View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
LoveyD
12-11-2021, 12:33 PM
It rained here so now I heard on the news that because bacteria and pollution levels are so high in the ocean water, I can't go on my beach runs again until Monday.
Marina Starr
12-11-2021, 01:27 PM
Some cunt on instagram was telling another girl her views are invalid with the filter she used.
I told that cunt internalized misogyny is not a good look. Women shouldn't have to look how she thinks they should for their views to be valid. Her judgment is a projection of her self-esteem or lack of and insecurities. Judging by how she looks, I'd highly suggest she considers filters.
~Carmen~
12-11-2021, 03:27 PM
A fucking semi almost just wrecked me. Just decided to come on over into my lane, swiped the front of my car, almost took off my mirror, and thank GOD I had a shoulder to veer onto instead of another lane of traffic. THEN HE DROVE AWAY. Didn't even slow down. Didn't seem to even realize. I'm sitting on the shoulder, shaking, and I watch this fuckhead just keep merging into the lane and drive off down the freeway. By the time I got my head together, he was gone. I think I could have chased him down, but it would have required going far past my exit (it happened right before) and I didn't know what I would even do - honk aggressively from the other lane and try to get him to stop?? Idk.... My mirror and side of my door is all scratched to hell, but nothing came off or was damaged to the point of hurting my car severely. And I'm okay. I just couldn't believe he didn't even slow down after fucking hitting someone.
This happened right in the spot near my exit where accidents ALWAYS happen. I hate that freakin' interchange. If I hadn't been in the far right lane, I would have definitely been pushed into someone else because that area is super congested.
I'm glad you are okay! How scary!!
TheBrownFox
12-11-2021, 04:44 PM
I'm gonna need these food delivery apps to respect my 'Meet at the door' preference I've selected, and stop resetting it back to the "Leave it outside" default, thinking they're slick and I won't notice. SMH. I will never be okay with my food and drink being left on the nasty-ass ground, no matter how much you wanna shove it down people's throats that you prefer they select that option.
I tip for this service and pay the fees, and I expect to open the door and have a human being hand me my order. Not find it on the ground for Cujo or any neighborhood ratchets to be able to sniff around/take my stuff.
chanzep
12-11-2021, 06:47 PM
So it seems like everyone in this small town was at the mall today!. I had to go because that's where Comcast shop is. I thought I would relax in the Barnes and Noble wrong. Was packed !!. People kept bumping into me while I was looking at books. I got fed up and called uber and just got 2 magazines New Beauty and British Vogue . I'm not going back there until January.
Aurora_Sunset
12-11-2021, 07:18 PM
One of the dumbass cats apparently suddenly decided to shit all over my stepson's room. Of course, we didn't realize/find it until last night when the kids came over and he walked in there. The mess is one thing; it can be cleaned and we can just keep the door closed from now on. It's the fact that of course the kids are gonna go home and tell their mom that the cat pooped all over his room, and she's gonna make a big deal out of it. I already threw their shoes in the hall closet so she can't re-start her BS about how the "cats peed in their shoes" every single time they go home.
~Carmen~
12-11-2021, 09:42 PM
I'm gonna need these food delivery apps to respect my 'Meet at the door' preference I've selected, and stop resetting it back to the "Leave it outside" default, thinking they're slick and I won't notice. SMH. I will never be okay with my food and drink being left on the nasty-ass ground, no matter how much you wanna shove it down people's throats that you prefer they select that option.
I tip for this service and pay the fees, and I expect to open the door and have a human being hand me my order. Not find it on the ground for Cujo or any neighborhood ratchets to be able to sniff around/take my stuff.
Eww. People just don't think or pay attention.
One time instead of leaving my food at my door on the little table as instructed, it was left in the grass by the bushes where dogs pee. I told them I can't eat this food. They gave me a credit but for much less than I paid.
whirlerz
12-11-2021, 10:52 PM
I just left a note on the kitchen refrigerator, the kitchen is a disaster!
Dirty dishes on the counter, on the kitchen table, & of course, full garbage.
Beyond disgusting.
I saw the girl came home, I told her I was putting up a note, I said "I'm not saying it's you" (But it is)::)
It's the meth guy too, leaving shit everywhere.
