View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
baer45
02-17-2022, 07:13 PM
^ I wonder if she got you confused with someone else ?
Nah. I doubt that was the case. I just spoke to a mutual friend, and this friend was angry and wanted to call her to question why she treated me this way. I couldn't see a reason.
baer45
02-17-2022, 07:21 PM
^ I wonder if she got you confused with someone else ?
Oh wait .... she called not just replied via text.
Oh .... that is strange.
You've got me curious now.
Besides what I have done might cause this. Since we haven't contacted each other for so long, she certainly made enough effort to say it to my face. What was she expecting? I was indifferent.
ravenskyy
02-17-2022, 08:08 PM
More like what is wrong with him!
I feel ya girl.
Ive had to double up on my edibles, revert to Sasquatch status so I would not have to have sex, and pull random “disappearances” to not go batshit on my partner. He will come in the house start walking all heavy footed, burping loudly, eating loudly, talking loudly, dragging his feet, randomly hollaring, and all sorts of annoying shit.
2022 though……the year these mfs will learn a lesson in acting right or their replacement will be lined up.
Just found out that I never took my Lexapro lol I left it on my nightstand. Lmfao glad to know that it wasn't just because the meds weren't working, I'm just a dumb dumb.
I still don't like that little bitch though. He can kiss my ass. Lol
We need to drop these losers. I've never been alone and I think it's time that I finally experience it.
moneybags
02-17-2022, 08:46 PM
Besides what I have done might cause this. Since we haven't contacted each other for so long, she certainly made enough effort to say it to my face. What was she expecting? I was indifferent.
That’s seems odd. She sounds triggered. That’s all I can think of is your text triggered her. She could’ve blocked your number instead of being so curt.
Everyone has lost their damn minds. My spiritual teacher said we’re collectively purging all our shit! It sure feels like it!
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 08:51 PM
Yes, some of the hotels we like have a $50 per night dog fee ( he's little but it's a hassle to sneak him in to avoid it ).
His sitter is $30 a night so on these short trips he overnights with her.
I snuck my bunny in when I had her, she went pee a little on the bed, I sponged it out & left a tip
miss.a.p1600
02-17-2022, 08:51 PM
^LOL!
Yassss. I’m down for the Leave “Men” Who Weren’t Raised Right Movement
whirlerz
02-17-2022, 08:53 PM
All lot are just ignorant
baer45
02-17-2022, 10:01 PM
That’s seems odd. She sounds triggered. That’s all I can think of is your text triggered her. She could’ve blocked your number instead of being so curt.
It's not my text because my text was very common. What she meant probably was "I don't want to be your friend anymore, don't include me in the group chat". The group chat started 3 years ago, I didn't add or delete any contact from the chat.
Her action could be explained as I was somehow special, she felt the need to speak to me or she consider herself a big deal and the call would have impact in my life. I am going with the second guess. I have never considered her a good friend or close friend. Just someone from the same dance class from 3 years ago.
moneybags
02-17-2022, 10:48 PM
It's not my text because my text was very common. What she meant probably was "I don't want to be your friend anymore, don't include me in the group chat". The group chat started 3 years ago, I didn't add or delete any contact from the chat.
Her action could be explained as I was somehow special, she felt the need to speak to me or she consider herself a big deal and the call would have impact in my life. I am going with the second guess. I have never considered her a good friend or close friend. Just someone from the same dance class from 3 years ago.
People are crazy. If you didn’t do anything wrong I wouldn’t take in personally. Who knows what she’s going through or why she’s over reacting? Maybe she had a hot coffee when she got the group text and looked down and spilled her coffee? Seriously? People get triggered so easily and take it out on others-people work their shit out on me all the time. I’m just like-what did I do?!?! Maybe she feels insignificant in her own life and that made her feel significant. Who knows what her deal is? People are crazy. You just gotta shrug your should and be like, “okay.”
