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xxxGothBarbie
07-06-2022, 08:40 PM
I cut my bangs really short a few weeks ago & now I'm regretting it. I can kinda hide them by styling my hair a different way but it looks weird ugh :(

carmen_b
07-07-2022, 07:50 AM
Yes, I have literally seen clients trying to get away from her and I realized it could show up in a bad review. I think people let her have a pass because she is older ( in her 60's ) . I know she can use the money coming out with my team too but I had to cut her out of many things due to thie behavior should can't seem to fix.


Omg seeing/experiencing someone talking AT others is the worst. It's surprising they don't realize what they are doing!!

smeca
07-07-2022, 09:52 AM
I was still stressing about a course I booked that I don't really want to bother with today. I asked bf to cancel/delay it for me since I feel like he kinda herded me into it . He said if i dont want to do it that's fine but his tone was annoyed. But that might have been work- He was taking a long video call at home and then his dumb boss said they should go in afterwards, just for like 2 hours. Ugh. Ive finished work and drinking on the patio waiting for him to get home. He does enough extra hours and this melon ruins their chance to take back some hours.

WendiStarr
07-07-2022, 10:44 AM
I ordered a shirt from SheIn that looked cute on the website and model but looks ridiculous on me. I don't feel like going through the hassle of returning it when it took 3 weeks to get to me.

carmen_b
07-07-2022, 11:48 AM
^ They are actually pretty good on returns.
I have returned two things there out of like 20 items.
One they put a credit on my card and one they just sent an email they were refunding but to keep it anyway ( I use it as a workout shirt ). It was supposed to fit tighter and look more " rocker " . I possibly ordered the wrong size but their stuff usually runs small .

WendiStarr
07-07-2022, 12:14 PM
I was supposed to have an interview for a vanilla job at 3. I managed to get both little stinky butts down for a nap and this recruiter guy cancelled the interview. He just sent me an email yesterday evening and was talking about what a great fit I seemed to be. He must've found someone with more years of experience.

indiegirl
07-07-2022, 01:56 PM
I was supposed to have an interview for a vanilla job at 3. I managed to get both little stinky butts down for a nap and this recruiter guy cancelled the interview. He just sent me an email yesterday evening and was talking about what a great fit I seemed to be. He must've found someone with more years of experience.

It's good you didn't have to waste the time getting dolled up or driving for the interview though. That is the worst feeling in the world being all ready and getting denied.

carmen_b
07-07-2022, 02:05 PM
I guess at one point I told J he said I love you too much during sex haha.
So I asked him yesterday why he wasn't saying it during sexy times.
I have no idea why I said that at one point but he says that he remembered me saying that a few weeks ago !
I was getting agitated the last week because he wasn't saying it during romantic times !

Aurora_Sunset
07-07-2022, 06:40 PM
Ugh, fuck being back at work. They don't have the AC running properly yet and it's hot as all fuck in that building. They're bringing back the mandatory "safety shoes" so I'm back to breaking mine in. Even with double-padding my socks, they hurt so much.

A lot of people asked where I'd been and said it was good to see me back though, so that was nice.

carmen_b
07-08-2022, 09:49 AM
Sometimes I get embarrassed if I'm hitting the self care hard and I told my partner I was " out for groceries " .
Well .... that and also a massage lol .

THEN I get caught because I'm in his Tesla which I completely forgot tracks my whereabouts .
He was just like " oh were there also some spa adventures in the day ? ".

He actually never shames my indulgences but I've been shamed in the past for this !
Past self care shaming has carried on !
The other reason I was hiding my activity ( not well obviously ) is that the session fell during business hours haha.

xxxGothBarbie
07-08-2022, 12:40 PM
I seriously hate these nail salons in my area ugh!
Not only are they rude & racist towards me but they do the shittiest pedis as well as rush right thru them, then try to charge me full price. Luckily I don't pay for them, bf does but I srsly need to get them done in a nicer area where the techs don't scowl at me bc I'm *gasp* white in a predominatley spanish area.

Today was the last straw for me bc I went back to this gal I've gone to before & told her exactly what I wanted in a polite tone, I sit down & I kid you not, she was done within 15 mins. She barely (if any) put lotion on my feet after the scrubbing & grating callus off, she left a few pieces of old skin on a few of my toes that I asked her to clip off (I shouldn't have had to even ask!), then after rinsing off my feet , she barely dries them then slaps my sandals back on. I told her ya my feet are still wet but she didn't care... fucking bitch! She doesn't need to work there if she doesn't wanna do her damn job!

