View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
chanzep
10-28-2021, 01:45 PM
Miss P I agree with you. If he wants to see his kids a lot done but you shouldn't have to look after them. He shouldn't have them if he's not there. Why should you babysit. that's not fair on you.
I also don't think you shouldn't have to leave to get peace be because it's your home.
I would move out and get a roomate they would respect your space more.
If course he's in a hurry to marry you so you can be his wife and look after his kids.
indiegirl
10-28-2021, 02:04 PM
Welp I have gingivitis after going to the dentist. I web-md diagnosed myself and told people I have it and this is the first time I was right compared to all my cancer/tumor webmd scares. You can't really tell until I brush my teeth and all my gums bleed since I caught it early. Picking up my prescription mouthwash to reverse it in a few hours. I truly have the worst teeth... even this new dentist was talking about all the extensive work I've had done. This is one expensive mouth. Managed to get a new cavity on one of my non veneer teeth. One of those times I thank god I panic a lot.
I decided to walk home today and get some vitamin D. Felt like I was back in New York lol.
JGB2009
10-28-2021, 07:48 PM
My daughter is out sick from school and I messaged her teacher today asking could I get her work so she can have it done before Monday. Lucky me because she never responded back. Will she answer me back tomorrow? I am not holding my breath!!!!
miss cleo
10-29-2021, 02:45 AM
Some arseholes set fireworks off at 3.30am near me and it took me hours to get back to sleep and now im exhausted today.
miss.a.p1600
10-29-2021, 05:22 AM
L is hounding me again about getting married.
Ffs!!!!
Yeah after you’ve argued with me multiple times the last few days, after I’ve had to ask you numerous times to fix things around the house you never did, after you act passive aggressive for any perceived slights, and after you realize that money *I* inherit is MINE (I don’t have to tell you or give to you), after you dole out child support to Bertha so you even more tight-walleted
The last thing I’m thinking about is being locked in via marriage rn.
I honestly think he needs therapy to deal with his pissy annoyances from his ex wife that he’s still disgruntled about.
miss.a.p1600
10-29-2021, 05:50 AM
Here is the truth.
Idk if marriage to L would be beneficial to me. Besides the fact that the onlookers would say I seem more “stable” and maybe some benefit if he died which I don’t wish death on anyone but that would be decades from now probably (maybe sooner if he stays overweight).
Certain aspects I like about him but deep deep deep down. I know that as long as he’s complacent at his job, as long as he’s dealing with Bertha Baggage, as long as he refuses to refine/improve himself n advance in life then I won’t be interested in marriage with him.
miss.a.p1600
10-29-2021, 06:08 AM
I got a windfall of money recently and L found out because he was staring hard af through the envelope that was mailed to me.
He ran in hollaring and screaming like HE won the lottery. Insisting that I open the envelope right in front of him and tell him how I got it. It came from my last landlord after I applied for the grants to get rent paid when I was struggling with my business.
I told him I wasn’t opening the letter rn because I was trying to complete my work tasks and how I this was a distraction. He acted pissy about my response and stormed off.
These conversations around money seem so uncomfortable because I sense that L thinks he is entitled to me sharing my money with him. I have no problem sharing MY money how I see fit but it’s the problem of his expectations being like “if I splurge financially on you i want you to splurge financially on me” and playing dumb when I have had moments of financial hardship. If you see I need something don’t sit here as ask me “do you need me to pay this for you?” Expecting my pride to say no so you can keep your money for yourself. If you see a need just take care of it ffs!
Later in the evening,
He rolled his eyes at me and slammed the door after I said I didn’t want to open the envelope with the money
LoveyD
10-29-2021, 07:24 AM
^^ um, no. Your money, not his. He's being so manipulative and this is a red flag.
miss.a.p1600
10-29-2021, 07:41 AM
^yeah it was uncomfortable how he acts regard large sums of money (overly excited like he doesn’t deserve it or someone like him can’t have it) also, I think he’s assuming since he paid for my moving fees (and other things in the past), since I didn’t splurge on him for his birthday (I didn’t have the funds to splurge n he pretended not to know), that now I should pay for something he needs/wants
He swore up n down he wasn’t a 50/50 type dude but that true nature is showing.
