View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
LoveyD
03-27-2022, 08:34 AM
I had a cucumber avocado roll last night. Hit the spot.
carmen_b
03-27-2022, 08:48 AM
I feel kind of agitated because I feel like I can't *fit* dancing smoothly into my schedule.
It seems like I am just FORCING it in every time .
Did anyone else fade out like that ..... like .... all of a sudden it was just too much to fit in with other things going on ?
I can't decide what to do in the next few days. Do I call it good and not go because I hit my monthly goal already or do I go to get ahead ?
If I could just teleport there , be automatically ready, and be guaranteed $500 or more haha ........
Genoveve
03-27-2022, 10:01 AM
^^ I find Walmart huge and overwhelming, too.
And god forbid if towards the end of my shopping I realize I forgot something, I just leave because I ain’t walking alllllll the way back for it. And forget about going in Home Depot; the reason I can handle Walmart is because I know the whole layout of the store so it’s easy for me to find everything I need. I would be helpless in a H.D. I actually need some wood cut soon too…. :'(
Marina Starr
03-27-2022, 11:59 AM
I am a huge Walmart hoe. I don't find it overwhelming because I'm so familiar with the layout of the one I go to. I get so many things at Walmart but lately all my clothes are from there.
I love their clothes because I love how they fit me. Makes me smile everytime I get asked where I got this or that. I said Walmart and people have a hard believing, lol.
Now Hoe Depot is another story, I have never dealt with so many useless men. When I asked where I can find one single fucking thing, I get dudes after dudes asking me what I need help with.
They don't listen because they're too distracted with checking me out. LMAO when I went there at 6am with full hoe makeup on, I'm sure it's not something they normally see and got so much stares. They probably think, 'what the fuck is this Hoe doing here? This ain't The Hoe Depot'.
^^ I find Walmart huge and overwhelming, too. But I love it bc everything is so cheap. And I only go in mainly for cosmetics and health and beauty, which is in a concentrated area of the store, by the front. But once I start heading back , I start feeling this odd sensation of walking and walking, but not getting anywhere. And it's like I have to sift through aisles and aisles to find one little thing.
Home Depot is huge and overwhelming, too.I had to go there the other day to deliver an InstaFart order. Nearly lost my shit bc I couldn't find the damn office, even after someone gave me directions. I couldn't wait to get out of there.
LoveyD
03-27-2022, 12:20 PM
And god forbid if towards the end of my shopping I realize I forgot something, I just leave because I ain’t walking alllllll the way back for it. And forget about going in Home Depot; the reason I can handle Walmart is because I know the whole layout of the store so it’s easy for me to find everything I need. I would be helpless in a H.D. I actually need some wood cut soon too…. :'(
Haha exactly! If I forget something, it's 'Oh fuck it, I'll just order it from Amazon."
LoveyD
03-27-2022, 12:23 PM
I am a huge Walmart hoe. I don't find it overwhelming because I'm so familiar with the layout of the one I go to. I get so many things at Walmart but lately all my clothes are from there.
I love their clothes because I love how they fit me. Makes me smile everytime I get asked where I got this or that. I said Walmart and people have a hard believing, lol.
Now Hoe Depot is another story, I have never dealt with so many useless men. When I asked where I can find one single fucking thing, I get dudes after dudes asking me what I need help with.
They don't listen because they're too distracted with checking me out. LMAO when I went there at 6am with full hoe makeup on, I'm sure it's not something they normally see and got so much stares. They probably think, 'what the fuck is this Hoe doing here? This ain't The Hoe Depot'.
[email protected] Hoe Depot!
Walmart is way more bearable for me, as long as I stick to familiar territory.
Marina Starr
03-27-2022, 01:04 PM
Probably because there are more testosterones and fuckboys roaming free at The Hoe Depot.
[email protected] Hoe Depot!
Walmart is way more bearable for me, as long as I stick to familiar territory.
charlie61
03-27-2022, 02:42 PM
I feel kind of agitated because I feel like I can't *fit* dancing smoothly into my schedule.
