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SnuffleUffleGrass
03-01-2022, 06:00 AM
Petty annoyed at the snow today. Gotta shovel you snow, git out de way

Aurora_Sunset
03-01-2022, 07:05 AM
People who "move" over to a turn lane but don't actually get their fucking car all the way in the lane. They're still clearly hanging over the line into the regular lane so you have to swerve around them, even though they still have TONS of space between them and the car in front of them to move up and get all the way over.

Secret Shelly
03-01-2022, 07:25 AM
Potholes...the streets so f'ing suck here!!!

Dreamqueen
03-01-2022, 09:30 PM
93 degrees here.
Way too soon for it to be this hot.
It made camming so uncomfortable.
It's bad enough it's over 110 degrees for 5 solid months.
:yuck:

miss.a.p1600
03-02-2022, 06:20 AM
My only annoyance for today is there are way too many cunts on this beautiful sunny day in Florida. I swear they come out in droves.

There are days when I can go a whole day without cunts then bam!

Sorry to disappoint you but Florida has a reputation as a state where A LOT of insane people reside.

Not surprised.

LoveyD
03-02-2022, 08:34 AM
^^ ugh same with CA. I can do without a lot of the people here.

I'm at a park rn, resting under a tree. These annoying AF women decide to set up camp a few feet away and start blaring this guided meditation. It sounds garbled, like Charlie Brown"s teacher. Annoying. So I moved. Then these two people nearby started yammering on about abortion. Then this lady nearby got up and yelled "I DONT COME TO THE PARK TO LISTEN TO PEOPLE'S CONVERSATIONS!". Then she got up and moved.

I feel ya, sister. So glad she said something bc they finally shut up.

I need to move somewhere where there are no people.

Then the lady's dog came by and said hi to me, But that was cute and not annoying.

carmen_b
03-02-2022, 01:01 PM
Omg my damn back hurts so bad !

At the start of this trip I feel like I pinched a nerve.

I am SO hoping it gets feeling better tonight and tomorrow.

carmen_b
03-02-2022, 01:14 PM
ALSO .... it's 3:01 and a selling point of me joining this trip was J tempting me with nice dinners haha.
I am about to bitch for not having a time / place but he texted while writing it .

LoveyD
03-02-2022, 02:17 PM
Just saw my asshole ex landlord at the grocery store a few minutes ago. Got away from him before I could start screaming. Luckily he didn't see me. Now I'm triggered and calming down at a park and having my lunch. Fuck that guy. Wish he'd keel over so he can face God and be awakened to how annoying, destructive, and disrespectful he was.

indiegirl
03-02-2022, 04:45 PM
People who love to hear themselves talk loudly on the phone. Bitch we are all studying here and it’s been 20 minutes of you announcing your shit in the air to everyone. Reminds me of those businessmen who loudly bark whatever they have going on in their life over the phone at the airport so everyone can think “wow they are so important!”

Marina Starr
03-03-2022, 04:59 AM
The level of ignorance from people of this great country is astounding!

Aurora_Sunset
03-03-2022, 05:34 PM
They got rid of the clock in/out feature on our phone apps so we all have to crowd around the physical time clocks again. Except half of them aren't turned/aren't working. Maybe if you were going to do that, make sure your fucking equipment works by the date you wanted us to do this.

I don't understand why it's such a big fucking deal for us to keep the ability to clock in and out on our phones anyway. They use very precise GPS so it's not like you can milk the clock by clocking in or out from across the parking lot. The most that people "milk the clock" is by waiting to clock out for lunch until they're in the break room, sitting down. Or clocking in from the break room as soon as they get there, while they're still putting away their jackets and lunch-bags. It probably costs a whopping 10 minutes of "paid loss of productivity." God forbid.

They'll be forcing us to keep our phones in lockers in a few more weeks anyway, so why can't we just keep this feature for now?

carmen_b
03-03-2022, 06:24 PM
My back got worse during this trip and I had to go to the Dr.

The pain was bad. :/

I hope these meds help .
It was a bad day . I was stuck at this Urgent Care that also couldn't find my insurance at first ( even though I had a photo of the card ) .
I paid $150 out of pocket out of desperation and then luckily the insurance got sorted.
They reimbursed $130.