He will share things and buy things for me but it seems like he gets pissy if I don’t reciprocate the spending at the same level.
Im telling him that money is for MY retirement, MY emergency fund, and to pay off my credit cards
I also think part of it was I said I didn’t want to think about a weeding until some money to put for it popped up. His mind is probably like “here is the money now let’s use it towards a wedding”
Um no. I’m stacking my “just in case I need to up n leave” financial independence bag before I agree to anything plus I want him to tell me how he will contribute financially to this wedding he claims he wants.
WendiStarr
10-29-2021, 08:52 AM
Chaty. I signed up there almost a week ago and made $80 so it seemed like a good side egg. That is until today when I opened the app and saw like 10 new messages. I started responding back and all of a sudden got a pop-up that I needed to buy credits to continue messaging people. I also noticed that my credits had decreased so, the site suddenly started charging me to message men. Wtf? I was at $50 and now I can't cash out because they for some reason they changed me from a paid chatter to having to pay to chat. I emailed support about it and they said that they suspected me of being a scammer but didn't bother to say how they came up with that assumption. I was verified. I didn't go by a sex worker persona and nudes and bikini pics were blocked on there anyways but I never posted or sent those, nor did I try to convert people as cam customers or elsewhere, so I don't know how I'm deemed a scammer.
LoveyD
10-29-2021, 08:53 AM
My arm is sore from the booster and I'm feeling a bit tired. No workout today. Also feeling PTSD caused by what my so-called "family" did to me.
whirlerz
10-29-2021, 09:13 AM
Today, writing a large note in black marker about the disgusting state of the kitchen.. For all the good it'll do::)
Really sick of taking out their garbage (the couple), the meth guy's been gone, (don't know if he's coming back or not, he may have gotten busted) some of it's his, but not much.
Don't even get me started on the stacks of filthy dishes that I constantly have to shove out the way, (we have a non-working dishwasher ::).
I can tell the landlord, for all the good that'll do as well.
My face is still swollen & in pain from my tooth surgery, my neck hurts from my accident, I don't really need their shit rn
carmen_b
10-29-2021, 03:25 PM
WTF this nice hotel has a sliding door as the bathroom door.
There is a 1/3” GAP!
Omg embarrassing . We have a plan to just ask the other person to leave haha!!
How did this design go through ?!? You can hear bathroom noises ugh. Not having restroom discretion freaks me out.
LoveyD
10-30-2021, 05:06 AM
Today would have been my mother's bday. Glad she and my father, her co-abuser, are dead. I hate them and my brother and twin sister. The only one I love and respect from that shit show of a "family" is my older sister who ran away when I was five. She was 16 when she ran away and I don't blame her one bit. She was bullied for telling the truth about our POS rapist father. Wonder how hell is treating those people.
miss.a.p1600
10-30-2021, 07:39 AM
L tells me this morning his kids are coming over tonight.
*Le sigh*
Im thankful they’ve barely been over here since Bertha came back in town but I’m going to tell him this afternoon I’m going out tonight.
Im dead set. If ya don’t give 24 hours notice of those kids being over - Im going to have other plans.
I’ll let him deal with the feeding, care, n attention AND clean up
carmen_b
10-30-2021, 02:45 PM
^ Well that and honestly these visits should planned at a minimum 2-3 days out and once they get that established more like 7 days out.
This disorganization doesn't benefit anyone.
Good for you for getting out and doing your own thing. :)
miss.a.p1600
10-31-2021, 05:42 AM
^He was mad too lol!
Girl I conveniently forgot my phone in the car while I went shopping.
He tried to guilt trip talking all this ying yang about “oh I thought you’d be home when I got off work” “where have you been I’ve been calling for hours” “I cooked a meal for us” etc.
