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OliveJardin
06-04-2015, 09:26 PM
Food poisoning is really awful. >.> Like worse than I had originally assumed. I'm hungry. :(

^Oh you poor thing! Feel better soon.

I keep having weird, bad dreams with no real underlying theme. It's annoying, I very rarely remember any of my dreams and this week I have had several per night that I do remember and wake up thinking "come on mind, how the hell am I supposed to know what that means?". I cherish my sleep, it's unfortunate when it's not peaceful or it's interrupted grr.

Naida
06-04-2015, 10:06 PM
Pretty pissed at my brother for giving us a kitten so young a couple days ago. The little guy is only about 3-4 weeks old. He seems to have taken well emotionally to being separated from his mother and siblings, judging by his cuddles and playfulness, but his life skills are lacking. He drinks milk fine, but needs reminded a couple times a day where the milk dish is. We have him on canned food, which he wholly refused to eat from the can on the first day until we realized on the second day that he'll eat it from a dish, but he mostly needs to be directed to it every few hours to make sure he's eating enough because he'll only stick to it for a couple minutes at a time. He utterly refuses to use the litter box so far! At my oldest brother's suggestion, we switch from our first litter to a finer grain that he seems to like much more today. The problem is, he seems to like it more for playing than potty! He'll jump and pounce around between digging, but still potties around the house.

I know he's not going to fully learn these skills in three days, but it's incredibly frustrating to think of either 1) constantly worrying about his nutrition and cleaning up after him while he becomes emotionally established in our home versus 2) crating him to speed the process of learning food and potty.

michele11
06-04-2015, 10:19 PM
^ go to the pet store and get this stuff( I'm sorry I can't remember the name) it's for cats that have issues with nursing with the mother and you'll have to bottle feed him or her. I'll ask some of my breeder friends some suggestions about the box. But it's much too early for solid food now. Ok it's called KMR.

zoezoebelle
06-04-2015, 10:34 PM
^Oh you poor thing! Feel better soon.

I keep having weird, bad dreams with no real underlying theme. It's annoying, I very rarely remember any of my dreams and this week I have had several per night that I do remember and wake up thinking "come on mind, how the hell am I supposed to know what that means?". I cherish my sleep, it's unfortunate when it's not peaceful or it's interrupted grr.

Nightmares mostly occur in the middle of a REM cycle. If you're having a lot of unrelated bad dreams it might mean you're low on serotonin or melatonin and therefore aren't sleeping through a full cycle (usually 4-5 hours). Getting some sun might help.

Naida
06-05-2015, 01:07 AM
^ go to the pet store and get this stuff( I'm sorry I can't remember the name) it's for cats that have issues with nursing with the mother and you'll have to bottle feed him or her. I'll ask some of my breeder friends some suggestions about the box. But it's much too early for solid food now. Ok it's called KMR.

To be clear, the kitten is at least three weeks at the absolute minimum, is able to potty on its own without help, and was at least partially weaned before he came to us; that means he's okay to eat canned food, just not as his primary source of nutrition. I absolutely would not take a kitten that was still dependent on its mother to the point of requiring bottle feeding unless I had to for the kitten's sake, which is not the case with our kitten. Judging from his ears, fullness of his fur, independent play, etc, he seems more like he's four weeks.

Either way, we'll see what the vet has to say. Little dude's stool isn't outright diarrhea, but it's runnier than I am comfortable with so we're gonna give the vet up the street a call today to ask her opinion about switching him to a milk replacement and/or bringing him in for a check up.

PrincessWhooty
06-05-2015, 01:41 AM
41832..I just left the club with less than $100 prolly for the first time and I've been there since November. My "$300 is a bad night" mantra has apparently just been uprooted by idk, summer and beer drinking, polo shirt wearing frat fags types. :( I believe the summer has came early!! :(

Aniela
06-05-2015, 07:16 AM
Retail dreams. :banghead: I really should be getting overtime pay for basically working in my sleep. >.<

Also, I use French almost daily at work, which is a good thing, since my French has gotten rusty. But I have also started dreaming in French again, & it seems that way too often, my French is as bad in my dreams as it is IRL. Kinda discouraging.

wednesday86
06-05-2015, 07:44 AM
really wish ebay would take out their fees automatically when I sell something instead of dropping a bill on me at the end of the month.

at least my husband is getting on board and will hopefully take the reigns on ebay so I can focus on dancing and camming. i just want to be rich.....is that so much to ask?

miss.a.p1600
06-05-2015, 08:53 AM
really wish ebay would take out their fees automatically when I sell something instead of dropping a bill on me at the end of the month.

at least my husband is getting on board and will hopefully take the reigns on ebay so I can focus on dancing and camming. i just want to be rich.....is that so much to ask?

