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carmen_b
05-24-2022, 01:46 PM
Oh I just read this closer !

The commission could now go to recruiter #1 since that was the first to put you in.

This new recruiter now can’t get the commission for you in for that particular one BUT she can put in for others.
( I think )

In my industry I'm 100% sure but it could be different for yours.


The recruiter I connected with yesterday isn't answering my texts today. Sooo weird! I accidentally had her submit me for a job I'd already had a different recruiter submit me for, and wanted to know how we can fix it so I'm only applying to the job through her. Now I'm over here anxious and convinced I did something wrong even though logically I know it's not a big deal. It would be super unprofessional for her to straight ghost me too so I doubt that's what's going on. Mercury retrograde???

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 03:03 PM
^ Isn't the third party recruiter process just so exhausting ?
I guess it makes sense with busy people not having the time to " sift " resumes.
They need pro sifters.

Anyway aside from that I feel qualified for this position . I have been bossing nerdy guys around for the last 15 years and I should finally get the big bucks for it. hahaha

Genoveve
05-24-2022, 06:17 PM
There's something that I see people do a lot that is very....perplexing to me. And I've seen all kinds of people do it; younger, older, all sexes...etc. and I've seen them do it over serious topics and over topics that aren't serious at all. It's where someone will have very passionate and strong opinions about something, but as you keep talking to them about it (or let them keep talking about it to you) it becomes obvious that they haven't even done the MOST.BASIC. 'research' on said topic. Like they're so completely wrong on even the most basic facts that you know they couldn't have actually done ANY reading on the subject and so I just wonder what on earth is the motivation behind this. Like how can someone feel so passionately about something to where they will foam at the mouth to harangue people about it, and yet simultaneously be completely disinterested in reading (or listening to) ANYTHING about it? I really don't understand and wonder if it's a form of delusional behavior or something? How can someone simultanously be completely invested and uninvested in the same thing? I wonder too if it might be a symptom of some sort of personality disorder because it seems completely performative, like their focus ultimately seems to be on having the other person/people know what they think or 'know' about the topic, and not at all on the actual topic. Like the preoccupation is actually with how they want others to perceive them.

Putting this in this thread because yes, I find this behavior to be extremely annoying.

chanzep
05-24-2022, 09:00 PM
Yes people are crazy and full of shit.
I hate how I literally crossed the street and spent $100 . I did nails , eyebrows and got food .

xxxGothBarbie
05-24-2022, 09:13 PM
Narcissistic ex bf's that wear wigs that create false ass fb posts about me years later talking shit... I hate incels with a passion. I wanna slap the living shit out of him.

carmen_b
05-24-2022, 10:00 PM
Goodness like clockwork every time.
It’s day 3 of daughters 5 day visit. Le Sigh .
I stress out on day 3 ( only on the longer ones ) every time .
We had to make up a day or two I guess which is probably fair since we were traveling.

I do SO much better with the 3 day ones.

I’m debating talking to him openly about it but I’ve never chatted transparently about the longer ones being much more challenging .
I’m not sure I want to go there ( obvious reasons ).

Good night. I’m so taking a sleeping pill . :/

EDIT : Feeling better after sleep but totally using the AirBnB today.
I will be there 8 hours “ restocking “ my products hahah.

miss.a.p1600
05-25-2022, 07:47 AM
L mentioned AGAIN last night how I never take his daughter anywhere.

I mentioned again how I was tired of him being pushy and nitpicking on *how* I spent time his kids.

I volunteer my time and money how I see fit. You’re not going to bully me into taking care of your kids. And I won’t allow you and your baggage to suck up my resources without any compensation.

You push a person that’s known your kids a good year or so to spend time with your kids, yet when their own mother wants to get rid of them any chance she gets (like on Mother’s Day) you say nothing.

Make it make sense?!?

I really hate that Bertha acts like such a mega cunt that her kids are desperate for attention from anyone with a pulse and two ears. I hate that L is so smothering and coddling of his kids that he won’t allow their family to help him take care of them and tries to push them (especially his daughter) off on me.

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 08:00 AM
^ I actually would like to take my partners daughter out somewhere to celebrate end of school.
Last year we did manicures.

