View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
whirlerz
08-13-2022, 07:09 PM
One of the women who was also a guest on the podcast on Monday
took a liking to me, and wanted to stay in touch.
I was going to give her my phone number, but something told me to hold off and just communicate first through email.
Thank fuck I did.
She's been love bombing me ALL day, EVERY day!!
She says that she feels a deep connection with me, and feels like we'll meet in person one day.
No. No we won't.
She's been sending videos that she wants me to watch and report back.
She MAKES videos for me to watch.
Wait. There's homework in order to be your friend?
She included her phone number and wants me to call.
Nah, I'm good.
I explained that my car died and I need to work a lot to come up with the money to get it fixed and buy a new one. So, in other words, I don't have energy or time to talk.
Add to that, we're in very different time zones.
I don't mean to come off snooty, but I just don't get off on more talking after cam.
My entire spine is on fire and I'm in excruciating pain ( probably stress related). The heat has made me weak and lethargic.
So, in other words, self care is of the essence right now.
TF, Nobody got time for that!
I got tired just reading it!
whirlerz
08-13-2022, 07:31 PM
Lazy F* can't be arsed to turn the outside light on, we're the only house on the block, 2 overgrown lots on either side::)
Dreamqueen
08-13-2022, 10:34 PM
TF, Nobody got time for that!
I got tired just reading it!
Ikr?
Isn't it tiring?
I went back and counted how many emails she's sent since Tuesday.
15!!!!
Omg!
I can't stand energy vampires and codependent people.
She says that she is a psych nurse, but I'm wondering if SHE'S the actual patient! :crazy::spin:
indiegirl
08-14-2022, 09:08 AM
MEN....the only reason I'm not extremely upset during my price increase is the fact someone cancelled last minute and was kind enough to give me 1000 for it. Everyone has been fucking kind since the price increase.............EXCEPT some motherfucker from the cheap site from years ago who came back into my life last night. It was already too late because he knew my address but he knew he was never going to see me again. He stealthed me 4 times and I know the amount because I had 4 condoms in me when I went to use the bathroom. I even called him out before he tried putting it in raw and said "where is the condom?" I could go on with stories from this low life and apparently he has lost a lot of things in his life because of his cocaine addiction.....FUCKING GOOD. I'm not going down with you. Go get help and don't destroy other people with your careless and self absorbed heartless choices.
I am so grateful to myself for upping my prices in order to further avoid people who do this to women. I am the nicest person to customers and this behavior is uncalled for.
Marina Starr
08-14-2022, 01:40 PM
I believe it's not only Florida, the weather has been so off all over the country. Remember that big fire disaster in Colorado because there was no snow in DECEMBER?!
Thank God we have AC here.
Yuck! Sorry to hear that :(. I was wondering how people in Florida, Texas, and Arizona are surviving. It's hot here in Cali but this is a normal day of heat for you guys if you lived here. It must be tough over there right now! :(!
chanzep
08-14-2022, 10:03 PM
So I hAve put on weight . My old jeans were so right on me .I went and got some scales omg need to do a weight loss plan.
indiegirl
08-15-2022, 11:40 AM
I am in such a bratty mood right now. I hate having a period.
buttonpop
08-15-2022, 12:59 PM
My "friend" (the one who felt entitled to live on our couch in june) abandoned my girlfriend last night at 1am while she was blackout drunk, letting her walk over a mile home ALL ALONE. She could barely even stand when she got home and was falling on the ground bawling her eyes out. We live in a dangerous fucking city, and aggressive homeless drug addicts live in our neighborhood--it is not safe to walk home alone when sober, let alone while stumbling drunk and vulnerable!!! I was LIVID. I called the "friend" yelling at them for not making sure my gf got home safe and said "fuck you, you're a shitty friend!" They didn't respond and immediately blocked me on IG.
I'm sure they're offended I yelled at them and Im embarrassed I lost my shit in that moment, but I think some things are so egregious that yelling is justified. My girlfriend could have been assaulted or trafficked or hit by a car, and they couldn't even bother to call me to tell me to pick her up. I can't imagine treating your supposed best friend like that. All because they wanted to hurry home to bang their new partner.
Dreamqueen
08-15-2022, 01:20 PM
My car cover was stolen off of my car.
This is why I'm hesitant on buying a newer one, or just repair this one.