I fell for none of it and stick to my guns. I did buy him a small item (less than $20) as “hush money” so he’d drop this issue if I could sense him zeroing in on my sudden absence. It was necessary. I wanted to enjoy my weekend free from annoying kids, annoying dude with no scheduling etiquette, and no guilt trips or arguments.
all I know at this point is he is obligated to get them on his days off (or the night before right after he gets off work).
Well he is not off work today so I don’t know why agreed to take on the childcare last night especially since he gave her $300 a couple days ago to pay her car payment. That $300 should have been Berthas hush money to take care of her kids while L is at work n not get them a day earlier wtf. I hate how he rolls over and acquiesced to the bitch.
Anyways
Idk where they are going to be today while he’s at work during the day but if they are here I’m leaving AGAIN (for “work”) and Im not preparing, entertaining, etc for some kids that keep popping up.
indiegirl
10-31-2021, 09:10 AM
I just came home from work after passing out the previous day in a fucking hotel lobby. My roommates car has been crushed to a whole new level minus her bf's car recently. I'm waiting for her to move her car to fix it and put mine into my garage for safety. Such a sign of who's car is next. Her car is worse. But MINE. You touch this shit and you are in custody. I'm purchasing security cameras RIGHT NOW.
Gawd what an exhausting life.
Marina Starr
10-31-2021, 02:00 PM
People wearing sandals with socks and dragging their feet as they walk.
Had to tell two fuckboys this morning to pick up their feet as they were making awful noise dragging those feet from parking lots to Starbucks.
I also told this bitch a few tables away to put out her cigarettes. She has the audacity to ask why?
I said because cigarettes smoke is hazardous that's why. Smart of her to comply.
The supply of rudeness, inconsideratuion, bad manners are astronomically higher than demand these days
indiegirl
10-31-2021, 04:29 PM
People wearing sandals with socks and dragging their feet as they walk.
Had to tell two fuckboys this morning to pick up their feet as they were making awful noise dragging those feet from parking lots to Starbucks.
I also told this bitch a few tables away to put out her cigarettes. She has the audacity to ask why?
I said because cigarettes smoke is hazardous that's why. Smart of her to comply.
The supply of rudeness, inconsideratuion, bad manners are astronomically higher than demand these days
Sandals with socks is so underrated LOL. It's beyond comfortable and screams lazy at the same time. Perfect way to not attract guys LOL!!!
Marina Starr
10-31-2021, 06:12 PM
I think it will do the opposite. Guys would still wanna fuck, lol. You know they don't care how we dress.
Sandals with socks is so underrated LOL. It's beyond comfortable and screams lazy at the same time. Perfect way to not attract guys LOL!!!
LoveyD
11-01-2021, 06:41 AM
People wearing sandals with socks and dragging their feet as they walk.
Had to tell two fuckboys this morning to pick up their feet as they were making awful noise dragging those feet from parking lots to Starbucks.
I also told this bitch a few tables away to put out her cigarettes. She has the audacity to ask why?
I said because cigarettes smoke is hazardous that's why. Smart of her to comply.
The supply of rudeness, inconsideratuion, bad manners are astronomically higher than demand these days
I was at Starbucks yesterday morning, minding my own business sitting at a counter overlooking the parking lot when some random man sits RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I paused and looked around, the entire place was empty. I let out a sigh, unplugged my devices, and switched to a solo table across the room. NO. Not at 7:00 in the morning. Not having it. The guy then left immediately after. Good Lord! I don't need this when I haven't even made it halfway through my morning beverage.
Anyhow, I thought of you. You are not kidding about these men!
Marina Starr
11-01-2021, 06:44 AM
The weather has been in the 60s the past few days, that's extremely rare for Florida. Great time to sit outside and breathe fresh air but of course, there will be someone that has to smoke and ruin for others.
