View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
05-11-2015, 08:32 PM
Well, I pd my deductible for my 2 medical bills, & I put the wrong ass invoice # on the money order. I can't find the money ord stubs, I went in my storage but Idk. Now what if I can't find & who knows what they did w/the $? Maybe it's in process of issuing a refund?
I talked to them today cause they have me as past due when I was making payments. Told them I sent like 250 this past Fri, w/the other wrong inv#, but I've also made other payments I can't find/remember..I want to come bk tomorrow & look better, but shit ass storage is going to blacktop their pkg lot, so 'limited access' & there's no where else I can put my car. I rented an extra unit to help sort out my stuff, it's only til end of month, & that'll throw me off 3 days, which I conveniently just found out tonight when their office's closed.
Then the insurance co. returns my part payment & bills me higher for June? Don't get it, & now I have to wait til morning to call.
Also I have to pay my Dr. an additional 60.00, (in addition to the 60.00 co-pay already pd) cause he said basically hello to me.
Idk I'm so confused right now
I'm DONE w/this shit.
I'm so confused now..I was going to go to the other motel, but I'm not feeling well & I just can't finish moving, esp. w/above scenerio.
miss.a.p1600
05-11-2015, 10:36 PM
I need to wake up early tomorrow but I can't sleep an my mind won't let me. Ugh! Damnit I hate waking up early.
Aurora_Sunset
05-12-2015, 08:10 AM
I know I've complained before about a regular client who feels the need to be my personal "proofreader" and tell me what's up with my own ads. His thing this morning was to message me on P411 to tell me that "I think you meant to write 'navel,' not 'naval' for your piercings."
This would have been pettily annoying all by itself, but when I checked my profile, I DID spell it 'navel." Wtf? When people "see" mistakes in spelling or grammar that don't even exist, I assume it's because they expected me to be that stupid and saw what they wanted to see. Why the hell else would they see something so random as "wrong," when it's obviously not?
I don't even know how to respond without sounding shitty.
michele11
05-12-2015, 09:30 AM
Between yesterday and today my mothers called me 5 times about my sisters dance bag! She had it when I dropped her off as she couldn't get in the house and was trhrowing all the outfits out and I noticed they were mine from years ago. Her keys and Michael Koors shoes are gone. Well she slept in her house?!? My mom keeps caslling, "Please." Please what. I don't know were the hell they are and mother fell and split her head open yesterday she doesn't need this!
Selina M
05-12-2015, 04:32 PM
Noope definitely a bug. Food's running right through and I'm constantly drinking Gatorade to fend off dehydration. I felt pretty decent last night and thought it was over, but it was a trap.
It's our anniversary today too and I don't feel good enough to do anything :(
kaninchen
05-12-2015, 04:52 PM
I've never been annoyed before by new posters who ask questions that they could answer themselves. But suddenly right now I find it insufferable. This website has a search bar for a fucking reason. Damn!
Naida
05-12-2015, 07:11 PM
I'm tired of feeling sick every time I think about this guy.
BarbieNYC
05-12-2015, 07:30 PM
I've never been annoyed before by new posters who ask questions that they could answer themselves. But suddenly right now I find it insufferable. This website has a search bar for a fucking reason. Damn!
Omg yes they're all over the place
The ny ones are super annoying. Like we don't have millions of threads already. U should see my inbox.
xStacey
05-13-2015, 06:33 AM
I accidentally hit my butt on a mirror at work and now I have a cut on my left cheek :(
Vackra
05-13-2015, 05:31 PM
I hate what I call "Barbie Re-Boot day". Doing roots, glossing hair, getting nails re-done, toes re-done... UGH I HATE ALL OF IT but it pays off.
kaninchen
05-14-2015, 02:22 PM
Dear Library Mystery Fartbag,
Everyone can smell your terrible farts that you are too lazy to go find a bathroom for. You are a horrible human being, whoever you are. You may be silent but you are DEADLY. GTFO UGH I HAVE TO FINISH THIS PAPER AND NOW I CAN'T BREATHE
With tons of hate,
kaninchen
zoezoebelle
05-14-2015, 04:18 PM
Poor lonely men be like, "But babe, love is all you need! Why would you want to be with some rich guy who can support you and love you, when you could break your back working at an awful job and take care of me instead?" xP If I had a nickel for every time some broke loser tried to convince me he's worth it, I'd make about as much as they do.
