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Secret Shelly
04-07-2022, 07:29 AM
You have to throw a tantrum with them. Talking to "agents" with their "troubleshooting" is a waste of time. Even having a tech come out doesn't work in my experience.

They miraculously fixed my upload issue after I talked to the district manager. No issues since and that was in November.

i dont just threaten to cancel my internet I start the call with a request to disconnect...that usually gets their attention quickly and Ive gotten a free month and issues fixed.

carmen_b
04-07-2022, 08:07 AM
Last month I got so lucky in my small business. I think I had made $1500-2k roughly March 1-9 !
It got me so hopeful that the beginning of THIS month would come in strong haha. ;/
Well ..... $450-$500 so far ...... not exactly strong.
Universe ..... throw another $500 at me in the next couple days. Thx

Sometimes I hate working in sales BUT that is currently how I survive so that's that.

It can feel annoying that my whole life feels like " Ok, do you want to buy something ?" .
Then my break from my other job is going to the club to ask dudes " Ok , do YOU want to finally buy something ? " .

carmen_b
04-07-2022, 09:21 AM
I just can't decide if I should do this Vegas trip Mon and Tues
$77 for hotel each night instead of the $50 deal I usually get at a casino.
Plus probably $40 in gas. I mostly want to go to have an adventure out of town ( 50/50 on a night at club to pay for it ) . It is genuinely bothering me that the two nights would cost more than $100 flat. :/

I think I do need to go *somewhere* those days .
Maybe another casino a little closer haha for a night.

OR take my local friend up on the offer to stay but then sometimes ( it has happened before ) I feel worn out chatting with him and my club earnings take a hit if I don't have my own space.

carmen_b
04-07-2022, 12:10 PM
Omg I’m so bored.
I think I NEED to get out of town ! Ha.

Not for Today - Sat. when it’s just me and J.
I’m trying to be proactive for Sun - Wed since I struggle on his daughters 4 day visits more than the three day ones.

ravenskyy
04-07-2022, 12:30 PM
Social media is garbage. I don't even know why I comment anymore. I'm not sure why I constantly seem to attract the argumentative people, but I hate it. Someone will literally say the same thing that I said, but it seems like it's always ME that get's the crowd of assholes and bullies. And it's not even over politics lol I made a comment on a post that displayed a sexual position, and I said in a joking way, that it doesn't feel good. Now I have a bunch of women telling me how wrong I am. Like wtf??? Who argues about that shit!?!?

Also, fuck you Streamate!!! My boleyn model bonus keeps getting fucked every week because of the low traffic. I was doing so well and now I'm barely making $20 an hour.

whirlerz
04-07-2022, 12:35 PM
Omg I’m so bored.
I think I NEED to get out of town ! Ha.
^
Not bored as much as hate running into the room on weekends. . (except 1:-*)

I used to get an Airbnb for a weekend day, but need to be more conservative I guess :(

Also, waiting another 10 + minutes for hair to process, so I can rinse, condition, & comb out.:(
Then bk on cam

carmen_b
04-07-2022, 12:36 PM
^ Haha
Arguing about the position ! Wtf

carmen_b
04-07-2022, 12:57 PM
Oh cool Whirl : I didn’t know you used to escape to an AirBnB sometimes.

xxxGothBarbie
04-07-2022, 01:14 PM
The rainy weather here in New York and people driving like assholes. All I'm trying to do is go to the grocery store and I've just given up on that. I'm also starting to seriously dislike the fact that it's hard to drive even to a supermarket in New York City especially in the outer boroughs .I hate walking so much I know it's good for people but I'm just not into it.

whirlerz
04-07-2022, 06:26 PM
I am annoyed AF @crushie for asking a ride from me, I'm doing it tho.
Ugh 8 am (they start @ 6:30 but he said it could be later if I want.)
I guess so, I usually cam around then..::)

He said his boss is bringing his check to him., he's going to pay me.
The place's far AF, at least it's in the burbs & no highway.

He's currently working on his car now. "I hate to ask you.. ::)"
I had to drive him to home depot for a washer part.
We're sitting there, I asked him why are we waiting around?
He said he's waiting on LL to give him credit card for the part?
TF, let me put on my card so I can gtfo & go eat my sushi.
Jeez I better get laid off of this.

whirlerz
04-07-2022, 06:28 PM
Oh cool Whirl : I didn’t know you used to escape to an AirBnB sometimes.