It seems like I am just FORCING it in every time .
Did anyone else fade out like that ..... like .... all of a sudden it was just too much to fit in with other things going on ?
I can't decide what to do in the next few days. Do I call it good and not go because I hit my monthly goal already or do I go to get ahead ?
If I could just teleport there , be automatically ready, and be guaranteed $500 or more haha ........
Yes. I also started to calculate how much time i spend thinking about dancing and getting ready and recovering from shifts compared to the # of hours actually spent making money. It was like a full-time job that wasn't paying like a full-time job.
charlie61
03-27-2022, 10:04 PM
My #1 pet peeve lately is when people say stuff like, "let me know if there's anything i can do to help" when it's obvious that they can't do anything to help. I know they just say it because they don't know what else to say and want to express that they care, but to me, it feels like they're trying to get credit for helping when they've done nothing to help...??
Like I'm supposed to respond with, "okay, thank you!" Nope. I respond by asking, "like what?" just to watch them fumble with their words.
I know that's kind of bitchy. But like, if i have a very specific problem that you can't help with, why are you offering to help...
~Carmen~
03-27-2022, 10:43 PM
^Kind of like relatives who only text you to say Happy Birthday" or "Merry Christmas". You never hear from them the rest of the year.
An impersonal text from family who act like they care. Ugh
miss.a.p1600
03-28-2022, 06:32 AM
My #1 pet peeve lately is when people say stuff like, "let me know if there's anything i can do to help" when it's obvious that they can't do anything to help. I know they just say it because they don't know what else to say and want to express that they care, but to me, it feels like they're trying to get credit for helping when they've done nothing to help...??
Like I'm supposed to respond with, "okay, thank you!" Nope. I respond by asking, "like what?" just to watch them fumble with their words.
I know that's kind of bitchy. But like, if i have a very specific problem that you can't help with, why are you offering to help...
Worse is when men do that shit.
It’s like they’re pretending to be chivalrous knowing good and damn well they can’t / won’t come through on their offer to assist.
Like just sit down and stfu if you know you can’t be of value here.
carmen_b
03-28-2022, 08:02 AM
^ If you need a specialist like a lawyer or tax pro or something for the problem the best they can do is listen to the problem / plan to fix something. :/
carmen_b
03-28-2022, 08:10 AM
I need to get it together. I have felt awful lately . I feel like I have a had a little " mini depression " for 6-7 days and felt so lost as to what to do to get OUT of it.
I know my self care routine was off because of a back issue and having this cold the last week . I guess it'll help to put the self care stuff back onto the calendar . I didn't have the flexibility for yoga with the back pain but I think I'm good now to at least try. I also took massage off the calendar for the same reason ( back issue then worried about getting the person sick ). So I guess that is an obvious fix to just place things you enjoy BACK on the calendar and see where that goes.
I think I'll get back and working with a therapist. I feel angry that I'm not HAPPY with what seems like an easier life than I've had before. Then again ..... maybe it's not so easy to have a partner with a difficult schedule ect. and I should talk some things through with someone.
I think I'm going to grab a paper / pen and write out a " things I enjoy list " ........
miss.a.p1600
03-28-2022, 10:13 AM
I need to get it together. I have felt awful lately . I feel like I have a had a little " mini depression " for 6-7 days and felt so lost as to what to do to get OUT of it.
I know my self care routine was off because of a back issue and having this cold the last week . I guess it'll help to put the self care stuff back onto the calendar . I didn't have the flexibility for yoga with the back pain but I think I'm good now to at least try. I also took massage off the calendar for the same reason ( back issue then worried about getting the person sick ). So I guess that is an obvious fix to just place things you enjoy BACK on the calendar and see where that goes.
I think I'll get back and working with a therapist. I feel angry that I'm not HAPPY with what seems like an easier life than I've had before. Then again ..... maybe it's not so easy to have a partner with a difficult schedule ect. and I should talk some things through with someone.
I think I'm going to grab a paper / pen and write out a " things I enjoy list " ........
