View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
01-05-2022, 09:28 AM
^ Aw. Yes, it must just be full service girls doing some advertising that way ( but makes it confusing I'm sure if you are content only ).
:/
indiegirl
01-05-2022, 10:47 AM
Ok, why the fuck are some OF content creators meeting up in person with these asshats? I've been hit with a lot of those requests lately. I know guys have a tendency to make shit like that up but one of them sent me the Twitter page of an OF creator doing that. Her Twitter was full of meets for $100 tweets. WTF? I don't know if it's because I'm 32 weeks pregnant, exhausted, and in pain most of the time, but I'm aggravated enough dealing with some of these scumbag creeps virtually. I have zero interest in meeting up with anyone in person, hence why I only do content creation and camming now. Some creep offered 100 to meet up in person and breastfeed off of me. So cringy. I get that some OF creators may also be escorts but I would rather stay safe right now and not be bothered by meet up crap. If I wanted to do in-person stuff I would've returned to escorting or fbsm. I'm sick of these fuckers doing chargebacks because I'm not willing to risk my safety and health to meet their slimy asses.
Breastfeed off of you? OH MY GOD lol. What happened to make a guy into that fetish? SOMETHING happened psychologically.
TheBrownFox
01-05-2022, 11:21 AM
Ok, why the fuck are some OF content creators meeting up in person with these asshats? I've been hit with a lot of those requests lately. I know guys have a tendency to make shit like that up but one of them sent me the Twitter page of an OF creator doing that. Her Twitter was full of meets for $100 tweets. WTF? I don't know if it's because I'm 32 weeks pregnant, exhausted, and in pain most of the time, but I'm aggravated enough dealing with some of these scumbag creeps virtually. I have zero interest in meeting up with anyone in person, hence why I only do content creation and camming now. Some creep offered 100 to meet up in person and breastfeed off of me. So cringy. I get that some OF creators may also be escorts but I would rather stay safe right now and not be bothered by meet up crap. If I wanted to do in-person stuff I would've returned to escorting or fbsm. I'm sick of these fuckers doing chargebacks because I'm not willing to risk my safety and health to meet their slimy asses.
When I watched that camgirl movie called CAM, I rolled my eyes so hard at the part where she marks on her calendar that she has an in-person date with one of her cam customers. ::)
TheBrownFox
01-05-2022, 11:29 AM
Yeah, if I have a sore throat, the last thing I wanna do is talk on the phone. Why are you making me talk? Please just text.
indiegirl
01-05-2022, 12:59 PM
^^ I love the photo indie and new avi miss ap!
I'm just realizing I used the word avatar and you used avi. We can all recognize I'm ridiculously bad with technology! Hahaha Sorry guys!
Marina Starr
01-05-2022, 06:05 PM
Here you go sis ;D
Thank you, sis! I had to rush to Nordstrom and bought two pairs of these, same style in silver and black, so much prettier and sparklier in person to go with 'Dirty Whore' fragrance. Now my neighbor's dog will bark even more every time I come home because she could smell the scent of a Dirty Whore!
https://i.ibb.co/nrPGpqF/20220105-194519.jpg (https://ibb.co/9nZDPm7)
~Carmen~
01-05-2022, 07:29 PM
Thank you, sis! I had to rush to Nordstrom and bought two pairs of these, same style in silver and black, so much prettier and sparklier in person to go with 'Dirty Whore' fragrance. Now my neighbor's dog will bark even more every time I come home because she could smell the scent of a Dirty Whore!
https://i.ibb.co/nrPGpqF/20220105-194519.jpg (https://ibb.co/9nZDPm7)
Pretty!! Don't be giving foot fetish away for free sis. Did you also purchase Dirty Whore perfume at Nordstrom?
indiegirl
01-05-2022, 07:41 PM
People who steal your packages off your porch are the scum of the world when you aren't home. Like seriously!!! Get a fucking job.
Thank god amazon is kind enough to send a free replacement.
Marina Starr
01-05-2022, 07:48 PM
Completely sold out and on backorder. I was told they were flying off the shelves! I did put my name on their waiting list.
I'm sure hoes must read your post and rushed to Nordstrom to stock up on Dirty Whore perfume.
Pretty!! Don't be giving foot fetish away for free sis. Did you also purchase Dirty Whore perfume at Nordstrom?
~Carmen~
01-06-2022, 03:15 AM
Completely sold out and on backorder. I was told they were flying off the shelves! I did put my name on their waiting list.
