run out, to avoid landlord, I told LL I was taking that shit out & it's in a box just outside front door.}:D

LL's fine w/it, he wants him TF Out, he hasn't paid, despite he won 5k on a scratch off lottery, + disability payments. He also left a filthy box fan right in the front hall

ravenskyy
10-23-2021, 07:29 PM
I have a stupid amount of anxiety and it's keeping me from camming and making money. I've tried Zoloft and I'm now back on Lexapro and neither one are working. I literally have the ability to make the money that I need and not be so financially fucked and I can't because every time I think about camming, I start having panic attacks. I hate this and I don't know what to do about it. I want to speak with someone but I can't find someone to accept my insurance. I'm looking into a second vanilla job but I don't want work to interfere with my family life. I'm spending a lot of time with my boys on the weekends, I take my 3 year old to the store now and I'm loving the mommy and me time. I don't want work to get in the way of that. Plus I can't find anything that's 3rd shift, that isn't a 40 minute drive from my house. There's warehouse work available, and I could use the exercise, but it's all 40-60 minutes away. :weeping:

TheBrownFox
10-23-2021, 09:13 PM
Lol. That damn Dove commercial where they have the Black woman be all "Gurl, you betta get you some Dove!" *Eye roll* LOL. No comment.....

Marina Starr
10-24-2021, 04:09 AM
Does anyone know the purpose and intentions of people that drive really slow when you're behind them but immediately speed up when you try to pass?

Or what about people that deliberately drive the same speed next to you whether they're on your left or right? Doesn't matter if you drive 30, 50, or 60mph, they will do the same.

miss.a.p1600
10-24-2021, 06:38 AM
I’m going to do my best to minimize my complaints.

They’re valid but I don’t want them to consume my thoughts.

I myself have to make better decisions so my complaints will be fewer.

Geez can people really give me just ONE fucking day where I can be complaint free.

FFS

L calls me last night at 7pm saying “oh the kids are coming over”

I said “tell the broad NO. Your day off is Sunday so you said you’d get them on your day off. Not the day before”

Then he’s like “well if I get them tonight n take them back tomorrow afternoon, she will have them all week” “I have a hard time telling my children no especially since Intold them no last week” “and my ex wife is guilt tripping me”

Fuck all of them collectively!!!

Keep springing these needy loud messy kids on me……this how yo ass get cheated on n left.

If I don’t get at least 24hr notice IM going to stay somewhere else. Probably hit up my ex sugar daddy.

miss.a.p1600
10-24-2021, 06:42 AM
The more I think about Bertha most likely burning through that 6-700 he gave her paying her overpriced rent she had no business living, yet her kids show up looking busted in tattered clothes the less I want to be with him.

She, her kids, etc is a reflection of HIM.

This hoe can screw you over by taking your kids out if town illegally, use your child support money on wasteful shit yet you jump over backwards to help her every chance you get.

I woke up at 2 am googling how to end an engagement.

I highly doubt I will be able to marry him with this unstable ex wife and kids who just pop up. And knowing that he’s doling out money to this bitch and it’s not benefiting her kids.

Anyhow, Berthas kids are here and I have to go enjoy my morning before they wake up being loud, needing resources, and intruding on my space. Can’t wait till they are gone.

kimbe
10-24-2021, 08:13 AM
Does anyone know the purpose and intentions of people that drive really slow when you're behind them but immediately speed up when you try to pass?


I think many are just on the road without having decided on a specific speed, they go as fast as they feel like. When overtaken, they get someone that sets a pace and they automatically follow. They simply need someone to set the pace! And there always some assholes that don't like being overtaken!

TheBrownFox
10-24-2021, 11:01 AM
I'm bummed that our 20-year class reunion (which was supposed to be in November 2020) has been postponed for the SECOND time. It was postponed to this year, and now I've just been told that we're not having it this year either...because they're still nervous about people gathering. *Sigh* Now they wanna postpone it to Easter 2022. Just cancel the damn thing at this point, instead of looking for new reasons to postpone it.

lurkingtitties
10-24-2021, 11:34 AM
Does anyone know the purpose and intentions of people that drive really slow when you're behind them but immediately speed up when you try to pass?

Sometimes I'm lost in my thoughts and don't notice I've slowed down until someone tries to pass me! Then I automatically start speeding up, but I try to break myself of that habit because I know how annoying it is for the other driver.

Some people def are dickheads though and don't want to let you pass on principle...

charlie61
10-24-2021, 11:48 AM
Sometimes I'm lost in my thoughts and don't notice I've slowed down until someone tries to pass me! Then I automatically start speeding up, but I try to break myself of that habit because I know how annoying it is for the other driver.