I know people who smoke got plenty of time and places to smoke so I wonder why they feel the need to light up cigarettes whenever, wherever they feel like it?
For those that don't smoke, cigarettes smoke is impossible to be subjected to, it's so hard to breathe when that's in the air.
LoveyD
11-01-2021, 06:46 AM
Hurt my knee yesterday after running through the woods. Feels better this morning. Taking a day off from running to color my hair and do some self care at the park.
Marina Starr
11-01-2021, 07:05 AM
It's not okay at anytime but especially morning. We don't need to be agitated, that's not a good way to start the day.
And omg, they always leave immediately when we moved so you know it was deliberate. You know it's rarely ever serendipity with men. He probably assumed you were there to pick up men or cruising for dick.
You did exactly what I would have done. Outwardly show my disgust and move immediately.
I was at Starbucks yesterday morning, minding my own business sitting at a counter overlooking the parking lot when some random man sits RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I paused and looked around, the entire place was empty. I let out a sigh, unplugged my devices, and switched to a solo table across the room. NO. Not at 7:00 in the morning. Not having it. The guy then left immediately after. Good Lord! I don't need this when I haven't even made it halfway through my morning beverage.
Anyhow, I thought of you. You are not kidding about these men!
whirlerz
11-01-2021, 12:37 PM
Go look at the link I just posted in Man Bitchlin' thread :)
whirlerz
11-01-2021, 12:39 PM
I'm so sore, physically, I shouldn't be, after this light amount of work.. Lots more to do:(
Marina Starr
11-02-2021, 04:07 AM
When you're at Starbucks, do you mostly sit inside or out?
I prefer inside because the humidity is very high here. Don't want my hair and makeup ruined.
I have a spot that I always sit where my face is facing the wall. It's a very specific spot where no one can be in front of my face. I cannot face the windows where I can see people coming and going. My back HAS to face people or my anxiety would be off the roof.
It's a combination of anxiety and my contempt for people.
I was at Starbucks yesterday morning, minding my own business sitting at a counter overlooking the parking lot when some random man sits RIGHT NEXT TO ME. I paused and looked around, the entire place was empty. I let out a sigh, unplugged my devices, and switched to a solo table across the room. NO. Not at 7:00 in the morning. Not having it. The guy then left immediately after. Good Lord! I don't need this when I haven't even made it halfway through my morning beverage.
Anyhow, I thought of you. You are not kidding about these men!
indiegirl
11-02-2021, 08:46 AM
I want something to complain about but I have nothing....YET. LOL.
My instacart shopper is hauling ass around the store. If I ever make it on Supermarket Sweep I want her on my team. She literally had 3 items in 2 minutes.
Update: She is checking out in under 5 minutes. This woman would be on my supermarket sweep team hands down!!
LoveyD
11-02-2021, 11:40 AM
When you're at Starbucks, do you mostly sit inside or out?
I prefer inside because the humidity is very high here. Don't want my hair and makeup ruined.
I have a spot that I always sit where my face is facing the wall. It's a very specific spot where no one can be in front of my face. I cannot face the windows where I can see people coming and going. My back HAS to face people or my anxiety would be off the roof.
It's a combination of anxiety and my contempt for people.
I hear ya. I sit inside too, but I'm the opposite. I have to face the door because if a weirdo is approaching, I'd like to be aware of it.
I sit inside so I can charge my devices in preparation for doing grocery delivery.
Funny how we use Starbucks to prep for our day lol!
Marina Starr
11-02-2021, 12:21 PM
I haven't had any weirdos approaching me with my back turned. I feel there's nothing more clear than someone doesn't want to be bothered if their back is turned.
I hear ya. I sit inside too, but I'm the opposite. I have to face the door because if a weirdo is approaching, I'd like to be aware of it.
I sit inside so I can charge my devices in preparation for doing grocery delivery.
Funny how we use Starbucks to prep for our day lol!
carmen_b
11-02-2021, 01:03 PM
I’m so irritated.
