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zoezoebelle
04-27-2015, 02:32 PM
I've been a real hard-ass lately about no kissing my mouth, establishing my boundaries firmly, and yet I STILL have a cold sore today after those sneaky bastards manage to lick my face. STOP TRYING TO LICK MY MOUTH, YOU DISGUSTING CRETINS, AAARG. KEEP YOUR GERMS AWAY FROM ME.

OliveJardin
04-27-2015, 09:46 PM
Public transport-argh.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-28-2015, 07:27 AM
This is the ultimate 1st world problem complaint, but it's amusing-

I worked for a guy I will call "Jerk" a couple years ago. "Jerk" is nice to my boyfriend b/c Jerk sells a lot of expensive products to the business my boyfriend manages. Jerk belongs to the members-only Country Club here so my boyfriend mentioned he wants Jerk to take him there as a guest so they can golf.

I am really glad I was always nice to Jerk's face even though he got on my nerves and was as rude as fuck. By being the bigger person I didn't fuck up my boyfriend's chances to go golfing.
It just annoys me that boyfriend and Jerk are gonna have buddy time together on the links when I hate Jerk. I just have to get over it tho.


TL ; DR - Tolerating douchebags is hard for me

Aurora_Sunset
04-28-2015, 08:19 AM
A young girl, 2 weeks away from graduation, was murdered in cold blood the other night. The guy somehow picked her up (not sure of the details), drove her to a secluded area, bashed her head in, and left her in a field. This was a guy with a history of violence toward women, there was no sign of sexual assault - he was literally just out to kill a girl that night...

Obviously, it's a hot topic of conversation around here, and people keep saying shit like "That's why you don't get into a strange guy's car alone!" I know what they mean, but it makes me sick when there's even a hint of victim-blaming when it comes to the DEAD. This wasn't a "date gone wrong" - this was a guy whose intention that night was to murder a woman. Somebody was gonna get it, some way, and it pisses me off when people start trying to point to the girl who happened to be the unlucky one and start throwing out ways she could have "prevented" it. Like... have some fucking respect for a young life lost through nothing but the actions of the sick individual who wanted to kill someone that night.

I understand safety is an important thing to talk about, but the bottom line is victims of murder are victims of sick sick people, and I find it incredibly disrespectful to dissect their "wrong" actions leading up to their demise.

Aurora_Sunset
04-28-2015, 08:24 AM
^^ Along those same lines, this is bringing back into conversation a girl who disappeared about 4-5 years ago and still has not been found. People make shitty comments about her all the time, essentially blaming her for being stupid that night. ...Girl was 19! Like we haven't all done equally stupid shit when we were 19 and just happened to be lucky enough for it to not end badly?

I understand people say shit like this out of self-defense - the whole "Oh, it was her fault for being stupid, I would never do all the stupid things she did, so something like that would never happen to me" thing... I get it. But it's so disrespectful and blind. Everyone at some point, has done some stupid shit that could have ended badly, and they just got lucky. I think everyone also says it because they act like this is some sort of isolated, once-in-a-lifetime case... It's NOT. Girls fucking disappear in this area. They get abducted, they get murdered, or they straight up disappear, never to be found again or sometimes close to a damn decade... It HAPPENS, with surprising regularity around here.

People need to wake up and stop acting like this sort of shit doesn't happen in our town and that they would somehow be immune due to their "superior safety intelligence."

Ugh... anyway /rant

Selina M
04-28-2015, 08:57 AM
"That's why you don't get into a strange guy's car alone!" .

While it's very very true and sound advice that I would pound repeatedly into my daughter's head... it is totally ridiculous that that's even a thing I would need to pound into her head. It's sick that the world is so messed up, that you could be stranded on the roadside and instead of grateful for help, you have to wonder if that guy that just pulled over is going to throw you in his trunk and kill you.

kaninchen
04-28-2015, 08:59 AM
I dropped my phone last night as I was getting into bed and broke the screen. I forgot about it during the night. When my alarm went off this morning and I saw the ominous black streaks in the screen, I was both livid and confused. Not the best way to wake up.

Grumpy. Now I have to get a new phone. Ugh!

