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whirlerz
11-19-2021, 07:04 PM
Lol Ms P!
You go girl.

He really tries to 'work' you w/those kids doesn't he?

It's the eclipse (imo), it's fucking w/me too..

That shitty job that 'hired' me, then decided they didn't ::) wasting my time to pick up equipment, sitting in my car for 3 hrs, short-payed me like I knew they would, fuckers.

I'm going to ask for a pay stub (I had a direct deposit) & we'll see, m/f's. PIGS>:(

chanzep
11-19-2021, 08:19 PM
Miss P good for you. Your not responsible for his childcare him and Bertha can manage like they always have. They should of made arrangements .Your right he needs to plan his life around his kids.

LoveyD
11-19-2021, 10:32 PM
I'm just feeling really sad today. These holidays are going to be hard. Been crying a lot bc I don't think I'll ever find a guy who's right for me. At the same time, I want to be alone bc I am so tired of the drama guys put me through.
My book isn't selling at all.

I don't have friends IRL.

My son is the only bright spot in my life.

Just feeling so beat up by life. Like there's a lot I just want to give up on.

whirlerz
11-19-2021, 11:57 PM
Aw!^

I'm sorry, Lovey, I was wondering about you!

I'm the same way..I have a really hard time w/the holidays, even minor ones

I KNOW it will get better for you, hugs, I'm here for you if need be

AChildOfBoredom
11-20-2021, 02:02 AM
Starting Sunday, I have to deal with not one, but two sets of Mennonite parents. Don’t get me wrong - I love my parents, but they can be a real pain in the ass when they get a mind to be. The biggest thing will be finding something to keep my mother occupied while we’re making Thanksgiving dinner, because it’s not easy for her to sit that out. I suggested that S and her girlfriend just be guests this year, relax, maybe entertain the kiddos, but they and everyone here actually wants to be a part of it and have a role in it, so we have everything pretty much covered. And I am grateful that the people here feel that way.

Of course his parents want to see where he’s working, and they didn’t specify exactly when, so I’m a little on edge about that. The personalities on the shop are quite… colorful. It was already bad enough the time the parents of the mute girl who rides at the equestrian center showed up. I was welding, and there was a straw broom close to where I was working (which is weird, because it’s not a type we use in the shop). I ended up catching the bristles on fire accidentally, so I grabbed it, pretended like I was a witch riding their broom, and I was cackling and such, then I see her parents all wide eyed and weirded out. I can just imagine if his parents walked in on me in a situation like that (if I’m going to be honest, I wouldn’t really call the broom shenanigans a one off thing).

WendiStarr
11-20-2021, 07:04 AM
I had a doctor appointment yesterday and they drew blood work. My BP was elevated at 140/90. They told me to continue taking baby aspirin. I got an email from the doctor's office that test results are available but I can't login to my account. It's super annoying because it said that I have to call my doctor's office to reset my password and the doctor's office is closed because it's the weekend. This means I will be having anxiety attacks continuously all weekend about it until I know about the results and if they were normal or concerning. Ugh!

miss.a.p1600
11-20-2021, 07:34 AM
L said he son wants to come over tonight.

Ugh!!!!!!!

Not 24 hours advance notice so……

I told him IM going out with family tonight. Might just even be solo if need be.

I’m taking a suitcase with some “snag a sugar daddy” clothes n accessories; n hitting the town.

I refuse to be sitting up in this house on a Saturday night with him n his son.

Just because you commit yourself to your bay bay kids literally 10 min after you leave work does not mean *I* want to commit myself to your kids on a Saturday night right after work.

I want some time to chill n be an adult without the responsibility.

Mf you gone learn today!!!!!!!

Spring your kids on me last minute, I’ll spring me going out on the town without you last minute.

Marina Starr
11-20-2021, 07:38 AM
It's totally okay to feel sad. Holidays are tough times for a lot of people. Not everyone gets along with their families so getting together for Holidays can be extremely depressing. A lot of people feel obligated to go but they can't wait to leave asap.

You are not alone. I don't have friends IRL either but I don't feel I'm missing out at all. I'm actually more than okay with it. I take good care of myself and enjoy my own company so friends become an option and not a necessity.