But yes if you are not wanting that he really can’t force the issue.
If you do then “ hack it “ to do something you’d already do anyway / drive somewhere you are already going ect.

miss.a.p1600
05-25-2022, 08:27 AM
You’re a lifesaver with ideas Carmen

He always has these kids at this house so I do spend one on one time with her here like baking, cleaning and chatting, and walking around the block.

I’ve also invited his kids out to hang out with my family for dinners and entertainment.

His problem = me driving her.

Like wtf does it have to be a certain way? As long as the time is spent that should be what counts?

Why tf do I have to chauffeur her around, use my gas, and risk her tearing up my luxury car? Anyways I got a pet/kid seat protector and he did finally offer money. So I may consider something quick (because the kid is high strung) but have an Uber drive (still don’t want this kid tearing up my stuff or getting used to luxuries these degenerate parents won’t provide because I’m trying to leave him)

Sorry if this seems like a mega cunty thing I don’t want to commit to. It’s just the fact that he’s so demanding and whiny about it being a certain way that makes me not want to do it even more.

I think it also pisses me off that he wants me to do all these compromises for him AND his kids, yet refuses to improve things that would make this situation better.

Whatever I think I’m mentally freeing myself from these obligations until I can be completely free from this laundry list of obligations he’s creating.

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 08:45 AM
I was going to suggest too that maybe HE drive you both and pay for the activity you are doing.
Basically .... you put up the effort to find and book it and he takes you both and hands the card over. :)
Win / win. Come back with fresh nails and you " got out " with the daughter. There is a beauty school near me with $7 mani's so if I was paying that is where we would go haha.

I don't take it that far ( I usually pay when I take J's daughter out ) but since he is *pressing* you know ?

I'm totally feeling guilty about leaving our home at the moment to head towards the AirBnB but since I'm there ..... I DO need to restock and why not just hang there until my house is totally quiet at 7:15 tonight OR possibly stay the night over there ? I feel like sometimes J judges me for needing quiet at a level other people don't but I DO need it . :/

miss.a.p1600
05-25-2022, 09:01 AM
^okay that’s definitely doable for me.

I can’t thank you enough for the ideas.

I’ll suggest your ideas and see where it goes.

lynn2009
05-25-2022, 09:49 AM
My neighbor is having her fence replaced today and somehow this has resulted in them bombarding my yard. They did ask, but only after they had already open my gate and started bringing their tools in.

indiegirl
05-25-2022, 11:21 AM
My drivers car smells like Lysol and he was trying to cover up the stench of fart. Gross.

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 11:26 AM
^ hahahah omg

smeca
05-25-2022, 11:39 AM
You guys posting about step children, I feel it. My bf has a daughter who comes to stay sometimes, I don't know anyone who has this situation so it's helpful to read other women who are not super into it. My annoyance is dinner time, she typically leaves her veggies and supposesly dislikes meat (except sausage, burger, anything on a pizza lol). I dont like wasting food but also don't want to just feed her something i think isn't balanced/watch her walk off after just eating potatoes and gravy. She's not here very often so maybe I shouldn't worry about her nutrition, it won't make much difference.

Idk how mothers do it!

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 12:12 PM
^ haha
That is cute you watch the veggies. I'm a fitness nut so half my plate is veggies ...... like ...... do you want to look like shit ? hahaha
I imagine she is the age she doesn't need to worry about calories yet ha !

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 12:13 PM
I went for the straight shooting option ( eventually ) and told J I was doing the AirBnB restocking and leaning towards staying the night over there to " get a quiet evening " .
He was totally fine with it ! :)

miss.a.p1600
05-25-2022, 12:37 PM
^that's good he's reasonable and knows when space is helpful.

smeca
05-25-2022, 12:57 PM
^ haha
That is cute you watch the veggies. I'm a fitness nut so half my plate is veggies ...... like ...... do you want to look like shit ? hahaha
I imagine she is the age she doesn't need to worry about calories yet ha !

Yeah no issue with calories, but she had growing pains once and complains of being small.... then eat those vitamins!!

