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miss.a.p1600
09-05-2022, 11:45 AM
So highly pissed off at my friend who I was supposed to cat sit for this week. So after she pays me the full amount of cash & gave me her keys, all of a sudden she's bitten by the neighbors cat downstairs and it apparently drew blood so she runs off to the ER & they gave her a tetanus shot and a prescription for antibiotics to take. I ask if the cat had all his shots and she said she thinks so. So I had left the cash she gave me at her place bc I didn't want to carry it on the train last night. I get her message saying she's canceling her trip to CA blah blah bc the antibiotics instructed that she not do strenuous activities in sunlight. Ok, she told me originally she was just flying out there to relax in a hotel??? So now she's telling me she'll give me some cash to help her clean and I can still stay over there for a few days to work in private, which says to me im not gonna be getting that original amount i was counting on. I was really counting on that stack she has initially given me ugh. I can't help but be highly annoyed at her for being such a hypochondriac over shit. Everytime I've ever been bitten by a cat, I clean it , apply neosporin on it with a bandaid and call it a day. She overreacts to everything *eyeroll*
I am literally only going over there at this point because I would really like to have the extra cash and I need a break from bf.

i never count on stacks until they hit my wallet/bank account because I’ve been disappointed and burned too many times with people having accidents, change of kind, loss of money, or whatever

On the bright side you’ll get a nice break

chanzep
09-05-2022, 04:09 PM
I know stuff like this can be dissapointing.
At least you still get to get away from bf place and she's still giving you some money. Hopefully you will be feeling much more relaxed with your change of scenery and can work and make good money.
In general I hate to let others promise me stuff because when they don't do what they said I get annoyed at myself for thinking they would help. I been let down many times. I hope the week go well for you.

kimbe
09-06-2022, 03:55 AM
While it seemed like a good idea to get home late, after midnight, it’s doesn’t feel like that now when I can’t fall asleep.. Usually I fall asleep at once and sleep very well, but not tonight.
Got up after an hour and been doing some work for 45 minutes now. I’ll give it another try soon. Luckily I’ve got nothing scheduled for tomorrow before noon.

xxxGothBarbie
09-06-2022, 09:04 AM
I know stuff like this can be dissapointing.
At least you still get to get away from bf place and she's still giving you some money. Hopefully you will be feeling much more relaxed with your change of scenery and can work and make good money.
In general I hate to let others promise me stuff because when they don't do what they said I get annoyed at myself for thinking they would help. I been let down many times. I hope the week go well for you.

Yes I agree :)
So thankfully she told me yesterday while I was cleaning that the money was still mine, whew! I'm gonna do an awesome job cleaning her place to show my gratitude for keeping her word :)
It's been soo nice being here though with the ac on and the amazing energy in her apt.

kimbe
09-06-2022, 10:18 AM
I actually got almost 5 hours of sleep.

Dreamqueen
09-06-2022, 10:49 AM
I actually got almost 5 hours of sleep.

How many do you usually get?
Speaking of sleep.
I'm pissed that I've been waking up way too early lately.
I'm a night owl, so whenever I go to sleep early ( because of a migraine), I wake up at 8/9 am
Wash, rinse, repeat.

I wanted to nap yesterday late afternoon so I'd stay up late, but I was afraid that if I did, I'd miss a phone sex customer that told me he was going to call at 8 pm.
I was dragging my ass, and he never called.
What kept running through my mind was, "Never trust a trick. NEVER trust a trick."
My bad.

kimbe
09-06-2022, 10:54 AM
How many do you usually get?

Usually 7. Occasionally 8 if I don’t wake up when my partner gets up.

I’ve got the ability to take a nap too, that’s something I’m very grateful for. My partner can’t do that. So even if I’ve had a bad night, I’ll usually get through the day quite well.

NitaBaby
09-06-2022, 11:14 AM
I’m literally $14.19 away from covering a major bill and SM is so dead for me right now that I’m scared I won’t even be able to make it.

Late fees would definitely bring what I owe above the 15 bucks I need now. FACCKKK! BM pays out pretty consistently around 2pm central so I’ve got less than another hour to either get this money from these men or go looking outside on the ground for it.



Edit: I'm not mad anymore lol I made the lil money.