I'm just feeling really sad today. These holidays are going to be hard. Been crying a lot bc I don't think I'll ever find a guy who's right for me. At the same time, I want to be alone bc I am so tired of the drama guys put me through.
My book isn't selling at all.

I don't have friends IRL.

My son is the only bright spot in my life.

Just feeling so beat up by life. Like there's a lot I just want to give up on.

miss.a.p1600
11-20-2021, 07:39 AM
In addition to his kid being over here.

Yeah L coddles tf out of his son.

I told him upfront AND I’m putting a sign on the door. You enter this house means you agree to clean up after yourself. You will complete the chores I’ll assign you n if I get any push back you can go right back to Berthas house.

miss.a.p1600
11-20-2021, 08:13 AM
It will be okay Lovey.

Like Marina mentioned the holidays can be challenging for many people.

Push through and remind yourself of the good things going in your life n those around you.

Will you be spending time with your son this holiday?

whirlerz
11-20-2021, 09:08 AM
I don't have friends OR fam, I'm used to being alone, but I don't like it, not all the time.

I have my one guy friend that helps me out, he's going to check out a new extended stay today. He also has a sick aunt so I try not bother him too much.

Anyway, my balance & equilibrium is messed up, & I'm dizzy. I have to be careful getting up & down.
I have my 2 canes+ a crutch.

I'd go to the Dr, but not today Saturday.

chanzep
11-20-2021, 02:35 PM
I'm sorry Lovey. Holidays can be lonley. I I understand how you feel.
All my real for are in different states or overseas. My so called friends here are not interested now I moved a hour away. When I lived in Uptown they always wanted to hang out. I moved a hour away to get away from my evil ex and have up a lot. I have no car now and get told. let me know if your in the city. Yes sure I'm going to take $50 uber just to hang out. I had to take uber when looking for places and spent a lot . I'm not spending $100 just to come to the city. One of my friends used to hang out in this area all the time earlier this year we used to drive from the city together but now it's too far. Even on my birthday. Maybe I expect too much from people. If the other way round I would at least offer to come to that area or drive them back and let them get one uber. Smh
My husband uncle has invited me for the holidays as always which I enjoy because we get along.
I am ranting because my period is here but I expect my friends to be there for me when I finally get away from the evil man I moved across the world to be with .

LoveyD
11-20-2021, 02:42 PM
It's totally okay to feel sad. Holidays are tough times for a lot of people. Not everyone gets along with their families so getting together for Holidays can be extremely depressing. A lot of people feel obligated to go but they can't wait to leave asap.

You are not alone. I don't have friends IRL either but I don't feel I'm missing out at all. I'm actually more than okay with it. I take good care of myself and enjoy my own company so friends become an option and not a necessity.

Thanks Marina. I enjoy my own company too because I am funny and I have fun. I'm glad I have you ladies to chat with. I appreciate the support here.

Bought myself a few inexpensive treats to cheer myself up. Focusing on myself and just taking care of me is what I want to focus on now.

Once I get my own place for kiddo and me I will probably feel a lot better. Having my son around keeps me.calm. Plus he is the only male in my life iwho is kind and respectful to me. Why? Because I raised him that way.

Chanzep I'm sorry that your friends don't come to see you more, especially seeing that you moved to have some peace.It can be very isolating for abuse survivors when you need your tribe bit they are nowhere to be found.

Whirlerz- Take it slow and easy. I hope the doc can help you once you go in.

Thank Goddess for you gals.

LoveyD
11-20-2021, 02:47 PM
I had a doctor appointment yesterday and they drew blood work. My BP was elevated at 140/90. They told me to continue taking baby aspirin. I got an email from the doctor's office that test results are available but I can't login to my account. It's super annoying because it said that I have to call my doctor's office to reset my password and the doctor's office is closed because it's the weekend. This means I will be having anxiety attacks continuously all weekend about it until I know about the results and if they were normal or concerning. Ugh!

