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carmen_b
02-04-2022, 09:24 AM
^ It's common for the ex and the new partner to fight about the guys resources ( time and money ) BUT the guy should show some tact and try to make it smooth ..........

Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2022, 10:10 AM
My ex did this, too. It's bc the Bertha broads manipulate the men by saying they need money "for the kids" and say things like "you don't do enough for the kids." I'm wondering how much of this money these guys hand over actually go to the kids and their needs... My ex's ex Bertha used to pull this crap because of course she was never employed and had zero skills. And of course she didn't want him spending money on me. It infuriated her.

One of my friends has a fiance who has an ex-Bertha and 2 kids. He never even sees his kids, and my friend has never met them, because the ex won't let him bring the kids about the "new woman" (they've been together for like 4 years at this point). But she's constantly asking him for money that he barely has, saying it's "for the kids." One year, he sent her $1000 to spend on Christmas presents for the kids, and she proceeded to get herself a new tattoo and then hit him up for more money, guilt-tripping him that the kids wouldn't have any Christmas presents if he didn't pony up MORE money for kids she doesn't even let him see after she spent the $1k he already gave her.... Some people are unbelievable.

carmen_b
02-04-2022, 10:12 AM
^ Haha. Yeah, that tat and other random shit was totally " for the kids " lol .

miss.a.p1600
02-04-2022, 10:28 AM
One of my friends has a fiance who has an ex-Bertha and 2 kids. He never even sees his kids, and my friend has never met them, because the ex won't let him bring the kids about the "new woman" (they've been together for like 4 years at this point). But she's constantly asking him for money that he barely has, saying it's "for the kids." One year, he sent her $1000 to spend on Christmas presents for the kids, and she proceeded to get herself a new tattoo and then hit him up for more money, guilt-tripping him that the kids wouldn't have any Christmas presents if he didn't pony up MORE money for kids she doesn't even let him see after she spent the $1k he already gave her.... Some people are unbelievable.


Sounds a lot like the broad I have the pleasure of dealing with now.

L enabled this leech n sent several hundred to his ex Bertha for kids uniforms, groceries, etc. when she up n left town because she 'didn't want another woman around'

And when those kids came back like 3 weeks later.......they had the same tattered rags and looked like they hadn't had new clothes/shoes in years

The whole time his dumb ass is complaining how he could have paid his medical debt faster instead of giving her money that she obviously was blowing on the debt she foolishly racked up - not her kids.

whirlerz
02-04-2022, 10:37 AM
The landlord's showing/renting out the room the meth guy vacated, can't wait to see who moves in::)

Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2022, 10:38 AM
I'm so pissed to discover that my husband has been smoking again recently. When he switched to vaping awhile ago, he claimed he was done with smoking forever. That vaping was a lot healthier, tasted better, and that after vaping for awhile he couldn't stand to even be around other people smoking, and that any time he tried to smoke a cigarette again, he couldn't get through it because it made him sick. He told me he didn't realize how bad he smelled and apologized for making me deal with that. He also seemed so happy to be rid of his smoker's cough.

Now, all of a sudden, he's smoking again? Why? He's spent probably thousands of dollars at this point on vapes, mods, juices, and accessories for his vaping. He swore to me that switching to vaping would eventually be cheaper because of how expensive buying a pack of smokes every couple of days is. Now he's just spending money on both.... fucking fantastic.

I don't get it. I don't know why he thinks he needs them. His vape juice has nicotine in it, so it's not like he needs the nicotine fix.

He swears he just smokes "a couple a day, here and there," but that's how he re-started last time and it quickly escalated to almost a pack a day. He can't be an "occasional smoker." He's too prone to addiction to them. I don't know why he picked up a damn pack and decided to try in the first place.

whirlerz
02-04-2022, 10:49 AM
^My one former roomie smoked, his cough was horrible.. He had to have some kind of machine or set up to help him, I remember him coming back from a trip to get it.

If my Dad & my friend both quit, after starting very early in life, very heavy smokers, anyone can!

