View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aniela
05-26-2015, 08:23 PM
Went out w/ a coworker & met sm of his friends over chess tonite after work. Had a Corona w/ a solid dinner b4 meeting them, then had two glasses of red wine, all over the course of abt 4-4.5 hrs. I've described my problems w/ processing alcohol on this forum previously, & here it goes again -- quit drinking when I still felt perfectly fine, totally ok on the drive home, then once I arrived home, THAT queasy feeling started. Worried I'll still be up for hrs yet waiting for it all to come back up. Fk this -- so my body really refuses to tolerate any more than the equivalent of two beers?! Not that I want to go out every wk & get tanked up, but this shouldn't be making me feel sick. Goddammit.
carmen_b
05-26-2015, 10:35 PM
Lynn : he probably has money troubles he isn't sharing with you yet....
( which to me is as bad as just being cheap )
I'm not sure but I've experienced similar and it is not impressive ( especially when my lifestyle / tastes are pretty basic ).
I remember dating a guy here on the island and wanting to go for a beer ( note .. 1 singular sunset beer ) and he asked if I could buy. Haha. Yeah right.....
Poor guy... Kinda felt for him ( he says he didn't get enough hours ) but a weak hustle is NOT for me.
wr1ter
05-26-2015, 10:39 PM
Feeling pissy because there's a massive jerkoff of a fly in my bedroom and my window doesn't open. My cat is also useless. I can't cam under these conditions! My customers/regs might see it and think that I live in a pigsty :( I know it's a stupid thing to get pissy over, but it's been in here for hours and I have a small room, so I don't want to risk anyone who might pay me for a show to see some giant black buzzing dot flying around at high speeds...
xStacey
05-27-2015, 08:57 AM
My day off started so well, 35 degree outside, sunny... I slept in late, took 2 hours to eat my breakfast while watching TV, then dressed in a tee-shirt and jeans to get to my mindfulness meditation class, was so happy I didn't have to look sexy today. I got out of my place, took the train, got off the train, everything was alright then it started raining a little, I had a 10 mins walk before arriving to destination, then the rain started pouring. I didn't have an umbrella or jacket with me, now I finally arrived to class and my white shirt is soaking wet. -_-
whirlerz
05-27-2015, 09:04 AM
I saw a gorj rainbow yesterday, by the time I took a pic of it, the clouds came rollin' in, you can see it faintly. :(
Vyanka
05-27-2015, 09:26 AM
It kinda irks me when I read posts from blues admitting they read HH, to work around certain hustles. Ugh.
I'm also annoyed that 7 inch heals look so basic. I can't find a pair of HOT 7inch heels for work, online. Grrr
Aniela
05-27-2015, 01:49 PM
It kinda irks me when I read posts from blues admitting they read HH, to work around certain hustles. Ugh.
Agreed. I've long thought that the industry-specific boards, esp HH (since that board is like the core of how dancers make their living) should be closed to them the way the LO section is.
wednesday86
05-27-2015, 02:01 PM
My mother in law is driving me nuts again today. The baby and I are both sick with a cold. Every time I have to go to the kitchen to get something she's there, asking me 20 questions "did you feed him?" "did you give him his medicine?" "did he eat?" "why did you change his shirt?" "did he take a nap?" OH MY FUCKING GOD! I've been taking care of this kid every day since he was born...You think this is the day I'm going to forget to feed my child?!!!! Holy shit!! 8 more days til I'm out..........8 more days...............
BarbieNYC
05-27-2015, 02:51 PM
I am annoyed that I can't wear shorts and a pretty top without getting harassed a bazillion times walking to and from the grocery store.
It's summertime and I see tons of slim girls wearing the most skimpy things and not get harassed like I do. I definitely see them get looks and checked out too. But that's where the harassment tends to stop with them.
With me I get followed, cat called, hell one guy even tried to walk with me to my apartment building. It's really frustrating.
And this has nothing to do with skinny vs curvy because both body types are desired by men. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. I just find the type of men that like my body type tend to be so damn forward with their approach. this huge booty of mine is going to get me into trouble.