I'm sure hoes must read your post and rushed to Nordstrom to stock up on Dirty Whore perfume.
You're a hoot sis;D;D;D. Do you know what that means?
indiegirl
01-06-2022, 11:23 AM
Annoyed at these companies on etsy false advertising expensive items and receiving something completely different, then being told that it is accurate even though I have a side by side photo comparison. I just checked her site and she upped the price from $1630 to $1755 and now it is in stock....lady I haven't even sent the hair back to you yet!!!
I'm so disappointed. I just want someone good that I could have an honest business transaction with for years to come and not deal with people like this.
moneybags
01-06-2022, 01:38 PM
No good deed goes unpunished. I’m done caring and helping people for awhile. Unless someone has a life threatening condition, I’m gonna mind my own damn business.
TheBrownFox
01-06-2022, 01:58 PM
Ugh. I run out of my Vitamin D3 tomorrow, and I am quarantining. Not trying to pay Instacart fees + tip for one little item (And deal with them possibly getting the wrong item), so I'm gonna see if this Facebook friend who said "Let me know if you need anything" will come through for me. I also have something important I need to mail ASAP, but since the mf'ers didn't provide me with a POSTAGE-PAID return envelope (And the envelope provided is too fucking small anyway), I have to spend money on stamps to mail the shit. So that's two things I need to get asap...Vitamin D3 and stamps.
indiegirl
01-07-2022, 12:52 AM
Lol someone gave me this review saying I had "more of a smirk than a smile" and he arrived at a "mid-tier hotel" (I remember feeling like he was gonna be a problem and he booked under a 2nd number trying to hide).....The fuck would I be smirking about at a 200 dollar hotel I would never stay at unless it was for them? I'm trying to provide a service. It is absolutely fascinating to me how some men view things so differently than others. I always answer the door with a smile or positively joking around...I wish I could write in my response "I have a fat fucking puffer fish face so you must've seen something different. Perhaps open up a private gym once covid is over for me so you don't feel so offended by my smile." I'm thinking of responding "never saw you but hope all the best!" LOLL
hahaha it's just so insulting when you go above and beyond and someone poops this review out on the floor without even wiping. He also posted a PSA....that I squirt.....FUCKING LOVELY. You know what I'm about to deal with....a bunch of men trying to make me squirt with limited towels. This is a man off a cheap site for sure. People need to lay off reviewing me. I've had 5 reviews in the past week :(. It's getting to look like too much even though 4 were good. I hate being reviewed and feeling like all it takes is one to lose my source of income.
I'm not paying 275 a month for an ad site that will go south on me because men decided to be overtly nit-picky at things. Hopefully things stay okay on here because I do like this site. Thank god I decided to drive 30 minutes out of my way for this semblance of a man to a 4 star because if I stayed at a 3 star, all hell would've broken loose in his crap review. These are the men I truly detest. I'm not booking an 800 dollar room for purely YOU "mister I live in Laguna Beach". Girlllll I would never pay for a hotel there. Fucking expensive. He even wanted me to go there and book a room there when it's close to an hour away! Book it yourself, I'm paying ENOUGH in uber fees. But I get, not everyone is going to like you in life....my recovering people pleaser part of me reads my 2 bad reviews on this site that aren't perfect and loses it because I did the best I could.
Might as well stay home tonight because I'm really angry at the level of appreciation from him. 4.5 out of 5......Honey, no!!! They think we're all just lazy and don't realize how much goes into even arriving, being presentable, financial costs, or the amount of customers we may or may not even have...or them using a 2nd number and asking for bareback sex. All it took was that stupid review. We have lives outside of living at a hotel for you. Kindly remember that.
STAY in laguna beach. We don't need you here screwing up SW's sole source of income.
*Angry Mic drop and sorry for the essay..... I can send it as a PDF file titled 'rage'* lolllll
On a sidenote: =), I have put one of my decor-type pillow, a spare blanket, and a bed sheet on mister needy's bed. He hasn't moved for hours!!!! Haha I've recreated my bed for him :P...I'm hoping this works so I can have my bed back to myself! I highly doubt it but remaining optimistic lol!! :P. He's the one in black fur in his donut sleep position lol.
https://i.ibb.co/mFSGx2G/IMG-4156.jpg (https://ibb.co/mFSGx2G)
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-07-2022, 04:43 PM
Some folks really need to learn that it's not wise to piss off peaceful people. Things don't always roll off our backs. In fact we get so amazed at the audaciousness used to bother us. It's like poking a sleeping bear.
