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chanzep
12-03-2021, 06:50 PM
Miss P your triggered because that man's ways. He's disorganized with his money but watches yours. You also said he giving you looks when your not doing well at work which is emotional bullying. He thinks paying the rent is a flex it's not at all.

LoveyD
12-03-2021, 09:58 PM
Period & headache. Fun.

Marina Starr
12-04-2021, 12:34 PM
So glad they caught his parents and there will be charges against them. Reading the story leading up to the point where he shot those poor kids got me sighing 'MY GOD!'

There are a lot of people that have no business having kids as well as there are people that deserve to have their children taken away from them.

Children don't come broken or with problems themselves.
It always starts at home.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2021, 05:33 PM
It’s Saturday night.

My family invited me to dinner (last minute) in the wealthy part of town.

I invited L as a courtesy but thankfully he said he couldn’t make it in time because he was still with his son getting his hair cut.

I’m glad he was too busy with his son to attend a last minute dinner invite.

I didn’t want to risk inviting him AND his son knowing Bertha lets her kids come out the house looking busted. I know it’s not the kids fault but L n Bertha need to do better.

Now he brought his son to the house

Last thing I want to do is he locked in a house with him and his son on a Saturday night

So I think I’ll stay in the wealthy district, shop around, get some edibles THEN go to the house.

I hope he drops his kid off back at Berthas house by the time I get back because if he has his kid over with no notice I will disappear on his ass all day tomorrow.

indiegirl
12-04-2021, 05:37 PM
Seems like nobody likes to make money anymore. You're open but you can't answer my phone calls or texts ever. Like how are some people surviving?! It's always a true Christmas miracle when someone actually shows up at least on time (we don't have 5 hours to wait for you to do your scheduled job, not answer the phone, not even bother showing up, and do the job.) I'll admit, even with me, I was an hour late yesterday.... but these people aren't taking a fucking uber that's 25 minutes away, which are very short staffed nowadays, as a handyman. LOLL

I even went on Yelp yesterday during open business hours to request a handyman which also will send the request to other businesses. Nobody got back to me. LOLLL

Marina Starr
12-04-2021, 06:47 PM
If one more hoe sending me tik tok videos I'm gonna fucking lose it. I don't give a fuck about tik tok.
This online generation are out of control!

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2021, 06:50 PM
L calling me over n over.

Bruh! I’m enjoying my best life, I do not want to be stuck in the house with berthas kids on a Saturday night, and I want a couple hours of solo time.

Is it really that hard to take your son somewhere for a few hours (gym, bookstore, movies hell ANYWHERE but our house) vs worrying about what I’m doing?

Shit!!! I refused to play the clingy “where are you?” “What time will you be home?” game.

carmen_b
12-04-2021, 07:12 PM
It’s not !
Ha
You’ll be home when you arrive home haha.

chanzep
12-04-2021, 08:12 PM
I would put my phone in do not distrub. That man gives you no peace.

miss.a.p1600
12-04-2021, 08:29 PM
^Exactly! I ignored.

Then he tried to guilt trip when I got home.

I changed the topic.

We are not going to do that today sir!!!!

The universe is giving me my much needed solo time.

T minus 24 hours and he will be back to work…..can’t wait!

kimbe
12-05-2021, 01:31 AM
That they have moved shows from here to other places (Orlando Florida etc) lately due to covid regulations => more travel >:(

whirlerz
12-05-2021, 09:42 AM
Seems like nobody likes to make money anymore. You're open but you can't answer my phone calls or texts ever. Like how are some people surviving?! It's always a true Christmas miracle when someone actually shows up at least on time (we don't have 5 hours to wait for you to do your scheduled job, not answer the phone, not even bother showing up, and do the job.) I'll admit, even with me, I was an hour late yesterday.... but these people aren't taking a fucking uber that's 25 minutes away, which are very short staffed nowadays, as a handyman. LOLL

I even went on Yelp yesterday during open business hours to request a handyman which also will send the request to other businesses. Nobody got back to me. LOLLL

Yea, been there, tried Yelp, etc
I also used to be a scheduler for a maintenance co, that was a real cluster fuck too.
We used the Blue Book, sometimes Craigslist, a crap shoot either way.. ::)

whirlerz
12-05-2021, 09:45 AM
Also, it's raining, I've basically nothing to eat, nice:(

WendiStarr
12-05-2021, 09:49 AM
The kids and I were supposed to go to a Christmas parade yesterday but it got cancelled due to the Oxford shooter idiot kid. A craft show that we're supposed to go to was also cancelled citing the same reason. We decided to go to a drive through light show instead. I got a flat tire as soon as I pulled up to the toll booth to pay. The AAA tow truck guy that showed up seemed to be just as clueless as I was on how to get the spare tire out. All I knew is that it was tucked up under the truck near the license plate. I'm totally lost when it comes to that stuff. It seriously took him almost 2 hours and Googling YouTube videos, as well as some random old man stopping to help before we finally got the tire out of there and on the truck and were able to drive through and leave.

miss.a.p1600
12-05-2021, 11:04 AM
Well I decided to stick to my guns and “disappear” anytime he brings his kid(s) over without advance notice.