LoveyD
02-04-2022, 11:22 AM
One of my friends has a fiance who has an ex-Bertha and 2 kids. He never even sees his kids, and my friend has never met them, because the ex won't let him bring the kids about the "new woman" (they've been together for like 4 years at this point). But she's constantly asking him for money that he barely has, saying it's "for the kids." One year, he sent her $1000 to spend on Christmas presents for the kids, and she proceeded to get herself a new tattoo and then hit him up for more money, guilt-tripping him that the kids wouldn't have any Christmas presents if he didn't pony up MORE money for kids she doesn't even let him see after she spent the $1k he already gave her.... Some people are unbelievable.

And I'll bet that ex Bertha criticizes him and smears him to everyone an whines about how he has nothing to do with his children. Ugh it's all so gross bc the kids suffer.

GlamLifter
02-04-2022, 11:25 AM
IÂ’d give my left tit to travel alone right now.

I can see that ;)

Just landed in Phoenix, next short flight to my final destination seems to be on time in about 40 minutes.

This is the most expensive plane ticket I’ve ever had to buy. They canceled my flight yesterday evening and they put me on a flight that arrived too late, 4:30pm, I had to be at check in by 4. So I had to opt for a refund and my only option was to get a new ticket with another airline. Had to pay close to $800 for a one way ticket (was $179) and it wasn’t even first.
I still have my original return flight.

JenniferNorth
02-04-2022, 12:35 PM
^ Ahhh, your posts are giving me wanderlust! I miss traveling places....

Honestly, on the subject of Berthas, if I ever become "the ex", I would just ask hubby to pay DIRECTLY for whatever for the kids. Pay directly to their ballet school/buy them clothes youself/presents yourself etc. That way no one could accuse me of spending on myself and their needs are met. Of course these Berthas likely want to get that money to spend ON themselves (and I'm not talking for rent/electric/something everyone benefits from). Berthas suck.

Aurora I am sorry about hubby smoking. My hubby was also a hardcore smoker and the vaping saved him. All the benefits you mentioned and no nasty smell. Ask him to throw the smokes away maybe? It's so hard to break, but the vape is for sure the lesser of two evils.

My pissy rant is....I did my hair again and put on makeup, and my daughter asked why. Like damn, I must look like shit for my family to constantly call me out on trying to improve my apperance.

JenniferNorth
02-04-2022, 12:42 PM
I wish I could post pictures and share stuff with you other ladies here. Like honestly, this forum has been there for me throughout the years and it isn't the women here that bother me or worry me (not the ones I know and talk to anyway). It's the blues on here. Ugh. I wish they would leave the pink areas alone and stay to their section.

Genoveve
02-04-2022, 01:02 PM
^^You could start a LO picture thread. Anyone can make a fake account and still see them but if you're just worried about blues commenting on it then they wouldn't be able to.

TheBrownFox
02-04-2022, 01:35 PM
I wish I could post pictures and share stuff with you other ladies here. Like honestly, this forum has been there for me throughout the years and it isn't the women here that bother me or worry me (not the ones I know and talk to anyway). It's the blues on here. Ugh. I wish they would leave the pink areas alone and stay to their section.


I hear you!

There's this contest I'm currently in (I've advanced to the next round!) that I'm just DYING to share the link with y'all on here so I could ask y'all to vote for me. But I can't because it's under my real name.

Dreamqueen
02-04-2022, 02:36 PM
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Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2022, 03:11 PM
I'm annoyed that my husband is going into work tonight on a night the kids are here. It's not a huge deal as long as he gets home on time in the morning so I make it to work on time. It's just irritating how illegal it is for the company to just suddenly demand that he come in on his day off, and the fact that he and his other coworkers won't stand up to them and tell them you can't just force people to come in whenever you feel like it.

I did this with the kids ONCE on a Friday night during the holidays, because him working extra was announced weeks in advance and it made sense for the time of year. Sorry the weather fucked this week up, but the company can offer incentives IF people WANT to come in on their day off. Making it mandatory at the last minute can't possibly be legal. And I hate that he just expects me to go along with it and deal with a night of the kids on my own on a night when I have work the next morning, just because I did it that one time. He's the one who trained them to think that bedtime is "optional" on the weekends just because they don't have school, and now I'm expected to deal with that crap all night?

carmen_b
02-04-2022, 03:13 PM
^ You should look up state labor laws but I don't think it *is* legal.