Yeah, kinda wanted to start doing that again, we'll see tho.

Dreamqueen
04-07-2022, 07:12 PM
Holy fuck!!! 109 degrees today. That is all.
56982

LoveyD
04-07-2022, 07:14 PM
^^Stay cool, DQ. It was warm where I'm at too. Not that hot, but warm enough.

carmen_b
04-08-2022, 03:25 PM
I told J I was traumatized by the movie and I had felt awful the last 3-4 days.
He was very sweet. It led to a convo about how our former relationships ended ect. !

I think being honest about feeling disturbed and being forthcoming helped.
I am feeling a lot better today.

moneybags
04-08-2022, 11:10 PM
Cheap broke customers. Ugh! I know the name of the game is to keep asking, but fuck. “Sit on my lap?” “You wanna dance or nah?” I can sit on your lap while you get a dance mother fucker.

Dreamqueen
04-08-2022, 11:13 PM
Cheap broke customers. Ugh! I know the name of the game is to keep asking, but fuck. “Sit on my lap?” “You wanna dance or nah?” I can sit on your lap while you get a dance mother fucker.

Cheap men are the bane of my existence.
Did he finally take the hint and buy a dance?
I'd fart in his face if he kept begging.

whirlerz
04-09-2022, 12:34 AM
Now our water's been going off again, crushie's at his buddy's, he showed me to waggle this flexible thing attached to water pump, I have to up & drag myself to the little house to get at it, not doing that now it's too late.
He texted me, "best it like a red head step child" ::)

There's another part he has to put on, it's on order.::)

JGB2009
04-09-2022, 10:08 AM
Annoyed that yesterday that my cellphone died on me for good!!!!

Percy
04-09-2022, 01:41 PM
People requesting I log in for 15 minute times .....no.
People who think they can keep adding time to my phone convo when the time is up more than twice. (I have to talk to more people I need CUSTOMERS)
I have started saying :Oh your time is up call me bak ok, bye." and hanging up.
I refuse to help customers extend time unless they are a regular who tips.
Callers who think when the time is up they can keep talking.
Callers who ask me why I do this for a living? How much do you make? Are you always on?? None of their business and if I were always on I would not be so hard to catch ON

And..callers who give me their number after I say no lol callers who think I will meet them, callers who ask me if I like women, I say no, and want me to watch threesome porn with women. I am not offended but if you want me to watch tv while I pull it up and barelt oh baby that is hot...that is a way to do it.

The fact I cannot charge more for watching porn with them OR ask for more for domme chat.

Well I am done now.

All I can say is thank goodness for pre written porn stories and hypno porn vids that I just repeat and improv.

Percy
04-09-2022, 01:46 PM
I have been doing this with my cheap annoying callers. "What is your fantasy?". After being cheap and annoying me.

I will make it extremely vanilla or say poo in my mouth. I hope it borea them or turns them so off they never call again.

Marina Starr
04-09-2022, 02:29 PM
I'm annoyed that I have no annoyances today because I thrive on drama.

whirlerz
04-09-2022, 03:38 PM
I'm annoyed that I have no annoyances today because I thrive on drama.

Lol.

I guess I do too..

I cringed when the guy w/gf threw out a large box spring..

I saw him again, out side, asked him please put it up front for pick up, he said he didn't know that it'd be picked up, yes they take everything! I thanked him.

I knowI come across as a Karen, troubled Ole lady but damn I don't want the mice nesting in there!

Sigh. I hope he does actually take it up there...

LoveyD
04-09-2022, 09:50 PM
Too many people in my city. Once I get up enough $, I'm out.

Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2022, 06:27 AM
Please tell me if I'm just over-reacting to this:

So, bio-mom filed for divorce against dickhead step-dad, and specifically told us it was because he was "verbally and emotionally abusive." Last weekend, my husband had to drop the kids off early from our weekend because they were still going to their ex-stepbrother's birthday party. We were both weirded out by this, because, obviously, abusive asshole is gonna be there... But we reasoned, "ok, well, this was probably planned in advance, and bio-mom at least pretends that she's such good friends with the other kid's mom" so we let it go.

