View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
kimbe
01-02-2022, 01:20 AM
Good topic! I think some people are uncomfortable with silence. I'm not one of them.
Same thing with some massage people. I didn't come to chit chat during a massage LOLLL. My first massage ever the lady brought up her daughters suicide attempt and anorexia. I was thinking "Well this is relaxing." Or people who want to work out with you at the gym and want to talk the entire time while you're out of breath. Some people can't do anything alone or need conversation all day long.
It's a society problem, we're so used to all kinds of "background noise" that silence actually feels uncomfortable.
One kind of talk I like is when going to the dentist I like to be talked trough the procedure, not just some small talk, but I like to know what's happening, especially during uncomfortable procedures. Same goes when I get laser hair removal, the lady I goes to knows exactly how to talk you through the "not so pleasant" parts of the treatment.
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 11:39 AM
Carmen I think men are really simple minded.
If he asked how was the shift n you gave less than stellar report AND came back with no money…..
Men who work non sales non commission jobs don’t understand you working (a job they don’t want you to be at anyways) n not getting paid.
I feel ya cause I want to claw my eyes out (and his lol) when my partner asks “how was work” and I didn’t make any sales that day.
He might be thinking if you left the club for good then you’d have the stamina to fulfill his requests with regard to the intimacy
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 11:59 AM
No I lied about it because it was so embarrassing. I think I told him I made $200-$300 because I didn't want to admit what I had made ( not much after my hotel costs ). PLUS ..... my idea was one day in that town for work and one for his birthday celebration. I wanted to kick into celebrate mode and not be in a complaining space.
I confessed last night in the car how badly that shift actually went and how I was in tears when the shower wasn't working and the smoke was stuck on my skin.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 12:00 PM
He could have thought of that theory but we have been through it ( sometimes I'll go two weeks without being in the club at at all ). In practice ...... no change !
I can sort of give to a partner a few days a week. With these current depression issues 2-3 is so much more comfy to me even. I am trying to do good P.R. though and not just be " depression " girl . I do try to mitigate things so I'm not a drag to a partner.
I'm considering kicking it up to 4 ( times per week ) though for him via a well placed BJ on the calendar.
I thought it might work to get him out of the whining loop but I am not sure it will even be successful.
What if I attempt to " dial it up " to 4 times a week to keep peace ( as long as my body is actually comfy with this of course ..... not going to force it ) and then THAT isn't good enough. That is why I want to work with a therapist in part.
At this point .... staying over at my AirBnB two days per week ( since there are openings a couple days a week in the next two weeks ) is a non-negotiable . That way I know I have at least two quiet days to myself. Maybe getting out and not being under each other noses could help us. It's completely possible I'll just fully enjoy the quiet and want it to continue to more days .
I'm just trying to figure out at what point do I go " ok ......you are just too much to handle ..... " because it's feeling very close even though I want to save it at times too.
He might be thinking if you left the club for good then you’d have the stamina to fulfill his requests with regard to the intimacy
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 12:22 PM
^good point! I see what you mean about doing more and the possibility of it not being good enough.
Whenever my partner complains about the frequency of sex. (Our last stretch was over a month because I was always on edge about his last minute childcare, him failing the test, trying to have a baby knowing I didn’t want it right now, etc thay i was completely not in the mood) I think “damn! Go masturbate n leave me tf alone!”
Im in a similar boat.
I already told L the sex is capped (once a month only when *Im* ready) until he passes the damn test for a raise.
But im sure you’ll find a resolution and talking to your therapist about it may bring some insight on how to move forward
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 12:26 PM
I just hate that time in a relationship where you totally understand why their ex left lol.
I just could not figure out why anyone could have left J 18-20 months ago and now I understand with 100% clarity. At that time I was hornier ( I hadn't had 12 months of under-earning wearing me down under stress ). We were getting along much better.
I've made some financial progress lately so I expect my overall mood to come up too. I am just concerned because I feel like he didn't have my back. I had the depression as a factor most of December but it lightened up towards the end. It seemed like he couldn't even do 26-28 days of just " a little backing off " . That is all I asked for. I never mentioned that I could only do " once a week " or anything like that. It makes me nervous but at the same time I see his side too. He was concerned about a " down " slide and doesn't want a boring sexual life.
