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whirlerz
06-08-2022, 12:41 PM
Check out my thread in Lounge..

https://abc7.com/stranger-moves-into-cihcago-house-for-sale-chicago-homeowner-battle-with-squatter-problems-houses/11935474/

xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 12:57 PM
Check out my thread in Lounge..

https://abc7.com/stranger-moves-into-cihcago-house-for-sale-chicago-homeowner-battle-with-squatter-problems-houses/11935474/


She has adverse possession of the place unfortunatley, most likely.
Same problem that Indie girl is having with the pesky roommate. Once someone has been in your home/property for over 30 days (proof or not) they have what's called "squatter's rights" a.k.a adverse possession. That shit is crazy to deal with, too. I lost everything back in 07' when I had to leave MY apt bc my psycho abusive ex wouldn't leave. The cop even told me so when I called them, even after arresting him for hitting me.

carmen_b
06-08-2022, 01:21 PM
^ Yes but if you give verbal and written notice of 30 days to vacate the average person really can not effectively fight your suggestion to leave.

From what we know about this girl I don’t think she is familiar with any laws ha she’s just a pest.

Staci
06-08-2022, 02:33 PM
^ Yes but if you give verbal and written notice of 30 days to vacate the average person really can not effectively fight your suggestion to leave.

From what we know about this girl I don’t think she is familiar with any laws ha she’s just a pest.
I thought she said the reason she hasn't had her served with eviction yet is because she doesn't have the time right now to look for another roommate to replacement her?

Tough to live with though!

xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 03:55 PM
So annoyed that the shop where I picked my car up from they somehow broke off my rear-view mirror. It was in the floor board and then they laughed when I told them about it. They are going to pop it back on for me for free but still seriously why is it so funny ??? I know they did that shit on purpose and for what reason I was nice to them. Ugh.

carmen_b
06-08-2022, 04:25 PM
I want to do the solo trip to Vegas thing next Tues.
WHY are hotels over priced AF on this random Tues. ?

xxxGothBarbie
06-08-2022, 05:51 PM
I want to do the solo trip to Vegas thing next Tues.
WHY are hotels over priced AF on this random Tues. ?

Probably the same reason gas is so expensive, bc everything is inflated right now unfortunately.

Jucie
06-09-2022, 08:02 AM
^ It’s crazy! We might end up going to a place in the desert instead of a crappy place in LA this weekend due to hotel prices. Suggestions are welcomed! Decent standard, ok pool area and a couple of dining options locally. Nightlife options not important as I’m with my daughter.

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 09:23 AM
L says that his coworkers are body shaming him saying “he looks ‘too’ small” “he looks sick” and “what is he trying to do” First of all he is fucking obese and when I try to help him lose weight and tone up for his HEALTH then petty ass crabs in a barrel mfs are here helping him mess up my hard work.

Bitch are YOU going to be buying him a bigger wardrobe, buying pre-diabetes/high blood pressure cholesterol medicines? Are you the one fucking the waves and getting less pleasure because he can’t keep stamina and energy?

His manager told him his eyes were sinking in and rushed to buy him greasy ass Italian with unlimited white carb breadsticks. Then next thing I know he’s downing a gallon of ice cream.

Nothing wrong with him if he looses 1-2lbs a week which is what he’s been doing.

Im going to grill tf out of him if he wants to stay the same or get in better shape. I flat out told him it’s not about the weight. It’s about the eating and exercise and the mindset and the weight adjusts itself.

Anyways I feel so drained by him right now. And thankfully he realize what’s good for him and didn’t didn’t try to force his sick kids on me this week.

If those petty bitches (that are probably just figures of his mind) want him they can have him

whirlerz
06-09-2022, 09:26 AM
Lol, maybe they're looking in the wrong area? ^:rotfl:

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 09:52 AM
^ HE'S LYING !!!

Who the HELL are these co-workers ? NO ONE comments on mens bodies !! Ha .

