View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
carmen_b
01-22-2022, 09:39 AM
Oh no !
I got so sick to my stomach last night.
Now I'm Omicron paranoid ( I also had sore throat ).
I feel bad. We had really good concert tickets tonight but I don't think I can make the two hour drive to get over there.
carmen_b
01-22-2022, 12:45 PM
I'm hoping for a miraculous recovery by 6-7 p.m.
I have never seen the band them live before.
I would still go even if I had to pop in a few songs late ( to minimize moving through the crowd ) and leaving a few songs early ( for same ).
miss.a.p1600
01-22-2022, 03:58 PM
Fml. My tolerance is creeping up and I guess I need to take a t break.
Now I feel unmotivated and frustrated
laurielegs
01-22-2022, 10:57 PM
I'm annoyed at myself, getting angry and logging out thinking I'm not making money and then when I look I actually did make a nice amount. I need to increase my tolerance again for staying online more. Money is good! lol
indiegirl
01-22-2022, 11:42 PM
I got hit on 3 times at my outcall just walking through. There was a sports game or concert across the street. So humiliating.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 08:20 AM
L agreed to take his kids this weekend despite not having a day off this weekend.
I get he loves his kids and all but not having time off is a one way ticket to burnout and he should have just paid Bertha a few bucks to keep her kids.
He FaceTimes them and talks to them multiple times a day. And he leaves work everyday on his lunch break to pickup his son from school because Bertha is too trifling to arrange a ride for him. He literally has had no break in almost 2 weeks.
I wish he would stop agreeing to take care of kids outside of his parenting time and when he is not off work and take time for himself to better his financial standing.
I am going to have another conversation with him and I don’t know if it’s going to go well because he gets in these “it’s my kids” mode where he thinks sacrificing himself those kids is a noble thing and it’s not. Kids have a harder time thriving if the parents aren’t able to thrive themselves.
I’m starting to think he feels more accomplished when he’s being mr. mom (and receiving accolades from kids and Bertha) than trying to climb the career ladder but failing and getting no recognition.
It’s like it doesn’t Register in his brain that he could be a better resource to his kids if, instead of rushing off to rescue Bertha from her kids/her childcare struggles, he improved his position in his career because he would have more money to provide for them.
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 08:48 AM
I feel bad that I left SW for awhile. I ran into issues with my neighbors (I had to get a lawyer...omg MESS but now they know not to fuck with me) and life has just been horrible.
Don't feel you have to respond. These are more than petty annoyances and I need to get this shit off my chest so bad!
I found out I have HPV which has led to...da da da...precancerous growths in my cervix! Not just any old precancer....AIS! Meaning I will need a hysterctomy in the near future. For now, I am having a conization procedure where they cut a huge cone chunk out of my cervix and hopefully get the bad stuff, but I will need to get frequent paps etc until I have the big surgery. My cone procedure is on Tuesday. It's outpatient but I am scared.
My shitty freelance writing job (which isn't a job but a 1099) got really bitchy with me over spelling errors I fucking fixed. The owner bitched me out and wants me to make changes to other things and it's stupid, because these non-spelling error issues were how I always handled these articles. I am seriously sick of this and realized I made next to nothing with that job. I need to quit working there because it is not even worth my time. I sent an email to someone else saying I'm having surgery this week and won't be working. I guess I'll have to fix their bullshit, but I am done after that. I need to find something else from home.
My daughter's teacher is pissing me off with how she keeps complaining about my daughter being behind after a year of Covid, and how she wants me to continue having a private tutor for my daughter all the way through fucking SUMMER. WHAT. She insisted I contact the school district to have my daughter evaluated and there are all these stupid forms to fill out that I don't want to fill out, asking if my daughter wetss herself, has low self-esteem, etc. It's like 8 pages of bullshit.
UGH.
I miss everyone here! I am sure I will be here more often now that I am going to be recovering and in need of making life changes.
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 08:53 AM
It’s like it doesn’t Register in his brain that he could be a better resource to his kids if, instead of rushing off to rescue Bertha from her kids/her childcare struggles, he improved his position in his career because he would have more money to provide for them.
Miss P, why isn't he or Bertha putting these kids in daycare/YMCA after care/activities of any kind? I've read a little of what's new with you and L, and it sounds like YOU and the kids are caught in the middle. Them because they are kids and can't control a lot of what their parents do, and you because you are expected to pick up slack for what he/Bertha won't do.