LoveyD
02-17-2022, 11:10 PM
@baer I'm sorry that happened to you. It's weird and jarring. It would have been helpful for her to give you a reason, but you're doing the right thing by letting her be.
baer45
02-17-2022, 11:12 PM
You just gotta shrug your should and be like, “okay.”
Thats what I did. I said "okay, that's fine" She thanked me for being gracious about it. There was nothing gracious in this. She is just not important to me.
I was a little confused, hence I did not know how to react to it.
baer45
02-17-2022, 11:20 PM
@baer I'm sorry that happened to you. It's weird and jarring. It would have been helpful for her to give you a reason, but you're doing the right thing by letting her be.
Thanks LoveyD. I didn't ask for a reason, she might have expected me to ask. But I didn't. I thought the right thing to do was let it go too.
When the mutual friend wanted to confront this girl, I stopped her. I told her it's not worthy. It's not a "pick and choose" situation for her. She can still be friends with both, I don't mind.:)
miss.a.p1600
02-18-2022, 06:04 AM
L telling me twice about his kids begging to come over here when he’s working like I’m supposed to be thrilled about Bertha’s loud noisy lazy needy territory invaders being here and having to take care of them for free when I can be doing other things.
He complains about Bertha allegedly leaving town Thursday so he has to rearrange his work schedule. Well you are the fool for agreeing to take care of kids during her parenting time and I’ll bet he didn’t ask her for a favor in return for agreeing. He just stupidly agrees and when I tell him he’s being manipulated he doubles down that he’s simply doing his duty.
The kicker is the second time he mentioned kids wanting to come over this weekend he was like “it’s already arranged for them to go to their grandmothers”
Well for fuck sake let them go to their grandmothers house!!! Cotdamn!
Stop letting those kids or that ex wife run this house. If it’s clear that I don’t want to do free childcare or have kids all up in my space when you’re not here then fucking leave it alone.
Stop clinging to these kids. Shit! They need variety and it’s not your job to come to this hoes rescue by sacrificing MY time.
If you ask me again I’m going to treat you like the idiot strip club furniture and I’m walking off mid sentence
xxxGothBarbie
02-18-2022, 07:09 AM
I'm underslept and can't go back asleep bc that bitch is talking so fucking loud on the phone outside my door ugh fuck off lady go away!!!!! Also pms is affecting me like crazy blaaaa
Marina Starr
02-18-2022, 10:57 AM
I love food, just hate that sometimes I don't know what to eat and just deciding takes so much time.
chanzep
02-18-2022, 04:18 PM
Are you going to restart the search just in case?
If I were you I’d give them low ratings on Glassdoor for being unreliable employer.
Yes I have been applying for jobs non stop when not at my part time job.
chanzep
02-18-2022, 04:25 PM
I feel so disgusted by what Russia did to this poor 15 yr old girl at the olympics. She's a fucking child and here they are doping her when she could've gotten gold without that banned medication. She was probably just as shocked as everybody else to find out she didn't pass the drug test. This is the first time ever they've cleared someone to perform after testing positive. Could you imagine all the stress it is to be at the Olympics and then receiving all the news backlash and hatred towards you at such a young age for being allowed to still compete? I've never seen a female skate so beautifully. All the stress from everyone pissed off that she was allowed to compete got to her and she didn't even place because she fell 4 times. She ended up sobbing at the results station. Crying into the very arms of the people who forced her to take the medication. How fucking sick. She looks like a mess in the video below. Poor Baby :(!
Then you have people saying "Thank god she didn't place." PLEASE if you were on the same medication you couldn't have even passed her with her skills anyways. They handled this so poorly. Couldn't imagine being alone in a different country without my family there at 15 being treated like that by strangers.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvUIEX7070o
I feel the same poor thing. The stupid commentators were pissing me off too. They were out of line . People are acting like she's a 21 year old adult from the USA or Uk. She is a Russian child she has no control. Her routines are beautiful the best to me. I hope she can come back. I personally think 15 too young to be competing. It's alot.