You can pay actually pay their fees anytime you want. Look under my account / payment method for seller fees and you'll see one time payment option.

I'd say 90% of people don't understand how it's possible to make money online. Even when they get it they ask dumb questions like "how much money you making?" Grrrrr.

michele11
06-05-2015, 09:42 AM
To be clear, the kitten is at least three weeks at the absolute minimum, is able to potty on its own without help, and was at least partially weaned before he came to us; that means he's okay to eat canned food, just not as his primary source of nutrition. I absolutely would not take a kitten that was still dependent on its mother to the point of requiring bottle feeding unless I had to for the kitten's sake, which is not the case with our kitten. Judging from his ears, fullness of his fur, independent play, etc, he seems more like he's four weeks.

Either way, we'll see what the vet has to say. Little dude's stool isn't outright diarrhea, but it's runnier than I am comfortable with so we're gonna give the vet up the street a call today to ask her opinion about switching him to a milk replacement and/or bringing him in for a check up.

Lol. I was trying to be helpful! I don't know about regular kittens but it's imperative persians are not weaned until 8-10 weeks and don't leave the mother until 12. Good luck!

Naida
06-05-2015, 01:20 PM
Lol. I was trying to be helpful! I don't know about regular kittens but it's imperative persians are not weaned until 8-10 weeks and don't leave the mother until 12. Good luck!

Sorry if that post came across as rude. I was just incredibly frustrated about having little dude plopped in my lap with the expectation of having him box trained and on a stable diet by the time I leave in like two weeks! This frustration is further compounded by the fact that - as the person responsible for teaching him the box, sorting out his diet, and his emotional establishment as the only kitty in our home - I'm incredibly worried about us getting too attached to each other and him not bonding enough with the rest of my family before I leave.

I don't know how cat breeders do it but, around here, mutt kittens like ours are usually separated from the mother some time between 3-6 weeks. It just depends on when they can potty on their own and are at least weaned enough that they can be switched to milk and wet food. I prefer to wait until they're at least 6 weeks, so they've already taken to digging when they have to go and have developed a taste for food as their primary nutrition.

But there is good news to report! After my post about calling the vet last night, little guy followed my lead and used the box! His stool seems to finally be firming up too. I'm so proud of my little quick learner.

And my mother is being pissy about something she's told me a dozen times in the past was fine.

Aurora_Sunset
06-05-2015, 02:18 PM
I generally don't mind if people are running late, but I hate when they don't tell me until the last minute. Meeting up with friends today who are about an hour away. 10 minutes before they're supposed to be here: "Sorry, we're running late. We're just leaving." So, you obviously knew about an HOUR ago that you weren't leaving on time and wouldn't be here on time... Just an update that you're still working on it - that's all I need. But sitting around ready and then realizing that I have another hour to kill which is long, but not long enough to start anything... goddammit. If I had known an hour ago that I would have more free time, I could have gone for a run!

wednesday86
06-05-2015, 02:25 PM
You can pay actually pay their fees anytime you want. Look under my account / payment method for seller fees and you'll see one time payment option.

I'd say 90% of people don't understand how it's possible to make money online. Even when they get it they ask dumb questions like "how much money you making?" Grrrrr.

Oh ok! Good! The fees really aren't bad but I'm like "damn I just paid all these bills and now I gotta pay you too!" lol! I didn't know I could pay whenever I want. No most people don't get it/don't believe it's possible, but it's all good. More $$ for me.

kaninchen
06-05-2015, 03:02 PM
Pretty pissed at my brother for giving us a kitten so young a couple days ago. The little guy is only about 3-4 weeks old. He seems to have taken well emotionally to being separated from his mother and siblings, judging by his cuddles and playfulness, but his life skills are lacking. He drinks milk fine, but needs reminded a couple times a day where the milk dish is. We have him on canned food, which he wholly refused to eat from the can on the first day until we realized on the second day that he'll eat it from a dish, but he mostly needs to be directed to it every few hours to make sure he's eating enough because he'll only stick to it for a couple minutes at a time. He utterly refuses to use the litter box so far! At my oldest brother's suggestion, we switch from our first litter to a finer grain that he seems to like much more today. The problem is, he seems to like it more for playing than potty! He'll jump and pounce around between digging, but still potties around the house.

I know he's not going to fully learn these skills in three days, but it's incredibly frustrating to think of either 1) constantly worrying about his nutrition and cleaning up after him while he becomes emotionally established in our home versus 2) crating him to speed the process of learning food and potty.

Oof, that is really young to be adopted out! Is there no way he could go back for another month or two?

