View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
charlie61
02-16-2022, 06:05 PM
^Totally agreed! It just screws up your credit, it's not like it ruins your life. Everyone's gotta do what they gotta do. Just figured some insider info might help some folks! <3
WendiStarr
02-16-2022, 07:02 PM
I'm annoyed at how long this baby is taking to get the heck out. I've been at hospital since 6am. Grr!
LoveyD
02-16-2022, 07:18 PM
^^Have you dilated any more since earlier?
You're a trooper!
miss.a.p1600
02-16-2022, 08:54 PM
I dunno how you do it. I would be out of that partnership so fast his head would spin.
Yeah lesson learned for the future…..NEVER deal with men with little kids (unless you are compensated very well)
Its not worth the headache, the guilt trips, and all the other petty nuances. It’s an absolute dealbreaker for me in the future. Only way I’d ever consider it again is if the dude is a millionaire
Anyways, I’m strategically planning my exit as we speak.
carmen_b
02-16-2022, 09:04 PM
I wish I could say I went back and just absolutely killed it lol but here I am in bed at the hotel at 8 p.m. and probably will not move .
:/
They have been so damn nice to me at this hotel ...... it's been a little enabling to not work.
I do think it was a factor. I'm dying to see if the resort fee's were actually taken off without a fight but it's been so comfy I may not care either once morning comes.
I was caught in high anxiety land for most of the day trying to get through it kind of hour by hour. I do feel a little better. I'm not sure why I felt upset over a $200 difference in a night . If it's that important I can most likely go get that $200 tomorrow. I'm trying to sort it out in my head. I just KNOW if I would have done $500 or more I would have been at the place at 4:30 - 5 ready to roll the dice again.
I'm not sure I need this $ anymore as badly as before when my bills were higher.
I feel pulled to just go get some anyway ( or at least try to ) . Sorry to talk so elaborately about this one shift . My bills are probably 50% of what they were in 2019 for example ..... but I don't want to settle for 50% *income* .
I'm always caught in these debates with myself about the subject.
:/
carmen_b
02-16-2022, 09:15 PM
My partner is joining me in town tomorrow .
He has a concert to go to.
I think I sometimes feel like he will judge me ..... like ...... wow ..... it took you two days out of town to make this.
He hasn't ever shamed me for making significantly less or anything . It's in my mind but it does get at me at certain moments.
moneybags
02-16-2022, 09:17 PM
https://youtu.be/EZJHfCuIEA8
^^ thank you, Charlie. The money I owe is on a payday loan. I don't have any credit cards atm but I am getting one with a low available balance so I can rebuild my credit. Thankfully, I'm not in a whole lot of debt. Justy auto loan and my payday loan in collections.
Oh yeah. Fuck pay day loans. Creditors take risk when the loan out money. As long as you pay back your friends and family, I don’t see not paying debt as a moral failure especially with those vultures!
I would pay my debts as much as possible. Like my old slum lord wants $900. Ha ha. I’m gonna drag my feet until they take me to court. I’ll probably negotiate to like $450 at the most. They are absolute scum. It’s out of principal I’m not paying it. They didn’t keep up their agreement to a safe place to live. I was triggered day and night living there. There absolute awful. I may be 50% responsible for the damage, but how they treated me makes me not im want to pay a penny. I’ve successfully negotiated medical bills. There’s some bills I ignored until they fell off my credit. I normally would tell people to not pay there bills, but you can try to dodge them. Maybe look at negotiating your debt, or the APR??? What’s the APR like 23% or something !!!
miss.a.p1600
02-16-2022, 09:32 PM
I wish L would get the point I don’t want to be obligated to his kids in the way he is obligated.
He said his daughter was begging to come over - during the days he works (which is Berthas parenting time) - and that he’d check with me.
I just walked off while he was talking about it. I’m going to ignore the request.
Not letting Bertha ruin my weekend by pushing off her territory invaders.
Because unless you dropping off some cash to take care of those crumbsnatchers, I will be busy doing my own thing.
carmen_b
02-16-2022, 09:42 PM
^ " No " can be the full conversation. :)
chanzep
02-17-2022, 12:02 AM
I am so annoyed. This company I worked for a few years ago rehired me 2 weeks ago I'm was supposed to be starting g next week. Now I get a email saying I can't start. Smh I have only been working part time at another place and was counting on this.I had stopped my job search once I signed contracts.
