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indiegirl
12-17-2021, 10:42 AM
This a-hole doesn't know who he is messing with. I have been up all night and finished an appointment around 5-6am .........yet he's been writing me fucking essay texts, asking random unrelated questions in order to book, color of my eyes (DUH bitch it's in the photos), and now decided to ask my overnight price THEN asked if he can do 30 minutes and then come back later for another 30. I said no and now he needs to reschedule. FUCK OFF loser. I'm glad I didn't reapply my makeup.

carmen_b
12-17-2021, 10:44 AM
^ Omg.
Nightmare client red flags. :/

WonderWoman0642
12-17-2021, 06:25 PM
I was just thinking about the Home Alone movies earlier (#2 being my favorite, since it's in New York City), and saying that it's time for me to watch the DVDs again. I have Home Alone 1 - 4, but I never watch 3 and 4.

Same here, #2 is my fav! My brother insists the first one is the best. I loved the first one, but part 2 is even better. I barely remember 3 and I never watched 4.

Aurora_Sunset
12-17-2021, 07:10 PM
My husband needs to start setting some damn boundaries with his job. His schedule is 11pm-7am, but they regularly make him come in at 10 and don't let him off on time, despite them knowing good and well that he also goes to school fulltime and needs the sleep that he can get. On days that he doesn't have class, they'll regularly keep him until 11am. Then he complains about it, as though he can't just grow some balls and tell them that keeping him for 12 hours when his shift is scheduled for 8 hours isn't how this fucking works? He claims that since they "cut him a break" by "letting" him leave at 7 on school days, he feels obligated to stay later and help on his non-school days. To the point where he'll get no sleep between getting off work and going to pick up his kids for the weekend on his custodial weekends. Just because it's not school doesn't mean he has no other obligations. And "letting" him leave at 7? That's his fucking off time. That's 8 hours. Why are we acting like they're generous for "allowing" him to leave at his scheduled EOS?

Now, he's even letting them keep him until 8 or later on days when he's supposed to be in class at 8am. He recently failed a block of classes because he doesn't get enough sleep or studying due to work. That's 5 weeks he has to repeat now. And because of when the classes are scheduled, he actually has to take another block off in order to line back up with them again - so he actually set himself back 10 weeks. And if he doesn't get a grip on his schedule, he'll fail more. He used to tell work to basically suck his dick when they tried to take advantage of him, and that school was more important than anything going on - that his job was not his life. What happened to that?

He told me yesterday that he's so tired that he regularly gets home, turns off his car, and then falls asleep in the driver's seat before he can get out. Wtf? That's not ok. I keep telling him to set boundaries, tell them no, and start standing up for himself against their ridiculous BS. He just always says, "I know" and then mopes about expecting sympathy when he keeps letting them get worse.

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 07:52 AM
L had the audacity to say “oh my kids are barely here”

Mf those resource suckers (including that Bertha bitch) are invading my territory 2 days a week when you’re off, anytime Bertha pings you, and multiple times a day via FaceTime when your not off.

This is waaaay more than enough

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 08:03 AM
He calls me right after he leaves the house.

No sir. I have to deal with you, your kids, and Bertha lurking in the background today so I need all the time to myself I can get before they get here.

My solo freedom starts the minute you close the door. Until Bertha pings you to pick up those kids.

Unless it’s emergency, I’ll call ya later on the lunch break not one second before.

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 08:48 AM
I like the 'ankle biters' term, Ms P. :)

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 08:57 AM
Note to self….NEVER I mean never date men with young kids.

Idgaf how kind, nice n loving they are the headache of dealing with kids that aren’t yours (so you can’t really discipline them or raise them how you want), if you want to go somewhere n they’re there you have to take them with you, the hassles of battling disgruntled ex wives who have no life and use kids as pawns to manipulate……it’s not worth it.

99% of the time dealing with this shit is beyond my pay grade

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 09:04 AM
Note to self….NEVER I mean never date men with young kids.

Idgaf how kind, nice n loving they are the headache of dealing with kids that aren’t yours (so you can’t really discipline them or raise them how you want), the hassles of battling disgruntled ex wives who have no life and use kids as pawns to manipulate……it’s not worth it.