~Carmen~
02-18-2022, 06:02 PM
^It's beyond disgusting how they use these children and put so much pressure on them. And drugging them? Those people should be imprisoned.
It wrecks their body. Imagine how they will feel when they get older. Damaged spines and hips, etc. It should be outlawed for minors who are too young to make those kind of decisions.
miss.a.p1600
02-18-2022, 09:33 PM
L telling me twice about his kids begging to come over here when he’s working like I’m supposed to be thrilled about Bertha’s loud noisy lazy needy territory invaders being here and having to take care of them for free when I can be doing other things.
He complains about Bertha allegedly leaving town Thursday so he has to rearrange his work schedule. Well you are the fool for agreeing to take care of kids during her parenting time and I’ll bet he didn’t ask her for a favor in return for agreeing. He just stupidly agrees and when I tell him he’s being manipulated he doubles down that he’s simply doing his duty.
The kicker is the second time he mentioned kids wanting to come over this weekend he was like “it’s already arranged for them to go to their grandmothers”
Well for fuck sake let them go to their grandmothers house!!! Cotdamn!
Stop letting those kids or that ex wife run this house. If it’s clear that I don’t want to do free childcare or have kids all up in my space when you’re not here then fucking leave it alone.
Stop clinging to these kids. Shit! They need variety and it’s not your job to come to this hoes rescue by sacrificing MY time.
If you ask me again I’m going to treat you like the idiot strip club furniture and I’m walking off mid sentence
L barges in my room late at night and declares 'hey I'm going to get the kids tomorrow'
Okay guess I will make sure I am working outside of this home like I told him. I'm not taking care of kids during my personal time and during Bertha's parenting time. If he is not at work. I'm not doing it.
I hate him right now and can't wait to leave permanently.
miss.a.p1600
02-19-2022, 07:45 AM
I should be able to work from home without the expectation that I’m a free sitter and those kids will land at this house.
Whatever I’m done.
Like GothBarbie said…..I’m going to leave his ass so fast his head will spin
Can’t wait to be free from this overweight ball and his numerous chains.
And YES mfs the grass IS greener on the other side!
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 08:13 AM
I'm underslept and can't go back asleep bc that bitch is talking so fucking loud on the phone outside my door ugh fuck off lady go away!!!!! Also pms is affecting me like crazy blaaaa
Get ur self a white noise machine, also some earplugs!
Luv my wn machine, saves me from killing roomies :)
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 08:24 AM
Well, we got like 4" of snow, not terrible, but I've a small car, our places literally in a pit, very steep driveway, no paving, it could use gravel (but that ain't gonna happen::))
So, 4 tries to get out of driveway >:( yesterday, it's a 4 lane busy street, so there's usually a wait for cars to pass, making it even harder..
We do have a 2nd driveway, that's totally snowed..
I know the other cars are able to get out>:(
I took the damn ice melt, (like 4 trips back & forth, I use cups to dispense, bag's too heavy). .
Already told LL I'm not bringing up the dumpsters ::)
Eta, it's 9°, going up to 16°,::) so I sprinkle salt again :-\
indiegirl
02-19-2022, 08:27 AM
Receiving a message from a newbie to the LA area: It's going to be a gorgeous day today!
In my head: Ohhhhh have you not seen the homeless tents, used needles on the ground, drug induced antics, sheer poverty, etc.
I'm so fucking sick of LA it is breathtaking there are people who still want to live in this shithole.
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 10:08 AM
When does the next 'Hunt' start.. No, not funny, I'd probably be amongst the hunted.
miss.a.p1600
02-19-2022, 01:04 PM
Got into an argument.
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-19-2022, 02:14 PM
Got into an argument.
About what?
My pissy petty annoyance- dry skin. Aging sucks, blah.