The fact is carrying extra weight is extremely bad for a persons health.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 09:54 AM
Yup . I'm still in full on pout mode because this casino usually will give me a LUXE room for like $50 monday - thursday.
I've used so many of them for dancer trips or even just solo 24 hour get aways.
I have probably used their offer about 12-15 nights I'd say in the last 4-5 months.
I guess it's getting busier all over because instead of having a huge choice of days for it is now very limited scattered choices.

You could attempt a mid - week search and see if it's improves your selections if your schedule allows that !



^ It’s crazy! We might end up going to a place in the desert instead of a crappy place in LA this weekend due to hotel prices. Suggestions are welcomed! Decent standard, ok pool area and a couple of dining options locally. Nightlife options not important as I’m with my daughter.

Jucie
06-09-2022, 12:42 PM
Yup . I'm still in full on pout mode because this casino usually will give me a LUXE room for like $50 monday - thursday.
I've used so many of them for dancer trips or even just solo 24 hour get aways.
I have probably used their offer about 12-15 nights I'd say in the last 4-5 months.
I guess it's getting busier all over because instead of having a huge choice of days for it is now very limited scattered choices.

You could attempt a mid - week search and see if it's improves your selections if your schedule allows that !

Yes, I have contacts in this city and I could get a fair price a couple of places but I do feel like getting out of town. But I can’t say I fancy the idea of paying probably more for a three star place in lets say a place like Palmdale etc (where it’s sunny but at least 10 degrees lower temperature!)
I need to go tomorrow with return on Monday. Just want to have some quality time with my daughter, she’s happy as long as she has access to a pool and an iPad… Mom want some tanning time and just relax with her.

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-09-2022, 03:00 PM
Got burned doing my annual bonfire for my late uncle R. (it's a pagan ritual ceremony for him, he was an Earth Daddy/atheist.)

Fuck, getting old sucks.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 03:01 PM
Aw. Sorry for your burn.

What a special ritual though.
A way to remember and time outside.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 03:03 PM
I think this was my last day attempting to work from home in the summer.
I am not really sure what to think of my partner not booking his child an out of the house activity 4-5 hours a day during M - F durations.
Her visits would usually hit two of our work days per week in summer .
I am not really sure I can " suggest " to him to book her something our of the house either.

I'm doing some thinking today on how much I really NEED this.
It might be best that I work outside the house.
I'm kind of lost and trying to figure out what is normal on this topic.
I wish it would magically fix itself ( house completely quiet M - F business hours ) without me needing to do anything ugh.

I think I definitely need some therapy to get out of this pattern.
I always get so miserable on day #3 of his daughters visit.

I ran off to my AirBnB and I'm not sure it did anything.
Now I'm here just super mad that the OTHER house isn't quiet as much as I want .

chanzep
06-09-2022, 03:40 PM
Miss P , I think he's lying but who cares. If your still planning on leaving him it doesn't matter. He's made it clear he doesn't care about improving any aspect of his life.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 05:41 PM
I think I've turned a little corner emotionally .
It's taken a " ok I'm addressing it “ turn .

I just want to pack and run off .
Bring on the crazy plant vibes ! I need TWO trucks to get them all out hahahaha.

I really hope he will work with me to create a more quiet and mellow home space.
If not I can't live like this and simply wont.

I think before you rip your partner a new asshole you should always at least do that " ok so tell me your side of this " thing.
I hope we can come to a middle ground. This HEAT has me feeling awful too !

I'll do a little work out here and try to break up this funk . :/

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 07:00 PM
Do I send a little text tonight saying I need to talk ? Ugh.
Damn it.

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 07:12 PM
^ HE'S LYING !!!

Who the HELL are these co-workers ? NO ONE comments on mens bodies !! Ha .

The fact is carrying extra weight is extremely bad for a persons health.

Part of me thinks “oh we’ll kill yourself off if you want as long as you sign me in the will”

Sorry if it sounds callous but if you don’t care I don’t care.

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 07:15 PM
^ HE'S LYING !!!

Who the HELL are these co-workers ? NO ONE comments on mens bodies !! Ha .

The fact is carrying extra weight is extremely bad for a persons health.