99% of the time dealing with this shit is beyond my pay grade

Thanks, the guy I like, (upstairs guy) has 2 also.. However, we're no where near even dating, so. :-\

But yea, he (L) need to set boundaries, damn grow a spine!

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 09:08 AM
^agreed.

Come Tuesday if his ass don’t pass this test I’m cutting out all this frivolous help he’s giving Bertha bitch, I’m further cutting off sex, there will be no wedding no baby and possibly the end of this relationship.

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 09:12 AM
Thanks, the guy I like, (upstairs guy) has 2 also.. However, we're no where near even dating, so. :-\

But yea, he (L) need to set boundaries, damn grow a spine!

I think men with kids is worse if their ex wives are still in the picture, when the kids are mouthy/disrespectful/or super needy, and when their isn’t enough money to
look past their baggage.

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 09:24 AM
I think men with kids is worse if their ex wives are still in the picture, when the kids are mouthy/disrespectful/or super needy, and when their isn’t enough money to
look past their baggage.

You know, in 'my' guy's sitch, (lol, not really my, we're just pals sort of) ::)
I see guilt.. Idk the whole back story, I know he works long brutal hours, but he told me of buying a huge expensive condo, lots of pricey toys for kids, & himself, then just walking away from it all?
He said he was too depressed to deal..
ended up here, in roomie hell cause he made a mistake

carmen_b
12-18-2021, 09:50 AM
^ What was the mistake though ?
Did he cheat ? Did she ?
Aren’t you dying for details ?

Plus ... he could be making it up ( ever having it together ) . It’s possible but I don’t really get the vibe he is.

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 10:53 AM
^ What was the mistake though ?
Did he cheat ? Did she ?
Aren’t you dying for details ?

Plus ... he could be making it up ( ever having it together ) . It’s possible but I don’t really get the vibe he is.
LUV U Girl!

I know nothing of the deets, wish I did.. I don't feel like he cheated, I personally feel he works long /odd hours, he's a pro trades guy, but does side work, I think he had/has his own biz..
I don't feel he's making it up, I see a sadness about him, altho he has a great sense of humor, always making me laugh!
I'm sooo attracted, we're the same type INFJ, same body type, we're outdoorsy, etc.

Once, we were texting, he said he was getting ready for a 100 mile drive, for work.

Idk, I try not to give myself false hope..

carmen_b
12-18-2021, 11:11 AM
Yeah but getting to know him means getting to know the history.
:)
Maybe no one cheated. Over time people can take each other for granted and kill the relationship .
It’s very common in couples if you don’t “ course correct “ it.
Something like that could have happened too.

Even getting to know him more as a friend couldn’t hurt. Maybe over drinks haha. :)

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 11:19 AM
Yeah but getting to know him means getting to know the history.
:)
Maybe no one cheated. Over time people can take each other for granted and kill the relationship .
It’s very common in couples if you don’t “ course correct “ it.
Something like that could have happened too.

Even getting to know him more as a friend couldn’t hurt. Maybe over drinks haha. :)

That's so true.. I've suggested things, he agrees but it hasn't happened, so that's why I say about the false hope.
I recently suggested outdoor Ice Skating, he said he'd like that

Lol, just an aside, I got him a small Christmas present, it's a tiny cologne sample.
Idk if I should give it to him or not t/:O

carmen_b
12-18-2021, 12:51 PM
^ You made your move.
If he isn’t smart enough to see you outside the house socially move on to a better prospect. :)
I’d probably just ask him if there is any attraction or interest in dating on his side.
Then if there is you can let him him plan a date.

carmen_b
12-18-2021, 12:54 PM
People are busy.
I know I won’t waste any time chit chatting if I’m not interested in the person. He sounds busy too so I’d say him chatting is a good sign.

indiegirl
12-18-2021, 01:39 PM
*Asking client to please shower beforehand yesterday* I allowed him not to this time because he swore he just showered and I had to hold my breath going down. This is why I tell you guys to shower. Not entirely because of covid LOL.

Anyways, I wasted my morning taking a trip to Garden Grove and back home for work. Didn't happen and it was fucking freezing (I kinda came on here earlier and rant/deleted my post lol). I'm hoping to find some money this afternoon. I have to take a break from the 19-25th (for real this time) and actually look presentable for Christmas this year. Trust, I usually drag my feet to avoid things I don't want to attend, make excuses, but I have to make an appearance for Xmas or I'll have nobody willing to talk to me anymore because I work all the time and I'm a notorious INTJ.