It's stupid. He thinks he is being Mr. Mom but it sounds like he picks them up, drops them home where you are, goes to work and Facetimes them there, meaning he's not focusing on work, and he's likely not doing anything to change/better his work situation when he comes home (like studying or looking for a new job).
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 08:56 AM
^hey there!
Missed ya too!
Sorry to hear about the diagnosis.
I had a similar situation. The first guy I slept with (foolishly unprotected) gave me multiple infections. One of which was hpv. It would flare up frequently when I was younger. I got that same procedure and thankfully haven’t had problems since.
Try to eat healthy and reduce stress. Your body can try to heal itself much better when you take good care of yourself.
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 08:59 AM
^hey there!
Missed ya too!
Sorry to hear about the diagnosis.
I had a similar situation. The first guy I slept with (foolishly unprotected) gave me multiple infections. One of which was hpv. It would flare up frequently when I was younger. I got that same procedure and thankfully haven’t had problems since.
Try to eat healthy and reduce stress. Your body can try to heal itself much better when you take good care of yourself.
You had the cone procedure also, you mean? That's good to hear you no longer have problems! Yes, you are right, I need to eat better (more home cooking) and start exercising/cutting down on stress. I guess this is a sign things need to change in the year 2022, right?
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 10:50 AM
Miss P, why isn't he or Bertha putting these kids in daycare/YMCA after care/activities of any kind? I've read a little of what's new with you and L, and it sounds like YOU and the kids are caught in the middle. Them because they are kids and can't control a lot of what their parents do, and you because you are expected to pick up slack for what he/Bertha won't do.
It's stupid. He thinks he is being Mr. Mom but it sounds like he picks them up, drops them home where you are, goes to work and Facetimes them there, meaning he's not focusing on work, and he's likely not doing anything to change/better his work situation when he comes home (like studying or looking for a new job).
this sums up the situation in a nutshell.
i told him instead of running himself ragged he needs to put them in some sort of aftercare program and start holding Bertha accountable for providing for her kids. This house is not aftercare, I’m not a free nanny, I refuse to work for Bertha unless she compensates me, and those kids need to be socialized with kids their own age doing activities that will enrich their lives.
I’m probably coming off as the megacunt step mother of the year but I refuse to let Bertha manipulate me into sacrificing for her kids because she’s lazy af and I refuse to let L manipulate me into sacrificing for his kids because he is too cheap to put them in activities (which would not be a problem if he passed the test to get a raise) and he is afraid to say no to Bertha (because he foolishly co-signed a loan while they were married and he wants to make sure she doesn’t default on the loan)
But if he doesn’t make some changes to this I’m not certain I can keep dealing with the chaos.
You had the cone procedure also, you mean? That's good to hear you no longer have problems! Yes, you are right, I need to eat better (more home cooking) and start exercising/cutting down on stress. I guess this is a sign things need to change in the year 2022, right?
yes I had that procedure several years ago and my paps have been normal since. They just freeze off the portion that has the bad cells. Mine was an outpatient procedure
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 11:10 AM
^ Thanks Miss P, that is good to know. I'm glad you've had normal paps since! Hopefully the same for me after Tuesday.
L needs to grow a pair. I agree, the kids would likely be better off with children their own age. YMCA, boy/girl scouts, tumbling/gym/dance/sports/karate. Bertha thinks like a certain in-law of mine: she gave birth, so it is everyone else's resposibility to raise the kids. It is not. I will never understand why letting the kids stay in your home at weird times when L isn't home is a thing (not directing at you, just like wtf dude....this isn't doing anything for anyone). Has L ever approached with "Well you aren't doing anything, so" regarding the kids and how you should watch them?
On that note....my husband threw my meatloaf out!? I made everyone a sitdown meal of meatloaf and sides -he and the kids got a meat one and mine was a vegetarian meatloaf. I assumed since I had so much left over he would save it for me and I would eat it tomorrow. I guess not??? The fuck???
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 11:21 AM
I just don’t know how ya do it.
With * precise * scheduling sometimes I think even having a kid around three ish days a week is too much .
It’s a difficult thing to take on ( giving up quiet in your home ).
It takes a lot of mitigation so resentments don’t build on both sides.