I just added comprehensive to my policy, and kinda hoping someone will steal it, so I can be done with it already.:(
chanzep
08-15-2022, 06:24 PM
Buttonpop I think your within your rights to yell. They are not good friends. They are selfish.
TheBrownFox
08-16-2022, 09:18 PM
I was wondering how people in Florida, Texas, and Arizona are surviving.
My boyfriend is planning on going to Arizona in September to visit with his dad for a week, and he asked me to come with him. It will be my first time ever on the west coast, and I know that Arizona is a desert. With me having hot flashes lately, this is definitely gonna be interesting.....
xxxGothBarbie
08-16-2022, 09:23 PM
My car cover was stolen off of my car.
This is why I'm hesitant on buying a newer one, or just repair this one.
I just added comprehensive to my policy, and kinda hoping someone will steal it, so I can be done with it already.:(
Ha! Leave it unlocked from now on & someone just might esp if they stole the cover already. Then there's your new car :P
Don't leave anything of value in there though, take that out just in case.
xxxGothBarbie
08-16-2022, 09:32 PM
I'm annoyed bc despite my past efforts & recently trying to have a decent relationship with my mother, it seems impossible.
I called her up the other night to tell her about something hilarious that I did at a restarurant & while she laughed, the end of the call irritated me bc once again she started her narcissistic crap with me. We were ending the call & she had to say "See you when if ever I see you" bs and I said huh? She says well you never come to visit here anymore. I told her well I have nowhere to stay & no one seems to ever have the "time" to hang out with me so why bother. Unless I've got a free place to stay where I can work while visiting, it isn't worth my time *shrugs* She said nothing to that.
Seriously though?!? Why ask me such a question when you clearly know the damn answer.
I also noticed that she posts pics & Everyone wish Happy Birthday to my sister (the golden child) or my 2 nephews (my deceased brother's kids) but never once anything me related. I'm pissy at myself for even trying anymore. I love myself & am proud that I didn't follow in her footsteps. I'm happy & proud that I moved far & away from their bs.
Dreamqueen
08-17-2022, 01:01 AM
Ha! Leave it unlocked from now on & someone just might esp if they stole the cover already. Then there's your new car :P
Don't leave anything of value in there though, take that out just in case.
I would, but I have lots of stuff ( including my registration) in my trunk, and it won't open, even with my key.
I did however remove my prescription sunglasses and night driving glasses from my front seat, just in case.
WendiStarr
08-17-2022, 06:55 AM
Ob/gyno forgot that I miscarried, twice now. Last week they made a reminder call about what was supposed to be 17 week prenatal appointment and ultrasound. I told them that I miscarried and to cancel all future appointments. I broke down crying. Then they did the same crap this week, called to remind me of the appointments. This time I lost my shit and yelled and cussed them out before breaking down to tears. I told them to not effing call me again because I am never going back to their office.
whirlerz
08-17-2022, 07:18 AM
Aw, I'm so sorry my dear!
That is so ignorant & inconsiderate, Wendi!
Hugs
JGB2009
08-17-2022, 08:35 AM
I wish you would stop texting me from strange random numbers hoping that I will text back. I also wish you would stop calling me while blocking your number. Please just leave me alone!!!!!!
LoveyD
08-17-2022, 11:52 AM
Instacart fix your damn app and stop blaming me. It's not my phone and I already "refreshed" your POS app. Stop acting all perfect like I'm the problem. IT'S YOUR FUCKING APP AND IT IS SCREWING WITH MY MONEY .
Dreamqueen
08-17-2022, 12:49 PM
*This could also go in the man bitching thread.
I left a voicemail for a buddy of mine. I needed to get in touch with someone who we both know, but I couldn't find the number of the person.
I said ( twice, slowly) that my phone is NEVER on, so just please leave the info on my voicemail.
Easy instructions, right?
What does he do instead?
He called and left a voicemail saying he's returning my call.:dunce:
I then call him again, and leave the same message.
Radio silence.
Men. Do they EVER listen?
This guy has a top PR company too, and has for over 30 years.
