View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
12-20-2021, 09:56 AM
^ Actually it wasn't that bad.
I wanted a work out anyway after my family visit which put me at the gym 7-8p.m.
When I found company was lingering ...... I went to gym until 8:20 ! Ha.
Then we had a nice ( and brief ) visit with the sister about 8:50-9:20 !
Not bad at all honestly.
I'm actually kind of excited the sister has moved to Vegas. She has a nice guest room now which will come in handy for me and J ( we do nice hotels M - TH but weekend dates peak in price ). Weekend prices are just crazy for hotels. :)
It makes it much easier to play nice when there is a reciprocal exchange v.s. just having her in MY space 1-2 days a month ( I'd say averaging the last 6 months she's been here maybe 6-8 nights ).
So I'd say she safely owes us 6 weekend days ha.
She has also indicated that she is willing to help J travel more ( take the daughter for his three days during a week so that we don't even have to check in with the the ex about travel dates or custody date trades ) which is really amazing. I trust her and think she actually WILL do it not just talk about it !
kortneykay
12-20-2021, 01:39 PM
I'm really over clients messaging me about playing in the future for slots they won't prebook for. My rule is that if you want me this weekend or later today, or tomorrow. PRE-book. That means pay me now, and when you're ready I'll be ready at your exact time and date. We both know your money is your word. And 100% of the time they're ready to play when you have their money as a bargaining chip. These dudes rarelllyyy forget when they pre-paid.
Otherwise, why bring it up? What's the point? Especially during the holidays when they know their money isn't long. If one more reg, potential or new client messages me again this week about a unscheduled show I'm knocking shit over and blocking. I don't give a single fuck about work being busy. I don't care about your Christmas budget or your wife being around. I am a luxury service. Stop asking me 'Am I free on X date?" and not have the cash to pay for it UP front.
It's like they feel guilty for not having money to play because they spent it on their family. Cool. By why not just message with money and dick in hand vs trying to sweet talk about a show that may or may not happen?
whirlerz
12-20-2021, 04:13 PM
For cry fuckin eye, this wah co I applied to has now sent me a link to test my system, for the 3rd fuckin time!
Btw, I completed the other 2::).
I been camming all day, not bothering w/this shit rn! Jeez!
carmen_b
12-20-2021, 04:15 PM
Ok this is some shit. lol'
I was promised mongolian noodles today and now we may get dominos pizza.
Hmmmmm I might go get my own batch of noodles.
kortneykay
12-21-2021, 09:10 AM
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I get really annoyed when companies try and gaslight and play me literally every Holiday. It's always ONE. Been with this company for like 9 years and they 'forgot' conveniently right before Christmas? Surreeeeeee buddy. Note that my account says it was sent 6 days ago but yet he 'missed it by mistake'. He tried saying the payment I'm looking for hasn't been sent yet. No, you still have to pay me for the previous week, first before we can confuse this week's payment . :-\
miss.a.p1600
12-21-2021, 11:45 AM
L said he failed his test.
I'm not surprised because he said several times '....if I fail this test....' 'at least I know what's on it' "I can retake it" and other foolishness.
Who tf goes into a test thinking n assuming they're going to fail? You should already know what's on it before you take it if you STUDY properly. How do you not know concepts of your career field you work in every day?
I'm not happy with him rn.
Basically paid $175 to '"see what's on the test", fail it, and waste another 3 months'
mkay
Now his ass can't even retake it for another 90 days.
Fuck it....I'm celebrating MY new certification and license.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-21-2021, 11:58 AM
The President has no control over price of gas no matter who is in office. I find it ignorant and juvenile when I see Biden stickers 'I did that!' at gas stations.
The ignorance and stupidity is strong in a lot of these fuckers.
Then I heard some guy said 'let's go brandon', so I told his ass to say what he really wants. Of course he didn't.
