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LoveyD
05-10-2022, 08:21 PM
Formula shortages. My baby needs certain ones because she has colic. I'm getting pissed off that all these stores are out of stock. I really don't want to have to order it online but I had to because she was about to run out. I'm tired of the "you should've breastfed" crap. I breastfed for 2 years. I wasn't wanting to breastfeed again but I would've had I known there was going to be a damn formula shortage. My milk has dried up in my boobs and I don't think I can get it back. keep hearing supply chain issues are the reason for shortages but I'm not so sure. I've been using store brands and even those have been out of stock.

I've noticed while doing my Instacart shopping that formula has been out for some time. They really need to correct this bc this is one item that you can't just go without.

Cutie101
05-10-2022, 09:35 PM
Boyfriend never texted me on Mother's Day. I texted him and asked him why he didn't text me. He said he didn't know it was mother's day.

I think it's time to cut this one loose.How can you not know it's mother's day? Is he on drugs again? For a while I've been debating whether or not I want him in my life. I'm seeing too many red flags. This is going to be another guy who just causes stress and drama and doesn't do enough to enhance my life.

Think I'm just going to be single. It's not worth it. These men don't make it worth it.

Glad you're cutting loose. A man that cares for you, does anything to show you that. You deserve better, just focus on your goals and level the fuck up. You need a man that's at your feet that thinks you are a Goddess and treats you like a Goddess, if he makes you feel miserable and makes you humiliate yourself to ask him why he doesn't care about you, it's time to let him go. You don't need this. You took the right decision. Also, you're giving great example to your son, on how a woman is supposed to be treated.

LoveyD
05-11-2022, 11:44 AM
^^ My son hasn't met him. We never made it that far. I don't even want a man, anymore. I want to level up and make my own money and have my peace. My son doesn't need any more drama that these men create, either.

These men forget that WE are the prize.

Aurora_Sunset
05-11-2022, 05:06 PM
Idk if it's just our location or if it's going to be a company-wide thing, but Amazon is starting a "food panty" where employees can both leave and take food if they need it.

Like.... tell me you know your employees don't make enough money to feed themselves properly without telling...

Weird flex, Amazon lol Maybe just give us a raise that's more than 10 cents?

carmen_b
05-11-2022, 05:43 PM
^ yeah totally messed up and insulting in a way. :/

It seem like *anywhere* else ( church , the local bar , the gym ) would be a better spot than a place of employment for this.

Staci
05-11-2022, 06:15 PM
Idk if it's just our location or if it's going to be a company-wide thing, but Amazon is starting a "food panty" where employees can both leave and take food if they need it.

Like.... tell me you know your employees don't make enough money to feed themselves properly without telling...

Weird flex, Amazon lol Maybe just give us a raise that's more than 10 cents?

Was it just for Amazon employees?

Dreamqueen
05-11-2022, 10:37 PM
I got a message from the apt complex I've been on the waiting list for down in San Diego.
They have a 1 bedroom that will be available August 1st.
The problem is that it's more than TWICE what I pay now, for less than HALF of the size of my duplex.

She says it's facing North too, which means no sun exposure and probably dark.
Damnit. :(

seashell
05-12-2022, 12:58 AM
I miss my old dogs. My ex has them, and we live in different countries. He sends me pics sometimes, but I would give anything to see them again in person.

I adopted them as puppies (street dogs), and raised them for a few years. But he's a very good dog dad to them, luckily.

Aurora_Sunset
05-12-2022, 06:48 AM
Was it just for Amazon employees?

Yeah. We do food drives a couple times a year it seems, but this one is specifically for employees within the facility.

Aurora_Sunset
05-12-2022, 06:50 AM
I had to take attendance points and call off from work today, because I woke up at midnight and then again at 4am with horrible stomach pain. I'm not even sure what exactly it was. Like a combination of hunger (but I felt like if I ate anything, I'd throw it up), the beginning of period cramps, mixed with some diarrhea? Fuck

miss.a.p1600
05-12-2022, 08:30 AM
I did my best to apply to work from home only positions and have only gotten a couple of interviews which have led to nothing viable.

Today I get a call from an in-office employer and I’m thankful but instantly regretting it because it now means office politics, drug test, and commute. Three things I loathe.

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 08:32 AM
^ Don't commute then. Take it and get an apartment right next door haha. Pull it all off while L is at work.

I am joking and realize it's not that simple ..... but at some level .... it could be done.

whirlerz
05-12-2022, 08:54 AM
Aurora, I hope you feel much better soon!

