View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
LoveyD
04-11-2022, 04:54 PM
I'm so excited for you!
Moving out of the city was one of the BEST decisions of my life.
30 years was way too long to be there, but hey. Better late than never.
If I can make a suggestion.
When you move, please be aware of neighbors that live too close.
My horrible loud and obnoxious stalker neighbors sometimes make me regret moving here.
It's just a reminder to have lots of space between me and them.
When I visit friends who, not only live in houses, but in older communities, the light bulb goes on.
Meaning: I thought everyone was like me, and moved here for peace and quiet ( that's what the brochure advertises).
But, sadly, there are chaos causers wherever you roam.
Space, space and more space away from people is the way to go.
Yes! No neighbors! Ugh girl I've been through it w people.
Just want to get away from it all and live somewhere beautiful and more mellow.
Sorry if my answers are short today. I'm finally getting my nails done after two years of trying to grow them out. Screw it, I'm getting acrylics lol
LoveyD
04-11-2022, 08:55 PM
So I was waiting for a staff member at safe parking to help me with something when the rude, nosy, arrogant bitch from last week approached me from behind and started squealing hello. I ignored her. She kept trying to get my attention.i turned around, looked at her, and walked away. She was like, "oh." Glad there was a small crowd around to see it. Now that she knows I don't like her, she'd better keep her distance or I will have to talk with a staff member about her. I don't need anything from her. Why can't these people just leave me alone? I don't talk to anyone here.
moneybags
04-11-2022, 09:06 PM
So I was waiting for a staff member at safe parking to help me with something when the rude, nosy, arrogant bitch from last week approached me from behind and started squealing hello. I ignored her. She kept trying to get my attention.i turned around, looked at her, and walked away. She was like, "oh." Glad there was a small crowd around to see it. Now that she knows I don't like her, she'd better keep her distance or I will have to talk with a staff member about her. I don't need anything from her. Why can't these people just leave me alone? I don't talk to anyone here.
Because you’re a light worker! The darkness hates the light. People who have dark energy will fuck with you for no reason. It’s vibrational. They can sense it. The same way birds know when to fly south. People know on a vibrational level who you are and they fuck with you. Be guarded and have boundaries. There’s a lot of people with metaphorical demons, and you gotta know they’re everywhere. Keep maintaining your high vibration and doing you and it’s only a matter of time before you manifest your dreams.
Start at 12:55 (I don’t necessarily take what he says literally, but metaphorically I think he makes a good point. I don’t necessarily like the word God because it’s got a lot dogma attached to it. I think of “God” more like the creator, spirit, or the universe)
https://youtu.be/kKZfC---do4
LoveyD
04-11-2022, 09:51 PM
^^ Thank you, money. I don't talk to anyone here. I don't even give a polite "hello." The only people I talk to are the staff, bc I think they are healthy & normal. Thank you for cheering me on. I have become very guarded with my energy. After what I've been put through, it's hard to break through my walls.
I hope you're right about my dream coming true. The struggle has been real.
WendiStarr
04-12-2022, 11:01 AM
I'm aggravated as fuck that ob/gyn is making me wait 2 months to get my tubes tied. She said that's the soonest she can do it with her schedule. I feel disappointed because she made it seem like I'd get the surgery this month. I called a different gyno and asked if they do tubal ligation. They said they'd be happy to have me come in for a consultation. A 3rd doctor said the same shit. I don't want any more fucking consultations! I've already signed the consent form for the surgery twice now. I just want my tubes tied already! I guess I have to wait until June 14th and hope I don't get knocked up again before then.
carmen_b
04-12-2022, 11:15 AM
^ I would keep calling. Schedules can change and the secretaries that do the bookings can sometimes not keep up ( or don't want to ).
I would call every couple of days.
LoveyD
04-12-2022, 11:40 AM
Emailed safe parking about the intrusive bitch who can't leave me alone for some reason. They will probably contact me for more details, then issue her a warning. I want to make it obvious to her that she is not to approach me again
whirlerz
04-12-2022, 12:09 PM
Damn, what is with some ppl? ^
I just saw crushie, could see he's not feeling good, I spoke a few minutes, asked him if he was hungry, & left him alone.
TF!