Some people def are dickheads though and don't want to let you pass on principle...

Yeah, this definitely happens to me. I'm rarely in a hurry, and i already drive on the slower side, so I'm often going 5 below or so, just enjoying the sights, and when someone comes up behind me, i realize I'm being a pain in the ass, so i speed up. I don't speed up when they're able to pass though.

miss.a.p1600
10-24-2021, 02:42 PM
Berthas kids are gone. Hallelujah!!!!!

Kinda pissed he said he was taking them back two hours ago n they’re just now leaving.


They got into an argument a moment ago.

They can take that noise to Berthas house.

I am thankful they were only here less than 24 hours.

lilylilylily
10-24-2021, 03:08 PM
Pissed I wasted four dates on a dude just to realize his sex game is crap. I slept with him on the 3rd date, his tongue game was good and all but I wanted to get pounded, he came pretty fast and fell asleep. I didn't want to sleep over. 4th date, was the same but worse. I asked him to go harder and he pretty much went soft.. I was so disappointed because I needed that pounding lol. I told him I'm done lol I think my gut told me he was no good because even though he was nice and treated me well with nice dates, just couldn't get excited about him. So it's for the best

carmen_b
10-24-2021, 04:15 PM
^ Aw , at least he treated you well . The dates and effort planning them sound really nice.
Bummer but you sometimes don't know until you try . :)

lilylilylily
10-24-2021, 05:53 PM
Thanks, yeah, I was thinking maybe it's just first few date nerves, that's why he might have sucked and I was too hasty to let him go but yeah I just have no more patience for bad sex lol

miss.a.p1600
10-25-2021, 05:07 AM
^Part of the reason I slept with “bad boy” type dudes is they often times are more promiscuous n have more experience

If an inexperienced dude can actually LISTEN to you and what you need n like (then actually DO what you requested) then there is hope.

It’s the mfs that are so fucking bonehead stonewalls (the ones that try to please you how they think you want cause they saw a adult films or how their exes liked to be pleased) n just flat out piss poor students (you tell them and they Still don't do what you like) are the ones to get rid of.

If a dude is a mediocre lover (not willing to improve/take direction), he risks getting cheated on.

miss.a.p1600
10-25-2021, 06:53 AM
L is going to have to train his kids to do some chores.

His ass told them they'd have to clean and do you think he enforced it?

I refuse to do extra work by cleaning up after his lazy kids.

Granted the youngest one did ask to help out but still she see how lazy her brother is and she tries to copy him.

WendiStarr
10-25-2021, 10:04 AM
I had a remote interview via Zoom and I'm pretty sure I'm not getting the job. I thought baby was napping until she walked out into the living room during the interview, wearing a pair of my panties on her head like a hat(I had clean laundry folded up on the bed but didn't want to risk waking her up by making noise putting it away) . The interviewer was all,"Oh. Is that a baby?" I hurried up and moved the cam up but the baby climbed up my lap and when I put her down on the floor she started messing with my feet. No, it's a cat trapped in a human's body.

TheBrownFox
10-25-2021, 12:43 PM
I had a remote interview via Zoom and I'm pretty sure I'm not getting the job. I thought baby was napping until she walked out into the living room during the interview, wearing a pair of my panties on her head like a hat(I had clean laundry folded up on the bed but didn't want to risk waking her up by making noise putting it away) . The interviewer was all,"Oh. Is that a baby?" I hurried up and moved the cam up but the baby climbed up my lap and when I put her down on the floor she started messing with my feet. No, it's a cat trapped in a human's body.


Awww...that is adorable! Lol. And smh at the interviewer asking "Is that a baby?" *Facepalm* No, it's Chucky the doll! Wtf. I'm sorry if they end up not considering you for the position. But maybe that won't be the case, and you may be pleasantly surprised and still get a "Congratulations!" e-mail from them.

If it had been an interview for a job involving working with children, the interviewer probably would've giggled about your baby walking out with panties on her head...and would've appreciated the fact that you have experience with children (Being a mother).

I hope they offer you the position. :) I went on Indeed to apply for some positions today too.

JGB2009
10-25-2021, 03:56 PM
Not my day at all. Hopefully I can be less moody tonight.

moneybags
10-25-2021, 05:10 PM
I set an intention to speak my truth, and I’ve been having blow ups left and right with almost everyone. I’m a non confrontation person, but sometimes people give you no choice but to confront them. Is it Mercury retrograde??? I’m tired of this.

whirlerz
10-25-2021, 05:53 PM
I set an intention to speak my truth, and I’ve been having blow ups left and right with almost everyone. I’m a non confrontation person, but sometimes people give you no choice but to confront them. Is it Mercury retrograde??? I’m tired of this.