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 12:32 PM
^i think men are better at compartmentalizing (when it comes to sex)
Their grandma could die, they could lose their job, be fresh out the COVID unit of a hospital and STILL be horny for sex.
kimbe
01-02-2022, 01:05 PM
^i think men are better at compartmentalizing (when it comes to sex)
Their grandma could die, they could lose their job, be fresh out the COVID unit of a hospital and STILL be horny for sex.
Ha ha, that's true for sure..!
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 01:06 PM
^ But if their PARTNER isn't ....... it's an issue when you can not seem to talk about anything else or lend any other ideas to relationship progress. :/
He did admit yesterday that we needed more help ( therapy and our own consistent work with things ).
I think it might have been the first time in weeks he had ideas for us other than " more partying " .
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 02:18 PM
I talked to my mom and gave her the nutshell version ( my lower energy and his needy energy clashing ).
At least my family has a sense of what’s going on but not a lot of details were shared.
I couldn’t bear to tell my mom that we had sex three times in the last week ( an amount I thought was good ) and I was needing to figure out how to at least temporarily get away OR add a bj to our routine as an attempt to end all this complaining. I told him today his comments should have been related to good vibes about the sexy times .
It’s not my fault his NY trip got cancelled. He should have worked on other projects if he delegated work hours out. I could smell this coming too so I made damn sure he got attention a few times. He complained this morning about New Years and me doing “ just the minimum “ with him. Not true. Depression is a bitch and I was proud to keep up with three times. We chose to not go out and fight crowds together....
:/
miss.a.p1600
01-02-2022, 02:28 PM
^you did better than me. I probably shared too much with my mom.
Now her mind is probably going to take what I said n twist it around and it might totally impact her perception of him.
But then again, who am I kidding.
She probably already had some negative perceptions of him.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 02:41 PM
^ It’s hard to be fully honest ! You can’t take it back.
Yeah I need a pro because I didn’t want to mention his drug use ( and desires to experience stuff as a couple ) or my sex work which left holes. Im not a total square. We’ve done lsd 3-4 times but I just wasn’t feeling pulled to these activities lately. I have a theory that he is just being lazy and could put excitement on the calendar in other ways. Get out of house , make friends, do an adrenaline sport, travel at a larger scale ! These experiences are exciting too ! I’m totally fine taking 1-3 months off the club as a start. It’s awkward when my partner is wanting me to dance though...um ... come see me in the venue I dance in ? Not going to touch that one yet with my Mom ha. I think he really tried but doesn’t “ get “ sex work. He doesn’t understand how boring it is without the $.
I should explain he is giving too ( to my requests ). I wanted a surprise date out and he planned an incredible one. We are both “ trying “ but we realize we may not come to terms and may need to separate.
Aurora_Sunset
01-02-2022, 05:51 PM
No I lied about it because it was so embarrassing. I think I told him I made $200-$300 because I didn't want to admit what I had made ( not much after my hotel costs ). PLUS ..... my idea was one day in that town for work and one for his birthday celebration. I wanted to kick into celebrate mode and not be in a complaining space.
I confessed last night in the car how badly that shift actually went and how I was in tears when the shower wasn't working and the smoke was stuck on my skin.
So, (making sure I'm keeping up with the timeline from your posts here), you both went to Vegas, you spent one day working (horrible shift), and then the next day celebrating his b-day?
Maybe he's pissy and "underwhelmed" about his birthday, because the whole weekend wasn't about him, or he "feels" like his birthday was just a side thing to you traveling there to work? I remember with my old bf, we went out for our anniversary one weekend, I made the whole experience great, but - knowing that he needed to be back home by a certain time on the last day and was instantly going to hunker down at home and study - I booked an appointment for later that evening. When he found out, he shifted into this mindset like the weekend wasn't good enough, even though he had had zero complaints up to that point. He called me up the next day and complained about every little thing and picked a huge fight. He accused me of "rushing us home" so I could "get rid of him" and make my appointment on time, even though HE was the one who picked the time we left so HE could be home at the time he wanted, and my appointment wasn't until like 4 hours later. It was as though because I had dared to devote even a moment of my personal time, that I wouldn't have spent with him anyway, during what he considered "his" romantic weekend, he felt like it was taking away from him in an unfair way.
He was insecure, and, quite frankly, wrong. But just a thought that J might be feeling similarly.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 06:01 PM
Omg !!! ^
That is so insightful !