And I think he wants me to “reassure” him and lie and be like “no you look fine just the way you are”

He’s scared of being “small”

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 07:21 PM
Miss P , I think he's lying but who cares. If your still planning on leaving him it doesn't matter. He's made it clear he doesn't care about improving any aspect of his life.

I am still planning to leave but I need to work with my therapist to get help doing it.

Idk why I feel so insecure about it.

I have been noticing him making unwise financial decisions and I want to leave before the wall close and he tries to expect a 50/50 relationship or tries to depend on me financially. I don’t want to get trapped here stuck and miserable when I know I can enjoy life better without all this dead weight looming.

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 07:26 PM
^ I think you need to add up the time you are giving him.
That time is kind of " lost " if you are not really happy with the person.
Of course that is just a very quick take from someone hearing the story in this format of course !

Therapy is a good idea.
I plan to re-start it myself.

Cutie101
06-09-2022, 07:28 PM
I am still planning to leave but I need to work with my therapist to get help doing it.

Idk why I feel so insecure about it.

I have been noticing him making unwise financial decisions and I want to leave before the wall close and he tries to expect a 50/50 relationship or tries to depend on me financially. I don’t want to get trapped here stuck and miserable when I know I can enjoy life better without all this dead weight looming.

You can start by renting a separate work space... it's gonna make it easier for you to just... not return home one day :))) Rather than packing all at once and moving... a slower transition is gonna be helpful for you because you gradually get used to it. Meanwhile you move your shit there, in time. I mean, if I'd ever break up, that's how I'd do it, because I don't have the strength to rip the band aid off :)).

carmen_b
06-09-2022, 07:33 PM
I asked J to call me when he has a minute.

I'm over at the AirBnB stressing out over here.
Maybe I should take a valium ha.

I need to TACTFULLY ask for more quiet.
I need help with it but I know I can't demand as much as I got during the school year .
I really have no idea what is appropriate here .
I feel like I almost need a safe word ..... something to just get it done when I need quiet.

I'll approach it like " I could use some help brainstorming for more quiet " .

miss.a.p1600
06-09-2022, 08:49 PM
Saleswomen…..the most annoying ass question you get asked “so did you sell anything today?” Or “you making any money today?”

chanzep
06-09-2022, 09:58 PM
Miss P
I hate that he expects you to reassure him about being unhealthy and overweight why would you do that!, Didn't he have a health scare recently.
I'm sorry you feel insecure about leaving him but trust me you can do it.
Last summer I had to move by myself in this country for the 1st time, I lost my high paying job and had to take a lower one not long before I moved. I had to pretend I still had old job plus my credit not high. I had to take loans to cover all my costs. I had my ex rooting against me hoping I would fail so I would move in with him. I was super stressed because I had plan to get a place with a friend then that fell through . I had to find a place in 3 weeks. It was stressful but I did it. After settling I found a better job which was easier because I felt peace.
You can move on you don't need him. The peace that you will have will feel great trust me.
If you need support contact me anytime.

indiegirl
06-10-2022, 06:26 AM
Bitter my shitty roommate removed the cute little rack inside my modern microwave. It was the reason I bought it. She had to microwave something big and it interfered with HER space. Here's a thought: it's not your house, so why don't you remove it while using it THEN PUT IT BACK. I looked all over the kitchen and the rack is gone. THIS BITCH.

On a positive note, I finally shaved my legs. I went like a year without shaving them. Hahaha! They feel so smooth!!

whirlerz
06-10-2022, 08:29 AM
Bitter my shitty roommate removed the cute little rack inside my modern microwave. It was the reason I bought it. She had to microwave something big and it interfered with HER space. Here's a thought: it's not your house, so why don't you remove it while using it THEN PUT IT BACK. I looked all over the kitchen and the rack is gone. THIS BITCH.

On a positive note, I finally shaved my legs. I went like a year without shaving them. Hahaha! They feel so smooth!!

Yes, I feel your pain..hopefully she didn't steal it?
Mine NEVER wipe or clean ours or the oven/stove, along with tons of other ignorant stuff.
Yes, they act like they own the place too.