Here is a tricky thing. I don't want to fight with my partner . I really don't. I realize they paid A LOT of money for him to come across the country for this ( his company generously paid for my ticket too ).
BUT ..... I was getting desperate in this pain to not be totally alone going to the Dr. and getting the meds. I asked if there was any way he could cut of a work dinner just a little earlier to join up somewhere along my process.
I could be misunderstanding but I thought it started at 6:30 and I felt like he could cut out at 7:30 ....... it's 8:25. :/

I guess I should wait for him before getting nasty.
I'm not sure I agree with how it was handled. I will say that.
I realize there wasn't much he could do before 6 p.m.

EDIT TO ADD ( and in less pain today ) :
He surfaced soon after . I was NOT in agreement of him staying at the dinner until 8 ( plus time getting back ) but they are spending a crazy amount for him in 4 days . I guess I have to trust the evaluation somewhat ( since I wasn't there ) that is was important . I definitely don't want to get a reputation for making him less effective if I'm here . I want more of these trips.

Dreamqueen
03-03-2022, 11:00 PM
^^ ugh same with CA. I can do without a lot of the people here.

I'm at a park rn, resting under a tree. These annoying AF women decide to set up camp a few feet away and start blaring this guided meditation. It sounds garbled, like Charlie Brown"s teacher. Annoying. So I moved. Then these two people nearby started yammering on about abortion. Then this lady nearby got up and yelled "I DONT COME TO THE PARK TO LISTEN TO PEOPLE'S CONVERSATIONS!". Then she got up and moved.

I feel ya, sister. So glad she said something bc they finally shut up.

I need to move somewhere where there are no people.

Then the lady's dog came by and said hi to me, But that was cute and not annoying.

If you find out where that is, will you please tell me?
There's so much beautiful nature and parks where I live.
However, I can never enjoy it because no matter when I go, there's always someone to spoil it. >:(
I met this woman, and we became friends.
She felt the same way. She offered to take me up the mountain to a spot that she assured me that few people know about.
We drove all the way up there.
I settled on a boulder overlooking the view, while she went to the restroom.
In less than a minute, a group of people pulled up and sat RIGHT next to me, blasting their boombox.
My friend returned from the restroom and asked me where these people came from?
Omg!
This kind of thing happens to me all the time.
Between that, and my area getting crowded ( the work from home crowd has arrived), it's ridiculous.
I feel so trapped.

LoveyD
03-04-2022, 01:56 AM
^^ I'm literally heading for the hills. My crush feels the same way. We want to run off together and live in nature away from ppl. Neither of us want to live in the city anymore bc PEOPLE lol

miss.a.p1600
03-04-2022, 06:46 AM
They got rid of the clock in/out feature on our phone apps so we all have to crowd around the physical time clocks again. Except half of them aren't turned/aren't working. Maybe if you were going to do that, make sure your fucking equipment works by the date you wanted us to do this.

I don't understand why it's such a big fucking deal for us to keep the ability to clock in and out on our phones anyway. They use very precise GPS so it's not like you can milk the clock by clocking in or out from across the parking lot. The most that people "milk the clock" is by waiting to clock out for lunch until they're in the break room, sitting down. Or clocking in from the break room as soon as they get there, while they're still putting away their jackets and lunch-bags. It probably costs a whopping 10 minutes of "paid loss of productivity." God forbid.

They'll be forcing us to keep our phones in lockers in a few more weeks anyway, so why can't we just keep this feature for now?

So the sociopathic managers can get their narcissistic supply watching people scramble to manually clock in

A lot of these entry level managers do not care about productivity or employee satisfaction on certain things because it takes away their ability to micromanage and run the place like a modern day plantation.

My last vanilla job I was on salary…….and these fuckers still required us to clock in. I was like nah bruh, I ain’t work my ass off to get on salary just to be micromanaged about my time in and out?!? …. Ridiculous - they can shove that time Card up their ass unlubed

miss.a.p1600
03-04-2022, 06:52 AM
The more rational explanation is they’re scared tech savvy people can hack the mobile time clock so most managers/employers don’t trust the mobile time clock technology - if the time clock is on employer property, they can “lay eyes on you” coming and going.