LoveyD
02-17-2022, 02:44 AM
This may not be a popular opinion & I don't care but I've had several things in collection including a medical bill I ignored bc I couldn't pay it. I never paid any of them and nothing happened other than I had bad credit. The only thing you need credit for really is to either buy a car, get a credit card, or get an apt in your name. None of those stopped me from getting what I needed. I also don't really have anything they can take lol so ya I just ignored them.
Right now I'm trying to find a new place for my son and me, which is why I'm concerned about my credit score. And at some point I'm gonna need a new car too.
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 04:51 AM
I am so annoyed. This company I worked for a few years ago rehired me 2 weeks ago I'm was supposed to be starting g next week. Now I get a email saying I can't start. Smh I have only been working part time at another place and was counting on this.I had stopped my job search once I signed contracts.
I'm so sorry, Chanz!
This's happened to me, a few times, it's beyond ignorant the shit these companies do!
My neighbor upstairs just went thru the same thing, he's in the trades they fired him & refused to pay him for the last week..these damn co don't know WTF they're doing!
Anyway, have you tried Adecco, (they do a lot of WAH) or glassdoor.
Good luck to you, Babe, hugs
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 06:38 AM
^ " No " can be the full conversation. :)
It is.
idgaf what those kids want
*I* want Bertha to solve her child care problems during her parenting time using HER contacts n resources. Not mine.
The bitch figured out how to go on vacation when she allegedly couldn’t afford groceries and electricities so she can figure out how to send those kids to her family or whatever, anywhere but this house.
If he attempts to run a guilt trip I will guilt him for using his kids as procrastination tools from getting a promotion
Fuck it, fuck her, and fuck him too ….. and not in the good way
JenniferNorth
02-17-2022, 09:21 AM
I get so annoyed at him and Bertha whenever I read about the developments that happen (not a dig at you in any way!!!)
So Bertha couldn't pay her light bill or buy food, but someone went on vacation? When I am struggling, vacation is the LAST thing on my mind! He or she needs to apply to daycare/childcare assistance, join the local Y, anything. Does he expect you to work from home AND take care of HIS kids??
Also, everyone knows it is bad to give kids whatever they want just because they want it. That enables and raises the worst types of entitiled, selfish people this world does not need.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:17 AM
^The bitch just got her tax returns.
But still ….. I’m not interested in taking care of her kids this weekend (unless she drops off at least $300). If I couldn’t get a peaceful kid free weekend last week (cause it was L’s parenting time and he felt the need to tag along with his kids) then I will get one this weekend
Fuck her….. and fuck him too
I have no doubt Bertha is like “kids if ya don’t want to go to my degenerate family’s house call your dad and beg him to go there since there will be plenty of adults there to watch you”
Um no. My mom is out living her best life. And besides she works for ME (not L not Bertha not her kids). If my mom wants to help out, she will offer on her own time.
I can’t believe I felt guilty about telling him no about this when there is neither one of them act like they can’t problem solve their way out of a paper bag.
Instead of treating me like a fiancée he’s treating me like I’m a free nanny service and Bertha is loving every minute of it.
Now I wouldn’t mind helping out every now and then IF he was serious about his career development but instead he’s acting like a sugar baby and hitting the gym. Bruh the gym ain’t paying these bills.
Well she can have her free Manny and 24/7 Uber driver back. Cause my interest is declining - especially after he made no effort I mean not even a card or a note for Valentine’s Day
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 10:20 AM
Staying in town.
Gonna go get more $ , ha.
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 10:21 AM
^ In regards to above, I think Bertha probably " puts them up " to the begging and tells them what to say. :/
Very creepy. Not 100% sure, but it seems that way.
They can be there when L is fully available to take care of them. Period.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:29 AM
^agreed. At this current moment doing anything above and beyond for those kids exceeds my pay grade.
I’ve already done more than I should. I’ve donated lots of clothes and toys, cooked, cleaned up after them when they can do all this without me.
When L gets a raise and pays more bills, then I’d be more willing to accommodate
The shitty Valentine’s Day was some sort of catalyst
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 10:32 AM
Hotel fully took those resort fee's off and that perk has me feeling better.
