View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
simone87
06-02-2014, 06:48 PM
^ holy shit, ugh mold is soo bad for you!!, he should fix it! where i live, a landlord is required to put you up in a hotel room until the mold is cleared up. i would hope they have similar laws there
audrey_k
06-02-2014, 06:57 PM
I looked up a mold removal company online and they said that it's a law in the UK that the landlord has to fix mold issues. So I sent my other flatmate an email and told her I want a professional to come and fix it and I will have to sleep in the living room until then... She's been living her longer and is the one that deals with the landlord. He better fix it...
kaninchen
06-02-2014, 07:04 PM
OMG Audrey, gross! Uuughh you poor thing!
audrey_k
06-02-2014, 07:27 PM
^it's so disgusting, I was absolutely horrified! And seriously it was like the cherry on top of my fucking sundae... three weeks of absolute shit at work, my rent is due in 8 days and I don't have it yet, I'm bouncing from club to club at the moment and haven't found a place to work for the next couple days (have somewhere for the weekend)... and then there's mold in my fucking room! I just want to cry right now. :( I'm hoping he'll take care of it immediately so I can at least sleep/get ready in my own fucking room...
audrey_k
06-02-2014, 08:28 PM
So apparently the landlord will not pay to have someone come and take care of it for me... fucking asshole! I guess my flatmate couldn't sleep cause she came out to the living room and said that she read my e-mail (NEVER seen her up at 4am before really odd) but the landlord wouldn't pay for someone to come get rid of the mold in my old flatmate's room. She said an inspector came and looked at the flat and was sure that the mold is not in the walls and it's not toxic, it's just condensation because the building is so old and badly ventilated and there's a lot of moisture in it. She said to start leaving my door and windows open more to avoid it happening again, and maybe rearrange my furniture so there's near the heater... but that I'll have to get some bleach and wipe the wall down and it should be fine... it's just so fucking disgusting I don't want to go near it! Like the smell and texture of it makes me want to fucking barf!
simone87
06-02-2014, 08:33 PM
how can he get away with just not paying, when its the law? is it only the law if its a certain kind of mold??
audrey_k
06-03-2014, 06:37 AM
^I have no idea... I don't know much about the laws in England, if there's some clause or whatever, but she said that I could pay for it myself and then fight him to reimburse me but that I might be arguing with him about it for a week and the mold will just get worse... so I just cleaned it up myself this morning. I got most of it, I didn't have time to finish it so I'm going to have to go back to it tonight. Seriously so gross... I once had to clean day-old vomit from the carpet outside my room in my dorm freshman year, less disgusting than cleaning two feet of mold!
BarbieNYC
06-03-2014, 07:32 AM
Annoyed because I miss hot, honeymoon phase sex and feel guilty for thinking my boyfriend is not sexually fulfilling.
Annoyed because I gained 15 pounds and have my huge ass back, but miss being skinny.
Honeymoon phase is over with boyfriend and me. April and May have been full of neverending, stupid little fights mainly because of my new birth control pills making me super emotional and him going through a lot with his job and family. He's definitely being overworked and underpaid. And like me, he works a mixed schedule of day and nights. And he is going through a lot of family problems right now.
Me being hormonal and emotional + Him being overworked and stressed = Not a good combination at the time
Got the Copper IUD put in last week and it's made things much better on my end. I'm back to my sarcastic, don't take things too personally self anymore. And I feel more happy and independent and less clingy. And SUPER HORNY. It feels good to have my libido back. Funny thing is, these past couple of days he's been super loving and attentive, which he hasn't been since the beginning. It threw me off for a minute, but I'm happy he's putting in an effort to change.
But damn I miss rough, hot sex. Now it's boring, married couple sex and he knows it and always feels bad and apologizes for not having energy, but I try not to let him know I'm not satisfied. I try to be supportive because he's just always so tired from working a mix of day and graveyard shifts and taking care of his family. He barely has time for me and the gym, which I know kills him because he's a gym addict and not being able to go at least a couple of times a week throws him in a funk.
