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carmen_b
11-04-2021, 10:09 AM
I would do the same if it was my own kids too.
My parents worked 9-5:30 ALWAYS .
Kids can be in an activity or some sort of short term nannying while work hours wrap up from after school until 5-5:30.

carmen_b
11-04-2021, 10:10 AM
^ It's totally disrespectful when people try to poach your time because you work from home.
When I am working I'm HUSTLING.
It's a fast pace so ..... well ...... just fuck off unless you are offering a $ alternative and can afford me.

They will hear it from me ( a long lecture why this assumption isn't ok at all ) as well.
I have had to " check " family and friends on this issue not just partners. :)

TheBrownFox
11-04-2021, 06:13 PM
^ It's totally disrespectful when people try to poach your time because you work from home.



That shit is annoying. And I'm not trying to be on no 30-minute phone call with a gossipy family member who wants to tell me about so and so from church. No, I don't remember Ms. So and So from church. How did we go from a conversation about how my son is doing...to gossiping about little old ladies from church/Bible study? I don't remember all these people. Oh, Ms. So and So is having gallbladder surgery today? Um...okay?

chanzep
11-04-2021, 07:46 PM
Yes people think working from home is not working and always act surprised when I don't answer the phone and say " but your at home like I'm laying on the couch smh.

chanzep
11-04-2021, 07:52 PM
Miss P you are not a megacunt at all. When I was 18 I was a nanny I picked up kids and watched them after school . It's a actual paid job. He should hire someone . He expects you do do housewife stuff without providing . You are working .

Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 06:02 AM
I'm so pissed off and agitated because I left my umbrella at best buy days ago and didn't realize it til I got home. I've done that countless times and hate having to buy new umbrellas.
It's been pouring all morning so I bought one from Publix and it's over $20. Maybe I'm "cheap" but I hate having to pay that much.

I was planning to run errands and shopping today but it's gonna rain all day. I hate when shitty weather fucks my routines up.

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 06:15 AM
^keep an inexpensive poncho in the trunk

I’d hate rebuying umbrellas too. The good ones are pricey especially if you replace them often.

You can also put those tags on them that help you find misplaced items

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 06:25 AM
Yeah he text me yesterday out of the fucking blue and was like “the kids are coming to the house”

I text back matter of factly and said I have work appointments and he’s like “oh they’ll be gone before you start your appointments”

Then pulled into the house with his loud resource suckers.

No matter where I am in the house I can hear their loud asses including him.

I had to tell them multiple times to be fucking quiet because while I work from home I don’t want people knowing I work from home.

How hard is it to understand that I have no desire to see your bay bay kids daily and when I work I do not want people here especially if they are loud n needy n clingy

Anyways it’s going to be a problem if he keeps springing those kids on me. I will simply find a sugar daddy with an office and that will solve the problem lol!!!

Anywho Im off to find a find a sugar daddy with office space.

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 06:30 AM
Miss P you are not a megacunt at all. When I was 18 I was a nanny I picked up kids and watched them after school . It's a actual paid job. He should hire someone . He expects you do do housewife stuff without providing . You are working .

FACTS!!!

I love homemaking but if he’s not providing that amenity. I will be a homemaker for myself (and my future sugar daddy if he doesn’t get himself right) lol!

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 06:33 AM
L took 5 fucking days off work.

Bruh why? It’s not a vacation it’s not a holiday.

If I catch his ass laying around the house doing nothing he will face my wrath.

I cannot wait till he gets up out of this house n goes back to work.

Luci Fer
11-05-2021, 06:38 AM
I'm so pissed off and agitated because I left my umbrella at best buy days ago and didn't realize it til I got home. I've done that countless times and hate having to buy new umbrellas.
It's been pouring all morning so I bought one from Publix and it's over $20. Maybe I'm "cheap" but I hate having to pay that much.

I was planning to run errands and shopping today but it's gonna rain all day. I hate when shitty weather fucks my routines up.

You could find a smaller one that fits in your bag/purse, when you fold it. Damn umbrellas are always so uncomfortable to carry around and so easy to forget somewhere. I prefer a plastic raincoat;D

carmen_b
11-05-2021, 08:55 AM
Dude they are out there. I could walk outside right now and throw a rock randomly .
I'd probably hit a dude with this description with it.




Anywho Im off to find a find a sugar daddy with office space.

carmen_b
11-05-2021, 08:58 AM
Miss P :

Can you set some quiet hour boundaries at your place like a few 8 hour blocks a week for example ?