I still 50/50 the time.
I know they are around 11:30-7:30.
I’m out about 11:30-3:30.
I’m not a total dick. I left a pancake for her, have groceries coming at 3:30, made jello for later , and cleaned the kitchen. I did all that when the house was totally quiet. :)
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 11:21 AM
^ Thanks Miss P, that is good to know. I'm glad you've had normal paps since! Hopefully the same for me after Tuesday.
L needs to grow a pair. I agree, the kids would likely be better off with children their own age. YMCA, boy/girl scouts, tumbling/gym/dance/sports/karate. Bertha thinks like a certain in-law of mine: she gave birth, so it is everyone else's resposibility to raise the kids. It is not. I will never understand why letting the kids stay in your home at weird times when L isn't home is a thing (not directing at you, just like wtf dude....this isn't doing anything for anyone). Has L ever approached with "Well you aren't doing anything, so" regarding the kids and how you should watch them?
On that note....my husband threw my meatloaf out!? I made everyone a sitdown meal of meatloaf and sides -he and the kids got a meat one and mine was a vegetarian meatloaf. I assumed since I had so much left over he would save it for me and I would eat it tomorrow. I guess not??? The fuck???
Yes I think he has. Ever since he stupidly told his daughter I work from home (his ex wife most likely listens in on their conversation and her cunning calculating ass probably makes the kid hound him about staying here with me) that kid has been begging him to stay here at the house with me.
like STOP telling those kids all our damn business! so that Bertha can listen in and use to her advantage.
This is the downside of telling people you work from home because all mfs want to do is encroach on your time because they think your just at home in your pjs doing nothing.
he even tried to have me pick up his son from school daily because Berthas dumb ass signed him up at a school with no bus service and they’re too scared for him to walk to school in the hood. Well, this might be a cunty thing for me to do but I dodged his calls in the afternoon because I didn’t want to be obligated. That’s berthas problem to solve. She created the problem and now she needs to solve it. Why tf would I drive through the hood everyday. No ma’am. Carmen suggested carpool and I told him that. He came up with every excuse about how he didn’t trust people etc. Well you trust people enough to allow Bertha to have your kids living in the hood, going to school in the hood, so they can carpool in the hood
or better yet, tell Bertha to take her kid to school since she signed him up for that school.
<fuck her!
And …..
Meatloaf sounds good right about now. The best one I had was at a fancy steakhouse with mushrooms on top. I’m not a fan of mushrooms but this one was so good.
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 11:25 AM
I’m honestly thinking of just buying my own house nearby to create an adults only QUIET environment even though I’d only stay there one day a week.
I feel like I could just rent two rooms out haha.
They are just being stupid not carpooling .
No doubt there is a mom within 3 houses on either side who would have Bertha take them to school and then the other Mom picks up. Saves each Mom 25 min probably 5 days a week. It all adds up.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 11:26 AM
ˆYes girl.
I’d love to own an adults only space I can just up and leave and go to when need be. Then rent it out when I’m not there.
Hmmm. This is actually a really good idea.
I just don’t know how ya do it.
With * precise * scheduling sometimes I think even having a kid around three ish days a week is too much .
It’s a difficult thing to take on ( giving up quiet in your home ).
It takes a lot of mitigation so resentments don’t build on both sides.
I still 50/50 the time.
I know they are around 11:30-7:30.
I’m out about 11:30-3:30.
I don’t know how I do it either. He is getting better at telling me 24hrs in advance when they’ll be here but I am noticing his daughter expecting to be here the entire weekend and days they’re out of school (regardless if her dad has to work).
The edibles kept my patience in tact but deep down, when the edibles wear off, the problem is still there……
Loose boundaries with an exwife he’s at the mercy of and lack of career ambition which equates in my mind to a mediocre lifestyle (which is cool if you just want to get by) but for doing more profound things in life the status quo is not acceptable for me. Even if I wasn’t in the picture, his kids deserve better than parents who feed them pizza rolls and fried chicken every day and hold them inside the house with nothing to do but cling to their caregivers.
Yeah I guess I’ll schedule that therapy appointment because his stuff has me ranting like a crazy person and I can’t focus on work when I have to constantly think about other peoples problems.
If you want a housewife that will cook, clean, take care of your kids then you need to compensate me or I will decline all childcare requests outside of your parenting time. Call me a cunt for that but it is what it is.