I can't wait for our two week vacation. I think we're just both burnt out from work and need a little time to ourselves. July can't come soon enough.
Also annoyed because being on and off sick for the past two months, the new birth control pills, the antibiotics, and now this IUD has really put my body in a weird state. I gained 15 pounds from a combination of all the medicine, staying at home more often and not working as much, and cutting down on cardio at the gym and replacing it with weights and machines that build up my butt.
I'm happy to have my big butt back, but I'm definitely in thick girl territory again. I have nice muscular thighs and a lifted, fuller butt now and when I went back to work I definitely got complimented by everyone and people even asked if I got ass shots and fillers put into my butt and legs which makes me happy :) but...
I miss my slim slender look. I loved having such a pretty streamlined look. I could wear anything off the rack and it looked great. Except I was so unhappy with my ass. It was the only bad thing about the weight loss. I dropped down to 155 and looked beautiful until I turned to the side or there was a view from the back. My ass concaved in pretty much and everyone noticed, from my boyfriend, to my family, to girls and customers at work.
I loved running for miles at the gym everyday. It would clear my mind. Now when I go, I have to do weights. Running and cardio, which I'm so addicted to are out of the question. I mean I can still do it, but I barely have time for the gym as it is so between running and building up my butt, I work on the latter because a big butt in my job = more money.
Can I just be slim with a big booty? *sigh*
audrey_k
06-04-2014, 11:58 PM
I'm so annoyed with myself for leaving my bikinis in CA! I was sure I would be visiting home before the summer so most of my summer clothes are still there. I really don't feel like having to buy new bikinis and I haven't seen any as cute as the ones you can buy in Cali by the beach. Also, I have a bikini with the American flag design on it and I would love to wear it to work on Friday just to be obnoxious to the Brits. I would even just wear red/white/blue if I had something blue to wear!
michele11
06-05-2014, 05:12 AM
^Can anyone send them to you?
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-05-2014, 06:15 AM
I have a summer cold & I'm sure I got it from some kids at work....ugh. Note to all never eat food with your hands in a work environment with germy little kids. Hand sanitizer apparently won't even cut it....
audrey_k
06-05-2014, 07:50 PM
^Can anyone send them to you?
If I knew where they were yes! I was so sure I would go home before the summer I just ended up throwing tons of shit in boxes, I've got about 30 boxes of books, clothes, shoes, etc, some of which need to be trashed and others I wanted to bring back on another 3 suitcases (maximum I can bring with me). I should have done a better job of organizing, I just feel bad asking my brother to go through all those boxes and don't particularly want him going through my stuff anyway. :(
ScarletKitten
06-06-2014, 12:23 PM
Audrey, your mold incident really got to me. That really pisses me off that your landlord wouldn't take care of that for you! I would DEMAND half off of my rent for one month b/c YOU had to take care of the prob yourself. DEMAND a discount or threaten to leave. I wouldn't take "no" for an answer.
Also, I hope you are wearing some kind of mask while cleaning up the mold b/c if you inhale those mold spores, you could get seriously ill! People have died b/c of mold infestations, this is a really serious issue!!! I hope you got it taken care of. I can't believe what a selfish piece of shit scumbag your landlord is. Holy shit I would have lost my nerve over this!!!
Aniela
06-07-2014, 04:42 PM
This is more than a casual annoyance to me, but ppl who throw rocks at animals, birds in particular atm. Just watched this group of tourists harassing sm geese at the park. Seriously dipshits, your insecurity is showing, go pick on sm1 your own size. Really makes me want to leave them w/ sm strategically-placed cuts on their hands. I'd love to see how well they throw those rocks w/ no functioning radial or ulnar nerves.
Vackra
06-07-2014, 05:14 PM
"Welp" or "whelp" instead of "well". To whelp is to have puppies.
Aniela
06-09-2014, 08:40 AM
All of these recent resurrections of threads that are 3-6+ yrs old. I get digging back into older threads for info, I do it all the time, but seriously, check the date b4 you hit the reply button.
kaninchen
06-09-2014, 09:17 AM
My boyfriend intentionally came to my club the other night. He glared at me and left. When I got home, he started a huge fight and almost broke up with me. He told me that I'm base and unholy and that my job is sad. Now he's sooo sorry and acting extra sweet. He does this shit all the time! I'm sure he'll take me shopping in a few days to make up for it. I just get so tired of dealing with his sensitivities.