You may get him to eat better if you can sit down with him at meal time and let him lick the wet food off your pinky finger. You may also want to mix wet food with milk to see if he prefers that. Since he's so young, it's probably best that you supervise his feeding times instead of free-feeding. Plus, he will naturally want to use the litterbox after he eats, so this is an excellent opportunity to train him -- when he's done eating, just pick him up and put him in the litterbox.

Congratulations on getting a new furry friend though! I'm sure he'll be very happy with you.

Elektra Luxx
06-05-2015, 05:04 PM
I went to the grocery store today after work. So many really young girls trying out their baby slutware. I remember those days. Don't get me wrong, if I'm out with the bf I still like wearing my revealing dresses or revealing tops with short shorts, but to the grocery store, that's a little much.

xStacey
06-05-2015, 05:36 PM
Customers who blatantly say "You are not an object!" in an attempt to sleep with me. As if I didn't know and needed you to tell me ::)

Aurora_Sunset
06-05-2015, 07:20 PM
I kinda hate it when friends get SO's and then I always have to hang out with them as a couple. Like, yeah, sure, I like your new bf/gf, and we can all hang out together occasionally. But seriously, sometimes I just want to catch up with my original friend without having to diplomatically include another person, ya know? Things just aren't the same when it's me + a couple instead of me + my one friend. The friendship goes from knowing a lot about each other's lives to knowing next to nothing significant or real because your'e not gonna have those kinds of conversations in some awkward threesome outing. I don't mind getting to know the new person, but I feel like there should still be time for one-on-one friend catch-ups.

But the few times I've tried to bring up this point to people, it starts some shitty argument where they think I'm dissing their SO and get all defensive and, of course, make things even more awkward by telling their bf/gf that I "hate" them or something... Is it truly such an asshole maneuver to say you sometimes just want to hang with your friend one-on-one even after they get a SO? I don't understand "molding" to another person and having to bring them everywhere, every time. I've never been like that in a relationship and always still appreciated, and demanded, my one-on-one friend time. I guess I just don't get it.

xStacey
06-05-2015, 07:45 PM
I kinda hate it when friends get SO's and then I always have to hang out with them as a couple. Like, yeah, sure, I like your new bf/gf, and we can all hang out together occasionally. But seriously, sometimes I just want to catch up with my original friend without having to diplomatically include another person, ya know? Things just aren't the same when it's me + a couple instead of me + my one friend. The friendship goes from knowing a lot about each other's lives to knowing next to nothing significant or real because your'e not gonna have those kinds of conversations in some awkward threesome outing. I don't mind getting to know the new person, but I feel like there should still be time for one-on-one friend catch-ups. I don't understand "molding" to another person and having to bring them everywhere, every time. I've never been like that in a relationship and always still appreciated, and demanded, my one-on-one friend time. I guess I just don't get it.

This!!!!

I had to drop a really good friend recently, this being one of the major reasons and also because he was constantly lying to me. I've known him for 9 years, he's always been in relationships and I'm single most of the time, so double dates don't really work. Whenever he has a girlfriend, he must introduce her to me, which is fine but it always comes down to, she either comes with us, or we don't see each other at all. I don't particularly enjoy being a third wheel and he always dates bitches. Every girlfriend he's had share a lot of similarities.

He's Chinese and likes to date Chinese women, they talk in their mother tongue all the time. I don't speak mandarin, but even when I'm here, the girlfriend speaks to him in Chinese when she clearly knows I don't understand when she can simply talk in French or English. Picking fights with her boyfriend in front of me as if I am not here, screaming and crying, hell once I had to witness their couple dramas for almost two hours outside in the winter cold, I wanted to leave but my friend kept insisting for me to stay because "it'll be solved soon". I tried to be friendly with his girlfriends, but they barely acknowledge my existence, they only talk to the boyfriend like I am not here but whenever we have something planned, they insist on accompanying him or he can't come. It happened maybe once or twice that I was able to see my friend alone, but the whole time he was texting his girlfriend because she was jealous and insecure, he had to reply every minute, and she even called him multiple times on the phone to make sure he wasn't cheating. I tried telling him I found it very disrespectful, that I didn't feel comfortable when we hung out with his girlfriend, and would prefer to see him alone but he just didn't care.

I spoke to one of his good friends and he seems to be neglecting his male friends whenever he's in a relationship too. Doesn't answer his texts or calls, only hears from him when he needs something. Last time he texted me was a couple of weeks ago, after months without news, I was surprised to hear from him and wondered if it was because he broke up with his girlfriend, no but his girlfriend was gone on a trip for a week so he needed someone to spend time with ::). Of course he did not tell me that, but I asked his best friend lol, my "friend" excuse was: oh it's been a long time I was thinking of catching up.