I know I was fussy, maybe it doesn't matter idk

Cutie101
05-25-2022, 03:16 PM
My neighbor is having her fence replaced today and somehow this has resulted in them bombarding my yard. They did ask, but only after they had already open my gate and started bringing their tools in.

You reminded me how I spent $10.000 on the new fence at the country side, because there was some... wires... surrounding the land I bought and now one of the neighbors, that abandoned his piece of land for years, suddenly brings new potential customers to sell it and brags with "as you can see, there's a brand new fence here!!" Yeah bitch, you didn't spend SHIT on it.

Glad the other neighbors agreed to pay 50/50 for their side. They couldn't have avoided since they are home all the time.

carmen_b
05-25-2022, 05:36 PM
I was worried it might trigger him to me over here. The last time I was over here was " the incident " ( cue alarming music ) ....that time 2.5 months ago when his "ex" resurfaced on FB and he wouldn't delete right away. That time I packed like half the closet and pushed all the other stuff together to make it look like I took even more.
I was having that full on camp out over here with ZERO plans to return until he took care of that STUPID decision.
He could have solved that within 24 hours . It was him who drug it out 2-3 days.

BUT ..... this time was much more peaceful hahaha. I was just worried I'd rustle feathers or something I guess. He was completely fine and I'm enjoying the quiet.


^that's good he's reasonable and knows when space is helpful.

Dreamqueen
05-25-2022, 09:42 PM
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The audacity. ::)
No overnight guests. A shack.
Lol
Totally illegal to demand that.
But the entire place is probably an illegal rental.

neverendingkneebruises
05-26-2022, 04:51 AM
Customers always photobombs my selfies (that I am trying to take for onlyfans usually) and it's SOOO annoying!!! Get out of here you ugly toad!! Ruining my perfect shot with your blurry, ugly, wrinkly, unmoisturized mug and cringey af peace sign. LOL

I'm going to start harassing tips out of customers that keep ruining my selfies. I'll tell them the exact same thing. These pics are for onlyfans & now I can't post that one so tip me or buy a dance, son!!

lynn2009
05-26-2022, 07:37 AM
Glad the other neighbors agreed to pay 50/50 for their side. They couldn't have avoided since they are home all the time.

My neighbor didn't ask and I'm glad honestly. This all started because one panel needed to be replaced and I offered to split that repair. But I don't have thousands to split on something that could have waited. That said, the fence was really old, maybe even original to the house. It looks very nice now, and there's no gaps for the dogs to see each other and start barking.

Genoveve
05-26-2022, 10:07 AM
The audacity. ::)
No overnight guests. A shack.
Lol
Totally illegal to demand that.
But the entire place is probably an illegal rental.

And just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, it’s in Barrio Logan. The audacity indeed.

Marina Starr
05-26-2022, 10:54 AM
I've talked a lot about how men would heckled and harassed me so they can get attention. Women do it to me too but with other motives. With women it's more of 'poking the bear' kind of thing. Women are just more cunning and they know it's not seen as bad if women to it to other women as much as men do it to women.
I'm an Empath so I pick up on everything and extremely intuitive. It's very hard to articulate to people who aren't. It's even harder for other people to 'GET IT' unless it directly happens to them.

So Chick Fil A was super busy today because it was lunch hours. I usually avoid it but I was at Sephora and HAD to get a darker shade of foundation that I love.
I got my food and was trying to leave the food court as fast I can, this white cunt was in front of me and deliberately trying to block me. I KNOW she knew I was behind her because every turn I tried to go, she block would block me. I oftentimes would go out of my way so I can leave in peace but sometimes it's very hard when you're being harassed. Finally I screamed 'MOOOOOOOVE!' for that cunt to finally stop. She moved so fast I couldn't even see her do it. It was so loud that it echoed through the whole food court.

I'm very petite so people are usually shock and would ask how I can get that loud. Best way I can articulate is the adrenaline. It's the same as when mothers can lift cars to save their babies.
And of top of that RAGE. I know there are people that understand exactly what I'm saying because it resonates so deeply with them. It's good to let it out.

What makes it all better was I love the new NARS light reflecting foundation and Chick Fil A crispy and homophobic chicken sandwich was bomb!