I'm not really sure why he won't get better organized and set his kid schedule out and FIRM at least 5-7 days ahead.
I think ( just a personal take ) that it is bordering on disrespect for you at this point. I say that because a scattered couple of days is ONE thing but an ongoing mess is another. Have you straight out said " I'd like to know the exact hours this house will be quiet in the next 5-6 days. I need to plan my work blocks or book office time ahead. "

I mean ..... it IS your work space as well . Not sure quite what to advise because it seems like you've asked for more organization. He is just insisting on this last minute nonsense.

Alternatively you can find a co-working space BUT you should be able to pull off 20-30 hours a week at home since you have a partner who works outside the home.

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 09:40 AM
^I am going to have a conversation about it. Even though his schedule fluctuates he should be able to plan at least 24hrs in advance.

I guess I get stressed out whenever he has multiple days off or whenever his kids are on school break. And they are here at this house all the time holidays and breaks.

He assumes since he's off he can do what he wants and just pick up his kids whenever is convenient for him like he used to.

Spending time with them is not the problem. Take them out to the park, movies, track field, wherever!.....Randomly Bringing them back to this house when I'm working from home IS a problem because they are loud.

I will talk with him AGAIN until he gets the point that this house is also like my office and if I can't work due to constant distractions and anxiety about last minute pop-ups then I can't get paid.

You ladies have helped me put my foot down......And it's staying down lol!!!

carmen_b
11-05-2021, 09:46 AM
^ It might even be easier to find a co-working space or part time office situation during those peak times they are there.
It really bothered me when my partners child was around during our M-F work hours but I knew it was temporary ( summer ) . It's definitely nice to have the exact hours and times known in advance when it will be quiet.

I also assumed your partner had set work hours. A flux schedule makes some sense but can he even know his schedule 2-4 days ahead ? Even on call people often have that much notice.

I think your plan is good to have a straight convo with him about you wanting more quiet time at the house .
You've probably noticed my posts . I seem to pop up in this thread every time J has a guest over or family members from up North here!

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 12:34 PM
Pop ups are THE ABSOLUTE WORST

Just makes me question again that I probably should be living ALONE. I never get lonely and I can pay expenses solo if need be

I just don’t know how to approach the topic because I honestly think he assumes I want to spend as much time with them as he does and I don’t.

I also think he’s going to have them spend the night tonight. Ugh!!!!! Take them back to Berthas house.

Anyhow until we have a conversation I’m just going to do his ass like he has been doing me. I’m going to schedule last minute plans BY MYSELF. And avoid him AND his kids whenever he pops up with them last minute.

Im at my witts end and my filter is not there anymore but people are sensitive when it comes to their kids so I have to approach it carefully.

OMG girl. Summer break - I will lose my shit if he has them at my house all day all summer. He better fucking enroll them in summer school, summer camp, or a job.

carmen_b
11-05-2021, 01:30 PM
^ Yeah summer was hard I'm not going to lie.
I also think men can underestimate how distracting kids can be in the home . My partner would get visibly stressed but then wouldn't want to admit it to anyone ha ! I took my work outside the house 5-6 hours a day roughly.

At the START of summer he hadn't even signed her up for activities outside the home. His ex and I were actually were the ones on TOP of it finding activities that spanned 3-4 hours. In our little suburb it was really hard to find something 6-7 hours ! Eventually there was at least one of the three hours ones daily and a couple of the days his daughter did two back to back 3 hours ones. The two 3 hour chunks were SO MUCH harder than if we could have found one 6-7 hour M-F thing daily but oh well ..... better than nothing !

^ YUP .... summer camp or programs are the way to go.

Oh .... I totally get treading lightly because people are definitely sensitive.
Even if you come up with an optimized plan they can be offended.
I get that you want to be careful for sure.

carmen_b
11-05-2021, 01:48 PM
I tried to throw this out there but I guess the friend doesn't have a set up as well as this place ( lots of extras for musicians ).
I never thought there would be a down side of having a place to jam , ha !

It's really not excessive though. This is like 4:30 - 7 on Wed. ! It will be the night I schedule an activity for myself , get out of town to dance , or just go hide a night if the AirBnB is vacant . It's during a time I can even go hide and find a movie in town ( movies always have 5p.m. or 6 p.m. start times ). Any of those are options . I really hate a cluttered and noisy house. I’m sure if I was really sick one day I could let him know too earlier in the day.