:)
Since the room was a comp my only outgoing costs for the last two days ( one working and one recovering and being lazy ) is only $30 in gas money.
^ I'm counting it I guess as a cost because if I would have come WITH my partner today I wouldn't have had it going out, ha.
I'm being finicky and do not want to leave town with less than $500 cash money lol.
Back at it to get the rest haha since I seem concerned AF about it.
I'm concerned with finding the window though. My partner gets here about 5 p.m. I think.
I suspect he might want a quick dinner before this concert so that might leave my window to work about 6 - Midnight.
Or I might have to just try something 1-7p.m. tomorrow before we go home.
:/
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:33 AM
Can’t believe it’s almost noon and I’ve probably wasted more time ranting about these mfs than actually doing something productive about it.
It’s raining dark and gloomy so I might be having mild symptoms of seasonal affective disorder
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 10:35 AM
He's so out of line to even ask and apply the pressure.
No one wants to give up their entire weekend and off time.
^agreed. At this current moment doing anything above and beyond for those kids exceeds my pay grade.
I’ve already done more than I should. I’ve donated lots of clothes and toys, cooked, cleaned up after them when they can do all this without me.
When L gets a raise and pays more bills, then I’d be more willing to accommodate
The shitty Valentine’s Day was some sort of catalyst
JenniferNorth
02-17-2022, 10:35 AM
^agreed. At this current moment doing anything above and beyond for those kids exceeds my pay grade.
I’ve already done more than I should. I’ve donated lots of clothes and toys, cooked, cleaned up after them when they can do all this without me.
When L gets a raise and pays more bills, then I’d be more willing to accommodate
The shitty Valentine’s Day was some sort of catalyst
IDK when you feel comfortable leaving, but I would start making plans, whether that involves you taking on an additional job/gig, getting something else altogether...I would just start planning and having a date when you are going to bounce by.
Speaking from someone who has been in similar situations, it isn't getting better from here on out. It's only getting worse. He thinks this is okay to expect things from your family for HIS children, and no one seems to respect your time or needs. Just because they WANT to go to the house doesn't mean they should. If dad is not there, why on earth should they be there? Because you are there? No. Your time is valuable, too, and you aren't a free babysitter to enable life choices of two adults who can't think their way out of a paper bag, as you mentioned.
What on earth would he and Bertha do if you were not there???!
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 10:43 AM
^ Turn the tables. Show up with a work list of ways he can help you with your job and errands ( unpaid ).
Make sure to ask constantly and ask for prime times as well like weekends.
WHY should he not drop it all to help you ? Why ? Lol.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:46 AM
^^^}:D}:D}:D
JenniferNorth
02-17-2022, 10:48 AM
^ What she said!! That is a great idea!
If you are feeling bold, maybe ask him "What would you and Bertha do if I wasn't here? How would you manage?"
Does he just have them on certain weekends? Sorry if you have mentioned it to me before. I'm just thinking that with them in school and possible aftercare at school if she has them during the week, she is skating by with minimal parenting.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:54 AM
^exactly. His dumb ass was feeling guilty and sorry for her because she allegedly has them most of the time.
I was like nah bruh the school has them most of the time during the week.
He has them on the weekends he is off work. Usually that either a Saturday or a Sunday or both. Rarely does he work both weekend days. I have noticed a pattern lately of his kids begging to come over when he’s working on weekends if if mean he won’t have quality time with them for more than a week.
But yeah just not what I had in mind for this weekend when he said he was working I was like “yes I get a break from all of them” but then when he like “oh my kids begging to come over here I told them I’d check with you”
Why tf are they even involved in this decision?
All I saw was red………
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 10:56 AM
Hotel fully took those resort fee's off and that perk has me feeling better.
:)
Since the room was a comp my only outgoing costs for the last two days ( one working and one recovering and being lazy ) is only $30 in gas money.
^ I'm counting it I guess as a cost because if I would have come WITH my partner today I wouldn't have had it going out, ha.
I'm being finicky and do not want to leave town with less than $500 cash money lol.
Back at it to get the rest haha since I seem concerned AF about it.
I'm concerned with finding the window though. My partner gets here about 5 p.m. I think.
I suspect he might want a quick dinner before this concert so that might leave my window to work about 6 - Midnight.
