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Cutie101
05-14-2022, 02:58 PM
Damn! I was right. He was going to try to ask me to pick up his kids. I’m glad I faked like I was busy.

I refuse to do that shit. I don’t know how to tell him I don’t want to drive to the hood and I don’t do school transports without sounding like an ass.

I’ll just have to make sure to be in another part of town every Friday afternoon.

he said he was too scared to ask me to do it.

Good!

Do NOT dare ask me to run all over town, drive into the hood, do favors for Bertha when that bitch could care less about helping me (ex. Sending her kids over on fucking Mother’s Day), and not offer to fill up my gas tank;

That h*e better carpool or tell them to ride the bus or ask her family. Fuck her!

No and NO!!!

Guuuurl when you are going to dump his ass?:))) bahahaha!!! I like your strategy, tho :))

miss.a.p1600
05-14-2022, 03:14 PM
Guuuurl when you are going to dump his ass?:))) bahahaha!!! I like your strategy, tho :))

Dodging Berthas obligations since 2021 … Bwahahahah }:D

The time can’t come soon enough.

The shit is stressful

JenniferNorth
05-14-2022, 03:22 PM
I have to vent. I'm having a bad day. My husband pissed me off so bad. We were at our oldest daughters ballet performance. During intermission, I saw a baby. I sort of want another, but I know after my cervical surgery it would be bad, plus I am 39.

I said "aww how cute let's have another" blah blah. Right away, without missing a beat, he mentions how we cannot afford it.

Then he starts talking about how I don't make enough etc etc. If I made as much as him we would be a okay.

BUT!!! This is the same man who has expected me to have clothes clean, make meals, clean the house. Mind you this conversation about my pay is in front of other people while we are sitting in an auditorium. I felt so humiliated.

I told him we need to talk during intermission. He wants to know what about??! I tell him his expectations are the issue.

Did you know, I'm wrong, and it's a simple fix??! Cage the dogs all day. Wash clothes and clean the floors. Was dishes. Don't wipe down counters or anything else!! Just do that on his days off.

This does not take into account homework, sick kids, trying to study for my certification, or anything. I feel so gaslit.

Soo....make money, but don't clean the house. But don't let the house get dirty, either. Have dinner ready. But don't forget the money part. UGH!!!

I am sorry everyone. I just need to vent. I feel like I cannot catch a break ever. I'm up at 5 every morning taking care of the dogs, the kids, the home, working daily too. But it's never enough.

I'm getting to feeling the same way I did with my ex, and it's so demotivating.

miss.a.p1600
05-14-2022, 03:37 PM
^vent away.

Sometimes these men are delusional at best.

My partner did something similar and started bragging about all the money he spent buying me clothes and paying the house note.

Like bravo! MOtherfucker.

Do you want to know how much time effort money and energy i saved you maintaining this house when I could be out hustling circles around you, mingling at high end happy hours, and replacing you with a sugar daddy?

They totally underestimate a woman’s work/worth.

Sorry to hear he was so crude about your desire for another kid. Maybe you can talk to him again about it in private? And get a resolution?

whirlerz
05-14-2022, 03:44 PM
Vent away, Jen!
Btw, good to see you back on here..::)

Yeah most men just expect domestic chores done like presto!
Sure Pal

Cutie101
05-14-2022, 03:53 PM
I have to vent. I'm having a bad day. My husband pissed me off so bad. We were at our oldest daughters ballet performance. During intermission, I saw a baby. I sort of want another, but I know after my cervical surgery it would be bad, plus I am 39.

I said "aww how cute let's have another" blah blah. Right away, without missing a beat, he mentions how we cannot afford it.

Then he starts talking about how I don't make enough etc etc. If I made as much as him we would be a okay.

BUT!!! This is the same man who has expected me to have clothes clean, make meals, clean the house. Mind you this conversation about my pay is in front of other people while we are sitting in an auditorium. I felt so humiliated.

I told him we need to talk during intermission. He wants to know what about??! I tell him his expectations are the issue.

Did you know, I'm wrong, and it's a simple fix??! Cage the dogs all day. Wash clothes and clean the floors. Was dishes. Don't wipe down counters or anything else!! Just do that on his days off.

This does not take into account homework, sick kids, trying to study for my certification, or anything. I feel so gaslit.

Soo....make money, but don't clean the house. But don't let the house get dirty, either. Have dinner ready. But don't forget the money part. UGH!!!