I feel so much better now that I'm home so the SCREAM was more than worth it and would do it again when and if it's called for.

moneybags
05-26-2022, 11:09 AM
^^^Maybe it’s someone else on this forum but aren’t you transexual. Is that why they are bullying you? I’ve seen it. The girls at work were laughing about some trans women that wanted to work. It amazes me how other women can be that way to other women. I have special place of self righteousness for women who mistreat other women. Isn’t life hard enough as a woman. That’s why we can get anything going as a womens movement because we tear each other down!

Hope you have a beautiful day anyways. I’m super sensitive and I don’t even want to leave my house because I can FEEL everything! Ugh. I do energy work before I leave the house to protect myself.

Somedays despite the meditation and energy work I just get tired of people’s shit. I think it’s good to mirror people’s energy back to them. I think the dark feminine energy is sometimes necessary to get people to act right.

xxxGothBarbie
05-26-2022, 12:25 PM
People on this forum get on my fucking nerves. Ugh .

whirlerz
05-26-2022, 12:52 PM
People on this forum get on my fucking nerves. Ugh .

I heard that ^!

Marina Starr
05-26-2022, 12:54 PM
Yes, I am Trans. They THINK they can bully me but none ever boldly do it to my face. It's more of 'poking the bear', passive aggressive and micro-aggression.
I don't give off the impression that I can be bullied. I let them know not without a fight.
Some of it has to do with me being Trans but in a lot of ways it's not. It's a bit of me being beautiful, confident, sexworker AND Trans so those are four layers they hate.
None of it has anything to do with me. It's just a manifestation of their own insecurity.

In my personal experience a lot of cisgender women are more vicious and mean to me than men. With men it's just in a sexual manner.

You know a lot of women can be incredibly mean to other women just for being beautiful. I'm sure that's something you can relate.

Those cunts at your job should pray that they don't have to struggle with their gender as the Trans woman that they laughed at. I'm a champion for anyone that's being bullied.
I don't let that fly on my watch.

I left that shit at the mall. Now I'm having a great day and I hope you do too.




^^^Maybe it’s someone else on this forum but aren’t you transexual. Is that why they are bullying you? I’ve seen it. The girls at work were laughing about some trans women that wanted to work. It amazes me how other women can be that way to other women. I have special place of self righteousness for women who mistreat other women. Isn’t life hard enough as a woman. That’s why we can get anything going as a womens movement because we tear each other down!

Hope you have a beautiful day anyways. I’m super sensitive and I don’t even want to leave my house because I can FEEL everything! Ugh. I do energy work before I leave the house to protect myself.

Somedays despite the meditation and energy work I just get tired of people’s shit. I think it’s good to mirror people’s energy back to them. I think the dark feminine energy is sometimes necessary to get people to act right.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 01:46 PM
Told L I was highly considering an office.

He sitting here telling me how he thinks it’s a bad idea.

Of course, because I refuse to have you bringing those kids back to the house disrupting my peace, invading my space, forcing me to be a free nanny, and scared I’ll meet your replacement in the office.

I’m highly considering getting a secret sugar daddy to pay for it too!

Cutie101
05-26-2022, 01:49 PM
My neighbor didn't ask and I'm glad honestly. This all started because one panel needed to be replaced and I offered to split that repair. But I don't have thousands to split on something that could have waited. That said, the fence was really old, maybe even original to the house. It looks very nice now, and there's no gaps for the dogs to see each other and start barking.

You tell me! A nice looking fence is lifting the mood, haha!!! Actually, we didn't ask the neighbors either, those offered to pay for their side, because they said they'd never afford the full costs and they were feeling bad to not contribute, so we agreed. We weren't expecting anyone to pay, as we were already having the budget for the whole yard. The other neighbor annoyed me because he neglected his side, he didn't even come around to say a hello or something, basically we didn't see his face until the fence was done, when he suddenly came and cleaned his piece of land and started bringing potential customers and brag that "look how solid the fence is, it's brand new, as you can see, no problems with the neighbors!". I mean... seriously?? Ahahahaha!! :)))) :))) :)))
I am really thinking to buy that piece of land for my mom, since she always dreamed to have a lil cottage at the country side, to relax in the weekends. Depends how much he wants to ask, last time I heard he was asking per square foot, 3 times the price we paid for our land, lol. Because of the new fence. Imagine the comedy, if I wanna buy it and he'd try to charge me for MY fence :)))