Marina Starr
04-12-2022, 01:53 PM
Let me know when you'd like me to bring my taser and mace over and handle it!
I maced some cunt last week for deliberately block my car, came so close to hitting it then gaslighted me. She was out of line and so disrespectful. All she got to do was said she was wrong and apologize but she wanted to escalate shit I swear they think they're tough shit because they're in their cars. I call it "road courage but I don't fuck around.
I thought it was so cool when the mace came out red like red pepper!
Emailed safe parking about the intrusive bitch who can't leave me alone for some reason. They will probably contact me for more details, then issue her a warning. I want to make it obvious to her that she is not to approach me again
moneybags
04-12-2022, 02:28 PM
Emailed safe parking about the intrusive bitch who can't leave me alone for some reason. They will probably contact me for more details, then issue her a warning. I want to make it obvious to her that she is not to approach me again
That’s so cool they have a safe parking lot for you at night. I hope they take care of her for you.
You should read this book https://youtu.be/xsAOFlCmGuk conversations with God. It’s a about a houseless man who talks to God. He writes a book about it and becomes a millionaire. It’s such a good book! It’s a true story.
We basically can talk to God anytime we need God. There’s so much dogma with God this book is very healing for anyone who has experienced religious abuse. As strippers I know we experience a lot of that from Christian’s saying sex is immoral when it’s NOT at all!
I feel being in a situation such as yourself can be challenging and unfortunately there’s a lot of toxic people around you. Not everyone can see their situation as temporary. Same as the adult industry. I get a lot of haters because I’m developing myself. While I don’t judge anyone for their life situation some people don’t understand it’s just their life situation. We aren’t ex strippers, ex prostitutes, or ex pornstars. We aren’t our life circumstances. We’re divine beings having a human experience. People hate people like us who don’t define ourselves by our life situation and we still trying to improve our life and manifest their dreams.
I truly believe sex workers/cam models/ strippers are some of God’s most favored ones. Jesus’s favorite disciple was an ex prostitute! How do people forget that! God knows how hypocritical people are watching porn then in real life judging us. We’re the choosen ones. Best believe the universe is working in our favor.
whirlerz
04-12-2022, 02:49 PM
I listen to Steve Harvey closing remarks every morning, he's on YouTube too.
With separate vids, + his morning show.
Last 10 minutes are his closing remarks.
Very spiritual man.
naomi_doll
04-12-2022, 03:48 PM
That’s so cool they have a safe parking lot for you at night. I hope they take care of her for you.
You should read this book https://youtu.be/xsAOFlCmGuk conversations with God. It’s a about a houseless man who talks to God. He writes a book about it and becomes a millionaire. It’s such a good book! It’s a true story.
We basically can talk to God anytime we need God. There’s so much dogma with God this book is very healing for anyone who has experienced religious abuse. As strippers I know we experience a lot of that from Christian’s saying sex is immoral when it’s NOT at all!
I feel being in a situation such as yourself can be challenging and unfortunately there’s a lot of toxic people around you. Not everyone can see their situation as temporary. Same as the adult industry. I get a lot of haters because I’m developing myself. While I don’t judge anyone for their life situation some people don’t understand it’s just their life situation. We aren’t ex strippers, ex prostitutes, or ex pornstars. We aren’t our life circumstances. We’re divine beings having a human experience. People hate people like us who don’t define ourselves by our life situation and we still trying to improve our life and manifest their dreams.
I truly believe sex workers/cam models/ strippers are some of God’s most favored ones. Jesus’s favorite disciple was an ex prostitute! How do people forget that! God knows how hypocritical people are watching porn then in real life judging us. We’re the choosen ones. Best believe the universe is working in our favor.
This is at my library so I'm definitely going to check it out, thank you!
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-12-2022, 04:02 PM
Petty annoyed by seeing my ex-boss on social media. That dude was a such a short dude complex sufferer. ewwwwwwwww
LoveyD
04-12-2022, 04:41 PM
That’s so cool they have a safe parking lot for you at night. I hope they take care of her for you.
You should read this book https://youtu.be/xsAOFlCmGuk conversations with God. It’s a about a houseless man who talks to God. He writes a book about it and becomes a millionaire. It’s such a good book! It’s a true story.