My pissy rant is, I go to this one Starbucks, I was surprised to hear a guy on speaker taking my order..I thought the usual lady was off, but there she was at the drive up window, I mentioned it, & she said the corporate jerk person told me she 'wasn't chipper enough'?

She's outstanding, very nice, pleasant, enjoyable to talk to, etc.. >:(
TF?!

WendiStarr
05-12-2022, 09:08 AM
My 12 year old has this fake gag gift pile of poop that she and my 2 year old love to play with. They've left it on the couch, bed, table, etc that I'm not even fazed by it anymore. Well, I came out of the shower and saw a pile of poop sitting on the floor. I kicked it out of the way. This time it turned out to be real poo instead of the fake one. It looked just like the fake pile. My 2 year old was happily running around diaperless and pretty proud of herself for having figured out how to remove her diaper herself. Ugh. That is the end of the fake poop. I tossed it in the trash.

miss.a.p1600
05-12-2022, 09:58 AM
^ Don't commute then. Take it and get an apartment right next door haha. Pull it all off while L is at work.

I am joking and realize it's not that simple ..... but at some level .... it could be done.

Girl he is laying on this “stay with me because I’m changing for the better act”.

Whatever.

Im still going to keep leveling up, etc because I never know how long this act will last and if he will move swiftly or what.

Last thing I want to do is be ranting in pissy annoyance threads about the same shit for years to come.

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 12:36 PM
^ I look at it like this ...... if you get in motion towards the better paying job and nicer place and DURING that L manages to QUICKLY clean up his act then great .
I mean ..... it could be the boost of motion that you both need.
If he fails to improve on a good timeline ...... you've got it all organized anyway.

I wouldn't be afraid to talk with him about larger scale ideas and if he makes weird comments like he " doesn't think " you two can pull these things off ( such as big pay increases or home ownership ) ect. tell him it is concerning.
Tell him that YOU are getting that progress with or without him.

xxxGothBarbie
05-12-2022, 01:26 PM
So annoyed that I just spent $30 including tip at applebees just for an appetizer thingy. How and why in the fuck does it cost soo much to eat out these days?!? I enjoy it especially on days I don't wanna cook or dunno what I want to eat. Even though I'm finishing the rest for dinner , it's still too expensive imo.

whirlerz
05-12-2022, 02:36 PM
GothBarbie go to happy hour @bar, you buy a drink & they serve free food, or they used to..
I'd get a pop cause I don't drink

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 03:34 PM
^ Happy hours a good budgeting tip for sure!
I don’t eat big amounts so the smaller plates are a good size too without wasting.

indiegirl
05-12-2022, 04:43 PM
I decided to splurge and finally dye my hair and the woman totally scammed me and did nothing. I checked and compared photos and my hair looks exactly the same. Some people are so pathetic. I spent 176 bucks too.

LoveyD
05-12-2022, 04:51 PM
So annoyed that I just spent $30 including tip at applebees just for an appetizer thingy. How and why in the fuck does it cost soo much to eat out these days?!? I enjoy it especially on days I don't wanna cook or dunno what I want to eat. Even though I'm finishing the rest for dinner , it's still too expensive imo.

Eating out has become super expensive! I agree. Go during happy hour. Sometimes I even order from the kid's menu, too.

Aurora_Sunset
05-12-2022, 05:18 PM
Google wants to play games like it thinks I won't use TOR if I really want to find the information I'm looking for. I know you can give me FREE reverse phone look-ups, Google. DuckDuckGo did it in 20 seconds.

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 05:53 PM
I am trying to pack for this trip and feel SO behind schedule.

I am feeling so much guilt right now because I rarely see my family ( I was planning to at 6 p.m. after leaving here about Noon ) tomorrow .
My mom suggested I come 50 - 60 minutes FURTHER from the spot I thought I'd land at ( to see my Nephews soccer game ).
I feel so bad but I'm going to be lucky if I make my 5 hour drive in any sort of reasonable time.
I feel like I can not add nearly two hours more driving to this day tomorrow.

I think I need to start looking into using the city to city shuttles.

I might end up waking at 6a.m. just to pack out of this GUILT now.
I am so exhausted tonight that I don't think I can effectively pack a bag.

I'm seriously thinking of booking a shuttle.
OMG the whole reason I was doing this was so that a car would be in THIS city ( for a concert we are attending the 20th of month ).
I bet J would love it if I booked shuttle seats for us on the 21st instead haha instead of planting a car in this city like I said I would.