SweetJulia
05-14-2015, 07:21 PM
I've gotten rid of three toxic people I've known for years and feel gulity. I've known them for years, so they know all my skeletons and vice versa. Theirs are so much worse, like they should be in prison, but now I'm getting all these texts in an attempt to make me feel like a horrible person. Someone, please tell me karma will get them.
Legz541
05-14-2015, 07:56 PM
Absolutely painful grammar/spelling. I know it's a text but damn! Actual convo below:
Him: Aye gurl wut up wut it do
Me: Not much, just getting ready for work
Him: ok ok I fux wit dat doe git it
The man is educated btw (we go to the same university) so this really makes me wish you could slap people through the phone!
zoezoebelle
05-14-2015, 08:52 PM
I've gotten rid of three toxic people I've known for years and feel gulity. I've known them for years, so they know all my skeletons and vice versa. Theirs are so much worse, like they should be in prison, but now I'm getting all these texts in an attempt to make me feel like a horrible person. Someone, please tell me karma will get them.
Sadly you will keep hearing people give you shit for cutting toxic people out of your life, for the rest of your life, because people don't understand. Several psychologists agreed I should cut my mother out of my life, but every time I tell someone that I don't talk to my mother they just HAVE to say, "But she's your mom! You should go try to talk to her again. Family is important! How could you be so mean to your own mom?" They won't get it. They won't get it even if you explain it to them. But they'll eventually shut up about it if you hold your ground. It's hard to make adult decisions when we live in a world full of children.
KikiGem
05-14-2015, 10:50 PM
Dear Library Mystery Fartbag,
Everyone can smell your terrible farts that you are too lazy to go find a bathroom for. You are a horrible human being, whoever you are. You may be silent but you are DEADLY. GTFO UGH I HAVE TO FINISH THIS PAPER AND NOW I CAN'T BREATHE
With tons of hate,
kaninchen
Omg! I had a similar instance at my library when I was using the computer. Some guy in Hus 50's plopped down in the seat next to me but his offense wasn't farting- it was his obnoxious breathing! Every breath he took was loud and exaggerated, and after every sip of his drink he would go "aaahhhh" So painful to listen to I had to leave. Some people just have zero self-awareness I guess.
P.s. thank you for saying "fartbag" I found that hilarious
Glamourmilf
05-15-2015, 11:20 AM
I've gotten rid of three toxic people I've known for years and feel guilty. I've known them for years, so they know all my skeletons and vice versa. Theirs are so much worse, like they should be in prison, but now I'm getting all these texts in an attempt to make me feel like a horrible person. Someone, please tell me karma will get them.
I believe in karma.. I've seen it work on every single person who has done something shitty to me.
I just had to cut 3 toxic people out of my life as well. just as I predicted, they all are begging for forgiveness for blowing me off on my birthday last week.
Nope! I'm not now, or will I ever be on YOU schedule, and the party was on my birthday! NOT a week and a half later when you decide to show up for it!>:(
All these shitheads don't work, and are the ones constantly begging for my attention everyday of the year. Like, don't make promises of things You will do for me on my bday, then flake!
I'm already so much happier now that I don't have them in my life. Toxic, Toxic, Toxic, energy vampires! No More! Piss off!:bullwhip:
lynn2009
05-15-2015, 12:14 PM
Why do people have to be so rude in libraries? I don't understand. No one wants to listen to your phone call or music!! SHUT THE HELL UP.
culitos
05-15-2015, 12:29 PM
My bfs mother gets on my nerves sometimes. Like he didn't go into work today because of a headache, and this woman wouldn't stop calling him until he picked up, to check up on him. Are you kidding. He is a grown ass man. STAHP IT.
Aurora_Sunset
05-15-2015, 12:52 PM
Why do people have to be so rude in libraries? I don't understand. No one wants to listen to your phone call or music!! SHUT THE HELL UP.