I am sorry everyone. I just need to vent. I feel like I cannot catch a break ever. I'm up at 5 every morning taking care of the dogs, the kids, the home, working daily too. But it's never enough.

I'm getting to feeling the same way I did with my ex, and it's so demotivating.

Isn't he helping with the house work? Do you have a dishwasher and a robot vaccuum? Does he put laundry in the washer? My partner puts the clothes in the laundry washer and takes them out, I do fold them and put them in the closet. I clean the bathroom and wipe the counters, he mops the floors and comes with the cordless vaccuum where the robot couldn't clean. He puts dirty dishes in the diswasher and leaves out the clean ones. I do put them back in the counters. He does grocery shopping all the time (I rarely go out with him to do it and almost never myself). Can he cook at all? mine couldn't in the begining, but he learned and now he is better than me haha.
Make him contribute with house work, make him wake up to take care of the dogs. Split the chores. Then he will learn some respect.

I'm sorry to read this. Mine can also be an asshole sometimes, but I pretty much trained him the right way, during the years. Men don't really get it, untill you give them a taste of their own medicine. That's when they open their eyes and see how it is.

JenniferNorth
05-14-2022, 07:11 PM
Cutie, he does help, but a lot naturally falls on me because I work from home anyway.

I automate everything. Robot mop, robot vac, dishwasher, washer and dryer. I even got an Instapot. He also knows how to cook.

The kicker is, he seems to think since he's worked his job (which I admit is busy), he's earned his right to relaxing day. Meanwhile I deal with appointments, any school or daycare related things, paying bills and so on. He doesn't seem to get it and honestly, I don't know that he ever will unless I were to up and leave.

I'm trying to clear my head and develop a game plan, because this shit is not okay. It's actually depressing and if you told me I would be here at this point in my life, I would have cried.

I think I need a game plan and possibly a therapist to help me move beyond this shit.

Thank you all for being a safe place to vent. ��

JenniferNorth
05-14-2022, 07:12 PM
Vent away, Jen!
Btw, good to see you back on here..::)

Yeah most men just expect domestic chores done like presto!
Sure Pal

Thank you Whirlez! I am done with my surgery and now that the precancerous cells are gone I am feeling better!

Yeah, bang maids all the way! Ugh.

What is your new avatar? A bleeding heart flower? Sorry for being dense...it looks pretty!

Dreamqueen
05-14-2022, 07:25 PM
I had to get up early today(which I hate with a passion), so I could make it over to the UPS store before they closed.
Right off the rip, my stalker neighbor starts banging cabinets and running the garbage disposal ( she has admitted to doing this to piss me off). Whatever.

Not in the mood, so I turned up talk radio really loud right up against her wall.
I didn't even shower. Just put on clothes and left.
What does she do?
Follows me to my car and says, "Good Morning".
Cocky cunt!
I didn't even look at her and ignored her.
Four years of this.
Wow.

TheBrownFox
05-14-2022, 08:12 PM
So annoyed that I just spent $30 including tip at applebees just for an appetizer thingy. How and why in the fuck does it cost soo much to eat out these days?!? I enjoy it especially on days I don't wanna cook or dunno what I want to eat. Even though I'm finishing the rest for dinner , it's still too expensive imo.


This. I was just telling somebody that I'm DONE spending $27 PLUS tip on some shitty-ass crab cake at this particular karaoke bar. That shit look like dog food, and they got the nerve to brag in their advertising about having one of the best crab cakes in the area. Lmfao. I'm taking a month break from that place anyway due to drama (Tired of grown folks acting like this is high school), and have been spending my time elsewhere for karaoke. At the two other karaoke spots I've gone to, their crab cake or crab balls taste sooooo much better, and even the Malibu Bay Breeze was brought over to me in a very pretty glass with a lime on top. Fancy!

Hell, at least at this other place when I order a crab cake, it's $20...but I get to choose two sides with it (I get the collard greens and corn).

Marina Starr
05-15-2022, 04:34 AM
I find it highly disturbing with the level of contempt and internalized misogyny that some hoes have toward sexworkers and women in general on this forum.

JenniferNorth
05-15-2022, 04:34 AM
Miss P, I forgot to reply to you, but I meant to say I'm going to assess the situation with husband first before I do anything else. He still has me pissed off.