I didn’t think it was a “ ding “ for me to travel early . I took his sports car because he had my 4 by 4 to go up a snowy mountain and snowboard. Maybe it was upsetting that I “ combo “ bundled that trip ! Just like your situation though he wasn't available the evening before AT ALL . He was a town over from me anyway. He fully knew I was going and taking the car. H hinted he hoped I wouldn’t do the club but at that time I was fully thinking “ his hesitation about this is a phase “.
Now you are making me see a different angle ... it was a special trip ... so I’m sure the preference would have been to ride together !
I’m not sure it was bad enough for vocalized “ Omg it’s not enough !” .
I’d really like the birthday incident to die haha so this is all theory at this point because I DON'T plan on asking if a shared ride would have made it better haha.
carmen_b
01-02-2022, 06:56 PM
I will be sure to poll all the dudes I know to see if they might find a nice hotel + BJ with a view + Dinner + some sex after as an appealing Birthday.
I’m sure you’ll receive notes of sympathy all around.
Aurora_Sunset
01-03-2022, 07:59 AM
Omg !!! ^
That is so insightful !
I didn’t think it was a “ ding “ for me to travel early . I took his sports car because he had my 4 by 4 to go up a snowy mountain and snowboard. Maybe it was upsetting that I “ combo “ bundled that trip ! Just like your situation though he wasn't available the evening before AT ALL . He was a town over from me anyway. He fully knew I was going and taking the car. I think he hinted he hoped I wouldn’t do the club but at that time I was fully thinking “ his hesitation about this is a phase “.
Now you are making me see a different angle ... it was a special trip ... so I’m sure the preference would have been to ride together !
I’m not sure it was bad enough for vocalized “ Omg it’s not enough !” .
I’d really like the birthday incident to die haha so this is all theory at this point because I DON'T plan on asking if a shared ride would have made it better haha.
Definitely NOT something that should have made him be all "omg, this was not enough!" But I know when my ex was insecure about my job, work being scheduled anywhere near "his" time with me made him feel like he was "second string." Or would put him into this mindset of, "she was just all up on this other dude, and now I can't feel 'special' when she's with me." It's like escort clients who insisted on being the "first of the day," as though my pussy reset at midnight, and they could compartmentalize better lol Just a thought, cuz I had a lot of experiences like that with my ex. He was a WAY bigger douche about it, but your story reminded me of that sudden "this isn't good enough" pouting, when, in reality, they got the freakin' VIP boyfriend treatment.
Marina Starr
01-03-2022, 08:28 AM
Drove my ass to Target yesterday with an open mind on shopping for shit I really wanted and there was nothing that interested me. I know there are people that love Target but I'm not one of them.
Shit are overpriced and I hated everything. I guess I'm just a Walmart Hoe.
carmen_b
01-03-2022, 08:30 AM
Their clothing can be good and higher quality than Wally World ha but if not on sale the clothes can be a little pricy too.
Marina Starr
01-03-2022, 08:35 AM
That's what I've been told but that has not been true for me. I've gotten a lot of shit that lasted much longer than anything I've bought from Target.
On a random note, I haven't been selling pussy for the past 10 days or so and still not feeling like it. Glad I have money for all bills due in January and February.
I will try to Hoe this week for a couple hours to slowly easing back.
Their clothing can be good and higher quality than Wally World ha but if not on sale the clothes can be a little pricy too.
indiegirl
01-03-2022, 09:28 AM
Cheese and crackers!!! I am ordering some emergency air freshener when I get home in the afternoon. My amazon delivery of aromatherapy spray ran out and it's taking forever for amazon to ship it tomorrow. It's been days of waiting for it! Ugh I blew up the hotel bathroom with an odor.
And no this isn't the first time I've had to prop the door open with a chair bahahaha.
The balcony door handle doesn't open since they don't do it for possibly jumpers? (like why have the door handle if you don't want people out on the balcony.) So now I have my front room door open to air it out for an hour LOLLL.
Also random thought, I find it funny when I tell maids or the front desk I called about a late check out or the early check in when I never called. Most of the phones at this hotel never work so I just try to see if I get away with it. It's a busy hotel so they can't keep track of everyone LOL.