A bunch of Controlling creeps!

WendiStarr
03-04-2022, 12:11 PM
Postpartum bleeding. I got excited thinking that it had stopped because there was no blood since yesterday evening. Then as soon as I stood up after eating lunch I felt something and it's back. I'm getting pad irritation for real.

indiegirl
03-04-2022, 12:25 PM
Unreliable men. This is my 1 day to work every week please don't waste it. Sent me his address for outcall then talks about all his sexual fantasies (like shut up and let me get ready for the appointment). Then he says his wife came home. I told him my hotel address which he said could work and then he asked for an excuse to tell his wife why he's leaving. GIRLLLLL I provide an entertainment service anything beyond that is up to you. I have one set for tonight and one tomorrow morning. Please do not cancel or else I'm stuck with a 165 dollar hotel bill. I have spent SO FUCKING much just to dig my way out of this damn industry in 2 years paying for school straight cash. Don't do this to me.

I pushed hard through all my assignments and readings this week just to make today happen to make money and here we have dipshit at his house just jerking off behind a computer wasting my time and money.

One of my teachers probably thinks I'm insane for sending the homework at 5am. Yep I was up all night for TODAY. I'm graduating this fucking program even if it kills me.

whirlerz
03-04-2022, 12:50 PM
Postpartum bleeding. I got excited thinking that it had stopped because there was no blood since yesterday evening. Then as soon as I stood up after eating lunch I felt something and it's back. I'm getting pad irritation for real.

Aw, sorry Wendi dear, hugs, hope you feel better soon!

Marina Starr
03-04-2022, 02:49 PM
What pisses me off more than road rage is land rage. That's when people deliberately walk really slow in front of you. They know you're behind them.
You know exactly what I'm talking about. I'm very patience and gracious for the elderly or people with disability that don't allow them to walk as normal.

The stupid in people is strong that's why I deal with people best as individuals but I hate people as a whole!

LoveyD
03-04-2022, 03:46 PM
I want to make money, but All the orders coming in have faraway delivery locations and I wish someone close by would place an order. Gas is getting more expensive and it's lame IC and Shipt won't pay us more.

trustfundkiller
03-05-2022, 05:09 AM
It's not even 7am and my mom has already managed to irritate me. I was texting her pictures of new outfits I ordered for work, and then she says "But that's not a job you can do in the future." Mind you, she's been working for the same company since she was 25. Then I pointed out how quick her company was to lay off 90% of her office including employees of over 20+ years when the pandemic struck, and how no company has long-term loyalty to their staff. She was lucky to have survived the cut. All she could say was, "that's true".

You can't do any job forever. There will always come a point where you're too old to do your job. What if you're in your 50s with the cushy corporate job and then get paralyzed from the neck down in a car accident? Chances are, you're losing that job. It's not worth trying to figure out what's going to happen in 15-20 years. Nothing in life is ever guaranteed. The only difference between sex workers and corporate workers is that we need to be more proactive about saving and investing our money because we don't have an employer doing it for us, though everyone should be proactive about their finances anyway. Job security is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Money and health are the only true forms of security, and even those are far from infallible.

miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 08:01 AM
Postpartum bleeding. I got excited thinking that it had stopped because there was no blood since yesterday evening. Then as soon as I stood up after eating lunch I felt something and it's back. I'm getting pad irritation for real.

Maybe you can try some period panties.

The pad is on the inside built in so it might be more comfortable than the traditional pad on top of panties

whirlerz
03-05-2022, 08:25 AM
It's not even 7am and my mom has already managed to irritate me. I was texting her pictures of new outfits I ordered for work, and then she says "But that's not a job you can do in the future." Mind you, she's been working for the same company since she was 25. Then I pointed out how quick her company was to lay off 90% of her office including employees of over 20+ years when the pandemic struck, and how no company has long-term loyalty to their staff. She was lucky to have survived the cut. All she could say was, "that's true".

You can't do any job forever. There will always come a point where you're too old to do your job. What if you're in your 50s with the cushy corporate job and then get paralyzed from the neck down in a car accident? Chances are, you're losing that job. It's not worth trying to figure out what's going to happen in 15-20 years. Nothing in life is ever guaranteed. The only difference between sex workers and corporate workers is that we need to be more proactive about saving and investing our money because we don't have an employer doing it for us, though everyone should be proactive about their finances anyway. Job security is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Money and health are the only true forms of security, and even those are far from infallible.