I know the feeling.
I thought moving in with a dude and having some financial pressure relieved would make things easier (and it has to some extent) but I feel 'out of it' when I'm so focused on accommodating everyone else (my partners schedule and his parenting schedule etc) when I'd rather just focus on ME and not have the endless obligations to 3 other people if I don't want to.
It sounds kind of douchey but I'm not used to combining lives and the nuances that go along with it.
Since you cancelled massage and yoga, Do you have other self-care routines that you can do in addition to the therapist?
I probably need to go ahead and do the therapy thing. myself - in the meantime I'm going to take some edibles (while everyone is gone, and go for a long walk around the neighborhood) I may hit up the sauna too
whirlerz
03-28-2022, 10:20 AM
Literally, piss, as in the jerk upstairs pissed in a bucket *& left it beside the front door?
I know it was him, as he used to smoke/drink outside in the summer, & would just piss in front of the door of the little house.
GOD, PLEASE gmtfo out of here!
Aurora_Sunset
03-28-2022, 10:30 AM
My microwave suddenly stopped heating. It still runs as though it's doing something, but no heat. It randomly stopped in the middle of me using it to make several bags of the steam-able vegetables. I've never seen a microwave do this before, and I've had some old-ass, janky microwaves.
TheBrownFox
03-28-2022, 10:57 AM
My #1 pet peeve lately is when people say stuff like, "let me know if there's anything i can do to help" when it's obvious that they can't do anything to help. I know they just say it because they don't know what else to say and want to express that they care, but to me, it feels like they're trying to get credit for helping when they've done nothing to help...??
Like I'm supposed to respond with, "okay, thank you!" Nope. I respond by asking, "like what?" just to watch them fumble with their words.
I know that's kind of bitchy. But like, if i have a very specific problem that you can't help with, why are you offering to help...
I hate that shit. And they will often do it on social media (Especially on Facebook) where they have an audience, and people to 'like' their comment and think "Awww, he/she is such a good friend!" Lol.
"Let me know if you need anything." Oh? So if I ask for a ride somewhere, you're NOT gonna roll your eyes and sigh like I'm annoying you?
xxxGothBarbie
03-28-2022, 01:42 PM
^ OR when "friends/family" say you can stay as long as you like then act like a complete bitch to you while you're staying there doing passive aggressive shit to run you out *eyeroll*
My pissy annoyance is from sat night. Bf & I went out to a night club for drinking & dancing since neither of us had gone out at all the whole week & this bitch from around this club scene (that nobody likes) shoved me while I was on the dancefloor. I turned around and shoved her hard right back & she tried to grab my hair but thankfully bf pushed her away from me. She has been seeing me at these clubs and trying to start shit with me by either name calling or physically touching me (shoving/pushing me) & Sat night I'd had enough! She has been known to repeat this behavior before at places with mutual friends of mine for zero reason. It's completely unwarranted.
You don't get to just shove somebody for no reason esp since I've always ignored her. I think she's a spoiled cunt that is angry I don't talk to her so she tries to get me kicked out of places I go when she sees me. I so wanted to throwdown but she's not worth the possible jailtime or trouble I'd get in for defending myself from her. My bf got her kicked out of the club sat night afterwards but I know next time she sees me, she's gonna start her stupid shit again. The most annoying part about ALL of it is she tries to pretend she doesn't remember doing anything or says it was all me when that's a complete lie. I'm pretty tough & usually walk away from most fights but when someone is physically putting hands on me I wanna srsly fight back ugh.
carmen_b
03-28-2022, 05:43 PM
I stopped with a new therapist after two sessions because last time he did this technique of " long pausing " ...... like ...... silent moments to ( I assume ) let me just " speak up " . It felt really off to me but I do feel trust with the person so I am considering making another appt. but maybe asking for a little different style. I think it was off putting to me to not have the person ask a little more ........
moneybags
03-28-2022, 11:16 PM
^^^pineapple support has free or subsidized therapy-they are all sex work friendly.
