View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
12-24-2021, 10:07 AM
I know we all couldn't live w/o updates on, "how far should I.." ::)
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 10:13 AM
Yeah you are totally caught in a cycle where he is up your butt and you are desperate for a break. I can see how you want your own trips 100%.
It's honestly such a turn off when partners don't have their own lives. You might need to encourage him to get out ( bleh ) . He is probably repeating codependent patterns he had with ex. My parter is up front about similar issues ( he doesn't want to repeat ). I had those issues too in my last serious relationship with the same thing so we try to stay on top of it.
Thanks Carmen
I got too excited thinking he was going to stay gone overnight.
I just can’t do the constant “I gotta get back home to you”
nah bruh I want you to fucking get some friends, get some hobbies, drop your clingy kids off, quit being clingy and go!
I have come to realize the peace I need will come from creating my own trips
anyhow he was pissed I text only n didn’t talk to him. I explained. I was too busy cleaning shit up after your kids and I was not in the mood to talk.
Then he tried to gaslight me n say “all you had to do was flush it”
Nah all I had to do was kick some ass - starting with yours. You undisciplined kids did it and I blame YOU for not training them properly but you know what ….. they gone learn today!
Even without the shit, I did not want to spend my free time sitting here talking to
him. Every time he calls me it’s about some bullshit (oh I failed my test, my kids are coming over in an hour, or some topic that calls for me to drop what im doing to either spend my time or money on something I hadn’t planned on doing)
a break is a break. ME time is me time.
Unless you’re dying ………I’ll call you when IM ready to talk cotdamn it!
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 10:14 AM
Wait there are updates ? :)
I know we all couldn't live w/o updates on, "how far should I.." ::)
miss.a.p1600
12-24-2021, 10:17 AM
^im taking the longest shower today (n playing Christmas music on my phone) because it’s the only place I can close the door and be by myself for a minute before his needy kids and their father who hates to plan start expecting “family” time.
miss.a.p1600
12-24-2021, 10:18 AM
Wait there are updates ? :)
Yes. I’ll take some updates too!
carmen_b
12-24-2021, 10:31 AM
You could also do " last minute " errands too to get out .
Last minute shopping or a friend " in town just for a couple days ".
Both are plausible , ha.
I'm insisting on balance today but I don't expect more than a couple hours solo either today ( beyond that and I think it will be obvious I'm just out fucking around ). I don't want to be in *trouble* per say on the holiday ha. Plus I feel guilty making anyone work today past Noon so my window to get out is closing. It is a family day so it's good to play nice today.
It's nice out so I suggested we all get out and get outside later in the afternoon.
^im taking the longest shower today (n playing Christmas music on my phone) because it’s the only place I can close the door and be by myself for a minute before his needy kids and their father who hates to plan start expecting “family” time.
TheBrownFox
12-24-2021, 12:19 PM
I know we all couldn't live w/o updates on, "how far should I.." ::)
His own lil' diary entries. LOL.
Genoveve
12-24-2021, 02:50 PM
So I get to grocery shop, clean the entire place, figure out the table/chair situation, probably figure out a gift for Weirdo Brother, etc. all by myself most likely. While my urethra and vagina are burning and nagging at me. Oh and I can't even have any coffee or Red Bull because I showed inflammation markers at my appt yesterday and they're currently checking for a UTI :banghead:
The Azo pain pills don't work for you? They completely kill the pain/discomfort of UTIs for me.
miss.a.p1600
12-24-2021, 04:01 PM
Yeah you are totally caught in a cycle where he is up your butt and you are desperate for a break. I can see how you want your own trips 100%.
It's honestly such a turn off when partners don't have their own lives. You might need to encourage him to get out ( bleh ) . He is probably repeating codependent patterns he had with ex. My parter is up front about similar issues ( he doesn't want to repeat ). I had those issues too in my last serious relationship with the same thing so we try to stay on top of it.
you’re right.
He said his ex wife would never let him go anywhere and had a short leash.
they probably were codependent in each other in an unhealthy way.
It is a turn off.
Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2021, 04:13 PM
When I see a woman in one of these local Facebook groups posting that she is "in need" of a Christmas tree because it's her baby's first Christmas, I'm thinking to myself um...what? It's a BABY. But anyway, go on over there to Dollar General like I did last year, and get that gorgeous 6-foot artificial white tree for $20. Or go to Dollar TREE, and get you a box of string lights. There ya go...something pretty and shiny for the baby to look at. Lol. Some of these "In need" posts are silly, imo.
Also I've never felt the need to pay $100 or up for a Christmas tree. I know a lot of people will go all out when it comes to trees, and that's cool. This year I bought one of those $60 4-foot angel wing trees from Big Lots because it's freakin' gorgeous. But even then I was like OMG, I'm really about to spend this much when I could just wait for Dollar General to get that $20 6-foot white tree back in stock. Lol. My dumb ass didn't keep the one from last year. But from now on, I think I'll continue getting those beautiful 6-foot white trees from Dollar General. I LOVE white trees, and that one was so easy to assemble. The 4-foot angel tree I got this time from Big Lots was a nightmare to assemble...it was pissing me off.
I was so happy - we went to Target because Walmart was completely out of fake trees. Initially, all I could see were the 7-foot boxed ones that come pre-lit, with ornaments, for $200-300. I was like "fuck no, I can't do that." The only other options were mini ones, which is what I've had for the past 15 years, and didn't want another one. I kept pacing the same aisle over and over again, and at one point, told myself I was being stupid looking over and over, because it's not as though I was suddenly going to find one that was full-size and not outrageously expensive.... And then suddenly, I saw one that I hadn't seen before on the shelf. 6-foot, only $40 because it didn't come with anything else. I picked out some cheap lights, a set of ornaments, and a star. Thought the total would be a little over $100 - and then everything was on sale when I got to the register! My entire total was like $68. And it was easy to put together and looks really good. Felt very LOA-y, "suddenly" being able to see something that initially I thought wasn't there, and ended up being perfect for me.
Stepson even said our tree was cool when they got here today. Like, yes, go tell your bitch-ass mom that my twinkle lights kick her tree's ass.
whirlerz
12-24-2021, 04:14 PM
Wait there are updates ? :)
Talking about the customer convo thread
charlie61
12-24-2021, 04:56 PM
Miss p, i guarantee you he's clingy and calls all of the time because he thinks you're looking for opportunities to cheat.
Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2021, 05:41 PM
Glad that my husband waited until Christmas Eve to pick up Christmas Eve dinner from the store, and then decided to get a 5lb pack of potatoes to make "real" mashed potatoes instead of boxed when the deli was out - which resulted in ME standing in the kitchen at 7pm, peeling potatoes and googling how to make scratch mashed potatoes, that I know damn well these kids won't eat.
So glad I baked 24 cookies when I got home from work and bought like 7 different kinds of sprinkles, 2 colors of frosting, and other assortment of goodies to decorate, so that one kid could decorate 3 of them and then declare that they're done and want to just go watch Youtube because "they brought cookies from mommy's house to leave for Santa." Quite frankly, if they wanted to do Santa cookies instead of us, they should've kept them for Christmas Eve. I feel cheated and annoyed. #stepmomproblems
Also super glad that my stepdaughter ratted herself out to her mom on the phone about watching shows she knows she's not allowed to watch, when we didn't have any idea she was even doing it, and now she's holed up in her room, mad that we had to enforce the rules and she got in trouble. You did it to yourself, girl. Wtf. Keep your mouth shut. Now, not only do I know she won't eat the freakin' mashed potatoes, but she won't eat anything, because she already declared that she wants pizza for dinner and has no concept in her 6 y/o brain that you can't order pizza on Christmas Eve. I did try.
Aurora_Sunset
12-24-2021, 05:43 PM
On the plus side, my husband brought home Fireball and OJ, and it is the ultimate cinnamon-y Christmas drink. Cheers
JGB2009
12-24-2021, 07:18 PM
Depends on how you act tonight if I will even be around tomorrow. I just don't get your I wanna talk one minute then the next I wanna be anti social. I haven't even told you about my surgery that's coming up. Only people I have told is family. Deep down I am so nervous. Glad I have family at least. Anyways...fuck you!!!
miss.a.p1600
12-25-2021, 10:19 AM
Glad that my husband waited until Christmas Eve to pick up Christmas Eve dinner from the store, and then decided to get a 5lb pack of potatoes to make "real" mashed potatoes instead of boxed when the deli was out - which resulted in ME standing in the kitchen at 7pm, peeling potatoes and googling how to make scratch mashed potatoes, that I know damn well these kids won't eat.