Update: Fixed the aromatherapy spray. I added a little water to what was left and it smells so nice in here. This will hold me over until tomorrow.
whirlerz
01-03-2022, 12:27 PM
Yes, you can do that w/the spray, I am spray heavy here, between the mice (mint & cinnamon repel) +the stink ass food the rooms cook , I use Trader Joe's spray, (1.99, you can add water and or essential oils to stretch),
There's mint essential oils spray, 4.99 @ Aldi
56400
Also, I always call & ask for an extra + hour for check out
Marina Starr
01-03-2022, 02:10 PM
New Yorkers always tell me that drivers in Florida are worst than New York and I totally believe it at least in my town. There are way too many assholes and cunts on the road.
I understand why people have road rage!
~Carmen~
01-03-2022, 07:05 PM
So many people do this at the grocery store. They stand across from the shelves to look for what they want. Nobody can go through the aisle without cutting in front of them. They seem oblivious to people waiting for them to stop blocking the aisle. I always stand directly in front of the shelves so people can get through. Drives me up the wall!
LoveyD
01-03-2022, 07:34 PM
^^^tgis drives me nuts too. They make it so awkward to pass.
~Carmen~
01-04-2022, 03:15 AM
Why do so many products have strong scents these days? It's hard to find unscented trash bags, dryer sheets and cat litter. I'm very sensitive to smell.
I'm just full of gripes lately. lol
miss.a.p1600
01-04-2022, 07:59 AM
^agreed.
I may be a conspiracy theorist but I highly believe all those damn scents are what cause cancer, thyroid conditions, etc.
I got rid of all the glade plug ins, scented dryer sheets, powdered carpet scents, etc because all you need to do is open a window, blow a fan, discard food promptly, properly dry fabrics, etc. We don’t *need* scents 90% of the time.
Only time I advocate for scents is when someone poops……spray away mf cause I don’t want to smell your shit
I’m a fan of the poopouri I think it uses more natural ingredients like essential oils.
Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 10:16 AM
I'm the opposite, I love strong scents. I've been using Bath and Body Works body mist and loving how strong and scent-sy they are. I love when other people could smell it on me even though I'm the one wearing it.
It's my belief that every Hoe should have a signature scent.
Why do so many products have strong scents these days? It's hard to find unscented trash bags, dryer sheets and cat litter. I'm very sensitive to smell.
I'm just full of gripes lately. lol
indiegirl
01-04-2022, 12:54 PM
I have reached the point of realizing I hope the apocalypse comes because as the years go on things just get shittier in America. I’m in such a bad mood this morning. I don’t want to sell my ass and give my hard earned high risk money to the IRS because they are clamping down on people who use apps. I have no interest in being penalized for not wanting to contribute to tax payments. I feel angry they are trying to squeeze us dry of as much as they can. I couldn’t make it more clear I don’t want any part in any civic duty hence why I have never voted in my life.
I’m sick of my roommate disrespecting me and not paying her fucking rent on time when I go above and beyond. I’m gonna be forgetting real soon that I changed the locks if she doesn’t pay today.
The internet stopped working in the area again today.
I’m tired of being responsible and working so damn hard and never getting appreciation or having someone as my support system.. I’m just really annoyed today. Needed to vent.
Secret Shelly
01-04-2022, 01:57 PM
I’m tired of being responsible and working so damn hard and never getting appreciation or having someone as my support system.. I’m just really annoyed today. Needed to vent.
Vent on, indiegirl. That's one reason I've went out of my way so many times to not have a roomie, I don't want to be held liable when they're not pulling their weight and paying stuff on time.
Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 02:00 PM
Chick Fil A has always been consistent for the most part. Today my order was ready but they didn't call my name. I have a very beautiful name, it's just not very common so the spelling, the pronunciation can get fucked up most of the time.
I finally ask if my order was ready because I feel like I'm being pushed to the back of the line. And of course it was ready. Then my fries wasn't right, looks like they were given me leftovers while frying new ones. I told them I'm not happy with my fries and asked for new ones. They did and it was so much better.
It feels so fucking good to advocate for yourself and ask for what you want. I've never been shy of that but being a Hoe took it to another level.
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 02:12 PM
Indie :
I hope you get some relief !!
Have those dudes do CASH.
Cash is king !!! It could ease your mind but I’m not sure if impact on volume.