I'm just waiting for the next party, & me not have a parking place, no street parking allowed here ever. If I have to block someone's car, O well.

indiegirl
06-10-2022, 08:54 AM
Yes, I feel your pain..hopefully she didn't steal it?
Mine NEVER wipe or clean ours or the oven/stove, along with tons of other ignorant stuff.
Yes, they act like they own the place too.

I'm just waiting for the next party, & me not have a parking place, no street parking allowed here ever. If I have to block someone's car, O well.

Some people can be so disrespectful to live with. I used her hand towel with windex to wipe down the mirrors she sprayed with toothpaste after she finished brushing her teeth. LOLL. I decided to be passive aggressive because of the BS she's been pulling towards me. Apparently she doesn't know how to clean up after herself as a grown woman.

Ahh I'm sure a party your roommates had would be intolerable to deal with. I don't get how people are okay with disturbing other roommates. We all have different schedules.

xxxGothBarbie
06-10-2022, 10:31 AM
Bitter my shitty roommate removed the cute little rack inside my modern microwave. It was the reason I bought it. She had to microwave something big and it interfered with HER space. Here's a thought: it's not your house, so why don't you remove it while using it THEN PUT IT BACK. I looked all over the kitchen and the rack is gone. THIS BITCH.

On a positive note, I finally shaved my legs. I went like a year without shaving them. Hahaha! They feel so smooth!!

Indie, that bitch srsly needs the boot!
I dunno how you tolerate her anymore ugh.
I'm pretty sure you can find someone else less annoying and more respectful to take her spot. She's essentially taking over your home and feeling entitled. Fuck that! Take your power back from that pesky thief.

indiegirl
06-10-2022, 11:00 AM
Indie, that bitch srsly needs the boot!
I dunno how you tolerate her anymore ugh.
I'm pretty sure you can find someone else less annoying and more respectful to take her spot. She's essentially taking over your home and feeling entitled. Fuck that! Take your power back from that pesky thief.

My mom got off the phone with the attorney this morning since she didn't sign a lease and said we both need to be present and when she gets home tomorrow, we are giving her her 60 days notice. I have to be there to be a witness to her being served. I'm glad she's gonna go because I'm raising the rent to 1200 and 65 for cable. This place is so nice that I found a roommate within a day last time of the other one moving out. It isn't difficult at all. I have Advanced Anatomy/Physiology, Math, and Surgical II Lab/Lecture next term (more difficult than this term) so we're gonna get her outta here as soon as possible. I don't want this woman here alone at my house doing god knows what when Im at school most of the time. 60 more dayssssss :D!! I will update post-serving tomorrow haha.

Our plan is to wait until she gets home tomorrow evening and my mom is gonna head over here and we're gonna get it over with since it's gonna take time for my roomie to leave.

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 11:28 AM
Nice !

She might even leave sooner once she gets that crystal clear clue you want her gone.

whirlerz
06-10-2022, 11:41 AM
Some people can be so disrespectful to live with. I used her hand towel with windex to wipe down the mirrors she sprayed with toothpaste after she finished brushing her teeth. LOLL. I decided to be passive aggressive because of the BS she's been pulling towards me. Apparently she doesn't know how to clean up after herself as a grown woman.

Ahh I'm sure a party your roommates had would be intolerable to deal with. I don't get how people are okay with disturbing other roommates. We all have different schedules.

They've entitled ::). He told me, after I yelled at her for running a loud blender at 5am that they do whatever they want.

Just shoved their stuff over, crowding the kitchen table.
Home today too, ugh

indiegirl
06-10-2022, 11:56 AM
Nice !

She might even leave sooner once she gets that crystal clear clue you want her gone.

I'm thinking it's going to be taking her the full 60 days because she has no furniture of her own to live alone or in an unfurnished room for rent plus she has to come up with rent deposit and safety deposit to move. Hopefully sooner! I'm so excited to have her gone that I decided to have a plantation shutter guy come over tomorrow and give me an estimate for 6 windows of the house left that need shutters. It will look so nice!

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 12:15 PM
^ It’s really kind of you to give so much notice also.