I suppose he could meet his friend elsewhere when that happens? Just throwing out some ideas.

whirlerz
11-05-2021, 02:31 PM
U go Ms P!

So, today the bank fucked me, they kept my card,what??

It was US Bank, my actual bank is citi, I've used US Bank atm b4 I went inside (was at atm.. She actually had the balls to tell me: 1. I'm not getting it back, 2.they use a third party atm, 3.Mgr's on vacation, (however, the 'personal banker' was like 2 feet away, heard everything, & *did 0).
Had to go across town to get another (temp card::))
Real BS!

I called their customer service line, they weren't much better, I was trying to file a Bbb.org complaint, I couldn't find them, unless they're under a different name?

I suggested an edit, also the first # I got that I called, was some BS # that tries to sell you shit, then hangs up on you, I've come across it before.

whirlerz
11-05-2021, 06:32 PM
U go Ms P!

So, today the bank fucked me, they kept my card,what??

It was US Bank, my actual bank is citi, I've used US Bank atm b4 I went inside (was at atm.. She actually had the balls to tell me: 1. I'm not getting it back, 2.they use a third party atm, 3.Mgr's on vacation, (however, the 'personal banker' was like 2 feet away, heard everything, & *did 0).
Had to go across town to get another (temp card::))
Real BS!

I called their customer service line, they weren't much better, I was trying to file a Bbb.org complaint, I couldn't find them, unless they're under a different name?

I suggested an edit, also the first # I got that I called, was some BS # that tries to sell you shit, then hangs up on you, I've come across it before.

It didn't even end there^!
My one storage place, they raised my rate, after just raising it 2 months ago?!

They wouldn't take my card, since above-mentioned SHIT bank confiscated it, I got another, but since it was a temp card, the system wouldn't take it?

Yet, it previously took my other card on the phone w/a 15 yr old past address, where they sent the letter informing me of said raise, which of course I did not get!

+, I have to literally beg them to give me a way to pay, NOT paying extra 8.00 to pay by phone..

The crap regional mgr called me today, I did answer cause it said unknown #.
She left me a message saying how lucky I am to have a larger unit at that price?
Also, I got at least 2 different answers of when my due date was.. another 25.00 late fee if it was past due..

Really used up a lot of time, bc above bank fucked me over by confiscating my card.

They're getting a bill from me, + bbg.org complaint, + bad reviews.
Storage place too.

PIGS

miss.a.p1600
11-05-2021, 07:05 PM
L gets is relatives to take his daughter for the night but comes back with his son.

Wtf!!!! Drove all the way out there.

Why didn’t he drop BOTH of them off.

Dumb af!!!

I hope he doesn’t do too much talking to me cause I’d like to ignore him tonight.

chanzep
11-05-2021, 08:00 PM
That's annoying why don't they have a schedule most people do with co parenting.
It sound like you get no peace at all . I don't think you should have to get a work space. He knew you worked from home before you moved in.
Just tell him how you feel. Sounds like he will get upset but put yourself 1st. Asking to be able to be comfortable working from home is not too much. He can't just keep doing last minute all the time.

Marina Starr
11-06-2021, 09:13 AM
It's in the 60s today, so cold I'm freezing my tits off. So unusual for Florida but its a nice change. They say hoes don't get cold but I do.

What pisses me off is the humidity is still in the 90s. What the actual fuck?!

whirlerz
11-06-2021, 10:48 AM
Ha, it's 60's here today, thats great for us!

charlie61
11-06-2021, 10:59 AM
Yes, the lack of schedule would be intolerable to me. Emergencies happen, of course, but inconsistency isn't good for kids or adults.

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 11:53 AM
He asks me an hour ago

“Hey do you want to go to my family gathering? All my family will be there and it’s at 6pm.”

Um is it within 24 hr notice? If not then the answer is no! Idgaf of the queen of England is gonna be there.

No notice no presence.

N no amount of guilt trips will work.

whirlerz
11-06-2021, 12:01 PM
OMG, he's really a last minute dude!
Hate that, don't blame you

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 12:08 PM
Yes, the lack of schedule would be intolerable to me. Emergencies happen, of course, but inconsistency isn't good for kids or adults.

Berthas kids have been in 3 school in the past few months.

I think L and his ex wife have a pattern of inconsistency in their kids lives.

I know L’s work schedule is inconsistent but he gets them on his days off - which he knows ahead of time.