We had them this weekend as well, and every time I come home from work in the evenings, the kids are playing Fortnite/video games online with the ex-stepbrother. I'm just... starting to find this weird. On the one hand, I'm sure it's a weird transition for kids to bond with a step-sibling and then suddenly not have them anymore. On the other hand, this is keeping contact with an ex that was, to bio-mom's own admission, abusive. If they were old enough to just be coordinating this stuff on their own and talking amongst themselves, that would be one thing. But they're all young enough that these "game times" are coordinated by ex-stepdad contacting bio-mom to say "Hey, so-and-so wants to play with the kids."

Literally one of the first things I said when I found out about their divorce was that I hoped she didn't try to "maintain a friendship" with him for the sake of the kids and their former step-sibling. Maybe that's cold of me? But considering the former spouse was abusive, I don't think this is a good idea.

Am I being unrealistic? Even if I'm not, I suppose it's not as though I can really do anything about it. I can't tell a grown woman to stop talking to her ex for the sake of coordinating these play dates and events for the kids. I guess I'm just looking for either validation that I'm not being bitchy when I make comments to my husband about it, or else to tell me that I'm being stupid and should calm down about it.

indiegirl
04-10-2022, 06:42 AM
Cheap broke customers. Ugh! I know the name of the game is to keep asking, but fuck. “Sit on my lap?” “You wanna dance or nah?” I can sit on your lap while you get a dance mother fucker.

That's on the brink of burn out for me level LOL.

Sometimes I ponder why men do the things that they did to me in the past when I was a dancer and wonder who is married to them. Here I am having a full blown conversation and he decides to open my bra to see my boob before me even selling the dance. Like what if I unzipped his pants to see his dick at a local restaurant while he was talking to me hahahaha. It makes no sense.

LoveyD
04-10-2022, 07:28 AM
@Aurora Hopefully she will go and remain NoContact with him. She will learn quickly that you can't remain "friends" with an abuser.

Now the kids...This is a sticky situation. If the kids have a bond, I don't know if I would have them sever ties with each other. That's a tough one.

indiegirl
04-10-2022, 08:19 AM
My official day to call in for Jury Duty is tomorrow. I can't even believe they force people to show up for this shit. Call some people from the retirement home....we all have lives to take care of not this person who is wasting mine. I have delayed and delayed this with school excuses and the system keeps not forgetting me. I even sent a delay for 2 years request and saying I was in school. They didn't care. They gave me 2 extra weeks to report like my life didn't matter.

If I get called in there I'm just gonna say if he is sitting in the chair then he is guilty. He earned his moment and is wasting everyone's time. I'm also going to ask why I am being pushed into this situation every single year since I've never voted in my life. *Roar!!!* ...Meanwhile my sister never gets called in. I've never registered to vote. Why me!!!? The only time I've shown up for court is for ME. These people annoy me!! LOLLL.

Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2022, 08:30 AM
@Aurora Hopefully she will go and remain NoContact with him. She will learn quickly that you can't remain "friends" with an abuser.

Now the kids...This is a sticky situation. If the kids have a bond, I don't know if I would have them sever ties with each other. That's a tough one.

So, this JUST happened, and exactly why it skeeves me out. They're out there playing online with step-bro. We're trying to get son into the shower. Step-bro overhears us through the mic and starts hounding him with, "Have you taken a shower today? You haven't taken a shower yet today?" And then starts telling his dad on the other end. Son instantly gets up and starts heading for the shower, because "he's going to get in trouble." We're like, "We know you're gonna get in the shower eventually. Why would you get in trouble now? You're not in trouble with us." He says, "Because step-bro knows he hasn't showered yet today." I asked, "Why does it matter if he knows?" "Because he'll tell ex-stepdad and he'll tell mommy, and then I'll get in trouble."

Like... why is step-brother tattling on stuff that goes on here, and then their EX-stepdad is telling bio-mom like it's still his business what goes on with OUR co-parenting. He's not raising these kids anymore. It's none of his fucking business. Why is he still in so much contact with her that they are discussing the kids and what they do over HERE still?

