View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
charlie61
11-11-2021, 11:17 AM
We're traveling today for the first time in years (due to covid), and my man seems moody / down this morning. I feel like he often gets this way when it's the day of something we've been planning for a while, which confuses me. Anyone else experience that in themselves or their partner?
Going to try to just do my thing and not let it affect me. I'm really not into astrology, but he's a Gemini and definitely seems to fit the description. I don't really experience moods for the most part, so my mood is whatever it needs to be depending on the activities we have planned. I just don't relate.
trustfundkiller
11-11-2021, 11:37 AM
We're traveling today for the first time in years (due to covid), and my man seems moody / down this morning. I feel like he often gets this way when it's the day of something we've been planning for a while, which confuses me. Anyone else experience that in themselves or their partner?
Going to try to just do my thing and not let it affect me. I'm really not into astrology, but he's a Gemini and definitely seems to fit the description. I don't really experience moods for the most part, so my mood is whatever it needs to be depending on the activities we have planned. I just don't relate.
I love to travel but I'm usually irritable the day of, because of the stress of traveling and then I don't initially like being out of my element/leaving behind my home. Once I've arrived at my destination, I'm usually excited to be there and can get acclimated quite quickly. Maybe it's something like this?
trustfundkiller
11-11-2021, 11:41 AM
I sprained my toe. I was falling and about to twist my ankle, but somehow I overcorrected and ended up rolling over my toe instead. It's bruised, swollen twice it's size and it feels numb to walk on. I don't think it's broken, or I'm sure I'd know. But even then, what can be done anyway? It's not like they can make a cast for a toe. So, I guess I'm going to take it easy and work from bed this weekend.
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 12:16 PM
^ Charlie : I was going to say the same! You might just be seeing the “ pouty “ temporary travel day blahs. Once arrived / settled it will probably go away.
indiegirl
11-11-2021, 12:49 PM
I have a November 22nd start day apparently on nursing school (just got off the phone).......HMMMM.....this is a dilemma. I have to get vaccinated, pass a background check, and pass a drug test for weed and alcohol for clinicals. LORDDD. This happened sooner than I thought. I was aiming for 100k and to not be vaccinated....so much for that. I'm at 80k if I get accepted finally into a program. I wanted to throw a big baby hissy fit over the vaccination necessity...but I oddly didn't and getting the pfizer one if I have to. My mom said moderna is the best so I chose the weaker of the two if this all goes down and I'm accepted.
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-11-2021, 12:50 PM
Mad at myself for eating so much to avoid having a cigarette....
charlie61
11-11-2021, 01:39 PM
I love to travel but I'm usually irritable the day of, because of the stress of traveling and then I don't initially like being out of my element/leaving behind my home. Once I've arrived at my destination, I'm usually excited to be there and can get acclimated quite quickly. Maybe it's something like this?
^ Charlie : I was going to say the same! You might just be seeing the “ pouty “ temporary travel day blahs. Once arrived / settled it will probably go away.
You guys are probably right. It's really bizarre. And it often does feel like he's upset with me, honestly, like he has misattributed his travel nerves for something I've done. It's the silent treatment, which is torture for me. But I'm so non-reactive that fights never happen. Whenever we have big plans like this, his energy is almost always weird, depressive, silent-treatment vibes.
And he's the type who has travel in his blood - he loves traveling, whereas I'm more reserved. It's after noon, he hasn't eaten breakfast (seems like he's setting himself up for energy depletion), and he just laid down for a nap...?? We leave in an hour or so. Just kind of annoying to me that this is a pattern. He's not good at communicating when it comes to his feelings, so talking about it isn't a useful option. I just have to wait it out.
We're going to visit my father, and it never feels good to show up as a couple with bad energy, like something is wrong with our relationship. I hope he can get over himself before we arrive there.
Sigh...
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 01:49 PM
^ Do you have plans for yourselves at a hotel also ?
V.S. staying with family I mean ?
He may be frustrated with the idea of staying with family also the whole time ( if that's happening ).