Glamourmilf
06-05-2015, 10:39 PM
Try dressing up! I'm so serious. It seems like when I dress down guys hit on me more? .So I started going out in cute dresses and maxi dresses, hair all did, looking like a million bucks. Men treat me totally differently. They'll open doors and stuff for me but otherwise leave me alone. lol! Even when I go out to a bar I overdress and it's like they're afraid of me. They might buy me a drink from across the room but they won't approach me. If I go to a bar in jeans a tshirt it's a never ending line of drunk idiots bothering me. Weirdos!

I tried this today. Got totally dressed up, head to toe. It was so scary!
Not only were guys whistling, and making obscene comments from their cars, but I seriously thought I was going to get raped as I was walking from my car a block away to my appointment.
Even when I was leaving the office suite I was at, the neighboring office employee made it a point to come over to me as I walked to the elevator and start flirting...heavily.
I felt trapped and yucky.
Couldnt wait to come home and hibernate.

Selina M
06-06-2015, 12:06 AM
I want to violently shake my other half. He's been SO FUCKING IRRITATING lately.

Last night: Knowing that he closes, and hence having a decent arrival time estimate, I decide to cook. Surprise! Texts me like 10 minutes before I was gonna start, "I went to the bar across the street with coworkers." He's NEVER gone out with them. Ever. And there's no point in the bar, since he can't drink on Thursdays bc of court drug testing. Wtf. So he gets home JUST late enough that I no longer want to cook. "Oh sorry baby, I'll cook tomorrow so it's here when you get home from work. After, we can go to karaoke with some work people."

Today: Text him. No answer. His phone is dead. I'm sick of his phone cotdamn dying; it's literally at 1% literally every time I pick it up. Apparently putting it on a charger at night is hard work. Texts me when I'm 10 minutes away from home, that a) he brought his charger to work but didn't wanna charge it (WTF again), and b) that a work guy was picking him up to go to karaoke. "Um I wanted to go? And what about food?" "Oh well I ate at work and I'll tell him to go ahead and I'll go with you." No! This dude drove out of his way to pick you up, I'm not gonna tell him forget it when he's 2 mins away, and fuck you, you said you'd cook.

This behavior is going to stop, pronto >:[

Naida
06-06-2015, 10:26 AM
I kinda hate it when friends get SO's and then I always have to hang out with them as a couple. Like, yeah, sure, I like your new bf/gf, and we can all hang out together occasionally. But seriously, sometimes I just want to catch up with my original friend without having to diplomatically include another person, ya know? Things just aren't the same when it's me + a couple instead of me + my one friend. The friendship goes from knowing a lot about each other's lives to knowing next to nothing significant or real because your'e not gonna have those kinds of conversations in some awkward threesome outing. I don't mind getting to know the new person, but I feel like there should still be time for one-on-one friend catch-ups.

But the few times I've tried to bring up this point to people, it starts some shitty argument where they think I'm dissing their SO and get all defensive and, of course, make things even more awkward by telling their bf/gf that I "hate" them or something... Is it truly such an asshole maneuver to say you sometimes just want to hang with your friend one-on-one even after they get a SO? I don't understand "molding" to another person and having to bring them everywhere, every time. I've never been like that in a relationship and always still appreciated, and demanded, my one-on-one friend time. I guess I just don't get it.

I get exactly how you feel and it's fucking annoying. I can understand getting wrapped up in someone at the beginning of a relationship, when the infatuation phase is still hot and heavy. I have a bad habit of that myself and the majority (not all) of my social outings in a new relationship are with my SO, since it's a hands on way of learning about their interests and getting all that "gotta get with my friends" awkwardness out of the way early. After a month or so, though, it's time to knock that shit off and remember that you still have a life beyond the relationship.

As I've gotten older, I've tried to start working at the inverse and gradually adding my (potential) SO to the equation by starting with buddies who are also paired up or in large group settings. Let it trickle down from there to the occasional time with single buddies. Unfortunately, now most of my buddies have reversed their MOs too and won't do shit without their SOs in tow. Considering that most of my friends are male, I've lost a shit ton to the jealous cunts they end up dating.


Oof, that is really young to be adopted out! Is there no way he could go back for another month or two?

You may get him to eat better if you can sit down with him at meal time and let him lick the wet food off your pinky finger. You may also want to mix wet food with milk to see if he prefers that. Since he's so young, it's probably best that you supervise his feeding times instead of free-feeding. Plus, he will naturally want to use the litterbox after he eats, so this is an excellent opportunity to train him -- when he's done eating, just pick him up and put him in the litterbox.

Congratulations on getting a new furry friend though! I'm sure he'll be very happy with you.