So I reminded him: Brandon took Trump's job, his house and his twitter account. Brandon, did that ;D
I live in a very conservative town and been seeing a lot of pictures of President Biden on a lot of trucks with the 'lets go brandon' all over their trucks. First thing that came to my mind was DEPLORABLES. I find it so strange that they have pictures of a man they hate so much all over their cars and having to look at him all time. I don't see the logic in that.
That reminded me I need to wear my 'Biden/Harris to Traders Hoes tomorrow. That will sure get a lot of panties twisted and I love it!
I love it.
Kamala Harris has set off some insane reactions in some people, just by doing her damned job.
whirlerz
12-21-2021, 01:25 PM
Guy upstairs took one of the 2 dumpsters back? ::)
Seriously, you couldn't have taken the other one back too? (they're both empty)
TF>:(
Marina Starr
12-21-2021, 03:12 PM
I love it.
Kamala Harris has set off some insane reactions in some people, just by doing her damned job.
I always love seeing it, lmao!
https://i.ibb.co/282tLct/ezgif-3-28c2f83168.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
~Carmen~
12-21-2021, 09:36 PM
Fucking Comcast. Need I say more?
Marina Starr
12-22-2021, 01:40 AM
That sucks! Could be where you're living the lines are either congested or old. Speed will really fluctuate and unstable if too many people are sharing the same internet lines.
Fucking Comcast. Need I say more?
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 02:13 AM
That sucks! Could be where you're living the lines are either congested or old. Speed will really fluctuate and unstable if too many people are sharing the same internet lines.
That could very well be. My speed is usually good but sometimes it drops so low the speed test won't register. I just think it's strange that it always gets better after I bitch to them. I'm getting the ethernet cable tomorrow, maybe it will help. They scheduled a tech to come out Friday afternoon. I'll cancel unless it happens again because I really don't want to deal with this on Christmas Eve. Download is great, of course.
I remember when you went through something similar. I think you had to call them out several times, right?
Just to add that last time it lasted a couple of days, until I talked to a higher up. This time only a few hours.
Marina Starr
12-22-2021, 03:10 AM
It didn't matter how much I talk to them, it still happens intermittently. That's a challenge to fix if they're aren't there when it happens. They may need to reinstall what they did when you moved in.
That could very well be. My speed is usually good but sometimes it drops so low the speed test won't register. I just think it's strange that it always gets better after I bitch to them. I'm getting the ethernet cable tomorrow, maybe it will help. They scheduled a tech to come out Friday afternoon. I'll cancel unless it happens again because I really don't want to deal with this on Christmas Eve. Download is great, of course.
I remember when you went through something similar. I think you had to call them out several times, right?
Just to add that last time it lasted a couple of days, until I talked to a higher up. This time only a few hours.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 03:24 AM
It didn't matter how much I talk to them, it still happens intermittently. That's a challenge to fix if they're aren't there when it happens. They may need to reinstall what they did when you moved in.
The only thing they did when I moved here was add a splitter. I don't have a cable outlet in the room where I hoe. I think it's weird that the download speed is much higher when the upload drops.
I guess it's one of those things I have to accept, instead of throwing tantrums like a spoiled, entitled hoe.
Marina Starr
12-22-2021, 04:53 AM
You may have #fuckboys as neighbors playing video games or streaming. That would kill your upload if you share lines with them. Ask Alexa to track these fuckboys down for you. That's why comcast said 'up to' certain speeds because that depends on what your neighbors are doing when you hoe.
Could it be because you also have other hoes as neighbors selling pussy at the same time as you?
The only thing they did when I moved here was add a splitter. I don't have a cable outlet in the room where I hoe. I think it's weird that the download speed is much higher when the upload drops.
I guess it's one of those things I have to accept, instead of throwing tantrums like a spoiled, entitled hoe.
Marina Starr
12-22-2021, 11:04 AM
How the fuck do you write 'good service' then rate 3 and a half star? LMAO. The stupid is strong in a lot of people! LMFAO
Genoveve
12-22-2021, 11:46 AM
That could very well be. My speed is usually good but sometimes it drops so low the speed test won't register. I just think it's strange that it always gets better after I bitch to them. I'm getting the ethernet cable tomorrow, maybe it will help. They scheduled a tech to come out Friday afternoon. I'll cancel unless it happens again because I really don't want to deal with this on Christmas Eve. Download is great, of course.
