View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
kamiliam
07-25-2022, 08:15 PM
I went in a Sephora inside a Kohls (made an Amazon return) it was ok..
I'm interested in Patrick TA stuff
I like his blushes, lip liners and gloss. Did not like his brow product
chanzep
07-25-2022, 08:53 PM
Those blushes are gorgeous.
Marina Starr
07-25-2022, 09:01 PM
Even more so in person. The packaging is so pretty. I'll look and feel WHOREGEOUS wearing them.
Those blushes are gorgeous.
Dreamqueen
07-26-2022, 01:23 AM
It's so nice having a reliable car that I can actually speed up in without the transmission giving me whiplash lol And I loooove being able to listen to my music and podcasts at a decent volume through the car. I really wanted my old one to hold out until next summer, but oh well. I'm going to try to refinance in 6 months through my bank. Hopefully lower my payment.
I'm so happy to hear that!
Enjoy every minute of the drive.
Such a relief huh?
Aurora_Sunset
07-26-2022, 06:50 AM
When I was buying my car, I didn't have 2 proofs of residence and never got my driver's license updated when we moved. My husband drove all the way home while I was waiting on them to finish other things to find 2 pieces of mail for me to use. No one ever took them. As we were wrapping up with the finance guy, I even held them up to him and asked, "Do you need these?" And he waved them off and said, "Nah. Everything went through just fine."
Now, I'm getting a text from my salesman saying, "Oh, looks like we missed 2 proofs of residence when we were doing your paperwork. Can you bring those in this week or email them to me?"
Motherfucker, seriously?
carmen_b
07-26-2022, 08:32 AM
^ Ignore.
You've got your ride haha.
miss.a.p1600
07-26-2022, 08:59 AM
^i don’t think you can ignore because they mail the title to you. Unless you plan to sell the car back to the same dealership?
kimbe
07-26-2022, 11:56 AM
I'm annoyed because I don't know what to do.. I have kept it a secret from T that I own a property that provides a significant income (since 2011).
Now they want to buy the property and I think it's time to sell too. But, I would so much appreciate to discuss this scenario with T, but I don't feel like telling him this now.
The reason I haven't told T, is that when we met (appx three years ago) I didn't see any reason, and then time has just passed, and he spends an ever increasing amount on me and I don't know what it would be like if got to know..
I hate when keeping secrets strikes back on you..
(Background; A friend and I bought a tanning salon on the verge of going out of business in 2009.
We ran the salon for two years before ended up selling the business (we decided to either stop with spray tan service due to the work load and solely offer beds or sell).
I managed to pay out my friend and kept the property which they have rented from me. This has now become a significant income.)
carmen_b
07-26-2022, 01:28 PM
^ Ohhhh tough one.
As the relationship got serious I could see wanting to disclose.
On the other hand ... nothing like a secret big chunk of money for peace of mind. :)
Dreamqueen
07-26-2022, 04:25 PM
When I was buying my car, I didn't have 2 proofs of residence and never got my driver's license updated when we moved. My husband drove all the way home while I was waiting on them to finish other things to find 2 pieces of mail for me to use. No one ever took them. As we were wrapping up with the finance guy, I even held them up to him and asked, "Do you need these?" And he waved them off and said, "Nah. Everything went through just fine."
Now, I'm getting a text from my salesman saying, "Oh, looks like we missed 2 proofs of residence when we were doing your paperwork. Can you bring those in this week or email them to me?"
Motherfucker, seriously?
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CgYK63pupH7/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Me when I go in to buy my new car. Lol
kimbe
07-27-2022, 12:12 AM
^It's just amazing how easy men lose focus, I mean I love it every time it happens LoL ;)
miss.a.p1600
07-27-2022, 05:27 AM
I'm annoyed because I don't know what to do.. I have kept it a secret from T that I own a property that provides a significant income (since 2011).
Now they want to buy the property and I think it's time to sell too. But, I would so much appreciate to discuss this scenario with T, but I don't feel like telling him this now.
The reason I haven't told T, is that when we met (appx three years ago) I didn't see any reason, and then time has just passed, and he spends an ever increasing amount on me and I don't know what it would be like if got to know..
I hate when keeping secrets strikes back on you..
(Background; A friend and I bought a tanning salon on the verge of going out of business in 2009.