Things like overtime and short notice ( or " short turns " asking someone to come back without 12 hours off at least ) typically need to pay some sort of premium. It can vary by state but I think you are right ( 90% sure it's not legal ).

Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2022, 03:13 PM
I signed up for job alerts from a new website, and they just send me the most random shit all day long. Nurse practitioner positions, vice principal spots... crap that I'm not even remotely trained for lol

I was initially looking for entry-level, remote positions. How does any of this translate?

carmen_b
02-04-2022, 03:16 PM
My ribs were missing from the grocery order ! Damn .

I was craving them so bad. I ended up having to go to the store myself for them.

TheBrownFox
02-04-2022, 03:30 PM
My ribs were missing from the grocery order ! Damn .

I was craving them so bad. I ended up having to go to the store myself for them.


Mmmm...ribs!


The Instacart shopper accidentally gave me a bag of wheat bread (Probably from someone else's order) the other day. AS SOON AS I noticed it, I messaged him back right away on the app, and typed in my cell number and address...because I know after a certain amount of time has passed, they can no longer communicate with us on the app. I had hoped he'd see it in time to come back and get it, but he never did. So now I gotta make a post in one of these local Facebook groups (where people offer to give things away for free), seeing if anyone could use it. I don't drive, so someone would have to come here to get it.

whirlerz
02-04-2022, 05:01 PM
I signed up for job alerts from a new website, and they just send me the most random shit all day long. Nurse practitioner positions, vice principal spots... crap that I'm not even remotely trained for lol

I was initially looking for entry-level, remote positions. How does any of this translate?

I just saw this tik tok thing, they try to get free content outta ppl.. I was on a site, I had a zoom interview, that was fine, but it went on to assign me like 5 tests, 5 things where I had to record answers to ? 's, a test for my computer (I get this necessity), & a whole bunch of nonsense that took away too much time...

Then, they didn't even tell me I didn't get the job, & continued sending more stuff to waste my time.

@BrownFox can U donate it to a close by food pantry?

kimbe
02-05-2022, 01:00 AM
My ribs were missing from the grocery order ! Damn .

I was craving them so bad. I ended up having to go to the store myself for them.

That's a bummer! >:(

TheBrownFox
02-05-2022, 01:02 AM
@BrownFox can U donate it to a close by food pantry?


No, I don't drive (I pay to take buses and Lyft rides to get around), which was why I said if someone wants to come to me to pick it up, they are welcome to.

JenniferNorth
02-05-2022, 05:56 AM
My daughter is telling me some kid at school called her a loser. I asked when this happened. She doesn't know. I can't take action on this shit if she doesn't tell me when it happens! I am so pissed off with her school and the asshole kids that go there. This is what I get for choosing private school, I guess.

Also, fuck Wal-Mart, for real. How are they out of ALL powder dishwasher detergent? It's not just that, it's a majority of things I try to buy there.

Fuck Covid. I have no desire for food these days.

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 06:39 AM
^awww some of these kids weren’t raised properly

Hope your daughter is okay from that.

Usually private schools are a bit better at curbing the taunting, harassment, and meanness but they’re not perfect. I’d teach her a few rebuttals when someone says something mean or you could tell her to ignore them and treat them like the loser.

Reminds me of the time this boy relentlessly taunted me in middle school. Anytime I looked cute he was right there trying to tear me down and mess up my self esteem. I never even engaged with him because I knew he was an idiot. And of course the teachers were like “well maybe he likes you” and “boys will be boys” bullshit.

Then one day I had enough. And hit him in the jugular with insults. I blew up on him.

He left me alone after that day.

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 07:31 AM
Jen, it's annoying, I tried to get a damn mattress cover, Target only had full & up, wanted twin..gonna have to order from Amazon.

&, I'm so sorry about your daughter, that kid's probably jealous!

Reminds me, I was going out, a fukin old neighbor walked by, said, "Oh you think you're a teenager"? I said, "No, but I look cute, too bad you don't"?
I wasn't even bothering /talking to him!

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 07:36 AM
No, I don't drive (I pay to take buses and Lyft rides to get around), which was why I said if someone wants to come to me to pick it up, they are welcome to.