If that is what it is a night or two booked at a hotel could be a nice way to bring the good vibes back.
miss.a.p1600
11-11-2021, 01:50 PM
We're traveling today for the first time in years (due to covid), and my man seems moody / down this morning. I feel like he often gets this way when it's the day of something we've been planning for a while, which confuses me. Anyone else experience that in themselves or their partner?
Going to try to just do my thing and not let it affect me. I'm really not into astrology, but he's a Gemini and definitely seems to fit the description. I don't really experience moods for the most part, so my mood is whatever it needs to be depending on the activities we have planned. I just don't relate.
The day of is still hectic even if its planned.
For me its having to be more structured even though it's supposed to be a 'relaxing' getaway. For example, remembering to pack everything (must make adequate checklists), making the most of the time (n not laying away inside the hotel room ordering room service) so planning activities/creating itinerary and just being out of the normal comfort zone.
Then again I believe men have their moody moments aka 'male pms'
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 01:54 PM
^ For me on a travel day I have to have time " buffers " . I get everywhere early ( eliminates my anxiety ) .
It's funny travel is being brought up.
I have to admit that I feel a little relieved our Seattle trip may be cancelled or pushed back. :)
charlie61
11-11-2021, 02:17 PM
You all are so sweet, thank you for the support! He definitely doesn't have any issues with the trip itself. Like Miss P said, it's male PMS or something. I'm sure he'll either get over it or will eventually tell me what's upsetting him. As usual, it'll be something that a two-minute conversation could've cleared up. But until he uses his words, I'm just going to leave him alone. I gently asked him if he was upset with me since it's very clear that he is, and he averted his eyes and claimed to not be upset (this is what he does every time, and confesses a couple of days later that he was upset, and either apologizes at that time or we talk it out very quickly).
So I'm just going to leave him alone and try to project neutral vibes until his emotional constipation subsides. This just always happens when we have plans, like he's trying to sabotage the entire thing. Love this for us today. Love it.
charlie61
11-11-2021, 02:31 PM
He really enjoys being around my father, and we've both been so excited to visit, since my father recently built his dream home, and we haven't seen it yet. We'll have our own room, bathroom, plenty of space, quiet house, relaxed vibes. My partner has been so excited for this trip. He packed in thirty seconds, so no stress around that. He even loves being at the airport and flying.
Anyway, I'll stop ranting. Thank you for listening!
indiegirl
11-11-2021, 02:37 PM
I thought I was hilarious waltzing my way to the front desk of a nice hotel and being given instant access to my room after hearing the pair in front of me have to wait 3 hours. Felt like a superstar hahaha because I have so many points on my file they prolly are surprised. I can’t even access my internet which is what I need so I have to use my phone. Great lollllll! I basically live at this hotel nowadays. I felt like a VIP for like 2 minutes hahaha!
Update: internet fixed :)
WendiStarr
11-11-2021, 03:40 PM
^ I've dated a Gemini before and I found that whenever I gave him some space and did my own thing for a day or 2, he's stop his moody crap and go back to normal.
I'm annoyed with stupid teenagers. Apparently a truck load of the bastards thought it would be funny to knock everybody's mailboxes off on my street. Annoying. I wonder if it's another stupid TikTok trend.
whirlerz
11-11-2021, 03:53 PM
Soo, after.all.this
I get an email, from the agency that to call them to 'discuss the position' ::)
Already know I'm now canned
They said someone 'made a mistake' when extending an offer.. Riiight ::), highly doubt that.
Then they're trying to get out of paying me for 15 minutes?
I sent them an email, saying I was leaving in a few minutes BUT, I saw the guy's who were handing out equipment, I asked them to get the HR lady, they said they would.. We spoke for a few, then I mentioned I had to use bathroom, & she let me..
So yea it took 15 minutes to do all that, I had to look for the bldg, since 2 bldgs had same address # one was just individual offices, no names on the bldgs of course!
She said a, trainer would call me, & I didn't answer, (still pissed). I did get back by email, I was having phone issues too, which I told them!