I was just getting pissy today about the people who walk around with their music blaring from their cell phones. Like, come on, cheap headphones cost $7 at Walmart. We all don't want to jam to your specific music.
lynn2009
05-15-2015, 01:36 PM
I also left my 20 dollar insulated mug at the library. I can't believe how much money I've lost by just being the spaciest person ever.
kaninchen
05-15-2015, 01:47 PM
My boyfriend came home wasted last night. That word isn't very elegant, but I can't think of a good alternative. Actually, he was acting like a frat boy, so maybe it is an accurate term. Anyway, I'm really mad that he acted so irresponsibly, he's 33 and he should know better. He could have hurt or killed someone by driving in that condition.
I kind of want to call his dad and be like, "FIX YOUR SON" but maybe that's a little extreme. Idk. Ugh!
KikiGem
05-15-2015, 01:54 PM
OK, where have all my friends gone?? All of sudden I went from texting and hanging with tons of people to being lucky if I hear from one person every other day. For one, my SD hasn't contacted me since April 27th, but just a month ago I was "the greatest girl in the world." Almost three weeks with nothing from him. Yeah of course dates with him meant money for me but i was actually starting to like him.
Then my guy friend who I thought things were going great with stopped replying to me almost a week ago. We were having great times together, what happened?
And my gay guy friend from school who I used to be tight with is also sparsely communicating. I called him yesterday cause he wasn't at school, he picked up but he got off the phone so fast like there was a fire under his ass. Yet he wasn't doing anything so it wasn't cause he was busy, he was just at home.
I'm so confused, what gives? Is something so wrong with me that my friends think nothing of dropping me from their lives like yesterday's trash? Without so much as a goodbye text or an explanation? And all of them too! Maybe my suspicions are true, that people just suck and nobody sticks around. But I feel like it's got to be me, something about me is just bad or something. Cause I look at other people's lives and I seem to be the only one that this so consistently happens to.
SweetJulia
05-15-2015, 05:18 PM
This is going to sound so petty, but if I see one more disgusting asshole cleaning their ears in public, I will scream. In my perfect world, everyone would use peroxide, thus dissolving anything in need of being dug out. They do it everywhere, in restaurants, while driving, etc.. It's the one thing that truly turns my stomach. Do you lack the hundredth of an ounce of self control required to do that shit in private? I seriously want to make it a poll in the lounge, to see if anyone shares my opinion, if I'm just crazy, or to allow the "explorers" to defend their actions. Mods, please let me know if this is too ridiculous a topic, it's just making me want to run in circles and rip my hair out.
amberlly
05-16-2015, 07:36 AM
I'm finishing school in a few weeks. But first I have to do all these group assignments. With people who whinge that their degree is so much more prestigious and busy than mine. And they cant possibly do anything as simple as our assignment.
I have 2 last group projects and it feels 200. Its petty - they are due in a couple of weeks and i'm not dying but it still pisses me off.
@Sweetjulia - Karma's a bitch. Kick em to the curb xx
lynn2009
05-16-2015, 12:55 PM
Not petty, walked to my car today to find someone has 'hit and run'.
SweetJulia
05-16-2015, 01:17 PM
Not petty, walked to my car today to find someone has 'hit and run'.
Ugh, so sorry-please tell me you have full coverage?
lynn2009
05-16-2015, 01:46 PM
.......
kaninchen
05-16-2015, 01:51 PM
I think I must have developed an allergy to men because lately I find them utterly intolerable.
Aniela
05-16-2015, 02:28 PM
I know this will probably get me a lot of flak but IDGAF -- my annoyances today are drug users (including pot -- yes it is a drug) & extras girls in the clubs. I don't care how they try to justify it. Just, GAH.
Selina M
05-16-2015, 04:37 PM
^ Right, ones that are blatantly about it... Ugh. I thought this board was pretty obviously completely anti-extras and that people who were into it would show themselves the door.
Mine: Might just drop one of my friends. She puts out nothing but negative energy, and I'm thoroughly convinced that that's why her life is always difficult. She makes really fucking stupid choices 90% of the time, and I never say anything nasty.