So glad I baked 24 cookies when I got home from work and bought like 7 different kinds of sprinkles, 2 colors of frosting, and other assortment of goodies to decorate, so that one kid could decorate 3 of them and then declare that they're done and want to just go watch Youtube because "they brought cookies from mommy's house to leave for Santa." Quite frankly, if they wanted to do Santa cookies instead of us, they should've kept them for Christmas Eve. I feel cheated and annoyed. #stepmomproblems
Also super glad that my stepdaughter ratted herself out to her mom on the phone about watching shows she knows she's not allowed to watch, when we didn't have any idea she was even doing it, and now she's holed up in her room, mad that we had to enforce the rules and she got in trouble. You did it to yourself, girl. Wtf. Keep your mouth shut. Now, not only do I know she won't eat the freakin' mashed potatoes, but she won't eat anything, because she already declared that she wants pizza for dinner and has no concept in her 6 y/o brain that you can't order pizza on Christmas Eve. I did try.
I am glad Bertha’s kids are where they belong today………with their mom
I somehow managed to escape being obligated since L took them out of town for several hours and only had to do the “stepmother” thing for a couple hours before their mom got them early.
I refuse to cook for those picky crumbsnatchers. They can eat their typical junk food - even in holidays. So digiorno it was for them.
L got it wrong when he thought I was going to do some last minute elaborate feast, losing my mind in a crowded grocery story, whilst slaving over the oven for some kids who probably wouldn’t eat it anyways because their palate is calibrated in junk.
He didn’t have any plans or groceries so I did nothing but cook for myself with my groceries I bought.
Anyways I feel ya girl. At least you put in an effort. That’s all that matters.
Oh! N if you have a crockpot, next time you can cube the potatoes n throw them in there for a few hours to save time slaving in the kitchen.
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 10:25 AM
^ haha.
That's hardcore. J and daughter at least got a ham and potatoes out of me. That was it though haha.
He did the stuffing and got some sparkling cider .
I was legitimately worried about running low on food. I went and got that ham and we had some frozen steaks. We have plenty now though cause we caved and had pizza on Christmas Eve even though we said in advance we would NOT doing any shopping the 24th / 25th so people were not working ugh. BUT that was all we were flawed on . I saw J tip 100% on that meal so score for the waitress too. :)
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 10:28 AM
Aurora : Well you have impressed the fuck outta me ! There was NO baking here. I think we ordered some store bought cookies at some point lol a few days ago. The potatoes I made had the skins ON and fried in a damn pan. No peeling here, fuck it.
whirlerz
12-25-2021, 10:40 AM
Ugh, now my crush broke his tooth off, so no quick toilet fix for a while lol.
I can still manually flush, the plastic arm that attaches to chain inside tank is broke, but ugh.
I have to reach in the tank & pull the thing up to flush.
Roomie meth guy calling/texting for his damn mail which I'd put under his door, I tried to fish it out, told him I couldn't, then was able to, & texted him back. Jeez!
Waiting on LL, (he comes weekly for rent,) but since it's Xmas?
Oh, almost forgot, the guy w/gf put a note on washer to not use/touch his shower gel? ::) Seriously?
Then leaves the oven rack across the stove top?
Previously had bitched about me taking it out (they're hard to put back in, for some reason, even the crush guy had a time putting them back I'd taken em out to clean) ::)
Aurora_Sunset
12-25-2021, 11:06 AM
Aurora : Well you have impressed the fuck outta me ! There was NO baking here. I think we ordered some store bought cookies at some point lol a few days ago. The potatoes I made had the skins ON and fried in a damn pan. No peeling here, fuck it.