Since his tummy troubles seem to go back and forth between getting better and then bad again, we're stopping the free-eating of the little bit of wet food and starting to structure meals of a weaning formula mixed with unflavored Pedialyte. It's slowly starting to freak me out because, if he doesn't make consistent improvement soon, I'm going to have to take him to a vet appointment that I really cannot afford.
When our last cat passed a few weeks ago, she was already well adjusted to dry food and a cheaper coarse litter, and had a totally different personality from this kitten, so I've had to replace everything for little dude out of my own pocket. After buying the milk and canned kitten food that he likes but his stomach has not taken to, smaller dishes for him to use, replacing the litter, collar and tag, a couple of toys because his play type is more hunter/chase-n-pounce than our previous cat's preference to bat balls, this formula and the Pedialyte... I'm not even sure I can afford him something to scratch on, which our other cat didn't need because she'd scratch and climb when she went out, meaning my frustration is added to by the pain of cuts and scabs from those little kitty claws. Unfortunately, my family hasn't had to deal with a kitty like him before, so they assume I'm just spoiling him. It's super stressful that I'm basically doing all of this on my own to make him stable enough for them to care for when I'm leaving soon.

I feel like I'm utterly at my wits end some times.

xStacey
06-06-2015, 02:55 PM
There's a customer who wants to take me to NYC for my birthday in early July (we both have never been lol). I am not really sure I want to go, but I'd consider it if the offer is interesting. I'm trying to get him to bring up the compensation subject instead of having to do it myself by giving subtle hints but he doesn't seem to get it,

I said I really enjoy being with him but have never done it before with people I've met at the club. I'd like to go but I'd have to take time off at work and I cannot really afford it at the moment. He replies but your birthday is only once a year, plus you wouldn't have to spend anything there! I reply that I would still be missing shifts, while I am not working there is no income coming in and I am supposed to be saving money. He replies I understand, me too because when the boss (him)is not here, employees don't work as hard so I will be losing money.

He doesn't seem to be in a hurry to offer to compensate me for the days I won't be working while I am away with him. I am not sure if I should bring up the subject, as I don't even know if I want to spend entire days with a customer but I know he has money and is new to this.

Elektra Luxx
06-06-2015, 03:19 PM
If he hasn't bought it up, he's thinking date. You need to make it clear to him right now that this is not a date. Say something like"Oh how exciting! I really like the time we spend together, but OTC my rates are quite high." He's hoping you'll misunderstand that he means a date by not bringing up compensation. You need to "misunderstand" his offer as "if I spend time with you I need to be compensated."

HoolaTwister
06-06-2015, 04:38 PM
Today I called for an appointment with the girl who does my brows and all they told me is that she no longer works there. They wouldn't even tell me where she went!! She is the only person who did my brows PERFECTLY. I mean, she is crazy good and hilarious as well. I could kick myself for not getting her number or at least her full name! I'd honestly pay triple she charges. Now I don't know where to go. Before I used to go to the highest rated waxer in my city (f u again yelp!!) and she did a TERRIBLE job! When I look back on my pics I'm horrified how they looked. Ugh!!

SnuffleUffleGrass
06-06-2015, 06:04 PM
I was hung over at my day job due to starting my period early (VIOLA, sensitivity to gin.) Thank GOD my boss didn't lecture me.

I'm not doing that again tho

miss.a.p1600
06-07-2015, 01:21 AM
The club sucked!

I didn't come close to my nightly goal and I was forced to dance with a seriously perverted guy who I'm never dancing for again I don't care how much he pays and I don't care if I have to owe money to the club. This f*cker wanted me to dirty talk with him which I'm not into but his ass wanted me to say I'm a freak and I like him to piss and sh*t on me and I want to lick his asshole. Wtf?!? I would never do any of this so I'm disturbed now and couldn't wait to get home and take a steaming hot shower now if only I could shower my brain from this memory.

KikiGem
06-07-2015, 08:53 AM
SD-ish from before is sketching me out. I canceled our memorial day date but we are back on, he is taking me shopping but I'm still very wary about this as I don't know what all I'll actually get out of it. But I'm gonna try it once on the chance it'll be good. The main annoyance is that at first he was fine with meeting at the mall. Then meet up at his house. Now meet up at his house but "sit and catch up for a while."

No no fucking NO!! I know this is code for "I'm gonna make a move on you after blabbing your ear off over cheap wine." And that notwithstanding, how much talking do we need to do? We can talk while shopping, then we can talk at dinner, we don't need to carve out shopping time to do more tedious talking.

I'm crossing state lines for Christ's sake even though there's a great mall halfway between us. He hasn't given me any money. I think it's weird to expect me to leave my car at his house and let him drive me around. If he insists though, looks like another cancellation.

