View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
chanzep
10-21-2022, 02:02 PM
That sounds annoying you been waiting for so long, they take your day then it's not done smh terrible.
LoveyD
10-21-2022, 07:28 PM
I know I've bitched about this before but I'm SO SICK of everything in stores or online being crop tops. I found a new online store that had great stuff but when I went to the shirts section it was entirely crop tops. I don't get it. Even Ross and TJmax in my area are selling mostly crop tops. I live in a warm sunny place and yet only 5% of women I see out and about are wearing crop tops (even on my college campus), so why are 90% of shirts at the mall crop tops, and where are all these other people shopping??
I'm with you there. I just want shirts to be normal again.
neverendingkneebruises
10-21-2022, 09:23 PM
Im stuck at work and ordered sushi an hour ago and it's still not here. I'm STARVING
SnuffleUffleGrass
10-21-2022, 09:44 PM
The people in my cohort are some of the most insufferable fake woke people I have ever met in my life, jumping down each others throats and publicly humiliating each other over extremely minor microaggressions or purposely twisting peoples' words into something racist when they're not.
Which makes it even more frustrating that these people CONSTANTLY say horrible things about sex workers and use misogynistic slurs (cunt, whore, etc) with 0 remorse. It's like that meme from Community, but backwards: "I can excuse misogyny but I draw the line at racism".
I feel ya. I heard a lot of pointlessly cruel and rude shit tonight at work. I smile and take notes. Trust me, having a long memory is good in the bar business.
miss.a.p1600
10-21-2022, 09:47 PM
I hate synchronized sleeping at night.
Take your bitch ass to sleep and ima do me if I want to stay up
WendiStarr
10-22-2022, 06:00 AM
Today is the day that I get my kids back and my anxiety levels are high at the prospect of having to go out there to BD's house and see BD in person. I've been up since 5:30am worrying. I know LE is going to be there on standby but I'm still scared. My IBS is flaring up bad today and I'm thinking I'm going to need to just take some Imodium AD until this nightmare is over with and I have the kids back with me.
lurkingtitties
10-22-2022, 08:42 AM
Wendi please keep us updated!
carmen_b
10-22-2022, 08:44 AM
^ Sending good vibes. I bet it will go smoothly.
The cop will be there ect. !
How exactly did he get all of them because isn't it one that is his ( visitation ) ?
Anyway I hope this all goes smooth and you get to sack him in the balls with as much child support as possible.
lurkingtitties
10-22-2022, 09:02 AM
Carmen I believe her two youngest are both his! I hate to think what it’s been like for them.
Dreamqueen
10-22-2022, 01:09 PM
That sounds annoying you been waiting for so long, they take your day then it's not done smh terrible.
Ikr?
The problem is that no one wants to work.
In all sectors.
That 80 year old guy they sent was probably the bomb diggity repair man back in his day.
But, sadly he should have retired a long time ago.
Even Wal-Mart grocery delivery is so poorly staffed, as I've mentioned ad nauseam.
Last night I had them deliver, and I could tell it was a new lady, because she couldn't figure out how to take the photo for confirmation of delivery.
As a result, my grocery order sat outside in 90 degree weather until she got it right.
As much as I'm against robots taking over jobs, I'm willing to try it just so I can get things done correctly.
Le Sigh.
LoveyD
10-22-2022, 01:50 PM
I hope all goes smoothly with getting your babies back, Wendi. Keep us posted when you can.
chanzep
10-22-2022, 01:55 PM
Thinking of you Wendi I hope it all goes well .
moneybags
10-22-2022, 09:53 PM
Today is the day that I get my kids back and my anxiety levels are high at the prospect of having to go out there to BD's house and see BD in person. I've been up since 5:30am worrying. I know LE is going to be there on standby but I'm still scared. My IBS is flaring up bad today and I'm thinking I'm going to need to just take some Imodium AD until this nightmare is over with and I have the kids back with me.
It gets better. It may take a few years to recover, but every single mom I know says it’s easier to do it alone than with an abusive partner.
I’ve had to leave abusive relationships and start over a couple times with nothing. It’s hard but it’s worth it.