I'll be right over to get it! :)

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 07:39 AM
My ribs were missing ! Damn .
.
How you doing w/no ribs, doesn't it hurt?.
LOL, sorry one of those days

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 07:49 AM
Fuck this house, now the couple across from me, got a fancy-ass garbage can, they put a note on it, ___ & ____'s, (their names) DO NOT TOUCH::)

Are you fukin' serious?
They have, every.last.inch of space, in what's supposed to be a 'shared' kitchen..

I'll stop now.

LL's now showing a prospective tenant, can't wait to see whoever.. ::)

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 07:58 AM
Shipt and IC have been sucking lately. I wish my book sales would pick up. I really need a new stable source of income. This scraping-it-together crap is for the birds.

I'd go back to the club, but I don't want to pay $1000+ for a new permit (I'd have to start all over again) and every time I drive by my old club, the parking lot is empty. Wouldn't be worth going back in. I really wanted to break free from that place anyway. Too much negativity., Too many reptilians lurking around.

Does anyone have any suggestions as far as a stay at home gig I can do online? Besides camming? Thanks in advance. I just want to get my shit more together.

I agree.

Gig work is great for when you’re in a pinch but if you can make more with the same amount of time you should jump on the opportunities.

Since you’ve already published books perhaps use some of your income from gig work to invest in a reputable Amazon bestseller course.

Other things you can do from home that don’t require a lot of upfront investment would be to sign up as an online assistant, create online courses on a topic you already have some knowledge about, etc.

Im sure there is no shortage of openings for remote call center reps.

Or maybe just head to the library, look for books related to working from home, and find some ideas from there.

indiegirl
02-05-2022, 08:18 AM
hahaha it's a wonderful morning for that crazy stalker client to contact me ONCE again with a different phone number, aka the "I've changed" man. The only thing that has changed about you is your phone numbers. One trip to court was sufficient for me to learn my lesson.

What a psycho. No means noooooooo.

JenniferNorth
02-05-2022, 09:55 AM
^awww some of these kids weren’t raised properly

Hope your daughter is okay from that.

Usually private schools are a bit better at curbing the taunting, harassment, and meanness but they’re not perfect. I’d teach her a few rebuttals when someone says something mean or you could tell her to ignore them and treat them like the loser.

Reminds me of the time this boy relentlessly taunted me in middle school. Anytime I looked cute he was right there trying to tear me down and mess up my self esteem. I never even engaged with him because I knew he was an idiot. And of course the teachers were like “well maybe he likes you” and “boys will be boys” bullshit.

Then one day I had enough. And hit him in the jugular with insults. I blew up on him.

He left me alone after that day.

Miss, that is a good idea, thank you. I already told her to ignore this one girl earlier in the fall. I'm going to be talking to her teacher this month when we have conferences, because I am tired of this crap. This kid my daughter deals with is fucking weird anyway, my daughter claims the other girl sits super close to her and just does weird shit.


Jen, it's annoying, I tried to get a damn mattress cover, Target only had full & up, wanted twin..gonna have to order from Amazon.

&, I'm so sorry about your daughter, that kid's probably jealous!

Reminds me, I was going out, a fukin old neighbor walked by, said, "Oh you think you're a teenager"? I said, "No, but I look cute, too bad you don't"?
I wasn't even bothering /talking to him!

Yeah, I am also having to order off Amazon and I hate it! I wanted to challenge myself to save more and buy less, but when I shop on Amazon, we never get just ONE item. Someone always needs something from there.

And people like your neighbor are the exact reason I hate people lol. Why can't people mind their own damn business!!

TheBrownFox
02-05-2022, 09:57 AM
OMG, I hate it when I pay a bill or something, and then I see later that there's a SECOND charge (of the same amount) "pending" in my bank account. :banghead: NO, NO, NO! That fucks with my available balance. This used to happen to me all the time when I was living in that Extended Stay hotel back in 2019, and I remember having to switch to paying them with cash because it was such a problem. I don't like my money being held hostage like this when I'm fucking trying to buy food.

Shit like this is exactly why I make a habit of checking my balance at least once a day via my bank's mobile app. I'm always checking for any weird charges.

JenniferNorth
02-05-2022, 10:00 AM
I agree.