I just feel like the kids remaining friends with his son is an automatic connection and invitation to keep this abuser in ALL their lives. They're over here, he doesn't even live over there anymore, and they're still terrified of how this man is going to "get them into trouble." It's fucked up.

carmen_b
04-10-2022, 09:44 AM
The step brother was in YOUR home ?
Basically an extra kid in your house ? I would prefer if they had that time at bio-moms v.s. what you are describing so hopefully the step brother won't be there often.
If these visits take place are at her house it's plenty of time since she has them more often .

It's probably not realistic for the kids to do a " cold turkey " transition with the step brother but it should be in Bio-moms space not yours ( in my opinion ).


Please tell me if I'm just over-reacting to this:

So, bio-mom filed for divorce against dickhead step-dad, and specifically told us it was because he was "verbally and emotionally abusive." Last weekend, my husband had to drop the kids off early from our weekend because they were still going to their ex-stepbrother's birthday party. We were both weirded out by this, because, obviously, abusive asshole is gonna be there... But we reasoned, "ok, well, this was probably planned in advance, and bio-mom at least pretends that she's such good friends with the other kid's mom" so we let it go. The kids might want to continue to see each other.

We had them this weekend as well, and every time I come home from work in the evenings, the kids are playing Fortnite/video games online with the ex-stepbrother. I'm just... starting to find this weird. On the one hand, I'm sure it's a weird transition for kids to bond with a step-sibling and then suddenly not have them anymore. On the other hand, this is keeping contact with an ex that was, to bio-mom's own admission, abusive. If they were old enough to just be coordinating this stuff on their own and talking amongst themselves, that would be one thing. But they're all young enough that these "game times" are coordinated by ex-stepdad contacting bio-mom to say "Hey, so-and-so wants to play with the kids."

Literally one of the first things I said when I found out about their divorce was that I hoped she didn't try to "maintain a friendship" with him for the sake of the kids and their former step-sibling. Maybe that's cold of me? But considering the former spouse was abusive, I don't think this is a good idea.

Am I being unrealistic? Even if I'm not, I suppose it's not as though I can really do anything about it. I can't tell a grown woman to stop talking to her ex for the sake of coordinating these play dates and events for the kids. I guess I'm just looking for either validation that I'm not being bitchy when I make comments to my husband about it, or else to tell me that I'm being stupid and should calm down about it.

WendiStarr
04-10-2022, 09:47 AM
^ Unfortunately in the case of DV, the court expect parents to remain in contact and be friendly towards each other for the sake of the kids, even if one of the parents has a history of abuse towards the other parent. At least in my state, they do. It's fucked up being forced to be civil towards someone who makes you feel sick to your stomach at the mere sight of them. I hate seeing my oldest daughter's dad at all and I only text him to see how she's doing and when she's coming back. I don't respond if he tries to talk about anything other than her. Meeting in a public place is better when dealing with an abusive man because they have tendency to act fake and nice when they have an audience.

My petty annoyance is that I've been having bad anxiety lately. I can't help it when I am continually triggered, every day. Anyone yelling and slamming stuff around is a trigger for me. My bio dad used to yell and start throwing and breaking stuff before beating his girlfriends. My oldest daughter's dad used to do the same. BD has never hit me but I still go into fight or flight mode. I think I'm going to have to go on anxiety and BP meds soon because I don't feel normal anymore.

carmen_b
04-10-2022, 09:48 AM
Abusive guys will 100% cling to " oh the kids need this " excuse to remain in contact with people.
Another angle is to have the kids hang only in public spaces ( since he is abusive she should be smart enough not to be alone with him even in other sections of the house ). She would need to decide to do that but having more eyes around ALWAYS would increase her safety.


@Aurora Hopefully she will go and remain NoContact with him. She will learn quickly that you can't remain "friends" with an abuser.

Now the kids...This is a sticky situation. If the kids have a bond, I don't know if I would have them sever ties with each other. That's a tough one.

whirlerz
04-10-2022, 11:07 AM
So yesterday, this guy on my floor w/gf, takes a giant box spring out to trash, I caught up w/him, asked nicely to please take it up front to trash p/u, he's all, "Idk if they pick up" ::) Bitch, please! He said he would, but, there it sits, & will, til I grab it>:(

This was yesterday, I know damn good & well I gotta take it later, or it'll sit there, & the mice"ll get all in it..They're Pigs anyway..

Then, I picked up food, I have to drink carbonated for my acid reflux, I run in to Aldi, literally had 3 items, this guy's in front of me, w/a bag of stuff, his wife walks up, w/another bag of stuff, REALLY?

