View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Marina Starr
03-13-2022, 02:19 PM
If you have maintenance, comcast guys etc coming to your house, always leave the windows, doors open especially if you're the only one home. Pull the curtains open and let the sun in :).
I wouldn't tell them you're home alone even if you were.
This roofer next door ended up on my porch and asked me in a confused way “Hi, ummm is anyone else home?” Like that’s a way to get yourself raped. So I stood there saying “ummmm…no.” Loll he then awkwardly said “are you the owner of this house?” Lol this MF-er thought I was too young to be owning this house when all I cared about was not being assaulted and burglarized LOLLL.
WendiStarr
03-13-2022, 04:53 PM
I started my first day at a remote vanilla job. Even though it's data entry, I underestimated how difficult getting any work done would be with a 2 year old and a 3 week old. My 3 week old at least naps in 2 hour increments throughout the day and night but my 2 year old doesn't always nap. She also is destructive as heck like a human tornado. I was only able to put in 4 hours of work so far today because it has been nonstop of her making messes or bugging me. She hit a button and it caused all my work to erase(I now automatically save my work every time I input any new data). I don't make enough $ right now to afford childcare. I'm hoping my 2 year old will go to sleep early tonight so I can get more work done. I'm feeling overwhelmed today.
LoveyD
03-13-2022, 05:48 PM
I don't know what it is about these cunts that work the deli counter.
They have a serious attitude problem.
The men workers ALWAYS treat me better.
It doesn't matter the supermarket.
Hi end, low end, etc. So rude!
I stopped going. Had my own boycott going on.
It's been over a year. I was hungry one night driving home from a Christmas event.
I decided to stop at the cuntiess ( is that a word?) place of them all.
I was pleasantly surprised and shocked at how sweet and accommodating the deli cunt was.
Like, EXTRA nice.
It felt so good that I wanted to cry.
Why can't they always be like that?
I complimented her on it, and would have tipped her if she took tips.
I just don't get it.
I'm never demanding.
I see how they treat men, and it's quite the opposite.
Ugh the men are nice to me. The deli bitches are just that. Bitches. Like if I ask them to slice turkey for my Instacart customer, they act like I I have some nerve to ask them for help.
Dreamqueen
03-13-2022, 10:40 PM
I love that you completely spelled out cunts. I freely say it online and in person. I've called plenty of bitches CUNTS to their face when it's called for and there's absolutely nothing they would dare do about it. The reaction from other folks if they heard it is hilarious. The place would be completely silence as if I'm holding the Bible to the Devil, lmao!
USA vanilla cunts are pretty much shocked when they're called that because it's such a bad word in this country. I bet no one ever called them that to their face.
I totally agreed with deli cunts but some bakery cunts can be cunty too. You would think they'd be so happy and helpful with all the sugar high.
I don't have one specific way to handle them, it depends on the situation and how nasty they are but one thing for sure I REQUIRED good treatment and NO disrespect.
Ugh the men are nice to me. The deli bitches are just that. Bitches. Like if I ask them to slice turkey for my Instacart customer, they act like I I have some nerve to ask them for help.
56865
Cunt is my favorite word. Also Chanel.
I had a custom tank top made.
I'm thinking maybe I should wear it next time I go to the deli. Lol
Marina Starr
03-14-2022, 07:38 AM
This shirt will get a lot of panties twisted!
Cunt is my favorite word. Also Chanel.
I had a custom tank top made.
I'm thinking maybe I should wear it next time I go to the deli. Lol
whirlerz
03-14-2022, 09:09 AM
56865
Cunt is my favorite word. Also Chanel.
I had a custom tank top made.
I'm thinking maybe I should wear it next time I go to the deli. Lol
LOVE the shirt!!!
carmen_b
03-14-2022, 04:32 PM
The deli counter being out of fajitas is really ruining my life at the moment lol.
If anyone has a meal idea that comes fully ready in a ziplock bag that takes 8 minutes in a pan .......
Secret Shelly
03-14-2022, 07:44 PM
My dishwasher stopped working at 11 last night...things break I can deal with that, but does it have to happen when I already couldn't keep my eyes opened?