A good therapist is hard to find. Mine is out of network, so I pay more, but i feel like it’s worth it since she’s a sex worker therapist. I’m pretty psychologically healthy. Most my mental health problems are because of men now n days-that’s messed up. I feel like now n days I go to therapy to cope with people who should be in therapy.
My petty annoyance is doing Taxes! Ugh.
JessaJade
03-29-2022, 01:34 AM
I feel like now n days I go to therapy to cope with people who should be in therapy.
LOL! This might be the best description of therapy in general that I've seen.
~Carmen~
03-29-2022, 03:18 AM
^^^pineapple support has free or subsidized therapy-they are all sex work friendly.
A good therapist is hard to find. Mine is out of network, so I pay more, but i feel like it’s worth it since she’s a sex worker therapist. I’m pretty psychologically healthy. Most my mental health problems are because of men now n days-that’s messed up. I feel like now n days I go to therapy to cope with people who should be in therapy.
My petty annoyance is doing Taxes! Ugh.
Same here! I spent an entire day getting stuff together and printing 2020's taxes. Now they want more stuff that I don't even understand. We are supposed to have a phone call tomorrow. No in person makes it more difficult. She has all my stuff and I don't have copies.
indiegirl
03-29-2022, 04:50 AM
I've been getting up and ready at 4am to avoid one of my roommates so I can immediately leave in the morning while she bangs pots and pans in the kitchen between 6 & 7am. I can't find anything worthwhile on Netflix lately, annoyed that every website nowadays has pop up ads that even adblock plus doesn't catch, and my period is about to start. I'm overall grumpy this morning.
I should be in a good mood because they're giving us free in 'n out burgers at school today but all I want to do instead is get this midterm test over with so I can go home for a nap.
miss.a.p1600
03-29-2022, 05:41 AM
^^^pineapple support has free or subsidized therapy-they are all sex work friendly.
A good therapist is hard to find. Mine is out of network, so I pay more, but i feel like it’s worth it since she’s a sex worker therapist. I’m pretty psychologically healthy. Most my mental health problems are because of men now n days-that’s messed up. I feel like now n days I go to therapy to cope with people who should be in therapy.
My petty annoyance is doing Taxes! Ugh.
Exactly!
one of my exes was a complete narcissist nut job who I had to sue at one point.
i was telling the lawyer about the fucked up shit he was doing in an attempt to cause me emotional duress and the lawyer was like “why don’t you go to therapy”
im like “I was fine until his dumb ass came along meddling in my affairs, stirring up shit, etc and besides that mf needs the therapy more than I do”
I shouldn’t have to pay to cope with a mf who is trying to torment me emotionally each day. He should grow tf up, get a life, and leave me the hell alone!
Try getting a narcissist into therapy though…..
carmen_b
03-29-2022, 07:45 AM
I am bringing back the massage sessions ( probably every two weeks ) and yoga ( 1-2 times a week ) . I definitely have felt like shit in the last 8-10 days and they haven't been on the calendar. I'm sure it won't be an instant fix but it can't hurt obviously to bring them back. My back isn't perfect but it's getting better. I am trying to think of other self care routines also. I should probably do the sauna / shower thing at the gym more. I should probably go back to the beauty school too ( so affordable there for wash / style of hair ).
I'm going to try to place at least one self care hour on my schedule in the next 3-4 days.
I just feel like I have a lot to chat about with the therapist, ha.
I have this phase where I can *kind of* work 20-30 hours a week and be fine but I'm not dealing with it WELL at all wtf ? I can not seem to sort out if I'm ok doing this or if I want to push more for career goals.
I have also been on this weird quick kick I'm like " ugh, I just want my partner and I to be done with everything by 5 p.m. and have it be just US . I NEVER had that. My former partner of 7 years worked in news and worked weird hours. His sleep schedule and misery over it sometimes lacking ALWAYS pressed on us . So I never had this thing anyway. J and I have what I'm describing 3-4 days a week I'd say ..... which should be enough.
Since you cancelled massage and yoga, Do you have other self-care routines that you can do in addition to the therapist?