Like how he did again yesterday/last night/today.

I told him yesterday I’ll be at the bookstore etc running errands

Then today he asks again. I tell him again.

He’s like “I want to go with you”

Um no.

You agreed to your parenting time yesterday which I was unaware of until last night so I will run my planned errands and you will stay here with your kid you invited over for your parenting time.

He had the gall to be looking all sad n tried to guilt trip. Claiming I “never” invite him with me. Well you always have your kids which I’m completely unaware of 95% of the time.

Not my fault.

And I recall inviting you yesterday so stop trying to guilt trip me.

Then he pulled the “oh you must be meeting up with a dude”

Bruh! If I was going to cheat I would have done it by now and it would be so secret you’ll never find out.

whirlerz
12-05-2021, 11:22 AM
Lol!
Guilt trip didn't work, so he went with, "must be a dude"::)

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 12:23 PM
^ Omg , Miss P:

Put the hammer down. Literally tell him to GTFO if he can not provide 7 days notice / smoothness !
What he is doing is bullying ( or getting there for sure ). Why can't your household run smooth and organized ? It's YOUR preference and he should be keeping your preferences in mind.

Reassure him that you didn't meet another dude ( yet ) on your outing. Mention that you are just looking so in case he doesn't refine the schedule you have some options. Lol .

carmen_b
12-05-2021, 12:25 PM
^ I make jokes but I just don't know HOW you can do it. I'd drag him to therapy and demand either 7 days notice and SMOOTH as butter OR making him move out within 3 days.
Display kindness and tell him he has three days to get out instead of 24 hours if he can not schedule like a normal person. :)

chanzep
12-05-2021, 08:28 PM
I don't think therapy can help. He's selfish and guilt trips " emotionally abuses " because she wants to be a normal person and be alone sometimes. The whole must be a dude thing is a big red flag.

miss.a.p1600
12-06-2021, 10:34 AM
^I honestly think these are many unhealthy patterns him and his ex wife went through for many years

So unfortunately I'm having to break years of patterns. Cause I refuse to tolerate what Bertha tolerated and if I have to ditch my single/bachelorette ways then so will he.

I wanted him to break the patterns with positive reinforcement but unfortunately it seems negative reinforcement is what it will take for the time being. Time for Law N Order!

Can't kick his ass cause I don't want to be in jail for domestic violence. Although I image a swift kick to the ass or some electroshock therapy would cure this right on up.

Anyhow, I'll shut my pie hole for now.

appreciate ya'll helping me stick to my guns on this topic.

Ima ride his ass (not in the good way) for this Christmas holiday scheduling or it will be one cold ass Christmas for him.

whirlerz
12-06-2021, 12:35 PM
Some one tried scam 'phish' me on PayPal, sent it to their [email protected]
.

I got a possible temp xmas job its for 2 days this week & 2 end of the month.

Dragging my feet on it, I was going to try camming, not sure if it's even worth it.

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 03:25 PM
My day job customers drive me a little crazy. :/

At least I got a transaction out of one ( that I will back date to Nov. so it's not a disaster ).
Omg how I *fought* for $1400 that month and then it will yield about $800-$1000 more next year ( when their job completes ).
On Nov. 30 I made $674 at the club lol. That was done in 9.5 hours of fighting v.s. all damn month long.

Send vibes for an easier Dec.
The $ I want is reasonable I think to provide some life balance too ( maybe 2k ish from the business and $1,000 or so from club ).
I keep telling myself one of these other Nov. people will close but I just don't know.
If they close they go on the Dec. books anyway, it's already the 6th omg ! :/

Send me a Fat , FRESH, and Fast customer Universe .
I am SO ready !!
:)

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 03:28 PM
Ok and somewhat related ...... omg .... it's just fucking freezing.
:)
All of sudden it got dark and freezing.
I need to pull out sweaters and real shoes .
It makes me so sad but it has to be done.