I already know it's not going to do a damn bit of good, nor is the landlord going to do shit
Beyond gross
whirlerz
12-11-2021, 11:04 PM
& Aurora, sorry about the accident, that's horrible, I'm glad you're ok, except shaken up.
Reminds me to put in a dash camera.
indiegirl
12-11-2021, 11:47 PM
Lord baby Jesus...it has been slow out there, December!! I'm jealous of women who took the shortcut and got married to a wealthy man right about now. The only positive thing right now for me is that the wifi internet finally turned back on after 2.5 days of it being out and the washing machine miraculously started working by itself. It gets depressing sitting at home all the time waiting by my laptop for work but hell, who is gonna support me/my future but myself.
It's a beautiful thing I don't have friends right now during Christmas because I don't want to give gifts when I'm saving and paying for house repairs all the time. I only bought one person a Christmas gift and it was to a Michelin level steakhouse so they could go with their partner. At least I'm saving money lol. They said to please not buy anything expensive but what do you buy for someone who has everything and didn't use my groupon gifts in the past? They'll probably give me clothes and I'll just donate them. I already have a trash bag size of them they gave me over the years I need to donate.
Extra Update: I do have 1200 coming through tonight which will be great. It sucked spending money today on things I didn't want to.
kimbe
12-12-2021, 12:26 AM
Annoyed of people that can’t follow a time schedule! I’ve been spray tanning athletes most of the day and when they don’t meet exactly to their booked time spot, it creates more work and the whole process gets less effective..!
whirlerz
12-12-2021, 12:33 AM
I'm glad your washer works, & your internet is back Indi!^
Well, I know I was disturbing ppl pounding on the walls, lol, but the fuckin MICE are driving me nuts, gnawing inside the walls
Marina Starr
12-12-2021, 05:22 AM
I have a dashcam and love it. It's an added security that makes me more comfortable driving. If there's an accident there's no arguing who is at fault. Videos don't lie. I love whenever I turn into my development my neighbors turn their backs if they're outside. If they're not doing anything wrong then they have nothing to hide, lol.
I love how assholes watch themselves when they saw my dashcam. It's not super obvious but it's noticeable. I don't hide it.
It's not only great for the road but also good where you park. People don't know if you also have other cameras on your car so they'll think twice before doing stupid shit.
& Aurora, sorry about the accident, that's horrible, I'm glad you're ok, except shaken up.
Reminds me to put in a dash camera.
Marina Starr
12-12-2021, 05:29 AM
How the fuck is it possible with 68, clear and sunny weather and 95% humidity?! I didn't curl my hair and looking pretty for them to fall apart.
moneybags
12-12-2021, 05:50 AM
Annoyed of people that can’t follow a time schedule! I’ve been spray tanning athletes most of the day and when they don’t meet exactly to their booked time spot, it creates more work and the whole process gets less effective..!
I’ve ended friendships over time boundaries bring crossed. I’m not getting any younger, so I value my time more. I feel like when people no call no show or show up late it’s a big middle finger to our relationship. A lot of people aren’t good at managing their thing and it’s not personal, but that’s actually a deal breaker for me. I can’t work or have friendships with people who don’t respect my time.
indiegirl
12-12-2021, 06:27 AM
1800 night. Very appreciative :). Dang it December is rough. I am back home hope waiting for a cup of soup to cool off, nap (long night), and push for dates until the 16-17th.
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2021, 07:04 AM
I hate how people
Don’t answer the phone during regular days n times
So I have to spend my Sunday calling their bitch asses.
Answer the phones heauxs!
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-12-2021, 07:20 AM
I hate how people
Don’t answer the phone during regular days n times
So I have to spend my Sunday calling their bitch asses.
Answer the phones heauxs!
Sometimes it's a sleep schedule thing. OR they mis calculated a time difference....Phone or text first?
Petty annoyance- work was so dumb yesterday. Truth is stranger than fiction, surely................
JGB2009
12-12-2021, 12:56 PM
Not being consistent with me and giving me the same vibes that you always gave will push me away!!!!!