Aurora_Sunset
06-07-2015, 10:01 AM
Had an appointment today with a guy who couldn't even handle 5 minutes of small-talk after walking in the door - just immediately jumped me and wanted to get down to business. Fine. Then, once he's had his first pop, he goes "ok, we can talk a little now."

He was like a combination of every bad, idiotic, condescending Captain Save-a-ho I've ever met. Literally started his line with "So how does a girl like you get into doing something like this?" Omg... Went on and on about how I needed to get out quickly, this wasn't something to do long term. That, sure, I look good now and the money is good but in 10 years - (what??? When I'm mid-30s, I'll be falling apart at the seams!? LOL!) "Easy money" makes people lazy and rots their brain. "Oh, I'm not saying that what you do is easy, but..." ::) Told me I needed to find a better job, find a boyfriend, and get married. lol... ok, strange man that I met 20 minutes ago and doesn't even know my real name... He even actually had the fucking nerve to outright ask if I had a pimp or had ever been molested. WTF!?

Of course, this is all after he literally could not wait to fuck me, in between telling me how hot I am, and before jumping me again.

I seriously do not understand how some people justify the discombobulated shit that comes out of their mouth. How they truly don't see how hypocritical and patronizing they're being... God, I'm glad I have a good sense of humor.

HoolaTwister
06-07-2015, 10:41 AM
Every time I see that Head and Shoulders shampoo commercial with Sofia Vargara I want to scream. Her scary scream "DON DO DAAT!", in what I believe is a heavily uhm exaggerated accent, is so gross. I used to think she's hot too but I can't stand her shitck anymore.

KikiGem
06-07-2015, 11:16 AM
Sugar daddy drama, my God! He became furious when I said I wouldn't come in his house. We got into an argument through email and his point was that I'm a stupid girl living in a delusional world of distrust and poor little him is just a nice guy trying to demonstrate his hospitality. In his infinite wisdom he knows dating protocol much better than me and could not wrap his mind around my point of view because it was just sooo ridiculous and unrealistic.

Apparently I'm playing a chess game and have control issues. This coming from the guy who ordered my food for me? And couldn't even meet at the mall, would not compromise, and insisted we start the day meeting in his house?

Yes, god forbid I be cautious with a person I've met one time!

He insulted me a lot, gas lighted me, played mind games with me yet maintained his stance as an innocent nice guy. Throwing several pretentious French phrases and baseless psychoanalytic observations. What a nightmare. This guy's narcissism has no limits.

I am DONE with the SD scene.

kaninchen
06-07-2015, 01:17 PM
OMG. I am so slammed with shit to finish for finals week and I decided to see an OTC reg for three hours today. What was I thinking?!? It's only 1pm and I'm already exhausted.

At least tomorrow I'll get my car back and I can have sex with Sexy French Classmate in the back seat or something. He TOTALLY wants me and I'm stoked! Five more days and school's out forever...

Elektra Luxx
06-07-2015, 01:58 PM
Had an appointment today with a guy who couldn't even handle 5 minutes of small-talk after walking in the door - just immediately jumped me and wanted to get down to business. Fine. Then, once he's had his first pop, he goes "ok, we can talk a little now."

He was like a combination of every bad, idiotic, condescending Captain Save-a-ho I've ever met. Literally started his line with "So how does a girl like you get into doing something like this?" Omg... Went on and on about how I needed to get out quickly, this wasn't something to do long term. That, sure, I look good now and the money is good but in 10 years - (what??? When I'm mid-30s, I'll be falling apart at the seams!? LOL!) "Easy money" makes people lazy and rots their brain. "Oh, I'm not saying that what you do is easy, but..." ::) Told me I needed to find a better job, find a boyfriend, and get married. lol... ok, strange man that I met 20 minutes ago and doesn't even know my real name... He even actually had the fucking nerve to outright ask if I had a pimp or had ever been molested. WTF!?

Of course, this is all after he literally could not wait to fuck me, in between telling me how hot I am, and before jumping me again.

I seriously do not understand how some people justify the discombobulated shit that comes out of their mouth. How they truly don't see how hypocritical and patronizing they're being... God, I'm glad I have a good sense of humor.

Yeah, been there. Some guys I've been with literally have insane tunnel vision. Then they "shoot their wad" and become more pleasant. But some guys go into "white knight" mode to save you from your pitiful existence. But then they get horny again and those things they said get thrown out. I just play along with their fantasy because it's easy money.

baer45
06-07-2015, 02:36 PM
oh ya, the big head and small head talking.

zoezoebelle
06-07-2015, 06:29 PM
I'm in so much pain that I don't want to eat, but I know if I don't eat I won't get better as quickly. If I keep putting this off the only place open will be the bar down the street, so I'll force myself to go walk five blocks, sit with my back in pain for half an hour and eat there. Uhg. I just want someone to bring me a bowl of soup and hold me while I cry over my pathetic body.