buttonpop
05-26-2022, 02:03 PM
someone will have very passionate and strong opinions about something, but as you keep talking to them about it (or let them keep talking about it to you) it becomes obvious that they haven't even done the MOST.BASIC. 'research' on said topic. Like they're so completely wrong on even the most basic facts that you know they couldn't have actually done ANY reading on the subject and so I just wonder what on earth is the motivation behind this.

god I hate this too. After the kyle rittenhouse verdict, my girlfriend's boss spent 5 hours at work ranting about it even though she knew literally NOTHING about the case and kept saying that kyle shot 3 black men. My girlfriend agreed what kyle did was despicable but politely corrected her that actually he shot 3 white men. The boss was so up in arms about being corrected that she accused my girlfriend of defending kyle and turned everyone at the workplace against her for MONTHS until her coworkers found out what my girlfriend actually said and realized that the whole thing was ridiculous.

how can you be so enraged about a case that you don't even know basic facts about. then try to cancel someone just for politely correcting you. so frustrating.

Cutie101
05-26-2022, 02:07 PM
Told L I was highly considering an office.

He sitting here telling me how he thinks it’s a bad idea.

Of course, because I refuse to have you bringing those kids back to the house disrupting my peace, invading my space, forcing me to be a free nanny, and scared I’ll meet your replacement in the office.

I’m highly considering getting a secret sugar daddy to pay for it too!

I rented a separate camming space, altough we don't have kids. My partner didn't bat an eye, he knew I wanted a separate space, because I was tired to work from home (and he also works from home now and our house is a giant office) and as soon as he heard there's an apartament available, he told me and I got it for work. L can suck a dick, go get your office, girl!

whirlerz
05-26-2022, 03:27 PM
Two fucking packages stolen from doorstep 30 minutes after delivery. Boxes left, shit yanked out, mind you this is 9pm! Had this happen so many times with this delivery company. Who delivers that late? I was waiting like a hawk but eventually I had to work. Package delivery is STILL such a mess and most companies do whatever they can to undercut both their workers and package receivers.

Would getting a PO BOX help?
This's what I do, if they say no po delivery, just give the the street address, & your box #.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 05:54 PM
L is so fucking dumb. He has multiple days off and instead of telling his kids “I will get you Friday and Saturday” he lets them know he’s off multiple days and let’s them hustle him into coming to this house outside of the standard parenting time.

I don’t care if you want to spend your fatherly time but go OUT somewhere.

I don’t want to have to clean up after them nor listen to there loud asses when I want peace and quiet.

I have a 2 day/night MAXIMUM that I want to deal with this.

And what is really pissing me off is he’s like “I’m bringing them to the house right now” Bruh I’m not okay with this last minute planning and no consultation or regard or consideration for my time, space, energy dealing with this.

Okay well hurry up and take them back to Berthas house and they better not guilt him into spending the night or I’m going to last minute plan a trip to Sugar Daddy Headquarters this entire weekend.

Fuck him, fuck Bertha, fuck them all!

THIS is the reason I’m leaving his ass.

whirlerz
05-26-2022, 06:03 PM
L is so fucking dumb. He has multiple days off and instead of telling his kids “I will get you Friday and Saturday” he lets them know he’s off multiple days and let’s them hustle him into coming to this house outside of the standard parenting time.

I don’t care if you want to spend your fatherly time but go OUT somewhere.

I don’t want to have to clean up after them nor listen to there loud asses when I want peace and quiet.

I have a 2 day/night MAXIMUM that I want to deal with this.

And what is really pissing me off is he’s like “I’m bringing them to the house right now” Bruh I’m not okay with this last minute planning and no consultation or regard or consideration for my time, space, energy dealing with this.

Okay well hurry up and take them back to Berthas house and they better not guilt him into spending the night or I’m going to last minute plan a trip to Sugar Daddy Headquarters this entire weekend.

Fuck him, fuck Bertha, fuck them all!