Idk, maybe he's going senile. :-\
LoveyD
08-17-2022, 02:10 PM
^^^ They don't listen. He probably just saw that you called and then called you back. Half of communication is listening and sadly men can't hack it.
xxxGothBarbie
08-17-2022, 02:16 PM
I'm mad at myself for getting a fantasy made up in my head only to then be upset it's not playing out the way I'd hoped ugh
buttonpop
08-17-2022, 02:46 PM
My new doctor managed to mansplain Hashimotos to me AND get all his information completely wrong at the same time. Never seeing him again! No thank you, next!
moneybags
08-17-2022, 05:38 PM
Some bitches at work gossiping about me. That’s why I don’t post here anymore nor do I have any friends. Can’t trust thots.
It makes me sad. I really care about other dancers because we’re a marginalized community, but I’m done caring about anyone but myself. I get burned every time I trust people.
Loner for life
carmen_b
08-17-2022, 05:58 PM
Haha.
Not sure I made a great choice of this "vacation".
There WERE epic adventures ( we are very remote and see BIG animals every day like black bears and grizzlies ).
That is pretty special !
I had clients that paid me $1250 to come up here.
The airfare to get near this location was a totally crazy amount ( $860 all in ) ha.
I was fine with it ( just having enough to cover some of the costs of the week ) but now I'm focusing too much on it .
There will be other weeks for actual *profit*.
Anyway .... the main complaint is just that I am realizing I don't think I have a DIY travel style anymore.
In 4 days we went to a restaurant once and I'm realizing how spoiled I am in my regular life hahaha.
I'll probably delete this.
I guess I'll try to " rebrand" this in my mind like an " adventure vacation ".
I'm tired haha !
carmen_b
08-17-2022, 06:01 PM
Ok .... and oddly.
I think I have had more fun in Montana when I was here by myself than with my partner OR with my family.
I guess I am just supposed to be a lone wolf up here lol !
I have had a blast travel dancing up this way ( forever ago ) and doing my own solo adventure trip a couple years ago ( mostly car camping ).
I think there is something about the place that makes it hard to share time with others. Like ...... my dog is the best companion up here . He doesn't care if it take me 2 days to drive 5 hours haha.
Marina Starr
08-17-2022, 06:06 PM
I was just thinking, why are a lot of women so catty?
Some bitches at work gossiping about me. That’s why I don’t post here anymore nor do I have any friends. Can’t trust thots.
It makes me sad. I really care about other dancers because we’re a marginalized community, but I’m done caring about anyone but myself. I get burned every time I trust people.
Loner for life
lilylilylily
08-17-2022, 06:18 PM
Moneybags I so feel that. Everyone I ever trusted at the club turned on me and backstabbed me in some way. Dancers, managers.. whatever a dancer needed, if I had it I'd give it. Then they'd gossip about any info I shared about myself to my customers etc.. learned to be a loner at the club and speak very little. When I think back all friends I've ever had have backstabbed me too, tried to steal bfs, put me down etc. Even most family including my mother. Yep loner for life
carmen_b
08-17-2022, 07:04 PM
^ I was hard core about privacy.
I couldn't risk anyone blabbing things ect. !
I am sad to think I missed out on friendships with other girls *but* I did it for self protection .
moneybags
08-17-2022, 07:39 PM
My new doctor managed to mansplain Hashimotos to me AND get all his information completely wrong at the same time. Never seeing him again! No thank you, next!
They think women stupid. I can’t stand the traditional medical system. It’s great when you have trauma, but most everything else is better dealt with holistically
I was just thinking, why are a lot of women so catty?
I just read a feminist book about it. We’re powerless in a patriarchal system so we take our repressed anger out on each other because it’s safer
LoveyD
08-17-2022, 07:47 PM
Some bitches at work gossiping about me. That’s why I don’t post here anymore nor do I have any friends. Can’t trust thots.
It makes me sad. I really care about other dancers because we’re a marginalized community, but I’m done caring about anyone but myself. I get burned every time I trust people.
Loner for life
Aw, money, I feel you on this. Bitches suck. I've always had allies at work but when it came time to have an actual friendship, I always got burned. Being a loner is safer for me. Sucks but...
seashell
08-17-2022, 11:32 PM
Stress is at an 11 right now. Really considering going back to sex work just as a distraction. I know it won't make me happier, but it at least keeps me busy and in shape.
Dreamqueen
08-18-2022, 02:12 AM
Wal-Mart online grocery delivery service is so weird.
They ship the oddest things instead of delivering them with my groceries.
Today it was napkins.