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 06:30 PM
I am really feeling the stress of my partner having a child today too. She got an expander thing put in for braces and we knew it would be a rough few days. I'm just getting worn out I think from it ( J being stressed about it ).
I have an admittedly hard time if I see kids getting " babied " . I think some empathy is good here because I think that can be uncomfy. BUT ..... the babying is still hard to watch.
I always struggle on day 3 of her visits
I thought I got ahead of it on Tues since I didn’t see them that day but I guess not.

It’s weird to complain today ( we have a 7 day trip starting Sun ) but it feels almost impossible to get to Sunday currently.

So cue that guilt up too haha . I know I'm excited about the kid free 8 days coming up but I can't really EXPRESS the excitement to my partner haha . I'll just talk about " trip " excitement.

xxxGothBarbie
05-12-2022, 06:50 PM
Eating out has become super expensive! I agree. Go during happy hour. Sometimes I even order from the kid's menu, too.

Ya I usually get the kids meal but hell that ends up around $10 for tiny portions. I went in sorta early but the lunch special was over by then ��

carmen_b
05-12-2022, 07:14 PM
^ That chain used to have a good happy hour roughly 3-5

Dreamqueen
05-13-2022, 02:09 AM
You should never fuck with someone who has easy access to the electricity in your home.
Someone who has your breaker box in their yard.

My stalker next door neighbor has pushed me to the brink.
I'm very patient and can put up with a lot.
But......once I get to my breaking point, there is no turning back.

The temps are rising.
It's going to be over well 100 degrees for the next 5 months.
Let's see how she does in that kind of heat with no a.c. or electricity.
:duel::censor:

Aurora_Sunset
05-13-2022, 03:04 AM
Our tax return was rejected because one of my husband's jobs didn't supply a state employer ID number. I'm so sick of this. We could've had our taxes done months ago if HIS jobs hadn't fucked up his W2s in multiple ways. And then he always takes weeks to contact the people he needs to and fix the problem. We're not even getting that much back... I just want it over with.

whirlerz
05-13-2022, 06:10 AM
I decided to splurge and finally dye my hair and the woman totally scammed me and did nothing. I checked and compared photos and my hair looks exactly the same. Some people are so pathetic. I spent 176 bucks too.

Un uh, go ask for your $ back!
Talk to the owner..
If they don't refund, go to your state's license board, file a complaint!
I've done this before..

You can also go to bbb.org, better business bureau

whirlerz
05-13-2022, 06:12 AM
You should never fuck with someone who has easy access to the electricity in your home.
Someone who has your breaker box in their yard.

My stalker next door neighbor has pushed me to the brink.
I'm very patient and can put up with a lot.
But......once I get to my breaking point, there is no turning back.

The temps are rising.
It's going to be over well 100 degrees for the next 5 months.
Let's see how she does in that kind of heat with no a.c. or electricity.
:duel::censor:

LMAO, I have the circuit box (or whatever it's called) in my room

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 07:32 AM
I feel the stress of the kids every time those kids come over and I am beyond thrilled when they leave.

Ls daughter is the same way.

Maybe worse.

Anyways…..8 kid free days - yasssss!!!

WendiStarr
05-13-2022, 07:50 AM
I hate how my ibs flares feel like pregnancy morning sickness. It gets me scared even though I don't think I have anything to worry about in that department.

carmen_b
05-13-2022, 07:54 AM
^ Yes Miss P :

I think I just misjudged and should have left town to see MY family sooner instead of being here for the whole Tues - Thurs. duration! I was gone Tues but here Wed / Thurs.

I depart today to head out to see my family and I probably should have just done so yesterday. :/

I think those things ARE uncomy.
I hated watching J circle and obsess ( she was telling him to leave her alone to watch shows ) !
LISTEN to her when she is showing signs of independence ha !

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 08:27 AM
^safe travels!

Sometimes I have intervened when I see off the wall parenting patterns.

carmen_b
05-13-2022, 09:17 AM
^ I do care about her but I would LOVE to see some independence . I encourage it ALWAYS !
I kind of think of myself as the voice of reason ha. Like .... everything I've suggested that she can do herself she WAS able to.
She COULD do more if given the opportunity ( when your parent helicopters it can be as damaging as being neglectful ).
You can't really tell someone how to parent so I just teach her things / praise independence.
But anyway enough about that because it's my 8 days off very soon haha.