SweetJulia
05-27-2015, 05:54 PM
Pissed off bc I just found out that my hostel I stay at in town is only allowing people to stay here 14 days per calendar year & that means I will be in my car if I want to save any money from not staying in motels every night. Ugh I hate being homeless. This fucking sucks :(
That makes no fucking sense wouldn't they want all the business they can get? Assuming you're a good guest , pay on time and don't get complaints they should let you stay as long as you want.
kaninchen
05-27-2015, 06:17 PM
I have five finals in the next two weeks. :yuck: :no:
If I mysteriously stop posting, it's probably because my brain exploded while writing and studying.
Aniela
05-27-2015, 07:52 PM
This is a combined Petty Annoyance+Confession ... Just had a miniSkype session w/ my 'Big Brother' from basic ... he made a mean comment abt how if I wasn't a loser & txted more often maybe we could coordinate Skype & stay in better touch. That really hurt my feelings, maybe he was really just joking but I took it personally. I do struggle w/ feeling like a loser bc I couldn't get thru basic w/o my body breaking down on me. In my defence he is only 21, while I am pushing 29 & orthopaedically probably closer to 60. I said in return 'maybe if you weren't a jackass who is overly reliant on txting ...' If he wants to get snarky on Skype, then blame the fact that it's all txt & meanings get lost, two can play that game ... he got butthurt & signed off.
Aurora_Sunset
05-27-2015, 08:26 PM
So, after adopting a Manx cat, I'm just now finding out about this delightful genetic defect that sometimes causes them to neurologically not be aware of when they need to poop. She has bladder awareness and will pee in her litter box just fine, but then wander a bit away, poop falling out her butt - totally oblivious. I really don't care about having to pick up the poop and spray the area - but if I don't do it before the next time she needs to pee, she'll go back to that area, smell it, and start purposely urinating there, which becomes a bigger deal.
Considering that when I'm in town, I'm home most of the day, this won't be a huge deal most of the time. BUT this throws a big wrench into how I can coordinate traveling, even for a few days to work. It's one thing to ask someone to pop in once a day to do food and water, but now I'd have to find someone who is able to come a couple times a day to catch any accidents and clean them quickly or is willing to house her and have this going on in their home. I was planning to do a lot of traveling this summer and just ask my neighbor to pop in once a day like he has for me before... now I don't know what to do.
miss.a.p1600
05-27-2015, 09:10 PM
I hate bad drivers. There seriously needs to be a law requiring people who cause wrecks to reapply for their drivers license.
Why is it the people with the most busted cars are always the ones driving like bats out of hell?!? I want to roll my window down, and pull out a megaphone and say "hey asshole, you may not give a sh*t about your life or your hooptie but I value my life and my possessions"
And the worst is the jacka$$es who are too dumb to realize the turning lane is for cars turning in EITHER direction. Again, I would like to roll my window down and pull out a megaphone and say: "Why the f*ck are you honking your horn and looking pitiful when we are both legally entitled to turn from the center turning lane? Maybe if your duma$$ wasn't driving in the turning lane (which is against the driving laws/rules) then you wouldn't be stuck here looking like an idiot. Go around hoe, and quit driving in the turning lane!"
[email protected] it, I wish I carried a bag of nickels I could throw at their windshield. and then pull out my megaphone and say "keep the change you filthy animal"
Selina M
05-27-2015, 11:21 PM
Why is it the people with the most busted cars are always the ones driving like bats out of hell?!? I want to roll my window down, and pull out a megaphone and say "hey asshole, you may not give a sh*t about your life or your hooptie but I value my life and my possessions"
That reminds me of how my mom always makes a point to park next to newer cars. She won't park by beaters, bc they obviously don't give a shit about their car and wouldn't think twice about smacking hers with their door.
And agreed otherwise. Ever since I bought my new car (a blacked out Mustang), people expect me to drive like a fucking lunatic... newsflash, not gonna kill my gas mileage or beat my gear box/tranny to hell, racing you to the next stoplight. It's always idiots in souped up shitty Civics and the like. Sorry, my car is nearly brand new and I'd like to keep it that way!