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-28-2015, 10:33 AM
^^ Along those same lines, this is bringing back into conversation a girl who disappeared about 4-5 years ago and still has not been found. People make shitty comments about her all the time, essentially blaming her for being stupid that night. ...Girl was 19! Like we haven't all done equally stupid shit when we were 19 and just happened to be lucky enough for it to not end badly?
People need to wake up and stop acting like this sort of shit doesn't happen in our town and that they would somehow be immune due to their "superior safety intelligence."

Ugh... anyway /rant

I truly feel people say boneheaded things to make themselves feel better about horrifying scenarioes that could really happen to anyone. It's easier to distance yourself from those things mentally than to accept that you could be targeted too.

I myself found out via an FBI info release that a famous serial killer had been bumping around in the same 20 mile radius as I was a few years ago. I was really emotionally traumatized....this guy's MO was to snatch random people in random places. He did like younger women but he was willing to to kill anyone. Due to my job at the time few people would have cared what had happened to me. For weeks after I found out I kept picturing what things would have been like if I had ran into that serial killer.

In short, you have to look at the whole picture when people say dumb things about horrible things. Noise is easier to deal with than accepting that some crazy piece of shit can take everything from you- your life, the peace of mind of your loved ones, your dignity.

KikiGem
04-28-2015, 11:41 AM
I am sooo fucking tired of girls at school who think they're hot shit giving me advice. I was doing a haircut and trying to figure out what he wanted for his style, and she interrupts from across the room and starts asking *my* customer what he wants, as if I didn't understand. Um, how about you mind your own business and stop trying to "help"? This isn't the first time either.

doesn't help that my teachers are the most unhelpful and can't teach for shit. They have no clue what they're talking about half the time then they pass their bad advice to me, and in the end I'm the one who looks like an idiot. Fuck them. Every day with this shit. I'm so fed up with it.

Aurora_Sunset
04-28-2015, 11:44 AM
I truly feel people say boneheaded things to make themselves feel better about horrifying scenarioes that could really happen to anyone. It's easier to distance yourself from those things mentally than to accept that you could be targeted too.


Yeah, I understand where it's coming from. I know it's a mental defense mechanism, and I try to remind myself of that and not go off on people. I just wish sometimes they would recognize how disrespectful saying certain things about the victim is, not only to the victim, but to the poor families of the victim who have to keep hearing people badmouthing/blaming/gossiping about their dead, young daughters. The girl who went missing a few years ago, there are still fliers up everywhere, and the poor family has actually dealt with people emailing/calling them to "give it up and stop cluttering up space around town with their worthless fliers." Like... I know the deep reason behind it is that they're probably just uncomfortable being constantly reminded of such an atrocity, but acting out in that way is just unacceptable. :(

Naida
04-28-2015, 05:23 PM
You send a single message, saying "you are a priority," yesterday morning but resume ignoring my messages for the rest of the day and couldn't be bothered today either? Bullshit. This is why I don't trust people. Back to celibacy.

kaninchen
04-28-2015, 05:27 PM
The girl who went missing a few years ago, there are still fliers up everywhere, and the poor family has actually dealt with people emailing/calling them to "give it up and stop cluttering up space around town with their worthless fliers." Like... I know the deep reason behind it is that they're probably just uncomfortable being constantly reminded of such an atrocity, but acting out in that way is just unacceptable. :(

That is some next-level coldness. Wow. I wonder how long those people would keep searching if it were their loved one missing.

xStacey
04-28-2015, 06:26 PM
The annoying cheap regular who never tips and keeps texting me just sent me a text message (again!) to give me a feed-back on a very good but affordable restaurant I suggested he should try. He's all whoa it was so good I can't believe it was so cheap too. I am almost tempted to say I hope you tipped the waiters ::) (he once said the same thing about the dance prices "ohh it's not expensive at all considering how upscale this place is and how good looking & nice you are" but never ever tips).

Aniela
04-28-2015, 06:37 PM
^^^^ I think you should go ahead & send him that comment abt tipping the waiters. If he refuses to pay you to be nice to him, maybe you'll luck out & he'll pay you for your snark.

miss.a.p1600
04-28-2015, 07:01 PM
I ask for a maintenance quote from my car dealer only for them to look at my care then tell me more stuff is wrong and need to be fixed now, essentially more than doubling the price. I don't want to seem like a broke ass who can't afford her own car so I agree but I am so pissed cause I can't afford this right now. Yeah I'm glad my car will be in good shape but damnit I don't want to part with all that money not all at once.