I remember when you went through something similar. I think you had to call them out several times, right?
Just to add that last time it lasted a couple of days, until I talked to a higher up. This time only a few hours.
You HAVE to use Ethernet. I haven't seem to have any issues in this place, but in my last place if I didn't use ethernet---even though I streamed within like 4 feet of my router---the speeds would just randomly drop or the connection would drop for a fraction of a second which is enough to cause a stream disconnect. Wifi is just not always perfect. If your speeds still drop with the ethernet there's a zillion other things that could cause it, I think I experienced them all in my last place.
Esixxx
12-22-2021, 11:54 AM
That could very well be. My speed is usually good but sometimes it drops so low the speed test won't register. I just think it's strange that it always gets better after I bitch to them. I'm getting the ethernet cable tomorrow, maybe it will help. They scheduled a tech to come out Friday afternoon. I'll cancel unless it happens again because I really don't want to deal with this on Christmas Eve. Download is great, of course.
I remember when you went through something similar. I think you had to call them out several times, right?
Just to add that last time it lasted a couple of days, until I talked to a higher up. This time only a few hours.
I had been dealing with this issue the beginning of the month and last month. My upload speed dropped down to 1mbps.
I got impatient and bought a modem- returned the old one that I was leasing. The tech came out and tested the line. He put a new end on the end of the coax cable. My speeds are finally what I am paying for :)
After that we had a signal issue in our building- which was a PITA.
It's frustrating. I hope the tech gets it back up and working for you!
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 12:46 PM
You may have #fuckboys as neighbors playing video games or streaming. That would kill your upload if you share lines with them. Ask Alexa to track these fuckboys down for you. That's why comcast said 'up to' certain speeds because that depends on what your neighbors are doing when you hoe.
Could it be because you also have other hoes as neighbors selling pussy at the same time as you?.
Only old fuckboys in my area sis. Their only hobby is nosing into everyone's business. Maybe the other old ladies in my building do sell pussy. I did see one walking around almost naked in her living room with her blinds wide open. I will ask them.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 12:52 PM
You HAVE to use Ethernet. I haven't seem to have any issues in this place, but in my last place if I didn't use ethernet---even though I streamed within like 4 feet of my router---the speeds would just randomly drop or the connection would drop for a fraction of a second which is enough to cause a stream disconnect. Wifi is just not always perfect. If your speeds still drop with the ethernet there's a zillion other things that could cause it, I think I experienced them all in my last place.
Thanks Genoveve. I didn't like when he brought the splitter out. I will be trying the ethernet tonight. My speeds are higher here than the old place, when it's working properly.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 01:05 PM
I had been dealing with this issue the beginning of the month and last month. My upload speed dropped down to 1mbps.
I got impatient and bought a modem- returned the old one that I was leasing. The tech came out and tested the line. He put a new end on the end of the coax cable. My speeds are finally what I am paying for :)
After that we had a signal issue in our building- which was a PITA.
It's frustrating. I hope the tech gets it back up and working for you!
I'm sorry you had to go thought all that. It's always fun spending hours on the phone while they promise to solve your isse. I'm glad the new coax cable connector solved your problem. So much trial and error and frustration. I'm glad you got it solved, until your building signal issue.
Thank you for your well wishes! Speeds are always perfect when the tech comes out;D
WendiStarr
12-22-2021, 01:10 PM
I feel like I'm never gonna be free of BD.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 01:11 PM
How the fuck do you write 'good service' then rate 3 and a half star? LMAO. The stupid is strong in a lot of people! LMFAO
Stupid is everywhere. It's the real pandemic.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 01:24 PM
Well guess what? I just got the cord and did a speedtest. 24.9 upload. Wifi was between 8 and 15 today. Yay!!
Staci
12-22-2021, 01:29 PM
I feel like I'm never gonna be free of BD.