Vackra
06-09-2014, 10:47 AM
My boyfriend intentionally came to my club the other night. He glared at me and left. When I got home, he started a huge fight and almost broke up with me. He told me that I'm base and unholy and that my job is sad. Now he's sooo sorry and acting extra sweet. He does this shit all the time! I'm sure he'll take me shopping in a few days to make up for it. I just get so tired of dealing with his sensitivities.
WTF? Who acts like this? My husband would never speak to me in such a way or act this way. Is he 5? I would have broken up with him for this. What a weirdo.
kaninchen
06-11-2014, 07:35 PM
Yeah, it was really obnoxious, and I considered ending it. I decided to talk it out instead. He's a sweet man and, idk, people aren't perfect? Maybe I'm too forgiving.
Aniela
06-11-2014, 09:55 PM
Yeah, it was really obnoxious, and I considered ending it. I decided to talk it out instead. He's a sweet man and, idk, people aren't perfect? Maybe I'm too forgiving.
He needs to get the F over himself. If you think you are too forgiving, even tho it sounds like he has done it repeatedly, I'm curious to hear how many times you've forgiven him for calling you 'base, unholy, & your job is sad' read: your job is shit, therefore 'you are shit for doing this job'. Forgiving him doesn't mean settling for that crap repeatedly.
ScarletKitten
06-12-2014, 12:39 AM
I'm annoyed because I've been sick for the past few days, so I haven't been to work recently, and I HATE IT! I want to fucking work damnit! I need lots and lots of money!!! I miss dancing, and drinking and laughing, and having money thrown at me while I shake my ass. I seriously can't see myself doing anything else. This is my life, and I want to get over this annoying sickness ASAP!
Why is it that when I'm sick, I'm pissed that I can't work, but when I'm healthy, I'm pissed that I have to work?! WTF, lol!
Vackra
06-12-2014, 10:47 PM
Yeah, it was really obnoxious, and I considered ending it. I decided to talk it out instead. He's a sweet man and, idk, people aren't perfect? Maybe I'm too forgiving.
That is not obnoxious, it is manipulating and abusive and demeaning. Sweet men do not treat their partners in such a way, especially when the partner did nothing to provoke the behaviour.
simone87
06-12-2014, 11:07 PM
i ordered a caesar salad pizza and mozzarella sticks with a girl at the club, and when it was delivered i brought it back to the dressing room..the manager followed me in there and said " that isn't all for you , is it?" and gave me this look. if you wanna say something, just say it. really. i always pay my house fee and make the club money.
and ugh, i learned to never dig too deep with club reviews , especially on "strip club list". such nasty, untrue malicious shit written on there about almost every dancer.
chanzep
06-15-2014, 05:10 PM
Im so annoyed that on my first day off I have to get up early for my hair appointment, Im looking forward to getting it done but wish the appointment was later in the day im not a morning person blah!.
audrey_k
06-15-2014, 06:13 PM
My period is being very strange right now.... like, I'm trying to remember when I last got it, and I feel like it was 5 weeks ago. There's no way I'm pregnant because I haven't had sex with anyone in that time period.... I wish it would just come and get it over with, every day I wake up and am like fuck am I gonna get it today? today? no? today? ugh!
kaninchen
06-15-2014, 09:32 PM
I rarely make myself cute-cute anymore unless I'm working. I mean, my hair and make-up always look good, but clothes-wise I prefer jeans, a tee, and ballet flats.
Anyway, the other day I was out and about in a short dress with my hair styled way adorably. This skeezy old man grinned at me as I walked past, and then said, "14 out of 15, sweetheart!"
WTF?! #1, who uses a 15 point scale instead of a 10 point scale? #2, I was totally a 15/15! But mostly I'm mad at myself for not chewing him the fuck out. I swear to Jesus he looked like those bizarre grizzled yet nerdy old men that are regulars in clubs everywhere. As if!