Aurora_Sunset
06-07-2015, 06:30 PM
I hate learning curves. I just wanna know shit. Like, now.

michele11
06-07-2015, 11:02 PM
I went into my kitchen to get a cookie and my kitten was perched on top of the chair. I stopped to love on him and he was staring at the ceiling in horror. I'm like what's wrong and his eyes would not divert from whatever he was glaring at. I glance up and screamed in horror. There was a spider the size of my hand. I had to scream over and over for my daughter to finally wonder what was going on. She didn't want to come out. I made her. She's like I'm not helping you. Mean while the cat who loves buggies went and hid under the table. My daughter says , her boyfriend said they're not agressive( wolf spiders) and it has no interest in us. I said" well I have interest in it and what the hell it might do to me or the cats". So we got hair spray ( well I did) because my daughter said it solidifies them. Yeah right. I hit it with a mop and it ran , then jumped. I finally got it. I would not have been able to sleep with that thing " hanging out".

Vyanka
06-07-2015, 11:06 PM
I can't roll with cheap ppl. It's fkn embarrassing. I was with a crew at some bar, and one of the chics was bragging about a good week at work. That's great. Mind you, I'm not one of those jealous haters that get irked when others talk about their successful week.

But when you do all that bragging, then I see how shit you tip servers. Omg. Nothing worse to me than seeing strippers tip really fkn shitty. I guess it's my pet peeve, bc I too work for tips. I don't get how cheap some strippers can be.

My little sister who is in college, works full time at a bank, lives at home and struggles a little with bills is a better tipper than these chics who aren't struggling. Dufuq

Don't be that penny pinching stripper. Please. Ugh.

KikiGem
06-08-2015, 12:19 AM
Sorry to triple post here today but... After the SD situation, a guy friend invited me out, we saw a movie, had a nice time. Before we went to the movie theater bar and he drank two beers and I didn't bother BC I knew I'd get carded. Before the movie, I asked him to please go back and order me a drink so I could sip on it through the movie, he didn't, he said after the movie. I was annoyed as I bought us food to share and felt he was being selfish but whatever, I'll wait till after the movie.

Movies finally over, he loved it, I thought it sucked but I didn't say so. I remind him he said he would get me that drink now. Now keep in mind, I made it clear that I didn't want or expect him to pay for it. I just needed him to order it. I would do this for my friends and he has for his guy friends but he's so reluctant to so I'm like, what's the problem? He finally does order it and bring it to me, but he's making me feel like shit about it. "It's late and I have to be at work tomorrow" was his biggest complaint. He squeezed the lemon into my drink even though I said I didn't like that. He's just generally being a dick all of a sudden.

The movie ended a little after 9:00 and we were back in the car before 9:30. I hardly enjoyed my drink because of his bitching. He's driving like a maniac and getting pissed at other cars. I'm trying to talk to him but he's being cold. After he drops me off I text him thanks again for tonight, I had fun, I hope you get enough sleep. He only lives fifteen minutes away from me so I knew his " I've got a long drive" whine was bullshit and anyway I only cost you 15 minutes with my drink so you'll live and it's not my fault.

I'm annoyed because 1) he was the only one having a good time and when I asked for something to help me have a good time, he refused 2) he got cold and mean with me over this stupid drink and ruined it for me with his bitching 3) driving like an asshole and not replying to my text.

I feel like I've been trampled all over today.

Selina M
06-08-2015, 12:55 AM
My daughter says , her boyfriend said they're not agressive( wolf spiders) and it has no interest in us. I said" well I have interest in it"

:rotfl: I can totally picture you saying that, pointing at this giant spider.

carmen_b
06-08-2015, 03:07 AM
Kiki : I bet he's young. If I were 20 again, I'd probably lie about my age and say I was 22-23 ... Then date 32-34 ish years olds. Haha. I feel like after 30, men are SO much better ( in general terms , obviously there are some mature gems out there which I didn't find ).

I'm a little drunk. Man, men disappointed me so much in my 20s. Thank goodness the situation improved.

michele11
06-08-2015, 07:51 AM
:rotfl: I can totally picture you saying that, pointing at this giant spider.
Bawahahaha. Hell if I was going to bed knowing that thing as big as my hand could wander in my room. I'm surprised she didn't care. I was out of town once my sister had to come kill one for her. Haha.

zoezoebelle
06-08-2015, 10:34 AM
My grandmother has been excitedly planning her 80th birthday party for the past year, and has included me in a lot of the planning, even encouraged me to bring other people with me. Then she tells me that my mom will be there. My mom who I haven't talked to in over two years, with the approval of my therapist and most sane people, because she's a psychotic bitch who tormented me and continues to without remorse. My grandmother said, "I think you should still come. You don't HAVE to talk. You can stay at opposite ends of the room. You won't even come for me? It's my birthday. You should talk to your therapist about this."