I am sad for my bank account which is going to take weeks to recover.

*sigh*

lynn2009
04-28-2015, 07:39 PM
I can't believe what unbelievable dicks city people are! I was doing laundry tonight and I went to switch it and there was some girl there waiting for her stuff to finish in the dryer while my stuff was done washing and I asked if I left 75 cents if she could please just throw my stuff in the dryer for me and she said sure. So now I've just gotten back from picking up my clothes and of course they were still wet, sitting on the counter and the 3 quarters I left were missing! Omfg! I must sound like the most naive girl on the planet but when I was in college I used to leave my computer at the library while I picked up dinner all the time. Not everyone is such an insane pos! And usually I would've taken my stuff to air dry but I've lost such a ridiculous amount of weight from being on Zoloft my jeans are so baggy it looks awful I wanted to shrink them a little.

Also I reactivatedy fb tonight for the first time in almost 2 years so I was already in a state of Omg why does this guy I dated 3 years ago have a new girlfriend and OMG HOW COULD SHE BE CONVENTIONALLY LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN ME- induced panic and existential crisis. What a cranky night.

xStacey
04-28-2015, 09:12 PM
^^^^ I think you should go ahead & send him that comment abt tipping the waiters. If he refuses to pay you to be nice to him, maybe you'll luck out & he'll pay you for your snark.

He's a very sensitive guy I doubt he'll take it very well... He probably won't come back to see me again if I sent him that message lol. I met him when I was dancing at a $10/dance club, I now moved to a $20/dance club, so it's not so bad anymore but it's still so infuriating when I think about how hard I had to work for my money at that $10 club and he just paid the exact amount. Now, at my current club whenever he comes he often forgets the price and there's always a one or two $20 bill missing when he pays the total ::)

zoezoebelle
04-28-2015, 09:30 PM
Every single Russian or German dude I meet seems to think they own me because I have *some* Russian and German heritage. It's not even that much... like 1/16th each. There is a girl RIGHT THERE who is FROM THE UKRAINE with the accent and blond hair and everything, and for some reason they skip right past her and cling to me. And they're all like, "What, don't you trust me? I like your strong features! Are you Jewish? You have such a beautiful slavic body." Lol I don't...! xD Weeeird. Maybe I should learn to fake a Russian accent because everyone already thinks I'm a European immigrant and doesn't believe when I say I was born and raised in the south, by third and fifth generation Americans.

Aniela
04-28-2015, 10:34 PM
I am going to a wedding in abt 3 wks & have my outfit all picked out. My frustration is w/ the shoes -- I want to wear my favourite civilian heels (4" wedges w/ ankle straps) but can't decide whether my feet will be healed/stable enough by then for that to be a good idea. :idea: Maybe I can go ahead & chance it but use the 'feet are still healing' as an excuse if any1 tries to get me on the dance floor ...

MyButter
04-29-2015, 08:30 AM
I give up trying to be friendly to random people. Almost every conversation I have with strangers I encounter doing mundane stuff like say, walking my dogs, eventually takes a turn for creepsville. The conversation I just finished having with a distant male neighbor went from talking about our dogs, the beautiful weather, and the construction going on in our neighborhood to, "so... do you live alone?"

On the plus side, I'm thankful to be continuously reminded why I became a stripper in the first place.

Aurora_Sunset
04-29-2015, 09:10 AM
I'm getting really sick of babysitting for my friend. I said I'd occasionally be willing to help out for free since they're pretty broke and sometimes have scheduling conflicts. If her husband is working and she has school or gets a work opportunity, fine. But, I'm sorry, isn't half the point of being a married couple that you, by default, have someone else who can watch the kids if you just have to make some routine dentist appointment and shit? Lately, instead of coordinating amongst themselves, she just schedules her random appointments for times when he's working and then retroactively begs me to fuck around my entire schedule. The last time she said her appointment wold take "an hour," I was there for over 4 hours without so much as a text to tell me what was up.

Now, today, I have to reschedule 3 different things I was going to do today to be there in time for her to leave and be there long enough, which makes my "free day" tomorrow not free anymore... She's always super grateful, but this is starting to annoy me.