Another thing happened yesterday in Sephora while I was picking out which concealer I wanted to purchase.
So this trans male that worked there walked past me and in a snotty condescending tone asked if "I needed anything, Tina".....
Ummm thats a fucking insult asshole!
He was basically calling me a meth head by calling me "Tina" a secret name that is used here in NYC & in LA on the streets among the gay community when referring to crystal meth.
I wasn't even dressed badly yesterday either, he just HAD to be a dick to me for whatever reason. I ignored him and left.

I honestly don't understand what is up with all of the recent rude behavior I've encountered lately here.
I'm nothing but nice to people in public.
Last time that happened in Sephora I called corporate and got a nice credit as compensation (which bought my expensive concealer last night) :)
Hopefully these people get fired from more complaints bc you don't just get to shit on people and get away with it regardless of what race you are, preferred sexuality, etc.

carmen_b
07-08-2022, 12:43 PM
^ I started doing my own toes and hands ( the last two months I'd say ). The salon closest I really liked but they also rushed like doing a 4 min. massage instead of 8 like the menu says and not drying too ! It's really weird. Like ..... I don't care if the person steps away 5 min. to let them dry . They don't need to wait WITH me. Just let the damn things dry before putting coat #2 on.

IF I go back ( I probably won't since my own look nice ) I'll SAY " I want 5 minutes between coats " .

xxxGothBarbie
07-08-2022, 12:48 PM
^ I started doing my own toes and hands ( the last two months I'd say ). The salon closest I really liked but they also rushed like doing a 4 min. massage instead of 8 like the menu says and not drying too ! It's really weird. Like ..... I don't care if the person steps away 5 min. to let them dry . They don't need to wait WITH me just let the damn things dry before putting coat #2 on.

IF I go back ( I probably won't since mine own look nice ) I'll SAY " I want 5 minutes between coats " .


I only left her a $2 tip this time bc honestly I was pissed at her lazy/slacking behavior towards me a a paying customer ffs.
I am mad at myself for leaving her that but whatever, I won't be back.

chanzep
07-08-2022, 01:46 PM
I was supposed to have an interview for a vanilla job at 3. I managed to get both little stinky butts down for a nap and this recruiter guy cancelled the interview. He just sent me an email yesterday evening and was talking about what a great fit I seemed to be. He must've found someone with more years of experience.
How annoying I hope something better comes along.

carmen_b
07-09-2022, 08:59 AM
Another person WAS out there.

On July 4 I got an inquiry. After a few emails , I set up a phone call on July 5. The person booked and sent me a $750 retainer 15 minutes after the call. :)
Now THAT is someone I want to work with !

Just " sending it out there " that i hope the review hungry weirdo has some sort of massive fucking failure happen with their project. They deserve it hahaha.


I decided to leave the review hungry weirdo day job customer alone and not even follow up.
Ew. Bad vibes.
If you are SO paranoid I’d rip you off why call and bother me ?

Other people who are easier to deal with are out there.

whirlerz
07-09-2022, 09:19 AM
I was supposed to have an interview for a vanilla job at 3. I managed to get both little stinky butts down for a nap and this recruiter guy cancelled the interview. He just sent me an email yesterday evening and was talking about what a great fit I seemed to be. He must've found someone with more years of experience.

Wendi, he may reschedule.. If not, I know you'll get something better!

indiegirl
07-09-2022, 11:19 AM
I'm in the middle of a butt crisis. LOL. I had a THICK cheeseburger yesterday without the buns (because hello I live in LA and carbs aren't it lol!!) so I had a protein wrap essentially and man my stomach hurt so bad afterwards! I usually don't eat like this and my stomach was not having it. lol.

whirlerz
07-09-2022, 11:51 AM
This medical billing place that keeps pestering me (for $60.00 fucking $'s)

For which I called them previously to discuss, yet they send me an auto dial call to further pester me? ..
Trust me, they & BBB are getting certified notification..
I'm in pain, I don't need their shit!

With my ever shrinking paychecks last few weeks, & til whenever.