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 11:42 AM
^ You could always meet with a mortgage person and see what’s possible. :)
Even a little condo with just one room to rent out could be nice ( for a room mate OUT 9-5 M-F of course ).
I only have rented to roommates who work outside the home and never have a hard time finding people. I think it’s ok to stretch thin if needed to buy. Long term holds on real estate almost always win.
Typing this out though is making me realize I've only lived alone 1 year and 6 months in almost 9 years. I guess I should have savored that time late 2018- mid 2020!
I think it’s ok to do your own therapy too. :)
Maybe you could look and see what you find for 3-5 pm activities .
Even offer to pay 1/3 “ to enrich their lives “.
Most schools have after care programs until 5 or recreation centers nearby do.
School days don’t bother me personally ( 3:30-8 to cover is pretty easy ), but J is off by 3:30.
He’d need something else too if he worked until 5.
Monday is my fave day I'd say to spend with them because she gets out later at 4:05 and then J takes us for Noodles.
Such a high structure day and EASY.
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 01:34 PM
^ I actually think if you talked openly about getting your own property ( it can always just be an investment ) it might cause L to wise up a little.
He’d know you had somewhere to go at any time. :)
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 02:20 PM
Loose boundaries with an exwife he’s at the mercy of and lack of career ambition which equates in my mind to a mediocre lifestyle (which is cool if you just want to get by) but for doing more profound things in life the status quo is not acceptable for me. Even if I wasn’t in the picture, his kids deserve better than parents who feed them pizza rolls and fried chicken every day and hold them inside the house with nothing to do but cling to their caregivers.
It does seem like a shitty situation. Bertha boundary stomps, I feel like maybe the kids get used as pawns and you're just expected to do for them what their parents WON'T do for them.
If you want your own kids, ask yourself how they would fit into this situation with L. Would your kids get ignored? Obviously you would treat your own children much differently, but would there be necessary boundaries that L supports? I can see Bertha getting all pissy over every little thing.
Also LOL WHY sign the son up for a school with no bus service, but it's near/around the hood?! Either pick a better school (which may not be an option) or a school with bus service? Where I live you can do open enrollment for public school, meaning you can petition for the kid to go elsewhere than the school they live close by. It's too funny though: here's this school Bertha wants him to go to, but she doesn't want him walking in the hood (not like anyone else wants to be in the hood either).
Miss P, you are far better than I for not flipping a bitch. This woman has got to be doing mental gymnastics to justify some of the child rearing (or lack thereof) she is doing.
LoveyD
01-23-2022, 03:13 PM
I'm parked in a customer's driveway and I can't move because my battery died. I have jumper cables, but I really don't want to knock on their door and ask them for a jump, so I'm waiting for my insurance company to send out roadside assistance. Yeah cuz this is really what I feel like doing on a Sunday.
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 03:15 PM
^ If they estimate over 20 min. you should just knock. :)
It takes just 4-5 min. to jump, so easy !
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 03:15 PM
I'm hoping work sends me to Hawaii for 6 days in Feb.
I don't have exact dates yet.
It's nearly Feb. already.
Maybe I just need to let the winter trip idea go to feel more peaceful .
I can't exactly be mad at J if I don't have my Feb. dates firmed up. :/
I kind of AM though ( admittedly ). I felt like we should have just thrown out own cash down and gone in Jan or Feb ( a trip planned well ahead such as 3-4 weeks ).
Maybe they will be more firm in 3-4 days. I sure hope so.
I'd really love to go even if it's solo. :)
LoveyD
01-23-2022, 03:23 PM
I feel bad that I left SW for awhile. I ran into issues with my neighbors (I had to get a lawyer...omg MESS but now they know not to fuck with me) and life has just been horrible.
Don't feel you have to respond. These are more than petty annoyances and I need to get this shit off my chest so bad!
I found out I have HPV which has led to...da da da...precancerous growths in my cervix! Not just any old precancer....AIS! Meaning I will need a hysterctomy in the near future. For now, I am having a conization procedure where they cut a huge cone chunk out of my cervix and hopefully get the bad stuff, but I will need to get frequent paps etc until I have the big surgery. My cone procedure is on Tuesday. It's outpatient but I am scared.