JGB2009
03-29-2022, 07:55 AM
My top wasn't on my water bottle tight enough and now my bed is wet. Ugh.
Secret Shelly
03-29-2022, 08:17 AM
My annoyance today is men treating the gym like a pickup palace...seriously, your middle aged beer belly smelly self isn't at all interesting to me...like, none...leave me alone!!!
Marina Starr
03-29-2022, 08:26 AM
It's sad that women can't be left alone even at the gym where you are entitled to work on health and fitness.
My annoyance today is men treating the gym like a pickup palace...seriously, your middle aged beer belly smelly self isn't at all interesting to me...like, none...leave me alone!!!
Secret Shelly
03-29-2022, 08:30 AM
It's sad that women can't be left alone even at the gym where you are entitled to work on health and fitness.
especially when you actively are trying to avoid talking to said beer belly guy.
btw, Marina I'm currently going through and liking as many of your posts as I have time to get to :)
Marina Starr
03-29-2022, 08:37 AM
Please do because I'm trying hard to get as many 'thanks' as I possibly can :)
Have you notice that even out of the gym, in public setting it's always the ugly ones that are the most blatant and confident. They assumed just because they find us sexually appealing, that somehow says we are promiscuous and want them too.
especially when you actively are trying to avoid talking to said beer belly guy.
btw, Marina I'm currently going through and liking as many of your posts as I have time to get to :)
Aurora_Sunset
03-29-2022, 08:49 AM
Exactly!
one of my exes was a complete narcissist nut job who I had to sue at one point.
i was telling the lawyer about the fucked up shit he was doing in an attempt to cause me emotional duress and the lawyer was like “why don’t you go to therapy”
im like “I was fine until his dumb ass came along meddling in my affairs, stirring up shit, etc and besides that mf needs the therapy more than I do”
I shouldn’t have to pay to cope with a mf who is trying to torment me emotionally each day. He should grow tf up, get a life, and leave me the hell alone!
Try getting a narcissist into therapy though…..
If you haven't seen him, there is a TikTok creator who is a self-aware and self-professed narcissist who actually DOES go to therapy to cope with his narcissistic tendencies and makes videos about how narcissists think so that other people know how to deal with them. One of his most recent videos was about how he will always be in therapy, because he has 20-30 years of living as an unaware narcissist and you can't instantly deprogram that in a few sessions. He knows that if he stopped going to therapy, he would resort back to his narcissistic ways. So, even if you can get a narcissist to therapy, they always think they can claim being "cured" after a few sessions, but that's nonsense. What they do is use those few therapy sessions to figure out how to be a better, masked narcissist. Anyway, his username is mentalhealness if you wanna check him out.
techqueen
03-29-2022, 08:51 AM
I'm thanking Mother Gaia for the brain she's given me, that i'm able to create a wonderful life in and out of SW and that I don't have to seek approval from randos on the internet. Thank you Thank you Thank you universe!
techqueen
03-29-2022, 12:11 PM
A friend texted me asking how I was, I replied and the answer I got was "Okay". If that's all you've got to say about it then why even ask?! How hard can it be to add something encouraging or whatever? I'm not in the best mood today and that exchange of words didn't help one bit.
Hugs to you! I hate when people do this. It's almost like they're spying on you or something. Or maybe that's just me being paranoid.
LoveyD
03-29-2022, 12:33 PM
I cannot find my Neutrogena Ulta wrinkle retinol serum anywhere, and I don't want to order it on Amazon again. I may try the Cereve brand retinol serum instead.
Genoveve
03-29-2022, 03:51 PM
And forget about going in Home Depot; the reason I can handle Walmart is because I know the whole layout of the store so it’s easy for me to find everything I need. I would be helpless in a H.D. I actually need some wood cut soon too…. :'(
I went. But I had my mommy take me. :ashamed:
xxxGothBarbie
03-29-2022, 06:55 PM
Ugh my crush deleted me off fb. I'm pretty sure it was bc of his dryer sheet a.k.a his gf *eyeroll*
And all bc I'm assuming she saw him conversing with me briefly about lipstick... what a controlling bitch. I hope he dumps her soon.