I even had some crazy bitch in a PT Cruiser literally try to chase me the other day, rolled down her window to scream at me even, bc she didn't stay in her lane when she turned at an intersection, and I was turning out of a driveway, and she almost rear-ended me. I couldn't believe she went full-on road rage like that, and it made me glad I had 310 hp to get away from her.
wednesday86
05-28-2015, 05:29 AM
^That's why I love my big, ugly camper van. I don't care what it looks like but if someone hits me, they're just going to hurt themselves. Most of the crazy drivers just stay away from me lol
wednesday86
05-28-2015, 05:30 AM
Anyway feeling pissy today because I am still sick. I have soooooooooo much work to do and all I want to do is lay in bed, read SW and watch pandas farting on youtube and stuff.
xStacey
05-28-2015, 02:50 PM
I have this regular who always say the most stupid shit. He texted me to ask how my day at work was going, to which I reply great but it would be so much better if you were here! He replies I'd come see you all the time but unfortunately I have some constraints. Luckily for you, all my services are free ::)
xStacey
05-28-2015, 02:53 PM
I have five finals in the next two weeks. :yuck: :no:
If I mysteriously stop posting, it's probably because my brain exploded while writing and studying.
Good luck on your finals, I am sure you'll do great! :thumbsup:
miss.a.p1600
05-28-2015, 09:10 PM
So pissed my mother has the gall to ask me to take her to the airport at 5 fuckin am at the last cotdamn minute. I hate when people try to force me to wake up early and disrespect my time by trying to make me commit to something at the last motherfuckin minute. That's what a cab or towncar is for. And don't act like you don't have the money for it. And if she really doesn't have the money then that's what her dude is for.
I want to scream. Aaaahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!! I feel like the grinch. Hate, hate, hate LOATHE!
Next time I'm telling her ass no!
Aniela
05-29-2015, 07:09 AM
As part of my vanilla job orientation ystrdy, I got to go on one of their two citywide tours for free. The point is to see how the tour works so we can tell customers abt it. There are two tour options, one focusses mainly on the architecture in KW & the other is more abt the history, & we were sent on the 'historical' one. I put 'historical' in quotes bc the tour guide's 'facts' were all over the place. After living in KW for over 20yrs off&on, & being as deep into the history here as I am, I am just an asshole for factual accuracy & knew where all the goofs & bs were in his narrative. If I am honest, I wouldn't want to talk up that tour as being factually accurate bc anyone who was inclined to look deeper into it afterward would find the errors w/ very little effort. Fk that noise.
HoolaTwister
05-29-2015, 07:27 AM
I'm super pissed that yelp took out my review for the salon that butchered my hair. I hatehatehatehate yelp!!
Glamourmilf
05-29-2015, 10:50 AM
I'm really pissy because the girl who gives me escort clients takes such a high percentage~ 40%
I'm new at this, and when I asked her how she got to that figure, she said it's 'industry standard'.. She said it's because after that first time seeing him, I could give him my number, then see him on my own.
Makes sense I guess, if I had a place to see the client, but I don't, and she knows that~ When I bring that up, says tells me that one day I will. WTF???
So, with that client yesterday, he paid $200 a piece to see us~ She makes $280, I only made $120 >:(
She didn't have to pay for any ads, because she sees only clients he knows, so, it just left me feeling so blah and pissy about it.
Elektra Luxx
05-29-2015, 12:39 PM
OMG!!! $120!!! I don't know what the industry standard is because I have always been an independent, but that sounds really high. If your only making $120 per appointment that is not nearly enough. I guess she does the screening too?
whirlerz
05-29-2015, 12:53 PM
Yea so, I got up early & called downstairs to ask them to clean my room Mon instead of today, when I'll be out & also I wanted to sleep cause the humidity/rain is causing pain. So WTF do they do, knock on my door @ 11am, when im SLEEPING, which is hard for me to sleep sometimes. I told the lady that knocked that I spoke to someone, & she said they'd call me
Then I went out to get a few groceries, I come back & they've sprayed around, empty wastebasket & that's my cleaning now.
KikiGem
05-29-2015, 04:18 PM
Ugh school is such a negative place to be these days. Everyday someone starts a fight with the teacher, because she told them they can't do something, or whatever. Really minor complaints. But they blow it out of proportion and fight with her then go on and on bitching about it the rest of the day. She's pretty easy going, but it's a handful of students who were constantly taking advantage of her flexibility that frustrated her and prompted her to make the new rules.