My shitty freelance writing job (which isn't a job but a 1099) got really bitchy with me over spelling errors I fucking fixed. The owner bitched me out and wants me to make changes to other things and it's stupid, because these non-spelling error issues were how I always handled these articles. I am seriously sick of this and realized I made next to nothing with that job. I need to quit working there because it is not even worth my time. I sent an email to someone else saying I'm having surgery this week and won't be working. I guess I'll have to fix their bullshit, but I am done after that. I need to find something else from home.
My daughter's teacher is pissing me off with how she keeps complaining about my daughter being behind after a year of Covid, and how she wants me to continue having a private tutor for my daughter all the way through fucking SUMMER. WHAT. She insisted I contact the school district to have my daughter evaluated and there are all these stupid forms to fill out that I don't want to fill out, asking if my daughter wetss herself, has low self-esteem, etc. It's like 8 pages of bullshit.
UGH.
I miss everyone here! I am sure I will be here more often now that I am going to be recovering and in need of making life changes.
Hey, welcome back! I had the same procedure in my twenties. That seem to take care of things because then they came back normal for a while. Now they're coming back slightly abnormal, they don't really do much other than tell me to take vitamins for it. I never needed a hysterectomy. Sending you Good vibes on this, I know it can be unnerving and stressful.
JenniferNorth
01-23-2022, 03:59 PM
^ Thank you Lovey! Mine is a rare kind that likes to hide, so at some point my uterus will have to go. I am actually seeing an oncologist for all this BS instead of my regular GYN. But I am glad you said the procedure worked for you - really nervous about sedation.
While we're on the subject of pissyness-hospitals and clinics and COVID.
I am vaxxed and would not spread Covid knowingly.....but I am mad my husband cannot be there with me for when I wake up. He can sit there with me until surgery starts and then must leave, but he cannot come back or wait for me to wake up. That is beyond fucking stupid and scarey. I am going to run out of that hospital. Stupid rules like that won't "stop Covid" and for people with anxiety, it makes mental health problems worse. The way hospitals are being run is asinine. My hubby wasn't going to be allowed to initally go with me to my first appointment either, which was scary enough.
LoveyD
01-23-2022, 05:40 PM
^^ what kind of sedation are they planning?
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 06:33 PM
It's a bad time to bring dancing up again lol ......
BUT ...... I'm bored and $$$ never hurts so ............
Also I need $100 to go spend at this burlesque show haha.
I'd rather the guys cover my entrance and tipping to the show.
The show is “ old school “ with really elaborate costumes. :)
carmen_b
01-23-2022, 06:35 PM
Jennifer : medical stuff is REALLY scary ! Good luck in moving through all of this.
I procrastinated some med things ( Dentist , Eye Dr. , and OB annual ).
I need to pick one and not just be totally irresponsible.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 08:21 PM
I'm parked in a customer's driveway and I can't move because my battery died. I have jumper cables, but I really don't want to knock on their door and ask them for a jump, so I'm waiting for my insurance company to send out roadside assistance. Yeah cuz this is really what I feel like doing on a Sunday.
I’ve seen the ones where you can jump start your battery without another car. Sold on Amazon but probably in autozone too.
You may want to invest in one of those.
I loathe waiting all damn day n night for the roadside. I think they purposely take forever so people learn not to blow up their phone with random minor requests they could do on their own.
One time all my tires went below the recommended psi and o freaked out cause I thought someone slashed my tires and it was at night so I called roadside and these hoes said they had to tow it AND it would take 1 hour and 45 min so I said No Ma’am. I’m not about to wait forever for this and your not charging me for a tow when all I need is air and to check it’s not a puncture.
Thankfully there was a sams club with a tire center right around the corner so I pulled in there, got free air, and went on my way.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2022, 08:28 PM
It does seem like a shitty situation. Bertha boundary stomps, I feel like maybe the kids get used as pawns and you're just expected to do for them what their parents WON'T do for them.
If you want your own kids, ask yourself how they would fit into this situation with L. Would your kids get ignored? Obviously you would treat your own children much differently, but would there be necessary boundaries that L supports? I can see Bertha getting all pissy over every little thing.
Also LOL WHY sign the son up for a school with no bus service, but it's near/around the hood?! Either pick a better school (which may not be an option) or a school with bus service? Where I live you can do open enrollment for public school, meaning you can petition for the kid to go elsewhere than the school they live close by. It's too funny though: here's this school Bertha wants him to go to, but she doesn't want him walking in the hood (not like anyone else wants to be in the hood either).