Once you have children with someone, I think you're stuck with them.
If you can move far away, it would help.
carmen_b
12-22-2021, 01:40 PM
^ I think you probably have enough evidence to prove in court that he is a mess.
Then just getting the child support checks ( and moving ) does seems ideal .
Genoveve
12-22-2021, 01:54 PM
Well guess what? I just got the cord and did a speedtest. 24.9 upload. Wifi was between 8 and 15 today. Yay!!
Keep testing it if you still end up having streaming issues. IME it doesn't matter how high the upload is if it keeps changing/is unstable. Like if I run a test and it's 28., then I run another and it's 36., then I run another and it's 31., even though those are all still high speeds the instability messes up my streaming.
whirlerz
12-22-2021, 02:13 PM
Wendi, can you talk to a free legal in your area?
Search around, maybe someone can help.
In my area phones are staffed w/volunteer lawyers, they work Mon. Thurs. from. 8am to noon.
OR a woman's HOTLINE? Or try to get a case worker from your county?
Good luck dear.
Now my toilet broke kinda.. The handle broke from the chain, I can still flush if I take the lid off & pull chain up.
Ugh, I don't want to say anything yet, my room & bath are a mess.
Also, I had to plunge both sinks in kitchen >:(, TF?
After moving dirty lunch containers off kitchen table! >:(
Waiting for the day I have to wipe someones' ASS FOR THEM
Marina Starr
12-22-2021, 02:46 PM
That's why when people are afraid getting vaccinated will alter their DNA, I tell that's an option they should highly considered.
Stupid is everywhere. It's the real pandemic.
~Carmen~
12-22-2021, 02:56 PM
That's why when people are afraid getting vaccinated will alter their DNA, I tell that's an option they should highly considered.
Absolutely. DNA altering has a 99% chance of curing stupid.
miss.a.p1600
12-22-2021, 04:31 PM
L calls me at and said he’s going to pick his kids up and bring them over in an hour.
Bruh! WTF?!? Did you let me know this is your parenting time 24 hrs in advance? Are you cooking n cleaning n entertaining?
No ma’am
Then he said his kids have been “alone” for 4 days while their mom is at work. Well the bitch should have sent her kids to their relatives house…idgaf if they don’t want to go there or not. Unless you’re being abused you need to go to your relatives house.
Then he says “I’m going to get a calendar and mark the days I get them”
Cotdamn it ……. I’ve been telling you n asking you to do this several months.
Stop bring them over when I’m still working from home. Go do your parenting time anywhere but this house.
miss.a.p1600
12-22-2021, 04:47 PM
The host of our gathering decides to have a sick friend over who turns out to have coronavirus
If she is sick, not only is L going to have to stay her n not going out of town but also there will be no Xmas dinner party n I’ll have to be stuck doing forced extrovert n “family” holiday things I don’t want to do.
I don’t want to be locked in this house with L n his kids.
He better come up with a viable plan B or I will make up n excuse to ditch them all n do my own solo holiday escapades
indiegirl
12-22-2021, 07:27 PM
Proud of how much money I made this year. I busted my ass. 286,889 is a lot for 2021. BUT I've revisited how much I've made compared to all the costs I had to spend on and I'm bothered. So many house repairs, uber, hotel, bills, essential items, food, some things for relaxation/self care, etc. It all adds up. I felt like I did a good job saving but I'm trying to see where I can cut the costs down even further. Maybe it's just the rising cost of everything nowadays.
I wish I never saw the total I made this year. I had to triple check. I think going into 2022 I'm going to check daily what is being taken exactly out of my account daily and decide if I'm willing to cancel it or how to cut down the price even more. Definitely not doing the housekeeper once a month. I'll just take a day off to deep clean the house myself and go to the dollar tree more.