We ran the salon for two years before ended up selling the business (we decided to either stop with spray tan service due to the work load and solely offer beds or sell).
I managed to pay out my friend and kept the property which they have rented from me. This has now become a significant income.)
Secret do put some heavy weight on you but I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong …. Yet.
You could put the property in a trust and then technically *you* don’t own it but the trust owns it. A degree of separation.
Now if you were to marry THEN you most likely would need to disclose
idk. I’m not a lawyer though
Marina Starr
07-27-2022, 08:06 AM
I got a new blender from Walmart and it's so loud. Shit getting returned.
WonderWoman0642
07-27-2022, 08:48 AM
The guys that work for my landlord are so gross. They are working on the apartment upstairs. I can always tell when they're around because my bathroom stinks. It literally smells like beer cans and an ashtray. It's gross.
miss.a.p1600
07-27-2022, 09:18 AM
I hate my partner for asking me “when are we getting married”
Knowing good and damn well my concerns about it. Only to cause an argument and affect my mental state today.
kimbe
07-27-2022, 10:39 AM
Secret do put some heavy weight on you but I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong …. Yet.
You could put the property in a trust and then technically *you* don’t own it but the trust owns it. A degree of separation.
Now if you were to marry THEN you most likely would need to disclose
idk. I’m not a lawyer though
Yep, legally I'm not doing anything wrong, I know that and that's not my concern. My only issue is that now during the sale process it would be nice to be able to talk about it with T. And of course, if we end up living together far into the future, the secret "significant amount" of money will one day probably have to be revealed..
Dreamqueen
07-27-2022, 12:41 PM
The guys that work for my landlord are so gross. They are working on the apartment upstairs. I can always tell when they're around because my bathroom stinks. It literally smells like beer cans and an ashtray. It's gross.
I just put a work order in to have some repairs done in my apt.
This is the first time I've done this with the new owner.
God knows who they're going to send over here.
Ever since being r*ped, I'm nervous to have men in here.
One of the repairs is in my bedroom.
Eek.
Marina Starr
07-27-2022, 01:38 PM
Keep doors open. If you have curtains on windows pull them all up. Make your place as visible as possible to the outside.
I just put a work order in to have some repairs done in my apt.
This is the first time I've done this with the new owner.
God knows who they're going to send over here.
Ever since being r*ped, I'm nervous to have men in here.
One of the repairs is in my bedroom.
Eek.
whirlerz
07-27-2022, 02:44 PM
Literally, this guy from upstairs pulled his truck on the side of the house, (main entrance) & pissed there..:yikes::yuck: btw, bathroom just inside the door
His girl was w/him..
I happened to be sitting outside, kept my head turned, but could see out of the corner of my eye..
Then, he says hi to me, what?
Soooo disgusting!
whirlerz
07-27-2022, 02:51 PM
Literally, this guy from upstairs pulled his truck on the side of the house, (main entrance) & pissed there..:yikes::yuck:
His girl was w/him..
I happened to be sitting outside, kept my head turned, but could see out of the corner of my eye..
Soooo disgusting!
chanzep
07-27-2022, 04:15 PM
I hate my partner for asking me “when are we getting married”
Knowing good and damn well my concerns about it. Only to cause an argument and affect my mental state today.
He really expects you to legally the yourself to his mess yikes!. Imagine you marry him and Bertha files for child support you could end up paying. This happened to a co-worker of mine. He would financially drain you and probably ruin your credit , marrying him would be a big risk.
He would probably drive you insane too.
He's selfish for not realizing or caring unhappy you are and trying to trap you futher.
WonderWoman0642
07-27-2022, 05:16 PM
I just put a work order in to have some repairs done in my apt.
This is the first time I've done this with the new owner.
God knows who they're going to send over here.
Ever since being r*ped, I'm nervous to have men in here.
One of the repairs is in my bedroom.
Eek.
I can relate to this so much. I was r*ped too. And I hate having random guys in my home. Hopefully they will send someone who is respectful and wont take all day.
miss.a.p1600
07-27-2022, 05:58 PM
He really expects you to legally the yourself to his mess yikes!. Imagine you marry him and Bertha files for child support you could end up paying. This happened to a co-worker of mine. He would financially drain you and probably ruin your credit , marrying him would be a big risk.
He would probably drive you insane too.