Marina Starr
07-09-2022, 02:05 PM
Chick Fil A ran out of ice for my diet coke! What the actual fuck? I am beyond annoyed and agitated.

I need a lot of ice in my diet coke and lots of ice in my iced coffee or else I can't drink that shit.

TheBrownFox
07-09-2022, 02:25 PM
Chick Fil A ran out of ice for my diet coke! What the actual fuck? I am beyond annoyed and agitated.

I need a lot of ice in my diet coke and lots of ice in my iced coffee or else I can't drink that shit.


I just placed a DoorDash order with this local spot that has awesome wings, and if they forget my Half & Half drink again I'm gonna be pissed. For some reason, their Half & Half tastes even better to me than the jug of Half & Half I'd get at Wegmans.

Marina Starr
07-09-2022, 02:35 PM
I would be too! Chick Fil A sends me surveys all the time with rewards so I'm always honest. They know I'm a big Chick Fil A Hoe and how much I love their crispy and deliciously homophobic chicken sandwich. I have no problem being the squeaky wheel until I get the grease.

And zero issues complaining and causing problems to receive help and attention. I'm not the kind of Hoe who stays quiet.


I just placed a DoorDash order with this local spot that has awesome wings, and if they forget my Half & Half drink again I'm gonna be pissed. For some reason, their Half & Half tastes even better to me than the jug of Half & Half I'd get at Wegmans.

WendiStarr
07-09-2022, 03:52 PM
I don't understand the whole women are less valuable than men shit. I used to think it was only an Asian thing because of that side of my family saying that it was disappointing that I only produced girls but the white side has been acting salty too. I get that back in the day, boys were the ones that carried on the family name blah blah but with the way the world is going and the pathetic excuses of men that exist(fuckboys, incels, other low life types) I will likely never marry. I will keep the family name going and my daughters are going to be raised to avoid loser types. My oldest already said she has no interest in guys or marriage because she's disgusted by the fuckboy culture too. One of my girls could go on to someday cure cancer or something else great. I'm tired of hearing that they're just girls, as if they're somehow incapable of accomplishing anything important. I guess I'm ranting because of how my brother was praised for working as a stripper to pay for school while I was shamed and called a prostitute for doing the same. He got a degree and had a huge party thrown for him and people attended his graduation ceremony. I earned a degree and nobody cared. No parties and nobody showed up to graduation ceremony. I get sick of hearing my mom brag about how proud she is of her only grandson(my nephew) for doing the simplest of tasks. When I told her that my 2 year old can count to 50, knows the alphabet, and colors, it's all,"Oh, but she's a girl".

indiegirl
07-09-2022, 04:18 PM
Pissed off my bad roommate who is leaving in 30 days decided to get drunk at home yesterday and spilled wine all in the fridge. The other roommate contacted me about it and I had to clean it up, the other roommate had to throw her food out, and I had to take apart portions of the fridge to finish cleaning up her mess. She's such a hot mess. 30 days down 1 more month to go of tolerating her!!!

carmen_b
07-09-2022, 04:53 PM
Omfg I thought the 30 days started like 10 days ago.
MOVE on wtf.

carmen_b
07-09-2022, 04:54 PM
That is such bullshit that your bro got praised while your family didn't support your sex work ! Ugh !!


I don't understand the whole women are less valuable than men shit. I used to think it was only an Asian thing because of that side of my family saying that it was disappointing that I only produced girls but the white side has been acting salty too. I get that back in the day, boys were the ones that carried on the family name blah blah but with the way the world is going and the pathetic excuses of men that exist(fuckboys, incels, other low life types) I will likely never marry. I will keep the family name going and my daughters are going to be raised to avoid loser types. My oldest already said she has no interest in guys or marriage because she's disgusted by the fuckboy culture too. One of my girls could go on to someday cure cancer or something else great. I'm tired of hearing that they're just girls, as if they're somehow incapable of accomplishing anything important. I guess I'm ranting because of how my brother was praised for working as a stripper to pay for school while I was shamed and called a prostitute for doing the same. He got a degree and had a huge party thrown for him and people attended his graduation ceremony. I earned a degree and nobody cared. No parties and nobody showed up to graduation ceremony. I get sick of hearing my mom brag about how proud she is of her only grandson(my nephew) for doing the simplest of tasks. When I told her that my 2 year old can count to 50, knows the alphabet, and colors, it's all,"Oh, but she's a girl".

indiegirl
07-09-2022, 05:07 PM
Omfg I thought the 30 days started like 10 days ago.
MOVE on wtf.