She, however, shits on basically EVERYTHING. She has some thing about that if you get married before dating for 7 years, you WILL get divorced, actually told me she'd say "I told you so". Needless to say, she did not congratulate me on my engagement. Yet, she can date a guy for 5 years who does not have any ambition whatsoever, can barely pay the bills, and have a kid with him and THAT'S better than marrying someone. Last I checked, a kid stuck you to it's father for 18 years... I can at least get a divorce.
Then she's put up a GoFundMe for going to dental hygiene school. It's like a $1500 deposit. After nobody bit, and the bank denied her for a loan, I suggested she dance... even if she absolutely sucked ass at it, she'd still make the deposit in a month. Her response was "I have a kid. I don't want to tell him his mother did that."
What the actual fuck. HER mother danced to support her. She and bf go to strip clubs. Yet she's too good for it? I'm sorry, I can't hear that bullshit over the sound of my toppling-over stack of savings that could pay for her whole program. Pfft sorry, I'm too good to beg my family and friends to pay for my school.
xStacey
05-16-2015, 04:47 PM
When you do your best to ignore certain people but they don't get the message and keep trying to get you to ackowledge their existence. *cough* some girls at work
DonaDiabla
05-16-2015, 11:11 PM
Crappy fetish guys who do not understand what being a findom slave is. Those assholes beg for a contract and to serve me. Then they complain after spending only 500 dollars in one week.Is it my fault that they choose to buy some of the most expensive items off my wishlist to buy? Nope! Dumbasses should have paced themselves for my brand of financial domination.
Naida
05-17-2015, 08:32 AM
God damned fucking headache, sore neck, and this nausea that's persisted off and on for weeks. Judging from the twitching on the back of my ribs that just started, I probably need a muscle relaxer instead of the naproxen I just took. FML.
And this guy I've been talking to just blows my mind. I can't believe we sexted again last night even though I've been trying to make it very clear that we will not sleep together! Why does he have to be hot enough to weaken my resolve? Part of me hopes that, during my visit in a few months, he'll be just as enticingly forward and persistent; part of me is just like "nope, nope, nope - I don't care how gentlemanly it is to give me your bed, I'm going to sleep on the couch so there's zero possibility we'll end up in it together."
KikiGem
05-17-2015, 09:26 AM
Date last night with potential SD was lame and embarrassing. He took food off my plate, and when the food came he told the server to cut out a portion of my food and give it to him.
He was annoyed by a guy who was talking loudly so he told our sweetheart waitress that it was going to "affect her tip" to which I immediately said "no, no, he's joking!" I was so embarrassed I couldn't believe he would tip her less because of some other patron talking a little loudly. And that he actually said this.
Then, he was I guess tired of listening to said guy so he yells from our table "we can hear you!" My jaw almost fell on the floor, I was shocked and embarrassed and so was the other table, who had about 6 people.
He said he had a big surprise for me, so the waitress brought us a dessert menu, and congratulated me on finishing school. I haven't finished school and he knows this. Apparently he wrote it on the reservation? So I think he orchestrated this lie that he used me for to get a free dessert and that was my "big surprise"? He didn't even order his own and we shared-bleh, gross, I hated this. Get your own, don't steal half a girl's cheesecake!
Oh and he ordered for me, even though I didn't tell him exactly what I wanted, but it was obvious he did it so that I would get the cheapest and smallest version of the meal.
He was just so lame, so gross, and so awful. I don't know if he actually got the dessert for free but the fact that he tried to by lying about a fake graduation is pretty fucking questionable to say the least. And it was planned in advance, who does that? And putting me on the spot cause I felt I had to roll with it.
And he didn't even discuss allowance, not even a number, just said it "depends" on time and whatever and other BS to dodge the question. He didnt really ask about me; most of the evening he droned on with his own stories. So many strikes. Ugh I don't think I can do this sugar thing much longer. I think it's really a waste of time.
zoezoebelle
05-17-2015, 10:26 AM
I keep having to pee. :( Too stiff from last night to get up.
miss.a.p1600
05-17-2015, 10:55 AM
What bothers me about drugs is people who are reckless like driving intoxicated or sharing dirty needles or ruining their lives or other people's lives to get the next fix.