Wendi I know it sucks. I hope you can find ways to pamper yourself . I know it's hard but try not to stress bc it won't solve anything. You're doing everything you can to ensure that you and the baby are healthy. That's all you can do.

kamiliam
11-20-2021, 03:10 PM
It's totally okay to feel sad. Holidays are tough times for a lot of people. Not everyone gets along with their families so getting together for Holidays can be extremely depressing. A lot of people feel obligated to go but they can't wait to leave asap.

You are not alone. I don't have friends IRL either but I don't feel I'm missing out at all. I'm actually more than okay with it. I take good care of myself and enjoy my own company so friends become an option and not a necessity.


Looking like I will be alone for Christmas this year due to circumstances beyond my control. I’m sad about it, I’m sad about the circumstances too. I think I would be more content with doing my own thing if I didn’t have big energy sucking people/duties right around the holidays, just to be alone on the day.

LoveyD
11-20-2021, 07:18 PM
I need to head back to the dispensary tomorrow morning. My CPTSD is out of control.I keep screaming at my dead parents while I'm driving around, hoping that they are rotting in hell for what they did to my siblings and me. I think it may be time to find a good therapist again. My other one was okay, but I need someone who can help me with CPTSD from having a horrible anxiety-ridden childhood.

chanzep
11-20-2021, 07:58 PM
Lovey I hope you can feel better and find a good therapist. I really hope you are able to find a nice place soon and it enjoy it with your son.

LoveyD
11-20-2021, 08:25 PM
^^ Thank you Chanzep. I know I need help. They fucked my life up so bad, and now I'm the one who has to pick up the pieces.

chanzep
11-20-2021, 11:45 PM
Sorry you will be alone for Christmas Kamilliam . I have done it twice hopefully you won't feel too drained and can relax.

Marina Starr
11-21-2021, 07:04 AM
What annoys me today is Panera never answer their phone or just put you on hold until you had enough and hang up.
I went this morning because I wanted their souffles, there was no one at the register to help while I'm just standing there.
It's extremely awkward so I had to go back to their take out counter and asked twice 'excuse me, excuse' to to get their attention. I know they heard me the first time.

Of course I had to be condescending because I was annoyed once I'm being helped a the counter.
I don't know how long I would be standing there if I didn't go back and get someone to help.

TheBrownFox
11-21-2021, 07:34 AM
What annoys me today is Panera never answer their phone or just put you on hold until you had enough and hang up.
I went this morning because I wanted their souffles, there was no one at the register to help while I'm just standing there.
It's extremely awkward so I had to go back to their take out counter and asked twice 'excuse me, excuse' to to get their attention. I know they heard me the first time.

Of course I had to be condescending because I was annoyed once I'm being helped a the counter.
I don't know how long I would be standing there if I didn't go back and get someone to help.


I missed the bus once waiting on them to give me my bagel (non-toasted) with cream cheese, which made me miss Law and Order SVU. Lol. Thought I'd be able to just quickly grab my bagel and go, but they were over there toasting it after I'd asked them not to. Lol. Kinda my fault, though, for going in there in the first place so close to the bus arrival time.

indiegirl
11-21-2021, 09:54 AM
I hate when I leave things accidentally at a customers house. I refer to it as donating it because I'm not going back for it unless it is of utter importance. So here I am spending 28 bucks on a new water tumbler with a straw. LOL

miss.a.p1600
11-21-2021, 09:56 AM
What annoys me today is Panera never answer their phone or just put you on hold until you had enough and hang up.
I went this morning because I wanted their souffles, there was no one at the register to help while I'm just standing there.
It's extremely awkward so I had to go back to their take out counter and asked twice 'excuse me, excuse' to to get their attention. I know they heard me the first time.

Of course I had to be condescending because I was annoyed once I'm being helped a the counter.
I don't know how long I would be standing there if I didn't go back and get someone to help.

My OCD kicks in whenever I go inside Panera.

Floors never clean, lemons always thawed from frozen n soggy, bathrooms a disgrace.

The craziest thing is it’s a hotbed for old wealthy sugar daddies. I guess they look past all of that unlike me.

indiegirl
11-21-2021, 10:00 AM
My OCD kicks in whenever I go inside Panera.

Floors never clean, lemons always thawed from frozen n soggy, bathrooms a disgrace.