IDK.
I made up my mind to stay away from all that, I'm better w/not knowing..

That said, I literally wanted to slap nearly every one today..our property manager is ok, but the landlord is bona fide PIA, really, like how many freaking account over due notices ya gonna send me pal?::)

A heads up w/have done nicely, ty.::)

You know what else?
Tired of being nice, all the time. Going to be Bitch, from now on.
Thank you.

moneybags
10-25-2021, 07:24 PM
56107
IDK.
I made up my mind to stay away from all that, I'm better w/not knowing..

That said, I literally wanted to slap nearly every one today..our property manager is ok, but the landlord is bona fide PIA, really, like how many freaking account over due notices ya gonna send me pal?::)

A heads up w/have done nicely, ty.::)

You know what else?
Tired of being nice, all the time. Going to be Bitch, from now on.
Thank you.

That’s what I was saying. I’ve stopped being nice, and now I’m having blow ups. I’m proud of myself for sticking up for myself. I’m just pissy about it.

whirlerz
10-25-2021, 08:41 PM
56107

That’s what I was saying. I’ve stopped being nice, and now I’m having blow ups. I’m proud of myself for sticking up for myself. I’m just pissy about it.

I like the yin/yang symbol.
Time to release the B!

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 06:04 AM
I set an intention to speak my truth, and I’ve been having blow ups left and right with almost everyone. I’m a non confrontation person, but sometimes people give you no choice but to confront them. Is it Mercury retrograde??? I’m tired of this.

I noticed this happened to me when I
1)gained more confidence
2) told people what I thought …. With no filter

People who aren’t used to you standing up for yourself, saying what’s on your mind, etc are going to give push back designed to put you right back into your place.

I do my best to avoid people that are so controlling that they can’t handle my assertiveness without trying to start an argument

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 06:06 AM
I thought about taking a T break so I wouldn’t build a tolerance to the edibles.

Well idk if I can given how I’m a bit stressed by the fact that I want some (well a lot) of alone time but I can only get it when L is at work. I want an entire weekend if not a week …….. to myself!

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 06:10 AM
Douchbag OG troll is back to the forums

Bright n early at 7am his time zone.

Who tf wakes up early in the morning to run to stripperweb for some online trolling

What an idiot!

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 06:13 AM
I told L I was going to meet my mom for lunch

Then he was like “did she ask you out or did you ask her out?”

I guess he was trying to figure out who was going to pay.

Um unless you are handing me some cash for the meal then that’s none of your business……….

Marina Starr
10-26-2021, 07:32 AM
I feel when we reach a certain age, we realize are we being nice because we genuinely want to or is it to please other people?
I think nice is so overrated it. Nice becomes a problem when we're nice to please others when we have no interest or reason to.
I prioritize feeling safe and respected over nice.

I used to be a doormat and let people walk over. It's because I didn't feel good about myself so people know I'll accept however they treat me.

When I'm a total cunt then I get treated like a princess. I'm still nice when it's called for but I'm not afraid to be a bitch whenever, wherever.

carmen_b
10-26-2021, 08:20 AM
You are not obligated to entertain your dude 24/7 !
Tell him in advance you have some things planned ( yoga outing , spa day , whatever ) in certain hours.
Cheat if you have to ( tell him it's a womans only yoga adventure and just take yourself to a movie in your yoga gear ha ).
It's obviously nicer if HE would also get out of the house at least weekly for an evening to yourself but creating your own solo plan is often easier to get a breather.


I thought about taking a T break so I wouldn’t build a tolerance to the edibles.

Well idk if I can given how I’m a bit stressed by the fact that I want some (well a lot) of alone time but I can only get it when L is at work. I want an entire weekend if not a week …….. to myself!

carmen_b
10-26-2021, 08:24 AM
Marina : I think this is interesting . ^
I have never been " too nice " ha ! At least not getting into college age and above.

I would see articles in womens magazines like " how to regain your time " OR " it's ok to say no " and I'm just looking at it like " Yeah, no shit " .

One time I told my dude these articles are definitely not for me and I need one called " How to say no in the most elaborate of ways ". There is SO MUCH print material out circulating on the subject! It goes to show how deeply ingrained this is into social conditioning.

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 09:38 AM
You are not obligated to entertain your dude 24/7 !
Tell him in advance you have some things planned ( yoga outing , spa day , whatever ) in certain hours.
Cheat if you have to ( tell him it's a womans only yoga adventure and just take yourself to a movie in your yoga gear ha ).
It's obviously nicer if HE would also get out of the house at least weekly for an evening to yourself but creating your own solo plan is often easier to get a breather.