Speaking of drugs. I get annoyed seeing bums on the corner asking for money. I wonder can't they get help at a food bank or homeless shelter or are they going to use the money they get from passerby to score some drugs?
zoezoebelle
05-17-2015, 11:00 AM
Speaking of drugs. I get annoyed seeing bums on the corner asking for money. I wonder can't they get help at a food bank or homeless shelter or are they going to use the money they get from passerby to score some drugs?
I have great compassion for people, even strangers on the street, and I never give money to homeless people. If someone is begging on the street, clearly they have a very poor concept of how to manage their money and their life to begin with. Give a homeless person money and there is a chance they'll buy drugs, or beer, or any number of stupid things, and the best possible scenario is that they buy food instead of eating free food offered by the state - pointless. Nobody starves to death from purely being homeless in this country. Most of the people who are on the street (and I've talked with a LOT of current and former homeless folks) know that there are programs out there and make a conscious decision to stay homeless instead. I do sometimes donate money to nonprofits which offer housing and jobs to the homeless, though, because I think that's of much greater use to everyone.
lynn2009
05-17-2015, 12:19 PM
That's a pretty general statement...plenty of people lose their homes due to layoffs, medical bills, other issues that are out of their control. I'm very financially responsible but even I couldn't live off of my savings for longer than 4 months. A large proportion of homeless people suffer serious medical illness. I mean people do need to take care of themselves but I try not to judge individuals.
That said I don't give money on the street either & apologies for the thread jack.
zoezoebelle
05-17-2015, 01:04 PM
If I were laid off and had issues which were out of my control, I would walk to the nearest police station, tell them of my problem, and they would inform me of the various options (local shelters, group homes, emergency assistance, housing authority, etc.) and I would move from there. Having worked in nonprofit, I happen to know that there are dozens of such programs in every state which could prevent literally anyone from being on the street. The exception to the rule is those suffering from things like schizophrenia, but even in those cases money is not going to help them one bit. Call the police and they will take said mentally ill person to a hospital. God help them because our mental health care system in the US is atrocious, but it's better than leaving them there with a $5 bill.
kaninchen
05-17-2015, 01:10 PM
^ Right, ones that are blatantly about it... Ugh. I thought this board was pretty obviously completely anti-extras and that people who were into it would show themselves the door.
Mine: Might just drop one of my friends. She puts out nothing but negative energy, and I'm thoroughly convinced that that's why her life is always difficult. She makes really fucking stupid choices 90% of the time, and I never say anything nasty.
She, however, shits on basically EVERYTHING. She has some thing about that if you get married before dating for 7 years, you WILL get divorced, actually told me she'd say "I told you so". Needless to say, she did not congratulate me on my engagement. Yet, she can date a guy for 5 years who does not have any ambition whatsoever, can barely pay the bills, and have a kid with him and THAT'S better than marrying someone. Last I checked, a kid stuck you to it's father for 18 years... I can at least get a divorce.
Then she's put up a GoFundMe for going to dental hygiene school. It's like a $1500 deposit. After nobody bit, and the bank denied her for a loan, I suggested she dance... even if she absolutely sucked ass at it, she'd still make the deposit in a month. Her response was "I have a kid. I don't want to tell him his mother did that."
What the actual fuck. HER mother danced to support her. She and bf go to strip clubs. Yet she's too good for it? I'm sorry, I can't hear that bullshit over the sound of my toppling-over stack of savings that could pay for her whole program. Pfft sorry, I'm too good to beg my family and friends to pay for my school.
I was about to say some not-nice things about this lady until I saw that you're considering keeping her as a friend. So in that case I'll just leave it at, "Bless her heart!"
Selina M
05-17-2015, 02:00 PM
^ Bahaha! I have decided otherwise! We just get into too many spats/disagreements about things, and I'm tired of having a friendship where I have to realize that I can't voice my true opinion on anything 'major' without her disagreeing. I don't think I can be friends with someone who disagrees with me on so many things.
So please, go right ahead, I'm now curious what the things were!
Keeping with petty annoyances: I don't understand why people, like the aforementioned person, don't have the balls to pull themselves out of shitty scenarios. I also don't get why they place themselves in the scenario to begin with. They just whine and bitch about it, and blame everything but themselves.