WendiStarr
09-06-2022, 12:31 PM
I'm aggravated with the DV shelters still being full. I asked if they have hotel vouchers and they said they reserve that only for life-threatening DV situations. They said I'd have to have physical abuse reports made by LE and stalking by abuser to be considered life-threatening. I have a feeling BD is going to want to kill me soon once he gets hit by child support. I finally worked up the courage to file. It's just so disheartening how little organizations designed for DV situations actually help. I e been blowing money on hotels and I'm scared that I'm gonna end up getting desperate with no other options. As it is I'm staying temporarily on someone's couch for the past 3 days in a relatives tiny 1 bedroom apartment. I share a couch with my kids and it's not comfortable at all. Relative's landlord is getting suspicious already and I'm gonna have to go back to pissing money away on a hotel again.

carmen_b
09-06-2022, 01:16 PM
Ugh ! :( ^^^

Motel 6 does low weekly rates sometimes in many areas which I know is far from ideal BUT in some of the cities I danced in was like $240-$250 per week.
You have to ask to get a weekly rate. Or ask for a Mon - Thurs . rate that avoids weekends but repeats for 2-4 weeks Mon - Thurs. then at least you get some space and could maybe just do relatives house Fri. and Sat.

chanzep
09-06-2022, 09:34 PM
I'm so sorry Wendi. Your situation is bad enough they should be helping you. Have you filed police reports etc. I don't know how the system works in the US. Do they not have any programs where they move people to different states. You need to be away. In the UK they have programs that I've women around the country in these situations . A friend had used when abused by ex.
Your being really strong and I pray there is help for you. They should be housing you or giving you hotel vouchers .

Jucie
09-07-2022, 12:42 AM
How many do you usually get?
Speaking of sleep.
I'm pissed that I've been waking up way too early lately.
I'm a night owl, so whenever I go to sleep early ( because of a migraine), I wake up at 8/9 am
Wash, rinse, repeat.

I wanted to nap yesterday late afternoon so I'd stay up late, but I was afraid that if I did, I'd miss a phone sex customer that told me he was going to call at 8 pm.
I was dragging my ass, and he never called.
What kept running through my mind was, "Never trust a trick. NEVER trust a trick."
My bad.

My sleep pattern has more or less been a mess since I was struck by anxiety during covid. It’s getting better now, but it takes time. I fall asleep but my biggest problem is that I wake up during the night and can’t get back to sleep.

Jucie
09-07-2022, 12:43 AM
Wendi, I feel so sorry for your situation!

Dreamqueen
09-07-2022, 01:10 AM
Usually 7. Occasionally 8 if I don’t wake up when my partner gets up.

I’ve got the ability to take a nap too, that’s something I’m very grateful for. My partner can’t do that. So even if I’ve had a bad night, I’ll usually get through the day quite well.
I'm glad to hear that you get 7 or 8 hours of sleep. I was worried when you said 5.
Naps are great, aren't they?


My sleep pattern has more or less been a mess since I was struck by anxiety during covid. It’s getting better now, but it takes time. I fall asleep but my biggest problem is that I wake up during the night and can’t get back to sleep.

I wake up too. Mostly to pee or from being too hot.
Have you ever tried Melatonin?

Aurora_Sunset
09-07-2022, 07:57 AM
I lost my glass nail file somehow while traveling last week. I ordered a new one, and when it arrived, I accidentally snapped it in half while trying to get it out of its packaging. -_-

carmen_b
09-07-2022, 07:58 AM
Maybe I need more coffee.
I'm finding a day job customer annoying this morning.

Either buy the thing or don't ! Enough chit - chat haha !

indiegirl
09-07-2022, 08:09 AM
I have the O-town song all or nothing stuck in my head bahahaha. I would be belting this song out right now if my roommate wasn't home hahaha. As you can tell, I am tired as eff! I got 20 minutes of sleep last night because of my test this morning LOL.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E35kauD40rM

Jucie
09-07-2022, 08:47 AM
SD has covid.

Jucie
09-07-2022, 08:49 AM
I wake up too. Mostly to pee or from being too hot.
Have you ever tried Melatonin?

I have, and it worked good earlier but not so much anymore.

miss.a.p1600
09-07-2022, 11:56 AM
Wendi please report the dude AND get some weapons.

You need to leave a paper trail of the fucked up things he is doing.

Dreamqueen
09-07-2022, 12:45 PM
I have, and it worked good earlier but not so much anymore.

Same here.
I just started taking the melatonin in a dropper form, and it knocks me right out.
Have you ever tried it?
10 mg dropper, but I take half ( 5 mg).

Jucie
09-07-2022, 01:23 PM
Same here.
I just started taking the melatonin in a dropper form, and it knocks me right out.
Have you ever tried it?
10 mg dropper, but I take half ( 5 mg).

No, actually I haven’t. It’s interesting and I’m going to try it.