You can bet though women will start demanding only cash more.
Your roomie ... how far behind ?
Can she do just the first two weeks of Jan now and next couple in a few days?
That *feeling* though of clawing the $ out ..... oh ....so cringe I totally know that feeling.
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 02:14 PM
Marina : The customer service there is GOOD. I knew they would make it right. I am always ethically torn going there. I wish it wasn't tasty. It would be easier to avoid for political reasons. It had to argue with yourself to turn the card around when it's right in front of you at times.
Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 02:16 PM
They always make it right and once in awhile they would ask me to do a survey and offer free chicken sandwich as a reward.
I know there are people who are torn going there. What's your gripe with them?
Marina : The customer service there is GOOD. I knew they would make it right. I am always ethically torn going there. I wish it wasn't tasty. It would be easier to avoid for political reasons. It had to argue with yourself to turn the card around when it's right in front of you at times.
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 02:23 PM
^ They are homophobes who put a ton of $ in trying to get gay marriages not legal in the US.
That said .... I might go get a sandwich anyway ha.
They really just wasted their $$ because these laws now passed.
Marina Starr
01-04-2022, 02:30 PM
I can understand that but the big percent of gay, lesbians and bisexual folks have been nothing but horrible to ME. You would think that because they've been discriminated and marginalized and STILL are they would be more understand and accepting but that has not been the case in MY personal experience.
Chick Fil A has been nothing but nice to me, I have yet to have any issues going there. They're much better to me than people that I'm expecting better from so I have no problem giving them my money.
^They are homophobes who put a ton of $ in trying to get gay marriages not legal in the US.
indiegirl
01-04-2022, 03:24 PM
Indie :
I hope you get some relief !!
Have those dudes do CASH.
Cash is king !!! It could ease your mind but I’m not sure if impact on volume.
You can bet though women will start demanding only cash more.
Your roomie ... how far behind ?
Can she do just the first two weeks of Jan now and next couple in a few days?
That *feeling* though of clawing the $ out ..... oh ....so cringe I totally know that feeling.
my only last cash app I used was Venmo because there are no cancellations I believe. I’ve made a lot on cash apps for the last minute or late night guys who can’t pull the amount out of their account or waited too late. I felt like business slowed down when I only had cash and tried to adapt with the times.
I really hope ladies stop allowing cash app. Women are still advertising they allow multiple apps for payment. It’s gonna hit them like a brick in the face come next year. I couldn’t get ahold of one tax guy because he’s over flooded with people due to the new year. I’m gonna have to call that shady cpa who works for the strip club I was at in the past if I don’t hear back.
ravenskyy
01-04-2022, 03:31 PM
I'm constantly having bitrate issues on Streamate. I can't tell if it's their site or if it's a problem on my end. Either way, it's hecking annoying.
xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 03:38 PM
my only last cash app I used was Venmo because there are no cancellations I believe. I’ve made a lot on cash apps for the last minute or late night guys who can’t pull the amount out of their account or waited too late. I felt like business slowed down when I only had cash and tried to adapt with the times.
I really hope ladies stop allowing cash app. Women are still advertising they allow multiple apps for payment. It’s gonna hit them like a brick in the face come next year. I couldn’t get ahold of one tax guy because he’s over flooded with people due to the new year. I’m gonna have to call that shady cpa who works for the strip club I was at in the past if I don’t hear back.
It only goes into effect next year's tax time I think? So it gives you a whole year to find a tax person to help.
xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 03:39 PM
I'm annoyed at generally everything right now. Hoping this chardonnay puts me in a much better mood
carmen_b
01-04-2022, 03:54 PM
^ Same. It feels hard to get through the day ( last few honestly ). :/
miss.a.p1600
01-04-2022, 04:02 PM
I have reached the point of realizing I hope the apocalypse comes because as the years go on things just get shittier in America. I’m in such a bad mood this morning. I don’t want to sell my ass and give my hard earned high risk money to the IRS because they are clamping down on people who use apps. I have no interest in being penalized for not wanting to contribute to tax payments. I feel angry they are trying to squeeze us dry of as much as they can. I couldn’t make it more clear I don’t want any part in any civic duty hence why I have never voted in my life.
I’m sick of my roommate disrespecting me and not paying her fucking rent on time when I go above and beyond. I’m gonna be forgetting real soon that I changed the locks if she doesn’t pay today.