Walk by faith and not by sight. Everything will be okay. That’s not fluffy BS. I’ve been through hell and back like all of you all and I KNOW there’s a higher power taking care of us.
indiegirl
10-23-2022, 08:39 AM
I have to go to brunch with my father, the narcissist. None of his children want anything to do with him anymore. Gee, wonder why?! It literally feels like I am being forced against my will to show up. I'm not even hungry.
chanzep
10-23-2022, 12:20 PM
My stomach is sick. I cant even eat not hungry just bloated and feel drained . I am working today too ugh.
Aurora_Sunset
10-23-2022, 01:04 PM
I hate synchronized sleeping at night.
Take your bitch ass to sleep and ima do me if I want to stay up
My husband used to be so weird about this and it drove me crazy. I would always go to bed before him, leaving him time to play his video game/watch what he wanted at night. But if I ever had a night where I didn't have to be up early, he would insist on lying on the couch with me until I went to bed. He'd fall asleep all over me, over and over again. I'd constantly tell him to just go to bed. If he was going to snore and just be dead-weight on me, making it impossible to move, turn up the volume, or enjoy myself, just go the fuck to bed and let me have some damn me time. But he'd get so weird about going to bed without me/leaving me out there by myself. He'd take it all personal, like I didn't "want to spend time with him," (even though he was sleeping).
He doesn't do it anymore, thank god.
miss.a.p1600
10-23-2022, 02:02 PM
My stomach is sick. I cant even eat not hungry just bloated and feel drained . I am working today too ugh.
hope you’re feeling better soon.
I’m pissed L walks in with his loud ass kids like “we’re on the way home” and “we’re here” like I’m supposed to jump for joy.
I will be jumping for joy when you all leave and you’re back to work.
trustfundkiller
10-23-2022, 03:20 PM
I've been so stressed about finding a Halloween costume. I found this gorgeous outfit with a corset bodice on Etsy. Ordered it. Forgot that I have massive fake tits and a tiny waist. So the outfit would not fit my boobs whatsoever and what fits my boobs is going to be gaping in the waist. I don't have much time so I'm going to have to order something on Amazon and bust out my own crystals/beads and get creative to make it something extravagant instead of something that looks like it comes from Amazon. I wish I would have started planning something months ago.
indiegirl
10-24-2022, 06:27 AM
Today is my first in person class for school. 2 less days of zoom class a week and now hands on. Lord, grant me the strength to not snap at L when I see her in person. She is seriously irritating especially at 8:30 in the fucking morning when she nonstop talks for no reason.
Aurora_Sunset
10-24-2022, 06:32 AM
They shut off the water from 9-5 twice last week. They did it again today. I was so mad when I found out a little bit ago, and made a comment about how at least last week, they warned us. My husband says, "Oh, they did send another letter about today. It's on the table."
Why the FUCK didn't you tell me!? 'It's on the table.' You mean the table that's perpetually full of mountains of your crap? How was I supposed to see that?
If he had told me, I would have gotten up earlier to take a shower instead of scrolling through TikTok from 8am. Hell, I might have just planned to go to work this morning if I knew they were going to be pounding and sawing away on shit all day again.
Aurora_Sunset
10-24-2022, 06:43 AM
^^And just now, I'm sitting in the living room, and I can hear them going to some people's doors, knocking, and yelling 'maintenance.' Who knows why they need access to some people's apartments, but if it happens to us, I want to be prepared.
So, I go to the bedroom, where my husband IS awake, just scrolling on his phone, and ask him to help me move the snake tank in the kitchen. Because, even though it's completely asinine, reptiles "aren't allowed" in this complex. I tell him we're taking it to step-daughter's room. He asks how. I say carrying it. He starts WHINING about carrying the big ass thing all the way to her bedroom.
Our conversation:
"WHAT? We have to carry this big bitch all the way over there."
"Yeah."
"Ugh - CARRY it?"
"YEAH."
"Omg, it's so far." (It's fucking not, really.)
"Yeah, well, how do you think I feel the multiple times I've done this back and forth, by myself?"
"Can't we just drag it?"