Vackra
06-15-2014, 09:37 PM
My period is being very strange right now.... like, I'm trying to remember when I last got it, and I feel like it was 5 weeks ago. There's no way I'm pregnant because I haven't had sex with anyone in that time period.... I wish it would just come and get it over with, every day I wake up and am like fuck am I gonna get it today? today? no? today? ugh!
Stressing will cause it to be even more late. My period is very regular, but once I skipped a month due to stress and freaked out. No worries girl.
Aniela
06-15-2014, 10:20 PM
I rarely make myself cute-cute anymore unless I'm working. I mean, my hair and make-up always look good, but clothes-wise I prefer jeans, a tee, and ballet flats.
Anyway, the other day I was out and about in a short dress with my hair styled way adorably. This skeezy old man grinned at me as I walked past, and then said, "14 out of 15, sweetheart!"
WTF?! #1, who uses a 15 point scale instead of a 10 point scale? #2, I was totally a 15/15! But mostly I'm mad at myself for not chewing him the fuck out. I swear to Jesus he looked like those bizarre grizzled yet nerdy old men that are regulars in clubs everywhere. As if!
14/15 bc he knew he was a scummy-ass pervert that had no chance w/ you.
SweetJulia
06-16-2014, 11:48 AM
My period's due between Friday and Tuesday. Figured out I have endometriosis-not sure if I spelled that right, and they can't put me on BC til the Sunday after my period. So I'm in for a few days of crippling pain. Anyone know how much a hysterectomy costs?
audrey_k
06-16-2014, 06:10 PM
I feel like I shouldn't be complaining about this, but.... my fucking phone WILL NOT STOP RINGING with clients calling/texting me! I'm getting like 50 calls a day now! I'm afraid to pick up my phone when it rings and I don't want to talk to a client, and it drives me crazy hearing it ringing all the fucking time. I need to get a work phone ASAP, gonna do it tomorrow, cause they're calling me after hours and waking me up at night as well. I don't want to turn off my regular phone because I use it as an alarm, but I can turn that one off.
kaninchen
06-17-2014, 12:07 PM
One of my professors is late posting grades. So far, I have one A and one A- for the quarter, so depending on whether or not I make the Dean's List rests on this class. The grading for this class has been so inconsistent that I feel it's as likely that I'll get an A+ as a B.
If I get at least an A-, I'll have been on the Dean's List all year. If not, boohoo, no Dean's List this quarter. So hurry up and finalize my grade already! Ugh!
tuesdaymarie
06-17-2014, 12:36 PM
The motherfucking apartment painters keep doing Wario-esque laughs outside my window, and I am about to walk outside and beat them to death with a stiletto.
kaninchen
06-17-2014, 12:57 PM
^ Please do this, record it, and upload it as a motivational video for me!
simone87
06-17-2014, 05:00 PM
i wanna fucking cry im so frustrated. this week was "bill week", and so i worked my ass off and managed to pay them all off with 500 to put into savings..i was so stoked! then a bunch of surprise bills came in and now *poof* half of that is gone. . now that i'm nearing 27, i'm super conscious that i can't do this forever and i desperately want something to show for it. i haven't been able to save anything since last winter and i'm terribly burnt out. i can't work anymore, just working 3 shifts a week is torture. its like i'm at a stand off with myself, a catch 22. and to top it all off, my club has taken a real nosedive in the past year.
i'm thinking of either switching clubs, doing private parties, or clips on the side. *sigh* idk
KikiGem
06-17-2014, 06:18 PM
I have three managers- one is nice, the other two are serious DICKHEADS. Like we all know you are overcompensating for your own impotence, don't take it on your dancers. Anyway, two Saturdays ago I got in late because of school, and knew it would be a waste if I didn't stay all night.
So I asked to stay, and I did. I BANKED. Made so much money for myself and in turn for the club. Worked my ass off, never stopped moving. A few other dancers who work every Saturday night (and actually only have to work Sat. and Friday the best shifts) got drunk and fell asleep in the DR. Not my business, but it sucks that they get the best shifts and don't take advantage of them.