They complain that they are being treated like they're children, but they are acting like children! I am so tired of listening to them bitch. These rules are very reasonable and easy to follow- deal with it, do your hours, move on with your life. If you really can't handle these simple rules then quit. Life's gonna be a bitch for you anyway if you can't even handle this.
On top of that, 50 dollars was taken out of my purse last night. It had to have been one of my friend's sketchy roommates. My bet is on the sadsack who was whining that his gf broke up with him cause he's a freeloading loser with no job. Of course they denied. I'm so fucking upset about that.
Glamourmilf
05-29-2015, 05:29 PM
OMG!!! $120!!! I don't know what the industry standard is because I have always been an independent, but that sounds really high. If your only making $120 per appointment that is not nearly enough. I guess she does the screening too?
I agree. The first girl I worked with never took a dime, (and her clients gave me $300-$500), so I think with this other girl, it's a classic case of greed.
The highest client I've seen with her paid $300, and even then I only made $180.
Oh well, at this rate I wont have money to get my own apt. Till the year 2050!>:(
Aniela
05-29-2015, 08:25 PM
It pisses me off when a club customer thinks he's being cute by throwing around diminutives of my work name -- these were typically Slavic customers since they would be the ones to know, but should also be the ones who know better. It would piss me off even tho it's not even my real name bc I think it's a way of trying to force or steal intimacy.
Well, nametags piss me off even more, bc IT IS my real fkng name! It feels like a fkng violation whenever sm full-of-themselves customer in the store says MY REAL NAME like they fkng know me & have any bloody right to do so. I realise this paragraph has graduated to full-on raving but I don't care, the presumption behind it just disgusts me. I guess it's just another one of those 'sex worker tics' that ppl who have nvr had to actually guard their anonymity wouldn't really get. As soon as my MoD leaves I usually take it off, but b4 I can reach that point … GAH!
zoezoebelle
05-29-2015, 08:33 PM
Why am I suddenly getting a lot of zits around my belly button? =.=
Selina M
05-29-2015, 09:11 PM
Fuck you, restaurant manager. "Cut" means "done", not "seat me 2 more times".
I've been waiting in the car for over an hour bc of this >:(
wednesday86
05-30-2015, 08:31 AM
I hate when people don't listen to me!!!!! I asked this girl how much to do my hair. I could do it myself or get my sister to do it next time I see her, but I thought it'd be less of a hassle to get this girl to do it next week. Not only is she waaaay overcharging for a simple job, she keeps trying to make an appointment with me EVERY DAY since I've asked her for a quote. I told her 10 times I don't get paid/ can't until Tuesday and hadn't even decided yet. She keeps blowing up my phone "Can you come in today??" like WTF bitch can you not read? I'm not repeating myself again and I'm about to block her. Very unprofessional.
Aurora_Sunset
05-30-2015, 10:10 AM
I'm pretty sure my neighbor steals my newspaper. I live on the second floor, so the delivery person doesn't even attempt to get the damn paper near my door. They just toss it up and it usually lands right in front of my neighbor's door instead of mine - sometimes it doesn't even make it all the way up the stairs...
The neighbor is rarely home and I can tell when he gets back because the letters on the outside of his door disappear - and the last few times he's been home for a couple days, my paper mysteriously stops "showing up" unless I grab it early in the morning.
I've never caught him doing it, but the pattern seems pretty concrete. I don't know if it's intentional theft or if he thinks that because it's so much closer to his door than mine that he's "randomly" getting a free paper... Either way, it's annoying.
KikiGem
05-30-2015, 10:50 AM
This spoiled little 18 y/o cunt at school said "my parents need to learn that I have to start taking care of myself! The pay for everything and I wanna learn how to look after myself." Awe, mommy and daddy paying for everything making you mad, honey? STFU bitch.
Glamourmilf
05-30-2015, 01:53 PM
I actually woke myself up this morning from a sound sleep by talking loudly in my sleep!:sleep:
Has that ever happened to anyone else?
It wasn't even bad dream, so idk why this happened.