She had heavy, stink ass floral scent too, I was making rude remarks under my breath (mask on) I think she heard me but IDGAF

whirlerz
04-10-2022, 11:27 AM
My petty annoyance is that I've been having bad anxiety lately. I can't help it when I am continually triggered, every day. Anyone yelling and slamming stuff around is a trigger for me. My bio dad used to yell and start throwing and breaking stuff before beating his girlfriends. My oldest daughter's dad used to do the same. BD has never hit me but I still go into fight or flight mode. I think I'm going to have to go on anxiety and BP meds soon because I don't feel normal anymore.

I'm so sorry, Wendi!

My Dad was good, he had a terrible temper from being abused himself, (my gf was a mean drunk)

So anyway, I get it, I know you live under stress.
Take care hon.

Marina Starr
04-10-2022, 02:00 PM
Pathetic how the will Smith vs chris rock thread is still going. I hope that shit get permanently closed.

https://i.ibb.co/TMjc4bt/Judge-Judy-Shake-My-Head-Gif.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2022, 06:00 PM
The step brother was in YOUR home ?
Basically an extra kid in your house ? I would prefer if they had that time at bio-moms v.s. what you are describing so hopefully the step brother won't be there often.
If these visits take place are at her house it's plenty of time since she has them more often .

It's probably not realistic for the kids to do a " cold turkey " transition with the step brother but it should be in Bio-moms space not yours ( in my opinion ).

oh no no! That kid is NOT in our house. They play online and talk via headset. But it’s all coordinated with the ex stepdad sitting in the same room as his kid and hearing everything that goes on with us. I still think it’s creepy.

Wendi, that is fucked up and ridiculous. My thing with it is, she can claim all she wants (just like I’m sure abusive male partners do to the courts) that “he’s never been abusive to the KIDS” but we all know that’s horseshit. Abusers don’t keep it to one person in the family. Considering in this situation, they were step siblings, and a STEP parent, not a biological one, I feel like there should be no legal precedent for demanding they keep in touch. I fully feel like this is something he’s pushing “for the sake of the kids” just to keep his foot in the door.

carmen_b
04-10-2022, 06:12 PM
^ Ha , I'm so glad that he isn't IN your house.
I was like " shut that down immediately haha ".

DonaDiabla
04-10-2022, 07:07 PM
Xcams/Xmodels was kinda of confusing to work on.:O Guests come in and out. Privates knock out all of your customer list. I will only used this site to split cam with another small site like 777.

carmen_b
04-10-2022, 07:13 PM
I'm debating again this week being cheap with self care !
NO.
Why do I do this ?

I'm caught in this debate of gym jacuzzi time and lay out and the cheap salon ( $35 ) or this nicer spa $65 I think ( that I could so easily make a nice three hour experience out of ). I am trying to pre-plan GOOD self care time tomorrow and not fuck it up by blowing it off being scared to spend $ like I did last week. :/

I know I carry some level of $ ptsd from 2020 and 2021 but when will it end haha ? The business made money ( over my goal last month ) ...... then I act like I can't spend $50 every couple of weeks on self care things. Like .... what is the point of the business coming back if I am acting like this lol ?

lynn2009
04-10-2022, 08:25 PM
Aurora, is it possible they haven't told the kids and need to keep up appearances for now? When is she leaving or kicking him out anyway, aren't her parents wealthy and help out a lot?

Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2022, 08:54 PM
Aurora, is it possible they haven't told the kids and need to keep up appearances for now? When is she leaving or kicking him out anyway, aren't her parents wealthy and help out a lot?

I think he isn't living there at all anymore. After the little 'altercation' this morning, the 6 y/o even said, "Oh 'ex-stepbro' was always like that. He tattled on us all the time to 'ex-stepdad' when he lived with us." The kids know he's gone, and they're divorcing. Her parents are wealthy, and are probably helping her with this. There should really be no reason to "keep this up for the kids." She always used to pretend she was buddy-buddy with the other kid's mom, but my husband would tell me all the shitty comments she would make behind this woman's back about her being "low-class." So, it's not like she's actually friends with the mom either. I think dickhead is manipulating things to be about "the relationship between the kids," when it's not necessary at all. But that's just my take on it right now...