We basically can talk to God anytime we need God. There’s so much dogma with God this book is very healing for anyone who has experienced religious abuse. As strippers I know we experience a lot of that from Christian’s saying sex is immoral when it’s NOT at all!
I feel being in a situation such as yourself can be challenging and unfortunately there’s a lot of toxic people around you. Not everyone can see their situation as temporary. Same as the adult industry. I get a lot of haters because I’m developing myself. While I don’t judge anyone for their life situation some people don’t understand it’s just their life situation. We aren’t ex strippers, ex prostitutes, or ex pornstars. We aren’t our life circumstances. We’re divine beings having a human experience. People hate people like us who don’t define ourselves by our life situation and we still trying to improve our life and manifest their dreams.
I truly believe sex workers/cam models/ strippers are some of God’s most favored ones. Jesus’s favorite disciple was an ex prostitute! How do people forget that! God knows how hypocritical people are watching porn then in real life judging us. We’re the choosen ones. Best believe the universe is working in our favor.
I've read the Conversation with God book s and I thought they were wonderful and inspiring. They especially resonated after I had my near-death experience.
I am manifesting the greatest version of the greatest vision I have of myself. Some people can't handle it, but that's not my problem.
You're right, money, about the people in safe parking being negative. This is why I keep to myself and I only deal with staff if I need anything. Nobody is even supposed to approach me at all unless I invite them to.
@Marina If we taze and mace her, I'll get kicked out for being violent. They have us come to them iif we're having an issue so they can resolve it. I do appreciate you backing me up. :-) Thank you xo
LoveyD
04-12-2022, 09:10 PM
Ok so Safe Parking staff handled the situation and the bitch is longer Allowed to bother me. Praise Jesus! I love safe parking staff. I found out today that they are also helping Ukrainians with relief as they enter into the US from Tijuana. These ppl are amazing.
Dreamqueen
04-12-2022, 09:35 PM
This is not so much a petty annoyance as a....what?
Life annoyance?
I'm not sure.
I went to Aldis today.
I haven't been food shopping since before I got sick.
It's always the same thing.
I have so much anxiety whenever I leave my house, that it makes for a stressful time.
I wasn't even out 2 minutes, when I felt a headache appear.
There were lots of people out everywhere, and I just wanted to turn around and go back home.
I could barely concentrate when I was at Aldis, and it wasn't even that crowded. The cashier was nice. The shelves are well stocked.
Although a screaming baby in the last aisle I was in, almost pushed me over the edge.
I hate being around people.
Why am I like this?
It's the mystery of my life, I guess.
I was so happy when I got home to find that all of the noisy neighbors were out.
Aaah, I could finally relax.
Is anyone else like this?
I just want to be home. Alone.
~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 02:35 AM
This is not so much a petty annoyance as a....what?
Life annoyance?
I'm not sure.
I went to Aldis today.
I haven't been food shopping since before I got sick.
It's always the same thing.
I have so much anxiety whenever I leave my house, that it makes for a stressful time.
I wasn't even out 2 minutes, when I felt a headache appear.
There were lots of people out everywhere, and I just wanted to turn around and go back home.
I could barely concentrate when I was at Aldis, and it wasn't even that crowded. The cashier was nice. The shelves are well stocked.
Although a screaming baby in the last aisle I was in, almost pushed me over the edge.
I hate being around people.
Why am I like this?
It's the mystery of my life, I guess.
I was so happy when I got home to find that all of the noisy neighbors were out.
Aaah, I could finally relax.
Is anyone else like this?
I just want to be home. Alone.
Yes. I recently stocked up on dry good groceries so I only have to go out for fresh stuff for awhile.
charlie61
04-13-2022, 05:45 AM
This is not so much a petty annoyance as a....what?
Life annoyance?
I'm not sure.
I went to Aldis today.
I haven't been food shopping since before I got sick.
It's always the same thing.
I have so much anxiety whenever I leave my house, that it makes for a stressful time.
I wasn't even out 2 minutes, when I felt a headache appear.
There were lots of people out everywhere, and I just wanted to turn around and go back home.
I could barely concentrate when I was at Aldis, and it wasn't even that crowded. The cashier was nice. The shelves are well stocked.
Although a screaming baby in the last aisle I was in, almost pushed me over the edge.
I hate being around people.
Why am I like this?