OMG, So true!
I'm currently scratching my head, trying to figure out some online classes or something to add to my value.
You should seriously write a book tho.. I sometimes do these book writing webinars, they try to sell stuff tho, but some good ideas

miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 09:53 AM
It's not even 7am and my mom has already managed to irritate me. I was texting her pictures of new outfits I ordered for work, and then she says "But that's not a job you can do in the future." Mind you, she's been working for the same company since she was 25. Then I pointed out how quick her company was to lay off 90% of her office including employees of over 20+ years when the pandemic struck, and how no company has long-term loyalty to their staff. She was lucky to have survived the cut. All she could say was, "that's true".

You can't do any job forever. There will always come a point where you're too old to do your job. What if you're in your 50s with the cushy corporate job and then get paralyzed from the neck down in a car accident? Chances are, you're losing that job. It's not worth trying to figure out what's going to happen in 15-20 years. Nothing in life is ever guaranteed. The only difference between sex workers and corporate workers is that we need to be more proactive about saving and investing our money because we don't have an employer doing it for us, though everyone should be proactive about their finances anyway. Job security is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Money and health are the only true forms of security, and even those are far from infallible.

The older generation doesn’t get it because these are the people who had pensions and job security

Both of which rarely exists today.

Job security is a joke unless you are in upper management and even then you’re still not save because once a company is public, board of directors can get anyone out, even the CEO.

Petty ass managers with an axe to grind can make you (the ultimate contributor and hard worker) look like a deadbeat employee on paper and unless you have money to pay a lawyer and fight the corporate sociopaths then your “job security” is thrown out the window.

Also most large companies do not care about entry level job security just like they don’t care about raising minimum wage. Turnover actually benefits those greedy mf because the unvested retirement funds from the people who get fired, quit, or laid off gets added back to the pool for the upper management who is still remaining.

These corporate cunts figure “there is a sucker born every second” so they don’t care about turnover and constantly having to hire new people vs. changing their psychopathic management team & shitty toxic work environment.

Just how the greedy adult cam sites use the the women to build up their platform only to kick adult performers off and go vanilla mainstream.

Anyways ALWAYS have multiple streams of income AND have some private insurance and private investments in addition to the work insurance/investments.

Never trust corporations to have your best interests. They only care about you to the extent of what you can do for them and how “indispensable” you are to them.

carmen_b
03-05-2022, 10:00 AM
Yeah .... had to bring up that " thanks for leaving me the extra 30 minutes in the hotel in pain thing ".

I truly believed I was right on that one. I had to say so .
I gave it 24 hours ( because I wanted to evaluate how I felt later after it wasn't so fresh ).
I just know I'm right on this. There are men on his team who seem so DAMN LOYAL to their partners.
I just can not imagine these guys lingering at dinner doing 90 min. instead of 60 so I said that and asked him to think about it ( what others members of his team would have done in the situation ).
Even though it was " only " 30 min. it matters TO ME.

I'm not saying I'm not treated well overall ......
I'm just saying that you 100% fucked up on this one particular thing.

In better news I am feeling a little better today so may be able to get out and wander around and go shopping or see some sights.

miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 10:26 AM
^most men can’t grasp the concept of womens pain.

In my experience whenever I said I was in pain (especially if they cause the pain) They stay gaslighting “oh I barely touched you” “oh that doesn’t hurt” and more fuckery.

They’re so ingrained into believing that women make up false reports of pain to get out of sex, to get sympathy, etc that they instantly assume when a woman says pain that unless she’s doubled over in pain in the ER then it’s all in our minds.

I just think most men can’t sympathize with women being in pain. It’s just not in their dna. Unless you rage against them or whatever they lack the ability to understand or care.

The men on his team “seem” loyal. Dudes can fake that when it benefits them.

carmen_b
03-05-2022, 10:38 AM
^ I think my partner really does care but it was also a mix of drinking and late hours ect.
He doesn't get much socializing time with interesting people ( his words not mine haha ) .
He was referencing the smaller town we live in and being " stuck " there is not MY fault haha !
I can *see* wanting to maximize it when you are finally in front of people in person after knowing them via Zoom for 6-12 months ect. !