WendiStarr
01-07-2022, 05:34 PM
I feel like I'm either getting a sinus infection or a head cold and it's annoying that I can't take anything other than plain 'ol Tylenol because I'm pregnant. If I wasn't pregnant, I'd totally take some good otc cold meds or have hot tea with Jack Daniels in it and call it a night. I just realized today that I've spent the last 3 years either knocked up or breastfeeding. I need to remind my ob/gyn that I want my tubes tied after this baby is out, so I can have my body back without being a human incubator or human cow anymore.
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2022, 01:01 PM
I’m trying to chill but I wake up to L’s kid leaving wet towels on the floor and L not making him clean up after himself.
I can’t wait till I move out. I can't wait till he goes back to work and his kid is gone back to Bertha's house.
L and his kids is like having roommates from hell.
carmen_b
01-09-2022, 01:16 PM
^ Oh I forgot weekends were your more challenging time. :/
Today is hard for me too. We had his daughter four days last week then I guess we have her today ( Sun ) on top of M-W again ?
Its really not a huge deal ( normally ) but we were in a strained place so recently. I would have just assumed he wouldn’t do any extra days ( till life is smoother for a longer duration ). Oh well .
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2022, 01:22 PM
^Yeah he is usually off on Sundays - I'm trying not to lose my mind here. lol! .... guess I need some CBD to take the edge off.
He had an idea to go to an upscale restaurant but wanted to leave his kid here (he only has one kid here this time). I said no bring him along. Since he got a gift card from his coworker the meal shouldn't be too pricey.
I make reservations. Then later in the day he's like 'my son doesnt have anything to wear so I'd have to get him an outfit first'
FFS How tf do you not have a nice set (not even ONE set) of nice clothes for your kid???? WTF happened to all that child support money you stupidly handed over to Bertha 2 months ago? What happened to the money you loaned her she never gave back?
What message is he sending to his kid?
I had to reschedule ---- thanks to him being a complete cheapskate with his son. I honestly think he barely even likes his son.
*Le sigh*
I'm not dealing with this shit long-term
miss.a.p1600
01-09-2022, 01:25 PM
^ Oh I forgot weekends were your more challenging time. :/
Today is hard for me too. We had his daughter four days last week then I guess we have her today ( Sun ) on top of M-W again ?
Its really not a huge deal ( normally ) but we were in a strained place so recently. I would have just assumed he wouldn’t do any extra days ( till life is smoother for a longer duration ). Oh well .
That would make sense to have at least a day for just you two......
Ah! the joys of step-parenting
indiegirl
01-09-2022, 01:28 PM
Nothing triggers an eating disorder like a customer who works for high lingerie designers and discusses weight and feeling fat. He wanted a photo twice and I felt so not good for him due to my weight change from the pandemic and fear of the gym. I talked for 35 minutes on the phone. He knew my sizes in my photos without him measuring based on my photos. He thanked me for my honesty like I was fat. What the fuck is going on in LA. I am not fat. I said I have covid weight still since I'm not going to the gym. Nobody is fat here. You are just toxic!!!
I'm done with LA. Yes we "vibed" just be polite. Like seriously, do I need to be emaciated to be a person for you? I sent you photos in my ad!"
Sorry for posting this and bothering others. I cannot compete with someone who works in the lingerie industry. I am not at starving weight level.
carmen_b
01-09-2022, 01:54 PM
We did Thurs - Sat.!
The way things usually work would just get us Sunday too so I was looking forward to the 4th one. He told me a few days ahead but just would have preferred 4th day too ( regardless if it gets us a day later ). :)
That would make sense to have at least a day for just you two......
Ah! the joys of step-parenting
charlie61
01-09-2022, 02:34 PM
Annoyed by the fear mongering around supply chain issues. Even when there aren't actually any significant issues, it causes so many people to panic buy that it causes problems for those of us who are just trying to make normal purchases.
carmen_b
01-09-2022, 07:01 PM
^ It dings me in my day job. Certain items we never know realistic timelines for.
People find it confusing still too after all this time.
xxxGothBarbie
01-11-2022, 05:43 PM
People and their snooty ass unsolicited opinions ugh
Also the 18 degree weather here blaaahhh
And annoyed at how ridiculous expensive it's gotten to live in a hotel bc looking for potential rooms to rent are scams anymore or the people don't get back to you once you reach out.
carmen_b
01-11-2022, 06:52 PM
^ I think housing is haywire nearly everywhere.