I peeled them in an attempt to at least TRY to make them palatable to picky kids who would take one look at the skins and say "ew" without trying it... Of course it didn't work. But *I* like my mashed potatoes, so I'll be eating leftovers all week I guess lol
Aurora_Sunset
12-25-2021, 11:07 AM
Omg, my husband got the kids the jellybeans where some are decent and others look the same but are actually nasty flavors. I tried a couple and ended up getting a VOMIT flavored one. And I mean, LEGIMITATELY vomit flavored! I almost fucking threw up. I was gagging while trying to get water.
I want to know what fucking sicko managed to create something literally puke-flavored. How do you translate that to a jellybean flavor? Did they taste-test their own shit?
Staci
12-25-2021, 11:28 AM
I peeled them in an attempt to at least TRY to make them palatable to picky kids who would take one look at the skins and say "ew" without trying it... Of course it didn't work. But *I* like my mashed potatoes, so I'll be eating leftovers all week I guess lol
I like making potato salad with left over mashed potatoes. Add some boiled egg, pickle relish, mustard and mayonnaise (green olives if you have them) - and it tastes pretty yummy. Goes well with left over ham. LOL
WendiStarr
12-25-2021, 11:42 AM
My youngest has been running a low grade fever since 10pm last night. She has been attached to the boob off and on since last night and all day today. I'm pissed because I think we must've caught whatever that bitch in the ob/gyn's office had on Monday or something. I've been having low grade fever too and no energy. Blah.
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 11:52 AM
This is a super easy fix ! I've fixed these. You can get JUST a new arm + chain at home depot.
Reach in and take out old parts / connect the new arm and the new chain and you are good. It's gross but you can take any broken potty part ha to home depot and someone will show you exactly what to buy to replace it.
Back to potatoes instead of toilets lol oh I actually did peel one. I got a sweet one to mix in and peeled that one. I LOVE the taste of those.
Ugh, now my crush broke his tooth off, so no quick toilet fix for a while lol.
I can still manually flush, the plastic arm that attaches to chain inside tank is broke, but ugh.
I have to reach in the tank & pull the thing up to flush.
Roomie meth guy calling/texting for his damn mail which I'd put under his door, I tried to fish it out, told him I couldn't, then was able to, & texted him back. Jeez!
Waiting on LL, (he comes weekly for rent,) but since it's Xmas?
Oh, almost forgot, the guy w/gf put a note on washer to not use/touch his shower gel? ::) Seriously?
Then leaves the oven rack across the stove top?
Previously had bitched about me taking it out (they're hard to put back in, for some reason, even the crush guy had a time putting them back I'd taken em out to clean) ::)
kamiliam
12-25-2021, 01:44 PM
I hate that I am posting this on Christmas, but need to vent.
I had thought I would be alone but last minute decided to visit my friend who is going through a divorce, she was going to be alone too for the first time in years. And I thought it would brighten up this season for me to have her.
I knew she was enamored with this poor decision rebound guy but had no idea how down bad she was. Leaving me with his friends and family while they fuck in a car kind of stuff. I thought I would meet this dude once while I was here.
I will add that they brought me into a home filled with hardcore conservatives who verbalized quite often that they believe someone with my beliefs is stupid and evil. I was on my best behavior but I think that was unfair to ask of me. I’ve made some bad decisions for dick, and so has she but we are way too grown for how she is acting. She has apologized profusely after I called her out, she told me I deserve better but I’m still pissed, hopefully posting this will help me let it go and try to enjoy some of the holiday. I actually really love Christmas.
whirlerz
12-25-2021, 01:49 PM
This is a super easy fix ! I've fixed these. You can get JUST a new arm + chain at home depot.
Reach in and take out old parts / connect the new arm and the new chain and you are good. It's gross but you can take any broken potty part ha to home depot and someone will show you exactly what to buy to replace it.
Back to potatoes instead of toilets lol oh I actually did peel one. I got a sweet one to mix in and peeled that one. I LOVE the taste of those.
Well, I see where it attaches to the now-broken plastic black arm, but the other end of the chain attached to the pink rubber thing that flush it , I don't see any way to remove it. Also, the outside metal flush handle needs replacing, (the black plastic arm broke off it) it needs to be removed by a wrench, I can't do that
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miss.a.p1600
12-25-2021, 02:02 PM
^ haha.
That's hardcore. J and daughter at least got a ham and potatoes out of me. That was it though haha.