The craziest thing is it’s a hotbed for old wealthy sugar daddies. I guess they look past all of that unlike me.


Ughhh panera. They take forever to make a freaking salad. Waiting 12 minutes is too long! Reminds me of going through Carls Jr. drive thru near my house and winding up turning my car off so I can save gas while I wait.

whirlerz
11-21-2021, 10:38 AM
Ha - I ordered some fancy coffee drink, time ticking by.. 0.
So I asked some lady, she was a Mgr which Idk.. She gave those guys hell, I got my drink AND my $ back! (I didn't ask for the $)

miss.a.p1600
11-21-2021, 10:44 AM
One of Berthas kids is here.

Being loud af.

Why the hell is L hollaring instead of getting his lazy ass up, walking into his son’s room, and talking to him in a normal voice tone.

Ratchet mfs!

The silver lining is his daughter stayed where she belongs……..with her mom.

I can’t wait till they both leave this house today

whirlerz
11-21-2021, 10:47 AM
OMG, w/the "how far should I take.. BS?
Pulleese.:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I was going to read, but it's soo long, that other person's him too.

Lawd::)

whirlerz
11-21-2021, 10:57 AM
My OCD kicks in whenever I go inside Panera.

Floors never clean, lemons always thawed from frozen n soggy, bathrooms a disgrace.

The craziest thing is it’s a hotbed for old wealthy sugar daddies. I guess they look past all of that unlike me.

DAMN ^ Gonna have to check it out, I have coupons for Pantera!


One of Berthas kids is here.

Being loud af.

Why the hell is L hollaring instead of getting his lazy ass up, walking into his son’s room, and talking to him in a normal voice tone.

Ratchet mfs!

The silver lining is his daughter stayed where she belongs……..with her mom.

I can’t wait till they both leave this house today

Sorry to hear, MsP!

Marina Starr
11-21-2021, 11:16 AM
Sometimes they just don't listen, lol.

I always start off nice because I know it's not easy dealing with people but I'm not afraid to be a bitch either.


I missed the bus once waiting on them to give me my bagel (non-toasted) with cream cheese, which made me miss Law and Order SVU. Lol. Thought I'd be able to just quickly grab my bagel and go, but they were over there toasting it after I'd ask them not to. Lol. Kinda my fault, though, for going in there in the first place so close to the bus arrival time.

Aurora_Sunset
11-21-2021, 04:40 PM
I picked up a shift for tomorrow and now feel sick as shit. My husband had the same thing a week ago, and I thought I avoided it because it had been so long without me showing symptoms too. I could use unpaid time to not go in tomorrow, but that just seems stupid considering I'm the one that put the shift on my schedule. Obviously, I didn't know I was gonna be sick, but still seems wasteful.

Aurora_Sunset
11-21-2021, 04:52 PM
Two, pretty critical, machines are broken at work. One has been down for over a week now, and the other for 2 days with no signs of progress. Not like it's a busy fucking time of year or anything...

I don't understand how our equipment is so jacked and goes down all the time. And that it takes so long to get it fixed. You'd think we're some rinky-dink operation, not freakin' Amazon.

JGB2009
11-21-2021, 05:44 PM
If you can't understand I am a mom first then go somewhere else with your needy ass.

indiegirl
11-21-2021, 07:23 PM
I had couch sex yesterday. It really bothers me when it's sprung on me last minute on the way there that he is a single dad with his kid sleeping in the next room (they share the same room apparently) and it's a 1 bedroom apartment. I don't like kids in the home. The part that was even more sad to me was when he told me not to set my water tumbler where it was at and I said "why?" He said he has lines of coke there.

Ah Jesus. Sometimes I think my life is hard and then someone checkmates me.

LoveyD
11-21-2021, 07:51 PM
OMG, w/the "how far should I take.. BS?
Pulleese.:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I was going to read, but it's soo long, that other person's him too.

Lawd::)

I didn't have the energy to read his drivel lol. Totally skimmed over it.

When I worked as a production assistant on a tv show a while back the director had us all meet at Panera for the table read. The place was a mess.

miss.a.p1600
11-21-2021, 08:13 PM
L is not smart at all when it comes to providing items for his kids.