I had to bring it up and don't regret doing so ..... it was upsetting to me.
I don't want it to spiral into anything where I can't ask my partner to be there in those kinds of situations.

I think you are right with men minimizing pain ( as long as you don't overplay that hand which I totally don't ).

carmen_b
03-05-2022, 10:41 AM
I guess so and admittedly I just know them from 5-6 dinners ect. over the last year and what J has told me about them.
I just don't get a shady vibe from anyone.
I'm sure I'll be able to let it go but not without a few chats about it and last night was only chat #1 haha ......




The men on his team “seem” loyal. Dudes can fake that when it benefits them.

miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 11:09 AM
LOL @ chat #1

He will probably regret those extra moments of schmoozing after chat #2,3 …….


^ I think my partner really does care but it was also a mix of drinking and late hours ect.
He doesn't get much socializing time with interesting people ( his words not mine haha ) .
He was referencing the smaller town we live in and being " stuck " there is not MY fault haha !
I can *see* wanting to maximize it when you are finally in front of people in person after knowing them via Zoom for 6 months ect. !

I had to bring it up and don't regret doing so ..... it was upsetting to me.
I don't want it to spiral into anything where I can't ask my partner to be there in those kinds of situations.

I think you are right with men minimizing pain ( as long as you don't overplay that hand which I totally don't ).

I’ve never faked sick and you haven’t mentioned faking sick either but I think men over generalize and assume most women have faked sick or that we are “too sensitive” so in their minds if it is real then a “minor” pain should be worked through not life put on hold. I think this is how they think judging from legit pain I’ve experienced (often when they caused it) and the shitty responses from men 95% of the time. They are simple minded creatures and if they don’t see you in the hospital or bleeding out then to them your pain is subjective which in their minds mean you could be making it up or blowing it out of proportion.

Anyhow he probably figured he’d hang with his coworkers then apologize later.

EDIT: I see where you mentioned to went to Minor ER - so yeah he knows your pain is serious. I’m a softie so I’d give him the benefit of the doubt for THIS SITUATION if I were you. I probably would have done the same thing he did (schmoozed a bit then came home earlier than usual but not so early I couldn’t mingle a bit). I would have come back on my own time (a bit earlier) but not whatever time you said because I hate partner imposed “curfews”

I agree he should have more sympathy for you that night however, He could throw it back in your face and refuse to bring you along on work trips if he thinks you are a liability.

carmen_b
03-05-2022, 12:02 PM
^ I don’t think he’ll consider it a severe liability.
More like bad timing but we will see haha.
I do want these trips so maybe I’ll let chat 2 or 3 go if the vibe is right haha.

My take was kind of like “ well we leave these people in 2 days and it’s US. I’d pick partner !”

Dreamqueen
03-05-2022, 12:24 PM
It's not even 7am and my mom has already managed to irritate me. I was texting her pictures of new outfits I ordered for work, and then she says "But that's not a job you can do in the future." Mind you, she's been working for the same company since she was 25. Then I pointed out how quick her company was to lay off 90% of her office including employees of over 20+ years when the pandemic struck, and how no company has long-term loyalty to their staff. She was lucky to have survived the cut. All she could say was, "that's true".

You can't do any job forever. There will always come a point where you're too old to do your job. What if you're in your 50s with the cushy corporate job and then get paralyzed from the neck down in a car accident? Chances are, you're losing that job. It's not worth trying to figure out what's going to happen in 15-20 years. Nothing in life is ever guaranteed. The only difference between sex workers and corporate workers is that we need to be more proactive about saving and investing our money because we don't have an employer doing it for us, though everyone should be proactive about their finances anyway. Job security is an illusion. It doesn't exist. Money and health are the only true forms of security, and even those are far from infallible.