Miss P, you are far better than I for not flipping a bitch. This woman has got to be doing mental gymnastics to justify some of the child rearing (or lack thereof) she is doing.
Pretty much sums it up.
Sucks cause I would have a kid with him IF he got a raise AND set firm boundaries with Bertha and his kids with her. Cause if he tells her no she sends her kids to beg him for whatever.
He said he’d be open to moving in a couple years.
If I am still with him that long, I won’t be able to live anywhere near Bertha because I don’t want her thinking she can ping L and have him running all around the city for her n her kids especially when it’s not his parenting time.
I feel like I would probably be like a single mom cause he be so busy working and running for their kids.
And then what would I need him for?
Aurora_Sunset
01-23-2022, 10:08 PM
I find it absolutely insane that a fancy, expensive gaming laptop only has ONE USB port. So I have to choose between plugging in my real mouse or doing anything else that involves a USB plug-in. Every other cheap, old laptop has always had at least 2.
JenniferNorth
01-24-2022, 04:48 AM
Lovey, they said twlight sedation? Where I would be relaxed or even sleepy, but not totally out of it.
Well, for all my bitching about surgery, that won't be happening now. I tested positive for Covid!
The hospital had me do my Covid test on Saturday. Normally if you get positive results, someone calls you right away. despite being sick (I assumed I had a cold) I heard nothing. Last night as hubby and I were talking, the app my doctor's use to give test results, remind of appointments etc pinged. I had a message prompting me to log on, and it was my Covid test coming back positive. Those types of tests come back after X amount of hours, whether anyone reads the results or not. So, yay me.
Now I get to...
* Call school (daycare is already aware since I can message them through an app we use)
* Have hubby take girls to get tested
* Keep girls at home for X amount of time (irionically I keep my 1 year old at home LONGER if she is negative and a shorter time if she is positive)
* Call the vet and cancel boarding for my big dog and nail clipping for the little one
* Call my Dr./Suregon and be like "WTF?"
* Try to reschedule all this mess
I'm so over Covid. Aside from food tasting weird (but doesn't it always taste weird when you are sick??) I've been mostly OK save for a couple days when my nose was really blocked up and I couldn't breathe through it
miss.a.p1600
01-24-2022, 05:59 AM
^thats good to hear you’re mostly okay now.
JenniferNorth
01-24-2022, 06:43 AM
^ Yes, ironically the worst of it was last week, when my Dr.s office was bitching at me to do mandatory bloodwork, xrays and so on. I told them I felt sick and they responded with "We need to get this donnnnnneee".
Well it's done, and I'm positive I shared my germs with others, but hey, whatever.
I'm mad at the fact I have to reschedule and figure this crap out. So irritating.
Marina Starr
01-24-2022, 07:32 AM
It's in the low 40s this morning in Florida. I hate it so much! What really odd is the humidity was still in the high 90s. Give me warm weather with low humidity, please.
WonderWoman0642
01-24-2022, 09:59 AM
^ It was -10 this morning where I live. I would love to be in the low 40s! It's so annoying. I'm seriously thinking about moving to Florida.
GlamLifter
01-24-2022, 10:05 AM
I hate low temperatures.. >:(
carmen_b
01-24-2022, 10:26 AM
^ Same !
My annoyance is I have family visiting and they want to go on a hike but I have not felt well these last few days.
I feel like it would be so stressful to not be near a bathroom at all times today even though I'm 80% better.
I just need that final 20% !
carmen_b
01-24-2022, 10:28 AM
Oh look I'm back already.
J bought TWO tickets in the same week for the same band.
The 2nd purchase he even admitted was not well thought out haha.
He can't re-sell it ( some sort of VIP option for front three rows it goes by exact name ).
I kind of feel " eh " about this crazed fan stuff admittedly .
We are deciding if ME or his sister will take daughter for a day ( picking her up from school then doing the 3:30 - 8 range with her ) plus the morning 7a.m. - 8:15 range getting to school range while he drives 4.5 hours to a city nearby to see a band he saw last Saturday , gets a hotel, then drives 4.5 hours back.
I was totally ok with it a couple weeks ago when he asked but now that it is on this weeks calendar during the work week I'm feeling ...... bleh.