They came via FedEx, lol.
I've had pasta, Tylenol, even toilet paper shipped separately. And not every time.
I also hate that my credit card isn't charged until a week later, or oftentimes longer.
Only the tip goes through right away.
Odd business practice, but I'm sure they have their reasons.
Marina Starr
08-18-2022, 07:20 AM
I strongly believe it's because women are conditioned to be nice and sweet no matter what so the insecure ones are indirect with their aggression, cattiness and hostility
They still carry the school halls and cafeteria mentality no matter their age.
I also wanted to say there are also a lot of wonder women who love lifting other women up because
they know women that come before them have paved the way for women to have rights.
I just read a feminist book about it. We’re powerless in a patriarchal system so we take our repressed anger out on each other because it’s safer
SnuffleUffleGrass
08-18-2022, 07:32 AM
My boyfriend is planning on going to Arizona in September to visit with his dad for a week, and he asked me to come with him. It will be my first time ever on the west coast, and I know that Arizona is a desert. With me having hot flashes lately, this is definitely gonna be interesting.....
Arizona is a nice dry heat.
Aurora_Sunset
08-18-2022, 09:31 AM
HR's dumbassery strikes again. I emailed them asking why I got an attendance point for being below the 30-hour requirement last week, when I was scheduled for 30, worked 25 of them and used 5 hours of vacation time for the rest. Their response was that vacation time doesn't count toward the hourly requirement. Bitch, since when? Yes, the fuck, it does. I wrote back that I've had weeks where I literally just used 30 hours of vacation to cover my entire week so their response makes no sense.
I swear, the people who respond to this online system don't know dick about fuck. They have no clue how any of our policies work. I think they just make shit up on the spot so they can call the case "closed."
Dreamqueen
08-18-2022, 10:55 AM
^^^ They don't listen. He probably just saw that you called and then called you back. Half of communication is listening and sadly men can't hack it.
Exactly.
It makes me wonder if he's like this with his clients.
Or when jobs come up for them, does he even return calls to get the correct details?
If big money is involved, my guess is that he's on top of it.
carmen_b
08-18-2022, 05:07 PM
I have had phases like that ! I'm like " well at least I feel productive at the club " ! Ugh.
Stress is at an 11 right now. Really considering going back to sex work just as a distraction. I know it won't make me happier, but it at least keeps me busy and in shape.
carmen_b
08-18-2022, 06:21 PM
I’m struggling on this family trip.
I need more quiet.
I’ll have to remember to stay a three day or so max with the kids ( my sisters ) .
They are 3 and 5 and I ADORE them but I feel so exhausted.
I took a bath and will hide in the room a bit.
So .... now I feel like a monster that after 4.5 days I'm considering getting my own hotel room when I have a private room in the AirBnB.
carmen_b
08-18-2022, 07:26 PM
My partner is being an idiot too.
I'm pretty pissed he hasn't sent any " I miss you " messages !
I HATE that. It is one of my huge relationship pet peeves .... one of the MONSTER ONES.
Eh nevermind .....I guess he was just back from a run and trying to eat .
He ruined a hamburger ( he isn't good at cooking ) lol and was working on this 2nd hamburger haha.
Genoveve
08-18-2022, 11:08 PM
Arizona is a nice dry heat.
LIES. Everyone talks about the dry heat but no one talks about how the summer is monsoon season. Almost the entire summer has been humid AF with storms almost daily. Not complaining I love storms, but I don't think someone who hates humidity could stand it here, it's been that humid.
Dreamqueen
08-19-2022, 11:28 AM
LIES. Everyone talks about the dry heat but no one talks about how the summer is monsoon season. Almost the entire summer has been humid AF with storms almost daily. Not complaining I love storms, but I don't think someone who hates humidity could stand it here, it's been that humid.
Came here to say this too.
We even had a tornado this week.
Yikes.
And even when it IS a dry heat.
So is my oven, but I don't want to live in it.>:(
Dreamqueen
08-19-2022, 11:37 AM
https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM
*TRIGGER WARNING *
This was premiered yesterday.
I don't know what to say.
Even one of our cam models is in this and participates in these types of porn videos.
I had no idea this even existed.
To say that I'm disgusted would be an understatement. :yuck:
xxxGothBarbie
08-19-2022, 12:51 PM
https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM
*TRIGGER WARNING *
This was premiered yesterday.