The internet stopped working in the area again today.
I’m tired of being responsible and working so damn hard and never getting appreciation or having someone as my support system.. I’m just really annoyed today. Needed to vent.
I was just watching documentary on Bitcoins, etc and how it's *one* of the ways to stack money without government interference.
It does have some risk but it might payoff well in the future.
xxxGothBarbie
01-04-2022, 04:03 PM
^ Same. It feels hard to get through the day ( last few honestly ). :/
Yes I agree! I need to just not focus on stuff as much including adulting. I did a cam show earlier for a new guy and I kept hearing a click on his end and it pissed me off bc I felt like he mightve been taking pics of me without my consent. I rarely show my face for this reason alone. Soo annoying these asshole men!
LoveyD
01-04-2022, 04:31 PM
InstaShart's shopper app keeps glitching and won't work. Their support is shit and of course because of the damn app, things don't get delivered on time and of course it's me who gets the low star rating. Ffff Shipt is way better, if only they were busier.
indiegirl
01-04-2022, 06:26 PM
Loving your new photo miss.a.p. Part of me wants me to put a avatar of me when I was crazy motivated :). Maybe I will! I miss those days when I loved being fit!
I'm feeling better after my date today, eating some yummy food, and watching a movie :).
I'm not committed to a new avatar until I push me back to where I should be!
This is the best photo I can do before covid and BS:
Best hard work ever in the past (shows the full photo when you click) But hopeful for whatever my dreams for the future have ready for me :)!
Life is so weird like that. Always something new to want to try or do or accomplish or enjoy!
I absolutely don't look that fit now. A nice goal and possible return to a bit more happiness? Kind of my great reminder of a fun time in my life. LOL. I want some new memories of feeling strong again and being okay with where my body decides to put me.
https://i.ibb.co/xYQYvD2/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-5-30-54-PM.png (https://ibb.co/xYQYvD2)
LoveyD
01-04-2022, 07:45 PM
^^ I love the photo indie and new avi miss ap!
indiegirl
01-04-2022, 10:29 PM
InstaShart's shopper app keeps glitching and won't work. Their support is shit and of course because of the damn app, things don't get delivered on time and of course it's me who gets the low star rating. Ffff Shipt is way better, if only they were busier.
'Instashart' hahahahaha I'm fucking dead. Too funny.
Anyone who lugs my grocery food to my house is a savior. I get it isn't that exciting of an experience but I appreciate the heck out of service workers.
indiegirl
01-05-2022, 12:48 AM
^^ I love the photo indie and new avi miss ap!
Thank you :)! Some guys are like "That body doesn't look like you now!" When I show photos.
That body was fucking hard work in the past. I deleted the video and had a pricey makeup artist for the photos :P. I'd really like to get back to that level of being muscular (really made my back feel stronger even though I have scoliosis) but I just don't have the time or equipment just yet. Scared to step into a gym still with covid going around as well. :( UGH :(.
kimbe
01-05-2022, 01:20 AM
This is the best photo I can do before covid and BS
Love the pic, you look great!
~Carmen~
01-05-2022, 04:02 AM
I'm the opposite, I love strong scents. I've been using Bath and Body Works body mist and loving how strong and scent-sy they are. I love when other people could smell it on me even though I'm the one wearing it.
It's my belief that every Hoe should have a signature scent.
Here you go sis;D
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WendiStarr
01-05-2022, 08:13 AM
Ok, why the fuck are some OF content creators meeting up in person with these asshats? I've been hit with a lot of those requests lately. I know guys have a tendency to make shit like that up but one of them sent me the Twitter page of an OF creator doing that. Her Twitter was full of meets for $100 tweets. WTF? I don't know if it's because I'm 32 weeks pregnant, exhausted, and in pain most of the time, but I'm aggravated enough dealing with some of these scumbag creeps virtually. I have zero interest in meeting up with anyone in person, hence why I only do content creation and camming now. Some creep offered 100 to meet up in person and breastfeed off of me. So cringy. I get that some OF creators may also be escorts but I would rather stay safe right now and not be bothered by meet up crap. If I wanted to do in-person stuff I would've returned to escorting or fbsm. I'm sick of these fuckers doing chargebacks because I'm not willing to risk my safety and health to meet their slimy asses.