WendiStarr
03-30-2022, 09:23 AM
I'm over the fakeness on FB that's all for show. I just post pictures of the kids since nobody ever comes to visit. I put #teamnosleep on the picture and of course all the fake people fake caring with their, "let me know when I can babysit", "oh no! Send them over". I feel like commenting like,"Fuck you all! You didn't visit me when I lived 20 minutes away. I always had to come to you. Now that I live an hour away, you know damn well none of you are coming to see us. Also, you know that I've tried unsuccessfully to leave him multiple times and none of you ever came through and actually helped me like you said you would ". When I was in the hospital giving birth I told my mom how abusive he is. Everybody knows but they don't care just because " he seemed nice". I deactivated my FB account again. I'm not going to reactivate it until I'm in a better place.
LoveyD
03-30-2022, 10:11 AM
^^ I don't have a FB because I was stalked at one point. I hate FB. It's phony and gives narcissistic people a platform to post their fakeness and bullshit. I can't even go on there or I get triggered by all the fakeness. I'm sorry Wendi. It sucks having to be your own armadillo in life.
carmen_b
03-30-2022, 07:30 PM
I get back from dinner with my parents at 7:45 expecting J and daughter to be in the TV room ( they usually " settle " by 7:15 for bed by 8:15 ) ......
and at 7:50p.m. see them both wandering around. :(
I'm trying not to overthink because then I'll get stressed out with questions I have such as :
At 9 years old ..... is it normal to " need " J to sit in the room until she falls asleep ? I understand the good routine thing and watching TV for an hour together thing .
I guess I was kind of hoping that she would be over that and phasing that out by now. I have no idea when kids are more independent though. When can they just go up alone and read for 15 min. before bed ? I do think I see him doing shorter phases of sitting in there lately..... I'm hoping anyway.
whirlerz
03-30-2022, 07:54 PM
I'm so sorry, my Wendi, aww.
I wish we lived closer, I'd come visit, my Lovely ladies! :flower:
charlie61
03-30-2022, 09:06 PM
Carmen, i don't even like kids, but i think it's sweet that they want that extra time together, especially since she'll be a teenager in no time and will hate her father's guts for a while. I'd be feeling the same way you're feeling if i were in that situation, but as an outsider, i think it's right for him to put her first and be there for her. Those are formative years.
LoveyD
03-30-2022, 09:06 PM
Dear bitch at safe parking,
Shut the fuck up, stay in your lane, and mind your own goddamn business.
From now on, if any of the weirdos here try to talk with me, I am flat- out ignoring them. Too bad if I come off as rude. I will only be giving the time of day to the people who are in charge of running the program. If that makes me a snob, oh well.
carmen_b
03-30-2022, 09:13 PM
^ Yes, it’s not a huge deal . It’s only 15ish minutes . It just seems excessive lately that he is in the room ( seems like at that age it’s ok to not have a parent there while falling asleep or on way to it soon ). It does irk me when their routine extends past 8:30 but it’s usually wrapped up *about* then.
miss.a.p1600
03-31-2022, 05:31 AM
I get back from dinner with my parents at 7:45 expecting J and daughter to be in the TV room ( they usually " settle " by 7:15 for bed by 8:15 ) ......
and at 7:50p.m. see them both wandering around. :(
I'm trying not to overthink because then I'll get stressed out with questions I have such as :
At 9 years old ..... is it normal to " need " J to sit in the room until she falls asleep ? I understand the good routine thing and watching TV for an hour together thing .
I guess I was kind of hoping that she would be over that and phasing that out by now. I have no idea when kids are more independent though. When can they just go up alone and read for 15 min. before bed ? I do think I see him doing shorter phases of sitting in there lately..... I'm hoping anyway.