WendiStarr
03-15-2022, 10:10 AM
Annoyed at vanilla job. At first they slammed me with a lot of work. Then they over hired a ton of people and now I have to sit there checking for any work in the queue, all throughout the day and night and try to grab it whenever I see any work. Of course a lot of work comes in at nighttime at 10pm or later when I'm trying to get all kids to sleep ànd am tired myself. I only had 20 minutes worth of work so far today. I get paid by the work, not by the hour so I'm going to have to find another job in addition to this and OF.
Marina Starr
03-15-2022, 10:29 AM
So I drove my ass today to pollo tropical because I just wanted some plantains. Got there and was told they're closed inside orders. Online orders and drive thru only.
What the actual fuck?
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 10:58 AM
I am so sick of L trying to force his kids on me.
I agreed to take off two days during his parenting time since he made them stay with their mom this past weekend so I got a break.
We are all going to the same place, hanging out for a couple hours, coming back to the same house, so that should be enough right.
NO he wants everyone to ride in the same car.
Um NO! I don’t do “packed like sardines” in a car. Not in a pandemic and not ever if I can afford to do so.
Look L if/when I need to leave you I will - so keep those raises coming (so you can afford a bigger vehicle) and STOP trying to involve your kids because I don’t get attached to men or kids (especially if the men aren’t enriching my life and if I don’t have any input/no money given to help raise said kids). I will not raise yours and Berthas kids for free which is what you are trying to do.
Focus on Getting A Raise instead forcing relationships that might not even exist in the future.
#tooprettytoworkforfree
#getaraise
#getaclueorgetleftinthedust
#sugardaddyonstandby
#yourreplacementwilltakeoveryourjobasamanifyoudont stepup
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 11:27 AM
^ Say you have an errand near the destination that the kids would find annoying.
Ride solo and get 45 minutes to yourself for said “ errand “ lol!
I have pulled that myself at times to break up the day / time when we are all together all day.
My partner will also drink and make me drive back lol !
Sometimes ( usually ) it’s fine but at times I’m just like “ no “.
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 11:39 AM
^Thank you that's a great tip. You and the other ladies here helped me realize I can assert my boundaries. Especially when they are reasonable.
I literally just said "NO - we are all together for 48+ hrs so let's not harp on the minor details"
Plus I have avoided Coronavirus thus far - I REFUSE to let anyone (even my own partner) get me to compromise my safety precautions or compromise on my feelings/visions of abundant lifestyle.
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 11:47 AM
^ That's a great answer.
If you are together two days there is nothing wrong with taking a half day each day ( or whatever you feel is good ) as a duration to yourself.
There is nothing written in stone saying " in order to be a good person you need to let people annoy you until you are ready to tear out your hair and scream ".
L should actually appreciate this. Maybe he can learn to.
When you assert these things you don't become exhausted / frumpy.
Hopefully THAT is something he can appreciate.
In fact today I haven't seen J and daughter. They are skiing. When they come back around 5 I'll be gone to see a indy film / sit in a post film discussion.
I will see them tomorrow.
indiegirl
03-15-2022, 02:52 PM
I'm bitter I had to spend 1,720 on electrical repairs today. This was given at a discount too. Honestly it would be cheaper to just bulldoze an old house and start with brand new everything. They were surprised my house didn't burn down all this time from how dangerous the wiring was in the attic.
I have all brand new electrical equipment including outlets. Plus my internet is now up and running with the new internet providers. I'm pleased despite having to spend that type of money.
Morrigan
03-15-2022, 03:41 PM
slowness. Its not just on SP that's slow for me right now, its everything. The day itself? the people and life around me? going too slow. its making me anxious and stupidly impatient with everyone:smiley_sa
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 04:38 PM
This is going to sound mean.
I will probably delete it.
I wish J would quit sending me photos and updates from the ski day. Ha.
I hooked him up and traded a day for my AirBnB with someone who has a condo on the mountain.
Take the sweet score haha. I got everything I wanted ( a quiet house for exactly 26 hours ).
I don't really need the pictures of this very bulky / very expensive / time sucking / annoying hobby.
Yeah ..... will probably delete later ha. :)
I can feel my bitch energy coming out as I'm writing but leaving it for now haha.
whirlerz
03-15-2022, 04:49 PM
I'm bitter I had to spend 1,720 on electrical repairs today. This was given at a discount too. Honestly it would be cheaper to just bulldoze an old house and start with brand new everything. They were surprised my house didn't burn down all this time from how dangerous the wiring was in the attic.