Yep I gave her 60 days to pack her mess up in the termination paper along with a witness present. The 60 days was also suggested by an attorney. :( So I have 1 month down lol.

carmen_b
07-09-2022, 05:15 PM
^ Crosses everything for ya that she just finds something open in a week or two and gets GOING .

xxxGothBarbie
07-09-2022, 05:46 PM
I don't understand the whole women are less valuable than men shit. I used to think it was only an Asian thing because of that side of my family saying that it was disappointing that I only produced girls but the white side has been acting salty too. I get that back in the day, boys were the ones that carried on the family name blah blah but with the way the world is going and the pathetic excuses of men that exist(fuckboys, incels, other low life types) I will likely never marry. I will keep the family name going and my daughters are going to be raised to avoid loser types. My oldest already said she has no interest in guys or marriage because she's disgusted by the fuckboy culture too. One of my girls could go on to someday cure cancer or something else great. I'm tired of hearing that they're just girls, as if they're somehow incapable of accomplishing anything important. I guess I'm ranting because of how my brother was praised for working as a stripper to pay for school while I was shamed and called a prostitute for doing the same. He got a degree and had a huge party thrown for him and people attended his graduation ceremony. I earned a degree and nobody cared. No parties and nobody showed up to graduation ceremony. I get sick of hearing my mom brag about how proud she is of her only grandson(my nephew) for doing the simplest of tasks. When I told her that my 2 year old can count to 50, knows the alphabet, and colors, it's all,"Oh, but she's a girl".

Sounds like he is the typical Golden Child in the family. My sister is The Golden Child on my mom's side and she does the same stuff towards her that they do for him it sounds like so annoying.

seashell
07-09-2022, 08:46 PM
I don't understand the whole women are less valuable than men shit. I used to think it was only an Asian thing because of that side of my family saying that it was disappointing that I only produced girls but the white side has been acting salty too. I get that back in the day, boys were the ones that carried on the family name blah blah but with the way the world is going and the pathetic excuses of men that exist(fuckboys, incels, other low life types) I will likely never marry. I will keep the family name going and my daughters are going to be raised to avoid loser types. My oldest already said she has no interest in guys or marriage because she's disgusted by the fuckboy culture too. One of my girls could go on to someday cure cancer or something else great. I'm tired of hearing that they're just girls, as if they're somehow incapable of accomplishing anything important. I guess I'm ranting because of how my brother was praised for working as a stripper to pay for school while I was shamed and called a prostitute for doing the same. He got a degree and had a huge party thrown for him and people attended his graduation ceremony. I earned a degree and nobody cared. No parties and nobody showed up to graduation ceremony. I get sick of hearing my mom brag about how proud she is of her only grandson(my nephew) for doing the simplest of tasks. When I told her that my 2 year old can count to 50, knows the alphabet, and colors, it's all,"Oh, but she's a girl".

Honestly that sounds a lot like my misogynistic Mexican family... it's hard to distance yourself from their opinions, but they are being supremely ignorant... and that's super impressive of your 2 year old!

My petty annoyance is that I can't even look at the news anymore. I used to care so much about current events, but I just fucking can't these days.

Marina Starr
07-10-2022, 07:34 AM
I am annoyed that today I don't know what to make or get for lunch/dinner.

I am grateful I'm able to not go hungry but the struggle is not knowing what I want, yet :)

WonderWoman0642
07-10-2022, 09:09 AM
I don't understand the whole women are less valuable than men shit. I used to think it was only an Asian thing because of that side of my family saying that it was disappointing that I only produced girls but the white side has been acting salty too. I get that back in the day, boys were the ones that carried on the family name blah blah but with the way the world is going and the pathetic excuses of men that exist(fuckboys, incels, other low life types) I will likely never marry. I will keep the family name going and my daughters are going to be raised to avoid loser types. My oldest already said she has no interest in guys or marriage because she's disgusted by the fuckboy culture too. One of my girls could go on to someday cure cancer or something else great. I'm tired of hearing that they're just girls, as if they're somehow incapable of accomplishing anything important. I guess I'm ranting because of how my brother was praised for working as a stripper to pay for school while I was shamed and called a prostitute for doing the same. He got a degree and had a huge party thrown for him and people attended his graduation ceremony. I earned a degree and nobody cared. No parties and nobody showed up to graduation ceremony. I get sick of hearing my mom brag about how proud she is of her only grandson(my nephew) for doing the simplest of tasks. When I told her that my 2 year old can count to 50, knows the alphabet, and colors, it's all,"Oh, but she's a girl".