It was 2 hrs earlier than when I usually get up, and I couldnt fall back asleep, so I just got up.
Been sleepy, and a bit 'off' all day. Blah:gnasher:
xStacey
05-30-2015, 03:54 PM
My hair extensions have so many split ends and I just got them less than a week ago -_-
Aniela
05-30-2015, 05:41 PM
I actually woke myself up this morning from a sound sleep by talking loudly in my sleep!:sleep:
Has that ever happened to anyone else?
It wasn't even bad dream, so idk why this happened.
It was 2 hrs earlier than when I usually get up, and I couldnt fall back asleep, so I just got up.
Been sleepy, and a bit 'off' all day. Blah:gnasher:
I have restless limbs, mostly my legs but sm times in my right arm as well bc of nerve dmg from an injury 10+yrs ago. The legs tho, man it's horrid! Once they get going they only quit when they are good & goddamn ready & sm times the kicking gets so bad when I'm sleeping that I wake myself up from it. At least now that I'm back home there's no metal bunk bed frame to thunk my twitchy feet on -- woke myself up more than once during basic that way :ouch:
zoezoebelle
05-30-2015, 08:21 PM
Somehow, during the half hour drive to work, a huge zit formed right under my ass. @
[email protected] I'm pretty sure every single customer tonight felt it at some point because it was massive and right under my ass. Uhg, kill me.
On another note, I really hate how there's no such thing as sexual harassment in this job. One of the managers keeps feeling me up when he walks by creepily, and today implied that he was going to convince me to give him a blowjob. He has a girlfriend. He knows I have a boyfriend. Fucking perv.
Aniela
05-30-2015, 08:29 PM
^^^^ Don't just let him do that to you! Either stay out of his reach, or if you can't dodge in time, force your elbow thru his teeth. That's just until you can find sm where else to work, if possible -- the bj comment sounds like a threat to me.
My petty annoyance -- My schedule's gotten jostled royally for this coming wk bc the FNG popped on a piss test & got fired. Dumbass. I am happy to get the extra hrs, it's just kind of a PITA for me right now bc I have a friend visiting this wk & I will be working every single day he's here. Fortunately he's pretty chill, & my family's pretty chill, so they don't mind having him at our house if he doesn't want to just tool around town while I'm working, but goddammit.
miss.a.p1600
05-30-2015, 08:30 PM
Somehow, during the half hour drive to work, a huge zit formed right under my ass. @
[email protected] I'm pretty sure every single customer tonight felt it at some point because it was massive and right under my ass. Uhg, kill me.
On another note, I really hate how there's no such thing as sexual harassment in this job. One of the managers keeps feeling me up when he walks by creepily, and today implied that he was going to convince me to give him a blowjob. He has a girlfriend. He knows I have a boyfriend. Fucking perv.
Ugh! My old manager once told me to get naked. I blew him off thinking he was drunk. And his ass was married. I wish sexual harassment laws applied to strip clubs. I would have reported a good handful of men by now. Maybe then these f*ckers would realize we are human and act like gentleman instead of horny ass animals with no brains.
Aniela
05-30-2015, 08:31 PM
I'm not knocking your preferences but I'm guessing you're annoyed by people that smoke tabacco cigarettes, drink alcoholic beverages, and caffeinated drinks as well? Anything that gets you buzzed or high is a drug whether it's legal or not.
I just saw this a few days ago but been too busy to address it -- if it's a serious question, PM me so we don't jack the thread.
OliveJardin
05-30-2015, 09:40 PM
A bouncer walked into me last night and sent me flying. My back hit the corner of a wall really hard and it's so, so painful today :(. Also, my arms are all grazed. Really didn't need this, fingers crossed it gets better soon.
zoezoebelle
05-31-2015, 10:02 AM
^^^^ Don't just let him do that to you! Either stay out of his reach, or if you can't dodge in time, force your elbow thru his teeth. That's just until you can find sm where else to work, if possible -- the bj comment sounds like a threat to me.