He's selfish for not realizing or caring unhappy you are and trying to trap you futher.
Right!
He’s so fucking dumb and doesn’t realize Bertha holds A LOT of leverage rn.
I don’t want to marry a dude and his ex wife is lurking in the background ready to wreak havoc if she doesn’t get her way.
I have my own stuff to deal with and I refuse to let a “man” drag me down further.
No ma’am.
I’ll let Bertha drain tf out of his gullible no boundary having ass before either one of those hoes try to drain me.
chanzep
07-27-2022, 07:10 PM
You said they don't have a child support agreement either which means she could claim back payments too. That's what happens to my co worker. Also Bertha has shown how she reacts to things like when she moved after you 2 moved in. She would definitely get crazy when he marries someone else. Look at her now dropping the child in doorstep and driving off!
They are both a mess.
Dreamqueen
07-27-2022, 09:45 PM
Keep doors open. If you have curtains on windows pull them all up. Make your place as visible as possible to the outside.
Thanks for the suggestions. Problem is that my unit is way in the back, and everyone around me has their a.c. on, and drapes closed because it's so hot. Nobody would hear me if I screamed.
Being a sex worker, I SWEAR guys can sense it.
I can relate to this so much. I was r*ped too. And I hate having random guys in my home. Hopefully they will send someone who is respectful and wont take all day.
I'm sorry that happened to you too.:heartbeat:heartbeat
I've been a renter in over 25 different apts/houses.
EVERY maintenance guy and/or gas man, cable guy/plumber has tried to get fresh with me.
I think I'm going to tell him that I live with my brother.
miss.a.p1600
07-28-2022, 02:00 AM
You said they don't have a child support agreement either which means she could claim back payments too. That's what happens to my co worker. Also Bertha has shown how she reacts to things like when she moved after you 2 moved in. She would definitely get crazy when he marries someone else. Look at her now dropping the child in doorstep and driving off!
They are both a mess.
exactly!!’
I told him that.
He won’t listen.
Pretty much why I’m in no rush to marry him.
carmen_b
07-28-2022, 06:39 AM
To expand on this ..... I kind of wish I *hadn't* told J I had " passive-ish income from my rental up north.
It sort of throws things because then if I bitch about things not being busy enough or something he " knows " I have it covering some .
I don't *need* an allowance from him per say haha but at times I wouldn't mind. The motivation to just give me some cash here and there is minimized since he knows I don't need it.
Just something to think about since I kind of wished I had said " yes, the renters cover the mortgage itself " .
Keeping my mouth shut about the profit element might have been wiser.
Yep, legally I'm not doing anything wrong, I know that and that's not my concern. My only issue is that now during the sale process it would be nice to be able to talk about it with T. And of course, if we end up living together far into the future, the secret "significant amount" of money will one day probably have to be revealed..
Marina Starr
07-28-2022, 07:22 AM
I don’t think they necessarily would pick up on us being sex workers but they pick up on something sexy but can’t put their finger on what exactly it is.
I call it the Goddess Energy we exude no matter how we dress.
All in the way we walk, how we carry ourselves and our body language is different from vanilla hoes without trying.
Thanks for the suggestions. Problem is that my unit is way in the back, and everyone around me has their a.c. on, and drapes closed because it's so hot. Nobody would hear me if I screamed.
Being a sex worker, I SWEAR guys can sense it.
Marina Starr
07-28-2022, 07:25 AM
I feel for those that have been r-ped. That always triggers me so much. I have to close my eyes and shut my ears if I’m seeing any movie that has such scene. Makes me extremely uncomfortable.
miss.a.p1600
07-28-2022, 08:31 AM
To expand on this ..... I kind of wish I *hadn't* told J I had " passive-ish income from my rental up north.
It sort of throws things because then if I bitch about things not being busy enough or something he " knows " I have it covering some .
I don't *need* an allowance from him per say haha but at times I wouldn't mind. The motivation to just give me some cash here and there is minimized since he knows I don't need it.
Just something to think about since I kind of wished I had said " yes, the renters cover the mortgage itself " .
Keeping my mouth shut about the profit element might have been wiser.
Sometimes guys are less likely to help a damsel in distress especially if they think she already got it taken care of.
carmen_b
07-28-2022, 08:48 AM
^ I probably disclosed that to show value to him “ look how together I am “.