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 01:58 PM
OMG, Indie, ugh^


^ You made your move.
If he isn’t smart enough to see you outside the house socially move on to a better prospect. :)
I’d probably just ask him if there is any attraction or interest in dating on his side.
Then if there is you can let him him plan a date.

I hear ya, lol this's gone on 3 yrs (since we've lived here)
Eh, Idw to ask him I know he likes me..


People are busy.
I know I won’t waste any time chit chatting if I’m not interested in the person. He sounds busy too so I’d say him chatting is a good sign.

Yea, we'll see.
II try not to like him, then I see his dazzling smile, sexy body etc.
I don't give up all hope, but we'll see I guess:-\

charlie61
12-18-2021, 02:28 PM
I layered too many skin products on this morning, so my SPF pilled slightly during application. I didn't feel like rinsing everything off and starting over, so now i just have a slightly pilled situation happening with a mild white cast. Sigh.

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 02:29 PM
I layered too many skin products on this morning, so my SPF pilled slightly during application. I didn't feel like rinsing everything off and starting over, so now i just have a slightly pilled situation happening with a mild white cast. Sigh.

Hate that!

GlamLifter
12-18-2021, 02:53 PM
I don’t know why I even bother to do work for my sponsor, hate that kind of work.
It would probably be better money wise spending all the time with PT.. ;)

miss.a.p1600
12-18-2021, 04:31 PM
L asked me if I could take his daughter out with me tomorrow

Um no.

This is YOUR parenting time you agreed to do for Bertha.

Watching your needy kid, that Bertha doesn’t properly dress, is beyond my pay grade. If you’re not there, I’m off duty too!

whirlerz
12-18-2021, 04:37 PM
Lol^!!

chanzep
12-18-2021, 06:36 PM
My door has a sensor lock which stopped working again . I had to wait a hour for our if l hours maintenance. I'm going to office in Monday to cuss this is the second time this has happened. My mood is off now

kimbe
12-19-2021, 01:18 AM
I don’t know why I even bother to do work for my sponsor, hate that kind of work.
It would probably be better money wise spending all the time with PT.. ;)

Yeah, booth work can be really boring and exhausting.

Marina Starr
12-19-2021, 09:21 AM
Starbucks gets pretty busy... what annoys me so much is when people ordered their drinks and got all upset and bothered when they feel their drinks should already been ready.
There are times when their drinks were already ready at the bar or they could just simply ask the barista if their drinks are coming up.

I wanted to tell them to get off their ass and ask instead of just sitting or standing being all bothered. Next time I will ask the barista why is everyone sitting getting upset instead of asking if their shit is ready. Loud and clear so what I say will be heard. This is not only Starbucks, I'm annoyed everywhere when people do that shit.
I mean WHY?! Is there a stupid reason for this that I'm not getting?! Ask if your shit is ready or is it coming up.


STILL annoyed but rant ended.

whirlerz
12-19-2021, 09:33 AM
This's why I try to pre-order.^!

Marina Starr
12-19-2021, 09:36 AM
That's what a lot of people do too but they're even more bothered when they got there and their drinks weren't ready.
What I said was, don't sit being upset or stand all bothered, ASK where is my shit or is it coming up!

A lot of people don't know how to act in public.


This's why I try to pre-order.^!

JGB2009
12-19-2021, 10:26 AM
I have had my phone number for about 3-4 years but yet people still call me thinking I am the cat shelter who used to have my number ugh. So annoying.

WonderWoman0642
12-19-2021, 10:30 AM
I'm finally back into the groove with work. And now I have to stop my momentum and do the holiday thing. I really need to plan the holidays better. I'm driving down south and I'll be dealing with a full house all week. I hate that I spent most of the year depressed, fighting with my ex and not putting in enough hours. Now it's the end of the year and I have to force a vacation. At least I'll get some sunshine and warmer weather.

whirlerz
12-19-2021, 11:13 AM
Mr psycho roomie:
Leave. The blinds. Alone.!

U can see my plants are there, there's like 3 hours of sunlight, so leave it TF alone!
Cot damn it

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 11:19 AM
Whirl :
I'm too lazy to quote ha but I have another angle for this.
If he is a respectful guy which he seems to be he could just not be making a move due to you guys living close.
He could fear having you be uncomfortable ( which is great ) . This is respectful.
I have had male room mates do that ( never made a move living with me and then I found out later they had a crush ).