Aurora_Sunset
09-08-2022, 07:31 AM
I was unaware that bloating could be a side effect of juice cleansing in the first few days. It's pissing me off, cuz I'm already cranky and now feeling like "fuck, it's not even doing anything - I'm going BACKWARDS in weight and stomach-pudge." But, apparently, it's normal and should go away. I just gotta stick with it.

Dreamqueen
09-08-2022, 08:09 AM
No, actually I haven’t. It’s interesting and I’m going to try it.

Amazon is where I bought it.
Let me know how it works for you ok?

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 09:06 AM
Aurora :
Are you eating a little food too ? I'd highly encourage it !
I think it's ok to do the juice thing ( for like 50% of your food ) but you still need to eat !

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 09:09 AM
I'm salty my partners ex is coming here for his daughters things.

He did TRY to drop there though an hour ago I think.
Usually the person getting the kid pick up the stuff ( when she is in school ) .

This visit was different than our usual ( just two days ) and I swear the ex was here two days ago.
LIMIT it to once a week.
I'm not going to demand anything today but I did say for the future I really only want her here once a week because it bothers me every time.
He is often in meetings and can't step outside to hand the stuff over so I hate that she is opening the door to get the pile of stuff.

It also balances since visits are usually 3-4 days so each person " switches " the stuff pick up.

I'll try to let it go today ha !

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 09:12 AM
I survived ! Haha.
I guess while I was on here bitching the pile of stuff got picked up and super quiet too my dog didn't even bark.

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 09:19 AM
I’m pissed L is lingering around the house. Asking about my breaks.

Bitch! Get out of this house and stop worrying about wtf I’m doing on my breaks which is MY time to spend how tf I want.

He just got done working out. Go take your damn shower and stop bothering me! Tf!!!

If I knew how to re-wire all my equipment, I’d buy an office and set up 2x a week on his off days when hes lingering around

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 10:11 AM
^ Haha.

It's a bummer it's not laptop ( I assuming ) because you could hit a coworking space or even pay a little more for a private office at one for the day.

Aurora_Sunset
09-08-2022, 10:39 AM
Aurora :
Are you eating a little food too ? I'd highly encourage it !
I think it's ok to do the juice thing ( for like 50% of your food ) but you still need to eat !

Yeah, mostly sticking to raw nuts. I had a good serving of cabbage, carrots, spinach, and peas yesterday because I was STARVING and felt like I'd pass out. Today is much better, aside from the bloating. It's just uncomfortable, like I'm PMS-ing or something lol

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 10:42 AM
^ I think it can throw your body if you are not eating at least 50% food .
Just one persons opinion ! Like .... you could eat a little and stretch the juices you bought further on the calendar .

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 11:37 AM
I'm salty my partners ex is coming here for his daughters things.

He did TRY to drop there though an hour ago I think.
Usually the person getting the kid pick up the stuff ( when she is in school ) .

This visit was different than our usual ( just two days ) and I swear the ex was here two days ago.
LIMIT it to once a week.
I'm not going to demand anything today but I did say for the future I really only want her here once a week because it bothers me every time.
He is often in meetings and can't step outside to hand the stuff over so I hate that she is opening the door to get the pile of stuff.

It also balances since visits are usually 3-4 days so each person " switches " the stuff pick up.

I'll try to let it go today ha !

Girl I’d set that stuff in a box outside the door.

If ex just HAD to come inside I’d put up a room divider and make her stand in the foyer only.

Also if it’s fiscally possible to duplicate the stuff so one set of things at dads house and same set of things at moms house so less stuff to tote back n forth/remember.

Also make a checklist so before leaving have EVERYTHING on that checklist to minimize the “oops I forgot xyz at dads house”

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 11:40 AM
I was unaware that bloating could be a side effect of juice cleansing in the first few days. It's pissing me off, cuz I'm already cranky and now feeling like "fuck, it's not even doing anything - I'm going BACKWARDS in weight and stomach-pudge." But, apparently, it's normal and should go away. I just gotta stick with it.

When I was detoxing for this drug test for the job I was so fucking hungry. Juicing, vegetables, no junk etc.

Stick with it and it will become second nature

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 01:24 PM
I love the room divider idea lol

His kid has a $2500 laptop ( a cast off from his last tech job ) so it’s “ justified “ to keep this up.

Haha

( picturing the pile of stuff and then a divider blocking off entire space )

No one returns for forgotten items.
It’s a rule of mine.
No item is something a 9 year old can’t make it through a few days without.
J is super precise anyway. He’d rarely forget ( almost never ).

I’d definitely prefer the garage.
Like set stuff by door , she can text , then we open garage door .