He did the stuffing and got some sparkling cider .
I was legitimately worried about running low on food. I went and got that ham and we had some frozen steaks. We have plenty now though cause we caved and had pizza on Christmas Eve even though we said in advance we would NOT doing any shopping the 24th / 25th so people were not working ugh. BUT that was all we were flawed on . I saw J tip 100% on that meal so score for the waitress too. :)
I did however get them a gift to an entertainment center
so L can quit bringing them to the damn house all the time.
That’s cool your dude tips well especially during holiday
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 02:20 PM
Kam :
Your story brings back funny memories for me. My friend in college had a divorced mom who visited us on the holiday . She did the same ( ditches us to go chase the D )! Lol. I thought it was kind of funny but my friend was so hurt.
:/
kamiliam
12-25-2021, 02:25 PM
Kam :
Your story brings back funny memories for me. My friend in college had a divorced mom who visited us on the holiday . She did the same ( ditches us to go chase the D )! Lol. I thought it was kind of funny but my friend was so hurt.
:/
for me I would be fine if I could just come and go, but the circumstances of this trip makes me pretty stuck with her. I don’t drink and they all do, last night I slept on this dudes couch sober in a holiday dress, fml and my neck. But yeah she is making up for lost time..
Aurora_Sunset
12-25-2021, 03:34 PM
I literally don't understand wtf happens to my husband every time he goes to drop the kids off. He always gets home a full-ass hour-hour and a half later than I expect him to. He was supposed to exchange the kids at a Burger King less than 10 minutes away at 5 - it's past 5:30, and he's not even answering his phone. If he didn't always leave the house looking like a hobo, I'd start to wonder if he was running off to see someone else after he drops off his kids.
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 05:03 PM
^ I wonder if it’s errands or some time to decompress ( like a solo coffee ) or something !
Hopefully it’s not wasted time arguing with ex ha.
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 07:11 PM
I totally pictured you getting them something exactly like that ha !
so L can quit bringing them to the damn house all the time.
carmen_b
12-25-2021, 07:18 PM
I was SO on the fence about traveling to my home town for the holiday.
I am not even sure I made the right choice. :/
Oh well , it's soon to be over now !
I think I just did NOT add up at all how the average of the last 7 days would go.
We had J's daughter Sun-Tues but I was with my family Sun ( so it was Mon / Tues ) and then we had Wed / Thurs to ourselves. Now this visit has been Fri , Sat. , and we have Sunday . You can just tell I'm not used to the schedule changing at all haha. I have felt so lost. I pretty much will be OUT all day tomorrow I am assuming so really a 2/2/2 thing is not that bad. I feel a vibe differently like " usually I have 5 adults only days in a week " ha.
miss.a.p1600
12-25-2021, 10:00 PM
L wanted to go to his relatives for cornbread stuffing saying it was so good I had to try it.
Girl that shit was nasty as hell. It tasted like cat food and it was congealed with no texture. Like something you’d eat in jail or in a nursing home.
They whole time they kept asking if it tasted good.
I had to lie and say it was really good.
Bruh! How ya relatives have money but cook like paupers?!?
indiegirl
12-26-2021, 01:12 AM
Lol I got a text today from the same customer who keeps on contacting me after giving me a restraining order against him (which didn't go through and he pulled) because of all his bullshittery he did to me when I was in my early 20's. I can't keep track of all his new numbers. I said no every single time you've contacted me and to see someone else.
Him: It's Carlos. I don't want to be alone tonight.
My head: Yeah you probably wouldn't be alone if you weren't this unstable towards women. The words 'I've changed' mean to me 'I want to play nice until I feel safe to return to my crazy self threatening you and sextorting you'...
Your money is no good here. Buh-bye!
Aurora_Sunset
12-26-2021, 08:50 AM
^ I wonder if it’s errands or some time to decompress ( like a solo coffee ) or something !
Hopefully it’s not wasted time arguing with ex ha.
I think most of the time it is random errands that he just doesn’t bother to tell me he’s going to do before he leaves. Yesterday, he said he stood in the parking lot talking to the ex, stepdad, and stepdad’s ex-wife for awhile. Just jaw-jacking, at least it WASN’T arguing lol
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 09:10 AM
^ What like the whole clan ( assortment of ex's ) just randomly ended up in a parking lot ? Like .... why would step dad's ex be there ?