"I can do that myself. If I was going to drag it, I wouldn't need you."
"Then why didn't you just drag it?"
"BECAUSE YOU'RE HERE. You can't fucking help? You're not sleeping anyway."
*insert more grumbles and whining*
"Fine. Fuck off. Go back to bed. I'll do it myself."
Only after I'd dragged it halfway across the floor, did he step over and pick up the other end so we could finish just carrying it. Omg, fucking baby. It's not like we had to go up or down stairs. It was so fast once he just HELPED me.
indiegirl
10-24-2022, 06:59 AM
They shut off the water from 9-5 twice last week. They did it again today. I was so mad when I found out a little bit ago, and made a comment about how at least last week, they warned us. My husband says, "Oh, they did send another letter about today. It's on the table."
Why the FUCK didn't you tell me!? 'It's on the table.' You mean the table that's perpetually full of mountains of your crap? How was I supposed to see that?
If he had told me, I would have gotten up earlier to take a shower instead of scrolling through TikTok from 8am. Hell, I might have just planned to go to work this morning if I knew they were going to be pounding and sawing away on shit all day again.
I hate when they shut off the water all day. I typically remember they're turning it off when my mouth is full of toothpaste and the faucet isn't turning on. It ruins your morning for sure!
Aurora_Sunset
10-24-2022, 07:57 AM
I hate when they shut off the water all day. I typically remember they're turning it off when my mouth is full of toothpaste and the faucet isn't turning on. It ruins your morning for sure!
I literally had JUST loaded up my toothbrush when they turned it off! It was working when I first walked in the bathroom and splashed my face with water and used the toilet. Then, all of a sudden, it was off right at that critical moment lol
And they DID need to get into our apartment. Apparently there's a cracked pipe next door and they need access to our kitchen sink. Fucking fantastic.
carmen_b
10-24-2022, 08:17 AM
^ Aurora : I was team no water at the AirBnB too a couple days last week. We had issues and had a repair going. I went and filled these 1 gallon jugs so I still had " sinks " and showered at the gym one day. Yes, WHY is the world would you hubby not tell you the times ? :/
LoveyD
10-24-2022, 08:50 AM
^^ I'm also wondering why the management team can't send out an email or text to all of their tenants notifying them. That would work so much better than a damn flyer.
whirlerz
10-24-2022, 09:15 AM
There was a thing on Vrbo recently, someone partially burned the beds, wrote graffiti on walls, & some other stuff..
Not that any of us would do that..
Aurora_Sunset
10-24-2022, 10:02 AM
^^ I'm also wondering why the management team can't send out an email or text to all of their tenants notifying them. That would work so much better than a damn flyer.
THANK YOU! I don't understand why they don't send emails and/or texts either. Sure, also put flyers on the doors, but you can easily send emails as well to make sure everyone on the lease is informed. Or, like a few weeks ago, they wanted everyone to move their cars with less than a day's notice for parking lot work. What if we were out of town and couldn't move our cars? We wouldn't have seen a flyer about it either.
Aurora_Sunset
10-24-2022, 10:04 AM
Also, we came home from running errands and my husband immediately went back to the bathroom to poop. I was like, "uhhh, you remember you're not going to be able to flush that, right?"
He was just like, "Oh no! I forgot! Oh well, it's too late. I guess try not to look at it."
I'm still gonna have to smell it. Why didn't we just find a public bathroom while we were out if he had to poop? Idiot.
I JUST fucking cleaned those toilets too. Now, it's gonna be nasty and stained after hours of shit sitting in it.
miss.a.p1600
10-24-2022, 03:03 PM
^speaking of men being typical.
I hate using bathrooms that men use.
They a notorious for pissing and shitting all over the bathroom, denying it’s their nasty asses, and refusing to clean up the bathroom
I wish I could rub their nose it the mess filth and funk they created so they’d get the point.
Another reason I hate men. And will NEVER share a bathroom/toilet/sink/shower with a man again.
miss.a.p1600
10-24-2022, 03:50 PM
I got some fake nails. Press ons. And my luck with them this go around is horrid.