My bladder pain kicked up. I didn’t have my special low acid coffee over the weekend.
I have so much to do !!
I’m getting this list done and trying to just hold myself over with over the counter pain meds.
I can’t stand not being productive during business hours.
I wanted to start Nov. strong money wise !!
JGB2009
11-03-2021, 07:03 AM
So my daughters teacher responded back to me 5 days later. She claimed that the schools internet was down until Monday. Mind you other teachers have been messaging other parents from the same app in that same time frame. Even if that was the case you mean to tell me that she don't even check her phone when she gets home and try to reply at least once to parents. So yea 5 days later with a BS excuse. This is gonna be a long year!!!!!
whirlerz
11-03-2021, 09:49 AM
So.. I just spilled a big bottle of oil on kitchen floor,because meth guy (still MIA btw) lost the cap, I did replace it with another cap, but it was too loose, should a thrown it out!
Also, the lovely couple had their bicycles parked between kitchen table & counter where the oil was::), I'd reached for my plants on the counter, & it got knocked down.
I just came from auto parts store, got the heavy duty wiper blades installed, it took awhile cause 1 size didn't fit, + super busy in there. 40.btw, (I also got Ozium solid for my bathroom cause the other shit couple smoke cigars & weed.)
Weed I don't mind, cigar, that's nasty af
My hand is now fucked from lifting a huge TV methy threw out, lifted it in the garbage, wheeled up to the front, I couldn't take it out so I left the can sitting there.
Really sick of this shit
WendiStarr
11-03-2021, 11:24 AM
Public Storage and their shit. Once again they reversed my auto pay and tried to say that my bank did it. I called my bank and they said that they didn't reverse any transactions and I believe the bank because they never reverse any transactions unless I call them and spend like an hour on the phone about it. I wish I could get everything out of my storage unit today but the movers are not available until Saturday. I just feel like Public Storage reverses payments so that they can sell others belongings. Some people would assume that the payment went through and not bother to check and probably have no idea until suddenly their storage unit has a different lock on it. I remembered this problem last month so I checked my bank account and saw that they(Public storage) reversed my payment. I will never use them again and will tell everyone I know about this shady shit.
Also, I'm like 99% sure that I have a yeast infection and it's making me feel pissy. I have an ob/gyn appointment tomorrow and I'm not looking forward to it because the last thing I want is a hard metal speculum shoved up in there and someone scraping around. Ugh!
LoveyD
11-03-2021, 12:35 PM
I am so freaking bloated. Wtf. Plus I keep peeing. My God.
whirlerz
11-03-2021, 01:05 PM
Wendi, I would report them, you can try bbb.org.
I had storage issues as well, I use Smart Stop, they suck too. After I leave there for good I'm reporting and giving bad reviews
I gave them my email & updated phone #, they raised my unit, (just raised it previously, like 2 months ago??)::)
I tried talking them, but they won't budge, I have to move out of there anyway..
Because I didn't give them my updated address, they sent the letter to the wrong address, they couldn't email or call?
It's beyond filthy in there, it's huge, (think like 3 Walmarts put together), they've 1 bathroom (there's actually 2, 1's kept locked)::)
No one cleans, they need a separate cleaning service, which they're too cheap to hire.
I have to beg them to send me a payment link, they charge 8.00 extra to pay by phone
So men & women use the same bathroom, the men don't like to flush the toilet:yuck::yikes:
I've had mice, they have electronic traps around, but still found 3 dead in the unit.
I bought some mouse repellent bags, no idea if they work.
I haven't been there in months.
This's my last month there, I swear!
LoveyD
11-03-2021, 05:41 PM
Wendi- is there a way they can stop doing auto pay? I would report them to bbb as well. Hope you're feeling better.
Whirlerz- you deserve a better place and I hope you can find something soon. I may be living in my car, but I'm much more at peace now that I've adjusted.