He's also supposed to be trying to get into a school program for the fall, but I'm wondering if that will happen. He seems fine with his job (despite what he thinks, it doesn't pay enough).

My pissy annoyance is...I am tired of things costing so much. When did the prices on everything skyrocket?! Gas will be $5 a gallon soon where I live. Food is outrageous (like 7 $ and up for organic milk).

Despite NOT being poor and not living on the edge anymore, I am low-key going back to sort of living that way, because who wants to blow money when they can avoid doing so?!

JenniferNorth
05-15-2022, 04:36 AM
I find it highly disturbing with the level of contempt and internalized misogyny that some hoes have toward sexworkers and women in general on this forum.

Is this men we are talking about? Because if so, I am not shocked.

Now, if this is women acting this way....that's disturbing.

Marina Starr
05-15-2022, 04:46 AM
Not men, it's cunts I'm talking about on here and in real life. They're worse than men.


Is this men we are talking about? Because if so, I am not shocked.

Now, if this is women acting this way....that's disturbing.

JenniferNorth
05-15-2022, 05:55 AM
Not men, it's cunts I'm talking about on here and in real life. They're worse than men.

Ugh, no. I've noticed boards getting infiltrated with these types of people.

A vanilla board I read but never joined has some nasty people. This one focuses on YouTube mommy vloggers, and some are horrible about exploiting their kids. This one YT Mom I follow also likes to appeal to the pervs who watch her channel (!!).

Anyway, the women there got into a debate about this moms miscarriage (many think it was faked) and then one of these broads had the audacity to say no one should mourn an 8 week miscarriage because those are usually blighted ovums, meaning a baby never developed. THEN, this count went on to say it was totally okay for her to be upset over her 18 week old miscarriage. Wow. Just wow. Gatekeeping at its finest! I felt like saying "listen here bitch, maybe you shouldn't be upset over an 18 week miscarriage when some women give birth and their baby is stillborn or dies shortly thereafter!" I don't actually feel that way, but I felt like she needed a taste of her own medicine.

These low value people are everywhere, but I'm sad if they are here too.

naomi_doll
05-15-2022, 07:05 AM
Ugh, no. I've noticed boards getting infiltrated with these types of people.

A vanilla board I read but never joined has some nasty people. This one focuses on YouTube mommy vloggers, and some are horrible about exploring their kids. This one YT Mom I follow also likes to appeal to the pervs who watch her channel (!!).

Anyway, the women there got into a debate about this moms miscarriage (many think it was faked) and then one of these broads had the audacity to say no one should mourn an 8 week miscarriage because those are usually blighted ovums, meaning a baby never developed. THEN, this count went on to say it was totally okay for her to be upset over her 18 week old miscarriage. Wow. Just wow. Gatekeeping at its finest! I felt like saying "listen here bitch, maybe you shouldn't be upset over an 18 week miscarriage when some women give birth and their baby is stillborn or does shortly thereafter!" I don't actually feel that way, but I felt like she needed a taste of her own medicine.

These low value people are everywhere, but I'm sad if they are here too.

I may have said this before, think they are here to spread incel/red-pill/mgtow propaganda. Especially since they only comment on threads like that.

naomi_doll
05-15-2022, 07:07 AM
I've got to get my ass in gear and get back to streaming, I have a month before my vacation! I keep putting it off like a dork.

Aurora_Sunset
05-15-2022, 07:12 AM
I was trying to record my video interview questions for my IT program, and I had to get it done before 2 today. I asked my husband to keep the kids away from the bedroom so I could record in peace. I didn't realize my computer mic was so sensitive until it started picking up on their voices just talking at normal kid volume even with the door closed. I managed to get most of it done when I heard them take a break from talking, but then 10 y/o started yelling from his room for his dad. I called my husband before I started recording the last question and asked him to PLEASE keep them very quiet for the next 3-5 minutes because my mic was super sensitive. Of course... halfway through my second (last) attempt at recording the video, 10 y/o yells EVEN LOUDER, which is clearly heard on the video and also completely threw me off for a good 15 seconds of stuttering and muttering and losing my place.... I ended up submitting my first attempt, which I didn't really like, because at least it was better than a kid screaming in the background.