Feel free to give your mother my number.
I'm turning 63 in 2 months, and make more money now than when I was 20/30 ( in sex work).
My friends are all in their 70's and still escorting, and still commanding top dollar.
My mentor was 80 when I met her.
We did doubles together.

xxxGothBarbie
03-05-2022, 05:44 PM
I don't understand bartenders and their shitty attitudes lately. Literally I tip them and they act like I'm a bother for asking them to do their job ugh. I had a bar fraudulently charge me for an extra drink with tip a few weeks back that I'm still fighting the bank on. Like what's with all these damn establishments trying to con peatrons?!? I'm just gonna bring my own booze inside the clubs and drink in the restroom from now on. All I've had the last few times I've gone out is terrible bitchy attitudes towards me when I've done nothing wrong.

Aurora_Sunset
03-05-2022, 06:06 PM
I don't understand bartenders and their shitty attitudes lately. Literally I tip them and they act like I'm a bother for asking them to do their job ugh. I had a bar fraudulently charge me for an extra drink with tip a few weeks back that I'm still fighting the bank on. Like what's with all these damn establishments trying to con peatrons?!? I'm just gonna bring my own booze inside the clubs and drink in the restroom from now on. All I've had the last few times I've gone out is terrible bitchy attitudes towards me when I've done nothing wrong.

I can specifically remember the only 2 times in my life when I didn't tip a bartender, and it was when they had shitty attitudes like it was just such a huge BURDEN to get me a simple drink. One of them, I dared to ask a question about their selection. Guess I really "wasted his time." Like, damn, I know we all have days where we don't want to do our jobs, but suck it up like the rest of us or call in sick and leave your stank-ass attitude at home.

indiegirl
03-05-2022, 06:14 PM
I can specifically remember the only 2 times in my life when I didn't tip a bartender, and it was when they had shitty attitudes like it was just such a huge BURDEN to get me a simple drink. One of them, I dared to ask a question about their selection. Guess I really "wasted his time." Like, damn, I know we all have days where we don't want to do our jobs, but suck it up like the rest of us or call in sick and leave your stank-ass attitude at home.

Bartenders are assholes. It's in the job description LOL. One time I tipped a female bartender 20 bucks at a country line dancing place (I was making so much money at the time that it wasn't a big deal for me) and she didn't even say thank you or acknowledge anything even though I tipped for a few drinks. I don't get it. A tip is out of generosity and I hate the restaurants that require the patron to pay a mandatory 20% fee for the waitresses in the bill. Ya gotta earn it!

xxxGothBarbie
03-05-2022, 06:22 PM
^Ya exactly! She wasn't rude to anyone e else except me for whatever reason and I've had it with the snotty attitudes so I checked her ass and then I left. I'm not returning to these places that hire shitty bartenders with attitudes.

LoveyD
03-05-2022, 09:22 PM
So tired today. Don't even know why. All I want to do is sleep.

miss.a.p1600
03-05-2022, 10:21 PM
I’m already ready for this little girl to go back to her mom’s house.

Complaining about the food. Cool just eat your little pizza rolls and clog your arteries all you want n

Complaining about the temperature - look little girl unless you paying electricity then you will just sit down and stfu

WendiStarr
03-06-2022, 11:55 AM
My family didn't end up helping me yesterday. BD laid on the charm and acted all loving and caring, putting his arm around me and rubbing my back. I need to just cut them off totally because they never keep their promises. They said he seemed so nice and my dad said he'd rather not get involved in case BD has a gun. As far as I know he doesn't but ok. LE it is then.

xxxGothBarbie
03-06-2022, 12:10 PM
I'm so annoyed and a bit hurt by my friend's actions the other night. She was at the same bar I was at and after I got into a verbal scuffle with that bitchy bartender I left and she didn't try to see if I was ok etc until around 2pm yesterday... umm I'm always there for you when you need me now you are playing everything down and you are still wanting to flirt and be involved with the manager and brag to me about him feeling u up in another club??? Wow ya I'm pissed off at her and distancing myself for awhile. That's not a friend trying to remain neutral.

LoveyD
03-06-2022, 12:17 PM
Wendi, that fucking sucks. You have a good heart and don't deserve this.

BD is acting like a manipulative shit. And shame on your family for not supporting you the way they should.

I went thru something similar. Left my ex, had no family support. Kiddo and I were nearly murdered. Thankfully God/dess intervened.