Or I might have to just try something 1-7p.m. tomorrow before we go home.
:/
that’s good you got the fees waived and expenses down so more profit for you!
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 11:08 AM
I am so annoyed. This company I worked for a few years ago rehired me 2 weeks ago I'm was supposed to be starting g next week. Now I get a email saying I can't start. Smh I have only been working part time at another place and was counting on this.I had stopped my job search once I signed contracts.
Are you going to restart the search just in case?
If I were you I’d give them low ratings on Glassdoor for being unreliable employer.
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 12:22 PM
Fuck SM, furiously sending out resumes to cl vanilla jobs.. :(
moneybags
02-17-2022, 01:15 PM
^^^they sent me an email about wanting me back. Nope it hasn’t been bad enough yet. I get panicky attacky just thinking about streaming again. We deserve 80%. 35%!!! They’re just being greedy! We do all the work and have all the liability and they take over half of our money.
Where the baby Wendi? I’m thinking of you.
JenniferNorth
02-17-2022, 01:29 PM
Fuck SM, furiously sending out resumes to cl vanilla jobs.. :(
Girl, that's how I've felt. Each time I step toe in the adult industry, I feel so done. It must be our age and we are tired of the bullshit lol.
Genoveve
02-17-2022, 01:54 PM
Good lord I just saw someone write "jester" for 'gesture' in an instagram comment LOL. The other day in a youtube comment someone wrote something about how something "never seizes to amaze" them.
FloridaSunDoll
02-17-2022, 02:00 PM
Harassment from broke losers online, behind on my weekly earnings, anxiety of how the state of our economy is going to affect my income, and now my period. BINGO. I think I’ve cleared the entire bingo card this week. I wish my prize was a glass of wine but I’m also dieting ughhh
moneybags
02-17-2022, 02:12 PM
Girl, that's how I've felt. Each time I step toe in the adult industry, I feel so done. It must be our age and we are tired of the bullshit lol.
I don’t think sex work is bad-it’s definitely dualistic. Yeah, at my age I can’t stomach it. Honestly I think it’s just a dense space and the higher you vibrate (mature) the less you can tolerate the low vibrational behavior of others.
until society respects the work we do, (I promise you if we stopped making porn they would be singing a different tune) I definitely am ready to leave. I might miss stage and money falling on me, but I’m ready for work I’m more aligned with.
LoveyD
02-17-2022, 02:31 PM
IDK when you feel comfortable leaving, but I would start making plans, whether that involves you taking on an additional job/gig, getting something else altogether...I would just start planning and having a date when you are going to bounce by.
Speaking from someone who has been in similar situations, it isn't getting better from here on out. It's only getting worse. He thinks this is okay to expect things from your family for HIS children, and no one seems to respect your time or needs. Just because they WANT to go to the house doesn't mean they should. If dad is not there, why on earth should they be there? Because you are there? No. Your time is valuable, too, and you aren't a free babysitter to enable life choices of two adults who can't think their way out of a paper bag, as you mentioned.
What on earth would he and Bertha do if you were not there???!
All of this. +1 Never did I ever expect my son's dad's now-ex gf to watch my son. That was one me to find a babysitter on my end if I needed one.
It's not gonna get better. I've been here before.
indiegirl
02-17-2022, 02:51 PM
I feel so disgusted by what Russia did to this poor 15 yr old girl at the olympics. She's a fucking child and here they are doping her when she could've gotten gold without that banned medication. She was probably just as shocked as everybody else to find out she didn't pass the drug test. This is the first time ever they've cleared someone to perform after testing positive. Could you imagine all the stress it is to be at the Olympics and then receiving all the news backlash and hatred towards you at such a young age for being allowed to still compete? I've never seen a female skate so beautifully. All the stress from everyone pissed off that she was allowed to compete got to her and she didn't even place because she fell 4 times. She ended up sobbing at the results station. Crying into the very arms of the people who forced her to take the medication. How fucking sick. She looks like a mess in the video below. Poor Baby :(!