I feel this post so much! I'm going to visit my family soon. My family judged my brothers ex for being a stripper-yet nobody cared he was a customer in a strip club? He actually met her while she was working. He also has kids but he isn't married. Which is fine, but my aunt is in the same situation and is judged for it. And I'm trying to keep an open mind when it comes to dating but it's hard. Fuckboys, incels and low life types...wow that sounds like every guy in my area lol.

Marina Starr
07-10-2022, 10:52 AM
There are no shortage of that too in my town, lol.

Vanilla hoes here put up with so much.


I feel this post so much! I'm going to visit my family soon. My family judged my brothers ex for being a stripper-yet nobody cared he was a customer in a strip club? He actually met her while she was working. He also has kids but he isn't married. Which is fine, but my aunt is in the same situation and is judged for it. And I'm trying to keep an open mind when it comes to dating but it's hard. Fuckboys, incels and low life types...wow that sounds like every guy in my area lol.

lilylilylily
07-10-2022, 02:41 PM
I do all my grocery shopping runs on my bike and I have a big shopping bag that I use that fits into my basket,I usually go to a few stores and put all the items in the bag. Today when the bagger asked to bag my groceries she took my shopping bag and I see her poking her head inside and she then asked if I forgot to pay for those things..the items were not even brands that that store carries.. I'm like I went to other stores before this one..it just annoyed me that she made me feel like I stole those items. The receipts were in the bag too, why didn't she ask to see them? I felt like complaining but I just paid and left.

Marina Starr
07-10-2022, 06:13 PM
I can see how that would negatively impacted you. I always try to assume the best and give some wiggle room but when it's something that I feel inappropriate or makes me uncomfortable then I'll always address it. Don't be afraid to be the squeaky wheel, lol.

People in customer service, be it baggers, baristas, pharmacists, managers etc are 'paid to be nice' to customers.

The same can be said about customers, just because they're paying, doesn't give them the right to abuse or disrespect.


I do all my grocery shopping runs on my bike and I have a big shopping bag that I use that fits into my basket,I usually go to a few stores and put all the items in the bag. Today when the bagger asked to bag my groceries she took my shopping bag and I see her poking her head inside and she then asked if I forgot to pay for those things..the items were not even brands that that store carries.. I'm like I went to other stores before this one..it just annoyed me that she made me feel like I stole those items. The receipts were in the bag too, why didn't she ask to see them? I felt like complaining but I just paid and left.

seashell
07-10-2022, 06:27 PM
Damn I should've ordered a bigger coffee this morning, so I could save it for later. Tempted to place a Postmates order for Starbucks lol

chanzep
07-10-2022, 07:41 PM
How dare they assume you stole I would of complained. Don't treat me like a thief unless I'm acting like one.

I have not been walking last few days it's so hot like 107 today. I'm going to have to use the treadmill tommorow. Which I don't enjoy . I like my walks.

lilylilylily
07-10-2022, 07:57 PM
Yah I should have said something. That happened to me last year at a dollar store. There was a huge lineup behind me and the cashier asked me very loudly if I forgot to pay, she said it rudely but with a smile. I was so embarrassed. I was so upset I called the store not long after I left and explained to the manager and he took my side and I never saw her again.

seashell
07-10-2022, 08:10 PM
How dare they assume you stole I would of complained. Don't treat me like a thief unless I'm acting like one.

I have not been walking last few days it's so hot like 107 today. I'm going to have to use the treadmill tommorow. Which I don't enjoy . I like my walks.

Same, it's hot af! I've been thinking about getting a gym membership, since my apartment treadmill is always occupied...