Thanks Carmen.

It might not have been about the money. Though a part of his inquiry might have been to see how much I’d spend with her vs how much I just spent on his birthday meal. Or to see n calculate if meals with my family are “free” for me.

I did think a part of it was him wanting to be included. Like damn! They include him ALL the time even when I don’t want them to. So having moments where I go out …… alone without him shouldn’t be an issue.

Times where I get out the house without him he sulks around doing nothing. Then he’s like “I’m heading out”

im thinking “GOOD!” Get out and do something productive, workout, fucking blow leaves out of the garage, some manly task for crying out loud.

moneybags
10-26-2021, 09:51 AM
Douchbag OG troll is back to the forums

Bright n early at 7am his time zone.

Who tf wakes up early in the morning to run to stripperweb for some online trolling

What an idiot!

Gotta get his trolling fix. Again, this forums intentions are to be a positive space for dancers and he’s the antithesis. I think anyone who is constantly bringing bad energy to the forum should be banned or ignored (I think we should all ignore the trolls) In my personal life, if someone gives me bad vibes I just walk the other way. I don’t try to defend, argue, or explain myself to these types because all they want is to spread their negativity. #dontfeedthetrolls

See that to toxic person…we’re walking the other way.


https://youtube.com/shorts/-rIH2KLnG-c?feature=share

miss.a.p1600
10-26-2021, 12:01 PM
I think L might have his own secret edible stash.

He was acting kind of odd last night and his eyes were glazed n kind of red.

I had trouble calling him out on it considering all the times *I* got secretly high on my own

indiegirl
10-26-2021, 08:52 PM
Literally in a state of rage. This driver was spewing all his "woke" facts about covid halfway through the 35 minute drive. Then I look over and see that is not a mask he is wearing, it's his fucking beard without a mask in place. The worst part was him saying that last WEEK he was super sick, never got tested for covid, etc. I wanted to roll my body out of the car at that point. How could you seriously be driving people like that!!!!!??!!! I don't want to be sick with covid or whatever you had. He even coughed twice during the ride. I quickly changed my happy demeanor to being very quiet.

UNBELIEVABLE.

I'm not paying for someone to potentially get me sick. I completely wish I could go back in time and cancel the ride.

moneybags
10-26-2021, 11:39 PM
Literally in a state of rage. This driver was spewing all his "woke" facts about covid halfway through the 35 minute drive. Then I look over and see that is not a mask he is wearing, it's his fucking beard without a mask in place. The worst part was him saying that last WEEK he was super sick, never got tested for covid, etc. I wanted to roll my body out of the car at that point. How could you seriously be driving people like that!!!!!??!!! I don't want to be sick with covid or whatever you had. He even coughed twice during the ride. I quickly changed my happy demeanor to being very quiet.

UNBELIEVABLE.

I'm not paying for someone to potentially get me sick. I completely wish I could go back in time and cancel the ride.

Did you report him? You should be able to get your money back.

indiegirl
10-27-2021, 12:36 AM
Did you report him? You should be able to get your money back.

I've been waiting so he doesn't know it's me and negative reviews me in retaliation.

miss.a.p1600
10-27-2021, 04:44 AM
I thought about taking a T break so I wouldn’t build a tolerance to the edibles.

Well idk if I can given how I’m a bit stressed by the fact that I want some (well a lot) of alone time but I can only get it when L is at work. I want an entire weekend if not a week …….. to myself!

Ended up getting a much needed refill.

The day went by much smoother.

miss.a.p1600
10-27-2021, 01:30 PM
L calls regarding…..who else….Bertha

Talking all this ying yang about how he’s not paying her child support anymore and will have his children over more often as a way to get around paying her.

So dumb. Just pay the bitch a couple hundred and let her deal with them.

I am less than thrilled about them being over here any more than 2 days a week. 3 days max. How tf do I make this clear without coming off like a cunt? Or do I have to accept his arrangement with his ex wife? This was not the arrangement I agreed to (I agreed to live with L because he told me his ex wife was taking her kids out of town if we loved together n in my mind I’m like “ok cool”

I guess I have to be honest with him that there needs to be some boundaries I’m going to have to set now that the terms are changing.

whirlerz
10-27-2021, 05:54 PM
I know, I bitch about this all.the.time., but

Fuckin garbage (kitchen) weighs a ton..
So far, no one's taken it out, I put a note on it, AND put it in the middle of the floor, I just heard the guy in the kitchen, he left it there. Him & his girlfriend do all the cooking, & of course the psycho useless meth head. He won't either.