I have all brand new electrical equipment including outlets. Plus my internet is now up and running with the new internet providers. I'm pleased despite having to spend that type of money.
Wow, too bad you're not here, I'd have hooked you up w/my crushie, he's an electrician. :)
Electrical is mad expensive tho, glad everything is straight.
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 05:01 PM
Well Carmen I’m probably going to sound mean myself but L making minimal effort of pulling in more financially is wearing on me.
We are supposed to have this outing and I purchased a $40 gift card and he got a $60 gift card.
He wanted to have everyone also eat meals there at the venue which probably would take another round of gift cards. I suggested to just eat at home because it’s cheaper and more affordable.
So now I think if he expects me to cook then he needs to buy the groceries.
He tried to run out of work and over to Berthas to pick up those kids before I could make sure he came back with food.
Bruh if ya next stop isn’t a grocery store - everyone in that bitch can starve. If you don’t want to take those kids to the store then give me your credit card for an online order.
Otherwise - if I am paying to take care of your kids and you are taking time away from my work, then you will get yet another “disappearance” and pussy is closed until further notice.
#payup
#aintno50/50here
#paytoplay
#
whirlerz
03-15-2022, 05:06 PM
I hope you find something, Wendi dear, best to you & your kiddos.
Wth wrong w/these companies, jeez.
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 06:26 PM
Wait Miss P
He suggested you go 40/60 on this $100 event ?
I probably would have thrown the $40 gift card at him. :/
miss.a.p1600
03-15-2022, 06:56 PM
^well the $40 was a gift from Christmas. I thought he’d use it towards a day at entertainment center to take his kids out when I needed alone time. He suggested purchasing more on his own accord so we could all go. :/
I’m just a little pissed he didn’t offer to pay 100% for the groceries to cook the meal and was playing around about it.
I said clearly “can you get the ingredients”
Then he calls me like “do you need me to get them” so I interpret it as “I can only afford to get x number of items, can you get the rest so I don’t have to pay extra” because I already asked him to get them so why is he asking me again?
I could be totally wrong in my assumption (or I could be right)
But either way here I am getting my ingredients (I eat healthier than they to but I still expected him to get ALL the groceries - my healthy ones and his and his kids junk ones - especially if I am expected to cook and clean) AND taking my sweet time while I do so.
Pussy on lockdown for the next several days.
carmen_b
03-15-2022, 07:00 PM
It sounds like it's less about the groceries and more that he won't get out of your damn hair ( with the gift you bought in order to do so ).
I'm sure he *knows* too at some level you hoped he would get them out of the house and give you a break with that card.
:/
I feel sorry for everyone with kids or step kids right now haha. Spring break ( unless you planned a trip specific to the dates ) is SO hard. If you didn't plan to get out of town it is a challenge.
indiegirl
03-15-2022, 11:12 PM
I HATE ENGLISH class. I have 100% in the classes that actually matter and a 99.8% but here comes fucking English. I got an 84% on a quiz. Inexcusable!!! Also, I did not read or study for it because I think that class doesn't matter :)........soooooooo it's kind of on me to bring myself back to an A. And I know I will....
Edit: Scratch this, I'm at 91 in the class. Bahaha just checked. Well oh well, I still want to raise my grade lol.
I had absolutely no time today to study because of all the chaos of house repairs for 6 hours and 30 minutes and being without internet access for it.
God this class is boring. Save me! Lol
Secret Shelly
03-16-2022, 05:31 AM
^^^English was my least favorite class in high school...i always told my friend to kick me every few minutes to make sure I didn't fall asleep lol
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 06:14 AM
I don't know what it is about coffee that makes me pee so much the first couple hours.
indiegirl
03-16-2022, 06:42 AM
I don't know what it is about coffee that makes me pee so much the first couple hours.
Because it's a diuretic. Hahaha coffee makes me poop. I used to enjoy drinking coffee before going to the gym so I could blow up their bathroom and have a "full body cleanse" before or during a gym workout hahaha.
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 08:01 AM
I want to cook and eat something but absolutely no idea what. I hate being so indecisive.
~Carmen~
03-16-2022, 03:53 PM
I want to cook and eat something but absolutely no idea what. I hate being so indecisive.
I have been on a breakast kick. It doesn't matter what time it is. Eggs with hashbrowns or french toast. I had not had french toast in ages.