I do know I’m tired of hearing “I don’t know” when I ask “when are you picking up your children” Then next thing I know he’s texting “the kids are coming over tonight”

I’m trying to be a good step parent by possibly cooking for them or having activities planned for them but I think he’s just viewing it like a typical male on autopilot picking them up whenever they call (if he’s off work that day) because that’s what was done in the past.

As soon as they leave (and I can’t wait till they leave btw) I’ll talk with him about it bc He needs to understand that I am not doing pop ups …… idgaf who it is

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 12:11 PM
Anyhow sorry y’all my rants pick up whenever he pops up with his Berthas spawns then expects the Stepford wives treatment.

Nah bruh doesn’t work that way.

Ima do my best to chill on this thread and meditate these triggers away

chanzep
11-06-2021, 12:16 PM
Miss P if him and Bertha live unorganized that's on them but they cannot expect you to. It seems like he just thinking about himself with plans etc. He has to consider you if he expects you to stay there.

chanzep
11-06-2021, 12:18 PM
Looking for a new job, this one has added a extra hour on to the day and expects us to work 6 days. They were not happy when I refused. They said everyone is. I'm not giving up my peace for people or companies.

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 01:31 PM
Miss P :
I hope you get some relief !
How soon ahead does he know his schedule ?
I feel for ya but it also has to be hella confusing for these kids.
I was going to mention earlier but isn't one a little older one reaching that age of having friends to socialize with ect. ?
That poor kid doesn't even seem to know where they will BE which makes that social growth impossible.

If he doesn't give you some relief on this with at least 48 hours notice for EVERYTHING I would drag his ass to a therapist who I guarantee 99.999% will tell him to his face it's detrimental to not organize everything well ahead ( kids really do need a week notice to feel secure ).

The therapist will tell him if he won't listen to you! I totally see how you are reaching your limit .

I mean at the *very* least it seems like he can give 24 hours notice.
Do you think he might be doing this on purpose by chance ? Not disclosing when he knows he has them ?

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 01:33 PM
It's so much harder to train a new person than keep one.
I have made demands to jobs similar to this ( insisting on staying at a 40 hour week instead of more ) and they met my demands always.
It's possible but branching out seems good too.

I have also demanded 2 weeks off ( unpaid ) in a job where is supposedly " didn't exist " .
Well it turns out it's possible to have the option exist when forced. :)


Looking for a new job, this one has added a extra hour on to the day and expects us to work 6 days. They were not happy when I refused. They said everyone is. I'm not giving up my peace for people or companies.

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 01:45 PM
My pissy rant is just general low energy blahs today ! Ugh!

Last week I was in pain and also running around looking for real estate brokers ( found one ) .
I'm just SO tired !
I DON'T want to do anything but of course I'm keeping my phone on.
I'm scanning calls though and not answering unless a day job sale seems very likely !

Tomorrow I bet I'll turn my phone off for 5-6 hours and set an auto reply up to refresh myself.

Also my battery died on my car but my awesome partner let me take his .
So that is something to deal with but I'm glad I can deal with it later .

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 02:46 PM
This mf here!!!!!

Y’all I cannot…….


Ima wait 24 hrs till I rant again.

whirlerz
11-06-2021, 02:49 PM
This mf here!!!!!

Y’all I cannot…….


Ima wait 24 hrs till I rant again.

Nah rant away, anytime!
Shit, this's basically all I have to go to.

carmen_b, I have low ass energy as well, just ate some dark choc & diet Coke

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 02:57 PM
^ The fight for space is just something I relate to SO MUCH .

I never had the balls to circle back on the issue of his daughter using our master bath room ( which has bothered me for months ha ) .
I finally tried TODAY ! This whole thing started because the tab leaked one time a few months ago.
I put water in the tub / drained it ( the bath in her room ) .
I KNOW it's it's overflow piece in back. I have had the same leak from that piece in my own home and I've seen in a rentals where it only leaks when that overflow is hit.

I deemed it DEFINITELY USABLE and he said he will shift her back to using it .
If she can't use it without overfilling it I found a suction cup thing on amazon that goes over it and has a hole on the top ha instead of starting to drain as soon as it's hit !

I want the master room and bath only only used by us for space territory reasons but also for the legit reason of the master room being the only place I can close a door and LOCK it to take a sales call. My standing desk is in the corner of the room. I want access to it always and don't want my customers hearing any ambient noise.

I'd really like a private office in this house but the only room for that would be for me to take over the guest room and it's filled with a lot of stuff to declutter ( it's kind of a random catch all room ). Clutter gives me severe anxiety so I just pretend that room doesn't exist .