Like... seriously? You heard him yell the first time. That was the entire reason I asked you to keep them quiet. Why the fuck didn't you get up, go to his room, and TELL HIM to keep quiet for a few minutes while I'm doing this? When I say "keep them quiet," I didn't mean "wait until they scream and then tell them to be quiet." Kinda defeats the whole damn purpose...

Aurora_Sunset
05-15-2022, 07:16 AM
I'm also sick of him even continuing to put up with this yelling bullshit from his 10 y/o son. For at least 2 years now, I've been telling him to stop catering to the yelling for us like we're servants, and tell his son to get up off his butt and come find us if he needs something. Funnily enough, he doesn't do it to me, because he knows I'll just yell back at him to get up and come talk to me normally if he needs something. Allowing a 10 y/o kid to sit in his room and just shout for his dad repeatedly because he wants a glass of milk or some shit is ridiculous. Start telling him that if he wants something, he has to get up and come ask nicely.

Aurora_Sunset
05-15-2022, 07:33 AM
I'm both happy but honestly a little annoyed at the fact that pointy nails seem to be back in style. When I had my nails done religiously years ago, I wanted the pointy look, and was basically harassed and bullied by everyone, including at the nail salon, that pointy nails were weird and I would be better off with the square nails. I hate square nails, but that's what I always had, because they didn't even like giving me rounded nails because "they weren't in style." Now, everyone has super pointy nails. I mean, cool, but it's annoying. I should've just been left alone to do what I wanted at any point in time, even if it wasn't "in style" at the time. I should've just been bitchy and done it anyway. But this was my early 20s when I was a total pushover.

I honestly feel like this has happened so many times in my life. I legitimately like things "before they're cool," and get bullied about it until I stop. Then a few years later, it becomes socially cool, but if I try to jump back on it again, get accused of just "going with the trend."

I'm still annoyed that when I was a kid, I loved The Nightmare Before Christmas before anyone even knew what it was. And when it become a cult classic years later, I was accused of just "trying to be edgy" when I said I liked it. Not trying to be a hipster, like "I LIKED IT BEFORE IT WAS COOL" but you can tell I'm a bit bitter about this shit lol

whirlerz
05-15-2022, 08:29 AM
I know what you mean, Aurora, I've been eyeing the pointy nail press ons..

& yeah the kid, he needs to learn..

I'm so shocked at kids today (in the news) of such a young age, robbing, looting, even murdering these days...
It's harder to stop & correct, + keep doing it, rather than just give in to keep the peace..
I understand parenting is a serious chore.

I hope you get that job too!

lynn2009
05-15-2022, 09:22 AM
For all that some people are obsessed and high and mighty about shopping local, I wish they would be real about some of the things that simply make it difficult for most people. Small parking lots, inconvenient hours, higher prices, small locations so less in stock. And at some of these places, they follow you around like a hawk. So uncomfortable.

miss.a.p1600
05-15-2022, 09:34 AM
Aurora

I hate the yelling through the house.

Like get up and go make your requests in a normal inside voice tone.

Worse is when it’s pin drop quiet then all of a sudden someone starts yelling. And it’s not like they’re yelling to someone in the opposite wing of the house they’re right there next room over.

Like wtf. PTSD anyone?!?

L calls his kids now if he’s too lazy to get up because I can’t do all that damn yelling inside.

Cutie101
05-15-2022, 11:42 AM
I am pissed for spending $40 for some lame ass "gourmet" burgers. It's the 100'th time when I try something new, aside of my favorite gourmet burger restaurant that makes them perfectly and made them for YEARS. For the same price.
So, my bf sees that one of those high end and "specialized" in beef restaurants are finally doing home deliveries and we decided to try. Besides that we did wait for 1 hour and a half to be delivered, it was a complete disaster. The meat was full of spices and it was getting stuck in our teeth, the cheese was a lame slice of cheddar and the sauce was... meh. The major word was: tons of spices. The only good thing was the bun, it was freshly made there, just like at my favorite restaurant.
Now we have to wait AGAIN for the cheat day, to indulge with our fav burgers. We always say "never again" and end up testing something else, only to get back at our favorite place. Which is PERFECTION. The burger is soaked in cheese and the meat does have no spices, aside salt... it's just... good.

Aurora_Sunset
05-15-2022, 01:30 PM
I don't know what it is but I have the abdominal cramps and diarrhea again today.

Marina Starr
05-15-2022, 03:53 PM
What I hate most is buying grocery produces/vegetables only to go home and have to pick out what's good. T
his is why I only buy certain things at certain stores I know are good and I'm happy with.