Violethollywood
07-10-2022, 09:00 PM
So my neighbor's got like 4 dogs and one of them is a large pit/lab mix and he keeps jumping the fence anytime i go outside to take my dog out or do anything out there. Like I can't even go in my own fucking backyard in peace bc their stupid mutt keeps jumping the fence and I don't want their dog to attack me or my dog or anyone else in my yard for that matter. I don't even know what to do bc they know he does it but yet won't put him on a fucking leash. I had the same problem with dog years ago so I started putting him on a leash because he can't be trusted to go in the yard unattended bc he will dig under or jump a fence. Like my neighbors are fat lazy pieces of shit . And the guy is a county cop. So It's not like I can even say anything to this fuck bc he won't do shit.


Any advice ? Like I think I might try and put vinegar and cayenne pepper by the fence line in hopes that will deter this dog from coming over into my yard. I also just bought a pool and I want to be able to enjoy it and not have to worry about this stupid dog damaging it or anything .

Staci
07-10-2022, 10:08 PM
So my neighbor's got like 4 dogs and one of them is a large pit/lab mix and he keeps jumping the fence anytime i go outside to take my dog out or do anything out there. Like I can't even go in my own fucking backyard in peace bc their stupid mutt keeps jumping the fence and I don't want their dog to attack me or my dog or anyone else in my yard for that matter. I don't even know what to do bc they know he does it but yet won't put him on a fucking leash. I had the same problem with dog years ago so I started putting him on a leash because he can't be trusted to go in the yard unattended bc he will dig under or jump a fence. Like my neighbors are fat lazy pieces of shit . And the guy is a county cop. So It's not like I can even say anything to this fuck bc he won't do shit.


Any advice ? Like I think I might try and put vinegar and cayenne pepper by the fence line in hopes that will deter this dog from coming over into my yard. I also just bought a pool and I want to be able to enjoy it and not have to worry about this stupid dog damaging it or anything .
When it jumps the fence and is in your backyard, can't you call the county pound to come pick him up?

If the neighbor has to pay the fine often enough to go pick him back up - they might do something about it.

Violethollywood
07-10-2022, 10:50 PM
I mean I can, but the dog goes back into their yard by the time animal control would come out, like they're right next to me . So there's like no point.....
like right now it's almost 1 am and their dog is in my back yard bc my back door camera keeps going off and i can see it. The issue is, is that the husband (it's a husband and wife) the husband is a cop and he's a douchebag and im afraid of what he'd do if i called animal control on their dog. Cops here are dirty af. He's literally blocked our mailbox with his patrol car tons of times before and we have never said shit even though it prevents us from getting mail that day or sometimes days--- but omg, if there's a car parked on the street even in front of his house, he gets pissy.

Marina Starr
07-11-2022, 04:51 AM
nasty with a smile is the absolute worst. It’s passive AGGRESSION. I’m glad you called the manager.


Yah I should have said something. That happened to me last year at a dollar store. There was a huge lineup behind me and the cashier asked me very loudly if I forgot to pay, she said it rudely but with a smile. I was so embarrassed. I was so upset I called the store not long after I left and explained to the manager and he took my side and I never saw her again.

miss.a.p1600
07-11-2022, 05:32 AM
So my neighbor's got like 4 dogs and one of them is a large pit/lab mix and he keeps jumping the fence anytime i go outside to take my dog out or do anything out there. Like I can't even go in my own fucking backyard in peace bc their stupid mutt keeps jumping the fence and I don't want their dog to attack me or my dog or anyone else in my yard for that matter. I don't even know what to do bc they know he does it but yet won't put him on a fucking leash. I had the same problem with dog years ago so I started putting him on a leash because he can't be trusted to go in the yard unattended bc he will dig under or jump a fence. Like my neighbors are fat lazy pieces of shit . And the guy is a county cop. So It's not like I can even say anything to this fuck bc he won't do shit.


Any advice ? Like I think I might try and put vinegar and cayenne pepper by the fence line in hopes that will deter this dog from coming over into my yard. I also just bought a pool and I want to be able to enjoy it and not have to worry about this stupid dog damaging it or anything .

prime examples of people who don’t take care of their pets. Their dog probably needs some exercise, some stimulation/play with humans or other pets, and maybe some food and water and is desperately trying to escape their shitty existence not necessarily attack you (but since the dog doesn’t sound like it’s trained well nor socialize properly then it probably could be violent)

Maybe you can build a sturdier taller fence (if it’s legal).