That is good though ( not arguing ).
whirlerz
12-26-2021, 09:27 AM
Went for walk, noticed the lot next door, (it's a protected wetland), not sure if it's part of property here, LL won't care, it's had some scrap lumber (guy next door just happened to be working on a shed::)) I had previously thrown away some additional scraps he'd tossed there.
Now, I see a huge stuffed black garbage bag there, it's deteriorated from the weather, animals etc.
DISGUSTING!
I want to put it w/our garbage, no idea how heavy it is, or if it'll tear open when moving it.
I can bring the dumpster by it, but the ground's uneven unpaved.
So gross, not enough I have to live w/these pigs here
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2021, 10:06 AM
L decides “i want to take pictures AND I’m putting them in Facebook!” His relatives all happy n taking pics n all I could think was “I wish an earthquake would knock this phone out their hands n the power would cut off right about now”
Cotdamn it!!!
Now I have to delete my Facebook profile (I barely use anyways) but I told him off top “I don’t do Facebook tagging, Facebook liking, Facebook friending, none of that shit”
Sorry, L but being your Facebook bae is beyond my pay grade.
Should have came back this holiday with a promotion and I would have been more willing to do it.
Why are men so thirsty during the holidays.
I’m heading to Linked in - where I know thirsty ass men (unless they have some qualifications n money to make it worth my while to deal with them) won’t be hassling me. L included.
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2021, 10:13 AM
Miss p, i guarantee you he's clingy and calls all of the time because he thinks you're looking for opportunities to cheat.
you’re right.
he jokingly admitted it.
it’s not funny or cute.
I’m not a fan of cheating I’d rather end it clean.
But sometimes these men do stuff so stupid n annoying it’s like you might as well cheat. And if I did cheat, he thinks I’m so dumb and blatant with it (like how most men are) but no one would no except me n my lover/sugar daddy
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 10:25 AM
Haha. Miss P.
Not being " with " the person on social media is the " red flag " for relationships .
It's something women are warned against.
If they guy won't do THAT with you .... look out.
So L must ( at some level ) be knowing to look out.
Yeah , don't cheat or relationship overlap.
Word gets around and the people end up looking like idiots.
I don't get the vibe that you would anyway.
You don't need to delete it really but just lock it down / no tags . You can leave one picture up ( I do that at times so old friends or clients can find me but it doesn't show much visibly ). Everything else can be set to " only me " if you liked a more locked down profile.
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2021, 10:45 AM
Now he’s being annoying.
Following me around the house.
Can’t even create a surprise for this dude without him assuming the worst.
miss.a.p1600
12-26-2021, 10:52 AM
Haha. Miss P.
Not being " with " the person on social media is the " red flag " for relationships ..... like .... it's something women are warned against. If they guy won't do THAT with you .... look out.
So L must ( at some level ) be knowing to look out.
Yeah , don't cheat or relationship overlap.
Word gets around and the people end up looking like idiots.
I don't get the vibe that you would anyway.
You don't need to delete it really but just lock it down / no tags . You can leave one picture up ( I do that at times so old friends or clients can find me but it doesn't show much visibly ). Everything else can be set to " only me " if you liked a more locked down profile.
i don’t want him tagging me or liking photos either.
i find that men who are insecure will try to “mark their territory” on social media.
This comes right after I said I wanted to use social media to promote my business.
L has to do the work (get a damn raise) and improve himself before I intertwine my life with his to the public.
That’s what pisses me off. He thinks he can just stay the same and still get wife privileges.
But yeah I don’t trust him all the way. Don’t trust any man all the way until they prove themselves worthy
carmen_b
12-26-2021, 11:21 AM
Yeah if you are shifting it to just your business personal stuff needs to be minimal.
TheBrownFox
12-26-2021, 01:18 PM
Get back to this house and one of his kids shit in toilet n didn’t flush.
I wish I could beat their ass for that.
I hate raising kids that aren’t mine that I can’t discipline.
So fucking gross. And they are too old to be doing that.