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2021, 01:21 PM
Gawd I cannot wait till L takes his ass back to work.
His controlling and clingy tendencies become more apparent the more idle time he has off.
He called me as soon as I left the house (bruh I don’t want to be locked in the house with you n your sick unvaccinated kids)
I ignored.
Then he walkie talkie me.
That might be ignored too.
I don’t feel like explaining my whereabouts then having him try to guilt trip me, invite himself along, or make last minute plans I’m too busy for right now.
I just want to enjoy my day……..alone!
carmen_b
12-12-2021, 01:24 PM
^ Plans are plans lol.
Whether you made them a few days ago or while he was out getting his kids ha.
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2021, 01:35 PM
^exactly!
I think he might have wanted me to decorate the tree with him n his kids.
Okay I get it.
But he had no time set to do it today - or he had a time and didn’t tell me.
So no I will not be obligated to that if you didn’t mention it in advance.
Plus I don’t want to be stuck in that house with them all day. I want to get out.
He never makes plans when it comes to his kids yet he expects me to acquiesce to his “I’m on call for Bertha n her kids schedule” so……
indiegirl
12-12-2021, 01:51 PM
Customer wants to bring his 2 year old daughter to the appointment since his babysitter cancelled.........
miss.a.p1600
12-12-2021, 02:03 PM
^whats up with these men n their kids?!?
Dafuq?
Leave those ankle bitters where they belong………with their mom!
indiegirl
12-12-2021, 02:40 PM
^whats up with these men n their kids?!?
Dafuq?
Leave those ankle bitters where they belong………with their mom!
And how do you have sex in a room with a 2 year old in it. I get I wouldn't care if he brought his dog but this is a little human being.
carmen_b
12-12-2021, 02:52 PM
Just wrong . ^
No way in hell.
JGB2009
12-12-2021, 03:32 PM
I washed all my clothes and now I have to go to the laundry mat to dry them because the other week my dryer went shot. Ugh I hate laundry mats!!!!
Marina Starr
12-12-2021, 06:08 PM
It's been said that lot of these young generations, millennials, gen z etc are woke so they're much more open-minded and accepting.
The majority of them are the complete opposite. They bully relentlessly and are extremely disrespectful and they age shame people they consider old.
They would be so lucky to make it to 40, 50, 60 etc because old is gold. In my experience older people are much more gracious. I guess when you live long enough and seen a lot, you are much more relaxed, you live and let live. You don't see grandmas or grandpas on instagram or other social medias shaming or bullying other people.
I strongly believe that a lot of them have low self-esteem. Happy, confident and secure people don't bully other people. They have no reason to.
If happy and secure people do bully and start shit with other people, I would love to know all the fucked up reasons why. There is no reason because there is NONE.
~Carmen~
12-12-2021, 06:49 PM
It's been said that lot of these young generations, millennials, gen z etc are woke so they're much more open-minded and accepting.
The majority of them are the complete opposite. They bully relentlessly and are extremely disrespectful and they age shame people they consider old.
They would be so lucky to make it to 40, 50, 60 etc because old is gold. In my experience older people are much more gracious. I guess when you live long enough and seen a lot, you are much more relaxed, you live and let live. You don't see grandmas or grandpas on instagram or other social medias shaming or bullying other people.
I strongly believe that a lot of them have low self-esteem. Happy, confident and secure people don't bully other people. They have no reason to.
If happy and secure people do bully and start shit with other people, I would love to know all the fucked up reasons why. There is no reason because there is NONE.
Thank you sis. Old IS gold. I feel more content, relaxed and happy than ever.
There's an old saying, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." People like that will have bitterness etched on their face when they get old. I hate to tell them, but they will get old too, if they are lucky enough.
TheBrownFox
12-12-2021, 06:59 PM
I have a dashcam and love it. It's an added security that makes me more comfortable driving. If there's an accident there's no arguing who is at fault. Videos don't lie. I love whenever I turn into my development my neighbors turn their backs if they're outside. If they're not doing anything wrong then they have nothing to hide, lol.
I love how assholes watch themselves when they saw my dashcam. It's not super obvious but it's noticeable. I don't hide it.