Like, this chick had already had one baby that died on arrival, like 5 months premature. The Dr then told her she had a blood issue and would not be able to carry a kid anywhere near full term... and she kept trying! They had another one, who was 4 months premature, and is SO lucky he isn't disabled. That was so unbelievably selfish; I would never try to get pregnant if I knew the kid would likely be mentally challenged. They knew they couldn't afford this kid, she was only 21 and made $10/hr, and yet still did it. Now she can't work 2 jobs bc she's gotta take care of him, and then refuses to suck it up and dance or cam for a few weeks, to get out of the situation... and instead bitches and moans on FB about how the universe hates her.
KikiGem
05-18-2015, 03:31 PM
Went upstairs for ten minutes and came back to find my coffee dumped out. Ugh, annoying!
Selina M
05-18-2015, 04:08 PM
What do you MEAN I can't use a Mac for my online class? Why in God's name are you still using websites only compatible with Internet Explorer?
zoezoebelle
05-18-2015, 05:43 PM
What do you MEAN I can't use a Mac for my online class? Why in God's name are you still using websites only compatible with Internet Explorer?
http://internet-explorer-for-mac.en.softonic.com/mac
Here ya go. Don't despair! :) They make it mac compatible.
Selina M
05-18-2015, 05:55 PM
^ Thanks! I actually Googled it and found out how to make Safari run as IE. I can't believe I called the tech dept and they had zero suggestions except "Um... go to the library to do the class?"
kaninchen
05-18-2015, 06:08 PM
Selina: She sounds like she has a classic bully mindset. Her own life is upsetting and dissatisfying, so she lashes out at you to feel better about it. Like, "Well, I may have made poor decisions and am now broke, saddled with responsibilities I can't handle, and essentially my life is over before it really started... But at least I'm not a stripper!"
People like that will always be my petty annoyance, lol.
zoezoebelle
05-18-2015, 06:22 PM
Most girls would be overjoyed to be dating someone rich and successful, so I've been trying to figure out why a part of me is so damn moody. And I realised that I'm really fucking jealous of him. I never wanted to be here. I never wanted to be dancing and flirting for money, never wanted to wear fucking pink and giggle like a schoolgirl, never wanted to be surrounded by rich guys. I want what he has, but I want to earn it.
Ever since I was a little girl I dreamed of being successful. I thought I'd be a famous musician or an artist, or a scientist or a businesswoman. I was in such a shitty school district that we didn't even have a public library, so I read every sci-fi book on my mom's tiny shelf. When I got to middle school I read books on psychology, in high school I read books on business and tried pathetically to catch up on some classics. I browsed the internet and memorised common Latin prefixes and suffixes, learned about foreign culture through documentaries and magazines, learned about physics and neuroscience and philosophy and history through Wikipedia. I taught myself web design, graphic design, copy writing, marketing, read dozens of books on business and advertising. I started working on projects for my portfolio when I was 16. I visited local agencies, did a lot of networking, went to all those stupid conferences and networking events and seminars. I was on the Dean's List every year in community college. My professors all thought I was destined to be in NYC, and so did I.
Now here I am, working at a strip club just to pay the bills, and all my friends and even my boyfriend think I'm some pampered little princess who works 10 hours a week and lives a life of leisure, being flown around the world. But I never wanted this. I still don't want this. I want to be in an office somewhere struggling for the next five years to get that $5/hr raise while doing boring tasks as a low-level assistant. But I can't even sit up straight at all right now because my back has been hurting for the past three days. I want to be applying to Wharton for my masters. Just the thought of being some idle sugar babe makes me want to scream and hit things. I don't know what to do.
Aurora_Sunset
05-18-2015, 08:24 PM
I ordered a tv show from Amazon on the same day that I ordered 3 other things. Everything else has been delivered except these DVDs and they were the reason I went on there in the first place! I want to binge watch my show.:'(
Aurora_Sunset
05-19-2015, 10:26 AM
Every online resource I've been trying to use to learn things lately has been glitching like crazy. I sit down to devote a full hour of my undivided attention to learning and spend 45 minutes trying to get around the glitches and search for different information elsewhere. I learn nothing, and even the stuff I do get through, I don't retain, because it was so sporadic and I was stressed and pissed off the entire time trying to get through it.