Cutie101
06-10-2022, 01:39 PM
I am pissed at myself for completely being able to NOT over eat and skip my workout and yet... Bad Bad Bad.

chanzep
06-10-2022, 01:46 PM
Indie I'm glad your getting her out.

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 02:23 PM
I know one dude in town who won't get his D touched anymore ( by me ) if he doesn't create some quiet windows in this house next week ......

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 02:43 PM
Im in fear of next week ( without discussion first ) because we have her 6 days. Monday morning through Sat. morning.
It's long because we have Hawaii booked June 20-27.
I'm not sure the trip is going to do us much good if I end up having an epic melt down before we leave. :/

Get this brilliant stroke of luck. I could be up North all week except the ONE day I have to physically show up for my job in this area is the 16th. :/

moneybags
06-10-2022, 03:10 PM
Returning make up to target and they tried to make me feel white trash

seashell
06-10-2022, 03:22 PM
It's so hard to not be reminded of my recent dumpster fire ex. Ugh.

Marina Starr
06-10-2022, 03:35 PM
What they did?


Returning make up to target and they tried to make me feel white trash

whirlerz
06-10-2022, 03:45 PM
Returning make up to target and they tried to make me feel white trash


What they did?

Yeah what?

Since NO STORE has any selection of lipsticks, I ordered from Ulta, returned most of em, twice recently..

Marina Starr
06-10-2022, 03:53 PM
I cannot use drugstore lipsticks because they always broke off. I use Mac and never had that happen. Worth the money.

I have so many lipsticks. I need to stop buying.


Yeah what?

Since NO STORE has any selection of lipsticks, I ordered from Ulta, returned most of em, twice recently..

lilylilylily
06-10-2022, 03:56 PM
When I try to be safe and use the bike lanes to ride my bike instead of the street, people are using it as their own personal wide sidewalk, walking on it when there's a sidewalk right beside it. I installed a bell on my bike to let them know I'm behind them, but cursing at them feels better lol. I'm not gonna ride around them because they should be moving out of the way. Of course they don't unless you scream at them ugh

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 04:01 PM
Nice .
We did the “ I need quiet “ talk with so much ease !
Awesome.

He was receptive my my idea that really I just his help brainstorming at this point how to create more quiet overall here.

One thing we tackled was no more of these non-reciprocal play dates.
If your kid was EVER here in the last two weeks you owe me that time now.
Yes I kept track .
^ This is TWO different people I’m talking about wtf is wrong with people ?!?

carmen_b
06-10-2022, 04:08 PM
^ These parents can suck my dick.
If I see their kid here again before J’s daughter goes to THEIR house for a few hours he is not going to like the result.

J : " Oh they are actually nice people " .

Uh .... no ..... I hate them . They can earn their way off the TOP of my shit list just be inviting your daughter to their house for a few hours literally ANY time that is good for them. They are rude AF and it will not continue here.

moneybags
06-10-2022, 09:04 PM
What they did?

It was just his attitude when I tried to return it. He said he couldn’t accept it because it was used and just acted like I was being white trash for trying to return something I used already. When they have a policy of returning make up no questions asked if you don’t like it. I’m not someone who abuses return policies, but I’m sure some people do.

It’s in the “less prosperous” side of town, so I think that may have something to do with it.I had to drive 30 minutes away to return to a “nicer target” and couldn’t work because I didn’t have the make up I needed and was running late trying to return it to another store.

On the bright side, I’m not going to that target anymore so I’ll save money. I always spend way too much when I go to target.

I’m high class white trash and I will accept nothing less than the best…LOL.

Dreamqueen
06-11-2022, 09:48 PM
57294
This was 2 pm in my yard.
I had to bring the thermometer inside because it was going higher than 120.
I hate it here so much.
Heat like this makes me pissy (my general mood). No energy, and my a.c. only cools my place down to 88.

I'm also pissed that Wal-Mart sent the SAME bitch as last week (the one who got lost for over an hour) to deliver my groceries! I SPECIFICALLY told them not to. Grrr!
I'm going to order from Aldi next week.
Not having a.c. in my car is really putting a damper on my lifestyle. :(