So I guess offer was rescinded, altho they tried to spin it as, 'a bizarre mistake'? ::)
The whole thing was a BS cluster fuck, & a waste of time + migraine, literally!
Yes I signed 50 pages of paperwork, was hired thru an agency, went thru an extensive background check + a drug test.
So I'm sure they had me sign away any rights I may have..
I just hate having wasted all my time, +not having looked for another job in the meantime..
The agency that hired me said I'm still their employee? Uh no, cause I don't work for them.
They probably won't deal w/me any more, (so be it) since I blasted that one B, trying to wrangle out of paying me the 15 minutes she owes me, on top of the 2.5 hours I sat in my car, when I wasn't even hired in the first place.
I was in touch w/agency recruiter the whole time I was waiting , she did nothing as far as contacting them.
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 04:49 PM
^ I think they owe you a days pay though.
How else were you supposed to make the money. You held that time for them.
I bet they will give it to you if you threaten court action.
The small claims court will just give you the paper to fill out.
You could just fill it out and send them a picture.
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 04:54 PM
Omg this last visit ( J’s daughter ) was so long.
Literally.
It was a 4 day one ( rare ).
I don’t think I’ll ever do 4 nights here again !
AirBnB escape !
Also weird quirks.
She goes to other house at 10:30am typically but it was 3 today.
J is worried. The person behind her at school got covid.
:/
So we didn’t have her go today ( duh ) .
She has only been vaxxed 4 days . It’s worrying but she is good about wearing a mask.
carmen_b
11-11-2021, 05:02 PM
It feels like it’s been a million years waiting to get some dick.
I was in pain Sunday and then out of it Monday and life was hectic M-W.
Oh actually yesterday may have been on me oops ( I was settling after this convo we had ).
:/
I’m sitting here waiting lol .
J is like “ oh what’s wrong “.
What’s wrong is I’ve been waiting since 4pm and it’s 5:05 lol.
moneybags
11-11-2021, 06:04 PM
It feels like it’s been like a million years waiting to get some dick.
I was in pain Sunday and then out of it Monday and life was hectic M-W.
Oh actually yesterday may have been on me oops ( I was settling after this convo we had ).
:/
I’m sitting here waiting lol .
J is like “ oh what’s wrong “.
What’s wrong is I’ve been waiting since 4pm and it’s 5:05 lol.
I know the feeling. Feeling frustrated that my crush has a girlfriend. Grrr. “Break up with your girlfriend cause I’m bored.”
I’m kinda pissy that M was flirting with me even though he had a girlfriend. He definitely wasn’t acting like a taken man. I’ll keep it professional whenever I see him, and I’ll get over it. I’m still pissy about though. I’ll just focus on better myself and do my best to ignore him.
miss.a.p1600
11-11-2021, 06:13 PM
L said he would be kind of okay if his unstable ex wife left out of town again with their kids because he didn’t want anything to “ruin” our relationship
Well kids themselves won’t ruin a relationship but experiencing disorganized scheduling, kids who don’t have their needs met n aren’t contributing to society cause their parents are train wrecks, and dealing with the “I cant take you on a date cause I have to pay my child support” IS a one way ticket to I will leave anything that presents like baggage and liability
He wanted me to reassure him.
But ffs! I am not going to coddle a grown man - I am clear that I do NOT want to baggage n liability. I have enough of that by myself I don’t need extra people tacking on to it.
If that’s you your ex wife or your kids then step up, get your life together, or lose your blessings
chanzep
11-11-2021, 08:55 PM
Miss P he should be showing you that he wants you happy and getting things in order not asking you to reassure him.
You should assure him that if he doesn't get things inline like scheduling and finances that you will leave. The schedule an be arranged now if he knows his work times and she has no job.
chanzep
11-11-2021, 08:58 PM
Whirlez sorry to hear about that job what assholes. So rude to waste all your time.