TheBrownFox
12-23-2021, 02:09 AM
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?232408-Im-a-finsub
Why hasn't he gone on one of the cam sites to find a model for this??? I'll tell you why...he's on here looking for FREE female attention. Probably hoping a woman will humiliate him (If that's even what he's into) right there directly in the thread. LOL. That post is from a month and a half ago, and you mean to tell me a dude like that who supposedly is ready to spend money hasn't found himself a cam model for this yet? Get the fuck out of here.....lol. The stuff these men will do for some female attention.
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2021, 10:23 AM
L’s brother decides to cancel on him last minute because his sister-in-law is allegedly sick.
Idiots.
Now L doesn’t want to go because he doesn’t want to drive. And of course Bertha is chomping at the bits to drop her kids off with L.
Not my fault you mfs can plan adequately.
Fuck them all.
I’m getting out solo. My solo plans still stand.
SnuffleUffleGrass
12-23-2021, 10:41 AM
Petty annoyed by chronic illness today. Nausea out of nowhere, lovely.
carmen_b
12-23-2021, 10:42 AM
^ Yup .....
He said he was going so your " plans " can still be firm even if you are creating them as you go lol.
2-5 hours a day is enough ( whatever your comfort level ) of family time even on a holiday.
It doesn't have to be 14 hours in a day.
I'm crafting a plan myself to get out of the house Dec. 24 and 26. I sort of didn't add it up that J's daughter would be with us ( and not in school ) even though it should have be obvious to me from the date range ha. Anyway ..... off to find a special yoga 1/2 day workshop or something to sign up for. It would be awesome if he MENTIONED a plan he made to get the two of them out of the house for a bit on the 24th or 26th but no mention so far. I assume it will be on me to create that balance of all three of us not trapped and staring at each other in this house all day so I will find things to do. :)
I don't really understand these super long school breaks but I know we got the good end of it all . We only have three out of school days to cover and her mom has 6 ..... not doing any complaining about that !
I got really lucky last Tuesday and they were out of house 1p.m. - 5:30 ha.
You know I was here just chilling . I had fajitas and popcorn and watched at least two hours of selling sunset.
I feel like such a Grinch anyway. Of COURSE I got all the kids i know gifts. Duh. But as adults ( my siblings / J's siblings ect. ) can't we just call all the buying shit off and join up together in Jan. for a nice meal or something ?
Experiences > Things.
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2021, 01:37 PM
Thanks Carmen. I am trying to balance solo time with family time. And communication / scheduling could be better.
Anyhow it’s the holidays.
Gotta enjoy it regardless.
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2021, 01:39 PM
I ordered subway.
Now I remember why I never get food from there.
This shit is terrible!!!!
I wish I could get a refund but the owners looked like they need that money.
Never again!!!
Now all I can eat is chips n water that came with it. Ugh!!!!
Marina Starr
12-23-2021, 02:45 PM
I didn't know subways is still in business. I ban their foods in my house or in my presence. Their food have a very distinctly terrible smell that lingers. Highly offensive.
I ordered subway.
Now I remember why I never get food from there.
This shit is terrible!!!!
I wish I could get a refund but the owners looked like they need that money.
Never again!!!
Now all I can eat is chips n water that came with it. Ugh!!!!
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2021, 08:58 PM
Thank heavens L went out of town.
No i don’t want to talk at all during MY solo time.
Text only.
Let me be!
He should get a hotel n stay overnight but I guess he thinks “rushing back home” is sexy n it’s not. I plan to make my own overnight or more trip since he wont leave more than several hours.
Selina M
12-23-2021, 09:37 PM
I didn't know subways is still in business. I ban their foods in my house or in my presence. Their food have a very distinctly terrible smell that lingers. Highly offensive.
They have 24 hour ones here. It's kind of nice occasionally to get something besides Jack in the Box or McDonalds that late, but I've had some typical creepy male interactions with the owner/staff whenever I've gone after "normal" business type hours.
Selina M
12-23-2021, 09:50 PM
My vagina region hurts almost all the time now. It's such bullshit. It'd be one thing to adjust to being a manual-bladder-emptyer but it's hard when I can't use certain kinds and it's often painful. Def not like using a tampon ::)
Suffice to say I am not running at 100%. I am not feeling Christmas-y. At all. It's something to get through at this point.