Haven't been to Hoe (whole) Foods in a while but I went yesterday. The prices are good on certain things now that Amazon took over.

I bought:

four peaches
four bananas
three sweet potatoes
broccoli
cabbage
carrots

All organic so I paid $18.59 so I think that was really good. I'm happy with everything but what's most important to me is I feel I got the value for my money.

lynn2009
05-15-2022, 04:42 PM
It's the worst when you decide to treat yourself and the product is shitty.

Genoveve
05-15-2022, 05:03 PM
This. I was just telling somebody that I'm DONE spending $27 PLUS tip on some shitty-ass crab cake at this particular karaoke bar. That shit look like dog food, and they got the nerve to brag in their advertising about having one of the best crab cakes in the area. Lmfao. I'm taking a month break from that place anyway due to drama (Tired of grown folks acting like this is high school), and have been spending my time elsewhere for karaoke. At the two other karaoke spots I've gone to, their crab cake or crab balls taste sooooo much better, and even the Malibu Bay Breeze was brought over to me in a very pretty glass with a lime on top. Fancy!

Hell, at least at this other place when I order a crab cake, it's $20...but I get to choose two sides with it (I get the collard greens and corn).



I am pissed for spending $40 for some lame ass "gourmet" burgers. It's the 100'th time when I try something new, aside of my favorite gourmet burger restaurant that makes them perfectly and made them for YEARS. For the same price.
So, my bf sees that one of those high end and "specialized" in beef restaurants are finally doing home deliveries and we decided to try. Besides that we did wait for 1 hour and a half to be delivered, it was a complete disaster. The meat was full of spices and it was getting stuck in our teeth, the cheese was a lame slice of cheddar and the sauce was... meh. The major word was: tons of spices. The only good thing was the bun, it was freshly made there, just like at my favorite restaurant.
Now we have to wait AGAIN for the cheat day, to indulge with our fav burgers. We always say "never again" and end up testing something else, only to get back at our favorite place. Which is PERFECTION. The burger is soaked in cheese and the meat does have no spices, aside salt... it's just... good.

I am with you both. I have pretty much nothing but underwhelming experiences anytime I dine with mid-tier (American) restaurants. I feel like in order for it to be good the food either has to be cheap AF or it has to be fine dining when it comes to American cuisine, at least wherever I have lived. If I go to an Indian restaurant or a Vietnamese one or a Thai one...etc. the food will be good, but all of the American ones that have your typical menus consisting of burgers, wings, steaks, pastas.....it's always high prices for mediocre food. I've only been going to them because my mom picks them out but from now the next time she says she wants to eat out I am finding the nearest Indian restaurant and that's that.


I'm both happy but honestly a little annoyed at the fact that pointy nails seem to be back in style. When I had my nails done religiously years ago, I wanted the pointy look, and was basically harassed and bullied by everyone, including at the nail salon, that pointy nails were weird and I would be better off with the square nails. I hate square nails, but that's what I always had, because they didn't even like giving me rounded nails because "they weren't in style." Now, everyone has super pointy nails. I mean, cool, but it's annoying. I should've just been left alone to do what I wanted at any point in time, even if it wasn't "in style" at the time. I should've just been bitchy and done it anyway. But this was my early 20s when I was a total pushover.

I relate to this. Way back in the earlier 2000s when I first started getting acrylics it was the square and rectangle era but I wanted oval nails because I liked old movies and that's what they always had in them....so I would tell the nail techs that I wanted oval nails but they'd just give me rounded squares or rectangles, which were hideous. So what I would do was go get them done and then go home and file them into the shape I desired. Years later, before stilletto nails became a thing, I saw pics of Rihanna with her nails filed into claws, it might have been during her Rated R era, and I loved them and so for years I was filing my nails myself into points. I was thrilled when stiletto nails became the norm because then all the techs could do them. Unfortunately they got too good at them and I was puncturing through my clothes and car upholstery and stuff because they were so sharp. Now I do my own nails and usually go for the almond shape.

Dreamqueen
05-15-2022, 09:10 PM
57146
This was in Los Angeles. :O
Coming to a town near all of us?
I pray not.
It's already over $6 where I live.:-\

miss.a.p1600
05-16-2022, 10:06 AM
I don't know what it is but I have the abdominal cramps and diarrhea again today.

hope you feel better

i feel so icky when I’m on my cycle, stomach hurts, and I’m losing bodily fluids from multiple ends

JenniferNorth
05-16-2022, 10:20 AM
A whole list of annoyances today....