I'm not sure if your only wanting to work from home but a lot of retailers are paying way more than before. Lots of jobs doing sign on bonus too.
whirlerz
11-12-2021, 06:08 AM
Whirlez sorry to hear about that job what assholes. So rude to waste all your time.
I'm not sure if your only wanting to work from home but a lot of retailers are paying way more than before. Lots of jobs doing sign on bonus too.
Thank you, Chanz!
Getting sick of the wah's.
I applied for a temp retail job, & still looking, thanks
whirlerz
11-12-2021, 06:55 AM
^ I think they owe you a days pay though.
How else were you supposed to make the money. You held that time for them.
I bet they will give it to you if you threaten court action.
The small claims court will just give you the paper to fill out.
You could just fill it out and send them a picture.
I think that would go thru the labor board tho?
I can go on nolo.com & check.
Thank you. I'm still upset over it.
moneybags
11-12-2021, 10:02 PM
Guys who use to work in the industry acting like they know me. Ugh. Talking about how we all blow our money on drugs. I don’t think in my years of dancing I’ve ever bought drugs with my stripper money. I don’t even drink.
You must get invited to a lot of parties with that positive attitude
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-13-2021, 05:33 AM
Guys who use to work in the industry acting like they know me. Ugh. Talking about how we all blow our money on drugs. I don’t think in my years of dancing I’ve ever bought drugs with my stripper money. I don’t even drink.
You must get invited to a lot of parties with that positive attitude
A lot of ex-addicts do this too (assuming all sex workers are in the biz for drug money.) IMO these guys are used to making shallow assumptions in general.
My petty annoyance for the day- house cleaning. It's never finished.
chanzep
11-13-2021, 10:40 AM
Working today, this is my last day with this company and I decided to do my last shift to have a good paycheck smh. Glad to be moving in the company was getting stupid. Demanding I work 6 days a week or not have my 2 days off together !!. Yesterday was my day off. All this for a temp job. Plus I saw they allowed a few of old employee to keep old schedule smh.
JGB2009
11-13-2021, 12:00 PM
When you tell yourself that your not gonna get mad but you find yourself getting mad anyways, ugh.
Marina Starr
11-13-2021, 01:43 PM
A little pissy rant:
I wasn't aware how women are still so oppressed. The nice, polite and sweet mindset is so deeply ingrained that they'd rather feel unsafe and uncomfortable because they don't want to come across as unladylike. Their way of thinking is so twisted and problematic that they rather blame other women who stood up for themselves and not perpetrators.
These are some of the many reasons why women are still paid less than men. This is why it's no surprise that male bosses think why should women be treated equally when many don't even have each other's back.
chanzep
11-13-2021, 04:31 PM
Working today has made me feel sad and lonley. I wouldn't even be bothered to spend a Saturday alone wtf.
ravenskyy
11-13-2021, 08:42 PM
I just calculated how much debt I'm in and it's a lot! Thank you covid, for screwing up my life. Not only am I in more debt than I've ever been in before, but my anxiety and depression is the worse that it's ever been. And on top of all of this bs, I got covid a year ago and I'm STILL trying to heal from it. I'm so freaking pissed off! I hate this. I hate all of this!
Fuck you covid!
JGB2009
11-13-2021, 09:09 PM
My happiness was short lived. Fuck you!!!!
WendiStarr
11-14-2021, 08:38 AM
Anxiety about getting pre-eclampsia again. As far as I know I don't have it but I keep getting scared thinking about it. I hate going up and down the stairs to do laundry because my heart races afterwards and I'm scared that that means I'm going to develop pre-eclampsia.
miss.a.p1600
11-14-2021, 09:46 AM
^Can you find someone who is trained in this sort of thing to check if you have it or not?
I wouldn't go up n down stairs if I were you either. Can you see if some neighbors or someone trustworthy can help you with the laundry?
whirlerz
11-14-2021, 10:15 AM
Yea, Wendi, can you get like a mom's helper to help you around the house?
Raven, Chanz, MsP, & all you Ladies, love all!!!:-*
miss.a.p1600
11-14-2021, 03:25 PM
Super glad Bertha’s kids are gone.