These shits keep falling off and creeping out people who discover the fallen off ones
chanzep
10-24-2022, 06:00 PM
I have no luck with press ons either. They always come off.
lilylilylily
10-24-2022, 06:13 PM
Cashier made it seem like I was bothering her when I went back after checking my receipt that I was over charged for an item. Got bitchy with me. It was corrected by a manager so it's all good but I wish I could just do all my shopping from home ugh
kimbe
10-25-2022, 12:09 AM
I got some fake nails. Press ons. And my luck with them this go around is horrid.
These shits keep falling off and creeping out people who discover the fallen off ones
I have no luck with press ons either. They always come off.
Yep, I've always preferred gel nails over the cheaper solutions.. :)
miss.a.p1600
10-25-2022, 04:27 AM
^ive come to the conclusion I’ll only wear fake press ons if it’s like one evening in a club or something where it’s dark and no one can tell. I can’t even type properly and keep wasting time having to retype with these fake talons
I had insomnia last night. Sitting up all night ruminating how I could do better at the job today. Knew I was feeling anxious and took some cbd to help me get to sleep.
Well I didn’t work.
Now I’m operating on 5 hours of sleep, rolling out of bed, I have 9 nails lol, and I’m gonna be tired af.
Damn I wish I had a paid day off.
Just fuck me in the ass unlubed with a bbc dildo
WendiStarr
10-25-2022, 04:13 PM
I get a bit annoyed that people see my youngest and for some reason automatically assume she's a boy. Today she had on a pink princess shirt, black sparkly pants, pink ballerina shoes, and I still got "Aww, he's so cute! What's his name?" Unfortunately all my kids are bald until they're almost 2.
WendiStarr
10-26-2022, 07:16 AM
I hate how so many companies have robotic systems now whenever I call customer service. I want to speak to a real, live person to get my issue resolved, not listen to 10 minutes of a robot listing options with numbers to press. Then when one of my kids inevitably makes noise or talks in the background, the robot hears it, and starts it's crap about,"I'm sorry. I didn't understand that command. Please rephrase the question or press 1 for the main menu". 1 hour and 16 minutes to finally get out of the robotic loop and get my issue resolved by a real, live person. All I was doing was trying to get service started for November 1st at my new place.
LoveyD
10-26-2022, 09:25 AM
^^ it's so annoying! I was just on the phone with the California Franchise Tax board. Had to leap through all kinds of Hoops just to get to a human, who was too lazy to answer my simple question and put me back into the loop, only to disconnect me again! Finally I got through to somebody who is actually able to help me the way I needed it. Why can't they just allow human beings to answer since that's what most people want?
JGB2009
10-26-2022, 09:39 AM
I've had enough. If I can change my number with my kids school easily I am gonna change my number today.
Aurora_Sunset
10-26-2022, 10:04 AM
I got a flu shot and COVID booster when I went for my pap smear yesterday. One of them is just starting to kick in and make me feel like crap, like I have a fever. Probably the flu shot, because I haven't had any issues with my COVID vaccines after the first one, and the flu shot always makes me feel icky.
Glad I got my errands done earlier.
chanzep
10-26-2022, 03:14 PM
I think customer service will end up all roboted in the future. I had to call Wal-Mart and the bank this week and it was very annoying to get through then the agents were not helpful. I work in customer service myself and honestly I think a lot of the workers are stressed out because they are treated like shut and can't be bothered . I go out of my way to help customers as long as they are not rude. I think.a lot of agents do the minimum to keep the job.
The automated systems are so annoying and keep telling me I can do stuff on the app! Like no I cannot I would not call you unless I had to.!
LoveyD
10-26-2022, 07:57 PM
I got a flu shot and COVID booster when I went for my pap smear yesterday. One of them is just starting to kick in and make me feel like crap, like I have a fever. Probably the flu shot, because I haven't had any issues with my COVID vaccines after the first one, and the flu shot always makes me feel icky.
Glad I got my errands done earlier.