Marina Starr
02-19-2022, 02:37 PM
I hate being invited over to people's house that smells so bad from them cooking. These people don't really eat vegetables. They cook greasy food and turn the stove up way high. They want things cooked super fast and leaves the house so smelly.
I don't know how people can eat with no vegetables ever.
~Carmen~
02-19-2022, 03:29 PM
I hate being invited over to people's house that smells so bad from them cooking. These people don't really eat vegetables. They cook greasy food and turn the stove up way high. They want things cooked super fast and leaves the house so smelly.
I don't know how people can eat with no vegetables ever.
I hate that too. I have heightened sense of smell and hearing.
I was at the doctor's office and I smelled someone's lunch. It smelled so bad I almost gagged. I could smell it on myself the rest of the day. I couldn't get in the shower fast enough.
~Carmen~
02-19-2022, 03:31 PM
Well, we got like 4" of snow, not terrible, but I've a small car, our places literally in a pit, very steep driveway, no paving, it could use gravel (but that ain't gonna happen::))
So, 4 tries to get out of driveway >:( yesterday, it's a 4 lane busy street, so there's usually a wait for cars to pass, making it even harder..
We do have a 2nd driveway, that's totally snowed..
I know the other cars are able to get out>:(
I took the damn ice melt, (like 4 trips back & forth, I use cups to dispense, bag's too heavy). .
Already told LL I'm not bringing up the dumpsters ::)
Eta, it's 9°, going up to 16°,::) so I sprinkle salt again :-\
What a pita!! I had to scrape and brush my car but at least it's not on a steep driveway.
I hate the salt. It gets all over your floors and very hard to clean.
miss.a.p1600
02-19-2022, 03:49 PM
About what?
My pissy petty annoyance- dry skin. Aging sucks, blah.
With my partner about having no boundaries with his kids or ex wife, no adequately communicating (in advance) when his kids are coming over, him being cheap, and more……..
Its the first time I’ve blown up but I’m sick of it. I don’t feel like I’m in a relationship with a man I feel like I’m dealing with 4 people instead of one.
I felt kind of bad because he was at work but I knew he was going to rush and get his kids after work so it was the only time I could not so calmly discuss it
Oh and dry skin….I like the Eucerin healing creams
ravenskyy
02-19-2022, 03:55 PM
I need to make $5000 in 14 days. Lol life is wild dude.
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 03:59 PM
I use oils on my face, Well People, for body Trader Joe's coconut body oil, cream too, Elf Holy Hydration.
I only cleanse once a day.
indiegirl
02-19-2022, 04:01 PM
I need to make $5000 in 14 days. Lol life is wild dude.
I'd ho it out and delete the account after those days. That is doable in a few days on ho side as a newbie. I'm having a customer shower right now. UGHHHH. I need a nap. I just came from pasadena.
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 04:20 PM
I went to move my couple plants I keep in the hall, I seen someone didn't flush the toilet, so gross!:yuck:
Looks like wipes are being used, matter of time before septic tank fucks up. ::)
Marina Starr
02-19-2022, 05:14 PM
I totally felt bad for her but this is what happened when the International Olympic Committee didn't enforced the rules. She was tested positive for a performance enhanced drug.
Even though it's through no fault of her own, the rules are the rules. Yes she is a minor but she's competing with seniors so the same rules must apply.
The International Olympic Committee now opened a floodgate for minors doping because they sent the message that it was okay.
I truly believe not letting her compete after tested positive would not put her in this mess facing so much hate and backlash. I don't see how it wouldn't get to her.
It's very sad.
^It's beyond disgusting how they use these children and put so much pressure on them. And drugging them? Those people should be imprisoned.
It wrecks their body. Imagine how they will feel when they get older. Damaged spines and hips, etc. It should be outlawed for minors who are too young to make those kind of decisions.
charlie61
02-19-2022, 09:33 PM
About what?
My pissy petty annoyance- dry skin. Aging sucks, blah.