I spoke with the nice manager, we created my new schedule which would be Saturday doubles, Monday day and Thursday night. I was so happy! Finally I had the opportunity to make some real fucking money.
NOPE. One of the asshole managers totally took a shit all over that. He approaches me when I'm dead tired at the end of Thursday night and says, "We need to change your schedule, you can't work Saturday nights." I wanted to wring his neck. Why the fuck not? What's one more dancer especially one who helps line your pockets so much??
I fucking hate politics in the workplace. I hate being at the mercy of old men who have never been dancers and have an obvious disdain for them. You wouldn't make shit without us. There is NO reason why I can't work Sat. night. So here's my schedule: Monday day, Saturday day, Thursday night, and I need a fourth shift that hasn't been decided upon yet.
Day shifts here really suck and the worst part- there is one dancer who works every single day shift and she is seriously such a nasty bitch to everyone. Makes work even worse.
simone87
06-17-2014, 07:22 PM
Btw I know you said that even 3 shifts a week is torture but is there any chance that you might be like me where the more you work the easier it gets? The less I work the less I want to work.
yeah i probably should, i just get paranoid because my house fee is so ridiculously high that i won't make anything haha..but i'm going to try and add on one more day a week
chloemay
06-17-2014, 08:47 PM
Today was weird and up and down. The positive was that my Avon business cards came in- hello people who want to get all in my business about my job, here you go! And the gorgeous purse and wallet I ordered for my b-day came in too. The bad was, oops, I paid every bill and put $$ into savings and am now broke. Talking like $50 in the bank (the spendy part). The phone I bought last week stopped working, and the guy who was so nice when I bought it was a total asshole when I went in there all freaked out. He did get the phone working again (this is major as most of my income is from Niteflirt but not lately as it has sucked).
Then, I decided to get rid of stress and hit the gym. On the way there the sun was a Death-Ray, Summer sucks balls imo, and once there I couldn't find a parking space thanks to all of the stupid kids' programs going on. Too wiped out, without even leaving the car, at this point to bother I just drove home and complained to the man. All petty stuff and annoying. Hopefully the alarm goes off in the morning so I make 6am yoga (the only one w an instructor I like has to be 6 fuckin am)
whirlerz
06-17-2014, 10:08 PM
Yea so I finally left my crap hotel..& this one sucks too, stayed here before though & it was fine. Made a phone res. & was asked if I smoke..nope. The same bitch @ the front desk asked me yet again when I checked in..noo. Guess what? The room stinks, as this place had smoker's rooms (recently changed to all non smokering) & lucky me I got one. Three types of sprays, (including one I bought today specifically for smokers) a natural orange one too, window open, fan/ac separately & together on, & bleh.
Some dark eyeshadow broke in my make up bag, totally gunking it up, had to scrub it off my hands too, it's still a mess in the bag
I demanded my $ back for the unused time.
The nice thing is I gave myself a foot bath, pedicure & now my feet look & feel great after being scuzzy in my flip flops all day running around moving stuff around
kirakonstantin
06-18-2014, 10:46 AM
My step father has been in the hospital for over a week now. He's on over a dozen medications for congestive heart failure and, if the dosage is off, he can't breathe. So, 9 days to adjust his meds. We have no idea when he's going to be able to come home. My mom has been spending her days in the hospital, so I've been doing all of the household chores for her. She's also grouchy and understandably so. I hate leaving my mom home alone, because she's prone to falling and I don't want anything to happen.
I have not been working as much as I used to. I have arthritis in my back and hip and after a weekend, its hard for me to get out of bed. There's also the burnout factor. I was working 5-6 days a week for the first 3 months that I danced and it got to a point where I was so tired and burned out that I couldn't even approach a custy to hustle anymore. For a couple weeks, I just worked the weekend and called it good. I needed it!