It didn't seem like a threat, just a super sleazy comment. There are three other managers who never give me shit, so I'm thinking I'll be okay if I just avoid him from now on. This guy is generally very laid back and nice. The blowjob comment came after we had a 10 minute conversation about politics just randomly and were getting along. I've had a couple bouncers as well as someone from the kitchen come out and say they'd love to take me out if I'm ever single. But I've never heard girls complain about sexual harassment from the managers before. We do have a lot of extras girls, and a few of them have fucked the owner and/or bouncers, which is probably the source of the problem.
I'd love to say that I'll find a better club, but this was actually one of the two highest rated clubs by dancers in my city. Philly is disgusting. All the clubs are high contact and it's a miracle if they aren't prostituting the girls. If a little thigh grabbing and dirty talk is all I have to put up with, I'll count my blessings. xP
Aurora_Sunset
05-31-2015, 02:41 PM
After starting a new diet this week, I lost over 2 pounds in 6 days as well as a couple inches off my stomach, hips, and thighs. I'm super happy, but I also feel like my boobs deflated and went a funky shape significantly. I know losing weight naturally means the boobs shrink as well, but I remember having a B-cup even when I was 110-112. I'm 124 now and I'm freaking out that my boobs are shrinking so dramatically even at this weight. O.O
Naida
05-31-2015, 05:05 PM
This spoiled little 18 y/o cunt at school said "my parents need to learn that I have to start taking care of myself! The pay for everything and I wanna learn how to look after myself." Awe, mommy and daddy paying for everything making you mad, honey? STFU bitch.
Actually, I kinda commend the kid. There's really nothing wrong with wanting to be self-sufficient, and it's a mentality sorely lacking in teenagers these days. My own brother has been working for two years and has shit to show for it besides the PoS used truck he's barely put a dent in paying my mother back for; literally squanders every dollar he makes because he has no concept of what it means to take care of himself outside my mom's home. He's in for a rude awakening when he tries to move out next month.
My annoyance: Everything. Everything is pissing me off right now, even though I'm trying to stay positive because things really are starting to look up for me. Probably the pettiest of all is that I won't be able to do anything that's actually nice for myself for ages even after I start working again. Every dollar not going directly into food and bills for the first few months is gonna be saved for taxes, getting myself back on par for work, and poured into health/dental that I've been putting off.
Aurora_Sunset
05-31-2015, 06:22 PM
I understand the realistic concept behind the advice that you have to "train people how to treat you" - especially men. But I take massive issue with the implications behind this idea. It basically blames you for assholes being their asshole, user selves. I've had/have several guys in my life who were crazy about me and would have bent over backwards to get me anything I wanted if I acted like I liked them. I could have selfishly played them and used them for my own gain... but I DON'T do that because that's a selfish, immature, asshole way to behave toward fellow human beings.
The idea that I have to teach people/men that they shouldn't be fucking dickheads who take advantage of me is... disgusting and makes me hate everything and everyone.
Selina M
05-31-2015, 07:21 PM
^ I think it more blames the rest of society for letting them get that way... and unfortunately now you have to re-train them to treat you differently than they treat other people.
But yes, somebody should have taught these people not to be asshats before they got to be adults.
zoezoebelle
05-31-2015, 07:25 PM
^^
I feel like most conventional dating wisdom is given by selfish children, aka most of society. "If you love someone, let them go, and if it was meant to be they'll find a way back." Or they'll be hurt for years because you left them, then rebound on someone else. "Never settle." Lets be real, if we never settled on ANY issue we would be single forever waiting for Benedict Cumberbatch. "Real love is easy." Anybody who's been in a long-term relationship or marriage will call bullshit.
Naida
06-01-2015, 05:45 AM
Fuck this sleeping for 4-5 hours shit. Can I get some real sleep already?
Aurora_Sunset
06-01-2015, 07:59 AM
I have a friend with REALLY severe eczema and dandruff that I don't think he even attempts to do anything about. I love him dearly, but every time he comes over, the next day I have to go around to every surface he even hovered over - the couch, blanket, coffee table, kitchen table, counters, chairs - and brush away the very obvious, massive piles of dandruff that just fall everywhere when he so much as leans over. It's just really kinda gross... :-\
miss.a.p1600
06-01-2015, 09:20 AM
Nothing worse than rushing to chick fil a, getting there at 10:33 only to have the b*tch tell me there's no more breakfast. Fuuuuuuck!!!!!!!