Marina Starr
03-16-2022, 05:54 PM
Now you're making me crave french toast, pancakes with lots of butter and maple syrup. There's a place by my house that only serve breakfast and lunch. I meant to order from them but always forgot.
I have been on a breakast kick. It doesn't matter what time it is. Eggs with hashbrowns or french toast. I had not had french toast in ages.
~Carmen~
03-16-2022, 06:42 PM
Now you're making me crave french toast, pancakes with lots of butter and maple syrup. There's a place by my house that only serve breakfast and lunch. I meant to order from them but always forgot.
Real maple syrup is like liquid gold but much better than that high fructose corn syrup crap.
Likethis
03-17-2022, 04:57 AM
I hate it when I buy something new to eat or drink and then it turns out it's horrible and I just can't force it down my throat. I feel like this has been happening a lot lately and it's so annoying when you've spent the money and it's not only not as good as you thought it would be but way worse.
ravenskyy
03-17-2022, 06:57 AM
I love looking at new cars, but the process of shopping for one is miserable. The literal second you inquire about a vehicle or put in an application, these sales people hound you. Multiple times a day, every day. I just put in my interest for a car, and I've had 4 emails, 2 texts and 4 phone calls within 24 hours. And I already set an appointment to see the car! Why do you need to keep bothering me??? I said I'm coming by! lol I hate car dealerships and sales people. Like damn, let a bitch look!
LoveyD
03-17-2022, 07:21 AM
I hate it when I buy something new to eat or drink and then it turns out it's horrible and I just can't force it down my throat. I feel like this has been happening a lot lately and it's so annoying when you've spent the money and it's not only not as good as you thought it would be but way worse.
Ugh, been having this issue, too. I do not like wasting food and can't bear to throw it away knowing that so many ppl are suffering from homelessness. But I don't want to eat the food if it's gross. Yeah we can always return it but that's a hassle, too. Goddamn it why can't people make food taste good in the first place??.
Marina Starr
03-17-2022, 07:53 AM
Same! What I hate even more is when I try to cook something new and it turned out horrible. Wasted all that money and time for nothing.
Do you cook? Maybe you can cook something enough for the day you cook and next day. I cannot eat the same food after that.
I don't eat out much but when I do, I will get something that I know I'll like such as Chick Fil A or this great mom and pop place close by.
Speaking of cooking, I'm making egg rolls again today. I know I made them last week or so but I don't care. I love it so much.
]I hate it when I buy something new to eat or drink and then it turns out it's horrible and I just can't force it down my throat. [/B]I feel like this has been happening a lot lately and it's so annoying when you've spent the money and it's not only not as good as you thought it would be but way worse.
carmen_b
03-17-2022, 08:10 AM
^ I do the same.
Try to cook enough for two meals ( one plus a left over ) .
It's boring to eat the 2nd one but can save $.
carmen_b
03-17-2022, 08:12 AM
My partner gets burned by fancy drinks doing this haha.
Sometimes we find a great one. Other times we waste $16-$18 ha.
I'll keep it simple with drinks. Diet coke with a little whiskey in it . That is a zero chance of fucking it up drink.
I hate it when I buy something new to eat or drink and then it turns out it's horrible and I just can't force it down my throat. I feel like this has been happening a lot lately and it's so annoying when you've spent the money and it's not only not as good as you thought it would be but way worse.
miss.a.p1600
03-17-2022, 08:50 AM
I love looking at new cars, but the process of shopping for one is miserable. The literal second you inquire about a vehicle or put in an application, these sales people hound you. Multiple times a day, every day. I just put in my interest for a car, and I've had 4 emails, 2 texts and 4 phone calls within 24 hours. And I already set an appointment to see the car! Why do you need to keep bothering me??? I said I'm coming by! lol I hate car dealerships and sales people. Like damn, let a bitch look!
That’s ALL salespeople
They know the likelihood of people buying is right after the inquire and they don’t want to risk letting customers go to the next dealership.
Try not to get too mad and blow up on them (unless the act unprofessional) because it’s part of their job to follow up.
I’m probably going to use some sort of online shopping or something to keep from being constantly contacted by car salesman when I get my next one.
whirlerz
03-17-2022, 10:58 AM
Ravenskyy : I used, (my last car purchase 3yrs
ago) carvana, cars.com,there's a bunch of sites. I wasn't contacted by anyone, maybe an email or 2.