I’ll probably let it slide for now.
We both get busy during business hours but he can open the garage from his phone even in a video meeting .

xxxGothBarbie
09-08-2022, 01:42 PM
Annoyed AF that my period is such an inconvenience right now with me trying to work ugh. I just showered & ate, now I can't stay out of the damn bathroom. Not only do I feel like a slug, I also am feeling gross. There's never a happy medium with periods.

NitaBaby
09-08-2022, 01:42 PM
I need new cam outfits, badly. So I took a trip to do some shopping and literally EVERY top looked horrible on me. They would fit around my waist area but the titties were disrespectful. A larger size would mean more forgiveness in the cup but then the stomach part looked sloppy. This isn't a humble brag because after breastfeeding three kids, I need a boob job like nobody's business. So today, I was reminded why I hate the way my boobs look. I daydream about going under the knife. :-[

I wish I had my old tits back.

LoveyD
09-08-2022, 01:47 PM
Annoyed AF that my period is such an inconvenience right now with me trying to work ugh. I just showered & ate, now I can't stay out of the damn bathroom. Not only do I feel like a slug, I also am feeling gross. There's never a happy medium with periods.

I feel the same way, plus it's super hot and humid now. So it's extra gross now LOL

carmen_b
09-08-2022, 02:55 PM
Nita you might have a certain look in mind. I love this bra for good " uplift " on the boobs !
It has light padding an lift but not so much the guy feels scammed when removed ha.

https://www.thirdlove.com/products/24-7-lace-contour-plunge-bra-eucalyptus?utm_source=google&utm_medium=shopping&utm_campaign=17731118545&utm_content=141688207631&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpeaYBhDXARIsAEzItbFqLRyUjadt82vHkqYq Cdna6NNtK2ptNwtxOuDPMiaS8gks5J3YMKsaAlsJEALw_wcB

Ignore the underwear haha and just get a color you can actually pair with sexy undies.

miss.a.p1600
09-08-2022, 04:38 PM
I love the room divider idea lol

His kid has a $2500 laptop ( a cast off from his last tech job ) so it’s “ justified “ to keep this up.

Haha

( picturing the pile of stuff and then a divider blocking off entire space )

No one returns for forgotten items.
It’s a rule of mine.
No item is something a 9 year old can’t make it through a few days without.
J is super precise anyway. He’d rarely forget ( almost never ).

I’d definitely prefer the garage.
Like set stuff by door , she can text , then we open garage door .

I’ll probably let it slide for now.
We both get busy during business hours but he can open the garage from his phone even in a video meeting .

garage sounds like a great idea

seashell
09-08-2022, 05:54 PM
My bf and I keep having to cancel our plans to hang out, for various reasons. I just want cuddles. Feeling blah today.

seashell
09-08-2022, 06:06 PM
Also, really sad about the Queen's passing. I'm an American, but nearly married a British guy last year, and spent some significant time in England. She was a very comforting voice during the Covid quarantines.

Aurora_Sunset
09-08-2022, 06:07 PM
A coworker/new friend that I made plans with for next Sunday texted me that she may have to cancel. I expected a follow-up text with the reason, but hours went by and one never came. So, I just said, "Ok, well just keep me updated." Then, she immediately started texting more vague shit like, "I doubt I will. Hopefully not."

I'm not stupid. I knew from the first vague text that she was fishing for me to ask why. But a couple weeks ago, I literally sent her a text right after my father-in-law passed away to let her know I'd be gone from work for the next week because of it, and she completely ignored that to send me a bunch of completely irrelevant shit. Then, when I was out of a town (which she should have known), she texted me, wanting me to come over, drink, and comfort her after a bad day. I had to remind her that I was out of town for FIL's funeral, which she should have already known if she had paid attention to my first damn text.

I'm honestly not really feeling this as an "outside of work" friendship... She probably is moving out of state in November, so, I'm glad there'll be a built in reason to not continue trying to make plans together. I tried cuz I wanted more female friends, but she's very self-centered.

NitaBaby
09-08-2022, 06:35 PM
Nita you might have a certain look in mind. I love this bra for good " uplift " on the boobs !
It has light padding an lift but not so much the guy feels scammed when removed ha.

https://www.thirdlove.com/products/24-7-lace-contour-plunge-bra-eucalyptus?utm_source=google&utm_medium=shopping&utm_campaign=17731118545&utm_content=141688207631&gclid=Cj0KCQjwpeaYBhDXARIsAEzItbFqLRyUjadt82vHkqYq Cdna6NNtK2ptNwtxOuDPMiaS8gks5J3YMKsaAlsJEALw_wcB

Ignore the underwear haha and just get a color you can actually pair with sexy undies.