Or maybe I did just randomly talking about changes with the place .
I wish I hadn’t disclosed it honestly.
kimbe
07-28-2022, 09:47 AM
^ Ohhhh tough one.
As the relationship got serious I could see wanting to disclose.
On the other hand ... nothing like a secret big chunk of money for peace of mind. :)
To be honest, this is the first relationship I’ve ever had where I actually have some real good feelings about my partner. Most of my earlier shorter relationships have been more like "I need money, you need sex" type. Even though it started like this with T as well, it certainly has developed into something I haven’t experienced before. I actually think I have true feelings for him (I know, it sounds like a cliché!).
To expand on this ..... I kind of wish I *hadn't* told J I had " passive-ish income from my rental up north.
It sort of throws things because then if I bitch about things not being busy enough or something he " knows " I have it covering some .
I don't *need* an allowance from him per say haha but at times I wouldn't mind. The motivation to just give me some cash here and there is minimized since he knows I don't need it.
Just something to think about since I kind of wished I had said " yes, the renters cover the mortgage itself " .
Keeping my mouth shut about the profit element might have been wiser.
Exactly, and I definitely see that!
I’m not saying I wish I’d told T about this property and it’s rental income(3k+). I’m comfortable with my decision of keeping it a secret.
I'm not denying that I benefits greatly financially when he believes my only income rely from my small business of coaching, my occasional work for the spray tan company and that I take some shifts at the tanning salon (which is great because I can do much of my work with my clients when I’m sitting there and it’s quiet).
When sold, I’ll end up getting appx 1.6 after all expenses paid. I don’t have debt, and I have a account with the last 5 years of rental income untouched.
I have thought about when the day comes to tell T about the money, maybe I can say I won a lottery, casino jackpot or something LoL.. I simply don’t know, but I have to come up with something.
Dreamqueen
07-28-2022, 11:50 PM
Went out to start my car today, and it's dead.
Dead. Dead. Dead.
It wasn't the battery that needed to be replaced.
It's probably an electrical issue? Or?
Who knows.
I'm done spending money on repairs.
The mechanics out here are not to be trusted.
I don't have money to get even a used car at these inflated prices.
I feel trapped.
Trapped in this damn house.
Trapped in this damn desert.
So depressed and defeated.:'(
LoveyD
07-29-2022, 07:40 AM
Aw, DQ, That is so frustrating. The other day I found a mobile mechanic on craigslist. He came out immediately to help and he charged a lot less than auto shops. Maybe try on craigslist? I feel you. I had alll this money saved and must have spent $500 last week alone on repairs.
Dreamqueen
07-29-2022, 11:55 AM
Aw, DQ, That is so frustrating. The other day I found a mobile mechanic on craigslist. He came out immediately to help and he charged a lot less than auto shops. Maybe try on craigslist? I feel you. I had alll this money saved and must have spent $500 last week alone on repairs.
Thank You.
Right before I signed in here, that's exactly what I did ( searched Craigslist).
I've been paying for car repairs for the last 7 years.
My car was always running perfectly until these desert mechanics got their paws on it.
I keep getting texts messages from one of them, asking me to come in for a check up.
Shut up!!
The last time they worked on it, the problem wasn't fixed ( car overheated), and I had to go back the same day!
They broke my seat toggle switch, and rifled through my glove box.
xxxGothBarbie
07-29-2022, 12:10 PM
Really wishing that smother would fucking hurry up and leave the damn house today ugh. I hate her disgusting energy. She actually cleaned the tub *gasp* since she's a complete pig. The only way I can describe her presence/energy is very strong dominant Spanish lady with a loud mouth and bossy AF to anything & anybody in her wake. I'm shocked she's got friends lol
I feel like she's just itching to say some bitchy shit to me, since she barely smiles at me anyway. I want her to LEAVE!!!!! I hate feeling confined to this room, have no energy or drive to work anymore. I wanna roam freely ffs ugh! I'm surely contemplating car living at this point.
indiegirl
07-29-2022, 03:49 PM
My electric bill went up to 350 dollars this month.......I have. NO. WORDS.
I've been using appliances exactly the same and then they just decided to shit on me this month. We're all gonna be homeless in 10 years if these companies keep shitting on us worse year after year including inflation. This is insanity. Here is was complaining about a 168 dollar bill a few months ago. This is bs.
whirlerz
07-29-2022, 04:15 PM
Wow!