I finally deflated finally. That was some weird shit. I think it's caffeine. Might have to switch to decaf.
carmen_b
11-03-2021, 06:23 PM
I'm back on this thread ! Oh no. Ha.
I am wondering about tonight.
Yesterday I had the really bad bladder pain ( I have a chronic thing called IC for short ).
I'm doing better today but the pain is still there and " moderate " .
I went to the Dr. today which sucked up time .
I was trying to move through this very busy to do list today.
I am frustrated because my partner had a friend over and his friends kid ( not long just 4:30 - 7 ) but I really feel on the fence about this and saying something. Usually it works. His daughter is entertained by the kid and J plays music with the friend. I really needed a quiet house . I guess typing it out though I realize I did get a reminder from him about this get together around 3:30. I assumed this thing would just skip a week with how I have felt.
I don't know. I really didn't have to *do* anything per say ( nothing was really expected of me ).
I just quickly met the friend and left for an hour.
I shaved an hour off of this by taking my dog out 5-6 p.m.
I can't veto all company at the house. That is just not realistic but if someone is sick ? I probably will have to talk to him because I felt really disappointed . Oddly my family AirBnB was open and sitting vacant. I should have gone over ! I would have loved to just sit and relax with my dog from 5-8 with no noise but I felt ridiculous driving 30 minutes each way for it. Next time I will !
I feel guilt even saying something here!
J was so amazing yesterday on my really high pain day. He got me everything I needed ( meds , weed , food ).
I'm so confused. Would you say something ?
carmen_b
11-03-2021, 06:34 PM
I know I'm sick but I'm questioning some choices in the last year. Ugh ! Damn it ! Haha.
No life changes when sick or on period ( I have literally written that down to remind myself ).
1-2 day before your period also. Never blow up your life during that time ! A reminder to us all.
charlie61
11-03-2021, 06:48 PM
Carmen, i have really good noise-cancelling headphones from Sony (over the ear) that actively cancel noise. I use them literally every day... basically couldn't live without them. Could that be an option for you? I think your request is legit in theory, but since your pain is unpredictable, it could pose some challenges if you want him to cancel plans on those days. I suppose he could meet his friend elsewhere when that happens? Just throwing out some ideas. I'm sure he'd accommodate if you were to request it, but it could cause some minor resentments.
carmen_b
11-03-2021, 06:53 PM
^ You know .... I DO have the head phones. I have misophonia ( at a low - mid level I'd say ) so I have them with me always.
Maybe I made the wrong call because we have a theatre room ( an office sized room with a couch and big tv you sit close to ) and I wanted that room right at 6 . I could hear the kids through the wall. I could have gone upstairs though where no one was and used my computer and headphones . Maybe the judgement call falls on me there. I guess it was kind of stupid to be downstairs knowing I wanted quiet.
I guess the other thing that bothers me ( layers ha ) is that this visit has occurred 3 weeks in a row and I wish they would alternate between the homes ( that J and daughter would go to the friends also ). I would love THAT ( my dog and I being able to watch a movie alone in the house ).
I think I get scared to ask for anything related to our environment because he pays for everything with the house. Plus I think my body still " feels " these weird sensations of past issues rustling up of how hard I felt I had to fight to get to live here anyway. I live here and it's worked out but it took the threats to leave ect. about 7 months ago if he wouldn't give me a normal time line . I pretty much told him if he expected to live desperately after a year it was a no go. It's been good overall and we have grown as a couple.
I just wonder about how to ask sometimes for modifications to the environment .
carmen_b
11-03-2021, 07:37 PM
I will edit down ! Really just wondering if I should say something or not ha.
I will do headphones next time or plan to be gone ( if body holds up ).
LoveyD
11-03-2021, 08:12 PM
^^I would maybe say something like you know you can't veto all company at the house but when someone is not feeling well, they are going to need their alone time to cope (anything involving your bladder is just awful). And there should be no expectations of you to entertain anyone and play host while you're feeling terrible. If people are over, that's fine, but you will need quiet space to yourself while you heal. Obviously if it's Covid then hell no, no company. I hope you're feeling better soon. Bladder stuff is no joke.