This looks comfortable as hell. And I like that it’s not some granny shade like tan, I’m burnt out on monochromatic colors.

I’m going back out tomorrow to try again. My cup size increases every freakin year so it’s an adjustment learning how to shop for my latest body type every time I turn around.

Cutie101
09-08-2022, 07:58 PM
I need new cam outfits, badly. So I took a trip to do some shopping and literally EVERY top looked horrible on me. They would fit around my waist area but the titties were disrespectful. A larger size would mean more forgiveness in the cup but then the stomach part looked sloppy. This isn't a humble brag because after breastfeeding three kids, I need a boob job like nobody's business. So today, I was reminded why I hate the way my boobs look. I daydream about going under the knife. :-[

I wish I had my old tits back.

Nita, you might wanna try shein. They have tons of nice outfits that are sexy, but comfortable.
For example:
Robes https://eur.shein.com/category/Women-Lingerie-Loungwear-sc-00856812.html?ici=eur_tab01navbar07&scici=navbar_WomenHomePage~~tab01navbar07~~7~~item Picking_00856812~~~~0&src_module=topcat&src_tab_page_id=page_home1662692027084&src_identifier=fc%3DWomen%60sc%3DLINGERIE%20%26%20 LOUNGE%60tc%3D0%60oc%3D0%60ps%3Dtab01navbar07%60jc %3DitemPicking_00856812&srctype=category&userpath=category-LINGERIE-LOUNGE&tag_ids=30002211
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I'm a slut for shein, I buy everything from there lol. You can also look for bras, they have pics from customers and you see how they actually look.

Dreamqueen
09-09-2022, 12:37 PM
I'm pissed that the apt in San Diego where I've had my name on their waitlist called AGAIN to ask me if I'm still interested. She also said that they still don't have anything available yet.
That makes 5 times in the last 3 months!
I've already made it clear that I need a one bedroom on the top floor facing east or west.

I feel like the universe is taunting me, because I'm sick of living in this intense heat, and my car is still dead.

No way to get there.
I'm feeling trapped and the constant phone calls from them don't help.

xxxGothBarbie
09-09-2022, 02:25 PM
I'm pissed that the apt in San Diego where I've had my name on their waitlist called AGAIN to ask me if I'm still interested. She also said that they still don't have anything available yet.
That makes 5 times in the last 3 months!
I've already made it clear that I need a one bedroom on the top floor facing east or west.

I feel like the universe is taunting me, because I'm sick of living in this intense heat, and my car is still dead.

No way to get there.
I'm feeling trapped and the constant phone calls from them don't help.

If you could find a place there , could you just rent a uhaul and just tow your car to SD? Just a thought...

carmen_b
09-09-2022, 03:56 PM
I think my dude has been pouting and puttering .
I think he did the math and figured out he actually *can't * afford the 100k airplane he wanted.

THIS is FAR from a failure I would say ! Neither can 99.9999% of the population ( or they don't have the license to fly it ).

This has been a weird hobby that has taken a TON of time and so far done nearly nothing to enhance our lives other than a couple scenic trips that were pretty cool. I've been supportive of the hobby all the way through 75% of flight school and now he is acting upset that upon graduation he won't just automatically have a plane. I assume that totally NORMAL for the hobby . People are probably into this 3-5 years before they get even part time ownership of one.

I'll probably edit this out .... like ... .stop it with this honestly.

SO .... this is another layer to the pout pie.
There are only about 3 private aircraft dealers in the vicinity ...... and guess who is lurking behind one of them ........ the AVIATOR that drove me nuts ( in the dating thread ). I told J his name. I do NOT want him to have the commission lol IF he ever does get serious about shopping ( either himself or with a partner or two ) !

carmen_b
09-09-2022, 04:18 PM
NOPE. ^
A gentleman would have put some money in an envelope and already slipped it to you.

trustfundkiller
09-09-2022, 04:50 PM
So my potential daddy wants me to sit on his face and to give him head before he's comfortable giving me money. He has done everything else I requested from him without a hassle. He's a good looking older man in his 40's that is a millionaire and he agreed to give me a ring and an agreed gift-arrangement weekly if I just let him give me **** and suck him once. Would you take the chance? I haven't connected with anyone else like him, and I don't want to be unmarried forever, have to pay my bills, have to have roommate/s to cover all my (expensive) expenses and have to be abstinence.
Absolutely not! Always money upfront. It's not worth the risk of getting burned.

carmen_b
09-09-2022, 04:54 PM
He's already dicking you around ( just from what I gather ) .
He's had *multiple* convos with you about an arrangement.
So .... arrange it then .... by slipping you something.