Last Christmas he financed expensive new cell phones …… with insurance.

Those kids are distructive as hell and I’d never buy them anything expensive n nice cause they’d probably tear it up.

Now his daughter is crying because she dropped the phone and broke the screen. And it has a case on it so she probably took the case off or dropped it really hard.

Gawd I can’t wait till their asses are gone to work n school

charlie61
11-21-2021, 08:15 PM
I had couch sex yesterday. It really bothers me when it's sprung on me last minute on the way there that he is a single dad with his kid sleeping in the next room (they share the same room apparently) and it's a 1 bedroom apartment. I don't like kids in the home. The part that was even more sad to me was when he told me not to set my water tumbler where it was at and I said "why?" He said he has lines of coke there.

Ah Jesus. Sometimes I think my life is hard and then someone checkmates me.

Omg i feel like it'd be so hard to perform in that situation. Wtf.

indiegirl
11-21-2021, 08:44 PM
Omg i feel like it'd be so hard to perform in that situation. Wtf.

Exactly what I was thinking. I packed my laptop so I could blast music thinking he was just a late night party guy and the night went very different when he texted me from my uber that he had a son asleep.

chanzep
11-21-2021, 10:20 PM
Ugh I have been up late all weekend now I can't sleep early.

Marina Starr
11-22-2021, 07:47 AM
What the actual fuck is happening to this country? WAUKESHA

I feel it's gotten gravely dark.

LoveyD
11-22-2021, 08:40 AM
^^ People are not raising their kids right. That's my guess.

whirlerz
11-22-2021, 09:31 AM
There's Huge amount of car jacking there (I guess everywhere).

I posted an article in my local area forum, a guy left his wallet in car, didn't put on security thing that attaches to steering wheel, went for a walk, came back to find 2 - 13 yr Olds stealing his car, he starts recording them (I'd have called 911) they took the car for joyride, smashed it up, left it running, now he's out 7k & insurance won't pay.

Says he's suing kid's parents, & Hyundai.
Hyundai has some flaw that makes stealing easy.

I've read bad parenting is at the base of many crimes

LoveyD
11-22-2021, 01:06 PM
It's bad, lazy parenting.^^

Omfg my inner thighs hurt like hell from my workout yesterday.

I swear, the city where I live is getting more n more crowded every day. I'm seeing either Fla or TX plates all the time now because these ppl had to flee due to their shitty governors. When I moved here 22 yrs ago it was so different. Since 1999 the population has increased at least 15% and it's really affecting the quality of life here.It is getting more and more expensive. Why would I pay more to live here? I can't wait til I can move to the mts/country 40 min away where the town's population is only 15,000. I want to be with the fresh air and horses and goats and most of all, NO PEOPLE. And I can do Instacart out there too so I won't always have to commute to the city.

chanzep
11-22-2021, 07:00 PM
Don't schedule pickups with UPS automated service they won't come but they will charge you. I had to speak to agent and arrange pickup for tomorrow. Had to pay again too but he said my card won't charge until they collect. He said I have to cb to get 1st charge off as they close early smh.

miss.a.p1600
11-22-2021, 08:20 PM
I walk in the house L is laying on the bed looking pitiful like he’s about to cry or whatever.

I’m like bruh wtf?!?

He’s like “I have a lot on my mind” “I had a long day at work” ……..

He sits at a desk and does cushy office work all damn day for crying out loud.

I’m the one who’s in constant anxiety because he has “needs” and his delusional irrational desire to have a damn baby that he most likely isnt going to be able to adequately take care of right now is overriding my rational plans to wait BUT he’s the one with a lot on his mind.

Mkay…

miss.a.p1600
11-23-2021, 07:25 AM
L has this thing where he randomly will hollar out.

Yesterday he hollers when he went outside to take trash out. Im
Thinking he’s getting attacked by foxes then I ask him when he comes inside “wtf was that noise are you okay” he’s like “yeah I’m fine I just need to let it out”

Boy if you have Tourette’s then you need treatment.

This is prime reason why I like to be in this house ALONE.