So, last night when I got home, my mom started giving me shit about not working more, because if I worked every single day, I'd make so much money. She knows that I dance, but has no clue what its really like. I'm already burned out, I'm already exhausted, I have no social life. I work all day at home and then I go to work and work some more. What really gets me is that I make way more than my brothers do with their college degrees. Two engineers and a financial analyst. It's only the 18th and I've made almost $2k. All of my bills are paid early, I'm helping my parents with their bills... and I'm getting shit for not working enough.
Today is a day off, because I'm going to work Thursday - Sunday. I also have a cold that doesn't want to let go and I feel like hell. I got shit for not working tonight. I mean... come on.
My ex hasn't called or texted in a day and a half. The last time I heard from him, he was detoxing, grouchy and yelled at me. I got a 3 am text that said something weird and I haven't heard from him since. This sounds awful to me, but I'm kind of relieved. I have enough stress going on, so the break is nice. I just hope it's not because he did something stupid and hurt himself or his parents.
So, it's my day off and I'm cleaning out the storage shed. Great.
whirlerz
06-18-2014, 12:53 PM
Awww..I'm so sorry about all this. I wish I was by you, I'd help you clean out your shed!
Me: depressed, i'm embarassed to talk about it.
BellaK
06-18-2014, 01:05 PM
^^^^Whirlerz you are so AWESOME. You make me feel there are nice people left. Cheer up, Doll.***hugz***
BellaK
06-18-2014, 01:12 PM
Some days, I just get so sick of people. They're so stupid. UGH. (its the INTERNET mostly,punks have the BIGGEST BALLS behind a keyboard and I work here lol)
I have a growing touch of social anxiety, I think.
Sometimes I want people to stop texting me so much too....biggest distraction chatting about NOTHING. & They get mad when you don't respond right away. Its called a f*cking BOUNDARY.
I had to turn my phone off today.
kirakonstantin
06-18-2014, 02:16 PM
I'll be okay and thanks for the offer, Whirlerz. I think I'm just worn out. The last time I went out to do something other than work or run errands was... two months ago, maybe. I don't really remember. I also don't remember the last time I slept well either.
I need a break.
kaninchen
06-19-2014, 11:41 AM
Agent Provocateur is having their sale but NOTHING that I want is left in my size!
brb time for heartbreak
simone87
06-19-2014, 11:32 PM
competing against a very skilled dirty girl at work the past few weeks.i'm pretty pissed about it..haven't really experienced it to this extent before. sorry, but i'm not going to grab dudes, and promise overtly sexual shit..i have too much pride for that, i couldn't even if it was legal to do so.
there's a security guard who keeps trying to fuck me outta money..saying i owe another ten for a dance that i never did, and the manager automatically believes him because he was born with a penis and i wasn't. about to go talk to the owners about it.
SweetJulia
06-20-2014, 05:25 AM
OMG if one more person uses the word heck around me, they're getting strangled. It sickens me to even type it and I've never said it. I swear to God, the only thing that irritates me more is people who hurt animals. I'm getting a tooth pulled today and THAT'S less annoying. New policy: the more someone says it, the more they must suck in bed.
whirlerz
06-20-2014, 07:58 AM
Aww. Hope it goes well (as can be) for you dear^..
Me: just spilled hot coffee on my hand, cause the clueless idiot guy in front of me didn't bother to hold the door. I should've got a lid on it but didn't.
Aniela
06-20-2014, 04:48 PM
Well surprise surprise -- I have bitched on here b4 abt how my landlords treat their puppy. Just got back from dinner w/ them & they are serious abt re-homing him: 'two babies, one puppy, guess we got in over our heads' Well no shit, you got rid of your last dog after having the first kid for the same damn reason. FFS …
TransdimensionalPrincess
06-21-2014, 06:22 PM
I have so many computer issues that you know... I'd let 8 strangers fuck my asshole to get another computer. -_- I CAN NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE, LORD BRING ME A WORKING LAPTOP SO I CAN WORK, WAY MORE. Someone got $500 they don't need? lol :'( :crying::help2::help:
Kellydancer
06-21-2014, 08:34 PM
I have terrible itching lately due to allergies, it stinks. I am tired of itching and scratching so hard I bleed.