I remember after my last covid shot I was having major vertigo spells, especially when laying down! Thankfully they've subsided. I almost had to go see an ear nose and throat specialist but I decided against it as the vertigo started to fade. Now I'm back to normal. These vaccines sure do have a lot of side effects!
miss.a.p1600
10-27-2022, 04:26 AM
Exhausted and wish I could sleep in
indiegirl
10-27-2022, 05:10 AM
I managed to run over a nail on one of my brand new tires on my jeep. These tires are 500 dollars since they are larger. *Sigh* This is exactly why I am not a spender. There is always a need for emergency savings. I cancelled my nanoblading for this week. This was a reminder of what is not a necessity in life.
Dreamqueen
10-27-2022, 09:50 AM
I think customer service will end up all roboted in the future. I had to call Wal-Mart and the bank this week and it was very annoying to get through then the agents were not helpful. I work in customer service myself and honestly I think a lot of the workers are stressed out because they are treated like shut and can't be bothered . I go out of my way to help customers as long as they are not rude. I think.a lot of agents do the minimum to keep the job.
The automated systems are so annoying and keep telling me I can do stuff on the app! Like no I cannot I would not call you unless I had to.!
I agree.
Had to call PayPal yesterday to set up bank account verification. It was all automated, but I still needed to talk to a live person.
After we got it all set up, I asked how to set up the paypal me part.
Asked if my donors will be able to see my legal name.
She said no, but when I tested it, they can!
Omfg!! I almost tweeted it out!
Shit!!
Do your job!!
trustfundkiller
10-27-2022, 10:54 AM
I managed to run over a nail on one of my brand new tires on my jeep. These tires are 500 dollars since they are larger. *Sigh* This is exactly why I am not a spender. There is always a need for emergency savings. I cancelled my nanoblading for this week. This was a reminder of what is not a necessity in life.
Ugh, I had this happen a few months ago and I have a Mercedes so my tires are also $500 a pop. It's incredibly frustrating. :( Seems to always happen at the most inconvenient times too.
grneyesnfl
10-27-2022, 11:03 AM
I agree.
After we got it all set up, I asked how to set up the paypal me part.
Asked if my donors will be able to see my legal name.
She said no, but when I tested it, they can!
Paypal does not allow any adult transactions so you can't use it for your "donors." You risk losing your account forever. I've seen quite a few people lose theirs. And yes... you risk them finding out your real name.
lilylilylily
10-27-2022, 06:29 PM
I found this bench near a medical clinic that was closed while I was walking home. It was secluded with nobody around so decided to sit and take a break, of course some guy in a car has to ride up and he gets out with his cigarette to smoke next to me..I immediately get up and walk away, he's goes, "you can stay! you can stay!" Ugh it's 9:30 at night and dark out. Why would I wanna sit there and breath in your smoke too ugh creep
miss.a.p1600
10-28-2022, 06:55 AM
Now I see why people be blowing up their employers offices. Not that if ever do that.
Just that I’ve finally been getting the numbers their asking for however the quality of my work is not good because the training is mediocre at best. These people are pushing and pushing for faster and faster, more and more.
Sometimes it feels unrealistic
When I ask them for help they are too busy then when i try to figure it out myself they come in at the LAST minute trying to critique what I’m doing wrong - which is not helpful.
I’ve been so mentally drained (I woke up late thinking it was the weekend already) and contemplating whether I will stay with them after this project
Dreamqueen
10-28-2022, 10:14 AM
No word back from the maintenance guy on when they would be back to do the work, so I texted him.
His reply was that I will need to remove the clothes from my closet before they fix the rod.
I immediately reply that I will, and ask when, and when will they repair my broken toilet handle?
It's been 2 days, and I haven't heard back from him.
I've decided to fix the rod myself, and to hire someone to remove the closet doors that are always off their tracks.
The toilet?
Well, at least I can still flush it by reaching into the tank.
I also have a camping style pee bucket that I've been using, along with a portable toilet made for handicapped people.
Shame on these slumlords, and there is a special place in hell for all of them.
carmen_b
10-28-2022, 10:32 AM
^ If they don't fix your potty within 24 hours write up a detail of how much rent you expect to be deducted from the next bill and email it to your management company.
Just get aggressive. Call every couple of hours asking them to come fix it within the hour.