THIS is the reason I’m leaving his ass.

^^^^!

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 06:26 PM
Words cannot describe how much I hate this mf right now. I cannot wait till I’m finalizing the plan to leave.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 09:13 PM
His ass gone say “I think my son should live with us”

I gave him a blank stare and said is Bertha going to pay child support for that convenience?

He’s like she’s not going to pay anything. Well if she’s not paying anything then I’m not doing anything for her convenience that would inconvenience me.

All this because his son whining about having to turn the video games off and go to bed at 10:30.

I’m like bruh he would hate living here because he wouldn’t even have video games, he’d have chores, he’d have to do schoolwork, and he’d still have to go to bed at 10:30.

Unless this is an emergency CPS situation then you need to stay your ass where you belong ….. with your mom on the weekdays. If you hate your mom so much then get a job and get out of the house.

miss.a.p1600
05-26-2022, 09:46 PM
Words cannot describe how much I hate this mf right now. I cannot wait till I’m finalizing the plan to leave.

Ok my feeling of hate is gone because he mostly redeemed himself by cleaning the house, cooking, doing laundry, and taking those kids back.

Sadly his son is pissed because he didn’t want to go back home to Bertha. Well kid, too bad you have a pissy attitude mother and your father teased you by getting you before his parenting time started (he should have been clear you spend the night only two days this weekend and not an hour sooner). Get a job, get some friends, get out the house and you won’t have to deal with her.

Dreamqueen
05-26-2022, 09:56 PM
And just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, it’s in Barrio Logan. The audacity indeed.

Ikr?
It's in such a horrible neighborhood.
I'm betting that the 'utilities included ' means that there is no separate meter, and the douchbag owner controls the electricity, etc.
It would be awesome if a bitcoin miner moved in and ran up the electric bill.
A buddy of mine did that at his current apt. Landlord can't do shit about it, because all utilities are included.
Oh well. A deal's a deal.:smellie_z :shrug::smiley_sm
Lol

moneybags
05-26-2022, 10:40 PM
Ok my feeling of hate is gone because he mostly redeemed himself by cleaning the house, cooking, doing laundry, and taking those kids back.

Sadly his son is pissed because he didn’t want to go back home to Bertha. Well kid, too bad you have a pissy attitude mother and your father teased you by getting you before his parenting time started (he should have been clear you spend the night only two days this weekend and not an hour sooner). Get a job, get some friends, get out the house and you won’t have to deal with her.

I hope everything works out. These dudes be flipping the script it starts out good then it’s a sloooow decline.

miss.a.p1600
05-27-2022, 07:19 AM
^thats why I’ll always have a pinky toe out the door ready to head to sugar daddy central quicker than he say “Bertha dropping these kids off” the moment he declines past my expectations

I’m tired as shit (Starbucks caffeine induced insomnia) and want to sleep this lovely Friday

carmen_b
05-27-2022, 07:22 AM
L just doesn't seem to get the " take the kids when it's YOUR scheduled time " thing .
Maybe you could just suggest they be ANYWHERE ELSE during the non-scheduled time if they do extra.

I am not even sure what to suggest anymore.
Precision is the only way these situations can actually work out and he just fights you on it at every turn.
Even with J being ultra precise it's a challenge for me. :/

This was a super hard week. I didn't really have to DO anything extra work wise . I cooked this huge batch meal so J would have like 3-4 meals . He did the work for his daughters long 5 day visit but I still feel " eh " about he handled the week particularly letting that friend of his daughters over here twice instead of suggesting that the second visit be at HER house. We will definitely be having a chat about that if I see it happening again . I'll find the parents and suggest reciprocation directly if they can't seem to muster up manners.