Highly recommend sealing your moisturizing skincare routine in at night with the Cerave Healing Ointment. There are so many myths out there about petrolatum in skincare - Dr. Dray has a good video dispelling those myths. It's a total game changer for dry skin. I think it's the only HG skincare product i own.
whirlerz
02-19-2022, 10:08 PM
I hate being invited over to people's house that smells so bad from them cooking. These people don't really eat vegetables. They cook greasy food and turn the stove up way high. They want things cooked super fast and leaves the house so smelly.
I don't know how people can eat with no vegetables ever.
My roomies! ^
This's why I have & use Ozium, Mint spray & incense!
Altho, she does cook some good food, I don't like any cooking smells in my room, I open my window & door too.
Genoveve
02-20-2022, 01:38 PM
I need to make $5000 in 14 days. Lol life is wild dude.
For what???
miss.a.p1600
02-20-2022, 02:26 PM
Didn’t sleep well at all last night or the night before
trying to enjoy the peace and quiet at this house before L and his territory invaders arrive (during the time they should be at their grandmothers house)
indiegirl
02-20-2022, 07:29 PM
I WANT MY HOUSE BACK TO MYSELF. THE END.
I don't understand these extroverts.....she even fought with her boyfriend outside and he's been here all weekend. I'd tell her to go home but she fucking lives here hahahahahaha. I need to go back to the hotel.
moneybags
02-20-2022, 08:00 PM
Is it just me or is their collectively more negativity now n days? I’m just curious. I’m a pretty positive person, but lately I feel like everyone is working out their shit on me. Am I just the cosmic janitor LOL. I’m no angel either, but shezus seems like people are so easily triggered by ANYTHING even if you have good intentions! I swear every person I’ve helped has shitted on me lately. I’m done helping people.
This lady ASKED for financial advice, and got mad at me for asking why she didn’t have income! You have to have income to pay off debt-it’s not rocket science. It was in a financial mastermind group for women too! Sorry bitch.
Seriously is it just me? If it is then tell me! I wanna know what I’m doing wrong. Or is this just how most people are now n days? People are stressed with this new era and aren’t coping well with all this stress?
LoveyD
02-20-2022, 08:26 PM
Is it just me or is their collectively more negativity now n days? I’m just curious. I’m a pretty positive person, but lately I feel like everyone is working out their shit on me. Am I just the cosmic janitor LOL. I’m no angel either, but shezus seems like people are so easily triggered by ANYTHING even if you have good intentions! I swear every person I’ve helped has shitted on me lately. I’m done helping people.
This lady ASKED for financial advice, and got mad at me for asking why she didn’t have income! You have to have income to pay off debt-it’s not rocket science. It was in a financial mastermind group for women too! Sorry bitch.
Seriously is it just me? If it is then tell me! I wanna know what I’m doing wrong. Or is this just how most people are now n days? People are stressed with this new era and aren’t coping well with all this stress?
I can relate with so much of this.it"s why I'm heading for the hills. No people.
moneybags
02-20-2022, 08:44 PM
^^^can I come? I’m glad I’m not crazy-well in my humble opinion we all are to some degree.
The world tapping summit is next week for free! I feel like I have make sure I have something positive to focus on or it’s easy to let negative people and situations get me down. I’m trying really hard to not be negative, but it’s so hard when it’s everywhere!
https://www.thetappingsolution.com/2022VideoSeries/nick-ortner.php
LoveyD
02-20-2022, 09:09 PM
^^Sure! I hope to find a place near hiking and biking trails. My kid is super chill lol and a cat. We need a cat friend lol
Aurora_Sunset
02-21-2022, 09:07 AM
Step-daughter's room has been a disaster since the last weekend they were here. My husband claimed he was going to go through it in the last 2 weeks - that didn't happen. When they came over this past weekend, he told her she needed to clean it before leaving yesterday. She didn't. I came home from work and it is worse than it was before. You literally cannot walk in there. I kinda went off on my husband about it. They were here all day until 6pm - at no point could he tell her or help her to clean her room? His response was that he "told" her to do it, and she closed the door, claiming that she was (she didn't, at all) but he "can't keep an eye on them all the time."