It cuts down on that. You can put in your criteria, which is nice, for me: hatchback, small car, 1 or 2 previous owners, etc.
carmen_b
03-17-2022, 10:59 AM
I’m like you Raven.
That’s a large purchase. I wouldn’t decide the same day either.
LoveyD
03-17-2022, 08:59 PM
I lost my gym lock. Now I have to buy a new one. Hopefully I'll find it tomorrow when I do laundry. Wah.
TheBrownFox
03-18-2022, 08:17 PM
Retweeting my "I'm online now" tweet a whole day later is kind of silly...and a waste, imo. *Facepalm* Now all these people seeing that are gonna think they can catch me online right now. And that's a big fat NOPE. I worked all day today as the Easter bunny, and I'm NOT getting on cam for anyone tonight. I am chillin'. I appreciate the effort and all, but next time try retweeting my post the same day. Lol.
LoveyD
03-18-2022, 08:37 PM
Shit. I didn't realize it until I got back to safe parking, but I accidentally forgot to deliver a bag of produce to one of my customers. I kept a jumbo avocado and put the rest out on the table in the community area so that people can take what they need. So far, they've taken the nectarines, the garlic, and onions. Only thing left is a cucumber and green onions.
Fuck...I hope I don't get fired. This isn't the first time ..
whirlerz
03-19-2022, 07:48 AM
I lost my gym lock. Now I have to buy a new one. Hopefully I'll find it tomorrow when I do laundry. Wah.
Once I moved my storage, (same facility, bigger room) I was rushing, the one guy upstairs was supposed to help, around that time, his gf was starting to move in w)him (I didn't know) so he'd reneged on helping me, he did somewhat, but I was mostly done by then>:(
Anyway, lost my f'n lock in the move (found it later) after I'd spent 15.00 for a lock from facility, I had to have it right away, no places around to buy.:(
indiegirl
03-19-2022, 07:57 AM
Lol I made sure I wished my narcissistic dad a happy birthday. He decided to completely ignore me and text my sister instead on the East Coast complaining how she never texted him and told her all the people who contacted him to wish him happy birthday. Lol nobody owes this man anything. Even relatives give him shit for never even talking to his own kids. So recently he's tried to get together with each of us individually and face time relatives during it to prove to them "he cares".....hahaha.
I kinda lost it and texted him "Be a Better Father" on his very own birthday later in the day LOL. Still no response.
miss.a.p1600
03-19-2022, 10:05 AM
^ Narcissistic dads are all too familiar
They neglect their kids (unless kids are on track to be rich and famous and can bring them supply), play the kids against each other, they are slick as hell, and when all else fails - after people discover their manipulation tactics and refuse to play into it - they act like victims to draw attention to themselves
LoveyD
03-19-2022, 11:48 AM
^^Narcs are the worst. Especially on their birthdays, or *your* birthday.
indiegirl
03-19-2022, 11:52 AM
^ Narcissistic dads are all too familiar
They neglect their kids (unless kids are on track to be rich and famous and can bring them supply), play the kids against each other, they are slick as hell, and when all else fails - after people discover their manipulation tactics and refuse to play into it - they act like victims to draw attention to themselves
God damnnnn the damage narcissists do to their kids long term. It almost makes me angry my mom put up with it thinking it was "for the best financially." We all got screwed up because of it, mom! You should've just left him!!!
LoveyD
03-19-2022, 11:56 AM
God damnnnn the damage narcissists do to their kids long term. It almost makes me angry my mom put up with it thinking it was "for the best financially." We all got screwed up because of it, mom! You should've just left him!!!
My mother was afraid to leave bc my narc father would've killed us.
When I left my ex narc, I was nearly murdered. Thank God/dess for intervening!
Wish my mother left him, too. The Universe would've had our backs.
It really does mess you up.
indiegirl
03-19-2022, 12:23 PM
My mother was afraid to leave bc my narc father would've killed us.
When I left my ex narc, I was nearly murdered. Thank God/dess for intervening!
Wish my mother left him, too. The Universe would've had our backs.
It really does mess you up.
So true, my mom said "I couldn't leave you guys alone in a custody battle with him." She was so right knowing she married an attorney. Nobody spends 8 years in divorce court unless they are married to my father.