Then you have people saying "Thank god she didn't place." PLEASE if you were on the same medication you couldn't have even passed her with her skills anyways. They handled this so poorly. Couldn't imagine being alone in a different country without my family there at 15 being treated like that by strangers.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvUIEX7070o
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 04:50 PM
Dear roomie girl:
I know you were in a huge hurry, to cook din din for his royal majesty, no thanks to you for leaving a chopping board full of chopped onions, to stink up kitchen, a bunch of stuff besides on table too, (not to mention dirty dishes sitting on counter for days) which I pushed out the way, & always have to..
I see the sinks' full, tomorrow the stopper's getting removed, (it's mine, & since I'm not allowed to use ur garbage can, it's only fair.. ::))
Sick of this, not saying a word, (I've previously tried).
Hope you can ask LL to bring in fridge from empty house in back, since you have every inch of the one that's in kitchen. So not moving my stuff&you better not either. Thanks.
Also, since I fell & gashed my knee + set off my permanent whiplash/carpel tunnel/arthritis, I'm not taking up the full dumpsters for p/u!
No one else will either including you & him.
So enjoy the rats when they come.
Have a good one.
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 05:57 PM
I feel like THIS ! Ha.
I think there are factors at play. When you are younger the money means *more* or something ( you don't have your established vanilla alternate $ yet ). I feel so out of patience for the club often and I barely work ( no more than 3-4 shifts a month ). :/
I had a couple thoughts today :
1. You seriously might be on your " last $1,000 " in this industry so try to enjoy getting it and spending it.
2. I am kind of beginning not care if my " extra spending money " comes in another way such as local job for $12-$15 an hour.
I know my vanilla job / business is not what it should be ( 3k minimum a month without doing " deals " to get people to finally move forward ) . I need to take a look at what repairs it needs but I also don't want waiting ! I want that earnings clip to be going NOW .
Girl, that's how I've felt. Each time I step toe in the adult industry, I feel so done. It must be our age and we are tired of the bullshit lol.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 06:06 PM
Most times I hate having to “run decisions by my partner” because it could be something he could try to possibly sabotage or Because in all reality if he’s not paying then his opinion won’t hold much weight
I told him I was getting an office.
I want to make sure that I don’t get too distracted being at this house and I think I’ve been doing housework while I’m supposed to be doing my actual work. I also don’t want to be anywhere near the area where he can ping me for a childcare crisis (Unless someone is bleeding out or something) or come back home during his lunch break expecting hot meals and conversation etc.
step 1 in creating physical distance.
ravenskyy
02-17-2022, 06:07 PM
I want to divorce this motherfucker so fucking bad. I don't like him. Every time he talks, I just want to scream! I've doubled up on my antidepressants, because that used to make it easier to tolerate him and it's no longer working. I want to scream and cry so bad! I can literally see all the bullshit and lies and I can't believe that I was ever blind to this crap. He's so full of excuses, it's pathetic. I'm literally sick to my stomach. I used to be so in love with this piece of garbage, wtf was wrong with me???
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 06:11 PM
My partner kind of got on my nerves on his trip to this city.
He kept calling me .....
I guess some things were valid ( like my dog nanny was 30 minutes late and he wasn't sure what to do with the door ).
I'm out having a luxury lunch and gambling. I want to focus. :)
Lol
I'm going to TRY not to obsess over this.
He mentioned something about his ex going by at 3:10 ( he had left town at 3 p.m. ) and the dog still being there.
WAIT ..... wtf his ex doing there at 3:10 when he left town at 3?
I started feeling enraged because I had made it crystal clear months ago I wasn't ok with his ex having a key or ever being there if we were not. Her arrival should have been while he was still there.
Forgotten items are just that .... forgotten until next time if we out of town. I will have to talk to him because the story seemed unclear. How did she " accidently " lock both the regular lock and dead bolt unless she HAD a key ?
If the door was unlocked by him ( since I guess she is too stupid to arrive on time ) and my dog is there waiting for nanny wouldn't it be totally fucking obvious to any adult to leave the door unlocked ?
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 06:13 PM
I want to divorce this motherfucker so fucking bad. I don't like him. Every time he talks, I just want to scream! I've doubled up on my antidepressants, because that used to make it easier to tolerate him and it's no longer working. I want to scream and cry so bad! I can literally see all the bullshit and lies and I can't believe that I was ever blind to this crap. He's so full of excuses, it's pathetic. I'm literally sick to my stomach. I used to be so in love with this piece of garbage, wtf was wrong with me???