But ... also he's a dude with a weiner so I'd assume he might ask you out anyway by now haha.

Sometimes a relationship can grow from a friendship.

I'm not really egging you on ( there are OTHER dudes too after all ) it just seems like something might be there from your posts.

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 11:30 AM
L foolishly decided to help the Bertha bitch with childcare instead of helping himself get ahead n get a raise.

And I told him flat out “quit telling your damn kids all of your moves”

Move in fucking silence. Bertha (who is evesdropping on your kids conversations) does not need to know your moves so she can sabotage at any chance she gets.

If this mf fail the test. Mark my word……legs n pussy closed until further notice.

WendiStarr
12-19-2021, 11:35 AM
I've been having bad SPD pain(I call it my pussy bone even though it's not politically correct or whatever). My insurance doesn't cover chiropractors but my ob/gyn said either just deal with it for the next 2 months or see a chiropractor. It hurts to put on panties, pants, socks, shoes, or anything that involves moving my legs open. Grr!

I'm also petty annoyed at inboxdollars lately for wasting 35 minutes of my time doing 2 surveys, only to be disqualified for unknown reasons and earn nothing.

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 12:01 PM
I hate when L says he “needs sex”

Well…..I need some money so there’s that on that!

Not having any sex till this mf get a raise.

I’m tired of the anxiety of him trying to sabotage my fertility for his selfish desire for a baby he’s not working to provide for. I’m tired of tired to press him to set boundaries with the Bertha bitch.

All I am focusing on is getting ahead in my career and in my life.

I don’t need to be tied down to these people who aren’t doing anything to improve themselves n make better situations for themselves their kids and those around them.

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 02:09 PM
^ He's hasn't made the best PR case for a kid !
Get a marketing plan together L !! :)
He's run around like a disorganized mess .
I'd get TWO birth control methods going at all times if I were you !
I guess it's mean to ask him straight out " Why in the world do you think you can have another kid when you are hanging by a string handling the two you have ? " .
I'm sure you wonder that though ! :/

It would be a good example for that older one seeing his Dad get ahead and crush it at work. A neighbor or someone else can offer rides ! It takes a village ! Find those connections ( I mean not you .... but the parents should be ).

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 02:56 PM
^agreed 1000%!

The carpool ride to school is an excellent idea I’m going to suggest it. Sadly Bertha is a bitch who burns brides left n right n I doubt she knows how to make connections n friends but she needs to figure it out cause L leaving work during lunch n driving all across town n back is not efficient at all.

Aurora_Sunset
12-19-2021, 05:16 PM
Bio-mom had the audacity to text my husband out of the blue yesterday asking, "You don't have a Christmas tree? The kids said you don't have one?"

First of all, I was planning to buy one today on my day off. But secondly, why the fuck is that any of her business?

When I was lamenting the cost today (getting a fake one cuz I'm not gonna deal with a real one, needed lights and ornaments because I've never had a real tree as an adult), he tried to talk me out of it. When I was adamant, he teased me that I just wanted one so badly so that the kids couldn't go home and tell their mom and stepdad that we didn't have a tree. I mean... I REALLY wanted one this year - like I said, I've never had a big one since leaving my parents' house at 18. But also... I fucking know these people. No, it's not their business. And no, it's not important in any way that applies to the real world. But if they FELT it was a important enough to bring it up, if we didn't have a goddam tree, they'd file it away so that in 2-3 months, when they're mad about something, they can whip it out like, "Oh, you didn't even a buy a Christmas tree for your kids on Christmas" and try to twist it into some sort of symbol of us being shitty parents that don't care about providing experiences for the kids or some dumb shit like that. I wish I could say that's over-reactive paranoia, but I KNOW them. Why can't they not be psychopaths?

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 06:54 PM
Wtf ?!? ^^^
Who gives a flying fuck about a tree !!!

Tell her is it’s a special invisible tree. A new kind !! The variety is the “ none of your fucking business pine “!

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 06:59 PM
Ok damn what a day.
We have both families in town.
I avoided all the nonsense at our place where his was ( before they got there ) . I left and went see mine about 12:15-6:45.
:)
Thrilled to *think* I avoided all interaction I head back about 7 pm.