L had the audacity to ask “what time do y’all want to leave”
Um no sir you do not give kids that kind of option.
Thankfully his daughter said she wanted to leave just a moment ago (ahead of the time L planned to keep them here).
Then he’s like “why you want to leave so early?”
Ffs! Who gives a shit why. If she wants to leave early, take them BOTH back to Bertha….early.
LoveyD
11-14-2021, 03:56 PM
Anxiety about getting pre-eclampsia again. As far as I know I don't have it but I keep getting scared thinking about it. I hate going up and down the stairs to do laundry because my heart races afterwards and I'm scared that that means I'm going to develop pre-eclampsia.
You can get yourself a blood pressure cuff to make sure your blood pressure isn't elevated. This checks for protein in urine too
https://www.walmart.com/ip/Rapid-Test-Complete-Urinalysis-Test-Strips-100-Tests-UTI-Strips-Kidney-Gallbladder-pH-Glucose-and-Liver-Function/318385684?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=10143&&adid=22222222228136030805&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=m&wl3=244224526215&wl4=pla-399875042306&wl5=9031336&wl6=&wl7=&wl8=&wl9=pla&wl10=118786619&wl11=online&wl12=318385684&veh=sem&gclid=Cj0KCQiAhMOMBhDhARIsAPVml-G_ftmfMJN5fRg-xYmawj_5SkJQsM_F8x_eHy0bVYsQgfmlSOdryYAaAhFyEALw_w cB&gclsrc=aw.ds
Aurora_Sunset
11-14-2021, 06:27 PM
I got 7 scam calls in an hour from different numbers trying to convince me that I had a "suspiciously large Amazon order" on my account. Lol, yeah, ok. Like I can't check that on an app on my phone in 2 seconds.
indiegirl
11-14-2021, 07:10 PM
Annoyed over my choice to watch a romance film after makeup and tanner LOL!
I just applied sunless tanner and I put emphasis on how rarely I watch romantic movies because it's not really my thing. Did my makeup and everything. Watched Love Hard on netflix, while holding a napkin to my eyes so I don't have sunless spray streaks and my makeup looking disheveled after the ending. That movie is such a reminder to me because I can be very shallow with men whenever I've decided to date in the past and sometimes it is their personality that is all you need. Kinda makes you think of all the guys that get passed up on dating sites because they aren't physically attractive, which is sad.
But mannnn the ones who were unattractive I've dated in the past were both that way inside and out LOL.
charlie61
11-14-2021, 08:03 PM
A little pissy rant:
I wasn't aware how women are still so oppressed. The nice, polite and sweet mindset is so deeply ingrained that they'd rather feel unsafe and uncomfortable because they don't want to come across as unladylike. Their way of thinking is so twisted and problematic that they rather blame other women who stood up for themselves and not perpetrators.
These are some of the many reasons why women are still paid less than men. This is why it's no surprise that male bosses think why should women be treated equally when many don't even have each other's back.
Couldn't agree more. I write a lot of emails at work, and I'm trying to remove all of the crap i tend to add to emails that softens whatever I'm communicating. Emails from my male colleagues don't contain, "sorry to bug you!" and similar. I'm trying to emulate that style while still being myself / being personable.
indiegirl
11-14-2021, 09:58 PM
Couldn't agree more. I write a lot of emails at work, and I'm trying to remove all of the crap i tend to add to emails that softens whatever I'm communicating. Emails from my male colleagues don't contain, "sorry to bug you!" and similar. I'm trying to emulate that style while still being myself / being personable.