I would maybe also call on a domestic violence advocate and see if they could help extricate you away from them. And especially him. They would be more understanding than LE would. If you deal with LE, make sure you remain calm so that BD OR the cops won't label you as "crazy" or "hysterical." Rooting for you.

whirlerz
03-06-2022, 12:44 PM
Aw, my dear little Wendi, I am so sorry!
I know God will make a way for you & your girls..

I agree w/Lovey, I would try to call the domestic line, look for services in your county & area..in my area there's People Resource Center, they help with a lot of stuff.. How about trying a church? Oh, also the cops may help you with a caseworker (they did for me, I was in a different area then, I had issues with a family member harassing me as I was caring for my Mom)

You take take care my love, this too shall pass. Hugs & positivity your way!

Dreamqueen
03-06-2022, 03:39 PM
My box of crackers never arrived yesterday.
The tracking said "Delayed."
What the heck is going on?
I bought brie cheese.
First world problems I know.
But, it interrupted my cam time, because I was waiting for that knock on my door all day.>:(

Marina Starr
03-06-2022, 04:04 PM
That's awesome! I'm sure a lot of people wouldn't believe that you are more desirable as you aged. There are plenty of young guys that like older women.

I do not buy into the notion that women become invisible when they reached a certain age. Women feel they're invisible once they reached certain age because they've been indoctrinated to believe this bullshit.

I get more attention and highly visible now in my 40's than in my 20s, 30s. A lot of that has to do with confidence and how I carry myself. When people see me, they don't think of someone that accepts disrespect or bad treatment. I didn't emit the alpha bitch air when I was younger.


Feel free to give your mother my number.
I'm turning 63 in 2 months, and make more money now than when I was 20/30 ( in sex work).
My friends are all in their 70's and still escorting, and still commanding top dollar.
My mentor was 80 when I met her.
We did doubles together.

Dreamqueen
03-06-2022, 04:16 PM
That's awesome! I'm sure a lot of people wouldn't believe that you are more desirable as you aged. There are plenty of young guys that like older women.

I do not buy into the notion that women become invisible when they reached a certain age. Women feel they're invisible once they reached certain age because they've been indoctrinated to believe this bullshit.

I get more attention and highly visible now in my 40's than in my 20s, 30s. A lot of that has to do with confidence and how I carry myself. When people see me, they don't think of someone that accepts disrespect or bad treatment. I didn't emit the alpha bitch air when I was younger.

Yes, agreed.
It also helps when we take care of ourselves.
Being in sex work my entire adult life ( and in the modeling industry before that), taught me so much.
The other day, I had a client tell me that I look good for 40.:rotfl:
If he only knew.

Marina Starr
03-06-2022, 04:33 PM
I'm sure you've been told that lot so you know he wasn't bullshitting. It makes me so happy and petty when hoes in real life who are much younger but look older than I am.
#pettyhoe



Yes, agreed.
It also helps when we take care of ourselves.
Being in sex work my entire adult life ( and in the modeling industry before that), taught me so much.
The other day, I had a client tell me that I look good for 40.:rotfl:
If he only knew.

TheBrownFox
03-06-2022, 05:11 PM
Since that pitiful Instacart shopper I had yesterday barely made any effort (So I'm still without lunch meat), I'll take the bus tomorrow to Wegmans, probably, and get some. Black Forest Ham or honey ham.

Aurora_Sunset
03-06-2022, 05:16 PM
My family didn't end up helping me yesterday. BD laid on the charm and acted all loving and caring, putting his arm around me and rubbing my back. I need to just cut them off totally because they never keep their promises. They said he seemed so nice and my dad said he'd rather not get involved in case BD has a gun. As far as I know he doesn't but ok. LE it is then.

Unbelievable. Fuck them. Have they lived in a cave where they've never heard of abusers pulling this "nice guy" act when other people are around? They'll believe him over you - their daughter? Leave his ass, cut them all off, and start a new life far away with your babies. Fuck the lot of them.

Marina Starr
03-06-2022, 06:12 PM
That doesn't disappoint me, lol. Florida is the capitol of all kinds of special.


Sorry to disappoint you but Florida has a reputation as a state where A LOT of insane people reside.

Not surprised.