P. S. Escaping is a good idea too.
charlie61
11-03-2021, 08:29 PM
Carmen, I'm right there with you when it comes to misophonia, for real! And i know that being in pain just amplifies those issues. Maybe try isolating + headphones next time to see how it goes. Not sure if you're able to isolate in a way that feels like a bit of a treat, too - get away from the kid stuff, pop the headphones on, veg out with a movie. Something like that. ♡
miss.a.p1600
11-03-2021, 08:49 PM
Now that Bertha is back in town living in a house that ironically someone let her rent, she lives somwhere in the hood and her kids go to school in the hood (not surprised)
L was complaining how he didn’t like how one of his kids isn’t eligible to ride the bus and L doesn’t want the kid walking alone through the hood.
There was no way in hell I’d volunteer to drive into the hood n face images of poverty nor let Berthas kids tear up my car so even though I have the time to help I won’t cause that’s beyond my pay grade so his ass volunteered to take his lunch break to drive 20 miles rt for hos son.
Yeah that’s great n all but the miles he puts on his old ass car is going to cause him to have to buy a new one sooner than he is planning for and he’s not prepared nor is he preparing for a new car. He still pays on a car loan he co-signed with the Bertha bitch when she can’t pay it.
I just have a hard time understanding what he doesn’t understand about letting the bitch figure out how to get her schedule right so she can pick her kids up.
Why is he always trying to rescue the bitch?
You married a broke hood bitch and had kids with said bitch whose kids now attend school n the hood.
Let them be.
In the hood.
That’s where their mom resides and where she wants her kids.
Make her dumb ass pay you for gas money to pick those kids up from the hood school she registered them in.
Fuck her.
miss.a.p1600
11-04-2021, 06:29 AM
L had the audacity to say “if I let them, I could see my kids living with me full time”
Keep playing fantasies of yoself as mr. Mom if ya want. That’s the quickest way to get left for good so stfu and let Bertha do her damn job to take care if her kids.
If you dare have those kids invade my space daily I will have a Uhaul and A SugarDaddy quicker than you can say “Mr. Mom”
carmen_b
11-04-2021, 07:28 AM
^ I don’t even think he would enjoy having them full time.
For example, does he really has a plan in mind for example for what to do with them while he wraps work ( as I assume he doesn’t finish working right at 3 when school is out ).
He would need to pay for a couple hours child care daily I think.
Seems like he said that to irritate you and it worked !
:/
He could also be testing the waters for you to be like " Yeah I could take them 3-5 " .
Ha ! Nooooooo.
miss.a.p1600
11-04-2021, 09:34 AM
^i hate when men test you like that.
He probably wanted me to offer some free childcare since I work from home. Lol! Yeah if Bertha didn’t have her kids looking dusty, if her kids weren’t loud n clingy, and if he pulled in more money n paid more bills. But until then and while I have to work the answer is nooooooo!!!!!
I am the megacunt when it comes to raising other people’s kids.
I need to get paid accordingly for that. No payment, no free childcare. Period!
Shouldn’t have ya kids over unless you gone be there. N don’t take jobs that require leaving ya kids all damn day n night.
carmen_b
11-04-2021, 10:00 AM
^ Nah. I do the same. I would give my partners child 1-2 hours a day in the summer ( when I was still getting pandemic assistance ) but I warned him in the fall my hours would go back to 9-5. It was a huge help to him because we had some three hour activity blocks for her and I would drive one way to it always.
These days I can sometimes spare ONE hour in that range per week during those hours but beyond that I have to paid during those hours and that is just how it is. I protect those hours to make sure I'm covered financially every month. It would be a huge help I'm sure if I could spare more and help 3:30 - 5 but I just can not do it. Cutting your work day short will lead to a direct result of you losing money. If he isn't covering the difference it is just a no go.