My partner is talking about a trip to NY .... uh ... no .
Lets revisit that idea after April .
I don't want to go somewhere cold and over priced.

WendiStarr
12-06-2021, 06:02 PM
So beyond pissed at my ob/gyn. I had an appointment at 4:20pm today. After 20 minutes of waiting in the waiting room a nurse took my blood pressure and took me to an exam room. She gave me a gown, told me to undress and said the doctor would be in. At 5:55pm I got fed up of laying there waiting so I got dressed, grabbed my coat and purse and walked out of the exam room. I could hear the doctor talking and laughing but didn't see him. No nurses or receptionist were in sight. I walked out. I feel that that was very rude of them not to say anything to me about them running late or anything. Ugh. The only good thing is that my blood pressure reading was good. They called me after 6pm and I cussed them out. I'm not going back. They'd charge a $50 late fee if I were to show up late but the doctor can waste our time with no repercussions, as if my time is less valuable than theirs. As if I didn't have 2 restless, hungry kids waiting on me to get done with my appointment. Stupid bastard.

chanzep
12-06-2021, 06:27 PM
Wow Wendi that's really rude. A similar thing happened to me months ago for my well woman exam. My uncle works in medical and told me to send a email complaining.
That doctor a asshole leaving you waiting like that. I would definitely do a bad review.

Marina Starr
12-06-2021, 06:58 PM
You're better than I am because I would have accepted it and say I need more ;D

Men will buy you gifts, roses, candies etc as manipulation if there's no changed behavior.
I see gifts as gifts. If there are expectations attached, I expect to be paid. Invoice can be sent by fax, email or FedEx overnight and must pay in FULL or legs will be kept closed.


This dude who begged for a second chance, who I agreed to see a few days ago bought me a gift and even offered me money (which I didn't accept �� but should have) is already pissing me off. My anxiety is going up and I'm about to give his gift away or sell it. I should not have seen him. Time waster ugh

carmen_b
12-06-2021, 07:26 PM
^ I probably would have accepted it all too haha.

I guess just being in forward motion ( away from this disappointing guy ) is good already though !

JGB2009
12-06-2021, 08:41 PM
I think you went asleep on me smh.

LoveyD
12-06-2021, 08:57 PM
@Wendi holy crap fuck that doctor!Glad you cussed them out. That's uncalled for.

I sat in heavy traffic for an hour because the police are doing something on the freeway.

This city has too many people in it now.

kimbe
12-07-2021, 01:25 AM
Wendi, I admire your guts to just walk out of there! I hope it sent them a signal, but I wouldn't be too sure..

JGB2009
12-07-2021, 05:17 AM
Since your schedule is all over the place I am about to only answer you in the morning when I wake up. My schedule remains the same and I am tired of guessing when and what your schedule is. Honestly I have no one reliable in my life so fuck everyone!

indiegirl
12-07-2021, 06:28 AM
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My typical facial expression staring at the laptop when a man is upset at me for cancelling two days in a row because of a handyman while he wants me to stay at a 200 dollar hotel, roundtrip uber 30 minutes away, and have me only see him at 8:30am-10:30am in the morning. I would be busting my ass down there sitting in traffic for 200 dollars profit after all I've paid, 17 in internet, and the uber ride, to have him complain if I'm 10 minutes late because it's a work day and nobody scheduled me last night so I stayed home last night. Then I would rush back for the repairman.

If there are not multiple people seeing me, I'm sorry.....and no complaints if I choose a cheap hotel if you are the only person I'm requested to see that day. Why should I show up for 200 bucks? I could get that at the strip club. I just experienced this recently and it was such a waste of my time.

Back to the movie and dog cuddles before laundry repair again :P. Welcome to the slow December month. I hope it doesn't stay dead like this.

whirlerz
12-07-2021, 07:19 AM
Seriously, fuck some handymen, actually fuck most men ha

SnuffleUffleGrass
12-07-2021, 01:44 PM
Petty annoyed at my relatives on Facebook. How was I born into a family tree so full of fake fuqqqing people, ha ha ha ahahahahah....

Marina Starr
12-07-2021, 05:04 PM
A lot of people know this but just don't give a fuck.

When you're at an intersection and wanting to make a left turn all the way to the other side, you can only do so if you have the GREEN ARROW.
If you only have green light with NO green arrow, you can still make a left turn but you MUST first yield to drivers making a right turn and on coming traffic.