Meanwhile, he goes into a "rant" about how step-son "made" him play Fortnite for 3 hours yesterday, and he hates Fortnite. So, you can devote 3 straight hours to playing a game you don't even like to appease your son, but you can't spend 20 minutes making sure your daughter cleans her damn room? How about any sort of punishment for lying about saying she was cleaning her room when she obviously had no intention of doing so after closing the door? If he doesn't take care of it today, I'm going in tomorrow with a trash bag. I'm tired of the fact that these kids don't respect any of their stuff. She wouldn't even know what was missing if half of it disappeared. It's just about the accumulation of "stuff" to them - they don't actually care about any of it, otherwise, they would treat it better.
Aurora_Sunset
02-21-2022, 09:17 AM
I hate when people bust out long board games at parties. A friend last-minute invited people, including me, to a restaurant/bar the other night for a birthday celebration. I almost went, but then they mentioned in a comment on the event page that they were wanting to play some tabletop game that would take several hours. Like... no thank you? I guess it's her birthday, she can do what she wants, but that's not really a "party-atmosphere" to me - especially when you're celebrating in a public place? I knew I couldn't stay long because I had work in the morning, so my plan was to stop by for about an hour, have A drink, chat a little, and leave. I couldn't do that in the midst of some long-ass board game.
Small, short games, or party-specific card games are great for gatherings, but anything more involved should pretty much be an invite-only with a specific group of people who are into that sort of thing type of deal. In my opinion. I ended up not going because of that.
whirlerz
02-21-2022, 09:20 AM
Jeez..
So I don't drive a lot, my car's under warranty so I take it to nearby dealership.. Never.ever.again
$75.00 fucking dollars??? 33.00 for labor? ::)
Then, I get a quote for like 550.00 for brakes?
?
Just texted Mr Crush to see if he'd want to work off what he owes me.. He's working now, we'll see::)
Marina Starr
02-21-2022, 09:29 AM
Brakes are not covered under warranty. Is $550 for brakes and labor included?
Maybe Mr. Crush could do it for a blowie. I don't see how he could say no. That's a deal that rarely being offered.
Jeez..
So I don't drive a lot, my car's under warranty so I take it to nearby dealership.. Never.ever.again
$75.00 fucking dollars??? 33.00 for labor? ::)
Then, I get a quote for like 550.00 for brakes?
?
Just texted Mr Crush to see if he'd want to work off what he owes me.. He's working now, we'll see::)
indiegirl
02-21-2022, 09:46 AM
Is it just me or is their collectively more negativity now n days? I’m just curious. I’m a pretty positive person, but lately I feel like everyone is working out their shit on me. Am I just the cosmic janitor LOL. I’m no angel either, but shezus seems like people are so easily triggered by ANYTHING even if you have good intentions! I swear every person I’ve helped has shitted on me lately. I’m done helping people.
This lady ASKED for financial advice, and got mad at me for asking why she didn’t have income! You have to have income to pay off debt-it’s not rocket science. It was in a financial mastermind group for women too! Sorry bitch.
Seriously is it just me? If it is then tell me! I wanna know what I’m doing wrong. Or is this just how most people are now n days? People are stressed with this new era and aren’t coping well with all this stress?
UGH the PC culture nowadays ........ I can't do it. I may sound like a bitch but I'm not tolerating this new age BS "woke" level. Maybe I'm getting old LOL
moneybags
02-21-2022, 10:27 AM
UGH the PC culture nowadays ........ I can't do it. I may sound like a bitch but I'm not tolerating this new age BS "woke" level. Maybe I'm getting old LOL
I hear you. I’m also getting more conservative as I get older.