BUT ..... I do feel a little guilty about things this week. I think sometimes guilt just kicks in . :/
On Tues. he had a flight lesson planned and he mentioned something about having me " come along " so that if his daughter didn't want to go up in the plane that he could take her down and drop her. I said I wasn't comfy with it because it facilitates " babying " based on her age ( 9.5 ). I feel like at that age you make the choice ONCE ...... do you DO the cool activity or do you NOT ? There shouldn't be a babying option where you can back out. Particularly an option that requires 2.5-3 hours of MY time ( the plane hanger is roughly 40 minutes from us and the lessons take about 90 minutes ). I hope he isn't mad at me for that but I told him that if I'm around her i'm always going to be trying to boost her independence. I won't do ANYTHING that facilitates babying based on her age range. I hope he isn't made at me and I think I'm getting paranoid. At the time ( he asked a week ago ) I felt really strongly about it. I guess it didn't matter anyway because of high wind Tues. and he ended up not going.

indiegirl
05-27-2022, 01:25 PM
I hate how accurate my tarot cards are. LIKE EVERY TIME. lollll.

Marina Starr
05-27-2022, 02:11 PM
I've posted this once but it ain't enough.

The uvalde police department needs to be sued to the motherfucking ground.

https://i.ibb.co/1nNkzVc/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

miss.a.p1600
05-27-2022, 03:43 PM
L just doesn't seem to get the " take the kids when it's YOUR scheduled time " thing .
Maybe you could just suggest they be ANYWHERE ELSE during the non-scheduled time if they do extra.

I am not even sure what to suggest anymore.
Precision is the only way these situations can actually work out and he just fights you on it at every turn.
Even with J being ultra precise it's a challenge for me. :/

This was a super hard week. I didn't really have to DO anything extra work wise . I cooked this huge batch meal so J would have like 3-4 meals . He did the work for his daughters long 5 day visit but I still feel " eh " about he handled the week particularly letting that friend of his daughters over here twice instead of suggesting that the second visit be at HER house. We will definitely be having a chat about that if I see it happening again . I'll find the parents and suggest reciprocation directly if they can't seem to muster up manners.

BUT ..... I do feel a little guilty about things this week. I think sometimes guilt just kicks in . :/
On Tues. he had a flight lesson planned and he mentioned something about having me " come along " so that if his daughter didn't want to go up in the plane that he could take her down and drop her. I said I wasn't comfy with it because it facilitates " babying " based on her age ( 9.5 ). I feel like at that age you make the choice ONCE ...... do you DO the cool activity or do you NOT ? There shouldn't be a babying option where you can back out. Particularly an option that requires 2.5-3 hours of MY time ( the plane hanger is roughly 40 minutes from us and the lessons take about 90 minutes ). I hope he isn't mad at me for that but I told him that if I'm around her i'm always going to be trying to boost her independence. I won't do ANYTHING that facilitates babying based on her age range. I hope he isn't made at me and I think I'm getting paranoid. At the time ( he asked a week ago ) I felt really strongly about it. I guess it didn't matter anyway because of high wind Tues. and he ended up not going.


I think L tries to cuts costs and taking them back to the house by default is all he know how to do but there is plenty of free shit to do. Hell walk them around the block for an hour. And I suppose he was trying to spare me the extra last minute hassle by denying their request to spend the night (thus starting his parenting time a day sooner)

But yes for some reason he cannot let go of the spontaneity of his parenting times. I am going to keep demanding more precision. For my sanity and I’m sure those kids want to know exact time frames IN ADVANCE too.

That’s good that those flight lessons were cancelled so you didn’t have to deal with possible blow back from rejecting his request.

naomi_doll
05-27-2022, 04:19 PM
I've posted this once but it ain't enough.

The uvalde police department needs to be used to the motherfucking ground.

https://i.ibb.co/1nNkzVc/giphy.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

Definitely one of the most horrible things I've ever heard of in my life. What kind of person just stands outside the door as this guy continues killing children? I hope that haunts them forever.

Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2022, 04:57 PM
Work won't let me schedule more than 50 hours next week, because they're counting the 6 hours of pay they'll give me for Memorial Day, regardless of whether or not I actually work, as part of my 60-hour maximum. So, according to their system, I "work" 56 hours, so trying to add 1 or 2 more 5-hour shifts is over 60. That's bullshit. I was gonna stack that paycheck with 60-hours, time and a half on Monday, AND that extra 6 hours of pay.

miss.a.p1600
05-27-2022, 05:07 PM
Dealt with a relative who had a narcissist fit of rage against me. Followed by guilt trips, dramatic tears, power trips, and fake apologies