So many head on accidents happen when people think they can make a left turn with on coming traffic just because they see green light.
This is so dangerous! I'm very careful when I drive, it's other people I don't trust after witnessing so much stupidity on the road.

lilylilylily
12-07-2021, 05:17 PM
Yes lesson learned. Next time a dude offers me money I will definitely accept because they always end up wasting my time anyway and at least I'll be a bit compensated. Thank God I didn't sleep with him because my gut was screaming at me not to He also lied on his dating profile that he is a non smoker. Then I see a pack of cigarettes fall out of his pocket. He said he's trying to quit 🤣

carmen_b
12-07-2021, 05:33 PM
Good catch ! ^
Can not STAND smoking.
You can smell it what is he thinking lying ?!?

lilylilylily
12-07-2021, 05:50 PM
They stupidly think we can't smell it on them. Just like my ex who kept saying he would quit and he'll never smoke around me blah blah.. Even still, he reeked of cigarettes. They don't get that non smokers are ultra sensitive to that crap

JGB2009
12-07-2021, 06:10 PM
Yes lesson learned. Next time a dude offers me money I will definitely accept because they always end up wasting my time anyway and at least I'll be a bit compensated. Thank God I didn't sleep with him because my gut was screaming at me not to He also lied on his dating profile that he is a non smoker. Then I see a pack of cigarettes fall out of his pocket. He said he's trying to quit ��

Guys lie. My daughters dad always put on his profile that he don't smoke and he does smh!!!

lilylilylily
12-07-2021, 06:30 PM
Yep, I had a few lie about their height too, I guess they hope we won't notice or care

whirlerz
12-07-2021, 06:49 PM
So, the doper asked me for some electrical tape, I gave it to him, & said I wanted it back..

A while goes by, I ask him for it, he says he'll buy me some?::)
Riiight. I don't need it, it's the principle, but whatever + I should know better? ::)

I, on the other hand,
nabbed a light bulb out of the kitchen, (there's 2 other working lights now) for my cam lamp.;D
Our other landlord bought bulbs, not this one tho, & I didn’t feel like running out to get 1. I also didn't like it, no cover for it, too bright, so there's that.

carmen_b
12-07-2021, 06:50 PM
Ew, smokers though ...... like ..... you could smell it out of pores for a good 10 - 14 days wtf are they thinking ?
Anyway .... Lily .... sounds like you dodged a whopper of a disappointing bullet there lol.

carmen_b
12-07-2021, 06:53 PM
Ok one more and I'll stop lol

My partner ..... god .... he invites a piano teacher OVER .
Who the fuck does this ? ! ?
Go to THEM . Omg. I have never seen this in my entire life !!
When I went for lessons my Mom was back at the minute 60 mark not 58-59!

TheBrownFox
12-07-2021, 11:27 PM
They stupidly think we can't smell it on them. Just like my ex who kept saying he would quit and he'll never smoke around me blah blah.. Even still, he reeked of cigarettes. They don't get that non smokers are ultra sensitive to that crap


I hate cigarette smoke and weed smoke with a passion. I absolutely will not date another smoker.

whirlerz
12-08-2021, 07:22 AM
I hate cigarette smoke and weed smoke with a passion. I absolutely will not date another smoker.

Ha!
We have a dude upstairs, (gf w/him now too) they smoke.blunts.all.day! She works, he doesn't.
If I didn't have air filters Id die w/the smell

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2021, 07:24 AM
Yep, I had a few lie about their height too, I guess they hope we won't notice or care

Men stay lying about their age, shoe size, height, dick size, n more.

But those are the common pain points for men.

miss.a.p1600
12-08-2021, 07:28 AM
L had the audacity to say I wasn’t a “team player”

Girl I lit into his ass for that stupid comment.

I’ve sacrificed enough dealing with your quirks, your annoying kids popping up, your annoying ex wife’s shenanigans and still haven’t left you ….yet.

Of course I’m not going to self sacrifice myself for the misery Bertha put (and keeps putting) you through.

I don’t play for teams with lazy ass players.

Fuck her n fuck you too!

whirlerz
12-08-2021, 07:39 AM
U tell em, Ms P!

indiegirl
12-08-2021, 08:18 AM
UGH I was an idiot and didn't check the amount my 2nd customer yesterday sent me. He sent me a WHOPPING $120 guys. WOWWW. He had NO idea my price went up as well but it certainly wasn't 120. LIKE seriously!!!! Now I overslept for someone who is paying me actual money as well as another and they both drove 1-2 hours to see me compared to that loser. FUCK. I should've ended that appointment after the hot guy instead of ruining my night seeing the cheapo after him.

carmen_b
12-08-2021, 09:18 AM
^ Ew !!! OMG !! I can not believe that ugh !