They're talking rolling brown outs in my state, so far haven't done it.
LoveyD
07-29-2022, 04:18 PM
Thank You.
Right before I signed in here, that's exactly what I did ( searched Craigslist).
I've been paying for car repairs for the last 7 years.
My car was always running perfectly until these desert mechanics got their paws on it.
I keep getting texts messages from one of them, asking me to come in for a check up.
Shut up!!
The last time they worked on it, the problem wasn't fixed ( car overheated), and I had to go back the same day!
They broke my seat toggle switch, and rifled through my glove box.
Wow, that is pretty sketch! At least w a mobile mechanic they stay out of your car and typically they charge less.
whirlerz
07-29-2022, 06:48 PM
I've had my car gone through by them, lol I had some peanuts in the shell in a bag, some were missing::)
kimbe
07-30-2022, 12:22 AM
Omg, why can't people just stick to their appointments and show up on time? >:(
Dreamqueen
07-30-2022, 11:35 AM
Wow, that is pretty sketch! At least w a mobile mechanic they stay out of your car and typically they charge less.
I found a mobile mechanic last year who had great reviews.
We set up the appt, and his secretary even helped me set up Venmo for payment.
Confirmed the day and time. He never showed up or called, even though I had JUST gotten off the phone with his secretary the day before.
So pitiful and disgusting.
I've had my car gone through by them, lol I had some peanuts in the shell in a bag, some were missing::)
I believe it.
I was just reading on my local Next Door app about someone who dropped their car off for repairs, then saw it in the drive thru line at Burger King.
Omg!
xxxGothBarbie
07-30-2022, 03:11 PM
Annoyed as fuck about this cold I've been battling all week. My head has been stuffy and I've had a low grade fever here & there. I know it's not covid, bc I haven't had most of those awful symptoms thankfully. I hate getting summer colds ugh!
Aurora_Sunset
07-30-2022, 05:56 PM
Goddam annual gym membership fee and Prime membership came out this week, without me realizing they were coming due. I didn't have the extra money for that shit.
indiegirl
07-30-2022, 08:18 PM
Why the fuck is it so dead financially this week? This sucks. This is the 2nd week of it being exhaustingly slow.:(
miss.a.p1600
07-31-2022, 03:27 AM
My electric bill went up to 350 dollars this month.......I have. NO. WORDS.
I've been using appliances exactly the same and then they just decided to shit on me this month. We're all gonna be homeless in 10 years if these companies keep shitting on us worse year after year including inflation. This is insanity. Here is was complaining about a 168 dollar bill a few months ago. This is bs.
i am ruthless when I come to electricity bills
L complaining about his kids being hot. I was like I could give two fucks and those kids better put a tank top shorts and some flip flops on and sit down somewhere because I AM NOT accommodating anyone who is not putting money on this bill.
Shit! Y’all mfs pay the bill then I will put the temp on whatever ya want.
He finally got accustomed to having it on the recommended temperature. Our electric company recommends 78 when itÂ’s summer and 68 in winter for savings
whirlerz
07-31-2022, 06:29 AM
^^^I don't pay utilities, (included in my rent) but.. I can't.stand.lights.on unnecessarily!
I turn em off!
In other matters, the bunnies ate my little Jade plant that was just coming back.. Nooo, whyyy I left my herbs out, they've over an acre of grass!
Damn
WendiStarr
07-31-2022, 10:10 AM
Frickin mosquito bites. They are itchy as hell. I got prescription hydrocortisone cream and it still itches. Mosquitoes need to go extinct.
xxxGothBarbie
07-31-2022, 10:41 AM
Food delivery needs to be cheaper. It's extortionate these days. I'm gonna buy groceries this week and cook all week. Smother has not cooked her rancid shit in over a month, it's been awesome!
Dreamqueen
07-31-2022, 11:36 AM
Frickin mosquito bites. They are itchy as hell. I got prescription hydrocortisone cream and it still itches. Mosquitoes need to go extinct.
I don't know what's worse.
Mosquito bites or the town spraying for them every weekend.
The planes must be dumping some really toxic chemicals on us ( even though they say it's safe), because we're all feeling sick.
Bad headaches and sinus problems, along with congestion.