It seems like you see an ad and have to be ON THE WAY with cash in hand to get it ( often this is actually the case ) !
I posted a rental in my home town that I have coming open and it was so chaotic with calls. :/
I need to get back to like 15 of the people !
xxxGothBarbie
01-11-2022, 07:26 PM
^ I think housing is haywire nearly everywhere.
It seems like you see an ad and have to be ON THE WAY with cash in hand to get it ( often this is actually the case ) !
I posted a rental in my home town that I have coming open and it was so chaotic with calls. :/
I need to get back to like 15 of the people !
Ya I've lost interest in even having a place anymore. I'm happy with crashing at boys place where I pay maybe $80 a month rent if that. It's just not worth it anymore imo. Rental places also make you jump thru loops of fire to even qualify so yaaa...
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:19 PM
Some f******* idiot at safe parking stole my phone while it was charging. He was on camera so they caught him and they recovered my phone, but I wasn't able to log on to here for a few days. I miss talking to you all!
Before I knew they recovered my phone, I went to get a new phone which is a total piece of s***. I'm going to take my old phone and get a new SIM card for it this week. This new phone sucks so bad it doesn't work fast at all and it's affecting my money. But I've got my old phone and once I get a SIM card going I'll be good to go.
miss.a.p1600
01-11-2022, 08:20 PM
^Omg
Good thing you got your phone back
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:22 PM
I know! To be honest I didn't think I would get it back. But I guess they approach the guy and told him straight up they have them on camera and they showed him the footage so he had no choice but to give it back. Still, I had to change passwords and do all that kind of crap. Major inconvenience. Why the f*** can't people just leave me in my s*** alone? What is so hard about that?
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:23 PM
This new phone is such a piece of crap. It takes forever to charge and the battery life is only maybe like 3 hours. I'm trying to read and catch up on everybody before it dies again LOL
charlie61
01-11-2022, 08:31 PM
I'm sorry, gothbarbie. I'm assuming that's directed at me. Was not my intention in your thread. :hug:
We're all giving our opinions on this board... but i totally get that sometimes those opinions aren't wanted.
LoveyD
01-11-2022, 08:36 PM
^ I think housing is haywire nearly everywhere.
It seems like you see an ad and have to be ON THE WAY with cash in hand to get it ( often this is actually the case ) !
I posted a rental in my home town that I have coming open and it was so chaotic with calls. :/
I need to get back to like 15 of the people !
Rent is definitely haywire everywhere, especially in my city. That's why I'm staying at casa de parking lot LOL. I haven't told my son that I'm homeless because I don't want him to be worried or influenced by it. I keep calling it The airbnb. Hey at least there's a lot of air at this b&b LOL!
I have to admit, I've been able to save up a lot of money. There was a place in the country I found where the rent was super cheap and I was able to have my son and a potential cat there, but somebody's snagged it.
chanzep
01-12-2022, 02:04 PM
I can't believe that asshole took your phone. I'm glad you got it back. I hope you find a nice place soon you deserve it.
carmen_b
01-12-2022, 02:46 PM
Lovey :
I think it’s smart honestly.
Your discretion is just that not really a lie as you seem safe and don’t want to worry your son.
moneybags
01-12-2022, 03:51 PM
I got these clip on veeners and they are awful! They don’t make my smile look that much better.
They told me they wanted another $300 and I said fuck you! I’m being a complete pain in the ass until I get what I want. I am the kindest person until you give me a reason not to be. You have to be a bitch sometimes. Bitches get shit done.
LoveyD
01-12-2022, 04:40 PM
^Sometimes being a bitch is necessary so that people don't take advantage. I get it.
@ Chanzep thank you. I'm honestly at my wit's end. The fact that I can shower at the gym now is making things more bearable. But I just don't need this shit.
@Carmen My kid is such a doll. I don't want him to worry.
Ugh thank Goddess for edibles.
Aurora_Sunset
01-13-2022, 05:49 PM
I guess Burger King discontinued their veggie burger when they brought out the Impossible Whopper. That's annoying. I actually really liked their veggie burger. It had like half the calories of the Impossible Whopper, plus, sometimes I actually do want to eat something that tastes like a veggie/bean burger, not like a "real" hamburger. It's cool that they're making all these things now to appeal to "traditional meat eaters" who would have never considered eating anything plant-based otherwise, but I don't want my other options to go away.