I don't even like kids.

Glamourmilf
04-29-2015, 09:21 AM
I give up trying to be friendly to random people. Almost every conversation I have with strangers I encounter doing mundane stuff like say, walking my dogs, eventually takes a turn for creepsville. The conversation I just finished having with a distant male neighbor went from talking about our dogs, the beautiful weather, and the construction going on in our neighborhood to, "so... do you live alone?"

On the plus side, I'm thankful to be continuously reminded why I became a stripper in the first place.

I can relate.
I was meeting with a realtor Saturday to look at properties. When I asked if there were any rentals in that neighborhood in my price range, he winked and said, "If I'm going to find something for that low a price, does it come with benefits?" EWWWW!! Gross old ugly man! Get the frig out of here!
I didn't even remotely look sexy or give any indication that I was interested in him.
I was coming straight from a funeral, for christ's sake! And he knew that!
That kind of shit never happens when I do anything with a guy friend.
I swear, I really feel like hiring a 'stunt' guy just so this kind of thing doesn't happen to me when I'm out, or trying to make business deals.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-29-2015, 08:26 PM
The annoying cheap regular who never tips and keeps texting me just sent me a text message (again!) to give me a feed-back on a very good but affordable restaurant I suggested he should try. He's all whoa it was so good I can't believe it was so cheap too. I am almost tempted to say I hope you tipped the waiters ::) (he once said the same thing about the dance prices "ohh it's not expensive at all considering how upscale this place is and how good looking & nice you are" but never ever tips).

LOL this guy is such a putz.

OliveJardin
04-30-2015, 07:17 AM
Life keeps kicking me in the "balls", yet I am still standing. I wish it would get the point and move on already!

BarbieNYC
04-30-2015, 10:56 AM
https://www.yahoo.com/health/humblebragging-doesnt-work-but-this-does-117628678207.html

Ugh this all the way. On this site, at work, and in real life. Humblebragging is annoying. Either brag or complain but trying to mix both is annoying.

KikiGem
04-30-2015, 02:03 PM
OK, when will America pull itself into modern reality? Its 2015 and people are still protesting gay marriage and marijuana legalization? Two things that have absolutely zero impact on the people who aren't engaging in them. Just because you don't "believe in it" doesn't mean that you should get to dictate how others live. Get over it already, America. I know change is happening but damn if it's not taking forever.

Also, I'm very happy about the protesting in Baltimore, NY and Boston. The police force is out of control, and they need to be prosecuted for their actions like everyone else. Sadly, this is the one thing that I fear may never actually change. He who has the power...

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-30-2015, 06:36 PM
Yeah, I understand where it's coming from. I know it's a mental defense mechanism, and I try to remind myself of that and not go off on people. I just wish sometimes they would recognize how disrespectful saying certain things about the victim is, not only to the victim, but to the poor families of the victim who have to keep hearing people badmouthing/blaming/gossiping about their dead, young daughters. The girl who went missing a few years ago, there are still fliers up everywhere, and the poor family has actually dealt with people emailing/calling them to "give it up and stop cluttering up space around town with their worthless fliers." Like... I know the deep reason behind it is that they're probably just uncomfortable being constantly reminded of such an atrocity, but acting out in that way is just unacceptable. :(

That's terrible. In Reno NV when a coed was literally kidnapped off of a couch in her house, local businesses put up huge color posters of her & then even put up the Wanted posters for the suspect (who was caught.) I know people love to bash on Nevada (myself included) but it was heartwarming to see a rough & tough town have its priorities straight. (This was back in 2008, I don't want to link to the case but the posters and word of mouth resulted in the suspect being caught.)

KikiGem
04-30-2015, 08:02 PM
To my "friend" who just criticized me for sleeping "12 hours straight"- I actually only got two this morning, then crashed about 5 hours ago. So 7 total hours w/in a 48 hour period, and they weren't even consecutive. Thanks so much for the judgment though. Really needed that from you.

xStacey
04-30-2015, 08:40 PM
Ugh I'm tired of girls at work asking me questions. I don't talk to anyone but they're always talking to me. How many cc's do you have? Who did your breasts? How much did it cost you? Why did it cost so much?! Why did you get them done twice? Where do you buy your lingerie?! Where is that? How much is it? Well how much exactly? Why do you buy such expensive lingerie? :bomb:

Not to mention, it's often the same girls who are asking me the same questions over and over again!