It's not only great for the road but also good where you park. People don't know if you also have other cameras on your car so they'll think twice before doing stupid shit.
A woman in a local Facebook group I'm in said that she has the Ring cam on her front door, and it got video footage of some rotten-ass girls destroying her Halloween decorations. SMH. She posted the video (I watched it), and she later updated us that another woman reached out to her after recognizing her daughter in the video. The OP said that the woman made her daughter go over to the house with her to apologize.
That was right here in my neighborhood too.
Marina Starr
12-12-2021, 07:03 PM
We are very close in age, sis! Old hoes unite! #oldisgold
Bitterness is bone deep, it's not a good look.
Thank you sis. Old IS gold. I feel more content, relaxed and happy than ever.
There's an old saying, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." People like that will have bitterness etched on their face when they get old. I hate to tell them, but they will get old too, if they are lucky enough.
DonaDiabla
12-12-2021, 07:04 PM
I never liked Token sites because phone sex ruined any need to build community of customers for me. Token sites takes too long to get tipped. I like closing the deal within 1 to 5 minutes. After that, I get bored. Smh!
TheBrownFox
12-12-2021, 07:09 PM
I washed all my clothes and now I have to go to the laundry mat to dry them because the other week my dryer went shot. Ugh I hate laundry mats!!!!
You just reminded me that I need to take the bus to the laundromat tomorrow too. I've stopped using the one over here by the leasing office because their machines are terrible. I pay the money to start the wash cycle, and I'll stand there for a minute to make sure it's working okay. Then I'll walk back to my house to relax until it's time to walk back. When I go back, I see that the machine I'm currently is saying "No H2O." SMH. And I have no way of knowing if it ran out of water near the end of the wash cycle (which would be okay)...or if it happened during the beginning. So then that's a waste of money because now I have to put them in a different washer, and start the wash cycle all over again. Then half the time when I use the dryer, my stuff is still wet even after being in there for 90 freakin' minutes. It's a pain in the ass, so I've stopped going there and have now started catching the bus to go to one of the other laundromats in town.
Marina Starr
12-12-2021, 07:10 PM
Kudos for that woman for posting the video on Facebook. You can't expect people to do the right thing, you have to expect. Videos don't lie.
The mother did the right thing.
A woman in a local Facebook group I'm in said that she has the Ring cam on her front door, and it got video footage of some rotten-ass girls destroying her Halloween decorations. SMH. She posted the video (I watched it), and she later updated us that another woman reached out to her after recognizing her daughter in the video. The OP said that the woman made her daughter go over to the house with her to apologize.
That was right here in my neighborhood too.
chanzep
12-12-2021, 07:53 PM
Gen Z grew up in the internet. They base their whole lives around it. I hate the internet bullying. Keyboard warriors . They need to go outside more. I saw a story about a girl committing suicide because of online bullies so sad . I laugh at people arguing with me online but it's all these kids know they take it seriously.
~Carmen~
12-12-2021, 10:36 PM
Gen Z grew up in the internet. They base their whole lives around it. I hate the internet bullying. Keyboard warriors . They need to go outside more. I saw a story about a girl committing suicide because of online bullies so sad . I laugh at people arguing with me online but it's all these kids know they take it seriously.
That's terrible. Unfortunately, there have been many children who have taken their own lives after being bullied.
It's not only children. Adults get bullied too. Karma....
LoveyD
12-13-2021, 10:26 AM
^^I was bullied out of my family. Tired of assholes abusing me. That's why I wrote my book. To publicly out the motherfuckers and warn the world! Creative street justice is what I call it.
I really want to be making a lot more money. Drive by my old club again on Sat. Night and it was dead.
whirlerz
12-13-2021, 10:44 AM
So..
I usually don't mention the horrid mess of dishes in the kitchen, but yesterday I did..
The shit was piled up not only on counter, but on the kitchen table too?
Some of it was the meth guy's stuff.
I know the guy's gf does clean, she's really busy (aren't we all?) ::)
So, I left a note.. Also I took out of the oven the racks, was unable to put them back, I asked the guy, he couldn't either, then I asked guy upstairs, he had a hard time, he didn't get em exactly in right.