LoveyD
01-13-2022, 09:34 PM
I agree, not only do they not have the same veggie burger, but it costs more too. And I don't like the fact that they cook them on the same surface as they do the meat Patties. It defeats the whole purpose! It seems like they're catering more to the meat eating crowd who might want to try a vegetarian option than providing meals to people who are strictly vegetarian. As a veggie, I feel a bit alienated and I don't eat their burgers anymore. I had to Carl's Jr instead.
~Carmen~
01-13-2022, 11:00 PM
Culvers has a good veggie burger but I don't know if they cook them on the same grill as the meat patties.
Edit: I just googled and they are but you can ask that they be microwaved instead:-\.
kimbe
01-14-2022, 10:53 AM
Woke up today with mild cold symptoms, that’s the last fucking thing I need right now.. Hopefully a good mix of medicine will kill it before it gets any worse!
Ok, I had a Covid test and it was negative, thanks for that. Guess I’m good to go then…
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-14-2022, 10:59 AM
Petty annoyed that I dented something valuable. On the bright side, I'm regaining some strength I lost after months of bad fibromyalgia issues.
carmen_b
01-14-2022, 12:37 PM
J hinting I spend more time getting to know his sister ....
Why is this a huge priority ? She does not live in our town. Let’s visit when we are in her town ( a couple hours away ) and not force this.
If I’m in her town by myself I probably will not stay with her or invite her to do anything.
I go there, I’m super busy, then I want privacy ( hotel ).
I had to spell it out for him last night. I do not need a new best friend ( especially one I can’t share full details about YOU with ).
J: You may notice I’m running a business, buying a new investment property, and managing my mental health shit lol . I do not need more to dos thanks.
If we are both ( or all three ) in her town , no prob offering time to hang. I think he is paranoid she will revoke offers to take his daughter here and there. If she does she does lol ! Let her help if she would like to v.s. forcing vibes. If she can’t help the 1.5 days you scheduled in Jan. and 3 days in March she is kind of a dick anyway ha!
That’s barely ANY days !!
kimbe
01-14-2022, 12:51 PM
I had to spell it out for him last night. I do not need a new best friend ( especially one I can’t share full details about YOU with ).
And a best friend can never be forced on you ;)
Btw, cold symptoms are fading away, or at least not getting worse :)
carmen_b
01-14-2022, 12:59 PM
I’m not sure it even makes sense to be great friends with his sister haha.
I think he thinks because we both travel ect. we should be bonding .
Maybe I should be more open ? Not sure!
kimbe
01-14-2022, 02:05 PM
Luckily I arrived at the studio I've hired for the workshop an hour or so early only to discover that there were no curtains! There used to be motorized shades/curtains but for some reason they're been taken down. What's the problem, well lets put it like this; I don't want people walking by staring at my clients practicing posing in thongs&heels!
Finally I got use of the duct tape I always bring in my car, and together with some paper sheets and blankets I have managed to cover most of the windows. Doesn't look very professional though, but it does the job.
Selina M
01-14-2022, 03:25 PM
I got yelled at by my FIL this morning because my SO relapsed and I, at the end of my rope, knowing how scared he is of actual withdrawals, told him he needed to prove he was serious by doing 24 hours cold turkey. His dad is a doctor who had written him all these anti-nausea, anti-anxiety, blah blah meds to soften withdrawal. He gets coddled by everyone and his dad is the most enabling, head-in-the-sand type I've ever seen, and it's not done him any favors thus far.
SO agreed and is already past 24 hours and is really not too bad off.
However, I still had to listen to a tirade of "Who the fuck do you think you are, why are you making him suffer, he's suffering enough, you think I'm controlling, you know what I'm done, you can control him all you want now." I just kept repeating "Ok" calmly and it made him angrier and angrier until he hung up.
His family are all pieces of work and I am not going to be surprised if Daddy Warbucks has a clause in his will instructing SO not to use any inheritance on me :rotfl: God I'm sick of them.
miss.a.p1600
01-14-2022, 03:27 PM
One of my family members has a need and L offered to assist. I’d look like a dick if I don’t oblige.
Ffs people stop being so needy because I don’t want to owe anyone or feel obligated to anyone.
charlie61
01-14-2022, 07:48 PM
Selina, I'm so sorry. If you're anything like me, partner relapses are beyond terrifying and destabilizing. It's a horrific disease. :hug:
xxxGothBarbie
01-14-2022, 08:28 PM
Sick of this weird battle/competition with bf's mom over lots of shit ugh the lady is bat shit crazy and endlessly irritating.