It's the mystery of my life, I guess.
I was so happy when I got home to find that all of the noisy neighbors were out.
Aaah, I could finally relax.
Is anyone else like this?
I just want to be home. Alone.
I have the same issue with shopping. Noise-canceling headphones make a huge difference for me. I know i mention that often on here, but thought I'd bring it up again! You can choose to have them on and not listen to anything, put on a podcast, soft music, or hyped up music!
whirlerz
04-13-2022, 07:08 AM
Well, especially w/Aldi's, I try to go right when they open, or an hour or so before closing, tends to cut down on waiting in line too.
I do this w/most stores, sometimes not possible.
Headphones /earbuds are cool, but I like to keep situational awareness in public especially.
They /most stores have online p/up too.
Genoveve
04-13-2022, 04:02 PM
I could barely concentrate when I was at Aldis, and it wasn't even that crowded. The cashier was nice. The shelves are well stocked.
Although a screaming baby in the last aisle I was in, almost pushed me over the edge.
I hate being around people.
Why am I like this?
It's the mystery of my life, I guess.
I was so happy when I got home to find that all of the noisy neighbors were out.
Aaah, I could finally relax.
Is anyone else like this?
I just want to be home. Alone.
I'm similar in that being home alone is my favorite thing in the world and the less I have to leave my house the better, but I'm not phobic or anxious about being out in public. Idk if it applies to you but chronic stress I think can cause that; the longer you endure chronic stress the less able you are to tolerate even minor inconveniences and stressors.
carmen_b
04-13-2022, 04:05 PM
^ I think if you have those quirks ( I do to for sure ) it's best to use services like grocery delivery and online shopping v.s. stores !
The less " out " errands I have the better.
Then I leave exactly when I want v.s. " needing " an item.
Dreamqueen
04-13-2022, 11:27 PM
Thanks ladies for your input.
I really appreciate it.:grouphug:
I've been having my groceries delivered for over a year.
I'm going to go back to doing that.
Aldi has delivery too.
I felt the same way at CVS last week.
I purposely went right before they closed, but was stressed the whole time. The lights were too bright ( I'm going to wear tinted glasses next time.)
The music was too loud.
I do have noise canceling ear buds in my purse, but I need to hear what's going on around me. Lots of women are having their purses stolen where I live. I use a crossbody bag, but still.
I think the noise from my neighbors for the last 6 years has done a number on my nerves.
When I lived in the city, with nonstop sirens, cars honking, etc, I felt this way too when I went out.
I guess if I ever move far from neighbors I will see if it makes a difference.
That day can't come quick enough.:-[
LoveyD
04-14-2022, 05:13 AM
^^ I absolutely love being alone, and yes I am excited to move out of my city once I have enough$ saved.
Grocery delivery is your friend. Saves on gas and this way, you can stay home and not deal with the madness.
I can't stand too many people around me, either. Especially if they are loud and obnoxious.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-14-2022, 06:31 AM
Petty annoyed by snow. Sigh. No wonder Canadians seem to have anxiety issues.
carmen_b
04-14-2022, 08:37 AM
Dream :
You can also go for meals at non-peak times.
I do lunch at 2 p.m. or dinner at 4-4:30 ( or the earliest avail. like 5 if they open then ).
Being at places in peak times is very stressful.
One person talking loud will ruin an experience for me ( and I'm not shy about being asked to move away ) so non-peak times are where it's at for us !
Same with gym. More quiet time is about 10:30 and then again 2-4 p.m.
Marina Starr
04-14-2022, 09:40 AM
I do the same. For my peace and well being if I miss non peak time I avoiding going because I know I'll tell people off.
The most horrible place to shop during peak time is Trader Hoes so I must go right when they first opened.
Dream :
You can also go for meals at non-peak times.
I do lunch at 2 p.m. or dinner at 4-4:30 ( or the earliest avail. like 5 if they open then ).
Being at places in peak times is very stressful.
One person talking loud will ruin an experience for me ( and I'm not shy about being asked to move away ) so non-peak times are where it's at for us !
Same with gym. More quiet time are about 10:30 and then again 2-4 p.m.
whirlerz
04-14-2022, 01:09 PM
Yeah well the roomie on my floor was Bitching @me, bc I yelled at his gf for running a blender at 5am.