Anyway ....... your story inspired me to finally take a stand on my own most hated thing in the house ha.

whirlerz
11-06-2021, 03:02 PM
Looking for a new job, this one has added a extra hour on to the day and expects us to work 6 days. They were not happy when I refused. They said everyone is. I'm not giving up my peace for people or companies.

Have you tried Adecco? They've lots of wah jobs .Omg 6 days, no!
I don't even like it when they do 1 weekend day, you don't get 2 consecutive days off, it's like working 6.

Try this place too, pdstech.com, it's an agency, just got something thru them

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 03:07 PM
^ The fight for space is just something I relate to SO MUCH .

I never had the balls to circle back on the issue of his daughter using our master bath room ( which has bothered me for months ha ) .
I finally tried TODAY ! This whole thing started because the tab leaked one time a few months ago.
I put water in the tub / drained it ( the bath in her room ) .
I KNOW it's it's overflow piece in back. I have had the same leak from that piece in my own home and I've seen in a rentals where it only leaks when that overflow is hit.

I deemed it DEFINITELY USABLE and he said he will shift her back to using it .
If she can't use it without overfilling it I found a suction cup thing on amazon that goes over it and has a hole on the top ha instead of starting to drain as soon as it's hit !

I want the master room and bath only only used by us for space territory reasons but also for the legit reason of the master room being the only place I can close a door and LOCK it to take a sales call. My standing desk is in the corner of the room. I want access to it always and don't want my customers hearing any ambient noise.

I'd really like a private office in this house but the only room for that would be for me to take over the guest room and it's filled with a lot of stuff to declutter ( it's kind of a random catch all room ). Clutter gives me severe anxiety so I just pretend that room doesn't exist .

Anyway ....... your story inspired me to finally take a stand on my own most hated thing in the house ha.

I never realized how valuable space is until now. Whenever L and his kids are gone I am in heaven.

Im going to pop some edibles so my nerves can stay in tact so I don’t blow the fuck up on someone rn

Once I he leaves tonight n I get some more edibles I’ll be back

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 03:22 PM
^ It just seems like something has just gotta give in your situation.
You shouldn't have to fight this hard for some organization so I hope he listens to you!

I am just realizing lately that I am also not getting enough alone time. I do plan to start using my AirBnB on vacancies . I am just starting to realize the lack of alone time due to my partner working at home. He doesn't go out in the evening at all solo either which I'm not really saying he *should* but I totally wouldn't mind if he had a guys night or something a couple times a month. When we get a breather from each other it is always due to ME leaving . I am never home all day as I'll go work outside the house 2-4 hours, go to the gym, go to lunches ect. !
He does leave 4-5 times a week for a one hour outside work out.

Even though I don't NEED it very often ....... I would really LIKE a quiet space after 5:30 to just watch a movie without disruptions. I think using the AirBnB space is the most likely way to get this.
I'm not going to ever hint at getting an alone evening here ( not anytime soon anyway )!
This is just coming up for me lately. I have never had a partner who worked from home before. There are many perks to people working remotely but there can be downsides too. :/

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 03:35 PM
Actually just to highlight what I'm talking about haha I'll share this:
I had new furniture put in the AirBnB living room and I have had an old couch in the garage for so long.
I have wanted to "save" the task of selling the old one for when I REALLY need a day to myself so I can go over all day long and sell it ( which with people flaking ect. may take all day ).

Then I was thinking ..... maybe I could get TWO days out of selling it lol.
This may just be the slowest selling couch on the entire planet.

chanzep
11-06-2021, 04:17 PM
My job contract ends in January so I'm looking for new stuff anyway. They literally added a extra day and expected me to go along with it. I have had a few companies offer me stuff but they are not the right fit. I will find something. I'm ready to jump ship.
My friends were supposed to meet up today and cancelled. Not surprised at all. One had a legit reason and the other one doesn't go out of her way for anyone. I found by will see her now I'm not in Uptown. I will just have some no e good here and relax.

chanzep
11-06-2021, 04:18 PM
Miss P please rant as much as needed. That's what this thread is for.

indiegirl
11-06-2021, 04:30 PM
Sometimes I check the threads and see how much I'm on here since my job is mostly online to hotel room and think "I gotta hold back or else I get carried away due to boredom." I don't do walks because it haunts me in my nightmares from getting lost in DC and NYC as well as losing my keys in strip clubs. I have to triple check I have all of my things on the way to the hotel as well as leaving. I constantly have dreams where I am lost because I'm terrible with directions orrr losing my keys. I even tell customers before they leave "keys, phone, wallet, mask check" ...because I've lost shit so many times in the strip club that the bouncers got pissed at me to go find it with a phone light or they couldn't find it sometimes.