Naida
04-30-2015, 09:09 PM
So the guy I've been bitching about? Let's call him G for clarity. We've spent the last couple days together and things have seemed mostly okay between us. His excuse for not messaging me is that he has PTSD from his time in the military and occasionally gets reclusive because of it.

However, multiple things about G himself came up in the last few days that made me very uncomfortable and question how much I really want to pursue him.

After leaving with our mutual friend F and talking to her about my concerns, she admits that he basically owned up to her that he has been manipulating my emotions to use me for sex. She was even more pissed off and taken aback by it than I was, because she initially thought he was seriously into me and even supported that "he doesn't normally act this way; I haven't seen him this happy in a long time."

Her boyfriend, another mutual friend that I've known half his life who I'll call H, has made amends for his screw ups in this (he introduced us when G said he needed to get laid) but is appalled that I was apparently taken advantage of and is supportive of my getting payback because "I warned him you're a cold bitch if he plays games with you."

My knee jerk reaction is to toy with G right back. H is right in that it was down and dirty for G to manipulate me, so there's no way I can just carry on as is. Based on my own observations the last couple of days, I've naturally started to follow F's advice to distance myself emotionally ("Honestly, I'm detached enough that I can move on and do my thing without a second thought, but attached enough that it would hurt.") However, F hypothesized that maybe the detachment recently is a pulling back because G is afraid of getting burned himself.

At this precise moment, I'm confused as all hell.

xStacey
04-30-2015, 09:11 PM
I am also pissed because I had a nice evening out planned for tomorrow, dinner, movies, and sex! But my manager called to ask me if I could come in tomorrow night for a bachelor party and I couldn't say no to money so I accepted. My FWB works until 5 and works really far from his place so he's available around 7:30 or 8:00 p.m. usually and I have to be at work at 11:00. I don't want to ruin my make-up & hair by having sex before work but I don't want to see him looking plain and taking 1 hour to get ready at his place after sex either, after work is too late for him he likes to sleep before midnight ::) So I canceled my plans and I'll be working from Friday to Sunday, I worked on Thursday too =_=.

Hopefully I'll still be horny next week.

Naida
04-30-2015, 09:48 PM
Fuck no. I just saw the screenshots. Let the games begin.

miss.a.p1600
04-30-2015, 10:18 PM
I can't sleep even though I know I have to wake up early and fulfill my adult responsibilities. Sometimes I wish I would go back to young adult early twenties when life was easy. I just want to be selfish sometimes.

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-01-2015, 02:43 PM
So the guy I've been bitching about? Let's call him G for clarity. We've spent the last couple days together and things have seemed mostly okay between us. His excuse for not messaging me is that he has PTSD from his time in the military and occasionally gets reclusive because of it.

However, multiple things about G himself came up in the last few days that made me very uncomfortable and question how much I really want to pursue him.

After leaving with our mutual friend F and talking to her about my concerns, she admits that he basically owned up to her that he has been manipulating my emotions to use me for sex. She was even more pissed off and taken aback by it than I was, because she initially thought he was seriously into me and even supported that "he doesn't normally act this way; I haven't seen him this happy in a long time."

Her boyfriend, another mutual friend that I've known half his life who I'll call H, has made amends for his screw ups in this (he introduced us when G said he needed to get laid) but is appalled that I was apparently taken advantage of and is supportive of my getting payback because "I warned him you're a cold bitch if he plays games with you."

My knee jerk reaction is to toy with G right back. H is right in that it was down and dirty for G to manipulate me, so there's no way I can just carry on as is. Based on my own observations the last couple of days, I've naturally started to follow F's advice to distance myself emotionally ("Honestly, I'm detached enough that I can move on and do my thing without a second thought, but attached enough that it would hurt.") However, F hypothesized that maybe the detachment recently is a pulling back because G is afraid of getting burned himself.

At this precise moment, I'm confused as all hell.

Ugh, my opinion...Right as soon as he admitted he was manipulating you to get sex, that's where he stuck his head in the noose. If he cared he would have confronted you about getting more serious or backing off to avoid issues.