The groomer did not spray my puppy with powder spray. Good thing I have my own, but really? Why couldn't you just spray him? She doesn't give him a bowtie or bandana either.

My allergies are in full swing because it became instant summer overnight.

The puppy is now not always using pee pads. I'm thinking it's because he is six months, and he needs to get fixed (I was going to do that anyway).

My downstairs redneck neighbor moved out (YAY!) but left a shitton of trash by the dumpster. I hope she doesn't come back again to finish cleaning stuff out. She's done that for three nights now (she's only moving out because her alcoholic husband died....she works 30 hours/week and I know she cannot afford to live here). I can tell she doesn't want to go because it means saying goodbye to her white trash friends that live across the way. Good riddance.

carmen_b
05-16-2022, 10:56 AM
^ I remember being disappointed too when my boys new groomer didn't put a bow or bandana on him hahaha.

His old one up north does BOTH ..... a fabric bandana with a bow on the side and it costs the same. I love how fresh he looks with it .

Marina Starr
05-16-2022, 12:12 PM
Lately I've been craving Chinese food but it seems I haven't been able to find a place I truly like.
It's irritating and pathetic at the same time. Good Chinese good shouldn't be this hard to find.

JenniferNorth
05-16-2022, 12:53 PM
Lately I've been craving Chinese food but it seems I haven't been able to find a place I truly like.
It's irritating and pathetic at the same time. Good Chinese good shouldn't be this hard to find.

It is though, you honestly need a "hole in the wall" type of place. Our hole in the wall is part of a strip mall, so not like a fancy restaurant one would typically expect.

Carmen, I am glad to see I am not the only dog mom who is irritated by this! Should I ask next time? She offers it on her list of services. I thought most groomers just did that.

miss.a.p1600
05-16-2022, 01:01 PM
Got into a full blown argument with my partner who thinks being on a loan with his damn ex wife while we are together is acceptable

Then had the gall to say he hoped my elderly mom didn’t need me to co-sign on a home for her

Okay asshole!

JenniferNorth
05-16-2022, 01:08 PM
Got into a full blown argument with my partner who thinks being on a loan with his damn ex wife while we are together is acceptable

Then had the gall to say he hoped my elderly mom didn’t need me to co-sign on a home for her

Okay asshole!

SMFH because I've felt how you're feeling. Why the fuck these exs get a free pass?

This loan is from before they divorced? Or he went out and got it with her? Is there a long time left on said loan?

I mean, damn L, if you are this committed to fucking Bertha, just leave already.

He can't compare you and your mom, you are mother and daughter...not the same thing as a fucking EX who should stay an EX.

miss.a.p1600
05-16-2022, 01:26 PM
^yeah it was before they divorced

The divorce agreement said she was supposed to retitle it in her name but surprise her credit is still fucked up, she always comes up short on it, they owe more on that piece of junk car than it’s worth (2 years left to pay it off I think) and he acts like he’s too confused on how to pay it off.

I said work overtime, get a second job, slang dick……get rid of the loan AND make her keep paying you for it.

Like how fucking dare you say you hope my mom doesn’t need my help while it’s acceptable for your shit for brains degenerate ex wife to need your help, take resources from our household, and you gleefully pay her bills for her.

At least my mom pays her bills in full and just needs my credit score. That ex wife bitch needs his money, his time, and whatever else she can get out of him.

Fuck them both!

chanzep
05-16-2022, 02:29 PM
Wow I don't know how you deal with him. How can he say that.

chanzep
05-16-2022, 02:32 PM
Every vanilla job I get I hate. I feel crazy with the moon in my sign.
I'm so sick of hyprocrites . Practice what you preach or don't talk to me. Do you think I forgot what you say. You look crazy.
Also people online are crazy too.
Smh my day so long.

chanzep
05-16-2022, 02:39 PM
I feel like a alien at work I don't fit in or relate to anyone. Which is rare I normally have people I talk too. I still talk to people from my old job.
K

miss.a.p1600
05-16-2022, 03:26 PM
Wow I don't know how you deal with him. How can he say that.

I raged against him and hung up.