These jokers need to go back to Berthas house. Shit in her toilets and leave poop surprises for her ass.
I’m sad my solo time has ended so soon. T minus 2 hours till those territory invaders return. I’m going to fake like I’m asleep n they better stfu when the come in here. If I’m awoken from my beauty rest cause they’re loud af, I’m raising hell. I’m going to have to find my next chunk of solo time soon.
L keeps calling n I don’t feel like talking to him I want a break!!!! Damn! I can text but I don’t want to talk, I just talked to you 4 hours ago
My son is home on college break until the end of January, and I've had to get on him several times about leaving my toilet seat up, leaving drops of pee on my toilet, and leaving fucking poop in the toilet! Nasty self. And this motherfucker is 18 years old. It's nice having him home, but he's stressful as fuck.
And anytime we spend the night at my parents' house, there's always a moment of "I CAN'T FIND MY PHONE!" or "I CAN'T FIND MY PHONE CHARGER!" And my grandmom just bought him an Amazon watch for Christmas? Let's see how long it takes before loses it.
And I just asked him if he brought his vaccination card with him (When he left his dorm to come home) so he can get his booster while he's out here, and he said no...his vaccination card is in his dorm. *Eye roll* Of course it is... I guess I'd have to contact the Walgreens out here where he got his first two doses, and see if they can a replacement card here. And then we can just use that card for the booster. Rather get this shit taken care of while he's here, because when he returns to the campus he's gonna have too much on his mind to be thinking about all this shit.
As of now, the booster isn't required on the college campus, however it's now required to get a COVID test and have a negative result before you can return to campus and the dorms.
whirlerz
12-26-2021, 01:25 PM
Brownfox, can't he get booster, then have it added to original card later?
Aurora_Sunset
12-26-2021, 01:47 PM
^ What like the whole clan ( assortment of ex's ) just randomly ended up in a parking lot ? Like .... why would step dad's ex be there ?
That is good though ( not arguing ).
lol! They were all exchanging kids in the same place at the same time. Stepdad's ex bringing him his son and my husband bringing the kids so that stepdad and bio-mom could take them all back to their place for their Christmas.
Aurora_Sunset
12-26-2021, 01:57 PM
I told myself I wouldn't fall into the trap of being perpetually fat/bloated during the week from Christmas - New Years, like I always am, yet, here I am, feeling like shit already. I hate that this last week of the year always seems like some total, zombie, dead week. Everyone's burned out from Christmas, not ready to start all the habits of "New Year New Me" until January 1st. Sometimes I'm glad I have a job that doesn't just turn off/everyone goes on vacation during this week, because I'd just be even more useless and eating too much sitting at home all day.
TheBrownFox
12-26-2021, 02:07 PM
No, I don't trust that (I have too much bad luck), and that's just more of an inconvenience for me and me making extra trips on the bus. I'm gonna do this in the way that's least stressful for us both. Gonna call this closest Walgreens to me to see if I can take the bus there myself...show them the photocopy I have of his original vaccination card...have them either print out a new card for him or mail one to me. Then after I get it, I'm holding onto it (I don't trust this motherfucker to NOT lose this card while he's here in town) until the booster shot appointment. Then when that's done, they can put all this shit on the same card. If this poor kid (who's on the spectrum and hates needles) is gonna be getting all these shots, we need to have it all on the same card.
I already have three different doctor's appointments of my own in the month of January (Regarding my endometrial ablation surgery), and this is one more thing I have to deal with. I want this taken care of, so he can go back to college at the end of January with one less thing to have to worry about.
And I just got a text from my mom that SHE lost her debit card while she was out with me earlier. WTF. I swear, she and my son are TERRIBLE about keeping track of their important documents!
TheBrownFox
12-26-2021, 02:26 PM
^Yes, whirlerz. I can schedule his booster...we both take the bus to the Walgreens that's in this same neighborhood...they can print out a new vaccination card (I called, and they looked him up in the system and got his info from his two shots of Pfizer) and add the booster info to the same card. Then we can be done with this shit, and take the bus home and not do anything else until later in January when he has to go back to take a COVID test he needs before returning to the college campus/dorm.
I can relax a little now. Lol.