Thank god for netflix. Also, I know all the excuses men come up with and the primary ones are "too late, too far, too expensive." I was right on time super early and he had no way out of it other to say he had an emergency trip to San Diego in 10 minutes hahaha!!! Some of these guys! Just be honest! You were expecting to have one of the excuses above and had to find a new one since I already saw you. If you're at home jerking off to my photos, leave it that way. I had to do my makeup and clean the room for nobody and left to feed my dogs.

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 04:42 PM
He asks me an hour ago

“Hey do you want to go to my family gathering? All my family will be there and it’s at 6pm.”

Um is it within 24 hr notice? If not then the answer is no! Idgaf of the queen of England is gonna be there.

No notice no presence.

N no amount of guilt trips will work.

Ok he just left.

Please tell me why tf - after he realizes I’m not going to his last minute party invite - he said “is it okay if my son stays here at the house with you. His mom said she’s busy right now and I told my relatives I’d meet them at the party”

Cotdamn it!!!!

If that Bertha bitch isn’t out looking for a damn job idgaf how busy that hoe is she need to come get her damn kid. He just paid her car note and his dumb ass still rolling over for that hoe.

No worries.

After I finish airing out my grievance against him and his trifling ass ex wife, n if he doesn’t get down on his knees n beg for forgiveness then Im going to “disappear” tomorrow. Im following through with my plan for solo 5 star dining.

A bit passive aggressive n petty. Yes. But when im being pushed to my limits, it’s flight or fight mode.

chanzep
11-06-2021, 06:16 PM
Your being very fair to him considering.
So he thinks because your chilling on a Saturday that your up for free childcare!!, If he's going to a party then kid should be with the mum or another relative. She went from not wanting her kids around you to thinking your a babysitter smh.

carmen_b
11-06-2021, 07:00 PM
He left the kid ?

It’s a family party ..., um.., kid is family !!

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2021, 07:26 PM
Pussy on silent strike until further notice!!!


Your being very fair to him considering.
So he thinks because your chilling on a Saturday that your up for free childcare!!, If he's going to a party then kid should be with the mum or another relative. She went from not wanting her kids around you to thinking your a babysitter smh.

That is what happens when your ego is bigger than your bank account.

And yes he thought I was just chillin on a Saturday eve. He didn’t bother asking what I had planned, didn’t tell how long he’s keeping his kid this weekend just all around planning fiasco thanks to him.

No ma’am.

Im reclaiming my space n time n freedom tomorrow at 9am sharp

And he better get his life right cause this the stuff that get you cheated on

miss.a.p1600
11-07-2021, 06:31 AM
Your being very fair to him considering.
So he thinks because your chilling on a Saturday that your up for free childcare!!, If he's going to a party then kid should be with the mum or another relative. She went from not wanting her kids around you to thinking your a babysitter smh.

I was so heated about that shit. I had to come back n rant again

His mom didn’t want him around this weekend because he’s been mouthy towards her. And she is so broke she can’t afford to feed him. Her dumb ass STILL hasn’t found a job n thought her last job (the one she quit to go move out of town where she couldn’t afford the cost of living) would rehire her back.

Well I’m sorry but she fucking deserves someone talking trash to her. She actually needs her ass kicked and to be reported to CPS for having her kids in 3 different schools in less than 6 months and allegedly not providing food for her son.

Anyhow I’m ditching them all.

And I’m doing self care today. Luxury shit. Solo. And I’m leaving out looking Snag-a-sugardaddy ready.

No one better not say shit to me.

Marina Starr
11-07-2021, 08:16 AM
Sometimes I get annoyed and pissy with myself because my moods are so volatile. I have to remind myself that's why I'm in Therapy to help me sort things out. Some days are better than others and I truly believe in better.

One of my biggest triggers is when I'm driving and I can see and feel someone staring at me through their left side mirror when their eyes should be on the road. In that moment I hate the uncomfortable feeling like I'm an being stared at as some animal at the zoo. It is also because their eyes are not focusing on the road so they always drive way slower than the speed limits and that also pisses me off; that sends my anxiety through the roof then next comes rage.