We were supposed to have just my mom on Christmas but then she made me invite my aunt (not that I don't love her) and then my SO found out his brother was going to be alone (we assumed he was driving the 2.5 hours to their dad's house). So now his weird ass is coming. We have no table or chairs since we either eat the bar/counter area or on the couch.
SO has Christmas Eve off for the first time in 7 years. His dad decided that was the day he had to drive that 2.5 hours each way to pick up the new car he just bought him (he's had a rental for weeks now). His dad did this on purpose, I guarantee it.
So I get to grocery shop, clean the entire place, figure out the table/chair situation, probably figure out a gift for Weirdo Brother, etc. all by myself most likely. While my urethra and vagina are burning and nagging at me. Oh and I can't even have any coffee or Red Bull because I showed inflammation markers at my appt yesterday and they're currently checking for a UTI :banghead:
miss.a.p1600
12-23-2021, 09:54 PM
Get back to this house and one of his kids shit in toilet n didn’t flush.
I wish I could beat their ass for that.
I hate raising kids that aren’t mine that I can’t discipline.
So fucking gross. And they are too old to be doing that.
These jokers need to go back to Berthas house. Shit in her toilets and leave poop surprises for her ass.
I’m sad my solo time has ended so soon. T minus 2 hours till those territory invaders return. I’m going to fake like I’m asleep n they better stfu when the come in here. If I’m awoken from my beauty rest cause they’re loud af, I’m raising hell. I’m going to have to find my next chunk of solo time soon.
L keeps calling n I don’t feel like talking to him I want a break!!!! Damn! I can text but I don’t want to talk, I just talked to you 4 hours ago
JGB2009
12-23-2021, 10:27 PM
When I need you the most you aren't even here.
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 09:13 AM
Selina :
I’m so sorry. :(
Ugh. I have a bladder condition too and it can suck so damn bad when the pain kicks up.
Ugh !!
I feel your pain so much. I also can’t have anything with caffeine except low acid coffee ( have you tried it by chance there are some at most grocery stores ). Cutting back on coffee was the hardest transition . :/
I find explaining why I can’t drink ect. super awkward too ( it’s nice when no one asks but seems like someone always does out of curiosity ).
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 09:18 AM
Miss P :
Praying for ya that he had a bit to drink and “ had “ to get a hotel or crash overnight with family ha !
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 09:27 AM
I’m having flash backs to my life in late 2016 / early 2017 when I was in Thailand with a partner all of Dec. and early Jan.!
All holiday nonsense avoided. Oh well that was then and this is now lol.
whirlerz
12-24-2021, 09:29 AM
Selina, I'm so sorry, that's a LOT to deal w/especially on the holidays!
Hope you feel better soon!
Ms P, ugh, gross, they need to be taught better!
miss.a.p1600
12-24-2021, 09:48 AM
Miss P :
Praying for ya that he had a bit to drink and “ had “ to get hotel or crash overnight with family ha !
Thanks Carmen
I got too excited thinking he was going to stay gone overnight.
I just can’t do the constant “I gotta get back home to you”
nah bruh I want you to fucking get some friends, get some hobbies, drop your clingy kids off, quit being clingy and go!
I have come to realize the peace I need will come from creating my own trips
anyhow he was pissed I text only n didn’t talk to him. I explained. I was too busy cleaning shit up after your kids and I was not in the mood to talk.
Then he tried to gaslight me n say “all you had to do was flush it”
Nah all I had to do was kick some ass - starting with yours. You undisciplined kids did it and I blame YOU for not training them properly but you know what ….. they gone learn today!
Even without the shit, I did not want to spend my free time sitting here talking to
him. Every time he calls me it’s about some bullshit (oh I failed my test, my kids are coming over in an hour, or some topic that calls for me to drop what im doing to either spend my time or money on something I hadn’t planned on doing)
a break is a break. ME time is me time.
Unless you’re dying ………I’ll call you when IM ready to talk cotdamn it!