It’s probably adding on to the long list of things that’s going to fast track my move out day.

He’s an idiot and a hypocrite to even say that.

How hard is it for men to keep their mouth shut? They’d rather argue and be right than get their needs met in a relationship.

And I’m so blind with rage I can’t even see from his perspective at all.

miss.a.p1600
05-16-2022, 03:27 PM
I feel like a alien at work I don't fit in or relate to anyone. Which is rare I normally have people I talk too. I still talk to people from my old job.
K

Probably a good thing.

Keeps the drama to a minimum

chanzep
05-16-2022, 07:21 PM
Your too good for him. He should go back to Bertha with that nonsense. They seem on same level anyway.

JenniferNorth
05-17-2022, 09:03 AM
Miss P, please keep us updated. This bullshit and audacity between him and Bertha is unreal, and I am here for the day when you spell out to him what is what.

Genoveve
05-17-2022, 11:01 AM
My mom gave me two $5 giftcards to Starbucks she wasn't using, I used one and accidentally threw out the wrong one so on Sunday when I went to use the other one the card was empty.....so I ended up spending $9 on a coffee I didn't even really want. Then, because it was one of those grocery store Starbucks and I bought groceries beforehand, I realized yesterday that I left my two-pack of paper towels at the register. And I purposely splurged on nicer paper towels because last time I got cheap ones and they sucked, so that was like a $6 two-pack. So I basically spent an extra $15 on Sunday for no reason. :grumpy: I blame the retrograde.

xxxGothBarbie
05-17-2022, 12:39 PM
Annoyed as fuck that the 2 different auto repair shops I've called have given me 2 different ball park estimates on the repair and have priced the actual part as either over $200 or over $100 , which isn't correct. Then they want your damn last name when you aren't even sure you want to go there. I do love telling them I'm gonna just bring my own part they can use lol fuckin men trying to out smart me.

Marina Starr
05-17-2022, 01:00 PM
Feeling highly annoyed, agitated, mean and hateful today.

Cutie101
05-17-2022, 01:09 PM
Annoyed as fuck that the 2 different auto repair shops I've called have given me 2 different ball park estimates on the repair and have priced the actual part as either over $200 or over $100 , which isn't correct. Then they want your damn last name when you aren't even sure you want to go there. I do love telling them I'm gonna just bring my own part they can use lol fuckin men trying to out smart me.

Some repair shops are just the worst, ugh. I am grateful to have a mechanic that doesn't fuck up with us, him and my partner built such a great relationship in the past 10 years... too bad he's kinda old and he's such a great man. I already lost my dentist, due to covid and he died at 40. It's been 2 years since I still try to make courage to go to another dentist, but I will finally do it in a couple of weeks because I wanna get my teeth whiten and cleaned.

It's hard to find trustworthy specialists, that actually want your best and do their job. My lil brother got his first car and gooosh, how they tried to con him, seeing him young and clueless. Thank god my partner taught him about the tricks they use to take your money, now he brings the car at our mechanic.

xxxGothBarbie
05-17-2022, 03:15 PM
Some repair shops are just the worst, ugh. I am grateful to have a mechanic that doesn't fuck up with us, him and my partner built such a great relationship in the past 10 years... too bad he's kinda old and he's such a great man. I already lost my dentist, due to covid and he died at 40. It's been 2 years since I still try to make courage to go to another dentist, but I will finally do it in a couple of weeks because I wanna get my teeth whiten and cleaned.

It's hard to find trustworthy specialists, that actually want your best and do their job. My lil brother got his first car and gooosh, how they tried to con him, seeing him young and clueless. Thank god my partner taught him about the tricks they use to take your money, now he brings the car at our mechanic.

Ya I agree ugh.
The dentist is not only scary but mad expensive without insurance. In my experience they've tried scamming me hard-core when I went in for just a cleaning, then they get mad when you decline their sales lol. So frustrating, like just do your damn job ppl and do it honestly ffs!
Would you mind sharing some of the tips for the mechanic cons so I'll know what to look for? :)
Turns out for my car, that part is pricey AF ugh
I've been doing my research on it today.

miss.a.p1600
05-17-2022, 03:49 PM
Feeling highly annoyed, agitated, mean and hateful today.

Sometimes I feel too pissy for this pissy thread.

Too bad there is no "pissy, annoyed, agitated to the brink of rage" thread }:D