So, this jerk wrote me a note saying everything cleaned up, & saying 'not cleaning up after grown ass people'?!
Excuse me, I don't leave crap in the common areas, I take out the trash AND take the dumpsters up for pickup, WHAT?
Then said I shouldn't take the racks out of the oven, um cleaning?
I said, fine, we had a previous fire due to grease on the stove, but ok, I'll leave em in there!
Yeesh>:(
EDIT: OMG their bathroom,:yikes::yikes::yikes:
Used oven cleaner, powder cleanser, SO.GROSS!!
WendiStarr
12-13-2021, 01:12 PM
I was planning on creating a custom clip for a cam customer since he already paid for it and keeps bugging me about it. 3 hours later and my toddler is still wide awake, refusing to nap at all today. I can't film any adult stuff when I have her climbing and hanging on me like I'm a human jungle gym.
carmen_b
12-13-2021, 07:15 PM
I went from a non-smoking club to a smoking one and all my outfits smell so gross.
I'm trying to decide if they smell *bad enough* to just wash the whole batch.
chanzep
12-13-2021, 08:49 PM
I remember when I first started dancing club's were smoking. Also when I waitressed in Texas the club was smoking so disgusting makes your clothes n hair stink.
naomi_doll
12-13-2021, 08:52 PM
I'm in therapy and very happy about it, but every time I try to talk about how its going or what I learned with people closest to me, they always start talking about their issues. At least let me get done talking about how happy I am first!
miss.a.p1600
12-14-2021, 05:47 AM
I remember when I first started dancing club's were smoking. Also when I waitressed in Texas the club was smoking so disgusting makes your clothes n hair stink.
used to come out the club smelling like a damn ashtray n chimney.
n I don’t even smoke.
i was annoying af.
i had to drive with my windows down after every shift. Even in the blistering cold. Just to get the smell out.
they are country af here. Mfs chain smoke indoors. Ugh!!!!
miss.a.p1600
12-14-2021, 05:49 AM
I went from a non-smoking club to a smoking one and all my outfits smell so gross.
I'm trying to decide if they smell *bad enough* to just wash the whole batch.
try some fabreeze.
Next time seal your clean outfits in plastic ziplock bags
whirlerz
12-14-2021, 06:54 AM
Marina - THANK YOU so much for your words of wisdom!
If you don't mind me asking, what kinda dash cam do you have?
Thanks! :)
@
carmen, vinegar / water spray?
JGB2009
12-14-2021, 09:40 AM
Just leave me alone. Disappear why don't you!!!!!!
moneybags
12-14-2021, 12:59 PM
My nails are already busted. My nail guy was hyping these gel nails and they aren’t that great. I hate being hustled! I don’t really get angry, but I definitely let him know I was not pleased. He definitely over promised. I’ll get them fixed. But this effects my livelihood. Nails are an investment. I got so pissed I had to take a break at them gym. I’ll get the kit and do them myself next time.
TheBrownFox
12-14-2021, 02:10 PM
Re: The smoke.
I was on the bus earlier today, and it smelled like smoke immediately after a passenger(s) got on. Makes it harder to breathe, especially when you've already got on a mask that's covering your nose. Sometimes it smells like cigarettes...sometimes weed...sometimes both...sometimes b.o. But I don't fault the people who are stinking because they just got off work.
It still blows my mind that smoking in restaurants was a thing. I remember they would ask if you'd like to be seated in the smoking or non-smoking section.
whirlerz
12-14-2021, 02:25 PM
@money : I saw really nice nail kits @Ulta, Sally's too, but I liked Ulta's better!
~Carmen~
12-14-2021, 03:00 PM
Re: The smoke.
I was on the bus earlier today, and it smelled like smoke immediately after a passenger(s) got on. Makes it harder to breathe, especially when you've already got on a mask that's covering your nose. Sometimes it smells like cigarettes...sometimes weed...sometimes both...sometimes b.o. But I don't fault the people who are stinking because they just got off work.
It still blows my mind that smoking in restaurants was a thing. I remember they would ask if you'd like to be seated in the smoking or non-smoking section.
I remember being asked if I wanted a smoking or non smoking room at the hospital when I had a baby.