Well I’m more like a drill sergeant so you don’t want to know the answer from me
but I’ll give it anyways lol
its good for a nightly bonding but bad because it creates the habit of the kid using the parent as a security blanket. I personally would only do it a couple times a week not every night.
good news is eventually they will outgrow the “dad read me a book before bed so I can fall asleep” and let TikTok be their security blanket at night lol
Kidding about the TikTok thing but you know what I mean. No one wants to ne in high school still scared of the dark and can’t sleep with parental intervention
I think dads tend to coddle their daughters a lot so what you’re seeing is that. But if it were a boy i doubt he’d give two flying fucks about trying to tuck him in and read to him nightly at 9 years old.
to counteract the coddling of probably teach the kids how to do light housekeeping - cook their own food, make their own bed, run laundry, do dishes - all with supervision of course, so your man can realize how independent the kid is start treating her as a budding middle schoolers vs babying her/making her dependent nightly.
Dads be coddling their daughters what else can I say lol - and don’t get me started on the divorced dad guilt which leads to more coddling
miss.a.p1600
03-31-2022, 05:49 AM
^ Yes, it’s not a huge deal . It’s only 15ish minutes . It just seems excessive lately that he is in the room ( seems like at that age it’s ok to not have a parent there while falling asleep or on way to it soon ). It does irk me when their routine extends past 8:30 but it’s usually wrapped up *about* then.
I’d say as long as it’s not every night and he’s not falling asleep in there too then I’d just ignore it and for now. If I were you.
Id switch places with you because L is so clingy he rushes back from whatever he is doing to see what I’m doing and I’m like dude take your time and spend unlimited nightly hours so I can be alone in my solitude
Id rather have him splitting his focus/doting (maybe even coddling) on his kids so I can have my uninterrupted moments of solitude
WendiStarr
03-31-2022, 06:54 AM
I have my 6 week postpartum checkup today and I started what I'm guessing is my first postpartum period this morning. I'm so not in the mood for a pelvic exam right now.
whirlerz
03-31-2022, 07:20 AM
I hope everything goes well for you, Wendi!:hug:
whirlerz
03-31-2022, 07:47 AM
So this girl upstairs, she lives w/her boyfriend, is basically abused..
I was standing by the door looking out, she was in the general bathroom right behind me..
I have my own entrance /bath but there's a hall there off the kitchen where I keep some of my plants..
I guess she got startled coming from bathroom, not expecting me there & said, "EXCUSE ME", loud, so I just said excuse me.
Then, as she's going up the stairs, says, "you should announce yourself?!
Lol, what're you, the Queen here?
I said, " I thought you weren't supposed to talk to anyone "? (She told me that, & she can only work as a waitress, she's not working now, the car she'd been borrowing from crushie is done)
Btw, he hit on me before she came here, big time.
So, she basically took out her misery on me::)
He must've picked up a dui, (I get the mail, tons of lawyers letters coming in for that).
I knew she hated me, the first time she came here she gave me the most evil look..
Moved my plants in the kitchen..
Anyone touching me here is going to jail or pepper spray, maybe both. Thank you.
PS smoke another blunt honey & stink up the house more, you'll be fine!
carmen_b
03-31-2022, 08:05 AM
I think I will go back to working full time .
This experiment ( working less than that ) has seemed to be a massive fail .
I turned the online advertising for my business back UP.
I'll experiment with this ( more work hours and more $ ) .
carmen_b
03-31-2022, 08:14 AM
Yeah , that's the plan haha. I don't really see the convo of " lets cut this 15 min. out so we can get rid of her at 8:15 p.m. sharp instead of 8:30 p.m. going ideally. Ha. That is how he will hear it ....... so no going there for sure. Maybe in a few months I'll hint at she is too old for that ( since she is ) but it's a small thing ...... not going there currently.
^ I do all that stuff you are describing too ! I'm BIG on kids being independent . The other day I gave her a few bucks to go through a line and get something herself . J said she hadn't done it before lol ! Like he was showing fear she actually wasn't going to make it through this transaction and I'm like " she will be fine " .
I’d say as long as it’s not every night and he’s not falling asleep in there too then I’d just ignore it and for now. If I were you.