I'm feeling pouty because last night he mentioned his sister might still come ( GREAT ) !
I felt like it could give me a day to take off to Vegas solo and got some things done. :/
He doesn't do it often ( it's not a habit to buy tickets on his parenting days more like a once in a blue moon thing ).
whirlerz
01-24-2022, 10:34 AM
Jenn N. I didn't get to read your whole post, but missed you greatly!
xxxGothBarbie
01-24-2022, 11:17 AM
I'm so sick of the cooking situation here. Lady wants to all of a sudden cook when bf tells her I'm making dinner for the both of us and for her not to worry about it. She needs to get over the fact that her son's gf can cook yummy food and needs to use her kitchen to do so. I hate her food! The meat is always dry AF or burnt and she only serves rice... yuck! Who the fuck eats rice every fucking day?! Boring.
Marina Starr
01-24-2022, 11:37 AM
My body would shut down if it gets that cold. Everyone wants to move to Florida so I can see why you'd want to.
^ It was -10 this morning where I live. I would love to be in the low 40s! It's so annoying. I'm seriously thinking about moving to Florida.
carmen_b
01-24-2022, 12:12 PM
^ Omg I hate being cold. Is is so terrible.
carmen_b
01-24-2022, 12:14 PM
Right on. Sister confirmed she will take J's daughter tomorrow. :)
Threes a crowd ya know so I will book a Vegas hotel for me + dog .
We could use a staycation.
I need to pick up my permanent license card this week ugh.
Marina Starr
01-24-2022, 12:33 PM
I'm trying to sell virtual pussy and it's so cold where I have everything set up. I had to put on a sweater and still got CHILLS. Thank God this cold ass weather doesn't last long in Florida.
^ Omg I hate being cold. Is is so terrible.
whirlerz
01-24-2022, 12:43 PM
Good thing you're not in IL!
I already shoveled driveway a few times, put salt down, & struggled to get out (it's also steep incline)
No one here will do shit, I always have to take dumpsters up for garbage day..
Landlord said hes getting a shoveler guy, I saw him but he's gone & no thing's done..
Even a lady I met from CO said our weather's worse than there.
LoveyD
01-24-2022, 12:53 PM
@Jennifer Twilight sedation is the shit! I was under twilight sedation when I had to get a Uterine Artery Embolization for a giant fibroid I had 8 yrs ago. I believe they gave me demerol. Stuff was fucking amazing! I was so out of it. I'm sorry to hear you tested positive for Covid and glad you're feeling better. Hopefully you can get all this crap sorted out.
I have a bone to pick with Whole Foods. They locked the outdoor sockets that I used to charge my phone while I eat my lunch. One of the reasons why I ate there was to sit outside and charge my phone. Fuckers.
Secret Shelly
01-24-2022, 02:34 PM
I'm reaching the end of my rope with the vanilla world...i'm tired of not having any flexibility in my days and my whole life being built around the 9-5...the random "we will need people to be available Saturday" has become my most dreaded phrase i have to hear from work...another sign to keep ramping up my customers and return to escorting.
indiegirl
01-24-2022, 03:06 PM
Mister needy dog is in crisis not being allowed on the bed. He's been walking around the room wearing his blanket I burrito wrapped him in on his bed whining. LOLLL I cannot get this dog off wanting to be in my bed!!!! Hahaha.
charlie61
01-24-2022, 04:19 PM
I'm reaching the end of my rope with the vanilla world...i'm tired of not having any flexibility in my days and my whole life being built around the 9-5...the random "we will need people to be available Saturday" has become my most dreaded phrase i have to hear from work...another sign to keep ramping up my customers and return to escorting.
It really depends on the level. For me, it was worth it to work my way up (this can happen very quickly if you're a good worker with a good reputation)... now I'm salaried and my schedule can be flexible if needed. Just mentioning this since i know vanilla can be really problematic for folks at the entry level. I totally hear that escorting is calling to you, though! Vanilla isn't for everyone. <3
LoveyD
01-24-2022, 04:50 PM
Ugh period bloating,slight cramping, and just feeling sleepy.
Also getting really cranky. I want to make more money. Starting to see places I want to rent, but it's frustrating that still I am not financially ready to take on a home yet. Grocery delivery is slow and ugh I just want to make more money.