He said my white noise machine bothered them, & I turned it up when they're talking..
I said he should have let me know, he said no he let me do that..
I apologize to her by text, (about the blender) no matter what matter what I said he turned it against me.
Told him to do what he wants, he said he's going to..
. Jeez passive aggressive much?
naomi_doll
04-14-2022, 01:24 PM
I'm annoyed that my stomach is upset.
whirlerz
04-14-2022, 01:36 PM
I'm annoyed that my stomach is upset.
Try some ginger or mint, teas or candies
Sometimes club soda helps too
naomi_doll
04-14-2022, 01:48 PM
Try some ginger or mint, teas or candies
Sometimes club soda helps too
Thank you, I will do that. :)
whirlerz
04-14-2022, 07:03 PM
It's fuckin freezing, no heat, (landlord didn't pay Nicor gas bill) I have a heater but it's not helping also electric blanket, + fully dressed including a hat. Still cold & have a headache & joint pains
The broad upstairs uses super perfumey laundry soap & dryer sheets , I can smell it on my clothes, tho I use nonscented
It's not getting turned on til Saturday, I need to subtract that off my rent
Dreamqueen
04-14-2022, 08:18 PM
I had my (phone) interview today to see if I'm eligible for food stamps.
They asked the exact same questions that were already filled out on the application.
I get that they want to confirm that it's correct, but after an hour I was getting anxious.
He asked what my sexual orientation was? Huh????:O
I'm hungry, that's my sexual orientation. I'd eat a penis if it was here in front of me. THAT'S why I'm applying for food stamps!
I asked him if I say that I'm gay, would I get the $900 per month stipend? He didn't know what I was talking about. Lol
Nevermind, he said. It's optional to answer.
At the end he said that they might need a copy of my pay stubs ( which they have). Huh?
Now he needs proof that I get social security, even though I already told them the amount, and the application said they can look that up, and don't worry about it.
What's next? My left ovary?
Geesh!
The last time I applied for food stamps (during Covid), the interview was 10 minutes, and I was approved.
The first time I applied, I was homeless, and got them that day!
How things have changed.
charlie61
04-14-2022, 09:10 PM
^probably just asking about orientation to track stats on minorities applying for food stamps. It's good information to show how different groups struggle economically.
miss.a.p1600
04-15-2022, 10:19 AM
Bertha threatened to leave town again.
She’s definitely missing a few screws.
But I hope she fast tracks her plans. I surely won’t miss the weekly intrusions and annoyances caused by her.
indiegirl
04-15-2022, 01:28 PM
Please Jesus, send me some customers today. I've had to spend a lot of money lately. *Sigh*
JGB2009
04-15-2022, 02:01 PM
Annoyed at getting the wrong item on my plate at the restaurant.
carmen_b
04-15-2022, 02:17 PM
^ I got hot roll ‘balled “ last night haha !
I could smell the bread cooking too but was too embarrassed to mention our bread never came in front of J.
Actually I hinted to him about it I think hoping he would ask.
Either way .... no bread which is such a bummer because I enjoy it SO much !
:/
LoveyD
04-15-2022, 02:55 PM
After taking all morning long to do my tax shit I gave up and filed an extension. Trying to get an appointment with my tax lady asap. Too afraid my bookkeeping will get audited.
Feeling like a failure today.
I fucking hate that family I somehow survived.
carmen_b
04-15-2022, 03:08 PM
^ I did the same this year.
My dad is my current tax guy . The guy who did mine for over 12 years passed away last summer.
I was super embarrassed to give my Dad the details of how little I made in 2021 and didn't want to talk about it.
So .... I put the convo off until Oct.
I don't think the extension itself is an audit trigger either. It's quite common .
carmen_b
04-15-2022, 03:16 PM
I had this situation last night where I feel like I didn't honor my truth / check in with myself and I feel disappointed .
My mood had turned to shit because I had this mandatory meeting at the real estate board for new agents . They had downright harassed me about attending which was making me even more resentful of attending. To keep it short ...... my mood was very heavily shot between knowing I'd need to wake up for it.
I have a huge day job thing coming up over the weekend too.
So ....... I am feeling like shit all day up until we go to dinner which admittedly makes me happy.