Exactly. Sometimes it's hard to be yourself in this world. Everyone talked about how sweet and kind and nice my brother's wife is. It's hard to be that subservient person when not working because over time your true self comes out and men want a bambi type to marry. The below is what I expect when my time comes LOL:
https://i.ibb.co/vz5VqBF/Screen-Shot-2021-11-14-at-8-54-12-PM.png (https://imgbb.com/)
I'm crossing my fingers for an appointment or two tonight before my nursing zoom interview in the morning. I've been sitting on my ass waiting for like 8 hours. 3 movies down. And if I get accepted I have a bunch of things to do in a week before classes start. I've been posting a lot lately fucking bored monitoring my email accounts for work. It's been slow and on day 3 and running out of time if nursing school is a thumbs up tomorrow.
miss.a.p1600
11-14-2021, 10:19 PM
L had the gall to ask “how do you feel when my kids come over? Are you like ‘ugh! damn here come his kids’?”
Boy stop asking dumb rhetorical questions
In my mind I’m like “of course that’s what I think”
But I had to just change the subject cause I’m not going to lie n pretend I’m overjoyed by those loud crumbsnatchers invading my space - most times at random.
carmen_b
11-15-2021, 10:47 AM
^ Yes I don’t think you can ever win with an “ I’m annoyed by your kids “ statement ha. I’m sure he knows they test your patience.
If HE is choosing a lot of time with them most of it needs to be handled by him. :)
Is he giving you 48 hours notice now for everything?
If not today is a great day to start !!
indiegirl
11-15-2021, 11:54 AM
L had the gall to ask “how do you feel when my kids come over? Are you like ‘ugh! damn here come his kids’?”
Boy stop asking dumb rhetorical questions
In my mind I’m like “of course that’s what I think”
But I had to just change the subject cause I’m not going to lie n pretend I’m overjoyed by those loud crumbsnatchers invading my space - most times at random.
Haha I dunno how you've lasted this long with him. You have much more patience than most people. I would've destroyed this relationship with my big mouth a long time ago LOLL.
I'm already bitter I have to do this stupid zoom interview for nursing school right now and it's only for 30 minutes. Can't imagine spending hours with someone else's kids.
TheBrownFox
11-16-2021, 05:44 PM
I better start seeing other models winning this ManyVids Live contest besides just top row MVLive models, or I'm gonna throw a fit. Lol. Start announcing names of other MvLive models who AREN'T raking in 5k/month on the site. They're announcing all the names on the MV Twitter account.
I've been logged into that dead ass site (because of this contest) since like 12:20 PM EST, so that's over 7 hours. Not a single token earned.
lilylilylily
11-16-2021, 10:10 PM
Some dude approached me while I was on my way to the grocery store. We chatted, seemed ok and we exchanged numbers. He tells me right off the bat he's looking for a relationship and not sex. The only date idea he came up with was either his or my place though...yup he wasn't looking for sex 🙄 I told him nope, not gonna happen. He hasn't responded lol
kimbe
11-17-2021, 01:55 AM
Haha I dunno how you've lasted this long with him. You have much more patience than most people. I would've destroyed this relationship with my big mouth a long time ago LOLL.
I couldn't agree more..
JGB2009
11-17-2021, 04:43 AM
Some dude approached me while I was on my way to the grocery store. We chatted, seemed ok and we exchanged numbers. He tells me right off the bat he's looking for a relationship and not sex. The only date idea he came up with was either his or my place though...yup he wasn't looking for sex I told him nope, not gonna happen. He hasn't responded lol
LOL he couldn't even suggest the movies etc. LOL did he ever respond back?
WendiStarr
11-17-2021, 07:44 AM
I blocked my mom's number and somehow the cunt is still able to text me from the same number that I blocked her from. I don't get how she's able to still text me. Wtf! I don't want any contact with the evil, toxic bitch!
carmen_b
11-17-2021, 07:46 AM
Wtf ? Such a strong start and then that ?
Nah.
I’m so curious what the hell goes through these guys minds . If he is on a budget he could suggest something budget friendly . I’m sure they realize how gross it is to suggest a non-public date ? They have to !!
I think 90% of them are just being cheap ?
Some dude approached me while I was on my way to the grocery store. We chatted, seemed ok and we exchanged numbers. He tells me right off the bat he's looking for a relationship and not sex. The only date idea he came up with was either his or my place though...yup he wasn't looking for sex �� I told him nope, not gonna happen. He hasn't responded lol