Dreamqueen
04-10-2022, 11:10 PM
Too many people in my city. Once I get up enough $, I'm out.

I'm so excited for you!
Moving out of the city was one of the BEST decisions of my life.
30 years was way too long to be there, but hey. Better late than never.

If I can make a suggestion.
When you move, please be aware of neighbors that live too close.
My horrible loud and obnoxious stalker neighbors sometimes make me regret moving here.
It's just a reminder to have lots of space between me and them.
When I visit friends who, not only live in houses, but in older communities, the light bulb goes on.
Meaning: I thought everyone was like me, and moved here for peace and quiet ( that's what the brochure advertises).
But, sadly, there are chaos causers wherever you roam.
Space, space and more space away from people is the way to go.

whirlerz
04-10-2022, 11:46 PM
Pathetic how the will Smith vs chris rock thread is still going. I hope that shit get permanently closed.

https://i.ibb.co/TMjc4bt/Judge-Judy-Shake-My-Head-Gif.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

Amen to that!
I'm sick of hearing about it in the news too!
This one weighs in::)

grneyesnfl
04-11-2022, 01:26 AM
I'm also going to ask why I am being pushed into this situation every single year since I've never voted in my life. *Roar!!!* ...Meanwhile my sister never gets called in. I've never registered to vote. Why me!!!?

Names are pulled randomly from voter registration and Department of Motor Vehicles lists.

carmen_b
04-11-2022, 10:17 AM
Made a decision lol !
Booked a massage and have started my own nails.
The salon job last time was really really bad haha.
I feel like maybe contacting the owner not to get a refund or anything but just offer a heads up that my toes had peeled off 50% in 2-3 days.
The think the person just rushed and didn't prep ( remove lotion with alcohol after ) or something.

No more cheaping out with self care ( skipping two weeks ). I mean skipping a week is one thing but this should be consistent to work.


I'm debating again this week being cheap with self care !
NO.
Why do I do this ?

I'm caught in this debate of gym jacuzzi time and lay out and the cheap salon ( $35 ) or this nicer spa $65 I think ( that I could so easily make a nice three hour experience out of ). I am trying to pre-plan GOOD self care time tomorrow and not fuck it up by blowing it off being scared to spend $ like I did last week. :/

I know I carry some level of $ ptsd from 2020 and 2021 but when will it end haha ? The business made money ( over my goal last month ) ...... then I act like I can't spend $50 every couple of weeks on self care things. Like .... what is the point of the business coming back if I am acting like this lol ?

whirlerz
04-11-2022, 10:47 AM
Indie, got any sick relatives?

I got out of jd, I did have the care of my mom at the time, (had Dr write a note) also I threw in that I knew the top judge lol. (Which I did).

Sorry, probably not so helpful for you.. You got to be out of town that week?

carmen_b
04-11-2022, 01:02 PM
^ You can fake a bias too.
Tell them you have trauma from that look type / race ect. and you are worried about bias .

moneybags
04-11-2022, 02:12 PM
Losing my wallet. I handled it-canceled all my cards. It’s just really annoying. I’m also in my fat lost phase of prep, so I’m very hangry. Maybe it’ll show up later-hopefully. I’ll to try not stress-nothing I can do about it now. I needed to get a new license. I’m grateful my license had my old address on it, so they don’t know where I live!

Marina Starr
04-11-2022, 02:25 PM
That sucks but once you report lost of debit, credit cards to your bank they will cancel them and send new ones even if you found them!


Losing my wallet. I handled it-canceled all my cards. It’s just really annoying. I’m also in my fat lost phase of prep, so I’m very hangry. Maybe it’ll show up later-hopefully. I’ll to try not stress-nothing I can do about it now. I needed to get a new license. I’m grateful my license had my old address on it, so they don’t know where I live!

indiegirl
04-11-2022, 02:48 PM
Indie, got any sick relatives?

I got out of jd, I did have the care of my mom at the time, (had Dr write a note) also I threw in that I knew the top judge lol. (Which I did).

Sorry, probably not so helpful for you.. You got to be out of town that week?

I called this morning and I was not needed for Jury Duty! LOL. Freedom rings!!! :P

LoveyD
04-11-2022, 04:47 PM
I see how Aurora's situation is tricky. Fucking abusers.