I don’t want to hear him hollaring across the house to his kids (when he can easily walk to them
N talk in normal tone), burping loudly all the time, randomly hollaring out for no apparent reason, and laughing loudly when talking to his friends.

Then he gets offended when I call him out n tell him to stop. He feels like he can’t be himself.

Well mf when you’re in the presence of a queen you need to act like you have some class and maturity.

Your mom raised you wrong in this aspect.

Do all that obnoxious loud shit when you’re alone not when I’m here.

miss.a.p1600
11-23-2021, 07:50 AM
I walk in the house L is laying on the bed looking pitiful like he’s about to cry or whatever.

I’m like bruh wtf?!?

He’s like “I have a lot on my mind” “I had a long day at work” ……..

He sits at a desk and does cushy office work all damn day for crying out loud.

I’m the one who’s in constant anxiety because he has “needs” and his delusional irrational desire to have a damn baby that he most likely isnt going to be able to adequately take care of right now is overriding my rational plans to wait BUT he’s the one with a lot on his mind.

Mkay…

Well I guess I feel a slight twinge of guilt.

He admitted his grandmother is dying and it reminded him of his dying mother and it's triggering the sad memories of his mom he was close to dying around this time of year.

miss.a.p1600
11-23-2021, 10:52 AM
L tells me last minute again! Kids loud ass needy daughter wants to come over tonight. Not like I can object because I’m sure he instantly agreed right after she asked him.

Ugh!!!!!

Cotdamn can I get a longer break? Does he always have to rush over n pick them up right after he clocks on on his last day of work? Shit!

I wish he’d quit giving his daughter his schedule and coordinate with me first before agreeing to get them on a certain day.

I have had this conversation with him at least two times already.

I’m just going to disappear n do my own thing tonight. N not feel one ounce of guilt.

I’m sick of feeling not prepared because L can’t get a better schedule with his ex wife. Good thing L is buying groceries for them ima let him do the running around like a chicken with his head cut off while I do some solo self care…..

I’m glad it will only be a day or two. And he better not dare suggest or mention them
Wanting to be here when he’s not here.

carmen_b
11-23-2021, 11:01 AM
^ Can you really not set a rule with him to only do 3-4 days notice AHEAD and make those plans FIRM ?
I mean it's your house too and you are not limiting time with his kids. You are simply asking for some courtesy so you can get out and make alternative plans ( if you want ). You work from home. You should NOT be needing to scatter last minute. It is not too much to ask to know when the house will be quiet in advance.

I don't think you would be in the wrong at all to EVERY time he does something last minute to remind him that you ASKED for 3-4 days notice MINIMUM.

You've given him time to sort this disorganization out.

( take my advice with a grain of salt ...... haha .... my confessions thread shows my household does also not run perfectly )

I just firmly believe the last minute bull shit does not benefit anyone.

carmen_b
11-23-2021, 11:05 AM
^ I'd shove a calendar in his face and tell him to let you know the FULL schedule NOW 3-4 days ahead and tomorrow you want the FULL schedule for 6-7 days out.

I look at it at this point as he is disrespecting you.
You've clearly asked for what you want.

I mentioned before that I suspected he does the last minute shit on purpose ( in order to trap you into more time than you are prepared for ). I really hope it isn't the case . :/

miss.a.p1600
11-23-2021, 11:10 AM
I am discovering that he has a thick skull on this topic because I know I’ve made it known on at least 2-3 occasions that i want at least 24 hours advance notice.

He’s stuck in this pattern he’s been in since his divorce where he always says yes if they ask to
Come over and he just picks them up immediately after he gets off work. And every time we’ve discussed this topic he doubled down on why he gets then ppm without notifying me. And only ONCE did he actually give notice in advance

I’m feeling like a broken record at this point.

I think he might be it on purpose so I can’t bail when I know they’re coming and because he has this delusion that we will be a Happy Brady Bunch family and that I enjoy having his kids over at anytime. I lied and told him that they were welcome anytime but I meant that conditionally - as long as I get advance notice and they’re being resourceful (cleaning up after themselves, behaving respectfully, using anormal voice tone, n not bugging me for too much help with anything)