Gig work is great for when you’re in a pinch but if you can make more with the same amount of time you should jump on the opportunities.

Since you’ve already published books perhaps use some of your income from gig work to invest in a reputable Amazon bestseller course.

Other things you can do from home that don’t require a lot of upfront investment would be to sign up as an online assistant, create online courses on a topic you already have some knowledge about, etc.

Im sure there is no shortage of openings for remote call center reps.

Or maybe just head to the library, look for books related to working from home, and find some ideas from there.

I love how resourceful you are, Miss P!

Yes Lovey, I second what she suggested, also check Kindle books, YouTube vids and Udemy courses, which are cheap. Any skill you want or need to learn is an ebook or course away. I'd try to build your Kindle book skills if you can, depending on what you are writing?

Stay at home, call centers are always hiring, or maybe phone sex if you're okay with that?

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 10:06 AM
OMG, she's cooking, smoking the place up.. Real unfriendly too, what ev.

I opened my screen door.

JenniferNorth
02-05-2022, 10:10 AM
OMG, she's cooking, smoking the place up.. Real unfriendly too, what ev.

I opened my screen door.

The one who labeled her trash can? BTW, is their "special" trash can automatic? We have one that is motion activated, but omg, it's only $40. These people you live with sound like real pieces of work!

carmen_b
02-05-2022, 11:04 AM
I wish my partner had something to do so I could laze at the house a few hours.

I feel like he’d judge a really lazy day so I’m at gym now haha.

Edit : Nice, when I came back he was going for a run so I get 90 minutes haha.

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 11:10 AM
The one who labeled her trash can? BTW, is their "special" trash can automatic? We have one that is motion activated, but omg, it's only $40. These people you live with sound like real pieces of work!

40.? Wow high-end can I guess..yea they are very entitled.
I try to stay OUT of the kitchen, I just went in to microwave a burrito.

Idk, I don't want to touch it, it has some fancy top..

She had a major snooty ass attitude, I just saw a quote : Other people's opinion of you is their problem, not yours

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 11:22 AM
I wish my partner had something to do so I could laze at the house a few hours. I feel like heÂ’d judge a really lazy day so IÂ’m at gym now haha.

I wish my partner would stop clinging

and stop guilt tripping

so I can travel alone!!!!

ItÂ’s not like heÂ’s being a real resource (offering to pay for travel expenses) so I find no value inviting him along. I only invite him because he guilt tripping like hell.

Sure bud. You can come along but if youÂ’re not paying for anything you will sleep on the sofa or floor, there will absolutely be no sex - NONE - so donÂ’t even bother to ask, and my itinerary prevails over your wants/needs, you will need to arrange for child care (or shoulder the cost for another room) because I am NOT rooming with your loud ass annoying kids.

My next trip I am traveling alone!!!! No options no guilt. If I could get the ticket one way, I totally would.

carmen_b
02-05-2022, 11:24 AM
^ The trip is just for you. :)

Done.

Wait .... you mentioned NEXT trip.
He didn't weasel his way into THIS trip did he ? :/

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 12:20 PM
OMG, I hate it when I pay a bill or something, and then I see later that there's a SECOND charge (of the same amount) "pending" in my bank account. :banghead: NO, NO, NO! That fucks with my available balance. This used to happen to me all the time when I was living in that Extended Stay hotel back in 2019, and I remember having to switch to paying them with cash because it was such a problem. I don't like my money being held hostage like this when I'm fucking trying to buy food.

Shit like this is exactly why I make a habit of checking my balance at least once a day via my bank's mobile app. I'm always checking for any weird charges.

I did a pay in 4, w/paypal, & I knew nothing about the fact the last payment didn't go thru, they didn't contact me?

The dude upstairs was supposed to pay me thru PP, & I was checking it, I see, payment 4 of pay in 4 failed, so I had to manually put it thru, I contacted them, they didn't know why, they didn't bother contacting me ei.

carmen_b
02-05-2022, 12:26 PM
Omg I have another potential AirBnB trade in near fail mode lol.