Have your husband or dad or strong make figure talk to them about it if you think they’re not dangerous/crazy.

Id discreetly call animal control on their ass. Or put their address on the mailing list of local dog training. They probably have other animals they’re not taking care of.

Worst case scenario is Id get a gun. Then if that dog comes onto my property (in an aggressive manner trying to attack) I’d shoot it. Neighbors will just have to deal with the consequences of their actions.

Might be time for a move soon. You should be comfortable asserting boundaries with them but some neighbors are petty af and crazy and not worth risking your safety to get into power struggles with them. Shitty neighbors will ruin any pleasure you have while at home and home should be a place to relax.

WendiStarr
07-11-2022, 08:21 AM
I am dreading 2pm today. I have a pap smear and as someone who has survived cervical cancer, I get worried again every time. I loathe that damn speculum. It's painful as hell no matter what and I get vaginismus, making the whole process even more difficult and nightmarish. I wish they'd just let me self collect like an awesome doctor once did.

TheBrownFox
07-11-2022, 01:31 PM
I am dreading 2pm today. I have a pap smear and as someone who has survived cervical cancer, I get worried again every time. I loathe that damn speculum. It's painful as hell no matter what and I get vaginismus, making the whole process even more difficult and nightmarish. I wish they'd just let me self collect like an awesome doctor once did.



I hope all went well for you today, Wendi. *Hug* I also hate those appointments involving any kind of vaginal insertions. Last time I had an appointment like that a little while ago, I wound up freakin' getting BV AGAIN. And instead of those enormous pills they usually have you take (which I hate with a passion), the doctor prescribed me that vaginal gel you just insert. Tomorrow I have my post-opp. appointment (after having my tubes taken out).

Aurora_Sunset
07-11-2022, 02:28 PM
My feet hurt so bad from shitty work shoes, and because my feet hurt, I've been having bad posture, so now my back hurts too. I don't know if I should give myself tomorrow AND Wednesday off to rest them... I really need the money, but I'm not wanting to trash my body. My new shoes arrive Wednesday. I really hope they're better.

xxxGothBarbie
07-11-2022, 02:51 PM
Annoys the hell out of me how these damn stores especially grocery stores don't have their AC cranked up blasting during the summer, what the hell people?!?

Cutie101
07-11-2022, 03:16 PM
I am dreading 2pm today. I have a pap smear and as someone who has survived cervical cancer, I get worried again every time. I loathe that damn speculum. It's painful as hell no matter what and I get vaginismus, making the whole process even more difficult and nightmarish. I wish they'd just let me self collect like an awesome doctor once did.

I hear you. I once had a colposcopy and having to sit with that speculum shit, spreading me for 20 minutes, was REALLY painful, especially because it was slipping out all the time (my body was involuntary contracting lol). I really wish I got some anesthesia or something, so they can do whatever tf they want there and I don't have to feel shit. I also dread going to gyno for same reason and I should.

I also wished they made different size speculums. There is one standard size and I have a really tight vagina (I can't insert a lush in at all) and... IT HURTS!!! Fuck.

miss.a.p1600
07-12-2022, 04:56 AM
My feet hurt so bad from shitty work shoes, and because my feet hurt, I've been having bad posture, so now my back hurts too. I don't know if I should give myself tomorrow AND Wednesday off to rest them... I really need the money, but I'm not wanting to trash my body. My new shoes arrive Wednesday. I really hope they're better.

Can you insert custom insoles? That might help make the shoes feel better and keep your body aligned.

WonderWoman0642
07-12-2022, 06:49 AM
I have to do the family thing this week. I'm dreading it. At first, I was looking forward to it But my mom made this assumption that I was going to stay in town ALL WEEK because she will be there all week. No, just...no. I live about 3 hours away from my grandparents (my mom is visiting them from out of state). So I planned to visit for a couple days but I need to get back home and work. I'm so sick of everyone assuming I can hang out because I don't work a "normal job." If I say I have to work, they will go oh "your little modeling thing?" It's so frustrating. I moved far away from my mom because I was tired of the expectation that I will visit her once a week. But now she visits my grandparents every month since I'm a few hours away and expects me to visit her there. (she used to visit my grandparents once a year). She was being super passive aggressive on the phone, like "oh I thought you would be here by now. What's the hold up?"

OOh I really needed to let this out lol.