I guess his sister is staying the night. I received this text 20 minutes ago. :(
So I am at the gym not my house at least for one more hour until 8 pm minimum haha.
I’m seriously debating just buying a gas station toothbrush and calling the casino to use the freebie Sun - Wed night they gave me lol.

carmen_b
12-19-2021, 07:07 PM
Hmmm better double cardio , do weight machines, tan , shower.
Highly annoying .
I really wanted to just bath and watch a quick show.

Ugh ! I could only stretch it to 8:30!!

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 09:07 PM
Bio-mom had the audacity to text my husband out of the blue yesterday asking, "You don't have a Christmas tree? The kids said you don't have one?"

First of all, I was planning to buy one today on my day off. But secondly, why the fuck is that any of her business?

When I was lamenting the cost today (getting a fake one cuz I'm not gonna deal with a real one, needed lights and ornaments because I've never had a real tree as an adult), he tried to talk me out of it. When I was adamant, he teased me that I just wanted one so badly so that the kids couldn't go home and tell their mom and stepdad that we didn't have a tree. I mean... I REALLY wanted one this year - like I said, I've never had a big one since leaving my parents' house at 18. But also... I fucking know these people. No, it's not their business. And no, it's not important in any way that applies to the real world. But if they FELT it was a important enough to bring it up, if we didn't have a goddam tree, they'd file it away so that in 2-3 months, when they're mad about something, they can whip it out like, "Oh, you didn't even a buy a Christmas tree for your kids on Christmas" and try to twist it into some sort of symbol of us being shitty parents that don't care about providing experiences for the kids or some dumb shit like that. I wish I could say that's over-reactive paranoia, but I KNOW them. Why can't they not be psychopaths?

reminds me of the year my mom tried a live tree for Christmas one year. Struggled to get it, install it, n constantly clean the shedding needles.

then one day the tree fell over.

she was like fuck it! Y’all mfs can have gifts around the Christmas tree stand.

Lol! We literally had gifts around the stand with a missing tree.

In the grand scheme of things the kids could care less about a tree. As long as they get at least one present, they’re fine.

miss.a.p1600
12-19-2021, 09:22 PM
^ He's hasn't made the best PR case for a kid !
Get a marketing plan together L !! :)
He's run around like a disorganized mess .
I'd get TWO birth control methods going at all times if I were you !
I guess it's mean to ask him straight out " Why in the world do you think you can have another kid when you are hanging by a string handling the two you have ? " .
I'm sure you wonder that though ! :/

It would be a good example for that older one seeing his Dad get ahead and crush it at work. A neighbor or someone else can offer rides ! It takes a village ! Find those connections ( I mean not you .... but the parents should be ).


^agreed 1000%!

The carpool ride to school is an excellent idea I’m going to suggest it. Sadly Bertha is a bitch who burns brides left n right n I doubt she knows how to make connections n friends but she needs to figure it out cause L leaving work during lunch n driving all across town n back is not efficient at all.

So I didn’t realize he has been leaving work during his lunch break to take his son from school to Berthas house EVERY FUCKING DAY.

Wtf?!?

I never wanted to bring this topic up cause I didn’t want to be expected to perform duties beyond my pay grade or spend my time in impoverished areas. Basically I refuse to be a free nanny for Bertha nor do I consent to clean up her messes.

So anyway he refused to do a carpool saying he can’t trust people. Well not Everyone is a murderer or pedophile. And she chose to enroll them in school in the hood with no bus service. So the solution should be her responsibility.

Anyways we got into a long debate about how he lets Bertha run him and his car into the ground but he views it as “doing what’s necessary for his kids”

It all boils down to Bertha is a degenerate n he feels guilty (which she plays to her advantage) so he overcompensates

TheBrownFox
12-20-2021, 12:03 AM
Bio-mom had the audacity to text my husband out of the blue yesterday asking, "You don't have a Christmas tree? The kids said you don't have one?"

First of all, I was planning to buy one today on my day off. But secondly, why the fuck is that any of her business?