I've never loathed any of my one night stands but I needed more than a decade to get over my anger at a guy who used me like a paper plate when he knew I was hopelessly into him. Some people are just weak and have no integrity. They don't deserve your free time and attention.

Naida
05-01-2015, 04:08 PM
Ugh, my opinion...Right as soon as he admitted he was manipulating you to get sex, that's where he stuck his head in the noose. If he cared he would have confronted you about getting more serious or backing off to avoid issues.

I've never loathed any of my one night stands but I needed more than a decade to get over my anger at a guy who used me like a paper plate when he knew I was hopelessly into him. Some people are just weak and have no integrity. They don't deserve your free time and attention.

Thank you, Snuffle. That last sentence was exactly what I needed to hear today from someone who doesn't stand to gain anything by saying it.

Now I'm just trying to decide how I'm going to deal with the guy. When he blatantly says that he has manipulated me and is "good at the game" enough to "make a ho haz feelz," I'm not gonna take it lying down.

Selina M
05-01-2015, 06:53 PM
Why... do I have a $40,000 degree in biology... including 95 credits in biology and 24 in chemistry... and yet I have to pay $100 to take a 150 question 'subject knowledge' exam on each of those.
I'm pretty sure I'm qualified to teach high school kids freshman level bio and chemistry. :mad:

What's really unfair is that people who want to teach one of the newer, more obscure high school classes (financial math, sociology, etc). don't have to take an exam as long as they have 24 credits in the subject, because they haven't made exams for those yet. But nooooo. 95 credits in bio doesn't count for shit. Grrrr.

miss.a.p1600
05-01-2015, 09:26 PM
I can't sleep - again! I'm pissed about the years of emotional abused by my child's father and his latest disrespect of me is my last straw. He is kind of well known and I think I want to write a book to tell my side of the story. I've always kept my mouth shut but if I die that asshole and my jealous family members would try to tarnish my memory. I don't trust any of them and I will set the record straight.

whirlerz
05-01-2015, 09:31 PM
I can't sleep - again! I'm pissed about the years of emotional abused by my child's father and his latest disrespect of me is my last straw. He is kind of well known and I think I want to write a book to tell my side of the story. I've always kept my mouth shut but if I die that asshole and my jealous family members would try to tarnish my memory. I don't trust any of them and I will set the record straight.

WOW! Are you me, lol? I'm so angry @ a former 'friend' & want to write a book, seriously! I would of course, change things around, I just hate to see ppl abused!

miss.a.p1600
05-01-2015, 09:56 PM
WOW! Are you me, lol? I'm so angry @ a former 'friend' & want to write a book, seriously! I would of course, change things around, I just hate to see ppl abused!

I know right! I wish I could sue him for pain and suffering but I'm not sure emotional abuse is as easily proven in court like physical abuse. A book would be perfect and I am willing to proofread yours if you get a rough draft. Sorry to hear about your friend, I've been there too - back stabbed by people who I trusted. That's one thing I like about the strip club is there is no pressure to be friends with anyone cause you never know who is trustworthy and people's attitude can change.

Elektra Luxx
05-01-2015, 09:58 PM
Why... do I have a $40,000 degree in biology... including 95 credits in biology and 24 in chemistry

Wow! Selina, very impressive. Biology and Chemistry, Just WOW!

Selina M
05-01-2015, 10:01 PM
^ Wish it counted for anything in the job market! Now to be a biologist or much of anything you need a friggin PhD... Pffffffffft.

Elektra Luxx
05-01-2015, 10:10 PM
^ Wish it counted for anything in the job market! Now to be a biologist or much of anything you need a friggin PhD... Pffffffffft.

Not Pffffffffft to me. (Changed post - your very well qualified to teach. Sorry, I asked a dumb question.)

Elektra Luxx
05-02-2015, 08:10 AM
So this morning I'm using a public restroom, in a stall, can't see out. I hear someone come in, pee, flush, I hear the door open and they leave. Ewwwww!!! Ah hello!! What about washing hands?!!