I tried to plow through the *motions* of a normal evening even though I didn't feel normal. We took a bath together and I got into lingerie just assuming I'll probably be fine . This time it was NOT fine and I REALLY felt bad. I had to stop the sexy interactions going on. Very awkward.
I am trying to not be too hard on myself. I HAVE survived the stupid meeting ( turns out the office is like 7 min. from the house who knew haha ) . I am trying to just have some *awareness* today of what is going on with me.
I'm obviously not going to say " sorry " to J for him not getting sex but I want to at least acknowledge my lack of self awareness . Obviously I should have not started to get up to something if I wasn't feeling it.
carmen_b
04-15-2022, 03:30 PM
^ I will mention one annoyance though related to men putting their foots in the mouths lol .
So ... after dinner we are out having porch drinks ( virgin for me ) and he mentions this concert experience he had and something about " better than sex " or a *similar* thing.
I started seeing red and spoke up immediately on that !
I told him if that was the case I may not be interested in sex for WEEKS so is he SURE about that phrasing ?
So .... the bottom line .... maybe i could have stomached an early meeting OR a stupid comment but when both rolled up I was not doing awesome.
LoveyD
04-15-2022, 04:50 PM
^ I did the same this year.
My dad is my current tax guy . The guy who did mine for over 12 years passed away last summer.
I was super embarrassed to give my Dad the details of how little I made in 2021 and didn't want to talk about it.
So .... I put the convo off until Oct.
I don't think the extension itself is an audit trigger either. It's quite common .
Ive had an extension before. It's won't trigger an audit. In fact, I think it does the opposite. Better than doing creative bookkeeping and handing it in right before it's due.
J definitely should watch his phrasing. I'm sorry he said that. Glad you put your foot down!
carmen_b
04-15-2022, 06:08 PM
Yeah foot down right away lol !!!
To provide balance though he has said multiple times ( often ) that our romantic life is the best part of his life.
I know it was a blip but I also KNOW he would have been horribly offended if I had said it !
He seems to be doing better today about what he says ( duh ) !
miss.a.p1600
04-15-2022, 09:45 PM
^I know the feeling Carmen
Sometimes men equate amazing dates with instant sex but sometimes it’s like even the date isn’t going to change the mood (if one is in a blah type mood) and they shouldn’t expect sex but they do. Then they act like pouty passive aggressive little bitches.
whirlerz
04-16-2022, 01:11 AM
FUCKING FREEZING, currently 36 degrees, NO heat. Trying to cam.
Doubtful the heat will be turned on today.
Update : they are coming out today to turn it on, 4 - 8pm
carmen_b
04-16-2022, 08:52 AM
The timing just killed us. We tend to reconnect romantically after his daughter leaves ( the first day 95% of the time ) haha and I think I was feeling an *expectation* based on our history . So I talked it out a bit . 90% of the time we will always have romantic Thursdays but there could be stress factors for me now.
Obviously when I was not working much in 2021 I was able to more seamlessly match schedules.
He has been really good overall about not stressing me with too much expectations. I think we are on the right track but I was surprised myself I wasn't feeling able to put the stress aside after only being intimate 1 time in like 4 days. :/
Like you mentioned too ..... factor in the nice dinner out ...... ugh.
I'm embarrassed my mood melted and I couldn't recover it but I can just move on from here.
^I know the feeling Carmen
Sometimes men equate amazing dates with instant sex but sometimes it’s like even the date isn’t going to change the mood (if one is in a blah type mood) and they shouldn’t expect sex but they do. Then they act like pouty passive aggressive little bitches.
miss.a.p1600
04-16-2022, 09:02 AM
That’s good y’all were able to talk it out.
Communication is important
LoveyD
04-16-2022, 10:20 AM
I fucking hate my fake-ass narcissistic twin sister. Hope she rots in hell next to her evil father.
Also I don't appreciate rude comments, especially when they are unwarranted.
miss.a.p1600
04-16-2022, 01:17 PM
I should be working or doing something productive but I’m sitting here like a bump on a log trying to pull myself together
Aurora_Sunset
04-16-2022, 06:36 PM
I'm annoyed we'll probably have to file a tax extension as well, since my husband's job fucked up his W2 and took weeks to even acknowledge that they screwed up and needed to send a new one, despite him talking to them several times.