Btw, thanks to Lovey for the: throw the whole thing out idea!
Nice.::)

I'm going to throw the whole fuckin thing out (container too) tomorrow, & spray the fuck out of the kitchen w/roach spray.

Sorry not sorry.

chanzep
10-27-2021, 05:59 PM
Miss P that's crazy. If she takes him to court he will have to pay whatever the judge decided with possible back payments too without a arrangement in place. They will base it off his income too. My neighbor went through this and wanted to keep working lower pay jobs to pay less.
In general I think it's unfair for a woman to be with a man and tell them to see kids less. I do understand how you feel though regarding your peace and space.
I would move out honestly this situation is not going to change much and you will always need your peace.
I know you wanted to save money but honestly your peace is everything and effects your energy. You shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in your own home. When you do it effects everything.

WendiStarr
10-27-2021, 06:31 PM
It has become clear to me that bumpkin town isn't a good place for a pregnant woman, due to the very poor maternal care out here and the hospital being an hour away. We found a house close to the hospital. The couple living there are supposed to be out of the house by Friday but now they said that they just started packing yesterday and need more time. They've had 30 fucking days to pack! Who waits until the last minute to pack a 3 bedroom house?! Idiots! This screws up everything because I already had my mail set up to be forwarded there and DTE and Consumers Energy to be transferred Friday. I also have packages that are going there. I'm going to have to make a bunch of phone calls tomorrow.

lynn2009
10-27-2021, 06:35 PM
When I'm paying 189/hour for dog training I feel like I do not need to hear things said to my dog like "wow you're making me nervous this is a really long intro."

LoveyD
10-27-2021, 06:42 PM
I know, I bitch about this all.the.time., but

Fuckin garbage (kitchen) weighs a ton..
So far, no one's taken it out, I put a note on it, AND put it in the middle of the floor, I just heard the guy in the kitchen, he left it there. Him & his girlfriend do all the cooking, & of course the psycho useless meth head. He won't either.

Btw, thanks to Lovey for the: throw the whole thing out idea!
Nice.::)

I'm going to throw the whole fuckin thing out (container too) tomorrow, & spray the fuck out of the kitchen w/roach spray.

Sorry not sorry.


Do it!
It's liberating.

miss.a.p1600
10-27-2021, 07:28 PM
Miss P that's crazy. If she takes him to court he will have to pay whatever the judge decided with possible back payments too without a arrangement in place. They will base it off his income too. My neighbor went through this and wanted to keep working lower pay jobs to pay less.
In general I think it's unfair for a woman to be with a man and tell them to see kids less. I do understand how you feel though regarding your peace and space.
I would move out honestly this situation is not going to change much and you will always need your peace.
I know you wanted to save money but honestly your peace is everything and effects your energy. You shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in your own home. When you do it effects everything.

I don’t think she’s that educated or she would have taken him to court by now if she knew she could get more money out of him.

I flat out told him I would have rather HE moved into this house and I could come over/spend the night to get adjusted first. Then after a couple months I’d move in. Be he insisted we both move in same time. So now it’s like a crash course in the nuances of dealing with a dude AND his kids and ex wife.

I know it’s unreasonable to ask a man to see his kids less but I also think it’s unreasonable to ask me to be home or do anything for his kids more than what I can tolerate n more than what I’m being compensated for.

I feel like she is pulling an “all or nothing” tactic.

Bertha be like “let me take my kids away so that will hurt him. Oh wait! That’s hurting *me*. Let me try a new tactic n randomly dump my kids off on him for multiple days during the week (cause I know the bitch will get overwhelmed taking care of my kids) n let me hound him for money”

I plan to just be gone/disappear/be “working” if his invites his kids over with less than 24hr notice and for longer than 2 days

WendiStarr
10-28-2021, 05:51 AM
One of my daughter's teachers tested positive for Covid so now that's 14 day of remote school and quarantine. I'm ready to just have her go virtual until this pandemic is finally over because while my oldest and I are fully vaccinated, I have my youngest here who is too young to be vaccinated and I don't want to have to keep worrying.

indiegirl
10-28-2021, 07:45 AM
When I'm paying 189/hour for dog training I feel like I do not need to hear things said to my dog like "wow you're making me nervous this is a really long intro."

My first woke moment of a dog trainer was Brandon Fouche. It was fucking embarrassing how he could fix my dogs in hours compared to me. He also has video online and phone consultations.


Gahhh....I'm supposed to get my teeth cleaned today. I simply don't want to though but they are getting annoyed with me rescheduling so I'm pulling through to get it over with. I hate the dentist.