The owner of this place I want for my weekend trip to a city in 5 days said he had a studio almost ready !
GREAT ..... just give me a deal and I'll be the FIRST booking ( instant 5 star review and easy guest) .
I'll give you the same deal on my desert property when you are ready to book.
24 hours ...... and no booking link.
This is not that complex.
Your booking link should be live this week FYI if you are having the place ready by next week.
I guess I can wait 48 hours to book this damn thing but feel strongly he should just give me the link if I'm the first guest checking in next Thursday.
This person RESPONDED to my offer.

^ The dude also clearly got me confused with a woman he was seeing ..... I received some VERY colorful texts lol !
My partner is going up for a concert next Thursday up North.
I was going to impress him with getting three nights booked so we could make an adventure out of the trip.

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 12:51 PM
^ The trip is just for you. :)

Done.

Wait .... you mentioned NEXT trip.
He didn't weasel his way into THIS trip did he ? :/

Thankfully he has some appointments that were hard to book

So I think I might be safe to travel minus the plus one for this trip

carmen_b
02-05-2022, 01:01 PM
Nice. You pulled it off haha.

whirlerz
02-05-2022, 04:57 PM
So, dumb me pulled up the dumpsters, in 0°, super heavy AF, the meth guy's belongings in there..my hand HURTS!

I blocked out the girl's # out, since she had an attitude w/me earlier, w/ev

Was talking to LL, he told me he will be talking to all about everyone else helping w this..
One good thing, a relative of his will be moving in so, I'm not telling anyone about it they can hash out their problems.

LoveyD
02-05-2022, 05:45 PM
So I wound up not looking at the potential new place today. I thought I'd have a lot more saved by now, but sales are down and that phone issue I had didn't help. Now my phone is fixed so I can make more $. I'm just tired of feeling stuck. If I had a better January I'd have $1800 more rn and I would have been ready to move in. I just paid another old bill today to get my credit score up, so this will help. My credit score wasn't high enough to meet the LLs standards and I didn't want to waste time and money. I'd rather have first month's rent plus deposit, plus and extra month's rent just in case, along with $ for furnishings. At this rate I won't be ready til April and I'm getting annoyed.

indiegirl
02-05-2022, 06:06 PM
I'm having one of those shitty type of days I'm trying so hard to pull my mood up and it's not working.

I basically drove for an hour used a stupid app for payment and accidentally paid him and he paid me back so essentially I made 0. *sigh it was a long ass drive roundtrip*

It would have been nice to be told what source of payment in advance instead of springing it on me when I am there. I guess I have to ask for that now even though it shows it in my ad in advance.

Sometimes I feel so unappreciated in life by everyone and like my feelings or how I'm treated don't matter.

miss.a.p1600
02-05-2022, 06:21 PM
So I wound up not looking at the potential new place today. I thought I'd have a lot more saved by now, but sales are down and that phone issue I had didn't help. Now my phone is fixed so I can make more $. I'm just tired of feeling stuck. If I had a better January I'd have $1800 more rn and I would have been ready to move in. I just paid another old bill today to get my credit score up, so this will help. My credit score wasn't high enough to meet the LLs standards and I didn't want to waste time and money. I'd rather have first month's rent plus deposit, plus and extra month's rent just in case, along with $ for furnishings. At this rate I won't be ready til April and I'm getting annoyed.

you’ll get there very soon!

Sounds like you’re moving forward the best you can.

Try not to be too hard on yourself.

LoveyD
02-05-2022, 08:39 PM
^^ thanks girl. I'd rather make sure I'm prepared with a solid foundation rather rent a place too soon, only for things to collapse again.

Just sucks when opportunities pass me by bc I still don't have enough saved yet.

Hoping the right place will manifest soon, along with $$$. I can't stay in the lot forever. I think they cap it at some point.

Marina Starr
02-05-2022, 09:26 PM
Doesn't happen often but I hate not able to fall asleep because I'm not sleepy when it's past my bedtime.

I'm normally asleep by 10pm and now I am still while awake and it's almost midnight.

indiegirl
02-05-2022, 10:24 PM
I wish my partner had something to do so I could laze at the house a few hours.

I feel like he’d judge a really lazy day so I’m at gym now haha.

Edit : Nice, when I came back he was going for a run so I get 90 minutes haha.


Would be a great excuse to say "I'm going to the gym extra long today" and then relaxing in the gym jacuzzi hahahaha.