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 09:29 AM
I’m ridiculously tired. And have to drag myself to work duties when I’d rather sleep and do nothing

ravenskyy
05-13-2022, 09:59 AM
I hate how my ibs flares feel like pregnancy morning sickness. It gets me scared even though I don't think I have anything to worry about in that department.

I suffer from IBS as well. I literally feel your pain. It was sooo bad during my last pregnancy. 3 times I thought I was going into early labor. Now I just get a random flare up here and there, often during my period. Ugh. It suuuuucks.

whirlerz
05-13-2022, 10:09 AM
I have ibs also, TMJ, they both get worse w/stress

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 12:17 PM
L said he has to leave work and go pick up his kids at school

He called me this afternoon and asked if I was busy.

YES! (Even though I’m here doing nothing but reading)

Don’t dare ask me to do free labor

carmen_b
05-13-2022, 12:45 PM
Not trying to cause probs but is he still not doing a smooth schedule ?
The kids shouldn’t “ wonder “ who is getting them / where they are staying. They should know. If you can get him to clean that up its better for them too!

I felt like I almost lost it packing . :/
I hate that I said “ my life has been really low quality the past few days “ out loud.
I already regret it even though he didn’t let it escalate into anything .

You’ve got the love hitting the finish line and melting down WHILE crossing it.

Its half true. The dental project sucked A LOT of time and I’m very tired of it BUT he still made time for me in the last three evenings roughly 8:30-10:30. I guess yeah life lost some “ quality “ but I know I shouldn’t have vocalized it . :/

charlie61
05-13-2022, 12:58 PM
^Right, LTRs have ups and downs. I think you being cool with a few lackluster days would help model the vibe he should have when you're occasionally down due to health issues, you know?

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 01:02 PM
^asshole pops up at the house …… with one of his kids (without informing me)

I immediately left as soon as I saw them and I’m staying out tonight.

Ima start walking around that mf NUDE

Want to be spontaneous? I got your spontaneous bitch!

miss.a.p1600
05-13-2022, 01:07 PM
Carmen, L and his ex wife are a shitshow. No matter what I recommend to be more efficient I think his ass is addicted to the “run around like a chicken with your head cut off” because that’s what he thinks parenting is.

carmen_b
05-13-2022, 01:43 PM
^ Yeah I do believe some people are “ addicted “ to being disorganized.

carmen_b
05-13-2022, 04:16 PM
Yes we should both keep our cool if there are a few boring days. It was just a few. Now I’ve got myself an infraction in that category. :/

I apologized quickly .


^Right, LTRs have ups and downs. I think you being cool with a few lackluster days would help model the vibe he should have when you're occasionally down due to health issues, you know?

Dreamqueen
05-13-2022, 09:32 PM
LMAO, I have the circuit box (or whatever it's called) in my room

Oh, the power( no pun intended), we have. Lol:ninja::shhh:

carmen_b
05-14-2022, 07:55 AM
I realized last night I forgot to take my birth control pill in the morning so I took it with an 11 hour delay.
That might explain why I was acting a little nutty yesterday.

whirlerz
05-14-2022, 08:03 AM
Oh, the power( no pun intended), we have. Lol:ninja::shhh:


Right?! }:D

carmen_b
05-14-2022, 11:50 AM
Yep day 1 of 8 ! :)
I'm with family today and then will meet him in our destination tomorrow.

Hopefully all will go well with the trip.
I was SUCH a mess leaving omg embarrassing.
I wouldn't blame J if he " accidentally " told me the wrong hotel.
Hopefully he won't and will can just roll into a good adventure.




Anyways…..8 kid free days - yasssss!!!

miss.a.p1600
05-14-2022, 02:51 PM
L said he has to leave work and go pick up his kids at school

He called me this afternoon and asked if I was busy.

YES! (Even though I’m here doing nothing but reading)

Don’t dare ask me to do free labor

Damn! I was right. He was going to try to ask me to pick up his kids. I’m glad I faked like I was busy.

I refuse to do that shit. I don’t know how to tell him I don’t want to drive to the hood and I don’t do school transports without sounding like an ass.

I’ll just have to make sure to be in another part of town every Friday afternoon.

he said he was too scared to ask me to do it.

Good!

Do NOT dare ask me to run all over town, drive into the hood, do favors for Bertha when that bitch could care less about helping me (ex. Sending her kids over on fucking Mother’s Day), and not offer to fill up my gas tank;

That h*e better carpool or tell them to ride the bus or ask her family. Fuck her!

No and NO!!!