SweetJulia
05-02-2015, 09:35 AM
I got rid of my cheapest, most annoying regular who's out of money. Sex work is on a per minute, per hour, or per dance basis. "Loyalty" doesn't give you the right to freebies or cheaper rates. He's a needy asshole who got long shows that I'd have to get so fucked up for cuz they were physically painful-not even s&m shows, just things that are not possible and like he thought being turned on turns you into stretch armstrong and makes anything fit in any hole-sorry to be graphic, since he's hideous, only sleeps with escorts, and has no idea how anatomy works. Even got offended that I was treating him "like a customer". How dare I, he's not a customer. Customers pay. PS-I scheduled 750 in new guys today, which I'll make in the first two days of the week. Easy shit, no begging or stalling. I've been catering to this waste of flesh since 2010 and hated him from the second he turned his cam on. Like, just thinking about him made me think I hated camming, but no, it was just him. He'd like drain me of any energy for the people who weren't assholes that deserved quality. I'm so happy, four years is a long time to be miserable. Plus, he really resents sex workers because he has to pay them, since his divorce. No shit, this is a job and no one wants to be around him for "fun". I'm mad I spent all that money on drugs and (now minimal) alcohol to get through it, cuz it's like it was wasted on him, instead of the high being enjoyable. So, I'm gonna look at his escort reviews today while ENJOYING my vices and laugh at all the "greedy bitches" who "don't appreciate loyalty" that left him with blue balls when he didn't get what he wanted from escorts 8D

miss.a.p1600
05-02-2015, 09:58 AM
So this morning I'm using a public restroom, in a stall, can't see out. I hear someone come in, pee, flush, I hear the door open and they leave. Ewwwww!!! Ah hello!! What about washing hands?!!

I saw a show that did a research study on this exact topic of hand washing after using the restroom. Complete with hidden cams and what not. You'd be surprised. A large percentage of men did not wash their hands because they felt their penis and their skin was clean. A lot of women did not wash their hands because they felt that since they used toilet tissue and never directly touched their vagina, they didn't need to. They failed to realize not only do they touch dirty doorknobs and other surfaces but the urine can soak through the tissue onto your hands.

Then a percentage of these nasty asses came from the restroom and went to the bar to dip their filthy hands in a bowl of mixed nuts. Ugh! "Note to self: never eat mixed nuts at the bar"

Some people are just plain nasty with hygiene.

xStacey
05-02-2015, 11:30 AM
I hate girls who are constantly talking behind other people's back. Don't you have any other conversation subject?

miss.a.p1600
05-02-2015, 12:23 PM
I am so f$ckin tired but I need to pull myself together to go to the club so I can recoup the money I had to spend on my car. I hate working when I don't feel like it. I just want to lay out by the pool and sip coconut water and let the sun hit my skin.

Ugh! Must drag self into club. *sigh*

xStacey
05-02-2015, 12:29 PM
I am so f$ckin tired but I need to pull myself together to go to the club so I can recoup the money I had to spend on my car. I hate working when I don't feel like it. I just want to lay out by the pool and sip coconut water and let the sun hit my skin.

Ugh! Must drag self into club. *sigh*

Same here... I have to make laptop replacement money lol. I spent so much to get my laptop repaired the last couple of months I don't even want to imagine how expensive it must be to maintain a car (don't have one yet by choice).

KikiGem
05-02-2015, 12:46 PM
The other day my brother told me that our mom told him that his eyes were asymmetrical. He said that he asked her if they were and at first she said no, they aren't. Then the day after, she said "now that I see them in the light, they are a bit uneven." She said this BC she was mad at him, he told me.

I asked her about it today and she denied it but I get the feeling she's lying. For one, why would my brother make this up? And two, she has been known to say hurtful things out of anger, especially to him. I'm good at telling when people are lying (ever heard the phrase 'you can't bullshit a bullshitter')? I'm a stripper, I lie and fake for a living, and I think she's lying, but probably really regrets saying it.

Now I don't know what to think. There is nothing wrong with my brother's eyes. If its true that my mother really said that- I will be so sad.

Glamourmilf
05-02-2015, 02:56 PM
So this morning I'm using a public restroom, in a stall, can't see out. I hear someone come in, pee, flush, I hear the door open and they leave. Ewwwww!!! Ah hello!! What about washing hands?!!
Gross! I have seen that in many. Restaurant ladies room...by the servers! Yuck
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