More like what is wrong with him!
I feel ya girl.
Ive had to double up on my edibles, revert to Sasquatch status so I would not have to have sex, and pull random “disappearances” to not go batshit on my partner. He will come in the house start walking all heavy footed, burping loudly, eating loudly, talking loudly, dragging his feet, randomly hollaring, and all sorts of annoying shit.
2022 though……the year these mfs will learn a lesson in acting right or their replacement will be lined up.
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 06:19 PM
My partner kind of got on my nerves on his trip to this city.
He kept calling me .....
I guess some things were valid ( like my dog nanny was 30 minutes late and he wasn't sure what to do with the door ).
I'm out having a luxury lunch and gambling and want to focus. :)
Lol
I guess I had some confusion too and I'm going to TRY not to obsess over this.
BUT he mentioned something about his ex going by and the dog still being there.
I started feeling enraged because I had made it crystal clear months ago I wasn't ok with his ex having a key or ever being there if we were not. Her arrival should have been while he was still there.
Forgotten items are just that .... forgotten until next time. I have to talk to him because the story seemed unclear . Like ... how did she " accidently " lock a dead bolt unless she HAD a key ?
If the door was unlocked by him ( since she was too stupid to arrive on time ) and my dog is there waiting for nanny wouldn't it be totally fucking obvious to any adult to leave the door unlocked ?
The life of a dog! I had no clue they have dog nannies.
Yeah I’d certainly hope the ex doesn’t have a key. Do you not have a video doorbell or surveillance to see who is coming in and out?
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 06:21 PM
Aw, I'm so sorry Ravensky, I know that feeling!
Hopefully you can get away from him soon!
Hugs.
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 06:25 PM
We don't have a porch cam but now I want one.
I trusted my partner when he said a few months ago his ex would never be there to pick anything up EVER when we are not there. ^
In this case it was just the " standard " stuff for the kid exchange day. He needs to lie about his out of town departure time next time probably. I'm sure I will think of this like 100 times over the course of tonight.
He called me nervous my dog was locked in.
Um ..... no one but the doggie babysitter had access ( supposedly ) so why is the concern there ?
The life of a dog! I had no clue they have dog nannies.
Yeah I’d certainly hope the ex doesn’t have a key. Do you not have a video doorbell or surveillance to see who is coming in and out?
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 06:37 PM
Yes, some of the hotels we like have a $50 per night dog fee ( he's little but it's a hassle to sneak him in to avoid it ).
His sitter is $30 a night so on these short trips he overnights with her.
The life of a dog! I had no clue they have dog nannies.
Yeah I’d certainly hope the ex doesn’t have a key. Do you not have a video doorbell or surveillance to see who is coming in and out?
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 06:47 PM
I think I got it figured it out haha.
He made a *special* exception in order to get on the road at 3 sharp even though his ex wasn't coming until 3:10.
He didn't like it either ( she was supposed to get there earlier ) . He was desperate to leave to get into the VIP line for this concert .
^ I honestly wish he would have left me out of these details because it stressed me out .
He assured me that she doesn't have a key.
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 07:02 PM
Ive had to double up on my edibles, revert to Sasquatch status so I would not have to have sex, and pull random “disappearances” to not go batshit on my partner. He will come in the house start walking all heavy footed, burping loudly, eating loudly, talking loudly, dragging his feet, randomly hollaring, and all sorts of annoying shit.
2022 though……the year these mfs will learn a lesson in acting right or their replacement will be lined up.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
baer45
02-17-2022, 07:05 PM
Something happened today and I didn't know how I should have reacted to it.
I sent out a group text to a few people from the dancing community yesterday. Today, one of them called me and told me that she doesn't want to be friend with me anymore.
I was confused and shocked. I haven't seen/talked/texted/emailed her for one and a half years. What makes she think we were friends? Okay, let's just say we were "friends" but certainly not close ones. Duh.
I said to her, "okay, that's fine." I didn't have the curiocity to find out what happened and why.
Do people consider this is the mature thing to do? What did she expect me to say?
carmen_b
02-17-2022, 07:07 PM
^ I wonder if she got you confused with someone else ?
Oh wait .... she called not just replied via text.
Oh .... that is strange.
You've got me curious now.