I don't know what to say.
Even one of our cam models is in this and participates in these types of porn videos.
I had no idea this even existed.
To say that I'm disgusted would be an understatement. :yuck:
Ugh! Ya that's disgusting! I had to turn it off. I get soo many guys wanting the underage play and I turn them away everytime. I've lost alot of money but I don't care! The texting sessions I'll get sometimes where the guy will literally try to turn it to an obvious underage play midway thru the sessions really pisses me off. I flat out say nope, I don't play that game, it's against the rules. I don't care if it ruins their mood or not.
Genoveve
08-19-2022, 02:55 PM
Came here to say this too.
We even had a tornado this week.
Yikes.
And even when it IS a dry heat.
So is my oven, but I don't want to live in it.>:(
A few weeks back we had a really bad storm and I was of course standing outside in it because I love storms, but after a while it became the strongest storm I have ever experienced and at one point the wind suddenly picked up so crazily that I literally ran for my life inside the house thinking it was a tornado. I watch a lot of tiktoks where people are recording tornados as they hit and that's what it looked like. It ended up just being a microburst but it did knock down tons of trees in the neighborhood (and knocked the power out). :O
ETA a storm started blowing in right after I typed that. It also rained so much during the night that everywhere was still wet today.
indiegirl
08-19-2022, 06:05 PM
Could've cried today with all the bad things that happened. I'm so used to pain that I'm unable to cry unless it is devastating. I just booked a room for a person who only wanted to stay a half hour AFTER I specifically told him I normally don't stay here and BLAH BLAH and only and staying here for him.
FUCK OFFF. I DON'T HAVE HALF HOURS BUT I WAS BEING NICE. I am so tired of being nice to men. I REGRET my choice to be caring and wish I said "NO THANKS!" and moved on to pasadena. He was not worth it
I'm hoping to get a STABLE booking to an LA incall so I CAN LEAVE.
TheBrownFox
08-19-2022, 07:05 PM
I was just thinking, why are a lot of women so catty?
Yup. I can't stand that shit. #MeanGirls
yaya_cash
08-19-2022, 09:58 PM
I have one pot I hope he can hurry up with discussing our arrangement further, I'm almost ready to **** *** ****. These other guys are getting on my nerves, they're not serious, flakey; so annoying. I hate that dating takes a lot of your time and is frustrating.
Marina Starr
08-20-2022, 10:41 AM
Grown mean girls are the worse. It gives me joy calling them out!
Yup. I can't stand that shit. #MeanGirls
kamiliam
08-20-2022, 01:03 PM
https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM
*TRIGGER WARNING *
This was premiered yesterday.
I don't know what to say.
Even one of our cam models is in this and participates in these types of porn videos.
I had no idea this even existed.
To say that I'm disgusted would be an understatement. :yuck:
this was done by exodus cry who’s main purpose is to bring down our industry. They are an evangelical group who doesn’t think there is any appropriate way to do our job. These people were idiots for agreeing to this film. People are claiming this was filmed over 10 years ago in some cases, and were probably lied to.
I haven’t watched it because anything made by them is propaganda for anti porn and anti LGBTQIA rights. It is meant to make you upset.
Dreamqueen
08-20-2022, 01:05 PM
A few weeks back we had a really bad storm and I was of course standing outside in it because I love storms, but after a while it became the strongest storm I have ever experienced and at one point the wind suddenly picked up so crazily that I literally ran for my life inside the house thinking it was a tornado. I watch a lot of tiktoks where people are recording tornados as they hit and that's what it looked like. It ended up just being a microburst but it did knock down tons of trees in the neighborhood (and knocked the power out). :O
ETA a storm started blowing in right after I typed that. It also rained so much during the night that everywhere was still wet today.
I love storms too.
Trippy how intense desert weather is.
Back in 2007, I was on the freeway driving to the desert to visit a friend.
All of a sudden it started pouring rain and lighting appeared.
I looked in my rear view mirror and saw a tornado.
What???
How??
I just kept driving.
If I had left my apt 10 minutes later, I would've been forced to pull off of the road and wait it out, and I didn't even know where I was to do that.
That was not forcasted in the weather report.
When I got to the desert, the sun was shining, and my friend thought that I made it up.
Turn on the news!!
It was all over it.