When I was lamenting the cost today (getting a fake one cuz I'm not gonna deal with a real one, needed lights and ornaments because I've never had a real tree as an adult), he tried to talk me out of it. When I was adamant, he teased me that I just wanted one so badly so that the kids couldn't go home and tell their mom and stepdad that we didn't have a tree. I mean... I REALLY wanted one this year - like I said, I've never had a big one since leaving my parents' house at 18. But also... I fucking know these people. No, it's not their business. And no, it's not important in any way that applies to the real world. But if they FELT it was a important enough to bring it up, if we didn't have a goddam tree, they'd file it away so that in 2-3 months, when they're mad about something, they can whip it out like, "Oh, you didn't even a buy a Christmas tree for your kids on Christmas" and try to twist it into some sort of symbol of us being shitty parents that don't care about providing experiences for the kids or some dumb shit like that. I wish I could say that's over-reactive paranoia, but I KNOW them. Why can't they not be psychopaths?


When I see a woman in one of these local Facebook groups posting that she is "in need" of a Christmas tree because it's her baby's first Christmas, I'm thinking to myself um...what? It's a BABY. But anyway, go on over there to Dollar General like I did last year, and get that gorgeous 6-foot artificial white tree for $20. Or go to Dollar TREE, and get you a box of string lights. There ya go...something pretty and shiny for the baby to look at. Lol. Some of these "In need" posts are silly, imo.

Also I've never felt the need to pay $100 or up for a Christmas tree. I know a lot of people will go all out when it comes to trees, and that's cool. This year I bought one of those $60 4-foot angel wing trees from Big Lots because it's freakin' gorgeous. But even then I was like OMG, I'm really about to spend this much when I could just wait for Dollar General to get that $20 6-foot white tree back in stock. Lol. My dumb ass didn't keep the one from last year. But from now on, I think I'll continue getting those beautiful 6-foot white trees from Dollar General. I LOVE white trees, and that one was so easy to assemble. The 4-foot angel tree I got this time from Big Lots was a nightmare to assemble...it was pissing me off.

carmen_b
12-20-2021, 07:58 AM
Miss P :

That’s nonsense. We can get to know and trust our neighbors. Women anyway ha.

J won’t do it either. Not yet anyway. I told him I’d try to find a mom in this area to take his daughter to school tues / wed so that he just picks up M - W ( the ex drops her at school Mon )! The plan is good. They still get 20 min solo in the car to chat but the morning one that disrupts his day more could be outsourced.

At least every few day’s I hear grumbling around rides and I’m like “ oh weird someone had an idea to completely solve that and buy everyone more time 2 months ago “ .
^ I’ve never said so . I’ve just thought it. :/

miss.a.p1600
12-20-2021, 08:09 AM
^exactly

Carpooling is a great idea.

He tried to guilt trip me and say “oh I don’t have any help with this”. Looking me dead in the eye.

No! I’m not helping Bertha with problems she creates. I’m not driving through n to the hood daily. She is a bitch to everyone and has no friends, no network, no connections.

Bertha does not pay me for my time, gas, mileage AND Their son is failing out of school which makes the sacrifice worthless. I told him that.

Anyways I’m done dealing with people who have no concept of time being even more valuable than money, n rather than save themselves time so they can make more money, they’d rather do menial tasks that take up all their time then complain later about how tired n burned out they are.

The more I have to think about L wasting resources traipsing all over town in the name of “Im doing what I’m supposed to do as a dad” and his worthless ex wife the more I feel like I’m getting sucked into their struggles.

I’m doing ME!!!! And focusing on myself.

WendiStarr
12-20-2021, 08:39 AM
Waiting for blood draw and some lady is up in here coughing. People are supposed to keep their sick asses home! Not come to ob/gyn office coughing. I have a mask on but still. I'm paranoid. If I wasn't feeling dizzy from this glucose drink crap I'd walk out.

miss.a.p1600
12-20-2021, 09:30 AM
Ok damn what a day.
We have both families in town.
I avoided all the nonsense at our place where his was ( before they got there ) . I left and went see mine about 12:15-6:45.
:)
Thrilled to *think* I avoided all interaction I head back about 7 pm.

I guess his sister is staying the night. I received this text 20 minutes ago. :(
So I am at the gym not my house at least for one more hour until 8 pm minimum haha.
I’m seriously debating just buying a gas station toothbrush and calling the casino to use the freebie Sun - Wed night they gave me lol.

You’re waiting until they’re gone?