I fucking HATE how she keeps doing this. For some fucking reason she seems to think that it's important for me to be reunited with my clearly abusive mother who has even stated that she has no plans to ever change or treat me differently. The only reason I got close to my grandmother was because I stayed with her for a year after I attempted suicide, due to living with my mother, who didn't care at all. And she keeps trying to force me to talk to my mom and "make up." What the hell? Last year on Mother's Day my grandma sneakily invited me to her house for lunch, and then "happened" to be on the phone with my mom as I was walking up the steps, and asked if I wanted to talk to her. It makes me so angry. I almost want to show up to her birthday party just so I can charge up to my mom and beat the shit out of her. At least my grandma might leave me the fuck alone about it, but I really can't afford the arrest record.

xStacey
06-08-2015, 10:48 AM
Kiki : I bet he's young. If I were 20 again, I'd probably lie about my age and say I was 22-23 ... Then date 32-34 ish years olds. Haha. I feel like after 30, men are SO much better ( in general terms , obviously there are some mature gems out there which I didn't find ).

I'm a little drunk. Man, men disappointed me so much in my 20s. Thank goodness the situation improved.

Totally agree. I'm in my early twenties and I refuse to date guys my age ever again. The guy I'm currently seeing is 29, he's okay, better than the 20 years old but I am thinking I should try aiming for over 30 next time. It's not even about education, I went on a couple of dates with a 25 years old guy who's in college to get a Ph.D and he was so freaking stupid I couldn't believe some of the things he said and texted me. Young guys lack life experience and are so immature, with a few exceptions. My idea of a great night doesn't really consist of chasing after beer pints specials.

xStacey
06-08-2015, 11:09 AM
I hate condescending doctors. My family doctor passed away and I have to go to the clinic at my university now, it's hard to get appointments so I often have to show up at the walk-in clinic. When I'm lucky I get to see the nice female doctor I usually have appointments with, but today I had this stuck-up male doctor for the second time. I had to make a follow-up appointment afterwards, the nice female doctor calendar is always fully booked (well over a month) and the despicable doctor had tons of availabilities, go figure lol

Meg2012
06-08-2015, 01:34 PM
I can't stand my MIL. She cries to my husband that I only want him and nothing to do with her. Well, she's the one that thinks it's ok to use my deceased daughter against me...so maybe that's why I don't want to do anything?

michele11
06-08-2015, 02:15 PM
Every time I see that Head and Shoulders shampoo commercial with Sofia Vargara I want to scream. Her scary scream "DON DO DAAT!", in what I believe is a heavily uhm exaggerated accent, is so gross. I used to think she's hot too but I can't stand her shitck anymore.

Her accent and voice annoy me. She is hot though.

lynn2009
06-08-2015, 02:49 PM
Sooo that guy I've been complaining about...I haven't broke it off yet because I'm weak and stupid. Anyway he just told me his dad's company wants to build one of their stores in my hometown and I was like DON'T YOU DARE, if you don't talk them out of it I WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU.

add: No change btw, he's still obnoxious.

Selina M
06-08-2015, 04:55 PM
Oh my God. I'm selling my old car and I want to shank people.
How many times can you write in an ad "Please read the entire ad before contacting" and "Please NO PHONE CALLS".... and people still call, or text asking stupid fucking basic ass questions that were already answered in the ad.

I only answered this last call bc he called twice in a row, and that's what my mom or fiancé do when they're calling from a borrowed phone or something... instead it was some jackwagon asking dumb questions like "What's the body like?" UH it says in the ad? He was all garbled and I could barely hear him, so I hung up on him.

whirlerz
06-08-2015, 05:11 PM
You've patience, I can't even w/cl..I was going to give away my tv, (ended up scrapping it) some lady said she wanted it for her son, then never got bk to me. Nice.

Selina M
06-08-2015, 07:34 PM
^ I really hate CL too but idk where else to put it up. I guess I could look into AutoTrader.
It's annoying me bc it's a salvage title, yes, and it has some issues (none of which are serious or affect its driving), but it's still a perfectly legit car for driving... People keep texting me "I'll give you $700 for it". Um why, so YOU can part it out and make a bunch of $$? I googled parts websites, with stuff out of junked cars, and the engine alone retails for what I'm asking for the whole car. If I wanted it parted out, I'd part it out myself and make more money.